I’m starting to really create a ton of abundance with women in my life, and although I’m not fully where I want to be, I am starting to see it. Without getting into too much detail over the past 10 days I’ve brought about 3 girls home from parties, and have had 4 girls ASK ME to hangout (2 from tinder, 2 from school) of which I rejected 2 of them, not to mention a lot of success previous weeks too, but this week in particular was crazy.
The NUMBER ONE THING that has helped me is realizing sex isn’t everything. If this was last year I would’ve pounced on every opportunity for it, but I’ve reached the point where it’s cool if it happens but it’s not something I need at all or really even want that much of, and let me tell you girls respect that. Look there are times where you gotta give it to her, but I’m just saying consider staying cool if the opportunity arises. Once you realize you don’t always need sex, you start giving way less of a fuck. Mostly because you know there’s nothing controlling you.
Look this stuff takes a lot of time, I’ve been working on this for almost 2 years now and I still see tons of room for improvement. It takes time for you to realize your value and then even more time for other people to realize it. So give it time, keep grinding and stop making women/sex your main focus
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