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KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-10-01T13:16:32+00:00

Try and escalate and see how things go. If she’s receptive to physical touch then you might be ok. If she shuts it down then you’re friendzoned.

ObviouslyNotALizard · 2021-10-01T13:55:57+00:00

Don't be concerned about "beta" stuff. One could argue it's pretty beta you're asking here. The most beta thing of all is to live your life in fear of what others consider beta.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-01T13:23:06+00:00

My friend in high school got laid like that several times. Mostly with girls a year older so it didn't make sense that they were studying together because they would have different course material.

glyep · 2021-10-01T15:27:04+00:00

First off, drop the beta and alpha nonsense and never look back.

2nd - you’re in the friend zone with any girl/ anybody until you tell them in some shape or form you’re interested romantically. Simple as that.

MycolNewbie · 2021-10-01T13:34:34+00:00

Depends how you approach the situation. Get some jokes and charisma out there.

jalijali24 · 2021-10-01T15:11:21+00:00

While studying flirt a little bit (not too much bc studying is important) and if she seems to enjoy it go from there, if not you might be friend-zoned. But that’s not a bad thing, she definitely has friends you can get to know as well!

SavageMakaveli · 2021-10-01T16:05:03+00:00

Not at all. It's a chance to spend time together, and y'all are doing something productive, with a chance for things to advance further with her. Take the opportunity to flirt with her and maybe even more lol. Idk if u in high school or college, but it's definitely a chance for y'all to get physical too. Don't rush things. But don't miss your chance either. Be the man. If she seems like she's on the same page as u, then see where u can take it

Especially since she asked u to quiz her or whatever. She's probably into u as well, and wants to give u a chance to make the move. It's alone time together. Take the opportunity

DakiAge · 2021-10-01T13:44:50+00:00

For example I had a girl that I’m kinda flirting with ask me if I can quiz her for her exam and I of course said yeah. She’s gonna come over tonight but I just wanna make sure I didn’t do something too beta by accepting

She might have asked that to you as an excuse to have sex with you so it's not something "beta".

But, asking for people's opinions about these things is "beta".

You would already know what is what if you were an "Alpha".

Mshalopd1 · 2021-10-01T17:19:36+00:00

So many dudes have gotten laid in this situation lol. Best bet is go, have fun, make jokes, try to escalate if it feels good and see what happens. Worst case you get some studying done. Best case you get studied...🤣

caesarfecit · 2021-10-01T18:10:19+00:00

Depends on the vibe and the context. Studying with you one-on-one at your place... Girls aren't stupid.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2021-10-01T19:51:19+00:00

No way does that have to be friend zone, dude. A girl used studying to seduce me once.

Just work with the usual stuff, eye contact, a little light kino. Focus on the vibe, not where you'd categorically place studying.

jalijali24 · 2021-10-01T15:30:04+00:00

Thanks for all the help all. If it goes well enligh should I ask to do it again the next day? Shes taking a diff course and I’m free in the evenings so I don’t really care about helping her like I’m fine doing it Cus it helps me get with her

2021-10-01T18:26:56+00:00

Never study with a girl. She'll expect you to do her work for her.

She has an agenda. It's to use you, so she doesn't have to work as hard.

Hard pass. Get your own grades up and succeed. They just want to drag you down to help them.

Cheers.

jalijali24 · 2021-10-01T18:50:54+00:00

23m btw

jalijali24 · 2021-10-01T19:29:50+00:00

Thanks y’all and I just wanna confirm

Is it simping or bad if I ask her if she wants to do it again the next day?

Normally I wouldn’t care if it’s simping or not but I’m helping her for her exam like it doesn’t really help me rn

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-10-01T14:43:27+00:00

Plot twist: studying for sex Ed class

No-Department6252 · 2021-10-01T16:59:31+00:00

this question is bordering on beta.

gzazchrist · 2021-10-01T19:10:58+00:00

Remember, it's either you guys vibe or nah. If you invite her to study, it's a nice opportunity for you guys to vibe with each other.

2021-10-01T15:49:51+00:00

if you're studying her ass than nah

PoPoChao · 2021-10-01T15:45:51+00:00

Try to make a move.

justmuro · 2021-10-01T15:45:52+00:00

Wait so a girl invited herself over to your place and your wondering if it’s friend zone? Seems like open season boys

Marcothy_ · 2021-10-01T16:21:34+00:00

I would say make a small move. Maybe try to hold her hand if you have the opportunity and see how she responds. Worst case scenario you guys stop talking completely, but in my experience at least the times things didn’t play out like I had hoped didn’t end with us not talking anymore

kittybrehbreh · 2021-10-01T16:57:43+00:00

Ask her to study. Escalate. Keep things fun. Go get em champ

Biz_Rito · 2021-10-01T17:15:17+00:00

Take a break or two to give you a chance to just be social / goof around. Cook up a quick dish, show off a hobby, photo, or something that carries a story... You know, things that show your personality that you wouldn't be able to during class.

Good luck and have fun!

jaredhasarrived · 2021-10-01T17:19:10+00:00

Here's something most of ya'll don't know.

Don't overthink it. Just have fun in the moment.

lItsAutomaticl · 2021-10-01T19:22:41+00:00

It's a good opportunity for you to flirt with her and establish something. Just relax and have fun, if you're on that level with her already no need to rush it. Make other plans with her before you leave, create a situation later on where you can "seal the deal".

hexag1 · 2021-10-01T20:26:09+00:00

Yes it is.

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