Seduction vs Escorts?

rudebwoy100 · 2021-09-05T03:30:44+00:00

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abogado2018 · 2021-09-05T03:21:28+00:00

Maybe the real escorts were the hoes we slept with along the way

PiperBigBell · 2021-09-05T03:24:49+00:00

The goal is seduction is not to fuck a bunch of women. Seduction is an end to whatever you want it to be. To get a girlfriend, a harem, a side piece, casual sex, serial monogamy. You can use it for whatever you want. However not all sex is created equal.

There is a world's difference between some fucking you because they are contractually obligated to, and one fucking you because they thought you were the shit. The sex women give you when they genuinely desire you is the most ego lifting shit you can get.

You feel like more of a man after. You feel more confident. You feel more genuinely valued. You value your own unique brand of masculinity more because that's what she wanted you for. You get more long term sexual satisfaction because you can train her to do what you want. You're thinking too small here.

apex_pretador · 2021-09-05T01:35:11+00:00

Dude, if seducing a woman is the same for you as paying an escort, go with an escort, if your time is so valuable that you waste a fortune seducing a real woman, go with an escort, if you want to live in the clouds, go with an escort... if you just want to unload and experiment, go with an escort.....Your question makes no sense at all.

fr0ntsight · 2021-09-05T03:17:18+00:00

Your lucky to live in a country where this is legal. I spent time in a country where this was legal and it was so nice and way cheaper. There is definitely a case for dating and stuff but it really nice and convenient to just get laid real quick

TheNerdsQuest · 2021-09-05T03:10:28+00:00

Speaking for myself, the feeling of being legitimately desired by a woman is totally different than the feeling of being with an escort who is only there for the money.

I have nothing against sex workers. I am very grateful for them. However, there are certain holes inside of me they just can't fill, if that makes any sense. And I mean that in an emotional way, not a sexual way, lol.

apex_pretador · 2021-09-05T04:06:03+00:00

Emotional connection is the difference

rickyfranchise · 2021-09-05T04:34:22+00:00

OP states he doesn’t care about what other people think yet makes a posts asking WHY don’t men just pay for escorts lmaoooo.

Only example I can give you is imagine the kid in school who’s father donated to the basketball team and in return he gets to be a benchwarmer on the team. He didn’t earn the spot it was transactional. The girl don’t like you for you it’s just all business and if that’s what you want then by all means

BatsmenTerminator · 2021-09-05T04:36:55+00:00

Escorts should only be used as sex practise. It has helped me. Also, I find it easier to open up to escorts and has helped my game i think Hahaha. But I'm a degenerate so don't follow my lead

Cosmokram3r1 · 2021-09-05T05:39:21+00:00

I'm with you on this one brother but this ain't really the sub for this. The guys on here are all about seduction and game and shit.

I'm not emotionally available at the moment. I just came out of a long term relationship and I've been having a huge battle with bipolar disorder that I was diagnosed with 12 months ago. Point is mentally I can't deal with the whole seduction shit since it'll fuck with my mind, so I just see escorts instead.

Like you said, these girls are usually unobtainable anyway for most guys, so I'd rather just pay for my food rather than work for it. Both ways are fine, and usually I do both at the same time but when you have a really really good escort who's hot and really knows how to provide a good girlfriend experience (GFE), I'm happy to do that and it keeps me going.

When I'm emotionally available I usually do both. Try to get girls on Tinder and shit but I also see escorts on the side.

I've been with escorts in just about every country I've traveled to lol I'd consider it as one of my hobbies really. Money comes and goes but experiences and fucking hot girls stays in your memory banks, rather than spending all this time and money on girls who you don't end up fucking anyway.

Plus being single has amazing benefits, so I like that I can have a GF for a few hours a month and just go on with my life, doing what I want when I want.

Darknissxxx · 2021-09-05T04:01:20+00:00

Me and my friends used to say this why waste money and time on women who might or might not sleep with you when you can waste money on a girl who will waste no time to sleep with you

Alex_O7 · 2021-09-05T05:21:13+00:00

So you pretend to live in a country where having sex with an escort is cheaper than go clubbing?? Lol

Anyway that's the weakest mentality a man could ever had, as if fucking a bunch of escort is the same than fucking a bunch of girls met and seduced in person.

I may suggest you to rather "waste" (in this case not so wasted) your money in a good psychologist to learn exactly why you are so insecure about yourself that you need to "boost your numbers" then pretending you don't care about what other thinks, but still asking others if your ideas are good and of course you have to feel to have fucked X more girls than the average dude (probably not even mentioning most of them where paid to have sex with you).

SDdude81 · 2021-09-05T06:36:11+00:00

If your goal is just to sleep with a lot of girls and you don't care that you're only having sex one time a week, then escorts are the better option.

If you want to have a lot of sex then having one or two girls you can regularly sleep with is the better choice.

Personally I want to have sex with a hot girl a least four times a week. Paying for an escort four days a week is simply too expensive.

maliguru · 2021-09-05T02:45:34+00:00

Where’s the fun it’s like paying for the prize in a game and skipping all the fun.

rudebwoy100 · 2021-09-05T05:31:55+00:00

If you're at a point in life where you don't want a relationship but you still want sex/intimacy then seeking escorts is a perfect solution. The issue lies in the fact that in a lot of countries prostitution is illegal and there aren't many avenues to go down such a path; most of those avenues are going to be either seedy & dangerous(street walkers) or overpriced due to capped supply.

The U.S for example is a country where prostitution is illegal and any escort who's even half decent looking is charging $500 or more per hour and most likely gives mediocre service because of a lack of competition hence it's a huge waste of $.

Only if you're in European countries where it's legal, South America or South East Asia is seeking escorts while you're focusing on yourself and building your career a viable option and it's quite sad but it's the reality as the tradcons in most of the world dictate the laws of the land.

socozyinhere · 2021-09-05T06:03:25+00:00

yes.

Prankishspace4 · 2021-09-05T06:13:22+00:00

Genuine question here but as a 21yr virgin who isn’t confident with girls is it worth it just paying for an escort to lose my Vs and get my confidence up?

Ensifror · 2021-09-05T04:39:34+00:00

Escorts are cheating. And don't provide the same benefit of providing an opportunity for self improvement. One of the reasons you cold approach girls is to get over approach anxiety. Texting a hookers just won't do that.

michelle961 · 2021-09-05T03:23:42+00:00

I agree with you.

Odd-Opening-3158 · 2021-09-05T04:20:32+00:00

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2021-09-05T03:11:07+00:00

don’t go to the gym, get really fat and spray paint a six pack on your gut

Ohhhwordddd · 2021-09-05T03:50:01+00:00

?? Bro you tweaking. Escorts are least $60 at least, I can go to my local bar or Rec room and pickup chicks, you crazy son

Woujo · 2021-09-05T04:06:48+00:00

The point of seduction isnt to put your dick in as many girls as possible. It is to develop a skill that can help you get a fuckbuddy or a real relationship. Also the conquest is fun.

Banging escorts is sad and pathetic. They are not into it and usually try to end it as possible. It is one step away from rape because they dont want to be there. Id rather fuck a woman who liked me and wanred to do freaky sex shit with me because it was her fantasy not cuz I have her $200.

But jt doesnt look like anything will change OPs mind so go buy escorts.

truthbomb999 · 2021-09-05T04:24:52+00:00

A few of the peoples’ goal on this sub is to sleep with as many girls as they can

Not sure there's a competition out there, but I would be happy with good, regular sex...

Isn’t it better, cheaper and more time efficient to go with escorts over seducing random girls?

Of course it is, especially in other countries

Considering the amount of time spent in a nightclub, I could easily hire easily two escorts

I like clubs for the music and the people, the women are just a nice bonus...but you do you

Why don’t more people consider this option?

Because they think they are above having to pay for sex while rationalizing that buying dinner, drinks, etc is exactly the same thing...it's a logical fallacy.

2021-09-05T06:44:15+00:00

I’m one of those who “I have to try everything in my life” and well, if you like to have sex with emotionless wooden piece who do not enjoy any hit you give them,fakes moans and want you to go away as first as possible, and all that with a coast of 50/100 dollars..GO ON BABY !

MalibuProducer77 · 2021-09-05T05:24:09+00:00

I do see your point OP. In my honest opinion, I can only see paying the ones that are only 9s and 10s. Because, those are the types of women 99% of men just cannot get. Even for the guys that are handsome with some social status, they still can't do it 99% of the time. And most of those girls just wait around for either a 10/10 guy, or a rich guy/combination of both. That's why you see the men with super high value only getting them lol. Think about it, how many guys here on Reddit can really pull a 10? Especially on a consistent basis? I thought so 😂 That's why my stance is, if you do, go for the 10s only. Still try with normal 10s too, but we all know the uphill battle that is...

tinyrickmadafaka · 2021-09-05T05:48:52+00:00

OP what country do you live in?

Ray2020K · 2021-09-05T05:54:07+00:00

My goal is not to sleep with as many women as possible. But it's okay if that's what you want.

I see your your point it would save a lot of time. Please practice safe sex.

Why don’t more people consider this option?

For me it is illegal and I want a connection with a woman. There is also a debatable moral question.

I see your point it would save a lot of time. Please practice safe sex.

Oirman · 2021-09-05T06:36:00+00:00

I’m not into game just for sex. I enjoy the chase and the thrill.

I’ve fucked loads of hookers and it’s never as satisfying as being with a woman who genuinely wants you.

Finding hot, sexy women who adore you is absolutely where it’s at imo.

Any fat ugly old Joe can buy a hoe.

2021-09-05T06:37:37+00:00

I have only had sex with escorts. If it wasn't for them I would be a virgin at 32. I simply don't believe men and women are supposed to interact in our society (in the UK) much less do intimate things with one another.

Edit to add: And in the UK, most escorts are old, ugly, entitled and expensive. It's a real money sink, but it's better than never having female intimacy.

Title	Seduction vs Escorts?
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Date	September 5, 2021 1:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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