Women are significantly less likely to date Bisexual men when compared to men dating Bisexual women. This once again debunks the "Feminazi" propaganda about so called "Toxic Masculinity" supposedly leading to Homophobia.

imextremelymoderate · 2024-02-02T12:44:44+00:00

Is this because, to a woman, a man having sex with another man makes him less masculine and therefore less attractive?

Low_Rich_5436 · 2024-02-02T13:50:24+00:00

The usual theory is that bisexual men are seen as less masculine.

I would propose maybe another factor: jealousy.

Men usually have a somewhat limited access to sex as compared to women. Straight men that is. Bisexual men can, even more so than gay men, choose among a vast panel of eager partners.

pyr0phelia · 2024-02-02T14:02:34+00:00

Women don’t want to work in the bedroom. Their goal is to be idolized without exceptions.

Expert_Doctor98 · 2024-02-02T18:39:53+00:00

This once again debunks the "Feminazi" propaganda about so called "Toxic Masculinity" supposedly leading to Homophobia.

Definitely. Homophobia is not a masculine trait per se, as a bi man i've noticed women are as homophobic as men, but women are simply less direct or less violent about it.

I think women avoid dating bisexual men because women are more posessive than many people believe. They think bisexual men are unstable, unreliable, likely to cheat, so they don't want to date them in order to avoid jealously.

Bisexual men are also considered less masculine because of the stereotypes we see on TV, there is a really poor representation of gay/bi men for the most part. Bisexual women on the other are depicted to be either sexy or heroic, or both.

ThePureFool · 2024-02-02T16:31:13+00:00

Can confirm.

Generally they don't ask, but volunteering that info as pillow talk post coitus can generate startling results.

I speculate each man you have had sex with counts for at least 20 bodies in a negative usage of body count.
Men don't want women with triple digit body counts.
Women will consider men with triple body counts as long as those bodies were enviable women.

blackmamba4554 · 2024-02-02T14:08:52+00:00

Exactly. Lots of cis women are afraid of competition. There are plenty of bisexual or bi-curious men. Almost all of them are in closet. Also it because of porn industry standards that men have no rights on same-sex experiments.

inndbeastftw · 2024-02-02T15:13:22+00:00

They'd literally be competing with the world and that's just too much lmao. This topic is well known so why do they seem surprised that many guys are closeted?

Cuntbag42 · 2024-02-02T16:18:21+00:00

I remember being on various dating apps and being astonished at how many bisexual women were against dating a bisexual man. Genuinely baffling, even now.

It's part of the reason I stopped using dating apps.

aigars2 · 2024-02-02T14:44:31+00:00

I can assure you. Bisexual men aren't less masculine. That's stereotypes and TV nonsense.

Joe-Amico · 2024-02-02T21:17:01+00:00

Whatever doesn't benefit them is bad. You can tell their full of self serving bs because they label themselves feminist. "Mic drop", tip you waiters, drive home safe.

bluehorserunning · 2024-02-02T19:03:09+00:00

Which gender is more likely to date bisexual people of the same gender?

anxietyAHthowaway · 2024-02-03T03:02:40+00:00

More for me, ty women

EricAllonde · 2024-02-03T04:18:58+00:00

Another example proving the Iron Law of Feminism: “Whatever feminists claim, the opposite of that is the truth.”

No-Recognition-4033 · 2024-02-03T05:51:40+00:00

As a bi dude, this is probably just denial that people are into both.

I don't know a single bisexual person who doesn't have an anecdote in which a gay person just assumed they're straight, or a straight person just assumed they're gay. Or a gay person just assumed they're gay.

trowaway123453199 · 2024-02-03T15:39:44+00:00

i think a significant part of it is insecurity, i have heard some gay men say that they dont mingle with bi men cause they think they will be replaced by a woman sooner or later, and i think that women, knowing how easy it is to get sex as with other men, also fear that they will be replaced at any moment.

Carlos9944 · 2024-02-04T21:17:44+00:00

Good post!

No such thing as "toxic masculinity". Just a way of saying "won't kiss my ass".

AlternativeIcy1183 · 2024-02-02T21:04:30+00:00

Never heard men call women "lesbians" as an insult (because its just not.)

However I always hear women calling men gay as an insult or "in the closet".

Fruit_Shalad · 2024-02-03T00:32:07+00:00

Sad, but true.

queenAlexislexis · 2024-02-03T22:24:22+00:00

Crazy how they don’t see bi men as manly for being actracted to men and woman

BoringExperience5345 · 2024-02-04T13:00:13+00:00

I am bisexual and from what I have experienced through bi men who are married is they had to come out when they were already married to women, the out bi men who try to date, like myself, have a much harder time with both men and women believing you are secretly gay, or on the road to discovering it . It is literally infuriating and I think why a lot of bi men will stick together and seek each other out “looking for other married bi men” et. because even other bi men are suspicious of you if you haven’t been married and think you’re gay. I’m pretty sure this is hell.

Mundane-Experience50 · 2024-02-04T19:02:57+00:00

Despite everything, being a man is cool. You get to pee standing up. That's pretty cool.

AvailableAd1232 · 2024-02-04T21:26:55+00:00

They supposedly love LGBT, just not in their house lmfao.

Liesa92 · 2024-02-02T23:18:07+00:00

Ok, this is not a peer reviewed study, there might still be a lot of work in it but it's so far not "accepted" into science which is a whole other conversation,

I read this article and it does not answer any questions that arise when you read it, If you are against bi people at least try to find proper literature

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