[FR] She didn't text me, but I did it - I approached!

okay_this_is_epic366 · 2019-12-25T14:14:42+00:00

bruv it's only been a day. still definitely a possibility that she texts you.

2019-12-25T13:33:10+00:00

That’s it, all experience. Good on you. Now just keep the momentum going.

Alphaojo · 2019-12-25T14:39:12+00:00

Never give a girl your number, take theirs. They don’t text first

CENTARUSTR · 2019-12-25T14:37:10+00:00

3 days rule buddy, she’ll text you back

independantoutlook · 2019-12-25T14:53:18+00:00

She might have Christmas plans chill dude she sounds interested. Let her come to you.

2019-12-25T14:25:39+00:00

You may still get a text yet

QuantumShit00 · 2019-12-25T15:18:48+00:00

She will text you back probably. Edit the post in a few days if she does or doesnt. You will probably see her at the gym again.

hoogaboo · 2019-12-25T13:43:48+00:00

I messaged my crush after so many years asking if she likes to go out. I haven't had her reply since but it felt great relieving myself from a regret of 'not trying to share my feelings'.

Well, yeah now i am accustomed to this feeling. I have been approaching girls. Getting good replies, some none but it's all experience.

It will make you feel good when she accept or even refuse

skinisblackmetallic · 2019-12-25T17:06:48+00:00

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arebello34 · 2019-12-25T15:03:05+00:00

That's the way to go! Let me tell you a little about my story

Took me a lot of time to realize that "IT'S OK TO APPROACH A GIRL" dude, I lost so many opportunities. Because when I was younger I was told by some crazy girl that wasn't nice to talk to girls you don't know and if I did will be creeping them, and that they dont liked be disturbed by guys they don't know. I grew up with this stupid idea, fearing that if I try to talk to them they will think I ll be harassing them. I end up passing my adolescence being a complete forever alone.

Now I know that this is just BS, and I approach them and its fine, just like you did.

huggles7 · 2019-12-25T21:31:11+00:00

Fuck yeah bro

iluvreddit · 2019-12-25T17:38:11+00:00

Always hand your phone to her with the screen open to dial her number. Women do not call / text first.

ParaLegalese · 2019-12-25T14:28:50+00:00

This is absolutely perfect. Nice work!

EricXZV · 2019-12-25T15:26:42+00:00

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2019-12-25T17:31:54+00:00

Hell yeah dude. It sounds like she for sure was trying to get your attention. Give it a day or two more before losing hope!

Plus remember it's the holidays and she has family stuff to do

DiogenesK9 · 2019-12-25T20:14:01+00:00

Could have, not could of Must have, not must of

Cool post, good luck

ungawa · 2019-12-25T20:56:27+00:00

Well done. The occasional look is crucial. Women are subtle af with those quickest of glances. If it’s just once, it may even be accidental. If you catch the second glance, she’s definitely interested. Pounce on it. I’ve found that if there’s zero glances, she’s either involved or not interested. Don’t even waste your time.

To amplify another comment though, yes always get her number. If your phone is dead, find another way. Go find a pen. Ask her for her eyeliner/lipstick. Write it on your arm. She’ll remember the extra effort. But yeah, most girls will want you to text first.

SpanishIntuition · 2019-12-25T22:01:20+00:00

You have to understand that you are the hot chick. She was stalking you. She will text you in a few days so that way she doesn't seem desperate. Just let her run her game on you. She will ask you a lot of emotion and opinion based questions. And may get nervous sometimes during conversation. Just smile give her a warm hug and tell her "you're too much".

23bmw23 · 2019-12-25T22:05:26+00:00

I live in a small town and my first date with my current lover was from tinder and after that I didn't see her for about a year.. then just this past June I seen her driving down the road and remember that I have her phone number and decided to give her a little sweet text message saying I saw her and a cute little puppy driving down the road.... now this woman is absolutely beautiful probably the most beautiful woman that's ever let me touch her... And it took pretty much since July of talking till about a month ago to get her to actually hang out with me and she finally gave me a chance and my persistence paid off and I've willingly entered something I know it's going to break my heart but right now it's good..

YwUt_83RJF · 2019-12-26T00:46:42+00:00

It's Christmas, chill out

anon3451 · 2019-12-25T15:49:15+00:00

Not saying she'll text you but 24 hours is way too short to know

BallinPoint · 2019-12-25T15:56:52+00:00

She might text you. Be glad, I wouldn't be texting her at least up to 24 hours or more. I would look desperate.

ThurOliver · 2019-12-25T16:19:25+00:00

"Could HAVE happened". Sorry but ffs

Drewskie888 · 2019-12-25T16:30:11+00:00

Fuck im shedding a tear, they grow up so fast

youngpurp2 · 2019-12-25T16:57:04+00:00

i once got a chix number and then wrote her a week later

so just chill and maybe she‘ll txt u

maybe she‘s on her period rn and like depressed bc of it and doesn’t feel like txting you because of it

2019-12-25T16:59:21+00:00

Giving girls my number (and not getting them to text me their name right then and there) has never worked for me.

vitamin-cheese · 2019-12-25T17:12:17+00:00

Good for you man , what gets always gets me is the part where you did triceps together , I would never want to do that with any stranger or anyone I even know lol , why I avoid starting conversations because I don’t actualy want to have to hang out with them lol. All my life I wait for people to ask me to hang out or do something, I don’t like doing the opposite not do I really care to

Alphaojo · 2019-12-25T18:19:22+00:00

Fuck off with your rare exceptions

saturatednuts · 2019-12-25T20:25:54+00:00

Never EVER give girls your number and expect them to text/call you. Only time you give your number is if you want her to dial your number so you can save hers (which you have to do while talking to her). Otherwise, girls dont take the initiative unless you are a celebrity or she want to suck the skin out of your dick.

2019-12-25T22:35:17+00:00

Okay you need to get back to your frame. You are already thinking too much. Also keep conversation short till official date otherwise on date there will be nothing to talk about.

skinisblackmetallic · 2019-12-26T00:22:44+00:00

The move would have been to ask for her phone to put your number in and text yourself.

2019-12-26T02:40:56+00:00

But I am surprisingly okay

What? Why is this surprising? Sounds like you played this whole thing well but you might have some emotional tendencies you wanna grow out of. Like others said there's still a solid chance she texts you. Why are you "surprisingly" okay? Do you normally get super upset when something like this doesn't go your way? That's just the vibe I got from that comment. You have to be bullet proof when it comes to women, especially in the beginning stages when there's no reason to get upset

GenderEnlightenment · 2019-12-26T05:56:52+00:00

No matter what happens, you faced a fear and took action. Props.

pishposh44 · 2019-12-26T07:46:19+00:00

Most people wait over 24 hours before they text.

EricXZV · 2019-12-28T05:28:16+00:00

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universalvoid87 · 2019-12-25T15:54:30+00:00

How did you approach her? I mean what did you say initially?

herendzer · 2019-12-25T18:51:48+00:00

Aren’t you the one who should be texting her ??

Title	[FR] She didn't text me, but I did it - I approached!
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	462
Comments	86
Date	December 25, 2019 1:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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