Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work?

Zepp_BR · 2026-05-08T18:25:28+00:00

Brother, I'm going to be honest with you.

Last time I took Pilates classes I was in so much pain that I forgot women existed. The only time I remembered them was when I was suffering more than they were.

CoachSlyDating · 2026-05-08T18:01:12+00:00

You’d be surprised to learn that anywhere there’s lots of women you can have success. The best way to go about this is to game the entire group. Talk with all the girls, be a little flirty but not uncalibrated. Invite them to parties or events together. Friendzone them all and make them compete for your attention.

Derbel__McDillet · 2026-05-08T19:00:46+00:00

Only if you genuinely want to do Pilates and it’s authentically an interest. If you’re there to meet women and nothing else, they will pick up on it quick.

Kylearean · 2026-05-08T21:47:22+00:00

Hiking clubs are ideal.

plz_callme_swarley · 2026-05-08T22:09:27+00:00

women generally go to pilates classes and other stuff similar cuz they don't want to be stared at by men, even tho they say that guys should do this to meet women.

when they see you they'll likely think you're gay.

If I was gunna do this, I'd get a friend to invite you. Then you're not some dude trying to run game or be creepy, you're now a guy who has a friend already and is secure enough in his masculinity to go to a girly class.

Go like every couple weeks or something. Talk to some of the girls there. Maybe get your friend to introduce you or something.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-05-08T17:42:38+00:00

You'll have to do a lot of sexual subcommunication for it to work. Staring, touching, banter, playfighting. Being friendly will never get you to sex. Being sexual will, but in social circle game you have to be discreet unless you're pining to be her boyfriend. That means building rapport and tension, then sliding into her DMs to flirt and tell her what you'll do to her. She's hooked when she asks questions about you. That means she's considering you for dating. Keep the dates in a hookup frame.

Mozolicious · 2026-05-08T18:27:22+00:00

It's not the activity; it's the man. Put yourself in a target-rich environment, require nothing from them, practice kindness, stoicism, & focus, the right ones will come to you.

Lucblayne · 2026-05-09T01:31:40+00:00

Pilates is a really good workout and hits a lot of muscles you wouldn’t normally get. Go with a girl to the class.

Historical-Block-352 · 2026-05-08T17:40:20+00:00

Sorry if I sound naive, but do men go to pilates classes?

Cavsfan724 · 2026-05-08T18:56:43+00:00

I take fitness classes and an occasional yoga class. Haven't met anyone but mostly senior people in my classes or they are married. ALSO, I legitimately enjoy my fitness classes and yoga as opposed to just going for women. Pilates I've never done, might be good to try, I guess I draw the line with Pilates because it's like a female space even more so than the other classes

BrilliantIce3906 · 2026-05-08T21:47:00+00:00

I’d love to know, I need more girlfriends myself🤷‍♀️

Professional-Head83 · 2026-05-09T04:42:10+00:00

As long as you're not staring at they rear ends throughout the class.

Overall_Subject4010 · 2026-05-09T09:46:38+00:00

Just stop. You WILL look thirsty as hell going to an all women’s pilates class. Yoga is different. Every woman in there will be un attracted to you rather than the fantasy your thinking of in your head

Shirley0312 · 2026-05-09T11:32:46+00:00

Pls tell me more

Shirley0312 · 2026-05-09T11:32:51+00:00

Pls tell me more

chamcham123 · 2026-05-08T18:29:16+00:00

They will all assume you are a creep. It’s an uphill battle. Not worth it.

There was actually a scandal in Israel where this Pilates instructor was having sex with most of his students after class. Many were married. If the instructor is a hot guy, he’s definitely fucking some students after class.

Here is a class photo: https://naijafap.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Israel-Personal-Pilates-Sextape.png

Article is here: https://www.timesofisrael.com/city-of-yavne-rocked-by-online-clips-of-multiple-women-having-sex-with-trainer-at-gym/amp/

LacedPerception · 2026-05-09T04:44:12+00:00

women are going to Pilates to work out, not be hit on by creeps. If you want to do exercise and meet people find something you are interested in and do that, don’t do something with the sole purpose of picking up, you won’t last.

Title	Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work?
Author	Fast-surfin-9191
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Date	May 8, 2026 5:37 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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