Been working hard on my tinder game over the past years, got thousands of matches, there are some patterns I have noticed.

Some girls are obviously not there to meet up (big surprise right) and in my experience there are "types" of chicks that never ever ever lead to anything.

And trust me I've tried everything lol.

There goes :

No bio girl : she's either not trying at all or she's too hot to need a bio but still genuinely wants to meet a cool guy. The former will ghost you on the first or second message. The latter usually won't bullshit you and straight out ghost you if you're being needy or not asking her out quick enough.

The party girl with weird shit in her profile/bio : she's bored and needed another source of easy dopamine. I legit never ever met up with one of those girls, pretty or not. They'll bait you into being needy and then ghost when you don't entertain them anymore.

The one word answer girl : she isn't into you or is lazy to type. 30% chance to turn it around by leading to a date and not writing more than her

The always dismissive girl : she's bored and probably tindering on the toilet. Never intended to meet up, just there for the free validation. It gets painfully obvious when you try to engage her and she ghosts or changes topic.

The girl who ghosts you : do I have to explain that she isn't interested? 10% chance to turn it around by sending a funny "resuscitation text", maybe she was just too busy to answer and actually really liked you. Most of the time she saw your text but but wasn't intending to meet anyone.

The meanie : will try to tool you and bait for validation or flat out insult you based on your opener. Frustrated and probably vegan, run away as she never intended to meet up.

OK I hope that helps. Tinder is frustrating and the key is screening girls.

You'll feel so much better about tinder when you stop thinking that every girl is a viable shot. My best odds are 5/10 matches who give their number and I spent a lot of time making my profile and text game good.

Focus on girls who are actually trying to meet up. With some common sense, they are actually quite easy to spot. Those actually invest in the interaction.

Or, better, start approaching girls in real life 💜

EDIT : Oh wow we're going to hot today amirite.

Feel like I have to address something though.

Point of the post isn't to say tinder is trash. Most of the girls I'm dating come from tinder because coronavirus made me lazy to go out.

Point of the post is to tell you that you don't have to try that hard with those types of girls who don't want to meet up anyways.

I used to be believe that every girl was winnable, never have I been so mistaken. This post is here so that you guys don't make the same mistake.