What's your gf's n-count?

StopShadowbanningMe_ · 2016-02-26T05:55:18+00:00

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What is this?

fantasmas05 · 2016-02-26T07:23:51+00:00

Main plate says 4, but I assume it's more like 10.

My ex said 8 but during the relationship this didn't check out and she accidentally confirmed at least 6 more. So I'll double that figure and say mid 20's.

returnofthemack2 · 2016-02-26T06:41:36+00:00

it's fruitless to worry about, because it's rare they'll give you a real answer. If she had 25 partners do you really think she'd give that number?

oscarasimov · 2016-02-26T15:46:16+00:00

I'm seeing 3's, 5's and 6's here!?! Are you guys all in highschool or are you really that naive!? As far as I'm concerned, if a 7+ says fewer than 10, I consider her approximately a virgin.

Smigg_e · 2016-02-26T05:24:55+00:00

Like 10.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-02-26T13:26:41+00:00

Look at all these value plummets hahahha

FrameWalker · 2016-02-26T13:29:03+00:00

One solution is to go on a fucking rampage before you get a girlfriend. Guarantee to yourself that 90% of women you meet will have a lower N count than you.

Yaboydotcom · 2016-02-26T05:41:01+00:00

I hesitate to contribute here because you have to get this out of your head, perhaps the exploration is the cure. Whatever.

Anyways, my main plate claims 5. She's literally always available and often will drop whatever she is doing to spend time with me.

She regularly buys me shit and pays for drinks. Her SMV is about a 6.5 and I'm closer to a 8.5 so she is constantly concerned with other women checking me out - keeps her pleasing me.

Honestly bro, don't trip on it. Just keep your head up and be able to walk away from her at a moments notice

nastynickdr · 2016-02-26T11:18:48+00:00

The sad thing is that you will never know. They all lie about it.

I really dont care if its 4,6,8 or 10. But if its something like 40, then you know theres something wrong with her and you are one step away from being a cuck.

passepar2t · 2016-02-26T05:58:49+00:00

When I had a gf, she claimed that her n count was twice mine at the time, half of them men and the other half women.

genjuro_zero · 2016-02-26T14:52:09+00:00

I haven't asked. She's into BDSM though, so I assume it's pretty high. Other than minor curiosity, I really don't care.

FirstnameLastnamePKA · 2016-02-26T15:47:22+00:00

1, Me. high school is great

Questionablechoice · 2016-02-26T20:04:21+00:00

I'm pretty confident my GF N count = 1 (Including bleeding like a stuck pig the first few sexual encounters and having trouble even penetrating her until we were 2 or 3 attempts in. aside from other general social awkwardnesses)

She mate guards, very possessive of my time in group situations, minimal dread (even unintentional) has pretty extreme effects, fall into the captain/first mate role almost instantly and is supportive of my lifting activities.

However, she is also prone to more comfort tests than anyone else I have ever met. It took a long time for her to get the mechanics of standard relationship behaviours like kissing, kino, even holding hands or embracing was very cold and mechanical for a few months. She is just starting to come out of her shell in the bedroom after almost 8 months.

Lipglasses · 2016-02-26T14:08:53+00:00

Broke up with my LTR a month ago.

She claimed three. I'm certain it's 4.

Surgikill117 · 2016-02-26T06:05:42+00:00

Ex gf was a zero. I know cause I took her virginity.

iamirishpat · 2016-02-26T18:19:37+00:00

Used to have a plate. Really liked her, maybe a potential LTR. Then she admitted to having "idk like 20".

Phased her out.

SpinPlates · 2016-02-26T23:05:57+00:00

I don't ever plan on getting married but I couldn't even take a girl seriously that has more than 10 partners by age 25 or 20 by age 30.

The last girl I asked told me her number was 35 and she was like 22 years old

Sometimes you don't want to know

ycthrow · 2016-02-26T17:11:06+00:00

I'm number 4, She's a serial monogamist with high standards.

Didn't sleep with me until we were committed.

FleshPanda · 2016-02-26T07:09:18+00:00

Who cares man. This literally never even crosses my mind.

the_Zambony · 2016-02-26T13:38:55+00:00

From what I read on telegony, it was never proved and basically a bunch of stories used to scare women.

letriggeredface · 2016-02-26T14:16:09+00:00

Including me? 1.

ben0wn4g3 · 2016-02-26T14:26:13+00:00

4 inc me. No ONS's.

rafay_M · 2016-02-26T15:00:57+00:00

Including me, 2.

dispatcherselfish · 2016-02-26T15:09:55+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9oVoJMVsKtk

RPFreebase · 2016-02-26T15:22:11+00:00

I was number three or four for my ex. She was young and had previously only had ltrs. Since I broke up w her that number has gone up exponentially. I broke up w her due to reasons outside our relationship and had considered getting back w her, but as she has been happily riding the cc since then she is no longer ltr material.

My rubric moving forward is not a number per se, but relative amount of time spent single. With girls in their early 20s you do find some who have mostly been in ltrs. Living in the city it's very uncommon though, and so I imagine I will continue spinning plates for the foreseeable future.

fnordsnord · 2016-02-26T15:22:36+00:00

Me and two women. I was there for one of the women.

Steve_Wiener · 2016-02-26T15:47:38+00:00

just wanted to remind everyone of the chart on this page:

http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html

bertmaklinFBI · 2016-02-26T16:35:46+00:00

She hates black guys.

nyrp · 2016-02-26T17:17:19+00:00

Had a plate, recently but no more, who openly admitted to 65. I think she was honest about that number. But it didn't include the 300 guys she jacked off as an erotic masseuse. So even then, no full honesty. And she hamstered it by saying she was proud that she never sucked them off, only handjobs.

LifeMedic · 2016-02-26T17:41:02+00:00

Find a dartboard, throw a dart. See that number? Go with that. (Yes, double and triples count)

Would be just as relevant and just as truthful as any number they tell you.

TRPTosser · 2016-02-26T18:13:00+00:00

She once told me unsolicited that it was "One per year since 13".

I didn't react to her count since I'm sure it's not true, but I said "since 13? Jesus, that's so young. Thirteen year olds are basically babies."

She kind-of asked mine and I said I lost count.

EyeBurial · 2016-02-26T18:19:14+00:00

Going based of my ex gf. She mention 9 when we had the talk. She started having sex at 19 and when we started dating she was 24, so 9 in five years wasnt bad, not all were LTR.

I was at 14 and she was my 15.

Now that we have broke up, in the 6-7 months of it, she has gathered about 4 or so new sex partners, which I think is alot in that time frame, she's been busy. I guess dating apps like bumble make a girl out there more.

tomtopah · 2016-02-27T09:18:07+00:00

Does oral count towards n count?

raisins3142 · 2016-02-28T01:33:04+00:00

Once a woman is outside of college and you don't know a lot about her past (you are not both in the town where you both grew up), then you will never know.

What they admit to are the ones that you will definitely hear of, so she will at least mention all her past boyfriends that she dated for a long enough length that her family and friends will know them and he will pop up in random stories from time to time. From there, they might add in a small number of random ones, primarily to make the n-count more believable.

The only thing you can do is put them in a "bin" roughly. You can tell based upon age, demeanor, and what she tells you whether she is "not a ho", "ho", or "OMG what a fucking ho".

If she is in her 30s, never married, seems to want to be in relationships really badly, mentions at least 10 past boyfriends, and you got her in the sack easy.....she's at least "ho".

alwaysblastin · 2016-02-26T20:13:44+00:00

3, including myself. She reads and agrees with trp tho so I think it's legit

soadaa · 2016-02-26T06:49:39+00:00

I was her second and I'm willing to believe her, but honestly doesn't matter if she had more or not. She has told me she wanted to be shared but her ex wasn't into the idea, but she did fool around with 4 girls.

My situation is a bit different with I don't mind sharing her and she doesn't mind me being with others too, so I keep getting to practice on my game.

antirobots2d · 2016-02-26T07:40:03+00:00

Doesn't matter really but if you are worried- I have never directly asked but by reading between the lines answers to certain questions my gfs is really low, 2 or 3

Best advice is to take what you know / learn and at least double it.

Rasalom72 · 2016-02-26T14:44:05+00:00

It doesn't matter... you can't fuck her loose... so don't worry about it.. just don't LTR a ho.

Title	What's your gf's n-count?
Author	Steve_Wiener
Upvotes	23
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Date	February 26, 2016 4:53 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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