A little back story.

Wife had affair, office romance. Left me for the dude. I got the ILUBINILWU, I feel like you're holding me back, He's my SoulMate..The next day, she was out on dates with him, a week went by and they broke up, she told me that he said, she needs to work on her marriage, STBXW got mad at me about that because she thought I spoke with the dude, I didn't. Couple days later, they worked it out..cooooool..

Some.time goes by and she moves out, I stayed in the house till early July, then went to my own place while the house sold. Tried to keep in contact with my step child, who the other day said "I want you to know I love you, but we don't need to hang out, but you can send me a text from time to time" through a text..nice, feeling a little discarded from that .. But, a few weeks ago, we went out for a day trip and I thought all was good, we were connecting, she talked about her first job, issues she sees with her mom, etc...she did try really hard to get me to hang out with my STBXW and her AP...NO THANK YOU. But, she then just stopped..I knew it was coming..

Especially after the house was closed on, very recently, and we each got our equity checks..and I got served the divorce papers as soon as I walked in, it was efficient I guess..

Apparently STBXW, the AP, and step daughter are all taking a big trip out of state..I imagine it's gonna be the "secret engagement" trip while we wait for the divorce to be finalized..meanwhile..im trying really hard to get my hobby back up and running, and seeing a return for some of the things I need to do it..and no I don't live in a state that recognizes alienation of affection..

This all started 3 months ago..its been a hell of an emotional ride, especially the other day when I got that text..like I said..knew it was coming..both STBXW and Step daughter have the grass is greener syndrome..

Anyway, I just had to rant there for a little bit.