No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.

KingRemu · 2020-12-02T13:03:56+00:00

Exactly. Only thing we can do is be the best version of ourselves and hope that they like that and stick around.

paddywacknack · 2020-12-02T14:19:09+00:00

Very stoic.

ConsiderationDue111 · 2020-12-02T15:04:08+00:00

Nothing in life is certain, but death.

Fluid_Economics · 2020-12-02T15:21:01+00:00

No more villages, no more families... just a giant swarm

squeezycakes19 · 2020-12-02T14:19:35+00:00

but it's alright to want to belong to someone, and to want someone to want to belong to you

prettydirtyboy · 2020-12-02T16:18:11+00:00

She not yours, it’s just your turn

comfortfood4soul · 2020-12-02T16:28:41+00:00

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xDoctrineoftheMeanx · 2020-12-02T18:10:21+00:00

This community is evolving and much different than I thought it was. It’s become more mature and positive.

This is a really healthy mindset. Especially considering how much misogyny there is in the world. No one owns anyone.

Lord_Augastus · 2020-12-02T23:43:53+00:00

Just dont use this as justification for infidelity.

VellaPunk · 2020-12-02T17:10:26+00:00

How are you so wise in the ways of life?

fabsid · 2020-12-02T15:34:01+00:00

This is exactly being yourself means. Well explained mate.

letsgetrandy · 2020-12-02T19:12:23+00:00

This is precisely the reason why I hate when people use the word "taken".

"She's taken" -- as if someone has laid claim and now owns her. It doesn't work that way.

thesomnolentkoala · 2020-12-02T15:03:15+00:00

Sad times

CenaSmackDown · 2020-12-02T22:37:02+00:00

Yea not anymore. Women and children used to be considered "property" to the man. It's only been recently in history that women have gotten rights, and even still there's a bunch of countries where women can't drive, vote, or go to school.

twistedhippo · 2020-12-02T19:02:01+00:00

But don’t your kids belong to you

LLVLTrojax · 2020-12-02T21:46:08+00:00

Wrong. If your girlfriend gives me look belongs to me.

Your wife belongs to me

I am Dom I am Pred

She is sub and she is Prey

And you are cuck. Get in Cage cuck.

All your base are belong to me

luguxd · 2020-12-02T19:37:35+00:00

I know this, but still find it hard to swallow that pill when i get attached to someone...my mind always tries to make that person “mine”

Runningoutofideas_81 · 2020-12-02T19:58:14+00:00

“I like to keep in my mind that even after I have seduced, had sex, shared emotions with my partner, after all this action, that person is an individual and I don't own her.”

Yea, my problem is having her (them) wanting to own me.

Icr711 · 2020-12-02T20:44:37+00:00

“All you can do is letting go”. Indeed

raquelmckay · 2020-12-02T22:11:16+00:00

Exactly! I think people get too caught up in the, “we’d be so perfect together we’re meant for each other, they’re mine” mindset too much when they get attracted and it can become toxic and deteriorating for both parties in the wrong situation

allygator84 · 2020-12-02T22:40:45+00:00

Truth.

I’m struggling somewhat currently even though I know better. 😬

Zero36 · 2020-12-03T00:40:04+00:00

Healthy mindset. I’d say you should think this way even after being with someone for +5 years

immatonton · 2020-12-03T02:06:11+00:00

"She's not yours, it's just your turn."

dayfan · 2020-12-03T03:48:47+00:00

I regret every moment I am apart from my husband. Settle for nothing less than that and never will you be alone.

AMart1901 · 2020-12-03T05:56:59+00:00

Feel this one. A few months ago my girlfriend got a job in San Diego and broke us off once she got out there. This girl was obsessed with me from the start and was regularly talking about moving in together, having kids, getting married, etc. I even brought her back home to meet my family who she was also obsessed with. I was always the alpha of the relationship and probably should have given her more effort in our relationship but it's crazy how much can change out of pretty much nowhere.

DaJosuave · 2020-12-03T06:49:26+00:00

Yea, good reminder. If you make this clear early on to the other person I bet it would seduce them a bit.

Jaja_Aureolin · 2020-12-03T07:20:58+00:00

You are an imbecile . Argue if you want me to explain. This is clearly a gaslighting trap .Negativity disguised as positivity.

Are you one of those burning clutz angry turd feminazi's ???

Shame on you Mufasah !!!

Title	No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.
Author	braincalmer
Upvotes	785
Comments	104
Date	December 2, 2020 11:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/k57fy7/no_one_belongs_to_anyone_every_individual_is_an/
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