How are serious are you when interacting with women?

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-04-28T07:35:35+00:00

You don't logic yourself into a woman's pants

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-28T03:48:02+00:00

I try to be a mix of both.

atomant88 · 2022-04-28T04:27:11+00:00

0% serious

TheoryMediocre5834 · 2022-04-28T03:57:32+00:00

I want to have fun. This means no strict rules. I definitely don’t think “oh I was playful for an hour now so I need to show her I’m serious or sth”. It comes naturally with the flow. Of course, you disagree unless you don’t really believe your view. I mean you don’t shout it like “no, you’re not right”. You just present your view, and if she starts to shout or argue like it was about life and death then it’s up to you to decide what the next steps will be…

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-04-28T06:39:56+00:00

Don’t be serious unless she’s serious and is seeing if you’re trustworthy then you can chill and just shutup and let her talk and take her wherever. Bc she trusts you Right?

daring_innovator · 2022-04-28T04:31:20+00:00

Im naturally an indifferent type of guy that doesn’t really care what outcome happens. You know those dudes posted up with one leg on the wall with a cigarette in his mouth, wearing sunglasses yea that’s me.

With interactions I bring them a challenging/enigmatic, fun type of vibe (her status/looks don’t phase me & are irrelevant.) Most of the time she just can’t solve me & I’m teasing the fuck out of her at same time but it’s also very context dependent. I won’t lead the conversation going for too long tho because I’m also a man of action. I can be hot and cold, up & down, hard & gentle. The conversation should be alluring, fun but it’s also establishing rapport with her, building immediate horny sexual tension & being in a dominant frame so you can make it easy for her to “enter your world.” She’s really hoping you can “set the stage” for her to come in.

I’m like a roller coaster ride; very unpredictable but not serious. More bold, addicting and fun. I NEVER judge her! Just go with the flow & keep things new and refreshing while being Cool. This is because I’m comfortable in my own skin & I’m not expecting anything I just enjoy the moment do some storytelling, hot teasing, push pulling & just vibe out with my girl that’s with me.

Just my 2 cents.

AbbreviationsOld5833 · 2022-04-28T05:49:17+00:00

I am as serious as batman.😅

incognito3107 · 2022-04-28T06:46:31+00:00

I am looking for something that will bring up strong emotions and possibly new and memorable experiences.

H8beingmale · 2022-04-28T08:42:14+00:00

in order for a guy to be playful in his interactions, does that mean the guy has to playfully make fun of the woman, which means teasing her?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-28T13:59:08+00:00

You want to be fun and whimsical, but not a clown either. You need to have some depth and not constantly be self-deprecating or rely solely on humor. This is a nice guy mentality.

An attractive man also knows when to shut his mouth, hang back, and let her do the majority of the talking for a bit.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-04-28T17:37:48+00:00

I'm just going to address a small part of the post, but there is no "difference" if you're just hooking up or looking for a relationship at first.

But anyway first you're masculine, second you're fun, third you're socially competent (ie you go a bit deeper into conversations with her)

I've had a couple girls ask who I voted for or whatever. Since they're liberals and they already "know" the answer. No I'm not going to argue with her and discuss this I just smile and say "I'm not talking politics with you" and circle around back to fun

If a girl brings up her major or something and I don't know shit about it I just ask "that's interesting, what drew you to that field" Again, maybe I don't know shit about it but ultimately I'm talking about HER under the pretense of a deeper subject matter. And we're still talking about her over all, I can pivot back to fun and flirty

Maybe she brings up some stuff about her past, maybe some trauma. Again, I go competent, I'm interested I ask about HER how it makes her feel, what's she doing to get through it and I comfort her

So there can be many topics that come up but really I'm always framing it in a way we're essentially just talking about different aspects of her

Masculine > Fun > Competent

2022-04-28T18:24:51+00:00

Good question. I am serious and not very serious at the same time. I am new in the Pua business and I am just approaching for the sake of approaching. For the sake of learning the game. I have no higher goals at the moment. I just come out of long term relationship that did not ended that well so I am not interested in getting emotilly invested into a woman anyway.

I would very interested in casual hook ups without getting too serious. But I doubt that i will be good enough as Pua novice to get that far super fast. But I will see.

I am serious to learn to get used to cold approaching but I see it as game. So I am serious and not so serious at the same time. I am not getting mad if things do not go that well.

Title	How are serious are you when interacting with women?
Author	StaticNocturne
Upvotes	15
Comments	28
Date	April 28, 2022 3:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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