So I have been in a good relationship for over a year now, around 14 months or so. When I met my gf I was heavily practicing the game and trying to juggle multiple girls at a time. For whatever reason I have found my self in this relationship, and despite its ups and downs, I think it's pretty good so I've seen it through. Currently she is away and we are in an LTR for another 3 months or so.
So basically one day, I expressed to my gf that I miss parts of my single life. Namely, the chase, meeting new people, being spontaneous, and flirty. Being the great girl she is, she responds that I should continue to do those things and that she actually likes that part of my personality (going back to when I originally started talking to her). The only restraint is of course, "you can go and do that, just don't do anything" in so many words.
So basically I have her permission to go play the game once again. However I seem to be hitting all kinds of mental blocks and other obstacles, and on top of that I am ruuuuusty.
I think one sticking point is that I don't want to put the effort into playing if there is no close. I do not intend to cheat. However, I miss the rush and excitement of attracting and seducing. I also miss practicing my game and honing my skills. And of course, I wouldn't mind having new friends.
So what do you guys do when you have GFs? Do you lay off the game completely? Or switch your game to a more friend-acquiring mode? Or simply game regularly and tell girls you have a gf? Any advice at all?
(Mods let me know if this should be in askseddit, I felt it would be appropriate here)
TL,DR; I used to practice the game a lot and enjoyed it. I have been in an LTR for over a year. I want to start practicing my game again and gf knows and says its ok. What should I do?
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