Five flakes in one week

DoodoaX · 2022-04-18T00:17:48+00:00

It’s a numbers game. You had a bad week. Next week will be better.

On my busy weeks I will plan multiple dates in the same time slot so that if Ashley flakes, that’s fine, Maria will pull up, that way my plans don’t get messed up.

bcool_returns · 2022-04-18T01:05:11+00:00

0/5 is a bit extreme. Where are you meeting these women? Do they seem invested? Is there a big gap between when you set the date and when it actually happens? Are you staying moderately in touch in the interim?

BBattes · 2022-04-17T23:09:21+00:00

0… only date women that are interested in seeing me

throwawayaccount068 · 2022-04-18T04:56:38+00:00

Don’t put your self worth on the number of women you pull

daring_innovator · 2022-04-18T00:41:49+00:00

DO NOT take her out to dinner dates guys! It’s a trap.

If you truly want to gauge her interest level then invite her over to your place on the first date trust me. If she’s actually interested then she will come over. It’s very simple. You can cook a nice dinner for her at home & you two can enjoy a bottle of wine 🍷 together as well. (it’s easy for sex to happen too.) We’re not in middle school anymore guys we’re adults now there’s no time for childish games. These girls will use you for your time for free dinners then laugh behind your back & post it on TikTok.

Anyway girls know you want box & they know that you think you’re going to get some tonight if you just take her “out to dinner first” only to be left with a hug at the end. Save yourselves the time & invite her over instead. If she says no then she filters herself out & the next one will say yes. Now if she does put out on the first or second date Ok then yes she now deserves to be taken out on a date to a nice restaurant. Peace 😎

Difficult_Ad_8299 · 2022-04-18T07:20:44+00:00

5 dates a week… I don’t know how you guys can keep up the fun in so many dates, still listen to the women and make sure she is engaged in the conversation to seduce her in the end. Seems to me you should work on that first.

Fragmented79 · 2022-04-17T23:36:52+00:00

ETA - over the span of a year.

dobbs1997 · 2022-04-18T01:28:06+00:00

it’s part of the game, you realize this and internalize it & you brush it off and that’s it, don’t overanalyze it and simply get back out there and keep interacting with women you find attractive, that’s how you get over it, you simply…keep going.

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-04-18T00:49:34+00:00

Youre funny. Ive had a record of 27 numbers flake(+200 approaches) all from cold approach. And some dates happening as low as 2 numbers(-12 approaches). So any date can happen inbetween is how i now look at it

Its a numbers game. No sense complaining. You need a tonne of numbers. Once you accept that you'll be able to have a consistent dating life

*Im currently at 22 flakey numbers after having triple back to back dates within 10 or so numbers. Maybe I'll break my flakey high number record... and ur cryin about 5 🤣

Any-Audience-5552 · 2022-04-18T00:01:10+00:00

Girls flake on me... and I can pull down a girl like this... keep going.....Look at my profile, Boston train travel.. girl..keep going

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-04-18T00:02:42+00:00

You cold approaching?

willgo-waggins · 2022-04-18T01:59:46+00:00

Work it around so that she is setting the place time. People are much less likely to flake if it is their plan.

ViniciusAndraus · 2022-04-18T02:27:03+00:00

That happened to me too. Then there was a week yhat I had 5 dates in a row, its a numbers game

ebell1989 · 2022-04-18T04:15:11+00:00

Oof. I usually plan 1 per week cause pickings are slim and I work a ton so energy is limited. You're lucky to have several in a week.

burncushlikewood · 2022-04-18T06:03:54+00:00

Lol if I had a dollar for how many flakes...but yea stay persistent man, it's just something that happens with date game, it's not my strong suit I never can gauge when to make a move or when not to. I'm good at talking on dates but it's hard for me to close, I suggest doing night game and pulling from there, it's much easier to treat the night club like a date and get to know her through the night, then take her home. There was one video with Richard la Ruina aka gambler infield, it was incredible it was him at a club in London and took this Russian chick home, at the beginning he did some quick thing that I can't exactly remember but he moved on a couch a certain way so she had to sit beside him, but it was smooth as hell. If you can go on the dancefloor, club and use some mystery method you can easily pull that way https://youtu.be/nbQTrsq4U14

Title	Five flakes in one week
Author	SadBox4529
Upvotes	23
Comments	30
Date	April 17, 2022 11:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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