Women's respect

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2025-05-01T19:51:06+00:00

Stop allowing disrespect

Excellent_Reply_8166 · 2025-05-01T20:02:21+00:00

place boundaries. if someone is making fun or tries to humble you, put them in their place. remain calm but make sure you don't sound too arrogant, otherwise you'll be taken as the one who's being disrespectful. I would google as the details will help you master this

also really important - take care of youself, as in be well groomed.

- caring about how you present youself will also make you more confident, dressing elegant even on a budget shows you respect yourself and therefore others will respect you also

- do any strenght workout, even bodyweight ones, you'll start feeling more confident showing yourself you can do it. might not be easy at first, but even your posture will change by strenghtening your back muscles -> natural confidence.

avoid complaining, find an inner balance, as it will help yourself be unbothered by people who later on you will realize are just not worth it. Focus on respecting and trusting yourself first and the rest will follow.

michaelangelo_12 · 2025-05-01T21:50:23+00:00

You don’t go from being disrespected to respected. You make it clear you don’t tolerate or accept disrespect—period.
From there, if people still wish to disrespect you, you either check them or don’t associate with them.
In the case of women, the moment she disrespects you have to check her the FIRST time. And I mean set a hard boundary you don’t accept that from her.
If she doesn’t get it, then you don’t associate with her ever again.

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2025-05-01T20:35:12+00:00

Society makes the mistake of not making women earn respect as men do. That's why so many hoes think they can do this shit

Should just tell the bitch to fuck off and cut them off

ConsequenceProper363 · 2025-05-01T20:03:56+00:00

You must have boundaries. If she crosses them, calmly tell her you won’t tolerate that kind of behavior.
In my experience, when a man stands his ground like that, I always respect him

It's also important to be masculine, very hard for me to respect feminine men. I get turned off.

Many women naturally test boundaries, and some might show disrespect, sometimes it’s just part of their personality.

If she continues to disrespect you even after you have told her, then she’s not someone you should keep dating.

From the very beginning, be honest about what you're looking for in a partner.
Most men don’t like constant criticism or complaining, gently bring it into a conversation as you're getting to know her.
That way, she’ll understand your values and what kind of things you look for in a partner/girlfriend.

If she does something that crosses the line, you’ll know how to respond.
Protect your boundaries but still give her an emotional connection.

Be kind and, do not play games.

Caqumba · 2025-05-01T23:44:05+00:00

It's simple in concept. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you don't want to be treated with disrespect, don't allow it. Will some people leave your life if you create that boundary? Yes, absolutely. But let's face it, you never really wanted those people around anyway.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-01T20:46:37+00:00

What do they say, and how do you react when this happens? Can you be more specific because I honesty have no idea what you mean.

Please explain the situation..the words you interpret as disrespect. And the words you use to respond.

RealisticDiscipline7 · 2025-05-05T00:26:10+00:00

One factor no one has mentioned yet is how they witness others treating you. For instance, even if you’re unkempt, and timid looking, if there are already women talking to you, new one’s will be afraid to come at you with disrespect. It’s a circular solution but a reality.

PrinceDestin · 2025-05-01T22:43:24+00:00

You either stop talkin to her , or put her in her place

Nothing wrong with calling a disrespectful girl a dumb btch and getting on her case

Not my approach but my cousin does this when they act disrespectful or weird and outside of him getting the satisfaction it just serves as a good laugh I guess

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2025-05-01T20:04:28+00:00

You probably look weak. This doesn't happen to me because of how I come off to people. If go to the gym they'll probably respect you more for example.

GatsbyCode · 2025-05-01T20:03:12+00:00

A girl started disrespecting me because I didn't fuck her the first night after we met at a club, when we were alone in my place

That's how it happened for me

TakeAChillPill99 · 2025-05-01T21:48:51+00:00

I don’t think there’s a way to control how others feel about you or how they behave towards you

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-02T02:47:42+00:00

Setting boundaries is important. But just know if you have a mentally ill woman, she will almost never follow them. I've even known guys like 6'2" firefighters and military who got their asses beaten by their much smaller partner. And I was married to a woman with BPD myself. Bad women do bad shit. Try to find a good woman who respects you even when you make mistakes.

WatchMyHatTrick · 2025-05-02T05:20:07+00:00

If women are disrespectful from the start, I am not going to work to get their respect. It is a testament in my opinion of how they typically treat most men initially, being more prevalent nowadays given the truckloads of attention women get from hundreds of men on social media. Inflated egos and arrogant personalities are much more common now than I would say 10 years ago.

Naturally, my attraction to them bottoms out as soon as I get any sort of unwarranted blatant disrespect.

Glacier_Sama · 2025-05-02T08:41:11+00:00

Check them immediately. I don't care if it's your mother, sister, or girlfriend.

Whatever you let slide is the current boundary of how far they will go with their disrespect.

LeoSayu · 2025-05-02T12:00:56+00:00

Ignore and disgust and distance yourself from them

GordonGecko69 · 2025-05-06T21:19:13+00:00

DHV and social proof.

SilenceHacker · 2025-05-01T20:56:20+00:00

If you can cut them off, do it.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-02T01:27:27+00:00

you set boundaries, just like trump did with the border ; thats setting boundaries you might have to work on your character too thats part of it,

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-05-01T20:24:15+00:00

Be worthy of respect.

You are blaming the wimrn around you for not taking you seriously.

But why not take some feedback from the world:

Where could you grow as a person?

Title	Women's respect
Author	Junior_Helicopter702
Upvotes	27
Comments	36
Date	May 1, 2025 7:47 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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