So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?

ikeepon · 2022-06-27T00:59:02+00:00

Make statements instead of asking questions

The_Wisest · 2022-06-27T00:23:06+00:00

From my experience, it doesn’t really fucking matter what you say or talk about. Either she’s into you or not, either she’s genuinely attracted to you and feel comfortable to be around you or not. Learn body language, eye contact and overall don’t be socially retarded

Jarrod_K · 2022-06-27T01:09:35+00:00

Actually such bad advice... Go out and do fun interesting stuff so that you can talk about it. Having wild/interesting stories from your adventures is seriously the best way to engage and talk to women when on dates. Talk about dumb stuff you've done, funny things that happen to you etc.. Don't be afraid to make fun of yourself.

redditculture · 2022-06-27T01:28:55+00:00

How’s your night going? / you having a fun night? / you look like you’re having a fun night!

Basically ask them how they’re feeling and they get more in touch with that feeling of fun And add to that feeling of fun / good time by being fun and having a good time your self and communicating it

If you set the tone with energy and fun then the rest of the interaction becomes easier

HappyKoalaBean · 2022-06-27T03:36:24+00:00

I dont find those questions boring, if I'm interested in meeting a guy I would be flattered that somebody took an interest of me

I guess if you think those questions are boring then you might come across as boring, sometimes the delivery of those question matters? Like trying to sell a product you hate or smthing

great_account · 2022-06-27T08:16:14+00:00

Literally talk about anything. You'll eventually realize that it doesn't matter what you say. Just look her in the eye and don't let your voice crack.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-27T01:22:20+00:00

The key to success with women is to get them talking while you listen. Women love to be validated for their looks, but when you validate their feelings they get horny.

starshineblueyes · 2022-06-27T00:51:17+00:00

Idk if I’m interested in someone I usually say hi and ask how they’re doing. Things just flow. I tend to base off personality. My boyfriend and I just clicked. We’d have small talk and I asked him something about his iPhone. I still had android and was thinking about switching. From there it went to summer concerts that were coming to town and music and then family… It just happens.

2022-06-27T05:53:55+00:00

Girls are people just like yourself. Try to remember your most engaging conversation and go from there maybe? I'm genuinely curious and I end up asking a lot of questions and making silly jokes in between. Ask yourself what's your real intention with this person. If it's getting to know them trust your instincts and be yourself. Usually, the flow comes naturally and you'll feel it.

tocepsijufaz · 2022-06-27T06:59:28+00:00

Branch interesting conversation off that. Getting to know someone can be boring sometimes.

Neo-Rio · 2022-06-27T02:45:34+00:00

Your aim is to walk them through the processes and feelings of having met a guy that they find so irresistible that they have to go home with him.

matttumolo1234 · 2022-06-27T02:45:46+00:00

Go watch the movie crazy stupid love. The Gos will give you some tips and tricks 🤓

luhvxr · 2022-06-27T05:18:22+00:00

well u need small talk first in order for it to develop into a deeper conversation. if it’s too awkward u could always start talking to her by asking her a question depending on ur surroundings. like hey do u know how to use this because i have no idea or did u get any of what the instructor said. idk. and then from there start a conversation like i’m insert name by the way nice to meet u how long have u been doing this for and why stuff like that. u need to ask her a lot of questions because everyone is a narcissist and loves talking about themselves. and then u can delve into deeper stuff like she’ll be like yeA i’ve done this ever since i was a little kid great memories with my mom 🥺 idk

2022-06-27T05:27:11+00:00

You can start the conversation with a boring small talk question, but then use her answer to spin off to a more interesting discussion. Make a comment of your own related to her answer that includes something you are interested in.

incognito3107 · 2022-06-27T08:20:31+00:00

Focus more on present moment and your current situation rather than future or broad topics. You can go really far from small things, and you would feel natural and easy-going.

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-27T13:29:11+00:00

Less talk, more facts. Dont waste time Say hi my name is... We should go on a date or meet tomorrow evening, for example

No-Veterinarian4627 · 2022-06-27T14:53:51+00:00

Ask what she’s interested in, find common ground and talk about that.

Pop_Zestyclose · 2022-06-29T05:17:52+00:00

Talk about what you enjoy. You'll know you have a good one in front of you if she has fun talking to you about the stuff you like and if she likes the same stuff too. Think about it this way, would you want to be around someone who thinks that what you say is boring or that what you like is stupid?

youngtunaf1sh · 2022-06-27T17:32:51+00:00

Start with a nice complement. The more you talk to people in general the easier it will be. Girls are normal people too. The way the conversation goes has a lot to do with how it’s initiated. GL!

Title	So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?
Author	KD_42
Upvotes	59
Comments	37
Date	June 26, 2022 11:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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