I've had this happen twice now and it's a bunch of bull. I befriend a guy and we have a normal platonic friendship, he has a girl and I have 0 interest in him and could care less who he dates and of course I respect his relationship. But as things go on, he starts making a weird thing out of our interactions like saying perfectly innocent things I'm doing are "innapropriate" and pretty soon his girl is texting me, very jealous and wanting to meet me because she's suspicious.

I cannot emphasize enough that he is the inappropriate one, often calling me things like "sexy" etc even though I've made it clear I'm not interested in him. I have a theory at this point that LVM friends and acquaintances intentionally formulate these situations with attractive women to make their gfs feel threatened because it makes them feel wanted and powerful. It's a gross ego trip they pull and I'm sick of being in the middle of it. They intentionally jeopardize their own relationships just to make their gfs jealous for this selfish fantasy of being wanted by more than one woman and I want zero part in it.

It's revolting. I've read the FDS handbook a bit and I know that LVM and NVM often think they're the shit because of the partners who treated them well and now act like they're hot af and have huge egos. But using your female friend to create love triangle bullshit is next level narcissism!

The kind of man that would intentionally lead you to feel threatened and jealous of his female friends is a vindictive piece of shit. A HVM would be quick to tell their girl that that female friend of his is really just a friend. But LVM do the opposite.