Found girlfriend on Tinder

kittenssavedmylife · 2016-12-23T14:40:47+00:00

you are now the ghost of christmas past.

dip.

bittr_n_swt · 2016-12-23T13:37:51+00:00

Dude.

Ghost her now. Don't wait for after Christmas. Block her on everything. Hard next the bitch.

Fucking hell

tttsss123 · 2016-12-23T15:53:59+00:00

what the fuck guys

anything beyond deleting her from his life is not the right answer. revenge is for children. stop talking to her, find the nearest escape, and block all forms of communication. be a man and walk

if she tries to track you down and trap you in confrontation, say something general like "wasn't feeling it". the last thing you want to do is help her cheat on the next bro by pointing out her grave mistake. you have no reason to invest in making her a better person. she isn't your problem

she wasn't yours, it was just your turn. you got a prime slice of that dumb bitches youth. you avoided marriage and children. you won

now go win again

GayLubeOil · 2016-12-24T10:59:37+00:00

Go to the supermarket buy her some coal. Giftwrap it with a picture of her tinder. Have her open it in front of her family than leave.

I mean honestly we talk about asshole game and dark triad all day. Eventually we have to live up to our own expectations.

Retspihi · 2016-12-23T14:54:21+00:00

Ghost

slurmfactory · 2016-12-23T13:44:41+00:00

Ghost hard. Dont give her the drama satisfaction. If she is just getting "likes" like the one comment suggested, you should ghost her for that too. Even tho she's prob cheating. Best thing to do, cut her off completely and dont talk to her at all, itll drive her crazy, if you blow up or get upset it will fuel and satisfy her, then go date lots of other chicks. Definitely bail on the family bullshit.

Edit: REMEMBER, the power of indifference is the ultimate

Poptart318 · 2016-12-23T17:57:27+00:00

If she's asks why are you ignoring her just say "bishhhhhh I swiped left"

lostinyukon · 2016-12-23T14:42:58+00:00

Hard next and don't tell her why.

RedWinter88 · 2016-12-23T15:53:27+00:00

Best revenge imo is just to ghost... no response. Never hear from you again.

hd511 · 2016-12-23T16:12:47+00:00

Dude don't waste one more second on her. Ghost immediately.

TehJimmyy · 2016-12-23T19:01:22+00:00

happy new year

Huffnagle · 2016-12-23T15:31:17+00:00

You should attempt to verify that it's legit. There are scammers out there making fake profiles, also it could be someone you know trying to fuck you over. (That said, it's probably legit)

If it's her doing, she's not girlfriend material.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-12-23T17:39:31+00:00

Vengeful mother fuckers. Just drop her from your life, you are better than that. Show you are hurt, which does encompass acting like a royal prick, will make her happy

bsutansalt · 2016-12-23T15:04:08+00:00

Your friend gave you the best Christmas gift ever as this is an amazing opportunity in disguise, both for the OP and for men in general as this is a teachable moment!

Have the freakiest, dirtiest hate fuck/sex you can have with her (wrapping it up of course).
Print out the screenshots, bundle them up in a number of boxes, and wrap them as a special present for her and her family to all open at the same time at her family's place.
Pack up her shit and put it in the trunk of your car ahead of time.
As they're opening them simple walk out to the car, get her stuff out of your car leaving it in the driveway, and drive away never speak to them again.

Never giving her closure will sting for her the most out of all of this, and walking away cold turkey is one of the best things for you in the long run as ZERO contact is the healthiest approach.

Re this being a teachable moment... Maybe, just maybe, she, her future kids, and those in your social circle will get that you shouldn't solicit sex from others when you're in a relationship. Let HER be the example to others of what NOT to do.

The OP's situation is also a lesson for everyone else as to why it's so important to choose women wisely. That being said, please understand that even if you do everything right that it's still only your turn 9 times out of 10. That's the reality of relationships in the 21st century. Enjoy it while you can, but always keep in the back of your mind things are (likely) only temporary.

Edit: The only caveat is do your due diligence to make sure it's legit. Get your hands on her phone to verify the account is hers so you don't get duped by someone trying to fuck you or her over.

TheFirsh · 2016-12-23T14:40:49+00:00

What if it's fake, set up by a 3rd party crazy woman to break you up out of jealousy? Otherwise why would she include pictures with you in it?

aditas · 2016-12-23T13:44:08+00:00

She is not but a plate. Wear protection.

flatox · 2016-12-23T17:16:31+00:00

You know what to do. No closure. And do it now, don't wait for after christmas.

SpinPlates · 2016-12-24T00:33:28+00:00

Please ghost her OP. Not a single word to her. No explanation. Just ghost.

Dr_Nikk · 2016-12-24T02:13:13+00:00

All of you have forgotten:

OP, get your Christmas gift from her before you do anything. Then ghost. Tell her you forgot to get her one and return yours for the cash.

Uzinero · 2016-12-23T23:22:37+00:00

Just hard next. Block her, don't go to her parents house, just move on to the next girl.

Thizzlebot · 2016-12-23T14:12:32+00:00

I'm usually against hard nexting for various reasons but you need to just bounce the fuck out and not tell her shit. She doesn't respect you and is fucking dudes behind your back. Don't respond.

Nergaal · 2016-12-23T17:12:31+00:00

Remember, you don't own her it is/was your turn.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2016-12-23T15:09:28+00:00

Just text her

"I'm swiping left.." then ghost.

Nothing more, nothing less

johnsonsson · 2016-12-23T15:38:21+00:00

i will NEVER understand how cheaters make a tinder account! for christ sake you are showing your face to the whole city saying that you want to branch swing. it is just so fucking stupid, it is impossible to understand. at least have the brain capacitiy to go to a bar where noone knows you

H4RV3YSP3CT3R · 2016-12-24T00:36:32+00:00

BRO RUN.

Ghost. Do not even say a fucking word. Scream into a pillow right now and hire a escort. Then go do your fave hobby.

Gomezie · 2016-12-23T15:20:33+00:00

Create a fake profile with model chad pics, game her hard and organise a meetup.
Meet with said jezebel and hand her a crate with all her shit inside
Walk away like John Wayne

3rt41 · 2016-12-23T16:09:07+00:00

Ghost her

nubfilter · 2016-12-23T17:36:23+00:00

I think if minimal effort is involved and the (I agree expected) outcome helps to solidify the lesson then that may not be wasted effort. With me personally lessons are best internalized when I have all the facts - others may be so lucky as to absorb them the easy way but sadly that was never my luck.

[deleted] · 2016-12-23T23:46:59+00:00

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BusterVadge · 2016-12-24T15:22:59+00:00

Dude, she is on Tinder, looking for cock. She doesn't deserve another second of your time, let alone another day.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-25T05:03:34+00:00

Rough anal at the Christmas party, collect your gifts, then ghost her.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-12-25T07:59:10+00:00

Update?

Gringa_Negra · 2016-12-28T01:59:01+00:00

Also, you shouldn't feel stupid. You held up your side of the deal, she was the philandering slut.

flashbang123 · 2017-01-01T09:06:02+00:00

Friend texted me early this morning and sent me a screenshot of her profile. Has a ton of recent photos, one with me in it.

Sounds like she's not even trying to hide it, she enjoys the rush - the danger of being caught. Don't give her the satisfaction, she has zero respect for you. Give her zero fucks.

Has a ton of recent photos, one with me in it.

I think this was on purpose...that's some cold shit.

UncleLover · 2017-01-05T18:05:01+00:00

Disappear suddenly

CRAIBaby · 2017-01-18T12:56:19+00:00

The amount of endorsed contributors commenting that OP should print out the pics and do some revenge act makes me seriously disappointed.

The tag should be revoked from all of those tbh... seriously wtf?

u/redpillschool (just picked the first mod in the list to see this)

sd4c · 2017-03-28T22:29:55+00:00

I have a different take on it, after hearing that 70% of girls on Tinder are in a relationship. Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, texting- these are all just porn for women. They get off on attention. The question is, what are they doing/giving back in order to get that attention?

If your woman is meeting up with guys, even "just friends", even for a cup of coffee- dump her.

Ask her about her tinder profile. If she lies to you- dump her.

If she owns up to it, and explains it's just for fun, then it's probably just a fantasy. Not much different from us men imagining plunging into an HB9 from PornHub.

A relationship means you get:

-All of each other's enthusiastic physical sexual attention
-Honesty (if she lies, bail ASAP)
-To be the only person of the opposite sex, who they do "favors" for, or spend time with

This is strong reason for suspicion but not quite enough to convict. See how ashamed or defensive she is about it. Gauge her response for deceptiveness, and go from there

PurpleTurtle12 · 2016-12-23T16:48:04+00:00

I'd first try to get my hands on her phone to confirm everything. Then get rid of her, don't wait.

Igaunija · 2016-12-23T21:03:29+00:00

Your friend is a real nigga

brinkleybuzz · 2016-12-23T18:51:45+00:00

You should find her on Tinder, swipe right then ghost her, never to be seen or heard from again.

RichieFinn · 2016-12-23T17:21:24+00:00

Jesus you must be next level bitch if she didnt even attempt to hide the profile

MattyAnon · 2016-12-23T21:39:05+00:00

Ghost.

For comedy effect tell her you'll see her on Tinder - and wait to hear "I only did this because hamster hamster hamster it's your fault".

But really, you want to just ghost her. One message saying "no thanks it's over" and then no more responses.

Let her think you dumped her because you found better, not because she's trying to.

AWALT - live your life accordingly.

DrunkEllington · 2016-12-23T17:35:38+00:00

What does this even have to do with TRP? It's men's nature to cheat as well.

adam_varg · 2016-12-23T20:21:06+00:00

Determine if its not fake profile first.

If all pics are from public part of fb or alike and profile sounds like easy lay its likely..

-I-Am- · 2016-12-23T13:37:47+00:00

You might want to read this article. It could be all about her getting an ego boost. Not actually wanting to have sex. Just getting likes.

Title	Found girlfriend on Tinder
Author	exerciseaway
Upvotes	140
Comments	113
Date	December 23, 2016 1:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5jx33c/found_girlfriend_on_tinder/
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