How much do you drink while out?

GuruDev1000 · 2013-10-21T13:28:20+00:00

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Jake_STi-RA · 2013-10-21T15:18:48+00:00

The last few weeks, I haven't been dependent on alcohol. It's great. Sure my game isn't like the people's here but I don't like to use alcohol as a crutch. I want to be able to drive home, feel fine in the morning, and not spend a crap load of money.

2-3 drinks the whole night. The bartenders know me enough to give me unlimited club soda and cola for free.

I like sober game now because I can remember finer details.

BravoPUA · 2013-10-21T14:43:59+00:00

How much do I drink when going out. 1-3 drinks. Depending on how long and how much I want to feel it.

How much do I drink while out (when sarging, assuming this is in regards to sarging)

When I first started out NO drinking.

Alcohol is a crutch and never wated to NEED it to approach ( can't do a shot before I hit on a hottie at the mall)

I couldn't afford to drink 3-4 times a week.

I also looked at all of this as learning a skillset. I wouldn't drink before a gun class or guitar lesson. Why would I drink when learning this.

Now when I go out I'll have 1 because I enjoy a good whiskey.

Geckel · 2013-10-21T14:11:34+00:00

When I go out drinking, nine times out of ten it's to get pailed.

My mindset is: get demolished, have a great fucking time, talk to all the pretty girls and interesting dudes and come home with a few new stories.

And of course drinking affects my game. It's fucking terrible when I'm drunk! I'm super aggressive and blunt. ie. "You have a great ass, I bet I could probably carry you all the way back to my house." and other such ridiculous lines. This is why I do most of my picking-up on campus, during the day.

It's different now that I have gf though. She's into girls but there are all sorts of new rules with that. But yeah, drinking definitely affects my game. Sometimes good, mostly bad.

slcjosh · 2013-10-21T16:44:18+00:00

if my intention is to pick up, i drink to a buzz and just maintain. If im going out with friends and that's my intention, i do whatever the hell i feel like.

puaCurveBall · 2013-10-21T17:35:51+00:00

I'd recommend going sober.

I've seen a lot of guys go cold turkey and see amazing results.

joshsway · 2013-10-21T16:58:29+00:00

depends on the group .. between none and a lot

Ben_KA · 2013-10-21T17:25:23+00:00

When I'm going out to meet girls, I don't drink at all beforehand. No pre-game, no liquid courage. Alcohol can easily become a crutch that guys feel that they need in order to approach attractive women.

Doing it sober builds courage. It builds confidence. And it lets you remember what you said or did, so you can build a skillset. You will get good with women much faster if you don't drink. At first you'll have a dip, but that's called "investing in loss". It's a concept I learned from reading the Art of Learning.

I'll drink on a date, I'll drink with family. But I don't drink if I'm out to meet people, and I decided to never drink when I was learning.

commodore-69 · 2013-10-21T17:49:49+00:00

Way too much

SallyStruthersThong · 2013-10-21T22:48:01+00:00

I drink to blackout regularly. I'm one if those ppl that you can't tell is drunk when they are. I keep my cool at all times b when I'm real drunk I'm more likely to risk hitting on the hot girl, so I do better that way.

TerriblePUA · 2013-10-22T01:54:56+00:00

We have somewhat of a drinking culture here in Britain, so if I'm out socially, I'll probably be drinking and I'll probably end up shitfaced.

Most people into PUA will tell you not to drink when you're sarging. Stay sober, build your confidence and learn to do it without the Dutch Courage.

My decision to drink comes down to a few reasons.

I know I can pull while sober - I often do
I not out sarging, I'm just out to have fun with friends
Something doesn't sit right with me being completely sober, trying to get a drunk girl's number. It feels creepy to me

TheMightyBaugh · 2013-10-22T02:31:14+00:00

I'm completely the opposite, when I'm drunk, I play as if it were a second language. One night, after being single for two years, I got drunk out of my mind and came home with 3 new numbers. When I'm completely sober, I over think things that the drunken me wont even think about once. I'm trying to improve on my sober game though.

tpinguim2 · 2013-10-21T21:05:55+00:00

If you don't get drunk, you'll disappoint all those ugly girls out there waiting for a chance with you...

nashbrowns · 2013-10-21T20:11:59+00:00

I'm in college so I usually drink pretty heavily on the weekends. But I don't think of the weekend as the only time to get girls. There are plenty of cute girls in class (I'm an engineer so maybe not class so much lol) and around campus. I associate drinking with me time. I don't drink for courage and to meet people. Drink to get messed up and have a good time and the rest just seems to follow you having fun. Like this weekend I had a great time lots of fun and meeting new people and girls. But I didn't go into the weekend with the mindset of I have to get a girl this weekend. I went with the I'm gonna have a good time with my friends and fuck everything else because who cares what girls or people think of you dancing on tables and

Being a goofball? You're having a blast and anyone who thinks you're weird or stupid is probably just jealous they arnt having as much fun as you're having. Long story short drink to have fun not game. Also weed definitely affects game don't do it if you are trying to be social

IntensePancakes · 2013-10-21T22:13:13+00:00

Drinking negatively affects most peoples' game (unless you are ridiculously shy and can't even talk to women sober). However, you shouldn't let that notion affect whether or not you drink.

Your primary goal should be to have fun.

If you feel like talking to girls all night and being on top of your game, you're going to do a lot better if you're not shitface drunk. But don't sacrifice having fun for the sake of your game. Drinking is a lot of damn fun and if you feel like drinking then do it. Drinking may affect your game a little bit, but not having fun affects it much more. I've seen plenty more drunk guys go home with girls than sober guys who can't seem to have fun.

Though, if you've never gone out completely sober, I would recommend trying it at least once to see how you like it. You know that "high on life" feeling you get when you're out drinking sometimes? Well it's very possible to feel like that sober, too. When you can have a ton of fun and be your best self around girls while being sober, you feel fucking amazing.

Methaxetamine · 2013-10-21T22:27:33+00:00

None, I do a lot of MXE, molly, or opiates tho.

Its hard to say no to free drinks. I relented this week after saying no for months.

nycprowl · 2013-10-22T01:13:24+00:00

I don't drink, at all. Every approach, flirtation is stone cold sober.

I never really drank anywayfor personal reasons, but going out never had a problem not drinking. I meet plenty of girls, and it feels good to not do it with a confidence crutch. Is it tough sometimes? Yeah, but you push through that shit.

ItsMachu · 2013-10-22T01:38:12+00:00

I also drink a shit ton. This is mainly because its fun, I go out to have fun with my friends, picking up girls is just a byproduct of me having fun.

Myself and a large group of friends go out pretty regularly and simply have a great time, wherever we go. Because of the fun that we are having, everyone else sees this as social proof and the foot is already in the door- girls come up to us because we look fun, and they want to have fun with us.

I feel like people don't stress social status enough- if used correctly everyone views you, and your group as the alpha males. Be conscious of who you go out with, what your wearing, your body posture, eye contact. If all of these are executed correctly your 3/4 of the way there....hit them with some negs, cocky funny, and push/pull and your in

jmikolash · 2013-10-22T03:49:18+00:00

I try to hover in a buzzed state. Start of with rye and coke for the energy, switch to light beer or plain coke to pace yourself when you're getting too drunk.

jamespet · 2013-10-22T07:51:13+00:00

http://innergameblog.com/dont-need-alcohol-pickup-fun-fuck-night/

Here is my post on reddit about this: http://redd.it/1oyee6

Title	How much do you drink while out?
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Comments	25
Date	October 21, 2013 1:15 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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