Some guys

mmmeadi · 2026-03-23T05:39:55+00:00

Why do women make some guys work so hard to have sex and other guys don’t even have to work for it.

Sexual attraction.

Medium-Music8318 · 2026-03-23T06:05:50+00:00

Guys with these 3 traits always succeed Confidence, assertiveness , and a take or leave it mentality ,

nuckingfuts0 · 2026-03-23T07:40:55+00:00

It depends on what her type is and what she's attracted to. They can get sex whenever they want easily and they have almost an endless amount of guys to choose from so they are going for only who they are attracted to.

Vox_Dissidens · 2026-03-23T08:50:37+00:00

Guys get hurt by this because they think the answer is “she would do more if she found you more attractive”.

But the answer isn’t that simple. She might be totally in love with you, and genuinely think you’re the most attractive man on earth - but she still won’t call you daddy if you don’t give off daddy vibes.

That is to say, the masculine, animalistic, confident leader in sex gets the “pussy thrown at him”. The comforting but utterly edgeless guy gets a long wait for the missionary position.

The ideal is to learn to embody both.

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2026-03-23T13:38:03+00:00

Few, very few guys give the signals that guarantee the sex will be good and the social interaction hassle free. Its like diamond in a rough. So when they do meet that guy they know they can trust him with the whole process and so they throw caution out the window. Remember when you used to think geez if i was a woman i would throw myself at every guy i met ? They too want to do that. But they know that most guys are not ready to receive them gracefully. If you go in with an aura of "i can handle ANYTHING" and if you dont give off the impression that it would be a social loss for her to be seen with you, then its basically a done deal.

MetalHist · 2026-03-23T13:18:06+00:00

some dudes hit the genetic lottery lol. It's that simple

Carrera1107 · 2026-03-23T05:38:51+00:00

Maybe their appearance, game, and money.

jordaboop · 2026-03-23T05:41:57+00:00

Why are some foods eaten so readily at the drop of a hat, and other foods are passed on until theres no other options left?

Because some food is nicer than others.

Immediate-Round-9050 · 2026-03-23T07:16:59+00:00

Either they have an elite skeletal structure, or they are high status.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-03-23T12:31:05+00:00

To some she is very attracted to, to others she is not that attracted to or no longer attracted to. If a woman makes you work hard it’s because deep down she is not that into you. You are just “ok” but nothing super exciting for her.

Kinda like the difference between seeing a 5 out of 10 girl and a a 10 out of 10. Sure many of us would fuck the 5 out of 10, but oh boy if the absolute 10 comes along thats like a dream and would go the extra mile that we wouldn’t do for the girl who is just a 5.

The difference is women are more likely to pass on the guy who is mid because they have tons of options, they are not as desperate for sex with anyone because they can easily get it everywhere.

Most guys however will take any opportunity they can get to get laid even if the girl is not really that hot.

IndividualPlay5178 · 2026-03-23T22:27:03+00:00

Thats very simple, if a woman wants to have sex with you will likely succeed. If she is not interested, then no amount of effort will work.

Its not about the effort, its simply how attractive you are to her.

Thats why improving your looks, sense of style, maybe broadening amount of women you casually meet, contact instruments you use or venues you go to is more important than whatever pick up b.s you work on.

Jack26918 · 2026-03-23T06:11:28+00:00

Some women are hoes, and target lock onto certain men as fellow sluts.

vertascend · 2026-03-23T11:08:19+00:00

I guess buddy; this is the difference between settling for someone and actually being sexually attracted to someone;

Sometimes it all depends on how you make them feel which determines what they do for you, both physically and emotionally

And sometimes they just like to tear you down and break your frame because they know their kitty has power over you … so they make you work for it because you are over confident; and this point gives you a big insight into the character of the girl

Trying to understand all girls by the same metric has been an age old question even they themselves cannot comprehend and it should not be tried to be understood by us; you just have to turn yourself into the guy she will do those things for, instead of complaining why she’s not doing it for you and if it ain’t working… then bounce

EveningBeginning3922 · 2026-03-23T08:14:23+00:00

Mood ,sexual attractiveness some voice some acting some handsomenoss some type match Its changes among man and womans mood

Severe-Doughnut4065 · 2026-03-24T04:26:13+00:00

The more you try and put them on a pedestal the harder it will be for you to

OkBus7641 · 2026-03-23T07:07:49+00:00

Its either status, money or game

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2026-03-23T07:49:02+00:00

Because the other guys have game and you don't. Because women are allowed to find some guys attractive and others not.

ETA: I'm guessing you wrote this while you're drunk and in your feelings, seeing as you also wrote similar posts in other subreddits. Sober up, and lay off the sauce. It's probably the reason why you're having problems losing weight. I didn't lose weight until I got off the alcohol. Excessive drinking also leads to anxiety disorders and increased panic attacks.

Newtabs9 · 2026-03-23T08:50:54+00:00

same as some women have all the men drooling over them.

Why is this ?

very strong attraction. The guys who women use 'super like' for on tinder

lovevamp3 · 2026-03-23T14:07:13+00:00

Physical appearance and being unconventional to some degree. Whether that be someone who is slightly rebellious, someone who does what they want without the approval of others, someone who has a very “take it or leave it” mentality as someone else commented.

This cannot be forced either. I think your best bet is being authentically yourself. Women can sense someone who is performing & though you make think you’re saying and doing all the right things it still won’t get you where u want. Women like a man with a Back bone

InfiniteRestaurant21 · 2026-03-26T11:12:41+00:00

Why are some guys willing to go above and beyond for certain women whilst completely ignore and show no interest at all to other women?

observer2121 · 2026-03-23T23:03:55+00:00

This is such a weird post. The answer is because women control their bodies and can do what they please with them and if they don't want to sleep with a specific man then they don't have to. If there is a man with charisma or money or good looks that they just don't want to resist then they don't have to. Go find someone or treat someone in a way that they won't want to resist you.

Bright-Cost3196 · 2026-03-23T06:18:29+00:00

Being tall and handsome. This is why I quit on dating as a 5'9" brown guy. I am meant to die alone.

Title	Some guys
Author	Less_Tangerine8001
Upvotes	67
Comments	55
Date	March 23, 2026 5:34 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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