Face Hacks

1 – Keep your mouth closed

The mouth is a Pandora’s box of trouble. When we open it reactively, it can lead to regretful words and stupid looking facial expressions.

Everyone looks better with their mouth closed. There is a reason that “showing your teeth” was an expression back in the day and you did that when things were about to go down, not when you wanted to flirt and be sexy.

Keeping the mouth closed out of habit (and then deciding how to use it) immediately puts you on the path of self-control. You also stop reactive mouth movements when encountering other people. Having a closed mouth be a part of your neutral face also prevents accidental mouth noises, compulsive smiling/laughing, and other embarrassing habits.

2 - Slightly pucker your lips

The duck-lips-selfie-craze is an absurd exaggeration of this trick. Slightly puckered lips don’t just look good on women! They will help you deal with thin lips and keep you from smirking/frowning.

To do this: press lips together, push lips forward slightly, then pull/suck in the sides of your lips a little bit.

This technique should be subtle, you don’t really want to make a duck face!

3 – Jaw Drop

This technique helps improve a misshapen face, weak jawline and fatty cheeks.

Close your mouth, drop your jaw down, and suck your cheeks in slightly.

Doing this will lengthen the face, pronounce the jaw line, and help reduce bulgy cheeks.

4 – 30 Degree Head Turn

A person’s “good side”, great actor’s headshots, geometry…what do they all have in common? The SECRET of looking your absolute best when you absolutely must: the 30 Degree Head Turn!

There are 4 steps to the 30 Degree Head Turn technique.

Step 1: Center your head and chest towards the person you are talking to, the camera, etc. while holding good posture (see Head and Shoulder Drop below). Your head should be level, not tilted up or down nor cocked to either side.

Step 2: Turn your head 30 degrees either to the right or left (depends on which side is your good side). Please find out for yourself which side of your face your best side by asking other people or looking in the mirror.

Step 3: Execute Bedroom Eyes (see below).

Step 4: Keep your mouth closed unless you’re using it for a good reason.

This default posture can be used anytime you talk in person. Start the conversation in this posture, move out of it for variation, then return back to it.

Posture Tricks

5 - Shoulder Roll and Drop

A rock-solid way of increasing attractiveness for anyone is good posture. It does take time to practice good posture and develop the muscles to support it, but here is a “good enough” posture technique.

Rotate your shoulders in a circular movement forward, up, back, then drop them down – hold that position. The dropping down action after rotation is what really puts your back in the right place. The technique also naturally causes you to stick out your chest and pull in your stomach which improves your attractiveness even more.

6 - Tuck your chin down

Habits like holding your head at strange angles, leaning your head, looking down or looking up at people out of habit - these are all things that can make you look weird or sick to other people from far away.

An easy way to put your head into a position that improves posture, maximizes natural height, and presents your face at a natural level is to pull/tuck your chin down towards your chest so that your head is level (not pointing up or down). You should feel the muscles in the back of your neck stretching a little bit. Try and keep your head straight like this even when reclining.

7 – Cowboy Legs

If you have a habit of swaying, leaning, or pacing when bored or anxious in public places then learning how to do “Cowboy Legs” is your solution. If you use this stance as your default way of standing (then going on to the walking version – see Cowboy Walk below) you can be assured that you will look strong, attractive, and confident to most other people that see you.

This is how you execute the technique:

Step 1: Shake your balls out. Your balls need to be comfortably out from between your legs. You give your balls room by doing the next step.

Step 2: Stand with your feet shoulder width apart and open your hips by rotating your feet 45 degrees out. Bend the knees slightly. Your toes should be pointing out to the sides rather than pigeon-toed.

Step 3: Stand evenly on your cowboy legs not leaning forward or backward or to the sides. Torso should be square and even with the hips so that your shoulders and hips make a rectangle. Shoulders are rolled back. Chin is tucked down. Dominant arm/hand is always empty and usually relaxed at the side. Non-dominant hand is what you can get creative with (holding something, gesturing, resting on something, etc.). Head is even and level, with the eyes scanning the horizon.

A basic rule of looking attractive as a male: minimize leg movement and maximize arm movement. The Cowboy Legs lock down your lower body by forcing it into a stance. Make big confident arm movements rather than use your legs to expend nervous energy.

Eye Modes

8 - Steady Far Away Gaze

Staring at others, staring at the ground, uncontrolled aggressive or submissive eye movement, looking everyone in the face compulsively, not ever looking people in the face at all – these are bad eye habits that can be handled by practicing one particular eye technique.

The Steady Far Away Gaze is a good default way to look at the world. If you are standing around at a party – Steady Far Away Gaze. If you are walking down the street and see a hot chick approaching - Steady Far Away Gaze. Just got done talking to someone while looking into their eyes? Take a pause and do Steady Far Away Gaze. Walking past a group of thugs that might try and punk your ass? Steady Far Away Gaze.

With Steady Far Away Gaze your head is generally looking forward. Don’t look too far to the side and don’t twist your head all around looking at things. The movement you make with your head when looking at the world around you is a slow steady *left to right then back to left then back to right* movement. Never turn the head too far to either side in a way that would cause discomfort. If you need to look at a sharp angle beside you, or to the back of you, then just pivot your whole body around.

Your eyes are relaxed and centered, not looking up or down or straining to the left or right. Your head turns side to side and does the moving for the eyes. In this way, the eyes are relaxed and even on a plane, scanning the horizon.

Next practice looking as far away as possible. What is the farthest thing away from you in your line of sight? Are there trees back there? Can you see what is between the trees?

The Steady Far Away Gaze is what you do with your eyes when not looking at or watching something specific. Used as a default, this technique gives you more opportunities to consciously choose what you look at and what you give attention to.

This is the way to get the jump on most physical, immediate situations. Steady Far Away Gaze also has a calming effect on the mind and body.

9 - Peripheral Vision

When you stare at something the blurriness on the left and right edges of your vision is your peripheral area of vision. The parts of your eye that handle that area of vision is not good at seeing detail (hence the blurriness), but it is good at picking up movement. When your eyes are not focused on something up close, but are relaxed looking at the horizon (Steady Far Away Gaze), your peripheral vision is even better at picking up movement.

Let’s say you are walking (Cowboy Walk) in the mall or in the park and you notice a female that you find attractive in the distance (you were using Steady Far Away Gaze). You’re both on the same path and she is walking towards you on your left. She gets closer – perhaps before you would have looked at her and smiled (or not), or you would have looked down, or something else - but you’re using Steady Far Away Gaze. She’s a lot closer now. Here’s a chance to make a move – but you’re playing it cool with Peripheral Vision. You notice the movement of her eyes to your face – she has initiated/given you attention first. Now you look up at her face. She looks at your eyes.

With Peripheral Vision you can be more confident deciding what your next move will be, all the while in complete control of your own body language which started with your eyes/head/attention. No more looking thirsty, throwing looks from a mile away or staring at her face up close while she’s ignoring you.

Peripheral Vision helps you pick up on the really quick, reactive body actions that people do in reaction to you. When another person notices you, they tend to have a physical reaction of some sort (a big or small reaction: they make a physical movement, they do something, they stop doing something, etc.) – these are different for everybody and vary depending on the situation – but it’s like a tell in poker, a positive or negative reaction to you that you can pick up on and act on.

10 - Bedroom Eyes

If you’ve ever been anxious making eye contact, then Bedroom Eyes is for you. It is a rock-solid default eye habit that will increasingly make her aroused until you escalate.

The technique is called Bedroom Eyes because it is how a person looks at their lover right after sex (the ideal kind of look after sex). That is with soft, lazy eyes full of love and tenderness. The eyelids are relaxed, the whole face is relaxed – slight but warm smile, you get the drift.

A huge part of bedroom eyes is actually feeling warm loving feelings for the other person and expressing this through your eyes. I have found that even mentally saying “I love you” before shooting bedroom eyes makes the gesture more powerful.

Boost this technique with “Eye, Eye, Mouth Gaze Rotation”. You look with Bedroom Eyes into her left eye, then you look into her right eye, then you admire her lips. Repeat the pattern until you escalate or leave – she will love it!

Voice Hacks

11 – Firm Swallow Before Talking

Before you start talking to a lady, swallow hard and firm to clear your throat. This is healthier than clearing your throat the common way and is also stealthy.

Doing this prevents your voice from cracking, squeaking, breaking and making other embarrassing noises.

12 – Low Tone Voice

This technique keeps your voice from cracking by pushing your words out from your chest. The intricacies of this technique are best known by singers. Imagine/try/practice pushing out with your belly muscles, pushing the air out of your lungs, and having the sound of your voice come from deep in the bottom of your lungs. Avoid talking from the throat (as some folk are prone to do when talking fast or anxious). This is how you execute a sexy Low Tone Voice.

Before talking, prepare yourself mentally and physically to do Low Tone Voice. Practice!

13 - Talk Slow

Nervousness and anxiety will cause anyone to talk faster than then should, especially in front of a lady. To compensate for this, make a deliberate effort to talk slower than you normally would.

Females like males that talk slow and steady with a low, controlled tone (use inflections of course). Everybody likes this kind of talk as it is very calming and reassuring. Watch presidential speeches for examples.

Walking Hacks

14 - Cowboy Walk

When you get your Cowboy Legs down, move on to walking with them! A huge key to looking cool and attractive while you walk around is to walk slower than you normally would. Also to walk slower than the people around you.

Cowboy Legs is conducive to walking slow and looking cool, not if you need to move fast. It is purely a walking technique for social environments.

The other key to the Cowboy Walk (and slow, sexy movement in general) is taking small steps. Walking using small steps is the key to balance, speed and sexual poise.

15 – Walk in a Lane

Let’s say you are walking down a path in a park. The path can fit 3 people abreast. There are 3 “lanes” in the path. If you are walking down the path you might walk on the right side of the path leaving the left lane clear for others. Works just like driving.

How you stick to your lane and how others stick to their lanes around you helps you assert your attractiveness and helps you gauge the interests/intentions of others around you.

When you are walking, you pick a lane and you stick to it (your default lane). You change lanes with purpose and intention. Personally, I see other people coming from far away and re-lane myself as I see fit. I try not to sweat other dudes, especially older ones. I don’t move when younger males step into my lane.

How other people react to you walking down your lane lets you determine if you they are passive or aggressive towards you. If you are walking in your lane and a female is also walking in your lane towards you and she moves out of your way, she is being passive towards you. If male crosses from his lane into your lane and is walking straight towards you, well he is obviously being aggressive.

How you leverage this to make yourself more attractive is by being more aware of how often you give your lane to others (especially females). A female in your lane is an opportunity to show your confidence level by putting it on her to move out of your way. Don’t be a jerk about this, and don’t try and play aggressive games with other males. Golden Rule is don’t be a jerk. You have an inherent right to your lane if someone knowingly crosses in front of it. Don’t knowingly cross in front of others just to punk them.

16 – Know where you are going

A great way to embarrass yourself and lose confidence is to literally trip over yourself when around other people. Stopping and looking confused, circling, doubling back, stutter-stepping – these things are all avoided if you know where you are going and plan a route to get there. Don’t think that this just applies to walking around the street; it also applies to a house party or the club.

Self Esteem Hacks

17 – Maleness as a source of power

Growing as a male is like the hero evolving through an epic adventure. You have what it takes already to become the best version of yourself. As a male you have a whole host of instincts perfected over eons of time to help you achieve your goals, be loved more by women, be respected more by men and lots and lots of other things.

Woke Male philosophy can be summed up in one sentence: as a male you get a heck of a lot more happiness, fulfillment, and instinctual direction by taking the manlier paths in life, doing more manly activities, and being manlier towards women.

Just so there is no confusion, the male life is certainly one of increasing difficulty and challenge so “more” is always required.

The right kind of “more” can be extremely rewarding and gratifying.

18 - Inherent male value

Every man experiences the urge to attract women by giving them things or by doing things for them. Just you being physically present is of immense value to her. You have natural qualities of character and disposition that she cannot get from other females, and to a certain extent, a good amount of men.

Positive Female Attention Hacks

19 – Energy/Attention Rules

A basic rule of thumb is that a female should first spend energy on you before you spend energy on her. A similar rule of thumb is that a female should always spend more energy than you when you interact. Feel free to replace “energy” with “attention” or similar words.

When a female gives you positive attention, you reward her with your own positive male attention. This is a cycle that works very well and can be repeated endlessly. Negative energy/attention from a female should be punished by the withdrawal of your positive male attention – not abuse or even neglect, just removing yourself and your value from her for some time until you decide to engage her again.

20 - Comfort Signals

This technique is made up of all the little body language actions that communicate calm and confidence to others. The basic idea behind all these actions is the same: show that you are comfortable.

With that in mind, you don’t need to know all the body language. Just explore ways to make yourself more comfortable in public (socially acceptable ways of course). The hard rule is that whatever you do, maintain Shoulder Roll and Drop as well as Jaw Drop.

Some examples of these body language actions are open arms (not crossing them, having arms comfortable relaxed), open legs (not crossing legs, having legs splayed open), open wrists (not folding hands down but rolling them over to expose the wrist), taking up slightly more space than necessary, stretching the legs out, etc.

Remember, even while reclining, always maintain an upright and level head.

21 - Stare at her body

This technique is more for fun, but also a great way to build sexual tension and excitement between you and a woman. The basic idea is you stare at a woman’s body and just let your mind wander. Just indulge.

The catch is that you purposefully do not look at the woman’s face until she looks at your face and even then, only if you want to. This is especially powerful if you are seeing the woman for the first time.

This technique is like Bedroom Eyes in that it helps to try and transmit amorous thoughts to the target through your eyes and body language.

Don’t make eye contact or look into her eyes until she at least does the same to you.

Clothing Hacks

22 - Nothing in your pants but your bulge

The idea is that you should carry as little as possible in your pant pockets. Having stuff in your pant pockets creates all these weird shaped bulges around your crotch and ass which distracts from the bulge that matters most.

It is most optimal to have nothing in your pockets at all. It is better to have stuff in your back pockets than the front pockets. If you must have an item in your pocket, make it as small as possible or choose the smaller option.

23 – Open Jacket

Unless it is very windy, or you are in a survival situation, you should keep your jacket open. Show off your shirt/chest! Show that you aren’t afraid of being a little cold. Open jacket 9 times out of 10 looks better.

24 - No Hat/Open Hat

Try not to wear a hat when attracting females because hats tend to block and cover your face. Hats are good for practical reasons, but no so good for socializing. People who rock hats do so in a way that keeps their face as open as possible by cocking their hat to the side and/or tilting it up.

If you are not skilled with a hat, try and do without it. If you are using a hat to bandage some problem/concern know that ultimately the hat is not worth it in the long run.

Thanks for reading!

*For more techniques and mindsets visit WokeMale.com*