Getting laid as an introvert?

seduction-ModTeam · 2022-10-11T18:12:32+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

ice_jj · 2022-10-11T09:48:19+00:00

Don’t entertain them. Make them entertain you. You’re not some dancing monkey. The key is to keep them engaged without needing to say much. Just let them do most of the talking. Or if you’re not feeling it then just get their number and leave. Sticking around for long can hurt your chances so it’s good to not be so available.

incognito3107 · 2022-10-11T08:29:36+00:00

You can still enjoy a party as an introvert. Get involved in some activities, take a girl for 1 on 1 conversation, simply relax and enjoy your time. You can leave any time if you don't feel the vibe anymore. Also, spend time with people that empower you. Many girls may not keep their attention for an introvert, but they definitely may enjoy spending a personal time with you.

rich_god · 2022-10-11T06:30:34+00:00

First, you are not supposed to entertain anyone. If you do things to please others, to fit in or to pretend to be someone else, you will drain your energy.

So what to do ? Follow the flow ! What do you want to do ? As an introvert you have the ability to create intimacy, you’re seen as safe and enigmatic, you’re able to open people up in their vulnerability. Have one-on-one conversations for example, find a quiet spot and dive into your authenticity with someone. Breath, be in your body, look in the eyes, and be true.

And if you feel no energy and want to go, just go. Some parties I’ve left after a few minutes because the vibe was just too draining for me. Find better parties, maybe even better friends, or create your own. That’s what I did and Obviously that’s a very effective way to connect with many girls without having to initiate.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-11T14:01:59+00:00

You'd have better luck as an extrovert for sure. Girls often mistake introversion for insecurity which is not attractive.

EquanimousKnight · 2022-10-11T03:36:22+00:00

You’re not an introvert, you just have social anxiety

yyuyuyu2012 · 2022-10-11T16:19:26+00:00

I am dealing with this as well. I don't mean to make excuses for things but I think the US makes it hard for introverts so you can try other places that are more chill. Beyond that idk what to tell you except go see a hooker and separate cold approaches from having fun (bar and clubs). That seems to but the only things I can see. Best of luck. Also treat yourself well.

tired_demonhunter · 2022-10-11T16:34:13+00:00

Thats the neet part You dont

WorthTadpole8305 · 2022-10-11T06:10:26+00:00

You make it sound like introverts find it hard to get laid which is BS for sure.

Jasonhardon · 2022-10-11T12:52:05+00:00

You need to polish your finishing moves

CometAzur42069 · 2022-10-11T05:03:13+00:00

Introvert isnt an excuse to be a pussy and afraid of rejection. self proclaimed introverts arent introverts at all theyre just massive pussies about rejection and socialization. If they had more positive outcomes they’d be extraverte.

WanyCaleb · 2022-10-11T05:36:24+00:00

Stop using introversion as an excuse!

MentalCelOmega · 2022-10-11T05:27:18+00:00

Yeah, looks it is not your fate to get laid.

anotherkdburner · 2022-10-11T03:30:36+00:00

Yeah bro probably won’t happen

Lonely-Pikachu · 2022-10-11T04:04:03+00:00

Just stop it

Ok-Independent008 · 2022-10-11T17:28:26+00:00

I remember going to parties and wanted to go back home. I felt socially awkward

Title	Getting laid as an introvert?
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Upvotes	145
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Date	October 11, 2022 2:38 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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