Disfunctional Captain 4: The Omega male

Persaeus · 2018-02-26T17:29:28+00:00

this post is so full of contradictions that the resulting caricature is hard to imagine as really existing as a single person. primarily he cares but he doesn't care.

omega is the absence of both beta and alpha value

Next to impossible.

to the extent that omega man finds himself married and with child, yes you're right. the woman that chose omega man is a co-dependent worthless POS. she can't be fixed. cut bait and move on.

black_jack_davy · 2018-02-25T21:53:48+00:00

Sounds a lot like a Vox Day gamma also. Not sure if more introspection is the right answer, since that's probably what got you into this situation in the first place. Need that "miracle conversion or intervention".

RedPillCoach · 2018-02-25T15:09:58+00:00

What is the correct ratio in an LTR between Alpha and Beta traits?

hummus_plate · 2018-02-25T16:55:06+00:00

MMSLP?

johneyapocalypse · 2018-02-25T18:24:15+00:00

Huh.

Continuing your line of thought, why not 1,000,000,000,000% / 1,000,000,000,000%?

I can think of a few reasons.

I've read through all the dysfunctional captain material (notice the 'y' - see below) and this sounds like something entirely different, even though I like to her her some ice cream as much as the next guy. The thing is, though, BPP and a dude named dandar4600 postulated a fourth kind a couple years back. Their definition much better aligns with Jackten's original post.

I see a lot of incongruity in your post.

To me it reads like this:

You're a loser who plays a lot of video games and ignores the needs of your pregnant wife, at least while playing those very video games. Your wife won't have sex with you. Probably something wrong with her, right?

You think your wife is supposed to do things for you - like lose weight - as opposed to doing things for herself - because perhaps, you inspire her to do so, amongst scores of other possible reasons. Lots of people call that entitlement.

You claim not to care about anyone but yourself, yet claims like that are often hard to verify. Mother? Father? Grandma? Child? That cool uncle? Favorite first grade teacher?

You are a "leader of none" and a "follower of none" - which probably sounds cool while you're doing whatever you do as an 80th degree world of war guy/dude/gamer/bro - but is really just the equivalent of so many Japanese men existing in the system today as mentioned in Stoney's panel yesterday.

As this avant guard Clint Eastwood-like selfish asshole, you are only married to your wife-who-won't-have-sex-with-you - for the sex - or so you keep telling yourself as you work to achieve level/grade/equivalent/whatever-the-fuck-it's-called 81 in world of warcraft.

Cool story bro.

I think you should read the sidebar.

p.s. The proper spelling is dysfunctional - though occasionally people use the improper 'i' like you did. Ironic considering the nature of your post. Exactly (100/100) as ironic as the phrase numerous uno, which you so artfully wrote in your compelling saga.

Taipanshimshon · 2018-02-25T18:46:58+00:00

I don’t think what you’re describing is selfishness per se. I think it’s exactly equal to drunk

RandyBumgardner85 · 2018-03-05T22:46:44+00:00

The BPD relationship led me to a forum for "men in abusive relations". This was after I had already ditched her but had never heard of BPD until I found this forum. It was actually very helpful at the time but it had a strong MRA slant, was a cesspit of victim puke and basically took the attitude that women are either wonderful angels or evil snakes and it's best to just avoid them all because we good obedient beta males can't be trusted to differentiate between the two. I was quite a respected contributor on the forum but after I read Rational Male I was abruptly banned for life without warning as I had started to suggest to people that they could have regular sex women without being in a relationship. This is the problem with MRA/MGTOW. They want to keep people wallowing in eternal victimhood and celibacy in order to prove their point.

To answer your question. I don't really no. I guess I just had my head so far up my ass and was so completely submersed in my addictions (especially computer games) that I never gave my absent sex life much thought. She was the only girlfriend that I actually lost attraction for which in a way made the relationship quite easy as she had no power over me. When we started dating we were probably both 6's but the sexual chemistry was strong. I was sexually inexperienced and just thankful to actually have a girlfriend who loved me. By the time I finally ended it I was a 7.5 and she was a 4.5. There was no bad feeling whatsoever and we stayed friends for a few years but this caused much drama in subsequent relationships.

Title	Disfunctional Captain 4: The Omega male
Author	Iammrp2
Upvotes	16
Comments	44
Date	February 25, 2018 2:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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