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RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-11-04T08:47:44+00:00

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strikerx07 · 2021-11-04T11:25:24+00:00

I only tell women how I feel when I want them out of my life. Never have I uttered those words without the girl immediately losing interest.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-04T09:51:12+00:00

She ain’t gonna call you to get laid with her just because you were mister nice guy and moved on. She will just meet another guy

indigo_pirate · 2021-11-04T10:53:45+00:00

Sentiment of the post is fair.

But you are getting involved with the woman of an abusive man. Stop right now before you end up curb stomped bro.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-11-04T12:34:32+00:00

You’ve got the white knight syndrome, and it often leads to misery.

Having feelings for a woman and expressing it doesn’t make you weak at all. However, getting involved with a woman who’s involved with someone is never a good idea. You’re only hearing her perspective on the relationship. He has his perspective too, she might bring some toxic elements to relationship that you don’t know about.

She might just be using you for attention. Even so, say she breaks up with him and decides to be with you. It sounds like she is used to the dynamic of dysfunction. It is likely that after a while, he will reappear in her life, and she’ll begin to tell you she’s confused.

Guys in this situation think they’re special and they can ‘save’ a woman, she’ll see the light, and will have a healthy relationship. You’re not special. The same exact issues in her current relationship will come to the surface in your relationship with her.

Whydomelikethatbruh · 2021-11-04T13:42:22+00:00

Jim and Pam?

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-11-04T08:09:47+00:00

Good shit.

I really don't get why folks say not to tell a woman how you feel. Most women don't want to show interest due to fear of rejection unless you show it first.

JayJay_365 · 2021-11-04T11:46:33+00:00

Jim from “The office”, I knew it’s you! Troll 😈

dark_helmt8 · 2021-11-04T08:58:11+00:00

What rule? You planted a seed with a prospect who needs to hear that, nothing more. In this case rules dont apply bc shes hooked on dufus and conveying feelings/direct interest is what's required. Right on, rules shmules

GotThaAcid5tab · 2021-11-04T16:08:37+00:00

This sub is full of shite

sophist16 · 2021-11-04T17:43:30+00:00

Ok so all summed up you’re an orbiter? 😂😂😂😂

My friend, if there’s “so many women” at the casino, why are you orbiting around a woman, coworker or not, that’s engaged?

Listen, this will probably piss you off because it’s not plain Jane vanilla and nice as these forums tend to try and make our comments, but coming at you like an honest big brother that wants to see you win….Don’t do that nonsense again. You’re contradicting yourself.

Messing with married women happens. It’s apart of life, but ya gotta understand the point at which to do so. A woman, engaged to an asshole or not, shouldn’t even be on your radar. She’s in the googly eyed stage. She’s on a marriage high. You get with her 7 years after she’s been married. (At which point you most likely won’t even want her anymore.) That’s when she’s likely to be out of the “high on marriage” stage. Kids have happened etc.

Go after the many women that are in the casino. Stop orbiting around trying to be captain save a hoe.

damiancontrol · 2021-11-04T14:22:32+00:00

I respect the bravado but this doesn't sound inspiring at all

She's still gonna get married with some asshole.

Should've kissed her when you had a moment and then convinced her that the other guy ain't worth it. These types of women are at their weakest when their getting kissed

Delicious_Jackoff · 2021-11-04T14:54:04+00:00

🎵 cool guys don't look at explosions 🎶

quantumactual · 2021-11-04T15:55:36+00:00

Cool and all but idk why you’d be going for someone about to get married. You can say her man is this and that, but it doesn’t matter, she chose him not you.

dodged_that_one · 2021-11-04T16:56:44+00:00

Life isn't a film, most girls who are in a serious, if woeful, relationship are not going to fall into your arms because you've shown real interest, on her way to be picked up by "her man". You've build rapport, demonstrated value and shown clear interest. It's a big change for her to break things off with a guy she presumably lives with for the opportunity and risk of someone else. She could avoid the risk by going behind his back until she's sure of you, but it speaks well of her that she didn't.

You've shown that you're a decent human being and she's done the same. Now she's going to be re-evaluating her life and thinking whether unemployed, needy abusive guy is really the one for her since she has options. Don't be surprised if she comes back to you.

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