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[–]ready-to-rumball 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where do you live, Utah?
[–]Shintaigou 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Try different activities! Like hiking, wall climbing and other things.
[–]OJSimpsons 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like hiking, but I dont think most women want to be approached in the middle of the woods by a man she doesn't know, especially with spotty cell coverage. Something like a Greenway would probably be good though.
[–]PlusGoose8448 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually if it's a popular hike it might not be as bad as you think.
[–]Equivalent_Current_3 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same situation as OP here. I climb sever times a week. Guy outnumber girls 6 to 1 it seems. There is a large climbing comunity in my area, its just that every girl is with her guy, or its all guys.
[–]Alextryingforgrate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or go to the grocery store, library, etc anywhere else but the night life in small towns. Chances are people are just wanting to get drunk on a friday night after a long week of work.
[–]diceykoala 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Whole foods grocery stores are always loaded. Yoga is always loaded. I mean shit when I go to church with my parents, I have lots of young women smiling randomly at me. Too bad I'm not religious, maybe you are...
Think of the activities people with vaginas do. Do them.
Think of activites people with penises do, dont do them. (Bars, video games, overworking)
When I hang out with guys, do only what I want I never meet women. But when I go places with female friends, my world opens up. They have their own activities and places to go, tap into that.
Gyms, online dating, bars are in my experience always saturated with testosterone, women are literally put off in those settings and its hyper competitive, and you have to try very hard. Yoga? Bro you just smile say hi stretch a little and say do you come here often?
[–]letmereaddamnit 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know, ice been meaning to do yoga. I'm in my early 20's and have the flexibility of an oak.
[–]agaren 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Solid advice
[–]MuertaDeLS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Has this shit worked for you??
You ever pick a girl up in a supermarket? You must have a perfect image and a Benz lmao...
[–]Humblepie125 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Then do daygame. Far superior than drunk game
[–]letmereaddamnit 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I'm a beginner so I figure drunk game is easier
[–]Moikepdx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
An activity with a high female to male ratio is easier. It sounds like you’re playing in hard mode and adding difficulty by drinking.
[–]letmereaddamnit 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ok. Give me some examples?
[–]Moikepdx 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dancing, concerts (depending on music), aerobics+yoga+pilates
Depending on your age, college too. Women outnumber men on most college campuses now.
If you're in Alaska you're screwed though. Move to a state that has women.
[–]MuertaDeLS 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move to a state that has real women that don't lie
[–]gigolobob 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Concerts sound like a terrible idea. Loud music. You won’t even be able to hear each other
[–]Equivalent_Current_3 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same thing. In a city area with 250k people including 50K students. Last night a friend and I went to a random pub across the street from the college. not a single girl was there.
Burgers were 8/10 though
[–]letmereaddamnit 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome. There's this bar in my town. That serves baked potatoes topped with mashed potatoes. It's delicious. Why yes, it is an Irish bar, how did you know?
[–]JacobMoogberg69 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They are at home with their cats.
[–]MuertaDeLS 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Closest thing I've seen to facts on Reddit 💯💯💯💯💯
[–]loofyd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty sure there are other activities women do in your town
Look into those - doesn't have to be a bar hopper to score
[–]garryy_ 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
did you check your basement? we all know where you like to hide them
[–]gigolobob 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Forgot i had one down there lol thx
And this helps how⁉️
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
fuck your funny garry
The less populated a locale is -
The better your chances of ANYTHING there. Few if any exceptions to this.
Don't let society and the media lie to you. There's so much pioneer opportunity in smaller cities, suburban places, rural towns... People talk and hype because of the BOREDOM and the politics that's really it....
Mess around you'll find your first ex-wife out there wherever you're staying at.
[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
So do daygame - problem solved.
[–]MuertaDeLS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
That easy huh
The number of times I've seen daygame mentioned... More in this one thread than in my entire life......
Some of the people that come online are cute I swear. The issues being discussed go deeper than day vs night smh... This isn't a place for Chad people, guys that have to sweep women off their doorstep...
[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
No idea what you're talking about, men have been talking to women face to face for the past million+ years..
Except for the past 10+ years.
Daygame is a normal way to talk to girls..
Chads have nothing to do with anything..
But feel free to just make excuses.
It's easier than putting in the effort.
Just don't complain you don't have an abundance of girls in your life..
Because that's 100% YOUR OWN FAULT if that happens.
[–]averagemaoenjoyer 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
20yo virgin here, definitely getting laid very soon tho lol
been doing daygame on my college campus for the past week and ive been n-closing and getting dates with almost every single girl. at around 20 approaches now. shit is getting so easy and my ability to communicate and get physical with women is going through the roof, it’s honestly mind-blowing.
anyone can feel free to ignore this advice, but they really do so at their own peril. cannot recommend highly enough.
obviously lift and get a good wardrobe, but im just an average skinny ass white dude with some cool clothes and i do really well.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
20 numbers/dates out of 20 approaches.
You're either a natural or very good looking or both.
Good for you, seriously keep up the momentum and strive to improve every day.
[–]poppingcandy2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
that's normal when you know advanced game like me. 20 approaches = 20 lays
[–]effreek 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
check DM's. Coaching possible?
[–]averagemaoenjoyer1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
careful buddy make sure whoever you hit up is legit before dropping that cc haha
not true lmao
[–]averagemaoenjoyer 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
sorry, i mistyped. i meant to say i have n-closed almost every single girl, and close to 70% have agreed to a date. nonetheless, it’s going great.
i have some experience because i used to do a public outreach kind of deal for an organization and it got me talking to lots of unwanting strangers who would constantly reject me.
i also am pretty tall, but like i said i’m also skinny af. ive lifted on and off since late high school but my genetics for muscle building are shite.
but yea right now i just wanna get laid so im spending the majority of my time approaching, hanging w friends, going on dates or watching videos about game on yt.
hope this clears things up a bit
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Set up all the first dates straight to your place and your close rate will multiply.
might try it eventually but i like the setting of getting coffee on campus
my school’s campus is really nice and i feel less awkward escalating physically in a first interaction there for some reason (obv excluding sex but yea)
[–]MuertaDeLS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Dude I’m not the OP.
I’m just trying to relate to everyone on here while being me.
Whatever works for you man but reading the comment threads it’s obvious you’re not starting from scratch here.
Looks Childhood Stable family clothes car job money smile
IT MATTERS STOP LYING TO PEOPLE ON HERE
Imma just fall back because I can tell the cultural differences between me and alot of you are just too deep to connect.
I’m not the virgin here. But this isn’t like treasure hunting. Women should be respected. That’s what they think “daygame” is…
If it’s just normally socializing with people in the daytime then why is there a label for it?….
EDIT Abundance of girls huh. And they have no idea how some guys really are either smh.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"Whatever works for you man but reading the comment threads it’s obvious you’re not starting from scratch here."
I've been doing daygame for the past 13+ years, 500+ lays, just from daygame. 100+ girls a year on average and well over 1,000+ total from daygame, night game, online game.
This isn't theory.
I never said looks didn't matter, they help.
But real* game over **just looks all day long.
There's posts in this sub daily from guys who are very good looking, hit the gym, yet struggle with girls or are virgins.
Why?
Because just looks doesn't equal girls into your bed.
Real proper game does that.
"Looks Childhood Stable family clothes car job money smile"
All these things you say are important, yet no reference to knowing game.
This is the typical advice that the average person thinks is what will get you girls..
Then why is that various surveys all say that if you take away the top 10% of guys sleeping with most of the women, the other 90% of guys only sleep with 1.5 women in their entire life?
Because they listen to your cookie cutter advice like this that gets you nowhere except the friend zone no fuck zone.
[–]MuertaDeLS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't really care for giving people advice on anything in 2021. It's just tragic how much the human fabric of society has deteriorated in my lifetime.
So you're telling me the Brads and Chads don't inherit shit from their dads. K that was just funny I'm sorry.
But anyways yeah maybe I'm getting too many f'n "Seduction" posts in my feed but it's starting to sound like way too many men care about this shit way too much... And yet some still wonder how feminism exists...
Before you get all Alpha just take a deep breath k? Bc I'm tired of typing for nothing. Especially with other people's long winded or just lost in space retaliations toward me.
[–]averagemaoenjoyer 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
hey man, i’m actually a radical feminist lol. there’s nothing wrong with getting laid. equating having lots of sex with misogyny honestly makes no sense, especially today when gender and relationship norms are disintegrating.
you can make all the excuses you want for you not getting laid, but at the end of the day the only one you end up fooling is yourself.
This is what happens when people jump into a conversation without understanding prior missed points.
EDIT Just starting to think some of you on here really are way too naive about the modern world. It makes alotta sense considering the effects of social media and the internet on just about everyone under 30...
I've had enough sex in my life to be tired of meaningless sex. To know also that meaningless really means meaningless.
Trying to help people here but "the road to hell is paved with good intentions"
[–]cytomome 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's like we need an app for this or something.
[–]bigsharkswipe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're at home watching TV ordering chad off Tinder
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Is this the UK!? I find it a very similar situation in the UK. You see couples, not a lot of singles. I blame the fact that they can get CHAD on their smartphones.
It's the same in the US. No pun intended
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From what I've seen from YouTube infields and read on this very subreddit, women are MUCH more responsive to cold approach in the US and generally won't write on facebook if a "random guy" says hi to them in the street.
[–]MuertaDeLS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait that shit actually happens???????
I know FOR A FACT that women are raised different, grow up different, think different and act different SIMPLY BASED ON WHERE THEY ARE FROM AND WHERE THEY LIVE.
If the readers think about it all this makes perfect sense. It’s just a matter of being in the right places at the right times.
EDIT Okay dude. I gathered your tone from re-reading the comment. Whatever you think you learned from clinging to social media (inc. YouTube) pales in comparison to what real-life experience actually does and means.
I don’t know anything about this MUCH business. Like I said. In New York they’re almost all obnoxious (don’t listen to me or anyone else, visit NYC and try me). In pretty much every other part of the country women are a lot more normalized and stabilized than in the 8-10 major cities here and in quite a few smaller but relatable locales.
I could really teach but people aren’t ready to learn.
[–]agaren 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Being a woman in 2021 is strange. Most women seem to be uncomfortable going places alone so you’ll likely only see them with their boyfriend or friends. Go to a dog park or the regular park or join a cooking class or take dance lessons or anything else you like to do!
[–]letmereaddamnit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You know, I've tried going to some botanical gardens and a Japanese garden but there were no women there. It's not an easy time to be single I guess
[–]agaren 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel that. I hate dating apps and dating app culture but caved in and made a profile because I could be certain that single women were on there. In the “real world” all the women I’ve hit on are taken, if I can find any at all :(
Swear to God I thought you were a woman trying to give advice.
Okay EDIT don't trust anything. I'm just trying to help you guys. It's 2021, you were right the first time.
Women have been ruined by extreme feminism, politics and social media. Prove me wrong Reddit.
It's not an easy time to be single I guess
Excuses, there's 4,000,000,000+ (billion) women in the world, women everywhere.
[–]letmereaddamnit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah apparently just not in the places I go in the demographics I'm looking for
[–]TheCaribbeanRedditor 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As has also been mentioned - if you're in your 20s, there MUST be college hangout spots that you can go to, and since at almost every college women outnumber men, you should be well set
[–]diceykoala 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Benz in a supermarket? Dude. I dont even know where to start. If you think a Benz gets women good luck.
What works with women is being a normal guy, smiling, talking, flirting and asking a women out. Where are women? If you ever been to whole foods youd know. I'll leave it at that. Whole mother fucking foods. End of story.
[–]LeavingituptoBeaver 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meetups.com Groups of things that you enjoy doing! One connection can lead you to “the one” Volunteer work also and you will feel Great!
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Salsa lessons
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