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DaydreamingMister · 2021-10-15T17:35:38+00:00

Good job. And good takeaway observations.

P.S. Free advice: Avoid the common potential pitfall of naming a day of the week as part of your date invitation. Let your date invitation sound like:

"You seem like a cool person. We should get together for dinner - when are you free?" And then you shut up, and let her tell you what day she'll be available.

effreek · 2021-10-15T18:14:01+00:00

it's a numbers game! Hit the gym and look your best and the results get better. Good job. Good game!

earsurgery9 · 2021-10-15T18:13:18+00:00

good lesson.

When a girl is attracted to you, you really don't need to overthink the game side of things. It's extremely basic and only needs to be 'learnt' if someone has some very serious social issues (never had a friend, can't hold eye contact etc)

Anon_00643 · 2021-10-15T23:38:31+00:00

I'm at the point where I feel comfortable cold approaching but I just can't get over how weird it feels approaching random women. Like I take public transportation and I see lots of cute girls on the train bus etc. And what I'm worried about is the girl freaking out and thinking im a creep or it just not going anywhere because she thinks I'm weird for approaching in public.

I live in a very left wing city and theres police sponsored ads on all the trains saying to report sexual assault etc. To give you just one example one time I took a late train home and there was a 14 y/o girl crying her eyes out and cutting her self dripping blood everywhere. Nobody on the train gave a single fuck but as I was talking to her and giving her some bandaids some woman walks over and asked her "Are you ok with him talking to you?" As if me talking to her was a problem not her cutting herself. Thats the mindset here.

HandsomeHerb · 2021-10-16T17:18:30+00:00

" I don’t have to do anything right or wrong, I just have to find the right person."

DING DING DING

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-15T17:36:26+00:00

Good on you for taking action and making it happen.

But don't make the mistake of thinking that all of everything doesn't matter, because everything matters.

You found a YES girl, and a lot of that stuff didn't matter.

Good for you, you got her because you went out their and made it happen, now get out there and do it again and make it more of a habit and your daily life.

But YES girls are the fewest girls there are..

The more skills you learn, the better you get, the better your 'offer' is, the more girls you'll get.

This is where you turn a lot of the MAYBE girls into YESES.

By running proper good Game.

shaggy2gay · 2021-10-16T03:49:25+00:00

Glad the approach worked out. I'd advise against dismissing decades' worth of PUA wisdom on the strength of one success though.

RickyRiccardos · 2021-10-16T04:16:29+00:00

What did you do on the first date? Drinks?

AvocadoCatnip · 2021-10-16T12:24:18+00:00

The most natural thing in the world.

2021-10-16T15:55:28+00:00

Good job pal. I've noticed this also if you make them laugh you hook them. Talk to them like a person instead of the opposite sex your interested in. it works out well ! I mean if you can't talk to her and make her and your self smile there's really no point to going anywhere except for the nooky.

You can look for the most beautiful woman or you can look for the woman you can actually enjoy time with. Looks fade, and the character of the female last forever. You can have a gorgeous female you can't relate and have sex with... Cancel that tf am I talking about just go for the nookie lol man whatever you get my point. It's the man insticts never say no to nookie.

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