I'm feeling like I'm not even a man anymore..

JamieLeeTurdis · 2016-01-14T13:09:39+00:00

See a psychologist. Not kidding.

TheXXL · 2016-01-14T10:17:13+00:00

I'm extremely good at getting a girl interested and seducing.

Are you? then why are you even complaining? Fuck your ego, it doesn't do any good for you, why would you care that those girls find other guys attractive, when you are so good at seducing them?

HappyManBeast · 2016-01-14T14:29:13+00:00

I'm confident.

No you are not, but you can fix that.

IFuckingHateAllergy · 2016-01-14T13:55:00+00:00

You're insecure in your physical appearance. That reflects to your body language. they can smell that from a mile away. Where's the confidence in that? Keep escalating. You pedestalize women by simply saying you like the prettier ones. It's either 1 or 0. Treat all the ones you wanna fuck all the same.

fatalecs · 2016-01-14T12:02:04+00:00

Pics? Guaranteed you're not as bad looking as you think you are. Look at someone like Tom Torrero... now that dude has a funky face. Or Tyler before he got skinny.

Either way why does the girl have to be a shallow 10/10 model? If you need a connection, why aren't the 7/10 girls enough?

abhigeek · 2016-01-14T13:15:03+00:00

Doesn't matter had sex.

Scaro066 · 2016-01-14T13:47:49+00:00

You claim to be ugly looking but perhaps it's just a confidence issue. Show the community some pics, maybe they can recommend you what the issue is. Are you dressing right? Got a good haircut? Maybe skincare is needed? There is a subreddit for most of these if not all. Oh and also check nofap.

Cesare_MA · 2016-01-14T15:09:17+00:00

Forget about women man. You fucking hate yourself by the sound of it, and you need to figure that out before you do anything else. Everyone has their flaws man; you don't need to be so harsh on yourself.

Acceleratu · 2016-01-14T15:11:06+00:00

Start lifting, man. If you are ripped, the face (regardless of the perceived beauty) becomes less important for girl, when it comes to physical characteristics.

daddysuggs · 2016-01-14T18:05:59+00:00

Usually true ugliness stems from one offset feature or another, go to a plastic surgeon to see what it is, and maybe proceed with that?

My friend had a really, really big nose, and it really put her entire face off balance. Once she got a rhinoplasty, it really looked like she changed completely, not just her nose.

Also, it's an American tendency to run with the notion of "I love me for who I am" and shit. I've never had plastic surgery, but I find the Korean approach more liberating - "I have money and this will help, so why the fuck not?"

Good luck.

Factushima · 2016-01-14T15:33:42+00:00

Man, you just asked the Pope to help you convert to athiesm.

Go to r/MGTOW.

Hungery13ear · 2016-01-14T16:18:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/becomeaman

RealPigman · 2016-01-14T18:10:01+00:00

Hahahah fucken rat man but seriously stop being a giant rat man and do something real with your life, bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks ya feel like ya rat man?

philosarapter · 2016-01-14T18:30:14+00:00

People, for the most part, will treat you how you treat you. If you believe yourself an ugly shadow of a man, women will pick up on that and treat you as if you were. That's how it goes. Plus who is going to want to be with someone that is so negative about their own appearance? That's like going into a job interview, telling them all the terrible things you've ever done in your life, and then wondering why you didn't get the job. The way you're 'selling yourself' to people is probably closer to a sad puppy looking for pity, than a confident man who pursues his passions.

I think you ought to focus on this internal negativity that is going on, it's toxic to your mental health and your social life. A talk therapist would be a good idea to get through this opinion of yourself and possible treat (what seems to be) your underlying depression.

It may also help to remember: What you find attractive and what women find attractive are likely two entirely different things. You are looking at your face through the eyes of a man... so of course many of the pointier aspects of yourself are going to seem unattractive to you, because you're programmed to find females and their curves attractive. But women through their eyes find the angular features of men attractive. So all this "I'm ugly" talk is terribly biased.

MotivatingDoctor · 2016-01-15T02:18:14+00:00

Yo dude, same sentiments here but what I found out is that looks can only go so far. You can take the longway- being friends then do the good stuff later or you can really try to win them over by your personality in the first meet. I think you should try to find worthiness in your self first and learn how to appreciate you- the authentic you. Wishing you the best of luck

AnimaCorpusLucra · 2016-01-14T14:08:05+00:00

/r/theredpill

Welcome home

usernametoolomng · 2016-01-14T15:47:41+00:00

Mach eine Bank klar und hol dir in Südkorea ein neues Gesicht.

Title	I'm feeling like I'm not even a man anymore..
Author	ChinNoseJaw
Upvotes	20
Comments	48
Date	January 14, 2016 10:07 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/40x05v/im_feeling_like_im_not_even_a_man_anymore/
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