I thought you guys would like this.

http://imgur.com/q1f0kHU

I've been a lurker on this sub for awhile and I've gotten some really good advice. This post is partly me bragging but I think there is some good information to be obtained from this. I've been dating this girl for about a month.

1) The fact that me being driven and having goals in my life is the first thing she listed. I never really realized how important that was. Often times I've turned down hanging out with her to study or kicked her out of bed to finish a project. She's not my top priority in life, I am my top priority in life.

2) "You like to go out and have fun and do things" I've read on here before to be a tourist in your own city, which is exactly what I did. Last night we got dinner at this sort of hole-in-the-wall restaurant that I had been to before and walked around town and ended up getting some ice cream.

3) "...be comfortable around each other..." When she said we can be 100% ourselves she was right. I'm completely comfortable with who I am and I don't act any differently when I'm with her. Just recently I've started dating girls for their personalities and I've been significantly happier. Instead of trying to change who I am so they'll like me, I be the person that I want to be and find a girl who clicks with that. If things aren't working with a girl, and I'm being 100% myself, then it's no sweat boba fett. We're just not gonna work and that's that.

I hope you found this informative or helpful in some way.