So I learned this vital rule last night...

the_life_is_good · 2016-08-16T14:21:13+00:00

If you say her name alot in conversation it builds trust between her and you.

And you get to remember her name lol. I feel your pain. It's happened too many times.

unclesteve_12 · 2016-08-16T15:08:32+00:00

If she found it funny, you could have followed that question up with another ridiculous name and just smiled. They would have thought you were fucking with them. And if you played it cool. They could have went along. lol I've been in odd situations haha

Archangel_White_Rose · 2016-08-16T16:08:14+00:00

The only thing that killed the energy between you is you thinking you killed the energy between you two. I forget their names all the time, even after I sleep with them. I don't care, I'll tell them I'm inebriated and bad with names. I'll tell then they should get a better name, maybe even give them a new nickname. Point is, the biggest cause of you fucking up is you thinking you're fucking it up

slickdevil1 · 2016-08-16T16:16:47+00:00

I recently met a girl and forgot her name too, luckily i got her number though. I just saved her as "wednesday" and at some point in our chat i asked what her name was on facebook, i want to add her but i can't find her. Lucky for me she had two first names, so i could play it off. There are a few tricks to ask for her name without "asking" for it.

Always remember the fucking name!

raimondi1337 · 2016-08-16T21:49:08+00:00

Create a pet name on the spot, pass go collect double points.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2016-08-16T15:31:19+00:00

When you first learn her name, say it out loud three times while you slowly study her face.

This will ensure that you remember it and also makes her feel special. Remember that a person's own name is the sweetest sound to their ears.

tramplemestilsken · 2016-08-17T00:52:18+00:00

I've done this a few times, and actually what kills it is being insecure about not knowing her name. Everyone does this, it's late, you're drunk, it's hard to hear, she wants to fuck you so she really doesn't care if you heard/remembered her name. But she definitely doesn't want to be seen going home with someone who now looks like a insecure chump.

Next time if you make a blunder, just remember that you don't care. You're a man, and things like spilling your drink, forgetting a name, tripping over someones foot, don't phase you. You handle them with class, and expect that from the people around you.

kinpsychosis · 2016-08-16T20:11:53+00:00

I don't know, I don't think it's that much of a fuck up, you could have also easily salvaged it by teasing her.

"Oh shit sorry, that's my girlfriends name"

bobvex · 2016-08-17T02:34:43+00:00

Did this Friday. Her name was Cheyenne. I followed with "I've never been in Cheyenne. DMHS

AshyBoneVR4 · 2016-08-17T05:07:07+00:00

I damn near never remember their names. That's why I always ask for their phone number first. Once I get their number I ask them to spell their name. It's become such a habit that even the ones I do remember their names, I still ask them to spell it when I get their number.

ThrowMeTheRock · 2016-08-16T22:52:50+00:00

This doesn't just apply to women. Anyone you meet, you should make an effort to remember their name. It builds trust and shows you are genuinely interested in getting to know them on a deeper level. This fosters friendships and allows you to introduce her friend to someone you met earlier in the night.

stuntmanw · 2016-08-17T03:39:12+00:00

last ditch effort I ask for her number and say to put her name in because I don't want to spell it wrong

SeinoMore · 2016-08-17T07:13:54+00:00

I called a girl by her surname after sleeping with her. It was the wrong name but pretty close. I managed to get out of it though. Phew!

recyclablebanthas · 2016-08-17T07:44:44+00:00

Tl;Dr: remember her fucking name.

Kind of falls under the category of be present & pay attention to the girl, which would be the larger rule here.

l3lades · 2016-08-16T23:06:29+00:00

No shit sherlock

Viped · 2016-08-25T15:50:05+00:00

Happened to me too last night, f-closed still tho :) Still can't remember her name.

Title	So I learned this vital rule last night...
Author	Skullydugg
Upvotes	190
Comments	31
Date	August 16, 2016 12:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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