1. Go to the gym. I list this as #1 because your visits to the gym are about more than just getting fast and strong (although that's very important). I recommend getting a membership at a gym that's big on weight lifting and filled with a bunch of good-looking people. Why? Because, chances are, you will never see a club, bar, or lounge with as many attractive people as at your gym. It provides an understated confidence boost and this makes approaches very easy.

  2. Eat well. Don't put junk in your body. People think this is just about getting fat, but it's also about your mental clarity and hormones. When you eat at McDonald's, Pizza Hut, hell, ANY chain restaurant in the United States, you're filling yourself up with excess garbage. Your body is not designed to consume the abundance of oil, fat, and sugar that you get when you eat at a chain place, so don't. Buy your own groceries, cook your own food. Your body and your wallet will thank me.

  3. Think positively. A lot of people misconstrue derision of others and self-disparagement as meaning you're being honest with yourself or your surroundings. This "honesty" trap becomes a self-feeding negative cycle. Instead, block out all unnecessary negative thinking. 99% of the time, your negative thoughts have no relevance on your goals or even your day. When you think positive, you look positive, and that's the type of person people (not just girls) want to be around.

  4. Stop thinking of Game as a big deal. At it's core, Game is just talking to people. You're improving your social skills. You're not unlocking a forbidden alternate universe where women suddenly worship your cock.