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Contango6969 · 2022-07-07T00:30:38+00:00

Online dating has like zero stigma now so guys with no game just do that instead of learning. Path of least resistance

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-07T02:41:26+00:00

The method of meeting people has changed. What women find attractive has not.

MBMBlackMantis · 2022-07-07T03:36:59+00:00

No, you're just seeing nothing really has changed. Approaches change, venues change, but the mentality and mind set? Basic since dawn of time

ZachMoore88 · 2022-07-07T00:31:11+00:00

Why would they not apply now?

reddunt3 · 2022-07-07T08:42:41+00:00

The thing is there's online dating and social media and it will keep dominating the dating world.

Of course cold approach will always be an option but I think it will be even less prominent in years to come. I'm even afraid it will be stigmatized in negative ways even further until we approach fully digitalised dating (for initial contact).

Not to say I want to see that happen, I don't. But look at the upcoming generation.. half of their lives is already happening online, social competence and meeting in person suffers. And I'm afraid this trend will continue.

I can't even count myself out: I met my current gf on Tinder and I gotta admit.. it was easier than approaching, it really was. Sure there are many frustrations and setbacks but with patience, good pics and a decent physique, I eventually found my girl as a guy with average facial features.

The amount of couples meeting on Tinder and similar apps is crazy in my social circle. It's already the new norm.

Ikem32 · 2022-07-07T07:20:08+00:00

Some things are timeless.

SeanBatemanJr · 2022-07-07T10:43:31+00:00

I think people write about it less, because pick up community was based around sex being valuable and hard to get. Today it’s generally much less valuable and hard to get for a lot of reason (and it’s good). A lot of stuff was made easier (online is just one of the reasons) and a lot of «discoveries» of «pick up community» were incorporated into the mainstream. The society is much more mature and chill as a whole, in my opinion, even if it might seem to be the opposite. People don’t feel motivated to write a lay report, just like they don’t feel motivated to write a report about going to the bathroom or grocery store.

MattPruga · 2022-07-07T18:40:55+00:00

Game has been established a few decades ago, miniscule things are changing but the major picture remains the same. The guys who are good at game very rarely post about their success. It's the crabs that get laid once in a lifetime that make posts for attention grabs. Most guys are like you, they contiuously search for results because it's easier to read than to learn on your own.

pleasant__sheep · 2022-07-07T08:07:52+00:00

Rules applied for thousands of years, but now it's all obsolete because of OD? Worst joke I ever heard.

This sub is now flooded with people who think that swiping/sliding into DMs is the new standard to meet girls. How can this beta simp behavior even be encouraged in a sub like this? I don't get it..

pleasant__sheep · 2022-07-07T01:34:21+00:00

Online dating and social media has killed PIck up.

Which in my opinion has been a positive.

2022-07-07T17:55:57+00:00

Please don’t trash talk Tik Tok.

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