You should have a fucboi mentality!

Zoidberg22 · 2018-02-27T04:54:57+00:00

One of the things that opened my eyes is that women want to be desired by men. Don't be afraid to show the girl what you want

recyclablebanthas · 2018-02-27T06:51:15+00:00

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My secret to getting laid is to act like a fucboi.women do love them even though deny it.

Just going to add to this.

This whole attitude works, but only on a specific kind of woman. Women who aren't looking for a relationship, or women who have baggage.

Which is FINE. A lot of guys, including myself, have done or are doing time dating such women. It's fun.

As long as you keep one eye open for the girls with baggage who are trying to earn their way to a relationship with sex. A lot of drama can come if you aren't screening correctly.

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You should have a fucboi mentality!

The line to be drawn here though, is that not every guy who comes here is after casual sex. Some are after relationships. Some are on the "casual sex until they find a relationship" thing. Either way, the mentality you describe is not necessarily the best for all situations or goals.

It tends to screen girls out who want a relationship.

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Yeah if you want a Easy sex just approach the girls that are inexperienced.

The issue here is that inexperienced often equals insecure and not that good at sex. It also often involves women who try to trade sex for love; women who want a relationship but don't know the healthy way to go about starting one.

SJ_Shark_Byte · 2018-02-27T05:26:33+00:00

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WamblingSoup · 2018-02-27T05:41:22+00:00

Yeah I’m just gonna ignore this and continue living my life as someone with dignity, thanks.

dan_from_accounting · 2018-02-27T07:53:22+00:00

dudes in here responding to this post earnestly like "women love to be desired!""no thanks, I have dignity" lmfao

BlankImagination · 2018-02-27T07:52:39+00:00

So you dress in the "in" style, make sure you're well groomed, go for girls who you know would be into you- specifically targeting girls who are shy, quiet, and/or awkward, and generally inexperienced- make your intentions clear (VERY clear), and aren't too picky about what the girl looks like as long as you find her vaguely attractive.

It appears to me that the same way you only want someone to fuck and only go for the bare minimum, the girls you go for only want someone to fuck so they do the same. The same way a guy would go for a girl that's just up for sex, a girl can have the same attitude. You're looking for easy targets, but you're just as easy as your own targets who "just want the D badly."

Stay safe.

NoRiceForP · 2018-02-27T06:37:03+00:00

I like some parts of this. But I disagree with other parts. Here's my take on your thoughts:

Hide the bad boy side and only show it occasionally. Being a 100% bad boy isn't a sustainable way to hold attraction as it gets old fast. Instead, just when she thinks she has figured you out as the good boy who would never stare at her tits and smirk at her, pull out that fucboi side. As an added plus doing this spikes your mystery factor up.
The fucboi haircut works not because it makes you look like a bad boy. It is simply a solid hair-styling choice. There are definitely other options. Come check us out at /r/malefashionadvice for more info!
I assure you those "nerdy cute" or "shy" girls are just as used to guys wanting them as the rest. Guys dig cute girls. This is just how they get guys to adore them. Those are usually the more scary ones from my experience.

Anyway those are my thoughts. But I guess whatever works, works.

ANAL_CRUMBS · 2018-02-27T07:30:51+00:00

This post is hilarious, I love it

plowzedong · 2018-02-27T13:43:44+00:00

Ya, actually being the guy that will pull the trigger, who will unapologetically try to fuck her (without dragging her on some boring dinner or movie date and nervously working up the energy to make a move) actually has it's own sort of value.

As far as I can tell, this works on most girls. But especially inexperienced girls or girls who present themselves as virtuous. But it works until it doesn't. Eventually the girl will want something serious. Or she'll tell her friends about it, and they'll (out of jealousy) shame her into ending it. Either way. If you were upfront about your intentions and fuckboy ways, she's not going to cause to much drama since she knew what she signed up for.

It IS a terrible way to build a relationship or find a girlfriend. If you create a fuckboy frame, the girl expects a fuckboy. If you start acting like a pussy, she's going to quickly be disappointed and find someone who's more genuinely alpha.

But ya, you'll pull this way..

BestSC86 · 2018-02-27T16:47:08+00:00

Something is off about this post....

What kind of fuckboi thinks that 7-7.5 girls don't get much guy attention? And it rarely matters that a girl "doesn't know" that she is an 8...every guy within a 100 mile area knows whether a girl is that attractive. And unless she has been in an amish community full of boys scared of showing interest in a girl...ain't no damn way that a girl that is hotter than 8 out of every 10 girls around her isn't going to quickly learn that fact.

Look you have to have more than one type of game....and being more toward the sex spectrum than being toward the "love" connection side is definitely better. But being a fuckboi is death in many places like any high school, workplace, and most high quality women. Particularly in high school...getting the reputation as a fuckboi will destroy your chances for all but the fugly, damaged chicks because reputation is such a primary concern. You might get a couple of decent chicks in the beginning but as soon as the word spreads that you fuck over Genny then your quality goes thru the floor because no attractive girl in such a setting wants to be known as another notch in the fuckboi belt.

This is definitely a strategy for sex in clubs, bars, raves but let me translate....dude goes to events and scours the venue for girls who are not getting any attention from other guys (4.5-5HBs, boney, chunky, whatever that puts other dudes off) , them gives them attention and whalallaaa. Which is fine because every guy basically sets his own fuckable standard for girls which why every single post on reddit talks about the HB7 that the dude gamed....well yeah, because said dude had to be a least somewhat attracted toward this girl to put the effort in so she would have to be somewhere above a 5HB and a Hb7 is a safe number.

There are lots of dudes who set their standard at the real HB10s in order to pre-reject themselves for any number of reasons (wanting a hot to girl to validate their self-image, afraid of actually getting a girl, afraid of sex, etc).

Lots of us would help our game by having reasonable standards or using this approach.

onfire9123 · 2018-02-27T10:05:49+00:00

Something about education not furthering a man's mating eligibility bothers me.

Valor0us · 2018-02-27T16:11:39+00:00

If you're going for any old bimbo girl out and about then sure. If you're trying to attract successful, interesting, strong, quality, and confident women then I don't think your fucboi mentality will get you far.

DomVaalis · 2018-02-27T17:13:35+00:00

Everyone wants to be acknowledged in some form. It's a shame so many people Choose to be anything other than themselves. You can get a girl, who is mutually dtf, and still be a Gentleman (until it is time to be a Savage).

51f8mous · 2018-02-27T18:53:13+00:00

This could be boiled down into one sentence...

Display your sexual intentions from the onset.

Aeon199 · 2018-02-27T06:27:37+00:00

Where do you get your social courage? What drugs do you use?

No way I could ever act like this, like ever

bassbutterfly · 2018-02-27T18:47:27+00:00

Ok actual, real life girl here gasps and I promise you this doesn’t work lol.

calsypher · 2018-02-27T12:45:27+00:00

Nah im good fam

CharacterNote · 2018-02-27T10:23:10+00:00

I wonder what the PRO INDIRECT guys think about this sort of post! :)

Aeon199 · 2018-02-28T04:28:35+00:00

My secret to getting laid is to act like a fucboi.women do love them even though deny it.If you go to a club/bar/party just dress in skinny jeans,get a fucboi haircut,smell good and check out a lot of girls out.Just be cold blooded and check out girls assets, and make sure they notice.Some will give u eye contact and then u make your move.I just give out a vibe that I wanna bang without saying. Usually when I'm near a girl I know who is feeling me,I stare here and there at her ass or tits while we talk.It makes her know I want her bad and it boosts her ego.

Not going to vilify anyone for thinking like a typical guy, but I thought I would post this comment from a girl (from another forum) about how women like to be approached online, specifically explaining why a guy should NEVER mention a woman's looks on a dating site:

Short answer? Because it's creepy and weird.

The long answer: because it feels gross and objectifying. Because looks fade. Because no woman wants to feel like you don't care what she has to say or who she is, that you just like her because you think she's hot. Women, very broadly and generally speaking, are looking for a relationship with someone she actually likes as a person and who likes her back as a person, not just someone who gets turned on by her body. A body that will change with age, could change significantly after child birth and what if a possible accident happens that leaves her disfigured somehow?

I'm just putting it out because this flies in the face of SO MUCH of what I see on here, and it's against the idea of men having lust, desiring sex instead of a relationship, and so on.

But this is apparently how woman see this (or at least this one woman.)

What to make of this?

It makes me feel guilty for checking women out, for even having lust and desire in the first place.

DimitriT · 2018-02-28T11:00:17+00:00

You go out to the club where girls usually go to find something casual. Then you scan the room for horny/available girl. Just talk to everybody and their body language will tell you what they want. You are honest with your intentions and it means that girls will reject you right away if they don't want sex. You will be left with girls who wants sex!!

It's not a secret. That's why people go to clubs.

tony18215 · 2018-02-28T17:04:59+00:00

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lv_21 · 2018-02-27T10:51:00+00:00

The fuckboy is called the fuckboy because he is the boy who fucks. Emphasis on BOY.

You can be a fuckboy and get "bitches" with ease but it takes a man to do something in this world.

jovaughndabeast · 2018-02-27T04:48:40+00:00

Very interesting point thank you.

Title	You should have a fucboi mentality!
Author	tony18215
Upvotes	40
Comments	68
Date	February 27, 2018 4:31 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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