Beginners: How to ask for her number (flowchart)

PartySunday · 2015-07-31T16:20:23+00:00

This is great. I'll print it out and keep it in my wallet just in case I forget how to talk to other people.

heyachaiyya · 2015-07-31T19:31:11+00:00

We should do chill on Netflix

awefkjewa · 2015-07-31T22:40:45+00:00

If she's not really into you, I don't think she'll be that keen to give you her number.

Clitaristocrat · 2015-07-31T16:49:45+00:00

We should do "hang out" on "tomorrow".

Doesnt sound right, what am i doing wrong? :)

liara-tsoni · 2015-07-31T21:08:14+00:00

DTF tomorrow?

daved1113 · 2015-08-01T00:40:01+00:00

If your a beginner thinking is your enemy. What was the point of making this chart?

the3lawsofrobotics · 2015-08-02T04:09:38+00:00

moar flowcharts

Llleblanc1986 · 2015-07-31T20:14:34+00:00

All I do is say, Let me get your number. Works fine

whatsaflashbang · 2015-08-01T04:19:44+00:00

IMHO when asking for a girl's number you should never actually say the word "number"

masterrod · 2015-08-01T06:09:01+00:00

I wouldn't use the word should.. Be more commanding.. Let's do XYZ on this day. Never be in a situation where you don't know the next logical step. ALWAYS.

We'll is future pacing, this may not work depending why she's saying no. I'd suggest saying let's think something else and allow her to respond. Then roll with that.

I don't like text you later "with some details"after a yes, but rather stay mysterious.

Remember the opening is a setting the stage, if your'e scared to be forward in the beginning, you'll be afraid in the bedroom as well, this can be a let down for her.

heretogetbetter · 2015-07-31T17:27:40+00:00

I would also add that I like to say "let's exchange numbers". It is a statement, not a question. And it is more diplomatic.

i_forget_my_userids · 2015-07-31T17:14:25+00:00

implying a number means anything

heretogetbetter · 2015-07-31T17:25:28+00:00

I would just add that if they say no to the number I ask them for their facebook. This is a failsafe way of being able to get in contact with them.

colorbok · 2015-08-01T14:21:30+00:00

This is the worst advice you fucking idiots. Get the number and disappear. You fucking desperate overeager fuck faces. Have a little reserve, a little control, a little patience, a little mystery. Number 1 complaint women have about men is that men come on too strong, too fast, and too heavy. Slow the fuck down. You see a girl once a week tops in the first two months of dating, unless she calls and makes a date with you. Familiarity breeds contempt and you've got to woo her like a cat, and not smother her like a dog. She's not a dog, she's a fucking cat. Take it slow and her interest level will slowly rise. You've got to give her time to miss you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. No fucking phone calls or text messages between dates! This is fucking poison to Challenge! If she tries to start a life story text messaging marathon, tell her, "I want to hear this in person; let's save this story for a date, so I look into those adorable eyes of yours, you hideous monster of a woman! I killed women and children in Iraq!) Another rule that's related: Never make another date while you're on a date. "We should do this again" "I can't wait to see you again." "When you are free again?" Reeks of desperation at worst, or at best lowers her interest level somewhat and murders Challenge. Leave them wanting more. Hollywood movies have ruined you fucks. Let HER say that shit, not you. You can say that shit when she's in love with you, but now you've only been on three days you dumb cunts, slow it the fuck down. Leave them guessing. Leave them with butterflies in their stomach wondering, "Is he going to call me again? Why didn't he ask me out on another while while we were on our last date like every other overeager desperate douchebag that moves in too quickly like a dog scared his food is going to get away from him? Oh he looked so cute in his cute little shirt and his cute little pants!"

When you're smooth and you have a nice interaction with a girl and you ask for her number and then leave, you leave so much in that wake. Things are better left unspoken and better left taking slow. "You gotta strike while the iron's hot!" That's how you get burned fuck face, and there's more to it than this and I can't put this all in 10,000 characters but it'll weed out and save a lot of time and money. Though I think the perfect first date is a free trip to IKEA! Heyoh! Gold-diggers can't stand that. "Where's my lobster dinner?" Wench, I don't even know you! (I'm okay with saying fuck face but not bitch? What a pussy.) You know what you're right I'm wrong. Wait 90 seconds after you get her number and then proceed to constantly text her asking her when she's free. "Well how about Monday? Tuesday? Wednesday? Your dog died? Your brother flew in from Dallas? A 747 just landed on your backyard? How about anytime between now and January 2052, are you free anytime between then? I'm so lonely."

You get the number. You smile and walk away. You wait 5 to 9 days to call her. You set up a date for a week after that. "Challenge" is your advantage, while looks, beauty, emotional intelligence and basically everything else is hers. We are severely handicapped most men in this war. Women have AK-47s while men have BB guns. We are fully retarded compared to women. Cats and dogs.

TL;DR - I made these numbers up. #24 Don't ask her on a date the first time you meet her getting her phone number you jackass. Have some self-respect and dignity and at least wait a few fucking days. Can you? Can you wait a few fucking days fuck face or are you so fucking eager to bust a nut into that poor girl's face you can't even fucking wait 2 minutes after meeting her for the first fucking time.

#8 Slow the fuck down and wait 5 to 9 days to ask her out for a date a week after that.

#16 Never make a date while you're on date you desperate overeager fuck foot.

#28 No phone calls or texting between calls. What are you, her girlfriend or therapist? Save the conversation for the date. "Let's save it for the date so I can see your cute/pretty/adorable/uglyass eyes."

#11 You see a girl once a week tops in the first two months of dating, unless she calls and makes a date with you. This is the most basic shit possible. Look up "Doc Love" for more advanced stuff and go fuck yourself cunt i'll fucken rek u m8

PS - I'm actually a pretty nice guy. I like animals. EATING THEM HEHE no im a douchebag irl

Title	Beginners: How to ask for her number (flowchart)
Author	IANAPUA_Yet
Upvotes	667
Comments	61
Date	July 31, 2015 2:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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