This video is worth a watch. Too often this community feels like they NEED to force alpha status, but you can own other aspects of game whilst being introvert

pjhollow · 2013-08-27T06:23:30+00:00

Like everything else, you have to focus on your strengths.

I can't speak about on behalf of all introverts but I connect the best with women when I'm one on one, in a relaxing places.

These places may include just sitting on the couch watching a bad movie, getting a cup of coffee, or on the deck outside of a noisy party.

In the end, if you're more comfortable in certain situations, there's a good chance it'll show through in your confidence.

big_ol_dickhead · 2013-08-27T17:11:17+00:00

Introversion can make pickup seem impossible. I've found my best.. "routine" we'll say. Just being myself.

Seriously. In the moment, no stress, shown off with confident body language. Whenever I'm not interested in what is going on, I show disinterest by not keeping strong eye contact or looking off. This is easiest outdoors for me because I fucking love nature. Since I have quite a wide range of interests, lots of people tend to say something that'll get my attention. Whoever peeks my interest I have a chat with them, joke around. Key, I don't make the conversation for the group, I look him or her in the eye and genuinely chat with them. I've found people tend to try and jump in as your value rises. I keep it short and don't talk about myself unless people ask. Surprise, they usually do.

Positive attitude and a genuine interest goes far. I think it's rare. Not trying to convey anything, but letting it out when people ask.

It's great. I'm myself, people take a huge liking to me, and I have high value. No extroversion needed. This works on guys and girls.

I suck at bars.

Vinnieswan · 2013-08-27T14:09:20+00:00

This has absolutely nothing to do with seduction at all. This sub reddit has completely gone over board in analyzing every situation. Seriously, who gives a shit about introverts Vs extroverts? It doesn't matter. Just go out and talk to girls. It's stupid posts like this that add no value to discussion and just continue to have people sit on their ass and not talk not girl's because they might miss the” “updated” content posted on seddit. I will keep this in mind when I am out talking to girls. Thanks OP!

paki123 · 2013-08-27T19:24:09+00:00

I don't disagree with the sentiment and I'm not denying that introversion is a real thing. What seems way too common in this subreddit, and in reddit in general; people use being an "introvert" as an excuse to be a bitch. I know because I do this a lot.

Tickler3 · 2013-08-27T12:54:14+00:00

Being an alpha male has nothing to do with being introverted or extroverted. An "alpha" male is just somebody who is confident, strong, in control, etc... Being an "extrovert" is only necessary to meet people at crowded bars

FountainsOfFluids · 2013-08-27T13:17:55+00:00

Several people have mentioned "Models" by Mark Manson over the past couple of months. It's about creating a life for yourself that naturally attracts women. I haven't finished the book yet, but so far I think it's the ideal "game" for introverts.

skippwhy · 2013-08-27T16:35:44+00:00

I'm an introvert but this video is stupid. Extroversion is definitely more effective in picking up women, at least in most settings.

GreenSmaug · 2013-08-27T22:04:28+00:00

Commenting so I can find this later

WilliamBlaked · 2013-08-27T04:56:22+00:00

That was a great video. Nice post.

fragglemook · 2013-08-27T13:20:50+00:00

The video is crap, I watched ten seconds of it. Introspective psychobabble bullshit. How, dear OP, are you going to display social proof when you're a lazy, scared introverted pussy who spends their days watching self analysis vids on youtube?

How?

blinkums · 2013-08-27T20:20:52+00:00

Extraversion - comfortable around people

Introversion - uncomfortable around people

The goal is to move from introversion to extraversion. Stop being a pussy.

Title	This video is worth a watch. Too often this community feels like they NEED to force alpha status, but you can own other aspects of game whilst being introvert
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Date	August 27, 2013 4:47 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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