How do you charm the bad bitches? (Mean/skeptical)

TrixoftheTrade · 2026-08-03T15:31:25+00:00

why? mean/skeptical is difficult and uninteresting - if anything i try and actively avoid these people as much as possible.

the effort to payout ratio is horrendous.

letoiv · 2026-08-03T15:41:08+00:00

You have to accept that you can't own this kind of woman, as they say you can't turn a ho into a housewife. If you have a lot of value, and you truly don't give a fuck, some of them will come to you.

In that sense the closest thing to an answer is to have a lot of value they relate to (usually that's of the ghetto and retard variety), and for them to see you with other women who are throwing themselves at you. Again not a guarantee but this is what's most likely to pull them in.

Nothing about these girls is healthy but that's how it's done

norwegiandoggo · 2026-08-03T16:17:03+00:00

Like TrixoftheTrade said, dating women like this, or even just sleeping with them is usually a bad experience. So my advice is the same as his: AVOID them. The gain is not worth the pain.

But if you're a stubborn dude and don't want to listen, then the answer is that you basically treat them like trash, and/or act completely unphased / unaffected by their attitude.

Think of it like she's a child / spoiled bratt. And you're the stern, strict uncle that doesn't take any of her nonsense.

ControlGood8979 · 2026-08-03T16:41:07+00:00

Omg this clown again.

Kylearean · 2026-08-03T17:00:00+00:00

Ignore them completely.

Metrack · 2026-08-03T17:34:23+00:00

She is only mean when you are not hot enough so get hotter I guess

jackthehat6 · 2026-08-03T17:37:46+00:00

same as any other girl. Flirt.

If she is attracted to you, it'll work out

If you're not her type, it'll be obvious pretty fast. Move on to the next one

snappop69 · 2026-08-03T17:19:28+00:00

Same as with all women. With confidence and charm. Doesn’t need to be all complicated. Good looks and fit body helps no doubt.

MajesticFerret36 · 2026-08-03T17:33:22+00:00

It depends why they're being standoffish to you.

Women can be a bad bitch for two reasons:

They're just insufferable and bratty and annoying.
They don't perceive you as having enough value so they don't take you seriously when you approach them.

The later can be fixed with building your game around leading with more DHV, but you need to actually have some stuff to DHV about for this to work.

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-08-03T18:17:58+00:00

Have a stronger frame than them

Confident_Web3110 · 2026-08-03T17:38:25+00:00

Why. Let them cook

jarrai8000 · 2026-08-03T21:25:49+00:00

I certainly enjoy the challenge and fun of women with attitude. I think that's the key. You can't be easily bothered.

I see past their hard exterior. They see me seeing them, and thus, felt seen. So they soften.

If they think they are the prize, show them you're the actual prize.

If they are standoffish, be a curious asshole... Maybe. Lol.

All depends on your style, background, and aura.

LoneCatThreat · 2026-08-03T16:38:11+00:00

I agree with the others, don't waste your time.

I recently tried something similar, and I got her attention, but it was not worth the hassle. Red flag upon red flag.

Dorsiflexionkey · 2026-08-10T11:39:49+00:00

Bad bitches are only good bitches for the right dude. If she’s being a bad bitch to you it’s a pretty low chance. Even if you do try and get successful the work to reward ratio is insanely not worth it.

Then you find out they’re boring as fuck anyway. Had a few bad bitches before, was a bit easier for me cos they were into me but still past the bad bitch persona they kinda ran out of performative shit to do and sorta said nothing out of fear of looking weird.

Not bad people it’s just the character they play doesn’t get far

Title	How do you charm the bad bitches? (Mean/skeptical)
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	7
Comments	33
Date	August 3, 2026 3:25 PM UTC (1 week ago)
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