I'm not good with words, any tips for me?

Pan0ptimist · 2015-04-15T14:16:46+00:00

Practice speaking at a slower pace. This will not only give you more time to arrange your sentences, but also indicates confidence. Further, give some thought to how you can enrich your tone of voice and improve your body language; then practice.

Body language and tone are the integral elements of communication. You can improve your wordsmith skills, but don't forget your bread and butter.

srqrox · 2015-04-15T14:11:27+00:00

Unlike other helpful people, I'll advise you to Write. It is writing that "makes a perfect man".

Find a subject that interests you most, be it politics, business or even books and write about it.

Make a blog where you could post stuff. English isn't my mother tongue, but I doubt anyone would be able to know that, just by looking at my script and I did exactly that, I started writing.

PS. Oh, and of course it will make you much more eloquent. Suitable words would start popping up in your head faster after you make it a habit to write. After that, sky is the limit. Go talk to people, the more you push yourself the better you'll get.

cmiovino · 2015-04-15T17:59:09+00:00

Standup comedy. Download from Youtube and watch it.

Gets your mind thinking of funny things when in conversation. Or even not hilarious things... it just allows you to keep conversations going on better and to tell stories better.

rambopr · 2015-04-15T13:00:14+00:00

Read more literature (less reddit more shakespeare)

Alpha_Ape · 2015-04-15T14:40:26+00:00

I wish there was more detail, that you'd put more than a title.

I'd say a huge part of being good with words, is just speaking what you feel. We are all always feeling something, so therefor we always have something meaningful to say.

(Unless you're a or mysoginistic or violent), make it a goal for now to say and type what's really on your mind. The real emotional truth of yourself at the moment.

Cause that's what good words are. They arn't good because they're smooth, linguistically clever, or anything (although that helps get the point across.) Good words are the words that show the emotional truth of the moment.

Let out how you feel.

HoboSomeRye · 2015-04-15T14:47:04+00:00

Two words: Body Language.

and five more: Let her do the talking.

Ronin11A · 2015-04-15T15:54:44+00:00

Get better with words. Join Toastmasters, read more nonfiction.

Astrocytic · 2015-04-15T14:50:34+00:00

Read difficult things aloud. When you work on articulation of complex words from books, it helps out a lot. You're vocal instruments need to be practiced like any other instrument.

phillychee · 2015-04-15T16:07:10+00:00

What's the problem? You don't have to SAY anything to say SOMETHING. The most memorable, important, impactful way of communicating is through body language. Touch, body position, facial queues, scent, posture, these are what people notice. You could literally be talking about potato farming to a playboy model and she wouldn't care as long as your body language is saying what she wants to hear.

LordVils · 2015-04-15T16:35:24+00:00

(as others said) Read more and try to write something. You learn reading and you force yourself to create when you are writing
Watch stand up comedians. They are great about pacing, body language, etc. and then try to imitate them and record yourself. You will probably suck (as most of us) but your goal is not to be a pro, is just to get better step by step.
Remember that a conversation is usually about the other person (listen)

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-15T17:30:16+00:00

Do dance game in clubs....and don't respond with why you can't. Requires less words. And, prepare your words (stories, banter, teasing) beforehand, so it's ready when you need it. Don't tell us why you can't do that either. We don't need to hear your self-limiting beliefs! Oh, wait, you saying you aren't good with words IS a self limiting belief....which of course makes it true...for you. :) If you think you are too...X,Y,, etc...you are. :)

SandtheB · 2015-04-15T21:25:08+00:00

My advice to is slow down you talking.... Any good coach will tell you that if you slow down that will give you more time to think of what to say and in your head you are talking faster then you think. (This is taken from classes on public seeking)

Title	I'm not good with words, any tips for me?
Author	Kubrick_Fan
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Date	April 15, 2015 12:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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