Hi guys, long time redditor on another account, long time Seddit reader, first time poster here. Background: I'm 25 and a graduate student. Before seduction I did fine with girls; I was always able to passively find girlfriends. After my most recent break-up a year ago I had kind of a bad bout of oneitis. She dumped me for being too needy, and in hindsight I was. I did the work (gym, upgraded my going out wardrobe), did the reading, and did the practice of approaching and opening as many girls as I could. Like a lot of guys I had pretty decent luck # and K-closing but hit a few snags, mostly LMR and girls who wanted to be "serious" before sex.

HBBootyBabe (or HBBB) was my first serious success story. I've been busy with work, so this is actually from mid-January, I'll post updates as I have time. HBBB is a 21 year old blonde with a slender body and amazing booty who lives about an hour away from me. She's kind of your stereotypical nerdy girl you can meet online. I'll call her an HB 7.5, face is an 8, body is a 7. HBBB is a big WoW player, loves video games and geeky movies.

She messaged me through my OKCupid profile. I've found that girls who message me are often "just don't screw it up" situations. I wanted to keep my replies short and mysterious. Unfortunately due to our distance and my work schedule setting up a date right away was challenging, it ended up being a Friday 10 days after her initial message. I ended up doing a lot of email and text game with her, which actually worked to my favor.

The big thing I did was at every opportunity I made a dirty joke or brought up sex. I essentially challenged HBBB to prove she was fun, sexy and to reveal things about herself like her underwear style (booty shorts normally, but thongs if the guy likes them), her shaving situation (totally bare), her favorite position (doggy) and her sexual fantasies (being spanked during rough sex and having another woman watch as a hot guy has sex with her). I shared a bit about myself too, but only after she gave me more. She sent me a few bikini pictures, but nothing she couldn't have put on her facebook profile.

For our date I invited her to come to me and meet at a coffee shop in the early afternoon and go from there. I had a few ideas of where the day and evening could go, assuming I was into her. The weather was pleasant but not warm enough to walk along the beach in January. I also did my prep work with my apartment; asked my roommate to spend the night at his gf's, cleaned, changed the sheets, etc.

HBBB and I had instant chemistry. Lots of strong IOI on her part, many of which I don't think were conscious on her part. I did some triangle gazing and led the conversation, keeping it light. I made a couple light sex jokes, but nothing too wild at the coffee shop. I suggested taking a walk in the park, and she agreed. We left her car and drove mine to the park where we walked around. I did a lot of kino, touching her shoulders, arms and back, and made sure to lead, guiding us to a somewhat secluded park bench in a pretty area.

I sat us down, from the way she was looking at me I knew she was ready, so I K-Closed her. Kept my hands in mostly PG rated areas, focused on making her want more. When I felt the tension leave her body I broke our kissing and suggested walking some more. She agreed, and looked really cute all flushed from kissing me.

At this point we needed food. I suggested burritos, and she was game. In hindsight greasy heavy food wasn't the best idea. Luckily, given her small size she didn't really want a whole burrito and suggested we split one. It worked out well, it was enough food to keep us happy but not feel too bogged down. I did keep some light kino up during dinner, mostly touching her hand. I kissed her again after finishing eating.

The timing was a little awkward, as it was only 6:30 or so, too early to go to a bar, but too late for another daytime activity. She mentioned she was feeling a little tired from walking around so I offered to show her my apartment and said we could just relax or watch a movie or play wii.

She agreed. I figured I was really in at this point, since she easily could have made an excuse to get back on the road and drive home. She liked my apartment. I offered her a cocktail, she said "make it a double". Drinks on the coffee table, soft lighting, mood music in place, it didn't take long for me to kiss her again, this time climbing on top of her and doing a little dry humping.

Eventually she whispered the classic "I can't have sex with you tonight" line. The old me would have asked "why?" or stopped. The new me knew just to agree and keep kissing her neck and touching her body. She didn't even put up token resistance to her shirt and bra coming off. By the time I was done with foreplay on her chest she was in quite the aroused state, and eagerly helped me take off her jeans. Smooth, freshly shaved legs, cute g-string underwear. Bingo, this girl at least thought she might want to get naked with me.

She complained our clothing situation was unfair and I "let" her undress me. She did at one point say "this doesn't mean I'm going to have sex with you," to which I simply replied "I'm having fun."

Seddit seems not to get to pornographic in FR, so I'll just say that without removing her underwear, I was able to help her orgasm with my fingers. I had kept her thinking about sex all week, I had kinoed her and k-closed her early, and now had given her an orgasm, so I was golden. I didn't even have to suggest she get me naked and give me a blowjob; she did it on her own. I let her control the pace and just enjoyed. When the time came I told her I was close, she looked at me, smiled and picked up the pace. I took the hint and let her finish me off. She dashed off to the bathroom after to rinse out her mouth before coming back to kiss me some more.

I made it clear I wasn't finished and still wanted her. "Let's go to the bedroom" I told her. "Ok" was her reply. I led her there, leaving our clothing behind, and gave her oral. It was fun, since I'd already helped her with my fingers I was able to tease her more, not worrying about taking her over the falls with my tongue and instead just trying to get her super warmed up. I was pretty proud of myself when she asked "So are you going to fuck me or what?" I teased her that "I thought you didn't want to have sex tonight?" She said "A girl can change her mind", and it was on. Things flowed perfectly, our styles matched, and we were able to take our time and really have fun and enjoy each other.

Afterwards, lying in bed together, I tried to manage her expectations by stressing how I thought she was hot, sexy, a lot of fun, and wanted to hang out with her again, maybe in a week or two. She freely praised my sexual skills and said she was very eager to hang out again and wasn't sure she could wait a week for more.

We took a shower together and more messing around occurred, ending with another bj. Afterwards we toweled off and she started searching for her clothes. Because she had to drive an hour I offered to let her stay, but she politely declined, noting that she doesn't sleep well outside of her own bed. I got dressed too and did plenty of sexual kino on her, mostly grabbing her butt and kissing her. She complained I was making it hard for her to leave. I walked her to her car and made tentative plans to drive up to visit her the next Friday or Saturday.

I know this may sound like it was an easy close, but the fact is the old me probably wouldn't have made it nearly so clear I was sexually into her and might not have k-closed in the park. Minimally the old me would have slowed things down while making out when she put up LMR.

I'll write more about where things are with HBBB soon, but I will say that in the week that followed I made sure to try to manage expectations towards being slightly more casual than on the "love" bf/gf path. She didn't seem inclined to push anything with regards to exclusivity or ask if I was dating anyone else.