I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-off

Captain_w00t · 2022-07-04T00:11:37+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

may-begin-now · 2022-07-03T20:38:15+00:00

Suddenly you have value in their eyes , if they put on their best flirt they can get in .....or so they thought . Looking at them now ,with what you now know, what would you rate them at on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being completely undesirable and 10 being most desirable crush ever?

Wildkeith · 2022-07-03T23:35:11+00:00

Just because you were faking being nice and felt the girls were too, doesn’t mean Jack about other situations. It’s old and worn out that guys think women hate nice guys and love assholes. Women love confidence. It just so happens assholes seem to specialize in it. But, you can be nice and confident and be more attractive than the asshole with confidence. You weren’t rejected for being nice, it was for being timid. I think you’re taking away the wrong lesson from this experience.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-07-03T20:55:40+00:00

This isn’t a post about nice guys being a turn off. This is about women being manipulative and trading on their looks to get what they want.

They’re not interested in you as a guy at the club, but you as a doorman that can get them into the club, is a guy that has something to offer and that’s access to the club.

elMachetero · 2022-07-03T23:03:17+00:00

So basically they don't like nice guys because women use been nice to get something therefore they come to the conclusion if someone is nice to them it's because they want to get something too just like they do? Did I get it right?

themostgianthorse · 2022-07-03T20:38:02+00:00

Good!

Also, never underestimate the power of status.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2022-07-03T21:53:52+00:00

Being nice is an abject demonstration of having lower value.

"Let me do this____ for you because you have something I want (but I'm going to pretend it's not really the thing i'm after; aren't I sneaky!??)"

"Wait! I did____for you! Why won't you give me the thing I really want!? ....Bitch!"

Luckyyou00 · 2022-07-03T23:29:31+00:00

People really missed what you was saying in this post lol

erickacrites · 2022-07-03T23:06:40+00:00

What a terrible post. 🗑

Doctor0z · 2022-07-03T23:53:10+00:00

Being nice is being needy, therefore it is a turn off.

tlthang · 2022-07-03T23:24:28+00:00

Wait until they find out you are owner of the club.

Title	I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-off
Author	SadBox4529
Upvotes	59
Comments	58
Date	July 3, 2022 8:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vqqblw/i_finally_understand_why_being_nice_is_such_a/
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