Listen, this isn't some woo-woo feel good bullshit I'm about to spew here. I'm telling you all this because you need to work on this before you work on shit else.

I went out with a dude from this community the other night. . He was a lot like most people you'd meet in this subreddit. Looking to try the next trick, gimmick, routine, or technique to supplicate who he really was. I'm talking about this guy had a 30 pg manifesto on getting laid. (Body language, physical escalation, verbal game, etc.)

The night continually wasn't going his way and he started throwing tantrums. Stomping the ground, getting angry when sets would fail and bringing everyone's mood down.

You need to understand, so so so much of this shit is how you're feeling inside. There is no fucking trick, technique or routine that can hide that. The self is always coming through.

I get it. Most dudes in this community want that. They want the easy way out. The way where if you say the right thing at the right time you'll get laid. I'm here to tell you it does not work that way. At all.

You need to work on being outcome independent and not having external shit affect your mood on your nights out. You need to be the life of the party in your own head. You need to internalize you are the shit no matter what happens. PUA is messy. Sets will fail. Blow outs will happen. But you need to have your internal shit together.

I'm not saying outer game isn't important. But personally in my experience, if you have good inner game, so much of the pieces will fall in place. However, don't be a dumbass and know when to take a girl home.

Gogo bogo brothers