Picture perfect seduction executed this week. She's a 10 in my book. Total package. Total keeper. Had to share:

Friend of a friend was throwing an intimate Christmas party; I was invited via Facebook. I scoped the attendee list, and it was solid. One girl in particular really caught my eye. I ended up flying solo with no mutual friends whatsoever.

I showed up, spoke with the host for a few minutes, and immediately started making introductions. I got into "talkshow host" mode, where I introduce the people I've just met to one another to build a little party network.

I made long, direct eye contact with facebook girl at one point, and then paid her absolutely no attention for a long while after. Meanwhile, she observed as I proved I could meet and mingle with her friends (social approval).

Then something amazing happened! Flash-back 3 months ago: I had met a beautiful blonde at a party. I had gotten her number and she had turned me down because she had decided to get back with her boyfriend. I had played it cool though, so the interaction ended with a positive impression. Flash-forward to last weekend and in she walks with her boyfriend in tow. She gives me an elated hug and spends the next half hour talking about how much fun we had and hitting on me right in front of the boyfriend. My girl definitely sees this (social proof). Not only did it help my game, but it proved that she was always legitimately interested. This is why we don't get butt-hurt about rejection, gentlemen!

Hours in and the party is hopping. I move in on my girl full-swing. She's the best looking girl in the room. She's incredibly sexy and engaging. She's charismatic, mature, mild-mannered, and soft-spoken. I'm honestly intimidated. She's been surrounded by guys vying for her attention all night, but as soon as I start asking questions I've got her full attention.

After a great conversation complete with a few shit-tests, she begins a rather typical song & dance where she leaves the room often to see if I'll follow, but I don't. When we end up in the same place, I reengage. Eventually we're in a group on the dance floor, and a slow song comes on. I tell her to dance with me because I love the song. No one else is dancing, but she sets down her drink and gets close. I've got her now!

The night is wrapping up and I'm chilling on the couch. She makes an excuse to part with her friends and end up as the only person in the adjacent room. I get up, walk straight to her and stand close. She turns and I ask if she's seeing anyone (doesn't matter, I'll be getting her number either way). She says "no" and I tell her that I tell her I want to take her out sometime as I hand her my phone. She punches in the number, hands back the phone, and after a few seconds I say "I really want to kiss you right now." She's staring right into my eyes and doesn't flinch. I went for it and we made out right there. She didn't want to stop but I ended it after a minute or two.

We mingled a bit longer but this time we're not separating. I was getting tired. She wanted me to sick around the party but I went home. In a text exchange later that night I told her that we had plenty of time to see each other and to expect a call soon. I definitely could have gotten laid that night, but I waited 2 days to call her. After having amazing sex, she asked why I liked her enough to ask her out. I told her to go first or I wouldn't answer. She said, and I quote:

"[I like you] because you are assertive and you get what you want. If you don't get what you want, you at least go after it, and that's a huge turn-on."