I believe finding this sub-reddit a couple days ago will change my life

3nderr · 2012-08-24T16:01:11+00:00

This subreddit will not change your life. That's your job. All Seddit can do is assist.

MolsonIce · 2012-08-24T20:52:50+00:00

Don't only talk to girls. Make sure you're talking to everyone. If hott girls see you're only talking to girls, they might get wise and blow you out on principle.

My_Post_Is_On_Topic · 2012-08-24T17:31:25+00:00

Bro, even though some people might not believe it, you're exactly right. Getting rejected 10+ times was one of the best things I ever did. I have no more fear of rejection (basically. I still care about not how I'm perceived socially but I can ask out girls no problem.) Strangely even though I don't mind being rejected at all, I still have intense anxiety before saying hi to a girl. Just don't beat yourself up if you get strong anxiety and can only start the conversation with one girl a day, a week, etc. That anxiety is so intense but once you do it a few times it's much easier. Because what's the worst that can happen, she rejects you? Who cares, you've already been rejected tons of times, one more makes no difference.

DrDeath666 · 2012-08-24T17:07:40+00:00

Just the thought of you going out and talking to 10 girls makes me anxious.

puaCurveBall · 2012-08-24T16:19:39+00:00

Enjoy the journey

creativebaconmayhem · 2012-08-24T18:23:32+00:00

If you're gonna play Crash and Burn, you should go to some bars you don't usually frequent. You'll feel a bit more free knowing you don't have to see any of these people again. I don't know how familiar you are with different approaches, but even if you're clueless, sometimes all you need is the confidence to try.

HelloHiHello · 2012-08-24T17:08:19+00:00

"Change your life" is an understatement.

Get ready.

kyalmighty · 2012-08-24T18:16:34+00:00

Thanks everyone I'll update either during the weekend or monday.

Xeno505 · 2012-08-24T18:52:07+00:00

You will get out what you put in, friend.

0failsis · 2012-08-24T19:36:16+00:00

Yeah man this subreddit popped my cherry which had been my priority for like 5 years, now I can actually think about improving other aspects of my life

scottyah · 2012-08-24T23:43:17+00:00

I hate to be the dick here, but please don't make posts like this. This community is about self-improvement and finding ways to make the pursuit of women more successful. We are all working together sharing knowledge, do not thank everyone before getting specific advice, for some people will give you bad advice. There are now 73,998 readers and if everyone did a little intro post, this subreddit would be utter shit. It's great that you're improving, it really is. I'm glad everyone here is learning stuff, including myself. But do it for yourself, then share (the good) results after.

It's better to hear more from the teachers and people who know what they're doing than fellow classmates.

2012-08-24T15:56:18+00:00

Good luck, let us know how it goes.

Money_Train · 2012-08-24T16:45:05+00:00

Belief is a pretty powerful thing, if you allow it to be. I hope you do well!

yokhai · 2012-08-24T18:35:37+00:00

FOR THE WHORES!

peskygods · 2012-08-24T21:52:56+00:00

Your fear of rejection will be lower, but try not to get caught in the trap of only feeling properly comfortable chatting up girls when you're by yourself.

That happened to me. Went out solo, had fantastic nights that always ended in after-parties and fucks. Then on nights hanging with my friends I felt like a retard again. So take care.

justthrowmeout · 2012-08-24T23:01:11+00:00

Please report back on your results after hitting some bars. If you actually DO this you should at least yield a few numbers and probably a few kisses.

2012-08-24T23:10:42+00:00

Touch as many people as you can.

Not there! ... Like shake hands and stuff, you know? Jeez

kid-vicious · 2012-08-25T00:31:53+00:00

Awesome, man. BUT... Make sure you have no personal issues to deal with first!

For example, I found this subreddit before I realized I had "Nice Guy Syndrome." I realized I could learn every way in the book to approach a girl and make the moves on her, but I would never reach my full potential had I not taken care of myself first.

I thought finding a girl would make me confident; fix my self-esteem. Stuff like that. That's not the case. I only became confident once I fixed my issues and stopped caring what people thought of me.

Check yo'self before you wreck yo'self! ;)

PurppleHaze · 2012-08-25T01:02:32+00:00

Update it when you're back.

I_like_pointy_things · 2012-08-25T05:19:50+00:00

Same here, can't wait to actually use the techniques I've been reading about. Especially because school is stating in couple days for me :)

mrzack · 2012-08-24T23:27:01+00:00

9/11 was an inside job.
now your life change?

Title	I believe finding this sub-reddit a couple days ago will change my life
Author	kyalmighty
Upvotes	114
Comments	51
Date	August 24, 2012 2:49 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/yr7y5/i_believe_finding_this_subreddit_a_couple_days/
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