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sussykeke · 2022-09-26T05:45:31+00:00

I used to be self conscious about glasses so much that I would wear contacts every time I knew I was going to be interacting with attractive women that day. Especially since at the start of my pickup journey, a girl told me "she'd go out with me if I wore contacts". I did get contacts and managed to fuck her. Most likely not because of contacts but because of other things she liked about me.

But later on, I started getting IOIs even when I was wearing my glasses. I was like "what the hell, this doesn't compute"

Turns out, it's really not worth stressing about. The fact that you need glasses is a part of you that you can't control, so you might as well own that shit. If a girl would tell me she doesn't want to go out with me because of my glasses, good. I'm not gonna bend over backwards for her.

001010011101 · 2022-09-26T05:10:45+00:00

Yes, you should give up on dating.

learnbyrepetition · 2022-09-26T07:41:24+00:00

The disadvantage is not the glasses, but the insecurity they give you, that applies to mostly every external thing

Alecz007 · 2022-09-26T08:23:44+00:00

This is me with glasses: https://imgur.com/a/x505ZaU

StevenConfident · 2022-09-26T08:19:15+00:00

It doesn't matter if you have good game, but if they bother you, switch to contact lenses or even laser eye surgery.

Actually, fix whatever's bothering you physically (glasses, acne, weight, hair loss, fashion) so you both increase your SMV and, most importantly, don't make up any more excuses.

TheTruth221 · 2022-09-26T08:34:31+00:00

advantage since they think im smart and gentleman

Johnny_Kilroy · 2022-09-26T10:51:33+00:00

Glasses were a disadvantage 20 yrs ago before nerds became accepted (and to some extent even fetishised), led by the tech boom and the wealth and status conferred on its progenitors

HoneydewAble3002 · 2022-09-26T14:00:36+00:00

In nightgame it is a big disadvantage. Not because of looks but because of eye contact.

Blackmagician · 2022-09-26T17:25:31+00:00

Just get contacts. Especially if you’re self conscious about the glasses you may be unconsciously projecting lower value to both yourself and others.

Protocol_Apollo · 2022-09-26T18:35:50+00:00

Maybe, maybe not.

The bigger issue is if you’re gonna wear them, don’t wear the dorky computer guy kind of glasses.

I wrote a few paragraphs about this in one of my posts with examples and shit. Let me know if you want me to DM it.

dump_fool · 2022-09-26T21:01:05+00:00

Depends on the girl - in general glasses make you look weak and you're stereotyped as a dork.

Don't wear them when you do "pick up" or get contacts if you cant distinguish a nostril from a mouth without correction.

richion07 · 2022-09-27T00:25:55+00:00

The glasses you pick can make a big difference in your appearance. Pick the ones that suit your face shape. If you want something fashionable, try wearing Oliver People’s glasses like what Patrick Bateman wears in American Psycho. I always wear glasses at uni and contacts on nights out.

karkius1231q · 2022-09-26T16:27:59+00:00

Save some money and buy some thin lenses and a cool style. I find some women with glasses to be more attractive as it gives them an edge, I’m sure there’s women who think the same.

And if it’s that big a deal get some contact lenses they’re like £30 for 30 day supply🤷🏿‍♂️

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