I’m writing this because I honestly don’t know where else to turn. I feel completely stuck.

I’m 20 years old. I’m 5’2” (156 cm), brown-skinned, not conventionally attractive (at least that’s how I see myself). The only thing I’ve built is some muscle, but beyond that… I feel invisible to women.

Every time I open up to someone I like, I get some version of:

It’s crushing. It makes me feel pathetic, like there’s something fundamentally wrong with me.
Sometimes I think: “It’s impossible for someone like me to ever be seen as attractive, to ever be desired.”

But deep down, I don’t want to stay like this. That’s why I’m here.I’m writing this because I honestly don’t know where else to turn. I feel completely stuck.
I’m 20 years old. I’m 5’2” (156 cm), brown-skinned, not conventionally attractive (at least that’s how I see myself). The only thing I’ve built is some muscle, but beyond that… I feel invisible to women.
Every time I open up to someone I like, I get some version of:
“You’re interesting… but I’ve never seen you that way.” ( Literally gor rejected with those words by a girl this morning)
It’s crushing. It makes me feel pathetic, like there’s something fundamentally wrong with me.

Sometimes I think: “It’s impossible for someone like me to ever be seen as attractive, to ever be desired.” But deep down, I don’t want to stay like this. That’s why I’m here.

I´m open to advice, i would love to hear your story, I just want to know if someone like me can become atractive. I wanted to find answers but in books and youtube channels it´s full of scams and people contradicting themselves