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[–]iaintgonnacallyouFDS Newbie[S] 401 points402 points403 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Here are a few comments under this post:
“He got his step daddy license!”
“So she doesn’t want a date with this thoughtful king?”
“This is why I hate y’all, my dude wants to take you out AND found you a free sitter as well. And y’all just go and complain on Twitter”
“This is lowkey wholesome”
“Green flag! What’s his @? Asking for a friend”
🙄
They’re all blatantly ignoring the fact that this woman does not know this man, yet he wants her to leave her child with his mother, who could be a pedophile, child abuser, ANYTHING! A man’s feelings are NOT more important than your child’s life!
This is a red flag for me.
[–]CatSweetsFDS Newbie 190 points191 points192 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If something happens to the child, I bet the same people would go ballistic saying "what kind of wh*re let's her children with a stranger to go out with men?" 🙄
[–]Impossible_Mud_7599FDS Newbie 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Drinking that đź’Ż juice
[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach
People seem to have completely forgotten the risks of spending alone time with strangers. Otherwise I can't seem to understand how so many people think it's perfectly fine to leave your kid with someone you've never met.
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 199 points200 points201 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How DARE a women put her child's safety above a man's pp??? 🤬🤬
[–]MadamLeFayFDS Newbie 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My first thought was, "so his mother can steal the child???".
I hate how this is how I have to think. Always side-eyeing the shit out of people, all day long...
[–]throwra_wormswritingFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It makes me wonder if he even asked his mom or if he will just force her to be at his beck and call.
[–]queen_beastmodeFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
his mother, who could be a pedophile, child abuser, ANYTHING!
Women with sons are sus when considering if they're responsible childcare. It's fucking true. Like there is a non-zero chance that any woman who has boy children is going to double down on the internalized misogyny in this fucked up society.
[–]iaintgonnacallyouFDS Newbie[S] 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m a mom of two boys and personally, I disagree. I will have failed as a mother if my children are anything like their abusive POS dad. I hate using this word, but they will be woke. I can’t speak for any other “boy moms” out there though.
[–]SaffroFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So happy mums like you are raising the next generation of men ❤️
[–]NessaMonsta17FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have two sons, and a daughter and I am doing the same. No means no, to walk a way if a girl rejects you the reasons don't matter, do not be a creep and stare, respect boundaries no matter what, they do not want to be tickled then stop, they do not want to play with you leave them be. My sons are 10 n 14. And they are amazing, they understand alot.
Etc, etc. Also teaching my daughter to voice her boundaries. Teach boys to respect boundaries. Showing my sons what sexist behavior looks like so they don't act like that. Showing them educational videos of women being harassed in the street and why it's unacceptable. Why those men are scummy.
This has opened their eyes to other people's behavior. They know girls are not born to be there maids, but have a right to there own happiness and well being. So they learn how to cook and clean for themselves. How to help out. No bums over here.
I have 3 very self aware kids. I will continue to reiterate these teaching so they can pass it down. I also let them know bad advice, and bad teaches get past on to their friends from other friends. And they shouldn't be a follower of that.
[–]greenbagmariaFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saw this and thought of FDS
[–]MsXxSelfDestructxXFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't have kids but if I did I wouldn't trust my mom for shit to take care of my kid. Like you said, you just don't know about his mom... or how she raised her son.
[–]not_a_paper_pusherFDS Newbie 214 points215 points216 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This makes me think the mother is willing to babysit her son’s date’s children in hopes of offloading her son onto this new woman.
[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 83 points84 points85 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Probably still living with his mama as well.
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie 127 points128 points129 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m convinced that some men begin new relationships believing they can pick up where they left off from the last one. That’s the only way the logic of “leave your kid with my mama, whom you’ve never met, so you can go out with me, whom you also never met,” makes any sense
[–]namasdatingFDS Newbie 111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Taking a moment to reflect on the fact that some men think ANYONE can babysit a child.
[–]MsXxSelfDestructxXFDS Newbie 99 points100 points101 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
My oldest brother was going through some tough times homeless, bumming it. He has a very pretty 12 year old daughter, my niece- and I think he has 50/50 custody(?), not sure what went on but his ex-wife obviously kicked him to the curb. Anyways, my niece was hanging out with me and my family for a weekend, cause my parents found out my brother takes my niece walking around the city, mall and generally learning how to be a bum cause he doesn't have a car or home, really disgraceful.
My mom took my brother and her granddaughter to Wendy's for lunch and treated them both. According to my mom, my brother went fucking bonkers and started screaming at my niece, at the top of his lungs to "HURRY UP AND PICK SOMETHING OFF THE MENU" in front of everyone. Once he was done screaming at her, he took his turn very chill, picking whatever he wanted off the menu for himself. Chicken tendies and nuggie wuggies for my brother, trauma and verbal abuse for my niece. These dudes are the type that volunteer their mamas to babysit.
[–]Guilty_AssignmentFDS Newbie 70 points71 points72 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hope someone reported that incident at least to the girl’s mom and he no longer has any custody at all. They’ll give partial custody to an abusive literal bum, and still men try to say the court system is biased against fathers.
[–]MsXxSelfDestructxXFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, I don't remember the details but my mom did tell my brother off about his yelling at her. When my mom dropped her granddaughter off at the mom's place, according to her it was very obvious the mom keeps my brother and our side of the family at arms length. Everyone called him out about how horrible he is to her, unknown if the niece's mom knows.
[–]ciceriiFDS Newbie 80 points81 points82 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He’s comfortable dumping someone else’s kid on his mom like that...what would he do to you?
[–]NowTrulyFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It literally sounds like he’s asking her to willingly walk into a hostage situation and offer up her own kid as tribute.
What happens if she doesn’t like the date and wants to leave? When she won’t put out? When she “displeases” him in some other way?
Good God.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Creepy
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