Do you just ask for a blowjob?

dreckmal · 2015-05-13T18:55:46+00:00

I've known some guys to say that they just chill with a girl and just ask her for some head so they don't have to kiss her.

I've known some guys that lie in an attempt to improve their social standing in the group. Once you are not a teenager, this shit becomes readily transparent.

If you do the footwork, you won't even have to ask. But there are no girls that will just suck dick by 'chilling and asking her for one'.

RichieFinn · 2015-05-13T22:16:43+00:00

Life isnt a fucking rap song.

Dudes can lie.

skiier23 · 2015-05-14T00:24:50+00:00

yeah your friend is full of shit. put their hand down your pants when your dick is hard or halfway hard and theyll know whats up. thats what i do. literally been sitting on the couch w my gf and did that. worked. i only date girls who are pretty cool usually and not annoying cunts i want to kick in the face.

EDIT: i have only ever done this AFTER i've made out with a girl at some point in time throughout the history of knowing each other. i have never gone from plutonic directly to receiving blowjobs. however with said girls i've made out with (not at the same time, im not that cool) at some point through out the history of knowing each other, i have been hanging out with them, not kissed them, and gone straight to receiving a beej by putting their hand directly on my boner.

daddy_war_bucks · 2015-05-13T23:28:44+00:00

My short story...were laying in bed no sex because she on her dot

So I'm like fuck it go for it

Me: "give me a bj" trying not to sound like a bitch

Her: smiles "why?"

Me:fuck loss for words hurry and say something "don't give me a bj because I want you to do it because you want to"

Her:kisses me "but I've been working all day you're going to make me work more?"

Me:"no more kisses until I get a bj from you"

After that she tried forcing me to kiss her but once she knew I wasn't going to budge she ended up blowing me

Still can't believe that shit worked

ohsweetword · 2015-05-14T05:07:06+00:00

There are two types of women in the world - those that love to suck cock, and the kind that aren't fun to date.

You shouldn't have to ask. I usually just use my body to get her there. If she doesn't want to suck your dick she either has hang-ups with cock, or she's probably not that into you.

Sepean · 2015-05-13T18:47:55+00:00

I just stand close to my wife and unbutton my pants, she knows what to do.

projectself · 2015-05-14T03:33:51+00:00

you have to escalate. you do not go from 0 to blowjob with a girl you just met. it doesn't work that way.

kino is the touch form of escalation. Look for the kino ladder if you are new to this, but basically it states that first you start easy, a touch on the arm, shoulder, back, then legs.. then isolate her, get her out of social light, your place, hers. Then go for the makeout. Once things heat up and clothes are coming off, you usually do not have to ask for the blowjob, it just happens.

Now, once you know a girl, and have fucked her a few times, you can tell her to come over and ask for it straight up. But even then, you do not just chill and ask. You set the tone as sexual, kiss her, push against the wall, kiss her harder. Then say something. or do something to "lead" the interaction.

You have to lead, it is your job to set the tone and pace. You must get her into a sexual frame of mind (yours), before this is natural.

I like,

"put my cock in your mouth" .. i also like to mind fuck girls on the first time they blow me. let them start and get going just a bit.. and stop them with "no, I do not want the same tired blowjob you gave your last boyfriend. get on your knees and suck my cock". talk about enthusiasm.

CherryPickTheGirls · 2015-05-14T01:38:29+00:00

I promise I'm not lying.

Chick was chilling outside the apartment. I walk out see her and her dog say what's up. She's waiting on her bf to get back but he's late.

I say something along the lines of that sucks. Come hang with me while you wait.

I shit you not , I get to the house we sit down and I say "You ever cheat on your boyfriend?"

She smirks and says yeah.

I pulled my dick out and she proceeded to blow me and fuck after.

She was a 7 at worst.

thenarrrowpath · 2015-05-13T23:47:43+00:00

I've seen people say that, but it doesn't make sense. You shouldn't have to ask for anything, you just start turning her on. Remember, they're a dial we're a switch, so slowly crank up the dial. I think the most that should be done is gently pushing down on her head toward your crouch. That seems to work for me, although I don't really care for BJs so I rarely go for them.

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-05-13T18:34:02+00:00

Command her to give you a blowjob, don't ask

prodigyx · 2015-05-13T18:57:25+00:00

I just whip it out. She usually knows what to do with it. If she backs off, well then you weren't going anywhere with her anyway.

SkorchZang · 2015-05-13T22:40:01+00:00

Avoid asking her for anything, that's not the red way to go. It's better to be declarative, whip out the general, smile at her and go with somethin' sultry like "this is where you suck my dick beautiful...". Another variation, short terse commands, mixed with affectionate touching from your hand: "down on your knees", "open wide", "close...ahhh yah, work it baby".

The idea is, just like getting the girl's number, you have 0 doubts or waverings in your mind that she wants to give it to you, and you aren't asking whether she wants to or what she wants to do. You tell her "I gotta go, so lemme get your number", already pulling out the phone. She can still say her "no" at any step of the way and stop your roll, but it's irrelevant and 95% of girls don't say no when she's already invested in you.

If your girl's a super dooper virgin for Jesus or some shit who "would never do it because it's dirty", just smile and convince her to "give it a kiss, just a small kiss". Not sure what's going on, but for some reason that cancels all the apprehension in a lot of women, and after the little kiss, soon enough she's happily blowing you like a whore.

FarOrAMess · 2015-05-13T23:10:49+00:00

Last time I got head was for a girl I met the other day. We went out for a "date", 30 minutes and 1 beer later we're making out in the pub. Back to my house, we start making out again, and after some escalation I just looked her dead in the eye and told her "Show me what you know". Long story short, she got the hint.

YourShadowScholar · 2015-05-14T12:08:02+00:00

You don't enjoy kissing?

Perhaps you suck at kissing.

[deleted] · 2015-05-13T21:49:42+00:00

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DjCbal · 2015-05-14T12:17:45+00:00

The naked man. Works every time, one third of the time

RedCrayonWizard · 2015-05-13T21:30:55+00:00

Step one: put your dick in a box...

redpilldude · 2015-05-14T05:00:16+00:00

I don't ask for blowjobs. My approach is the Sex God method: be an extremely good looking Alpha that makes her wet and turned on just by looking at me. If she is really turned on by you, you don't have to ask for a blowjob; she will ask you if she can blow you.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-05-13T20:37:29+00:00

You have to take it out.

https://youtu.be/hpwJE5DEk7U

SheepKing · 2015-05-13T22:15:08+00:00

"Suck me."

bertmaklinFBI · 2015-05-14T14:43:39+00:00

"Put my cock in your mouth" -- it really is that simple.

Whipping it out and putting it in her face works too. They catch your drift.

Title	Do you just ask for a blowjob?
Author	ThreeEyez
Upvotes	29
Comments	66
Date	May 13, 2015 6:20 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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