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ScottDurden/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:36 AM
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Translation: you don't give her tingles.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:16 AM
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Just because someone has the greatest knowledge on a topic doesn't mean he is also a walking paragon of said topic.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:04 PM
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You're talking way too much in your texts (see: 2/3 rule). Get your body fat % down & you'll have better facial aesthetics for your pics.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:41 AM
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Models is garbage.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:47 PM
1

Nobody should read this wall of text if you're not following basic red pill advice like lifting.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:30 PM
1

If you're worried about acne hop on accutane for a few months & you'll never have acne again in your life not even joking. Used accutane in high school it was godsend.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:16 PM
1

Read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" this should give you a pretty good idea of the negative effects masturbation has on the chemicals in your body.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:08 AM
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She's probably a virgin. Virgins act weird as fuck around the opposite sex. I went to college with a couple virgins (believe it or not) and they were the most socially retarded people I've ever met.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:17 AM
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Ask yourself, "Is helping them going to benefit you?". It's good to have people that genuinely are indebted to you because these people are easy to call on when you're in need of a favour, however, if it's not going to benefit you in anyway leave them to it themselves.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:22 PM
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It's the same reason girls love wearing guys hoodies & dudes buy girls panties online pheromones smell good to the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:22 AM
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This is going to sound incredibly tinfoil hat but when you go a week or so without sex or masturbation your body starts to send of pheromones. It smells good to girls & when you toss on some cologne it's deadly.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:16 AM
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I only take cold showers & don't use body wash. Let your natural male pheromones accumulate.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:44 AM
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I almost set up my shit tests because I dress like this girls almost always shoot straight to the "gay" or "hipster" shit tests I'm like ready for it I've had it so often haha.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:51 PM
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If the girl was raised with a masculine father figure present in her life & therefore has some amount of self-respect she won't put out on the first date (this isn't most girls). The only exception is if you're top 5-10% SMV then she'll usually put out regardless because she knows you'll just replace her if she doesn't.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:44 AM
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Treat them like pets.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:37 AM
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This is a great fucking story. That's exactly how you handle a situation like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 01:33 AM
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Ok, so 0.82/lbs. That makes sense. Thanks a lot for the article.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:45 AM
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You're better off reading Robert Greene or Rollo.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:27 PM
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I prefer to call it the theatre of pain.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:21 PM
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The nuclear family is basically the main element of a successful society. If men just followed their biological imperative & went around leaving single mothers in their wake the next generation would suffer because raising a child without a masculine figure present in their life would create an inferior product. This is why leftism is such an idiotic idealism because one of their main goals is destroying the nuclear family (incentivizing divorce, the "strong independent women" movement, gay marr…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 04:50 PM
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I think marriage will eventually just be abandoned as a social convention.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:23 AM
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She was in the right here. She wasn't committed to you ergo she can do whatever she wants (albeit this is still a red flag).
/r/askTRP30/12/17 04:13 AM
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..and what if you're dealing with women so flakey that you can't even get 4-5 texts out of them within a 24 hour period? If you're getting this sort of response time your SMV isn't high enough & she would probably flake anyway.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:43 PM
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Anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing. Moderation is for cowards.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:18 PM
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Give up the sexting & such. You're communicating that your time is worth very little if you're able to hold a text conversation throughout the day.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:49 AM
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Going straight for drinks can be hit or miss. This. I generally stick to 4-5 text rapport before grabbing her number. Shooting straight to logistics in 1-2 texts can be overwhelming for most girls.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:45 AM
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I went monk mode for a full year best thing I've ever done. If you want to get over this girl though best thing you can do is accumulate some girls in your phone. Tinder, number closes, acquaintances, etc. Just stack up girls in your phone. This will act as a fail safe against oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:23 AM
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Most girls who are going to those things are severely damaged (usually alpha widowed). They're not worth much more than being a plate.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:11 AM
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I'll break this down for you in terms of your own biology. Your body's primary goal is reproduction & this girl is your only option so your brain forms a strong chemical bond with her because she's your only option for reproduction. This is why it hurts so fucking much when she dumped you because you just lost the chance to further your line. The cure for this is to raise your value (fucking lift) and always have multiple girls on the go at the same time. You should always be dating atleast 2 gi…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:52 AM
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Bowser is Chad
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 03:37 AM
5

Way to fucking ruin my childhood with feminism.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 02:12 AM
1

Basically recommending alcohol when going out to game girls.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 11:46 PM
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tricks
/r/askTRP28/12/17 11:42 PM
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bro go start a family Not in this lifetime, bro.
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 11:30 PM
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The n-word thrown in there hahaha
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 05:55 PM
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This is exactly what I was going to say. Meditation is huge for being present.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:02 PM
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I can't remember who said this but it's the most attractive girls that are the most insecure (which is also why they are the most attractive).
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:00 PM
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Make it about you & not about her (i.e. "I need time to explore myself as a person.").
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:53 AM
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She said she's "busy" not traveling. This is pure hamstering no girl is ever busy.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:53 AM
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If a girl flakes & doesn't reschedule she's not interested it's that simple. There will come a day when you will be a girl's Chad & she'll be hitting you up multiple times a day just begging to hangout with you & then you will realize that all the other girls that flaked really weren't interested.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 11:50 PM
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If she's drinking to the point of being sick even if she's with you it's a red flag & not LTR material.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:29 PM
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STI's are largely a myth by feminized society to keep you from pursuing your biological imperative (fucking a lot of girls) & instead persuade you to find one girl to marry because it's "safer" that way. You never truly know a person she could be fucking other dudes raw. Spinning plates runs roughly the same risk as LTR's with frequent sex. Spin plates & always use condoms.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:02 AM
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basic bitches and women with low self esteem This is the vast majority of women.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 10:05 PM
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The clown is usually invested in the outcome (if people find him funny) the other guy who just generally doesn't give a fuck usually doesn't care about the outcome.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:45 PM
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Even if you've put years into developing your SMV tricks still help. I'm not sure what you're considering tricks (push/pull, disqualifying/qualifying, statements not questions, etc). I wouldn't consider any of those particularly immoral.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:03 PM
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There's one of two things that merit a "we need to talk". You got caught cheating or are presumed cheating. The attraction is gone and/or she's fucking Chad & the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 05:09 PM
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I've fucked more girls in relationships than single girls. I would recommend it for anyone.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 05:06 PM
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I couldn't care less about conventional romance. Girls just want to be fucked like an animal & kicked out.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:57 PM
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This is exactly it. I don't go actively searching for something I don't really believe is out there but if I find it I'll consider an LTR. I've had a unicorn before 1-2 n-count HB8 mormon girl in college. I don't expect to ever find anything like it again but yeah, they do exist.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:26 AM
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Oh man, those are high goals for n-count. I would be shocked to find a girl in today's day & age in her 20's with an n-count lower than 8-10. I never plan on marrying (or even a relationship) so high levels of promiscuity just plays into my favour.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:50 AM
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23, no kids & girlfriend I'm on my way
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 06:47 AM
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I never masturbate. Just practice semen retention between sex. There's no point in dissipating your sexual energy by blowing your load into a sock & flooding your body with prolactin. Transmute your sexual energy into your mission instead.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:15 AM
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I just say "I just haven't found the right girl yet." (giving girls I'm seeing false hope).
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:12 AM
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Check your testosterone & your diet.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 06:10 AM
2

I'll definitely order Bang & Day Bang. I've been watching Roosh on youtube for a while now seems like a very red pilled guy. Thanks for the info.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:55 AM
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I was told this was some sort of "pickup bible" & reading this felt like wading through the blue pilled'ness to find little nuggets of red pilled'ness. The book began by labeling men who want no emotional connection with women as narcissistic & saying how hypergamy is a myth like what the fuck how is this one of the most recommended books on TRP.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 02:31 AM
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Getting braces is so fucking worth it. It was honestly one of the best things I've ever done girls like legit ask me to smile for them & it melts girls at the bar.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 06:17 PM
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Cold showers & meditation. Quit porn if you're watching it.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 04:50 AM
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That's a lot for a warm hole to masturbate my dick into.
/r/MGTOW25/12/17 01:17 AM
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It's just social conditioning. It's the same reason you think people should have "relationships" which are basically just made up titles & obligations. We're all just animals driven by our biological imperative everything else is a social convention.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:11 AM
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Read 48 laws.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:10 AM
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You got me there.
/r/MGTOW25/12/17 01:10 AM
1

Exactly. You should always have at least 2 girl on the go that way your brain will never form a strong chemical bond (oneitis) with one girl. Read this.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 11:34 PM
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I always thought this guy was very red pilled. This is quite the change.
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 11:07 PM
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Neil Strauss is so fucking blue-pilled.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 11:00 PM
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Mormon girls are the best. I had an LTR with a mormon girl in college & she worshipped the ground I walked upon. This girl was completely loyal & didn't care if I saw other girls. Everything she did was to please me. Edit: I'm catholic she didn't care.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:59 PM
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You'll grow out of it. It should take you 1-2 years on TRP before you laugh at the idea of putting women on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:53 PM
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The neckbeard depends on your facial hair pattern. My facial hair is basically this & I actually get compliments on the neck portion believe it or not.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:34 PM
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I love cold approach. I'm in college & never felt a necessity to have a social circle. If you're high SMV you won't need to rely on having a social circle to get girls.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:23 PM
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They're fucking jealous. There's nothing greater in life for a man than to be single in his 30's & 40's when you're fit & wealthy. The world is your fucking oyster at that point.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:19 PM
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Tinder, ngl If you're high SMV it's easy to pick up 18 year olds off tinder.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:53 PM
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I think that's just your genetics. I can cut up significantly in a month or less.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:15 AM
1

Best response for shit test on overly disciplined diet/training?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 06:14 AM
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Short & skinny = insane game required which is usually not the case there are exceptions but you're going to have a hard time if you're not tall & don't lift
/r/askTRP24/12/17 05:21 AM
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Lol this shit and "marriage is a lot of work" hahaha
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:59 AM
2

You're making noob gains & losing fat. It's the time period when you just start going to the gym when you're going to see massive changes in your body. You probably put on a bunch of muscles & lost some fat.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:58 AM
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If you're having two protein shakes a day with milk & a good source of protein (chicken, eggs, etc) for most meals with snacks like greek yogurt between meals getting 1g of protein per bodyweight is very easy. If you're skinny this should be a very easy goal. It's only when you're 200lbs or more does this become difficult.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:31 AM
1

Girls like this are usually heavily damaged and/or alpha widowed. They're good for plating but not much else.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 03:28 AM
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Advice on how to continue this without fucking it up? This is your problem. You're overly invested in the outcome which usually leads to an unfavourable outcome.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 03:26 AM
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Start lifting & eating upwards of 3000 calories/day with 1-2g of protein per pound of bodyweight. You're not going to pick up girls with a skinny frame unless you're tall or have male model looks.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:48 AM
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If I had to put a timeline on it I would say it took me 5 years of lifting, braces, etc to take me from skinny blue-pilled high school kid to Chad.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:30 PM
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Yeah, this is possible. If you're tall, lift & have game you could go out jump between 2-3 bars and probably bat close to 100.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:54 PM
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Yeah, most men never realize the true nature of women until after the fact (marriage, divorce, etc).
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:19 AM
1

It makes your skin less sensitive to the suns rays so you can sit out & tan for longer than you normally would.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 08:53 PM
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If you haven't been intimate with her yet she's not a plate just an option. I'm going to err on your side here, though. I don't like fucking often because I prefer to focus my sexual energy towards my mission. However, if you're not atleast having intimate interactions with this girl she's not your plate. It sounds like you're just stuck at the texting stage.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:44 AM
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Take melatonin. Greatest supplement ever for sleep & tanning.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:39 AM
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This was pointed out below; you're attractive enough for her to gain validation from you as an orbiter but not attractive enough for her to fuck you. I follow a rule for tinder. I build a slight rapport (3-4 texts) & go for her number. If I don't get her number then I unmatch her. If I get her number & she flakes once I delete her number. She wants you to fall into this role of providing her attention through texting (which you're hesitant of thanks to your red pilled conditioning). Tl;dr she's …
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:24 AM
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You could always just break up with her & plate her later.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:18 AM
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Lol, no girl sucks at texting. If she's flaked on you twice the attraction is gone & judging by this post you're over-invested. Delete her number & move on with your life.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:15 AM
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There's not even 30 girls on tinder in my city lol
/r/askTRP22/12/17 02:33 AM
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I've had similar experiences to this girls that brushed me off in high school, now shadows of their former self, coming around to me (after 5 years of lifting).
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:16 PM
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You should have a solid mix of inner game & outer game. All outer game = neediness & oneitis All inner game = no bitches
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:35 AM
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This is probably one of the biggest IOI's if a girl can't stop talking to her friends about you. You're basically in at this point.
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:58 PM
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I usually just follow the first rule of fight club. The only person I red-pilled was my dad.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:05 PM
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Kick her out on the fucking street. No mercy.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:01 AM
2

Fix your diet & stop masturbating. Practicing semen retention between sex gives off pheromones & smells good to girls (and yourself).
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:37 AM
1

You don't even need social circle game in college just find out when the parties are & show up. I've never encountered an easier environment to pull girls than college parties.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:36 AM
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Just unmatch. I honestly only move the ball forward with girls that you just know are game like sending you winky faces & compliments right out of the gate.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:33 AM
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You have to be an old school liberal. Modern liberalism & TRP are not compatible.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:33 AM
2

Just get a hair transplant or buzz it to a 3. I'm not even bald & sometimes rock a 3 buzz cut with a light beard. It makes you look huge in the gym if you have a buzzcut even if you have a full head of hair.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:30 AM
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I come down somewhere in the middle. I find if you go straight logistics with a girl you number closed/matched on tinder it can be a little intense for some girls but I'll never put out more than 5 texts in a convo. You can build a nice rapport with 4-5 & then go right to logistics.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:28 AM
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Fuck yeah. I had braces for 2 years one of the best things I've ever done. My smile fucking melts girls.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:25 AM
-1

I can relate to OP tall, good looking, usually when I go out I have girls approach me not vice versa ("My friend thinks your hot." or some variation). However, I think cold-approach is a valuable tool to have in your toolbox, When you desensitize yourself to most social situations it will break down barriers & benefit you in all other areas of your life not just cold-approach. Just my opinion. Don't give up on cold approach, guys.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:54 AM
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She's not sorry that she used you for attention she's sorry that she's no longer receiving attention.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:54 PM
1

I would honestly just stay with her & continue to fuck girls on the side (see Donald Draper).
/r/askTRP19/12/17 02:04 PM
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If he's good looking & charismatic he's going to have more success than someone who is book smart.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 02:00 PM
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"White God Factor" Could you expand on this? I googled this and found what appears to be a fictional book & a shoddy Roosh V forum haha
/r/askTRP19/12/17 12:11 AM
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If you're at the point where she's giving you one word texts there's no recovering. Next.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:38 PM
0

This one is a passive process. Not complimenting her on her appearance is half of it. There's many other things you can do. The base of my active game is qualifying/disqualifying. Here is a good article on it.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:34 PM
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Ok, here's my go-to neg. I never compliment her on her appearance & then I compliment her on her personality (i.e. "I really like you for your personality."). Every girl knows that her only value in life is her looks so when you disregard her looks & compliment her personality it will short-circuit her brain but at the same time come off very genuine. She will wonder what's wrong with her body that you can look past it & only see her personality. Every other beta will give her compliments on her…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:27 PM
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Photographers are so chill you could just tell them yeah I'm just getting this done for tinder or Instagram like every other guy.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:15 PM
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Right now you're her time ho. Girls use guys for their attention the same way guys use girls for sex. Right now you're her time ho & she's pimping you for your attention while she goes off & fucks some other guy.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:13 PM
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This is it. You don't have to look much more than this comment.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:10 PM
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My sister is a model & hooked me up with her photographer. It's well worth the investment. If you're looking for a really good one it will be around $500/session but I'm sure you could find some on craigslist for much less.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:09 PM
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Girls don't play hard to get. If she wants to fuck you it will be bleedingly obvious.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:08 PM
0

I keep my tinder bio short. "Accounting student (middle)" directing to which person I am in the picture. With tinder you really have to let your photos do the talking. Tl;dr girls don't give a fuck what your bio is
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:06 PM
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Eat some mexican food & shit on that bitch.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:15 PM
1

I have no idea why NoFap is so disregarded on TRP. If you're an alpha male you should be able to just reserve your sexual energy (semen) between sex to build a better reality for yourself. When you're fapping you're just flooding your body with prolactin for no reason other than you're bored or chemical dependance. It makes people fucking lazy & should be right up beside lifting in TRP advice.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:42 PM
2

You should never have to watch porn or masturbate.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:51 AM
1

get MLTRs basically spinning plates
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:51 AM
2

There's almost no advantages to getting with an ex & can have dangerous implications.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:49 AM
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Go to the gym fucking lift. Go home & google a fuck ton of questions on bodybuilding.com & adjust diet/training accordingly. Rinse & repeat.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:23 AM
3

I couldn't imagine most states not allowing a paternity test.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 12:19 AM
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Typically, if you are married, bam you are automatically the father. This is the UK, right? Fucking cucks what a ridiculous law.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:05 PM
0

Next. She would give out her phone number to Chad.
/r/seduction17/12/17 09:38 PM
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I honestly fucking love Zyzz. He probably had the greatest influence on me at the beginning of my fitness journey.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 09:37 PM
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but don't follow his example too closely Don't blast & cruise for 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 09:35 PM
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knowing full well it will not work for them I think they truly believe in their head that if their son is a nice guy he will be successful with girls. Of course, there's a lot of cognitive dissonance associated with this but girls have been known to have a bit of that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 09:11 PM
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Your grandmother sounds far more red pilled than your mom. My mother is always telling me the funniest thing that I "should settle down with a girl my age" when I'm 30. Hahaha, yeah right, mom.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:20 PM
1

This is exactly it. It was actually my Dad would told me even if you're high SMV & can fuck most girls your first choice should still be higher end escorts. It's safer than fucking tinder girls & bar sluts as well as better financially than marriage.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 11:27 PM
-1

The problem is you're taking tinder girls on actual dates. Netflix & chill is a fool proof way to escalate & get laid. Second, you could just pick her up & drive around put your hand on the inside of her thigh, make out, fuck her in the car. Instead of taking her for coffee fuck her in a park after dark.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:41 PM
1

If your training & diet is on point you're never going to experience a peak. You could have an excellent physique well into your 50's if you get on TRT when your test levels start to drop. Look at Sylvester Stallone at fucking 70. Your physique is only going to decline if you let it.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:34 PM
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She's trying to pump & dump you for your attention. Don't be her fucking time ho.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:28 PM
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I was already the sole breadwinner but I took on many household duties as well. None of it worked. Man, I laughed out loud reading this.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 10:04 PM
1

The problem is your looking for exclusivity with girls & thus get caught in scarcity. You should be lining your contacts list with girls that you can fuck. Go on tinder, hit up girls you know, get numbers. You should have your phone filled with fuckable girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 09:43 PM
4

I never experienced this in my 5 years of lifting & overall raising of SMV to top 10%. The response from my friends was more along the lines of constant inquiries of what my diet looks like, how often I'm lifting, where I'm getting my clothes from, etc. I never experienced any sort of jealousy or viciousness. It's become more of a following than anything.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:42 PM
2

Lol. Delete her number. She couldn't be less interested in you.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:15 PM
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Just throwing out a theory here. Chad fucked her & knocked her up but he's already made it clear he won't have any involvement thus she places the weight on OP's shoulders. This is why she has such resentment for him (that he is not Chad) & won't take OP's last name.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:01 PM
3

10 minutes of meditation followed by 6-8 minute cold shower
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:13 PM
12

The fact she doesn't want it to have your last name is a massive red flag. There's a big chance it's not even yours.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:09 PM
39

You would be surprised. Get a DNA test.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:04 PM
2

Hahaha, I did this in college when I was blue-pilled af. I broke up with her in like 2 weeks. Lol.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:48 PM
2

I really don't think so. 10 years ago maybe but now I don't think they can separate social media from reality.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:17 PM
1

You seriously need to reed the Iron Rules of Tomassi. Never truthfully or untruthfully disclose your n-count to a girl under any circumstances.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:10 PM
1

Probably not because they can't separate reality from their hamstering hahaha
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:09 PM
2

Social media warps everyones perception of reality. Instagram pics are so far removed from reality & is basically a depressant. You're constantly looking at pictures designed to emulate a certain lifestyle that in no way represents their reality.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:06 PM
3

30 is when you arrive. This is the point where girls will be breaking down your door to suck your dick if you build your SMV through your 20's.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:02 PM
3

The only real solution is to focus your sexual energy towards your mission in life and building power & wealth while fucking high end escorts on the side. I would rather go that route than sharing showers in the pin with big bob & being forced to eat the cock meat sandwich.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 04:59 PM
1

This is true, although, I don't think to the same degree. The coolidge effect sets in far sooner for men as opposed to women.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 04:56 PM
1

(instead i get shitfaced in the comfort of my apartment) The first part about capping out at one drink is a good idea but there's no reason for you ever to get shit faced. This is just going to destroy your physique.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:12 PM
1

This is why MGTOW & semen retention is going to be more prevalent in later years.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:35 AM
3

It's not attention deficit it's the coolidge effect. This is your biology's way of tell you to leave her to go find other girls to fuck & further diversify your genes. This is why monogamy goes against man's biological imperative.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:56 AM
1

You should be able to separate disrespect from a shit test. If she's disrespecting you often hard not. It's usually not worth it.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:53 AM
0

If you have to ask that's your answer.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:29 AM
41

The problem is you're gaming girls online where their self-perceived SMV is inflated 2-3 points by thirsty dudes sliding into their dm's from the moment they wake up.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:26 AM
2

It's so easy for guys to get caught in the soft next cycle where they're soft nexting a girl they're not fucking that's using them for attention only to allow her to crawl back to suck you dry for attention again before getting soft nexted yet again.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:22 AM
5

If you want to watch a really good video on how social media warps reality watch this.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:12 AM
3

I would only ever LTR mormon girls. Dated a mormon once & she worshipped the fucking ground I walked upon. Never get the same experience even with conservative/christian girls.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:10 AM
6

I get it way sooner like within the first month. The moment a girl starts to have feelings for me is the moment I opt out. It's like the conquest is over.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:08 AM
1

Drink coffee. Much better for game.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:52 AM
2

This should be the top comment.
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:43 PM
3

Having a muscular physique is a status symbol. People will respect you more by default.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 09:31 PM
4

If you're lazy it's probably because you're jerking off to porn & not lifting.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:08 PM
1

I wouldn't put too much weight into your high school social circle. I'm 23 & haven't seen someone I graduated high school with in 4 years. College is when you want to start really building your circle.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:00 PM
1

There's really not that many Chad's at college these days. I go to a fairly popular college & it's so fucking feminized here there's dudes walking around in chick clothing. It's a fucking mess. If you have an ounce of masculinity you'll be swimming in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 04:05 AM
1

The older was procuring her own threesome. You would be shocked how often MMF threesomes happen with college girls. It doesn't even align with female biological imperative so I'm not entirely sure where that came from. I'm guessing porn.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:55 AM
2

That's exactly it. The average girl going to college is racking up 5+ notch counts/semester. This eventually adds up to a lot of mileage. This is why I generally only go for freshman.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:49 AM
1

Water is wet, the sky is blue, & I'm shredded.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:21 AM
1

Yeah, I'll just go get married & have 3-4 kids, sounds like a recipe for a happy life. Gorge yourself, destroy your liver, I count my macros & by drink I mean water (the thing necessary for your survival). Religion & marriage are just made up social conventions to control your life & keep you producing efficient future tax payers.
/r/seduction14/12/17 12:46 AM
3

I'm 23 & most likely waiting until my late 20's before getting the procedure. I plan on becoming very wealthy later in life and having an (ex) wife & children (child support) would be very detrimental to that. Eat, drink, survive. Everything else is optional. Fuck marriage.
/r/seduction13/12/17 09:40 PM
12

I had a friend in college who could just flip a switch with girls. He would constantly alternate between hopeless romantic beta and aloof as fuck alpha. This was like a natural thing for him.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:41 PM
7

The odd time you'll actually get some honest insight but most of the time the female comments will be along the lines of "I'm 28 and have been with 2 men..." or "My roommates in college used to fuck a lot of guys. I never did.". Just completely straying from reality.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:25 PM
3

When I was in high school I had a girl straight up tell me "You would be a 9 if you didn't hang out with such unattractive people you're like an 8 at most right now." (I lifted but also generally associated with the video game/nerd crowd in high school). This pretty much shows how being around unattractive people adversely effects your SMV.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:50 PM
9

SMV for men & women are very different. SMV for women is entirely comprised of youth & looks, nothing else. The peak SMV for women is around 23. Their looks begin to fade after 25. SMV for men is many things; looks, wealth, status, game, etc. The peak SMV for men is 35. This is when you will have the greatest balance of wealth & looks. Men hold their looks for much longer than women so some even say the male SMV peak is actually 40. You should read the first rational male book then come back to …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:53 PM
11

I can't remember which law of power this is but if it's going to harm your reputation keep your dick in your pants.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:36 PM
3

These type of girls are usually seriously damaged. Alpha widowed in a harsh way.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:35 PM
8

You shouldn't be fucking below 6's.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:33 PM
3

This depends, is your SMV way higher than hers? If it is then she actually feels unworthy of you & this is in fact a comfort test. On the other hand if your SMV is equal to or lower than hers this is a very kind way of her letting you down easy. Since you only just found TRP I'm guessing it's the latter.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:30 PM
1

Thanks for editing your comment to add that last bit.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:56 AM
2

If it were me, I would start texting other girls, frequently and in front of her. You were right at the first part but not in front of her. You're just going to be creating unnecessary drama. Text other girls on the side & who knows you might find one better than your gf & you can then let her off easy.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:00 AM
13

If you're looking for a keeper it has to be 18-19. I'm in my third year of college right now & there's a very noticeable difference in girls that are freshman & girls that have been in college for 2-3 years. Even after their first year of riding the CC their temperament changes & the thousand cock stare starts to set it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:24 PM
4

If I ever reached that level of notoriety I would do anything I could to get to a country without extradition. You're not going to have any kind of a life here better to just change your identity & live out your days on a beach in Cuba.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:21 PM
1

I agree with this. Even reading that again 2 sentences sounds a little too much. That's way more direct.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:54 PM
2

I still lean towards her working around your schedule. I don't buy into the belief that girls are ever busy. I train about 1-2 hours a day, study 3-4, read & still have time to spin plates. No girl I know even comes close to my level of productivity during the day so no I don't believe girls are ever busy.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:35 PM
7

I would have just packed up, changed my appearance & moved countries if I were him.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:15 PM
3

I plated a girl once who told me what her & her friends discussed after I fucked her. It went into disgusting detail like she was writing a book on it.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:49 PM
16

All girls are in open relationships if you're Chad ;)
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:37 AM
3

Keep throwing out different times? I feel like you're trolling at this point haha If she can't make the time say thats alright & text other girls.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:00 AM
8

It is needy to ask them if they're free. You're working around their schedule & not yours. This is what you want to do instead. "I'm going here tonight. You can come along if you want." Notice two things here. You're not "asking" her. When you ask her to do something it implies neediness. You're simply making a statement here. She's working around your schedule & not vice versa.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:54 AM
21

It's evolutionary biology that girls are incapable of being leaders. Don't expect her to call you up & set plans. You make the plans & if she's not interested next her & find a girl that is.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:50 AM
5

If you're 150 at 6' you are one skinny bastard.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:39 AM
2

She'll adjust just keep sticking to logistics.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:06 AM
5

There's no chance she isn't cheating.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:02 AM
5

Eat that booty like groceries.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:53 AM
3

Netflix & Chill
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:11 AM
1

Read through the first rational male book again.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:31 PM
4

There's literally nothing you can say to make a girl "wise up" & leave Chad.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:30 PM
14

Every detail. If you have a big dick this is good news for you.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 07:35 PM
4

If the comments are accurate & it's 6 to 2 ratio in favour of guys on this trip your gf should be walking bowlegged for a little while when she gets back.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 12:57 AM
7

he was possibly snapping other girls Unless the snap addresses you personally or is in the context of the conversation it's being sent to multiple girls. Rule of thumb.
/r/seduction11/12/17 12:51 AM
27

This has very little to do with snap streaks & more to do with giving girls validation for doing nothing. Your chances are higher when you don't orbit girls. Also, water is wet.
/r/seduction10/12/17 09:36 PM
1

I've thought about that but I doubt it. I feels like it would be far more work to orchestrate approaches with escorts than to approach actual girls. His game is unreal & gaming actual girls would probably get you better reactions.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 06:46 PM
2

Stranger things have happened.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 06:39 PM
2

I'm from Saskatchewan. Fitness is not a big thing for girls here. Even when I go to Alberta the girls are still substantially better looking than here.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 04:55 PM
15

I spin plates & still consider myself MGTOW. I think MGTOW shows men that you truly can live a life entirely for yourself. It shows you that you can live your entire life without marrying or having kids.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 06:57 AM
2

I think it's more of a subconscious thing. I read an article the other day about how men after having vasectomies generally show more masculine traits in a way to compensate for being sterile (less of a man).
/r/askTRP10/12/17 04:08 AM
5

The warmer the climate the better looking the girls. I live in a place in Canada with cold weather most of the year so girls don't put much effort into their bikini bodies.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 04:04 AM
12

Compensation. I'm pretty sure there was a chapter about this in the first rational male book. They lack height & attempt to make up for it in displays of dominance.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 03:39 AM
1

She's not interested. If she was she would't even bring up the girlfriend. This is an easy out for her.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 02:39 AM
3

Women prefer white men in almost every country. Just social conditioning not racism.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 02:37 AM
5

There is literally no way this is a comfort test & not a shit test.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 01:23 AM
8

You could just say something like "it's a good thing you're with me for my looks" or "I was thinking about quitting my job & becoming a trash collector". Just some random shit off the top of my head. I said this yesterday the only way to fail a shit test is to give her a serious answer.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 01:22 AM
1

You're exactly right. It's a combination of death grip when masturbating & like you said unrealistic expectations. The average girl you meet is not going to look like Tori Black naked.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 11:33 PM
2

Right now I'm reading 48 laws of power which is basically a mandatory read for any red pilled male. I highly recommend it. Then I'm reading Models by Mark Manson after that.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 10:35 PM
2

most of the stories/field reports on here of 5’4” manlets smashing hb9-10’s are fake Watch literally any RSD Todd infield.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 09:05 PM
1

Fitness & reading. These should be your two main hobbies. Then after that throw in things like hiking, photography, etc.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 09:05 PM
1

I kind of disagree with this. I'm from Canada & most blonde guys I see here are borderline albino (transparent eyebrows & facial hair). Dark features are definitely more attractive in this neck of the woods.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 07:22 PM
-5

Girls expect you to have affairs & cheat. They'll take you back almost every time. It's in their biological imperative to be with the in-demand alpha.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 06:37 PM
12

I'm not an expert on body language but I'm fairly certain slower movements are an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 06:33 PM
2

If she's a good looking girl she has 15+ different guys blowing up her phone everyday. When you don't text her constantly giving her attention & validation for nothing it shows you're higher value than all the other thirsty guys blowing up her phone, thus she chases you. If you establish attraction when meeting her/matching her on tinder you don't need to text her regularly. Just stick to logistics. Girls know within 5 minutes of meeting you if they would fuck you. Everything you give to her aft…
/r/seduction09/12/17 06:05 PM
49

Stop jerking off. If you're fucking with a condom & can't cum it's understandable but if a girl is giving you good head and you can't bust you're way too desensitized by porn & jerking off.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:06 PM
2

Stick to fucking logistics. You can't build attraction over text.
/r/seduction09/12/17 05:44 AM
4

Hop on tinder & fuck a couple 6's. Get the ball rolling.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:40 AM
3

Walk up & slap her ass.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:22 AM
7

Unless you have 5+ years of natural training you shouldn't be considering gear.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:20 AM
1

Singles mom/divorcees are only good for pumping & dumping.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:19 AM
2

If she says she wants to lose her virginity just take her somewhere to fuck not ice skating.
/r/seduction09/12/17 03:09 AM
1

Masturbating is a beta male trait. Instead transmute your sexual energy into something productive.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 02:43 AM
2

This is way too disrespectful. I wouldn't even plate a girl like this.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 02:42 AM
2

make it look like you have awesome genes by working hard and pretending you don't My entire game summed up in one point.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:11 PM
1

Spending several years lifting will make club & party scene very easy. If you're tall even better. If you're short & don't lift you're going to have to have very good game to succeed in clubs.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:00 PM
3

If you've known her for 3 months & haven't fucked her yet the chances of it ever happening are very low.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:56 PM
2

No amount of crunches will give you 6 pack abs. It's almost entirely diet.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:51 PM
3

Change your major as soon as you can. Liberal arts degrees aren't worth the paper they're written on.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:50 PM
3

Girls that are fuckable & bearable to be around. The unbearable ones are for ONS.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:49 PM
1

My gym's change room is my go-to for tinder pics. Best downlighting ever.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 07:57 PM
1

I've been going to the gym for about 5 years now & the situation I see most regularly is guys orbiting the receptionist. I see this almost every day. I rarely ever seen an honest cold approach in the gym.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:17 PM
7

My crutch in life was porn & it took me 3 months of withdrawals after quitting to feel normal again. You can do it you just have to bear down & push through it.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:36 PM
3

I've literally never seen someone cold approach during the day. You would be surprised at the number of men that don't have the confidence to speak to girls outside of social media & tinder. If you have the balls to approach a girl you're ahead of 90% of men.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:33 PM
0

Lose the meds. The only anti-depressant you need is exercise.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:31 PM
99

Never in my life have I met a girl that looked better than her Instagram meanwhile girls frequently tell me I look far better in person. It may just be men aren't as adept at this sort of deception.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:26 PM
-2

You're never going to find a good looking girl in western society that doesn't have 1000+ Instagram followers. You can try & vet them out & go for strictly religious girls (i.e. Mormons) but at that point you're searching for a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 05:46 PM
1

facial aesthetics improve a lot as you go down in bodyfat percentage. I can confirm this 100%. Around 10-12% bf my cheeks start to hollow out & it looks aesthetic as fuarrrrkkk.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 04:16 PM
78

It's takes some impressive mental acrobats to reach the conclusion in the second quote.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:43 AM
2

You definitely have to work on most chicks to get them comfortable meeting up with you (a complete stranger) in real life. If you have an attractive profile it's pretty easy to bypass this. The main thing you want to do is to move the conversation to text within 2-3 messages. If she doesn't agree to move to text this tells you that she only wants you for validation & any further conversation is futile.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:32 AM
8

Ok, so this may be the dumbest shit but I always invite girls for coffee & then go get the coffee first only buying one for myself haha. Then I'll go pick her up after saying something like "I jumped the gun" "You can hangout while I drink my coffee" & just like that you're the lovable asshole without spending a dime on her.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:07 AM
2

Someone already mentioned it. Drink milk & make all your protein/mass shakes with milk. You'll be putting back another 500 calories/day & 40 grams of protein without filling yourself up very much.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:05 AM
9

You need to realize that you don't need to be in a relationship or marry a girl to get sex or companionship. You can have basically anything you want from a girl in western society without having to pay for it. Become the pimp, don't go searching for a unicorn.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:03 AM
1

The only time I put time aside for friends is to go out & game girls. Killing two birds with one stone. Just because of the way I'm wired I can't bring myself to just solely have "bro time". I could be using that time for studying or lifting instead of sitting around & gaming out.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:56 AM
2

I actually started accounting a little later in life. I was an athlete in my early 20's & finishing my degree at 26. That's still the plan though 6 figures by early 30's.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:30 PM
15

It sounds like you're trying to reform a bar slut.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 06:28 PM
5

I'm in the second half of my accounting degree & it has been absolutely worth it for me. I love the work I do & when I go CPA later in life the earning potential is into 6 figures.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:46 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/22/youve-been-with-how-many-girls/
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:56 AM
8

This is probably a case of all game & no frame. If you're actively seeking a relationship you're probably coming off as needy when she gets to know you.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:24 AM
1

Your bf % is way too high if you're 210 at 5'10. You should be cutting down & putting some striations in those muscles. Even for most girls this is a little too bulked up.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:24 AM
63

If you have to tell a girl not to have social media or go to the club you're not secure enough in your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:20 AM
2

I think you're absolutely right but it has to be communicated covertly. Ex/ If she wants to do something on a weekend say you're busy she'll know there's other girls in your life. If you just straight up tell her "I'm fucking other girls." it will be too overt & set off her ASD.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:11 AM
1

Fuck her & then keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:43 PM
1

It looks like you're putting too much effort into your headshot pics. Get a professional photographer or friend to take your pics so it looks more natural.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:42 PM
4

There's actually a pretty good reason why you never truthfully reveal your n-count or the other girls you're seeing. Girls love assuming you're a player & will normally just imagine the scenario that turns her on the most but when you reveal your actual n-count or other girls you're seeing now there's tangible people between you in bed. It will create a toxic relationship when she knows about the other girls you're fucking/have fucked. This is why you always agree & amplify.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:58 PM
1

This is some next level hamstering.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:53 PM
0

If you're a white male & good looking you should be able to pick & choose from tinder in south america.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:11 PM
15

This is so fucking blue-pilled. If you're getting left on seen she's not interested in the slightest. Double texting shows complete lack of options & that you really don't have much of a life if you're hanging on her response.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:06 PM
2

Women & men love very differently. Love for men is more of a "she's growing on me" sort of love. Women love opportunistically. Your love from her depends on you being the highest value male attainable to her. The moment you fall in value or something better comes along she no longer loves you.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:52 PM
6

I’ve not really seen her she’s having a family issue Girls will crawl through broken glass & skip their grandma's funeral just to suck Chad's dick. The moment she starts giving you excuses like this is when she's lost interest.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:46 PM
2

This is a problem I had when I started spinning plates. I was under the assumption that I had to give them each a certain degree of attention to keep them on the hook which resulted in me spending way too much time texting them. The best way to go about it I found is to stick to logistics only & plan something a couple days in advance then don't text her up until that point. Eventually they'll pick up that you're not going to give them attention outside of seeing them & adjust to it.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 05:31 AM
2

Dorm will give you way more pussy. I was blue-pilled & didn't even lift in my first year of college and was still swimming in girls. If you're high smh (lift, good looks, etc) living on campus is a roman orgy.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:55 AM
2

I train hypertrophy & even if you're in a deep caloric deficit you should still be hitting sets of 8-10. This is some grade A hamstering from OP.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:53 AM
41

You could just say some random shit like "my phone hasn't stopped vibrating since I woke up this morning". Just made that one up off the top of my head. The only way to fail a shit test is to give a serious answer.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:51 AM
-1

Punk rock
/r/askTRP06/12/17 12:34 AM
9

The diet means I cannot lift heavy weights yet Jesus fucking christ
/r/askTRP06/12/17 12:31 AM
1

If you're worried about maintaining a girls interest you're not spinning enough girls. The only time you're worried about keeping a girl on the string is if you have a scarcity mentality. Spin 2-3 girls at a time & you'll never have to worry about this.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:31 PM
4

I met this HB 7 about 2 months ago and we've been talking since The mystery is all but gone at this point. The longer a girl knows you without fucking you the less the chances of it ever happening.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:30 PM
1

I actually quit porn about 9 months ago now & it took a solid 6 months before I was fully rewired back to really girls. It takes a very long time to recover from a decade of PMO.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:27 PM
1

I loved the book but I have to disagree with his idea "healthy masturbation". You're still engaging in dopamine chasing & not real girls. Quitting porn & masturbation altogether would be a much more effective way of getting over sexual shame.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:37 PM
1

Girls love being used. They would want nothing more than to be fucked & thrown away by Chad. It's human nature.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:35 PM
2

"she says she runs every time shes scared of caring again." This line is the funniest shit ever. She's not interested in the slightest & needs OP around for validation & to fall back on if things fall through with Chad.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:21 PM
2

I would consider myself MGTOW. Not in the sense that I'll never interact with girls again & just sit and watch internet porn. My version of MGTOW more aligns with staying single & spinning plates my entire life never getting married & down the road getting a vasectomy. No child support or alimony.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:31 PM
2

I'm from Canada as well. It's the perfect place to spin plates. Women are so hypergamous basically any girl is available & it would never make sense to get married.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:30 PM
14

It sounds like you discovered TRP like yesterday. Block her on everything & hit the gym. Order the first rational male book & NMMNG off amazon. You need it.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:27 PM
-1

I would just let them do some really blue pilled shit & get their heart shattered then give them the first rational male book.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:50 AM
1

She's still texting you so she's interested. Just don't take anything she asks seriously. The only way to fail a shit test is to give her a serious answer.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:16 AM
1

Your go-to kino should be inside of her thigh. If she's shying away from kisses, though, she's not interested. Girls give out kisses like nothing. If you can't get a kiss from her you need to reevaluate your game & SMV.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:11 AM
1

boom Edit: let me know what you think about my theory
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:13 PM
1

I made a post about this the other week. I used tinder 2 years ago & was pulling 5+ matches a day. I fired up tinder again last week (SMV increased significantly in the past 2 years) & I'm pulling 1-2 matches a day if that. There has to be something different with the algorithm. My guess is you have to put money down on boosts or you get stuck at the bottom of the pile.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:10 PM
6

That's crazy. I consider myself in the top 5-10% & still sometimes get hit with "I don't give out my number" shit tests like bitch haha. I can't even imagine how high you friend's SMV is to be able to get that result every time.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:45 PM
1

we started making out and I felt her up a bit. But after a while she said it was getting late... I was feeling up on her for about an hour or two This is your mistake right here. You should be looking at more like 5-10 minutes of foreplay before sex.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:15 PM
3

Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. I'm pretty similar to you. I don't drink, exercise 4-5 times a week, drink 2-4L of water per day, count my calories, study 3-4 hours per day, but I never tell girls this. Your discipline doesn't impress girls. They want to believe your success & physique are effortless. They want to believe you were born this way.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:39 PM
1

Stick your hand down her pants.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:14 PM
5

It was basically a bachelor/bachelorette party (someone was getting married I can't remember who). Her family was incredibly chill & drunk. I told her beforehand I'm not saying we're dating which turned into me telling everyone that "we're just banging".
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:58 PM
6

It was a plate I didn't really care about & she invited me to her big family party thing & I told everyone who asked we were on a strictly friends with benefits basis.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:49 PM
18

"Nah, we're just fucking." I said this when a girl invited me to her family party once. Everyone had a good laugh.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:25 PM
49

she doesn’t like muscly guys, telling me there are certain builds she finds unattractive I had a good laugh at this.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:22 AM
14

Tinder passport is great if you're traveling. You can swipe in cities before you even get there so you can have some girls lined up. Boosts help too.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:19 AM
7

If you have a good profile you can spin up endless pussy with tinder gold & boosts. It's a slow process if you don't get gold, though.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:31 AM
2

If a girl is really into you she'll text you constantly leading up to seeing her. You need to experience what it's like to be a girl's Chad. When you're her best option she worships the ground you walk upon. Then you can compare other girls to that level of investment & you'll realize you're not this girl's first choice or you would know it.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:17 AM
12

Whip out your dick.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 11:39 PM
1

I usually just go 1 strike & delete her number.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:21 PM
6

I love weddings they're a great example of beta bux & alpha fux. The groom is paying upwards of $30,000 to fuck a girl who usually looks worse than the bridesmaids you can fuck for free. It really puts things in perspective.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:10 PM
2

You should be concerned with having a well rounded SMV. Looks & physique, wealth, status.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:00 PM
0

It doesn't matter for anything less than an LTR. I've fucked girls with no regard for a few minutes then kick her out & they keep running back because they're addicted to being treated like shit.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:30 PM
2

It honestly took me about 5 years of lifting to be truly content with myself. I was severely bullied when I was younger so it took me half a decade of self-improvement after high school to get to the point where I was high enough SMV to forgive the people that wronged me & begin to love myself.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:49 PM
1

This is pretty fucking gold.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:05 AM
1

She just a piece of meat for you to fuck. Her "pleasure" doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:38 AM
2

I don't know I actually really enjoy 18 year olds. They're very submissive & basically worship you.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:47 PM
1

16 & within 3-4 years I believe (romeo & juliet law)
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:44 PM
5

I'm from a province in Canada where the drinking age is 19 so we don't really have anything like that.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:27 PM
5

If a girl is comfortable enough with you to tell you that there's a lack of dread in the relationship. It's best just to let this one fall. The mystery is gone & she's not trying anymore.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:17 PM
3

The idea of a "female wingman" works against you. It's basically the opposite of social proof. Her friends will see that she friend zoned you & follow suit.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:55 PM
3

The core difference is realizing that men can "love" several women at the same time. We're polygamous by nature. We can love our LTR & still fuck other girls. Women are serial monogamists. They can only truly care about one man at once & due to their hypergamous nature that one man gets traded-out very often.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:15 PM
1

I'm 23 & wish I was older. I'm grateful to have found the red pill before throwing away my best years 30+ by getting married. I'm excited to be that successful attractive 30 some year old single guy all my fat married friends are jealous of.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:43 AM
2

If you think she's going to flake hit up several other girls & then cancel on the ones you need to cancel on. Don't bank on one girl coming through.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:00 PM
3

Just get a hair transplant.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:43 PM
2

That's what I think I'm going to do in the future get the tinder plus/gold whatever it's called. Start over in January & just pimp it with boosts on Monday/Sunday.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:40 PM
2

You don't have to tell girls anything about yourself. The less disclosure the better.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:37 PM
10

but they all have a boyfriend This literally means nothing. Spend some time being "the other guy" and fuck some girls that are in relationships. It will help you out down the road when you're faced with the choice of entering a relationship yourself. Edit: Hop on accutane it's godsent for acne. I used it for 2-3 months in high school & have never had acne since.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:30 PM
0

If she's having girl's nights out she's not your LTR.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:26 PM
4

However, her openness to tell me about her night might mean she didn't fuck. Hamster spinning full speed. There's no doubt she fucked him. If you have a drunk girl on a beach at 1am & don't fuck her you seriously need to reevaluate your game.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:22 PM
1

Vasectomy. I'm 23 now & the older I get the more it seems like a practical option. I would never get married & we have common law marriage in almost every province in Canada except Quebec so even cohabitation isn't possible thus there's no point in ever having a kid.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:02 PM
1

The matches are starting to come in on the second day but it was a surprisingly slow start. I don't think you show up first anymore. Back in the day the first day would be the fastest but now it feels like a slow drip.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:24 PM
1

This is a pretty good idea of what your marriage with this girl is going to look like. Most girls wait until after the marriage to begin treating you like shit but it seems she's feeling secure enough to start early.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:55 AM
1

Good points, do you mean anything under that radius has already swiped you? Edit: I totally get what you mean now. Misread that.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:29 AM
2

That's what I thought. With so many to swipe from (I'm guessing the ratio of men far outweighs girls on tinder) it would take longer for them to get around to you.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:38 AM
1

There's a cool hack if you have tinder plus/gold if you move your swiping location to some fuck off city & swipe left on everyone your tinder rating will be ridiculously high then you'll show up first for every girl in your area. I'm not sure if it still works, though.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:29 PM
5

If you're looking for anything more than to fuck a virgin, yeah, there's a lot of red flags here. She's a virign & she's on tinder? C'mon haha.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:23 PM
2

It's the same thing when a girls tells you she's not a booty call. Actions not words.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:52 PM
20

He got off lucky, since she wanted to chase a Chad from her work. She didn't fleece him, she got most of the debt, and he got the house and car. This could have been infinitely worse for him considering the state of divorce court. He should be genuinely happy with this outcome.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:27 PM
2

This is simply just wading through the trash of western society. Maybe 1 in 100 girls will be LTR material because they were actually raised with a masculine father figure. Edit: I don't think a lack of LTR quality girls is a problem. If you never plan on marrying or having kids it plays into your favour because sex comes so cheaply from these girls even the ones married or in relationships.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:35 AM
3

I can't say I don't use bumble. I tried it for a short period but it seemed to be a dead app.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:57 AM
5

I swiped 1000s of times This fucks with the tinder algorithm. If you swipe right on everything tinder is going to give you a very low rating & you're not going to show up for a lot of girls. Tinder rewards you for playing the game (swiping on what you like not every vagina).
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:37 AM
2

I wouldn't even give her this. This is for her, not you. It's just frivolous spending.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:34 AM
5

If she brings up sex first even in a negative context it's an IOI. Sex is on her mind. She's thinking about fucking you. Just ignore it & business as usual.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:31 AM
4

Any girls you have to set boundaries with (i.e. trying to reform a defiant bar slut) is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 09:43 PM
3

The second paragraph is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 06:07 PM
2

Very interesting, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:45 PM
2

(1) Do not touch any electronics for at least 1 hour after you wake up. I'd like to hear your reasoning behind this one. Usually the first thing I do in the morning is check my emails.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:12 AM
108

I will die at 80, I might die sooner, my body will start degrading after 30 unless I actively do something about it. This sounds strange but I usually think of death before cold approaching. I'm going to be dead & rotting in 80 years why wouldn't I approach this girl.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:31 AM
2

It honestly got rid of my acne in like 2 weeks it was crazy. I don't think I stayed on it for very long. Edit: I've also never had acne since.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:27 AM
7

Hop on accutane. I used accutane in high school for a few months & it cleared me right up. Had almost no side effects except for occasional joint pain.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:18 AM
5

The point of soft next is just that, nexting her. It's up to her to reinitiate contact, not you. If she doesn't text you again there's no loss.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:48 AM
4

If LTR I would just take some time away from her.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:46 AM
24

Law 30 - Make your accomplishments seem effortless. Definitely one of my favourites.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:44 PM
6

99% of combat deaths are men. Yeah, male privilege.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:24 PM
2

Lost my plates in college! You do realize most colleges have an overwhelming female to male ratio? There should be no reason you ever run out of girls to fuck in college.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:22 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E58qLXBfLrs
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:18 PM
3

I can guarantee this is just a buffer.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:56 PM
4

Yeah, fucking your own hand is pretty red pilled. Great insight.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:11 PM
1

Saw her with her boyfriend here & there. Never talked to her before.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:07 PM
3

Don't be her time ho.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:40 AM
2

I was at a party for a short time & left to go back to my room when I ran into her in a stairwell. There was like no hesitation we just started making out.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:49 AM
9

It sounds like she just sees you as a beta provider. There was a guy I knew who was seeing a girl (HB8 brunette) in college. They only cuddled & kissed for about 2 months but otherwise looked like a very happy couple. One night I fucked her within 10 minutes of meeting her on a stairwell going back to my dorm room. They're still together over a year later. The point being girls need two guys in their life, alpha fux & beta bux. You've allowed yourself to be placed in the beta category, hence no …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:05 AM
1

I'm 23 & the only time this crosses my mind is day game with girls like "hmm, she looks 16".
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:36 AM
2

Pay her phone cancellation fee? Hahaha this is a straight up scam you're fine.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:59 AM
1

I wouldn't say this is very relevant. I'm seen many a shy girls cheat on their LTR given the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:47 PM
6

Cancun haha it's over, bro. I'm sorry to say but start planning your contingencies.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:46 PM
18

Semen retention gives me superpowers. I'm not even joking.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:05 AM
2

her: "I can feel the attraction when I'm with you but I don't miss you when you're not here" Hahaha, oh man the disrespect.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:02 AM
2

I would just go ahead & delete social media altogether.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:00 AM
5

Dating a single mom is like buying an old used car where the air conditioning doesn't work & you have to manually roll down the windows.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:59 AM
15

Girls are only interested in the idea of you. They don't care about getting to know you.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:50 AM
3

Shoot them both invites. I always do this. I'll send "I'm doing x tonight. You can come if you want." to 2-3 girls. If more than one agrees tell them that something came up & do something with the hottest one.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:00 AM
1

No "rules of two" if you get flaked on once she gets nexted.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 05:22 AM
1

Two rufied people somehow moved venues twice & had intelligible conversations along the way. A bit of a tall tale.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:12 AM
129

If guys would cat call me or anything like that, he wouldn’t defend me. Only an idiot would actually react to this.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:03 AM
0

I just never wash my balls so the pheromones are strong & mix that with a bit of cologne.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:55 AM
3

My dad is well into his 50's & is still high smv (30+ years of natty lifting). He's only just now starting TRT.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 08:14 PM
2

You're probably not transmuting your sexual energy into other things which is why you're left with urges & feeling anxious. Find things you're passionate about whether that be gym or school & focus on directing your sexual energy towards those things. If you do this you won't be left feeling like you have to blow your load just to relax. Here is a great video about sex transmutation.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:55 AM
5

"I'm the shit. Every girl wants to fuck me." - RSD Julien
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:48 AM
2

If you ever watch porn it should be POV. Anything else is basically cuckhold.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:51 PM
0

Never take a girl to the gym unless you're a top 5% Chad. Even then it's not a good idea.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:26 PM
1

The chances of impregnating her when you wore a condom and pulled out are incredibly slim.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:21 PM
1

It's not always your money girls want it's usually your time. Girls don't respect you if they're inviting other people along (again the only exception is a threesome). If you didn't fuck or at least kiss the girl on the first date this is a red flag.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:42 PM
-6

This is something that doesn't get taught enough on TRP but masturbating is inherently a beta male trait.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:42 PM
3

Worst case scenario: they both see you as beta bux. Best case scenario: threesome.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:41 PM
1

N-count doesn't matter so much if you're just going to spin plates. If you're looking for an LTR you'd want one with a low n-count that would be able to pair bond with you.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:39 PM
20

Learn to transmute your sexual energy so when you're not gaming girls you're able to transmute your sexual energy into building other areas of your life. When you're masturbating you're flooding your body with prolactin & thus become docile.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:36 PM
1

I find this accurate at universities here in Canada white males are very few & far in-between.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 06:33 PM
1

In my opinion this moves beyond shit test into outright disrespect territory. This is where you would demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:22 PM
3

I recommend reading the rational male books over the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:07 AM
1

Yup, this is what you think it is. Failed shit test.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 09:01 PM
1

still she can not find time to clean up She's not interested. Girls would cancel all their plans & drive an hour just to suck Chad's dick. If she's telling you that she's busy she's just not interested.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:03 PM
2

It does marginally increase testosterone in men along with other benefits but ultimately what it does is release high amounts of cortisol in a healthy way. Cortisol is the stress hormone so when you're releasing a high amount of cortisol every morning you're essentially turning down the volume on all other stressful events you may experience throughout the day. This will allow you to take more risks & not be as phased but otherwise stressful events.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:07 PM
0

Agree + amplify. Make some over the top request to see her asshole or something. Oh, also demote her to plate. This is not LTR behaviour.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:30 PM
2

You would have to find some really fucking low quality girl for your watch to have that kind of effect on her.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:27 PM
3

Holy fuck, that's disrespectful.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:26 PM
2

Girls don't play hard to get. If you're her Chad it will be glaringly obvious she wants to fuck you. If you're getting "mixed signals" you're an orbiter.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:24 PM
1

This is interesting. I always thought that marriage preceded religion.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:40 PM
5

20 reps of late bloomer
/r/askTRP23/11/17 01:58 PM
17

I'd like to hear your thoughts on Brazilian women.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:24 AM
6

Quebec is basically a post-marriage society. Very low marriage rates & no common-law.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:02 AM
1

It's normal to have to feel like you have to shit or piss in stressful situations. If you want a cool example start up a cold shower you'll immediately feel like you have to shit. Edit: I always shit before exams too.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 04:47 AM
9

In Canada not even not marrying saves you completely (common law marriage). The only real solution is to never cohabit.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 04:46 AM
2

When you're high SMV everyone wants to be your friend. The difference is night & day (source: 5 years of natty lifting). I was 5'5 130lbs in high school & now 6'0 200lbs.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 01:59 AM
2

It's very easy. Block her on everything & game other girls. If you lift & follow those two steps you should forget about her within the week.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:15 PM
5

I find this very accurate. They realize that most young men are going to assume they're married & thus won't approach. This leaves it up to them to communicate their intentions more overtly.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:59 PM
7

I think it's one in the same. In a girl's mind she'll hamster that if she can smash Chad she can get him to commit to her as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:22 PM
16

When you're confident in yourself it shows in your body language & eye contact. Girls subconsciously pick up on this.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:10 AM
1

This is a joke, right?
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:46 AM
2

I've smashed & became an orbiter haha not my proudest moment in my blue pilled days.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:16 AM
93

This is it. If she thinks she can do better it's because it's plausible that she can.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:31 AM
1

I'm guessing you're alpha fux & the other guy is beta bux. Just my assessment.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:01 PM
5

Giving a shit test via orbiter. I have to say I've never seen that before. Very interesting story.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 02:43 PM
2

Minoxidil is godsent for facial hair. I'm 3 months in.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:16 AM
1

I'm not even going to read this shit show. When you get a girl's number you text her "hey it's OP" then you go for logistics. If you get anything other than her agreeing to logistics you delete her number.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 02:38 AM
21

Girls don't respond to overt communication. She should have been nexted 30lbs ago. Staying with a girl that has that little respect for her body shows extreme scarcity.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:27 PM
57

I’d say she’s gained probably 40 lbs in the last 6 months. This says a lot about you as a man that she can let herself go like this & still expect you to stay committed to her. Your LTR should fear every second of the day that you will leave her if she ever stops trying to please you.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 08:18 PM
2

You can't "get laid via texting". She has to have a preconceived notion that you're attractive & high status before she's texting you.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:09 PM
3

Get your testosterone levels checked.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 05:38 AM
4

You shouldn't be analyzing individual texts. Shoot straight for logistics. If you're attractive she'll agree to logistics. If you get anything other than that next her.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 03:23 AM
9

if it may hurt me to just randomly not message her for a day. This is absolute scarcity. You should text LTR's the same way you text any other girl, logistics only. When you text girls for no reason you show them that your time is not worth very much.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 02:47 AM
2

You're probably just not warming up enough before approaching in the day. It's a lot easier to get in a state of flow at night. If you're just doing one-off approaches during the day you're not going to be in the zone.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:16 AM
1

Take a trip down to Mexico. Cosmetic surgery there costs a quarter of what it does in the US/Canada. Edit: Just checked the average cosmetic surgery in Mexico is 70% lower than in US/Canada.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:00 AM
-1

Just stick your tongue down her throat.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:53 PM
1

Just get a hair transplant.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:53 PM
4

When you understand female behaviour & how they determine who is alpha it will make sense. If you watch RSD Max the biggest IOI a girl can give you is she's still there. If she was genuinely not interested she would walk away (i.e. "I need to go to the bathroom/see my friends."). If she's still there it's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:50 PM
14

You forgot semen retention.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:36 PM
1

Just invest in a gym membership. The cost of putting together the equipment needed for bench/squats/deadlifts is going to run you well over what a one year gym membership is.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:19 PM
2

Antidepressants are the biggest red flag in an LTR. There's one of two things happening: She's lying about the medication & is going to use it as an excuse to treat you like shit throughout the entire relationship. She's actually BPD.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:13 PM
-4

STD's are a myth. Use a condom you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:10 PM
5

She clearly just wanted a chance to talk to him & wasn't "creeped out".
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:58 PM
1

How do you deal with cutting off all ties with a person who you loved for over 2.5 years? It's easy. Block her on everything & delete all traces of her existence. If she's tries to contact you through friends completely ignore. Her friend - "Blank wants you to text her." Your response - "Blank who?"
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:24 PM
5

My first thought was that she's interested. If a girl was genuinely creeped out she would just avoid you at all costs. The fact that she's using it as a reason to text you (and by extension you're on her mind) is an IOI. Edit: Fucking picture perfect example of actions not words.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:21 PM
-1

It's too late for her. She's only going to be pumped & dumped.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:39 AM
1

Stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:34 AM
8

She lets me know she's coming back home Monday. She wants to fuck you. Don't go overboard with the texting or you'll set off her ASD. She doesn't want to talk about cheating until she's cheating.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:54 AM
1

Get a hair transplant. Fin fucks with your test.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:35 AM
3

Never encountered it but nothing out of the usual same as orbiters or female friends.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:27 AM
4

Yes, height. If you're 6' include that in your bio. My bio is literally just "6' accounting student".
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:48 PM
8

I'm 5'11.5 fuck me if I'm not going to round that up to 6'.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:47 PM
1

You communicated too overtly with her by telling her you're going to ghost her. You could have just soft nexted her & then if she hits you up about why agree & amplify. Never give a girl a serious answer.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 05:52 AM
1

Never get hung up on a girl flaking. There's an infinite number of reasons why it happens. She could have a boyfriend, is on to the next cock already, or simply just decided to change her mind. If it happens fairly often your SMV is probably too low but if it only happens once in a while don't worry about it girls are fickle.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:53 PM
1

I don't think alcohol is an accurate way of getting a girl to disclose her real n-count. I've had drunk college girls tell me "You're the second guy I've ever been with." lol, ya right. It's a natural reflex for girls to shoot out a low number regardless if they're drunk or not.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:04 PM
1

The Law of "Fuck Yes or No"
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:33 AM
21

Your first point is useless. No girl is going to truthfully disclose her n-count.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:31 AM
6

she was hesitant to tell me I'm sure.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:14 AM
14

She wants you to see her as a victim. This is a tactic girls use to show that they need to be taken care of & provided for. It's a beta trap. I get this so often I actually crack up when a girl tells me on the first date she was raped and/or has depression. I usually just pretend not to care and start talking about something else. It short-circuits their brain.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:01 AM
2

I find religious girls aren't that hard to crack. Business as usual. Just don't allow yourself to be fooled by the "I'm waiting for marriage" facade.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 03:43 AM
1

I found abundance was the only thing that allowed me to have a normal relationship with girls. This is because I know that at any moment I can walk out the door & find girls better than her. It's this mentality that allows me enjoy my time with her because I hold all the power.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:00 AM
1

As someone who's a leg day enthusiast I've been able to build massive quads even with using just dumbbells. There's so much you can do for lower body & back even without a power rack.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:54 AM
1

This is why only men should work.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:52 AM
5

Not necessarily. Studies show 50% of women have rape fantasies. It's just an extreme end of the power dynamic.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:49 AM
22

force her head in the toilet while we fuck Holy fuck lol
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:20 AM
0

Back in our hunter/gatherer days only the beta males of the tribe masturbated. The women of the tribe only fucked alphas & the betas were left to masturbate. Alphaness & masturbation are mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:16 PM
-1

Only beta males masturbate.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:19 PM
9

If a girl won't suck your dick she doesn't respect you.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:23 PM
10

If you're 6'0 or taller, put your height. I legit just have my bio as "6'1 accounting student" No clever bio will have the same effect on her as "Oooooh 6 feet".
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:28 PM
3

Ghost. I usually just delete a girl's number after one flake.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:16 AM
2

Rule of thumb if you have to set boundaries for her she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:13 AM
1

You shouldn't be committing to a girl your friend could fuck with zero commitment. It makes you look beta.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:27 AM
1

When your LTR is very submissive you won't need ultimatums. If you have the power in the relationship she'll conform to your needs.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:36 AM
2

I actually have no idea. He's 55 so I told him to look into TRT & then I see him 2-3 months later & he's ripped while maintaining all his muscle mass. Never talked to him about it.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:22 AM
41

The far more attractive girls are usually the ones that wear minimal makeup. Then when you see them without makeup it's not shocking.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:52 PM
11

Leave it the fuck alone. Don't go digging in the trash.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:28 PM
9

I'm fairly certain my dad just started TRT. The change in his physique is mind blowing he's like 215lbs right now with shoulder striations (also 6'2).
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:02 PM
28

Girls want to believe you're a god & god's don't bleed.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 07:26 PM
-6

If you can't pick a girl up you're weak as fuck. Lift.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:13 PM
3

My rule for texting girls after I get their number is to to text them 3-4 days later in the middle of the night. This communicates to her that I only see her as a "netflix & chill" girl.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:10 PM
3

If a girl tells you "she doesn't want to leave the party yet" she's not interested enough. If it's still early in the night game other girls & if it's late just go home.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 06:56 PM
2

My ideal polygamy is basically Gilberto Rodríguez's arrangement in Narcos season 3. He had 3 wives which he saw on scheduled days throughout the week & they all got together on Sunday to watch soccer.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 06:08 PM
1

Had 2 years of braces in high school one of the best decision I've ever made. Having perfect teeth skyrockets your SMV. I legit have girls come up to me & ask me to smile.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:50 PM
8

Inside of thigh. Peak sexual tension.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:23 PM
1

Don't give her a serious answer. Say you were on your period (first thing that came to my head).
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:27 PM
1

Back in our hunter/gatherer days only the beta males of the tribe masturbated.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:19 PM
2

Back in our hunter/gatherer days only the beta males of the tribe masturbated.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:16 PM
10

You game Christian girls the same way you game any other girl. If you're Chad she'll fuck you on the first date & if you're beta billy it's too easy for her to hit you with some variation of "I'm waiting for marriage.".
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:09 AM
2

Look farther down that comment thread I go into it in detail.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:44 AM
45

Stop watching porn & masturbating. It's a beta male trait.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:19 AM
1

This is it.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:13 AM
3

Never text a girl unless it's for logistics. You're giving her attention & validation for doing nothing.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:13 AM
1

I'm 23 high SMV & haven't had a girlfriend in 5+ years. It's not really something that's necessary to feel fulfillment. There's nothing in a relationship you can't get from spinning random girls.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:42 AM
8

I have a black & grey half sleeve (cost me like $2,000) girls fucking love it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 10:02 PM
5

This is essentially social proof.
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:04 PM
2

You're not her first priority. Realize that & move on.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 06:39 PM
8

Representations of their father. Jesus read the whole thing hahaha
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:00 PM
7

Stop jerking off & lift.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 04:17 PM
2

The most matched male tinder profile in the US is a guy who's first pic is him shirtless & wearing his firefighter pants, helmet, etc. He's not even an exceptionally good looking or tall guy but he found his niche. Girls definitely like a shirtless guy doing manual labour.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:16 AM
3

This post will be very eye opening for you. It's goes into depth why your chances with girls you haven't met yet are infinitely higher than with girls that know you well. It will give you the mentality to be able to drop girls before you allow yourself to become an orbiter. Edit: This is a shorter post which summarizes the same concept.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:01 AM
3

If a girl ever motioned for me to take her purse I would just raise my eyebrows & stare at her in disbelief.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 02:35 AM
1

Oh, man. The disrespect is too much.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 02:31 AM
3

Mystery is the biggest factor in attraction. The longer you know a girl the less your chances of fucking her. If you've known this girl for a longer period of time & have been placed in the orbiter category you have almost no chance of fucking her without significant self improvement & ghosting.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:26 AM
7

Never. There's a whole part in the rational male book about why you should never under any circumstances discuss past girls you've been with or your n-count.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:59 AM
1

I have like Jon Snow facial hair & couldn't imagine myself clean shaven. I feel like my SMV would drop atleast 1 point if I lost my facial hair.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:58 AM
1

That song is like 10 years old lol I'm well aware of the original song
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:41 AM
12

Stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:58 PM
1

There's enough abundance of pussy to not have to chase the same girl as your friend. Unless you really don't give a shit about him I wouldn't do anything.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:42 PM
2

Look farther down the first comment thread I address it there
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 11:02 PM
1

Girls with masculine traits set off all kinds of red flags for me. I'm not sure what it is.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:04 PM
4

She sees you're doing well & is pushing for commitment (shocking). Bring up the idea of prenup with her & gauge her reaction. This will tell you if she genuinely desires you or if she just sees you as a future provider.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:08 AM
1

Never commit or tell a girl that you "love her".
/r/askTRP13/11/17 05:06 AM
5

No girl is "desperate". Believe me, every girl has a line of orbiters that goes out the door & around the block. If a girl is sending you unsolicited nudes congratulations because you're her Chad.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 05:02 AM
7

If you're a girl's Chad you'll probably wake up to nudes on your phone regularly but if you're going out seeking them that's no different than porn addiction.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 04:38 AM
2

Lol, no. Unless you're married to her you shouldn't even remember when her bday is.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:44 AM
12

Fast forward through a nasty $175K, 10 month divorce....We have joint custody, she got about $125K in cash, $800 a month child support, no alimony, and I had to pay $10K of her atty's fees. Holy fuck, this is a nightmare to read.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:44 AM
8

I go for blonde girls. I don't know what it is I find there's something more pure about blonde girls.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:41 AM
1

You got read the signs here. She doesn't want you for anything other than attention.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:39 AM
4

Asking for nudes & watching porn are for beta males.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:37 AM
0

Not necessarily. Girls don't care if you're spinning plates.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:43 AM
6

Definitely go with the tattoo.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:42 AM
7

You have to set boundaries with her. My two go-to's are gym & boys night out without her. This will instil more than enough dread & she will do everything to please you when you're around. I tell her "I take the gym very seriously & wouldn't be able to with you around" & "boys night out is guy time". Boom, done.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 12:26 AM
2

Look farther down on the first thread of comments I mentioned why.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 09:44 PM
1

Go out & kiss some bar sluts. Get the ball rolling.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:05 PM
14

I'm guessing you're from the US. You guys are lucky. I'm from Canada it's so liberal here we're going to be in the same boat as most European countries with mass immigration in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 07:39 PM
2

Halo effect. If you're high SMV you can say literally anything to girls & still get laid.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:57 PM
1

I think this depends on if you're fucking these girls or they're viewing you as a sort of provider. I believe your chances of fucking a girl are always highest when you just meet her for the first time. You have all the mystery in the world (and thus attraction).
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:41 PM
31

I believe the pendulum will swing back the other way & political correctness will eventually fade. Even now most of society sees how much of a self-parody it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:20 PM
2

He's pseudo-studying most like. If you can get in a state of flow you won't need more than 2 hours/day for studying.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:01 PM
1

It's really just time management. If you're putting in 2 hours of studying & 1-2 hours in the gym you're going to be on top of everything & the remaining time in the day could be allotted out to reading or socializing.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:00 PM
1

You gotta get more out of your head & into flow state. You can be red pill conscious & still in a state of flow.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 05:50 PM
21

Next level: pick them up & start squatting them
/r/askTRP12/11/17 05:14 AM
-3

In high school you're supposed to be a social outcast. This is how you learn to be a stud for college.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:27 AM
4

Mickey Avalon is a prime example. Ugliest dude alive & rolling in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:08 AM
4

Exactly. Things have certainly evolved from 2005 but I can't even imagine PUA's back then investing 10 hours in a single girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:05 AM
2

I always thought the 10 hour rule was absurd. This may be because I'm used to pulling girls from college parties & tinder in like 15 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:19 AM
2

Lol good luck finding a virgin
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:56 AM
56

It actually does have to do with the gym specifically with nightclubs being a close second. You're going to the gym where your physique is on display around many HB 7 & 8's wearing tight clothes. If you never let your LTR come with you her hamster will run wild. Nightclubs are close second to this with the disadvantage that you won't be able to do this as frequently & the dread may be too overt if you're doing it every weekend without her. If you label it "boys night out" it's more acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 01:32 AM
5

There is no move. You should have had your ex blocked on everything to the point where it wouldn't even be possible for her to reach you. Don't go digging through the trash
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:43 PM
178

There must be a part of you she cant have. I believe for a relationship to be successful you have to be 1-2 points higher than her in SMV & have a mission in life more important than her. Couple this with never letting her come to the gym with you & you'll have a rather comfortable relationship. She also has to know that you could leave her at any moment & find a women better than her.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 10:38 PM
1

This is just my personal opinion but you should just quit drinking all together. It has a very negative effect on your body & cause bring many problems when drinking in a public place (as I'm sure you experienced last night). When you start to really care about your physique & fitness it will make giving up drinking very easy. I haven't drank in roughly 3 years & still go out regularly.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:58 PM
1

This is a no-brainer.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:03 PM
1

This really screams oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 02:21 PM
6

Go out & fuck 10 other girls then decide if you still want an LTR.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:54 AM
1

This will never be worth the trouble that you'll bring upon yourself. Explore new girls. Don't go digging in the trash.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:07 PM
1

Turns out she has an anxiety disorder exacerbated by a childhood head trauma, and she's really bad at communicating because her upbringing was very conservative and there was a mental health stigma. When she tells you this all this means is she's going to treat you like shit & you're going to have to accept it. This is a next.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:02 PM
2

My guess is that she feels guilt. Girls don't feel guilt (see: hamstering). They feel regret at loss of hypergamous opportunities. Chad, her ex, fell through & she's now seeking to repair things with you (see: second string). Situations like this require a hard next. Block her on everything & delete all traces of her existence.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:49 PM
1

If you feel threatened by other guys your SMV isn't high enough. Work on that.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:54 PM
0

Go fuck other girls. Tell your LTR "you need time to explore yourself as a person".
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:53 PM
6

I must have missed the blue pilled goals part. It took me 3-4 months to become fully congruent with spinning plates. I see all too often guys getting called out for "faking it" when it's really just part of the process. I see your point, though. If you're using aloofness & dread to gain an LTR or marriage it's not going to work
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:32 PM
1

"I apologize for my gender." Oh, man hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:23 PM
3

This is the same immature argument I've seen repeatedly that being alpha should be ingrained in you from the moment you discover TRP. There are going to be instances in your transformation where you will have to correct yourself & do something you wouldn't normally do (ghost, cold open, hard next). Sure, that's not "congruent" but when you see the benefits you'll learn & internalize it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:13 PM
1

Why would an alpha fuck his own hand when he could fuck a HB?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:35 PM
6

Excellent point.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:20 PM
-1

Back in our hunter/gatherer days only the beta males of the tribe masturbated. The alphas didn't need to masturbate. Instead they could pick & choose which girl they wanted to fuck. Do you want to be an alpha or beta male?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:14 PM
2

I have the same thing I'm like Good Luck Chuck. Every ONS & plate I'm with finds their beta bucks soul mate the next day.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:41 AM
1

Girls want to be treated like shit.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:31 AM
8

what now? Now you block her on everything & delete all traces of her existence. Download tinder & go fucking lift.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:37 AM
5

You're basically agreeing to $40,000 of debt for a useless piece of paper with an arts degree. Change over to finance or accounting.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:34 AM
4

Laugh it off. I had a similar scenario a while back LTR found me on tinder & I just made a joke of it. When she saw I didn't care she didn't care.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:45 AM
1

Seen this book recommended over & over on here. What does it have over the endless other books on sex? Planning on reading it soon.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:11 AM
5

I always say "if I'm not busy" girls know in their subconscious mind this is womanese for "not interested". She'll eat it up & chase even more.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 12:40 AM
1

Theoretically you could just never do favours for plates but you really don't have to do that.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:21 PM
1

Using "big words" (i.e. matriarchal) around illiterate white girls is pretty playful.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:01 PM
6

It's very easy to be in the top 20%. You should be aiming for 10%. Lift, nutrition, style, grooming, purpose, game, etc.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:23 PM
2

I was legit going to ask this yesterday. My first thought was to be very vague & second to be playfully truthful. Very vague -> "I'm not sure. One day, maybe" Playfully truthful -> "Marriage is a evil feminine social convention."
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:20 PM
9

This seems like a strange suggestion but I recently read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which gives the most in depth analysis I've read of human sexual behaviour (i.e. evolutionary biology & neuroscience). It will certainly give you an understanding of human behaviour you won't find anywhere else. It's very powerful.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:07 PM
2

Tinder veteran, never heard of lovoo. How do they compare?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:43 PM
16

It's because you're lifting with gloves. Drop the gloves & you'll have pussy to boot.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:42 PM
3

I think what you're struggling with is realizing that not all things are black & white. 1) This one is in the grey area. Just don't be a door mat. 2) Females aren't evil. Hypergamy is just their biological imperative. 3) This one is pretty easy. Just don't give girls validation for doing nothing (i.e. texting her for anything other than logistics). Give her compliments after sex or if she cooks a good meal. This is how you train girls. 4) Girls never change, they just settle when their SMV decli…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:40 PM
1

What exactly is red pill women theory? In my opinion women are indefensible to red pilled theory via men being the gatekeepers of relationships, etc.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:13 PM
2

Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. Girls want to believe you were born fit & successful. Don't tell her you workout 5 times a week & went to school for 6 years.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:00 PM
1

Just escalate with her & she'll swing on over then you can plate her.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:50 PM
1

Fucking lift. You should be 190-200lbs at 6'.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:49 PM
3

Absolutely, porn ruins your game.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 06:49 PM
3

You need to get in the mindset of dropping girls the moment you don't see returns. If you get a girl's number you text for logistics only. If you get "busy", "maybe", or she flakes you delete her number. This will save you a lifetime of wasting time on girls that aren't interested.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:41 AM
2

My move is picking girls up & lifting them off their feet when I see them. Girls love this.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:53 AM
2

I had a fucking horrible experience with an LTR riddled with red pilled truths & conveniently I discovered the red pill at the latter end of that. Very grateful it happened.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:35 AM
1

Hit the gym & lower your body fat it will drastically improve your facial aesthetics & invest in a professional photoshoot ($200). Take some cool pics hiking with your buddies. You don't have to be Zac Efron to put together a banger tinder profile.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:30 AM
1

Relationships mean nothing, especially in college. Game her like she's single.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:59 AM
2

You should use the opportunity to build relationships at work & take a coworker to the game. Why take a girl to a sporting event she's not going to appreciate & will fuck you either way?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:45 AM
3

Some girls will never get off & some will get off with almost nothing.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:43 AM
4

I believe for an LTR to be successful you should be 2 points higher than her in SMV & have a mission in life more important than her.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:37 AM
4

This is fucking perfect, man, brings a tear to my eye almost.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 12:03 AM
3

or chicks with dicks
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:52 PM
1

This all depends on your SMV. I'm comfortable letting a girl go & do things with other guys because I'm confident I'm the best she's ever had.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:33 PM
2

LDR is not a relationship. It's worse than being an orbiter. You're castrating yourself while giving her validation through texting & receiving nothing in return.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:31 PM
0

This article must have flown right over your head when reading it.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 08:22 PM
2

This is absolutely hilarious. Going to keep a bag of skittles laying around my house to remind myself to be a skittles man.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:59 PM
2

Best analogy ever.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:54 PM
1

she was raised by alcoholic single mom Holy fuck hahahaha this is the reddest flag ever
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:53 PM
2

Whip your dick out & ask them to compare.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:52 PM
3

Don't go digging through the trash.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:52 PM
2

In no world do girls feel attracted to guys that show jealousy.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:51 PM
3

Relationships mean nothing. I've been with more girls in relationships than single girls but the fact that she's "making it clear" that she has a boyfriend means she's not interested. If a girl in a relationship wants to fuck you she'll forget her boyfriend exists.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:42 PM
1

Lower your body fat % it can drastically improve your facial aesthetics. I've also had braces & genioplasty so you really don't have to settle for what you have. Perfect teeth & sharper jawline are well worth the investment.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:20 AM
4

Just get their numbers & game them outside of class. Gaming girls in your class is perilously close to shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:05 AM
3

The best way to deal with feminists is simply just to not engage them.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:00 AM
1

Eat in a high caloric surplus & 1g of protein/lb of body weight. However, if you're working 10 hours a day as well as training don't expect to gain much muscle mass because you're giving yourself basically no rest.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:57 AM
1

8) Stick your hand down her pants.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:29 AM
4

Block & delete her number.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:28 AM
12

You're about as blue pilled as it gets right now. Read the first rational male book & the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 01:59 AM
3

What on earth possessed you to take a 43 year old woman out on a date? Women that age are good for nothing but pumping & dumping.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 01:35 AM
1

Pump & dump.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:14 PM
15

Send her links on how to suck dick.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:09 PM
30

Flip the script & dominate her.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:30 PM
6

Porn causes dopamine desensitization which causes extreme anxiety. I've seen this all too often. I'm convinced it's the leading cause of anxiety in men today. I can send you some of the science behind it if you'd like.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:11 PM
1

The question was actually what is wrong with CC in 20's. There's nothing morally wrong with it because it's just human nature.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:40 PM
2

Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:37 PM
2

If you've been aware of the red pill for over a year & are still in the anger phase & scarcity you need to make some serious changes. I would recommend going monk mode.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:35 PM
3

You're in scarcity & certainly haven't taken the red pill yet. Read the sidebar & the first rational male book then reevaluate your situation.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:02 PM
8

Stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 06:59 PM
2

This is basically prostitution for betas.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:56 PM
2

It's only a red flag if it's MMF.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:50 PM
22

The red pill is amoral. There's nothing morally wrong with girls riding the CC & settling down with beta bux when they feel the wall approaching. It's just the circumstances.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:49 PM
4

Girls are never busy. She's not interested.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:52 AM
12

Remember, you're the gate keeper of the relationship. No matter how frequently she fucks you or how nice she is nothing she does entitles her to a relationship. Only you get to decide to plate her or LTR her.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:37 AM
5

I read the first sentence. It's not happening. The longer a girl knows you the less your chances of sleeping with her. The most important factor in attraction is mystery. This is why your chances are infinitely higher with girls you haven't met yet.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:25 AM
5

Hire a professional photographer to take some headshots ($200). Go on a mini-cut & get your body fat down to 10%. Take a shirtless pic with your guitar smoking a cigarette/cigar. With the right photographer you could probably look like an 8.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:20 AM
3

Men appreciate until they are into their 40's. Never will a 25 year old beat out a 35 year old in terms of SMV. The 35 year old will always have infinitely more resources & if they keep on top of their fitness & style they will murder the 25 year old in terms of SMV.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:14 AM
9

They want to think god made you that way. This is so funny & true. I had a girl tell me I have blessed genetics even when she knew I had braces, genioplasty, & lift 4-5 times a week.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:10 AM
0

She's fishing for compliments. Tell her your adore her personality.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:50 AM
1

Stop masturbating.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:49 AM
4

Exactly. Semen retention is a man's natural state. Back in our hunter/gatherer days only the beta males of the tribe masturbated because having sex wasn't an option for them.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:38 AM
1

but she has been part of my friend circle for years and is very close with my roommate Stop giving yourself fucking buffers.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:26 AM
3

Oh, the lies we tell ourselves.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:07 AM
2

Go to the stud clinic & get checked out. Also, STD's are for the most part a myth perpetuated by our feminine society to stop you from pursuing your biological imperative (fucking a lot of girls) & convince you to settle down with that 1 unicorn after she's rode the CC.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:20 AM
5

Raise your SMV. Start lifting & dressing better. Your mid 30's to early 40's should be your peak.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:18 AM
2

Don't mix plates with your passion. It's the same reason I would never take a girl to the gym.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:16 AM
3

Username checks out.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:23 AM
8

Words not actions. Words - "I'm not looking for hookups." Actions - She's on tinder which is almost exclusively used for casual sex.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:47 PM
4

Taking her on an expensive date is a very bad idea. It shows over-investment & she's going to automatically file you under beta bux instead of alpha fux.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:46 PM
1

I've never seen anyone on here advocating full disclosure. The more you express your feelings & disclose to her the more you lose your sense of mystery & thus attraction. Girls hate guys that are an open book.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:43 PM
1

I couldn't even begin to list the benefits of NoFap & semen retention.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:41 PM
1

You can donate to my paypal. Greatly appreciated.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:39 PM
1

Go to Your Brain On Porn. It will shock you how bad viewing porn is for you. It's very similar to heroine addiction & reduces grey matter in your brain.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:23 PM
2

Delete her number. She just wants attention.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:10 PM
3

Even with a prenup there's no guarantee she can't take your house.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:06 PM
2

In most provinces in Canada we have sneaky common law marriage laws where you only have to be living with her for 2 years to be seen as married in court.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:05 PM
1

Can you order ECA & albuterol online?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:39 PM
1

I would have just agreed & amplified. Straight up telling her you'll never date her is what breaks plates. I always just give a non-serious answer.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:25 PM
3

Height hack: wear chelsea boots with 1.5-3 inch heels. You can easily add 2 inches to your height with shoes like these.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:56 PM
2

Tell her "you need space to explore yourself as a person" or something like that. She'll love the emotional spike & then plate her easy in a couple weeks.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:35 PM
3

This is text game. You text for logistics only & if you get flaked on (or "maybe", "busy", etc.) soft next & delete her number. This will save you a lifetime of wasted time on girls that aren't that interested. If you're getting this often your SMV isn't high enough.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:32 PM
2

Porn is so fucking damaging to your brain. You have no idea.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:29 PM
1

Delete everything & block her on everything. She no longer exists. Only way to handle a breakup in my opinion.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:28 PM
5

Fitness, height, style & I have a really nice half sleeve tattoo ($2,500, black & grey style). You wouldn't believe how many girls open me at parties by coming over & lifting up my shirt. It's a work of art & gives you an edginess most guys won't have.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:24 PM
1

The higher your SMV the less you'll come off as a "creep" (halo effect).
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:21 PM
1

Block her on everything & delete all traces of existence (out of sight out of mind). If you couple this with gaming other girls you'll forget about her very quickly.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:19 PM
2

If I get a girl's number or match a girl on tinder I always text her late at night a couple days later & stick to logistics. This communicates that I don't really see her as much more than a "netflix & chill" girl (because I don't).
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:15 PM
39

I've been training naturally for about 5 years & saw a gentleman join my gym about a year and half ago who was horribly out of shape. In the time since he's been a regular & has gone from very overweight to an almost sculpted physique. It's truly amazing to witness.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 03:04 PM
2

Read the first rational male book. Best book ever.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:07 AM
1

You're probably pseudo-studying. Half-assing it. Studying while listening to videos, eating, checking your phone. In order to effectively study you need to enter a state of flow. Eliminate all distractions & be completely present. Look up flow state.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:00 AM
1

Exactly this. Snapchat is basically designed for girls cheating without any hard evidence.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:57 AM
0

Never have I seen more hamstering in one post. Unless he's what you consider a lifelong friend go ahead & fuck his ex. You're giving yourself so many buffers it's ridiculous.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:55 AM
0

Lmao cheat on him & then give him the first rational male book
/r/askTRP06/11/17 02:52 AM
1

Those are great shoes. I have a similar pair. Don't really wear them too much I'm already 6' & never really felt the need to be taller.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:42 AM
1

You just experienced flatline (withdrawal from porn). Do some more research. I can guarantee porn is the reason you can't get hard with real girls.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:37 AM
0

Girls don't apply dread. She's just not interested. If you're her Chad she'll be embarrassingly clingy. If she's ignoring you it's because your SMV isn't high enough.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:35 AM
1

Preselection. Girls love sharing guys.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:33 AM
1

Get tinder. My first year of college I had new girls every week.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:32 AM
6

Girls don't send mixed signals. If she flakes your SMV isn't high enough. Soft next.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:28 AM
1

Stop watching porn & masturbating.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:25 AM
7

If you have to ask she's not. When you're her Chad you will know because it's almost embarrassing for her. She's flustered, blowing up your phone, etc.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:19 PM
2

She's not "going through a lot". It's just an attempt at victimhood to get your attention or resources. This is the same reason girls love telling you about their rape or depression. Whenever a girl says this to me I usually just completely ignore it.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:59 PM
1

Stick to logistics. Fuck. You're giving her attention for doing nothing & showing her that your time is worth very little.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:40 PM
1

Rub your ball sweat on your neck.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:38 PM
1

Logistics or next.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:37 PM
1

Netflix & chill.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:35 PM
6

This is only in larger cities. It's only densely populated areas where tinder is basically broken for anyone that's not a 10/10 Chad with movie star looks. I'm from Canada & tinder is very effective going through smaller cities or towns. The bar is set low in terms of SMV & if you have a high SMV (not Chad but close) you can steadily pick up 7's & 8's no problem. You're that hot mysterious new guy in a smaller city & it makes the game very easy for you.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:02 AM
2

You don't need to build rapport with tinder girls. Stick to introductions & logistics (1-2 texts). She doesn't need to build rapport to fuck Chad. If she flakes at logistics next her. You just saved yourself 10-20 minutes of needless rapport building.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:49 AM
1

If you have to keep her in line she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:39 AM
6

It's over saturated. If you're in the top 20% you can pick & choose.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:39 AM
4

Comfortable LTR's are when your SMV is 2 points above hers & you have a mission in life that is more important than her.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:37 AM
21

Amused mastery. This is childish behaviour, treat it like such.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:32 AM
1

That's legal in most places. Look it up to be safe, though.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:28 AM
3

Porn is for beta males.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:10 PM
2

Jeff Seid watches anime & is basically Chad embodied.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:08 PM
2

If you lift (2+ years of natural training) groom & dress well you'll easily be in the top 20%. If you do all this & are genetically blessed with height & looks you'll be in the top 5-10%.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:05 PM
1

There's literally no upside to it. You lose all sense of mystery (attraction). The only way to make it work is to dread by going to the gym on your own regularly & going out every weekend with the boys without her but even then she's not going to have the same attraction as if you didn't cohabit.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:22 PM
5

She's no longer attracted to you. Remove her from your living situation. Block her on everything. Go to the gym start lifting & going out more (also download tinder).
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:12 AM
11

Break-ups should take about 5 seconds. Block her on everything & delete everything. She no longer exists. Go lift & game other girls.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:53 AM
3

This is a bad idea for so many reason. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:16 AM
5

You're not going to find anyone on here that wasn't raised in a blue pilled family. We live in a feminized society.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:14 AM
1

This is very subjective. I would almost always introduce an LTR to my family. My sister is the ultimate at vetting other girls & my families approval means far more than any one girl.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:57 PM
20

You handled this almost perfectly. However, I wouldn't have responded at all after her first text pretending to be upset. Just by acknowledging the drama she's creating you fell under her frame. Next time just ghost until the next day or until she calms down & apologizes (which is inevitable if you just ignore her, trust me).
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:45 PM
1

She could probably land a professional athlete or actor. Life is hard for girls.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:15 PM
1

I like to play the girls game & say something like "I'm a bad texter." (she knows in her subconscious female mind that this means I'm not interested).
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:59 PM
1

If you're competing with your "friends" over girls both of you are putting the pussy on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:55 PM
1

The basics is to do things without her (i.e. go to the gym on your own & boys night out).
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:52 PM
3

Stop watching porn & jerking off.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:50 PM
2

Not enough bounce lmao
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:47 PM
1

Eye contact & smiling is a pretty big (not so subtle) IOI. If she's also putting herself in your general vicinity in addition to fixing her hair/clothes she's begging you to approach.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:47 PM
2

Give them the first rational male book. After that it's up to them.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:45 PM
2

Don't be her fucking therapist.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:44 PM
5

Game her like she's single & escalate like you have earplugs in. Pretend the boyfriend doesn't even exist.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:44 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:43 PM
3

You need to reevaluate what constitutes a "friend" because this is not it. If you're truly friends you'll go out of your way to never pursue the same girl or a girl your friend has been with previously.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:51 PM
1

The first rational male book is a must read. It's takes some time to get used to the writing style but well worth it.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:44 PM
1

The past is a good indicator of her future behaviour. I can see atleast 5 red flags.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:59 PM
1

Take a business degree (accounting, finance, etc.) in university/college. You'll almost entirely avoid the leftist bullshit taught at your school. Source: One year of a science degree including 2-3 mandatory women's studies/sociology (aka liberalism) classes. Never had one after switching to business.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:49 PM
1

This is great.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:15 PM
1

The second half of this & text from her is just straight off the deep end crazy but honestly not that surprising. Classic case of BPD. Edit: You shouldn't have texted her & if even she still sent you that don't respond. She'll apologize & coming crawling back if you just ignore her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 05:32 AM
3

I've only had this sort of pattern (girls buying me stuff, driving to see me, bringing me food, etc.) when my SMV heavily outweighed hers & I was very aloof with her. In a way it resembles "nice guy" courting behaviour. It's an interesting role reversal when you're her Chad & she means almost nothing to you.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:22 AM
2

Haven't drank in 5 years, same amount of time I've been lifting. Going out =/ drinking.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:44 AM
1

This is an insane post.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:36 AM
1

Your ex shouldn't even be able to contact you after a breakup. She should be blocked on everything & every trace of her deleted. It should be like she never even existed. If she somehow finds a way to make contact (i.e. a friend's Instagram) block her there as well. Girls need drama like fucking oxygen, don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:25 AM
7

This is it. If you lift for 1-2 hours & study for 2-3 you had a banger day. The rest is up to you.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:07 AM
1

Just be casual "come over this time if she flakes delete her number. If she comes over & you fuck her rinse & repeat.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:04 AM
1

Absolutely do it, girls fantasize about a guy they can "fix". It's the same reason girls love addicts.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:32 AM
1

I have a rule if a girls shows disinterest or flakes once she gets nexted, no exceptions. It's hard but this will save you from sinking time into pointless ventures. Read this Edit: If you're a girls Chad she'll be blowing up your phone to the point where it's embarrassing for her. If she leaves you on read she's certainly not as interested as she could be, thus you next her.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:55 AM
3

You're underestimating how much girls like a "bad boy". You should be able to have girls on a string solely on the fact you spent 20 years in prison. Girls would much rather fuck a convict than a beta boy nice guy that has his life in order.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:48 AM
1

She'll probably has 5 other guys in her phone texting her about class stuff. You have to show her your time is worth more than hers.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:42 AM
3

I always keep it between 1-3 texts. "it's x" then "lets to this at this time" If she says yes, you're good to go. If not you just saved yourself 20 minutes of needless texting & can next her. You don't need to establish a texting rapport with her if you just got her number or matched her on tinder.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:38 AM
1

You'll come away with a great understanding of women if you watch this show.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:29 AM
3

You're probably coming off as non-congruent. Girls can sense when you're projecting false confidence. It sounds like you're coming off as needy instead (i.e. texting her for the sake of texting & not sticking to logistics).
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:26 AM
1

I generally just do lean bulking year round with mini cuts here & there.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:16 AM
1

I was just going to comment this. Drink coffee.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:35 PM
5

This. Some of the most unintelligent people I know have a high degree of education.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:13 PM
5

Stop watching porn & jerking off. This is most likely the root of your ED.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:30 PM
1

If a girl doesn't kiss you on the first date (I'm going to assume you escalated) it's an automatic next. She seems you as nothing more than an orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:53 PM
10

She's approaching 30 & looking to settle down with beta bux? Imagine my shock.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:30 PM
1

you may feel like you're treating her like shit, but she is happily swimming in a sea of feelings This is an interesting quote. Which post/book is this from? Sounds like the art of seduction.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:41 AM
7

Just leave the nuts hanging out.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:44 AM
1

"Wish this night never happened" oh man, I would be rolling laughing if she posted that after leaving my place.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 04:27 PM
8

I would like to explore other emotional relationships I can't help but laugh when I see these. She's fucking Chad. It's over. Hit the gym, block her on everything, & download tinder.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 04:21 PM
3

I don't think girls in their 20's with >3 n-count exist.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:40 AM
1

Just looked it up. Jesus, she's hard to look at.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:38 AM
6

Neediness isn't a red flag. All girls are clingy if you're their Chad.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:30 PM
4

This post makes the mistake of assuming that girls have anything to offer other than what's between their legs.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:16 PM
2

This is scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:51 PM
3

You set the frame. If you take her out for dinner on a first date instead of Netflix & chill you're going to get roped into 3 sexless dates & a provider role. You gotta let her know what kind of guy you are, then she'll know what kind of girl to be. Shoot for drinks.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:43 PM
1

Coffee means coffee & Netflix means sex.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:46 PM
2

She shouldn't even be able to text you. You should have had that shit blocked on text & every social media. Don't go digging in the trash.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:39 PM
2

Yes, you can pull girls without going to the gym. However, having a great physique makes it almost effortless.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 04:06 AM
1

Every girl will eventually push for exclusivity you just have to remember that you're the gatekeeper of the relationship.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:04 AM
2

Indian men have a reputation for being timid. Girls aren't attracted to that.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:36 AM
2

But most men don't want to touch a woman that's past her prime. This is the difference between a RP male & other males.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 01:40 AM
1

Tinder girls are looking for one night stands not fwb. Shoot your shot & escalate for sex the first (only) time seeing her.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:09 AM
1

I would say 2 tiers below is more accurate.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:06 PM
25

It could be worse. My sister is a model & told me her dream job is trophy wife.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 08:25 PM
1

It's because you're giving her validation for doing nothing. It's the same reason girls like "assholes" & loath nice guys.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:25 PM
1

Love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. There's no such thing as love in the form of some esoteric eternal thing that I'm sure you think it is.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:24 PM
1

Yeah, this a fucking mess. The reason your brother's wife won't suck him off in public is because he already married her. She already has a guaranteed provider thus no obligation to sexually please him.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:23 PM
1

Never compliment her on her physical appearance.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:17 PM
10

I've never met a girl that looked as good as her Instagram.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:16 PM
3

Just say you have to study or something. If anything it will turn her on being second place to your studies & getting flaked on. You'll have no problem rescheduling because she didn't get her validation the first time.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:52 PM
1

Tell her "you need time to explore yourself" & then plate her in a couple weeks.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:37 PM
1

Just put yourself in the top 20% of men & it's much easier.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:46 PM
3

Fucking lift.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:44 PM
1

I completely see where you're coming from. I grew up mostly surrounded by catholic girls & as they grew older their hypergamy started to show. However, I dated a mormon girl in college who was very devote & basically worshipped me. She was completely exclusive & very submissive.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:59 AM
1

Short introduction & then shoot straight for logistics. Never text for the sake of texting.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:42 PM
1

Only use tinder.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 09:24 PM
15

Religious girls are about the only girls left in western society that are worth LTR (source: experience).
/r/askTRP29/10/17 09:23 PM
1

Just ghost her until she double texts.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 09:22 PM
1

You're creating a buffer for yourself. You're looking for the perfect moment to escalate. There is no perfect time to escalate on a girl. If you're driving her in your car lean over & kiss her. If you're walking with her grab her & kiss her.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 09:18 PM
1

LMR, nobody is "too tired" for sex. Escalate like you have ear plugs in next time.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:46 PM
1

Where is the fucking question?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:19 PM
8

This girl is just using you for your attention & nothing more. Since you texted her for 3 weeks without her actually having to do anything she knows that your time comes cheap & she doesn't have to work for your attention. This is why you should text only for logistics.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 07:51 PM
2

This is a lay up.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 04:43 AM
3

The easiest way for me to see if she is into me is to invite for coffee. The easiest way to see if she's into you is to invite her over to watch a movie (she knows this means sex). If she says no you just saved yourself 3 or more sexless dinner/coffee dates.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 04:42 AM
1

It's borderline impossible to find a girl who hasn't fucked several guys who are already better than you Your goal should be to get to the point where you have no doubt in your mind that you're the best the girl you're with has ever had.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:41 AM
9

I had a good laugh at "does not want to ruin a good friendship". She's just not interested.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:18 AM
1

If she says "maybe" she's not interested. Read this.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:45 AM
1

Buy a gym membership & a tin of C4 preworkout. Stop being a pussy & go to work.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:23 AM
1

The extent to which I use NLP is speaking in statements instead of questions to girls (questions have underlying neediness & investment). Only thing I took away from it.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:16 AM
1

Girls don't give a fuck about your clothing brand. If you're high SMV she will "halo effect" your clothing into being high status either way.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:12 AM
1

I just follow a rule. You text her saying "lets do something this time" and if she's too busy (not interested) you soft next her no exceptions.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 07:52 PM
2

I lost frame because I asked her 4 times. You lose frame after asking more than once.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:28 PM
2

Her saying she's busy on the weekend is the equivalent of saying "I'm not interested.". What do you think a girl would do all weekend that would occupy 14-16 hours of her day? If you put 2 hours in the gym & 2-3 hours of studying you had a fucking banger day. Do you think she's going to even come close to that level of productivity yet she's still "busy"?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:42 PM
4

Look into what caused your depression (i.e. addiction, medication, etc.). Generally if you're eating clean & lifting regularly you should have all the confidence in the world. There must be an underlying issue.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 06:05 AM
25

Any beginners reading this you should be including non-working sets before jumping right into your max for that rep range.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 05:47 AM
1

Start taking cold showers every morning. You're basically forcing yourself to do something you really don't want to fucking do & you'll stop giving a fuck about things like going in for a kiss.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:49 AM
2

Literally just make strong eye contact with her & kiss her. It's really that simple.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:33 AM
1

Sit at the front/middle so everyone in the theatre can take notes on escalating.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:31 AM
4

This is not a good post. This is the same brain chemistry that desensitizes you to real girls & causes PIED when you watch porn. No, I wouldn't recommend following a dozen pornstars on snapchat & masturbating everyday to the point where you can't get your dopamine hit from them anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 03:08 AM
1

Stop watching porn & jerking off. Start lifting. Take multivitamins. This will give you more than enough energy to study.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:56 AM
1

This really could go either way. Generally there's multiple IOI's if she's interested (i.e. "fuck me" eyes wt/ unnecessary touching). Sexual banter alone isn't enough to go off of.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:49 AM
1

Strong silent type, but that's just me.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:35 PM
1

Them having a boyfriend means nothing. Game her like she's single.
/r/seduction27/10/17 11:19 PM
2

If you have to ask she's not interested.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:04 PM
11

Start hitting on the guy.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:14 PM
4

Girls with a high n-count have a difficult time pair bonding. It's a red flag for anything long-term.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:54 PM
7

If she's telling you it's in the 20's it very well could be in the 30's or even 40's. Personally lay count doesn't really matter to me. I always keep the frame it doesn't matter what her lay count is because I'm the best she's ever fucking had.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:47 PM
2

Strong eye contact & kino.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:41 PM
3

The problem here is you're letting this girl's presence bother you. You're too emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:20 AM
1

I would just block her. Don't go digging in the trash.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:18 AM
1

Your answer was too direct. A&A would have been better.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:15 AM
2

Ghosting is basically just not answering your phone anywhere from a couple days to a week. The purpose of this is to make yourself less available thus causing her to chase.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:44 AM
4

This is a bad idea for so many reasons.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 03:55 AM
3

Tell her "I need to take some time to find meaning in my life." something just over the top dramatic. She'll eat it up & get an emotional spike from it. Then you can plate her easy a couple weeks later.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:54 AM
1

The projecting part of this comment is very interesting.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:46 AM
6

Tell your girlfriend you need to take a break "to explore yourself" then plate her later.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:44 AM
6

This is not abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:42 AM
2

She blew up my phone and after a week I decide to let her be a plate. This was the wrong move. You should have blocked her on everything.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:11 AM
2

I doubt that will last. Girls need that shit like oxygen.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:48 AM
1

Start with paragraphs.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:41 AM
1

LTR's aren't inherently bad, marriage (without a prenup) is. Date her & see how it goes. Keep an abundance mentality & never legally bind yourself to another person.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:07 AM
1

She's just a tinder slut don't put to much thought into it.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:04 AM
11

Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:39 AM
2

Hard next is when you block her on everything & basically delete her from your life. Soft next is just going non-contact until she crawls back.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:35 AM
8

She's probably just testing your frame. The best thing you could have done is to act like you truly don't care at all or talk up the other girl (the nuclear option). Girls with plenty of Instagram followers are usually very insecure.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:54 AM
3

Cut off your cock & balls that should do the trick.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:35 AM
3

She's using you as her emotional tampon when she complains to you about how "awful" Chad is to her. If you've known her for two years & haven't fucked her yet your chances of fucking her without substantially improving your SMV (lifting) are almost zero. You have no mystery.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:10 AM
1

Meditate & read.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:55 PM
2

Men lead. Women follow.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:54 PM
2

say you lied about your age & are really 14 & something like you have an unusually large dick for your age basically the only way to fail a shit test is to give a serious response
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:45 PM
4

Ghosting is for dread. Soft next is for disinterest. If she's not fuck yes about you it's a no. Hard next is for girls that need to be removed from your life.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:37 PM
1

God, that's a bad one.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:19 PM
1

Say that you're only 16 and snuck in the back door to get in the club.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:07 PM
1

This isn't surprising at all.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:06 PM
2

48 laws
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:05 PM
2

Marriage.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:55 PM
1

You got it. A lot of guys make the mistake of going in a heavy deficit & staying there for long periods which will just end up shutting your metabolism down. When you're eating moderately in a deficit & having a cheat meal or refeed once a week you'll be consistently burning fat.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:41 PM
2

I'm not going to lie OP this is going to be a mess. You're going to lie to your parents & go. You're going to get way too drunk because it's your first time drinking & probably end up getting your dick sucked in the bathroom. You're going to go home just a drunk fucking mess still & you're parents are going to fucking crucify you.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:53 PM
5

This is exactly it. I'm not sure how you got downvoted.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:41 PM
1

Try supplementing a refeed once a week. When I'm cutting I'll do one day a week where I'm eating 200 over maintenance. This will give your metabolism a boost to be burning calories the rest of the week. I usually go at 2000-2200 for the week & one day at 2800.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:39 PM
0

Great frame control. Work on that body fat % & you'll be slaying.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:26 PM
10

The principle behind the metaphor clearly went over your head. If you're high SMV she'll fuck you on the first date. If you're low SMV you'll be made to wait 3 dates to indefinitely & be hit with lines like OP did such as "I move slower.".
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:03 PM
12

Yeah, 3 dates minimum for Channing Tatum. She has to get to know him deeply as a person first.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:43 PM
2

If she's a higher quality girl you won't have to set boundaries. Establishing verbal boundaries with a girl just shows your weakness & will most times come off as mate guarding. There's nothing you can say that will stop a bar slut from being a bar slut.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:45 PM
3

You don't even need to do that. If she's leaving you on open & flaked 3 times the situation isn't salvageable. Hard next.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:17 PM
2

Hard next. Block her on everything & delete her number. She's using you as her time ho.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:15 PM
8

She's realizing your SMV is increasing as hers is in decline (anything after 22-23 is declining) & is pushing you to commit.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:11 PM
2

This must be a troll post.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:04 PM
1

Girls tell girls everything. This is why you don't have LTR's. You could have been non-exclusive & fucked both of them without repercussions.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:17 AM
2

Set up booby traps.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:58 AM
1

It takes 4-5 years to build an impressive physique not 3 months.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:18 AM
3

This may be the worst thing I've ever read. It's amazing the rationalizing here to stay out of the gym.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:16 AM
2

It seems cringe at first but it makes a world of difference. Like get one smoking a cigar on a roof or some artsy fitness shots. You just gotta find a cool photographer & you're set for life with online dating.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:40 AM
4

Invest in some professionally done headshots (should cost $200). Go out hiking & take some aesthetic photos with your buddy. You need to play the game. Girls aren't going to swipe right on your charming bio.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:33 AM
1

Are you kidding? Girls don't hide jealousy & paranoia at all.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:31 AM
12

You basically have her on a string right now. You should be able to keep banging her as long as you want until she feels the wall approaching & needs to settle down with a beta.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:16 AM
12

Give her the batista bomb through a table.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:21 AM
3

baiting her to double-text and invest in YOU now this is exactly it
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:42 PM
2

You should have texted both of them from the start & made them fight over you.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:40 PM
3

MGTOW are arguably just victims of their own circumstances (low SMV). The seduction community on reddit is very blue-pilled. Everyone on seddit is trying to turn a bar slut into a housewife.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:13 PM
7

Honestly it's probably best for you to get your heart truly & honestly broken once in your life. Then after that read the first rational male book.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:04 PM
1

Stop giving yourself buffers. Make time for yourself. Lift, read, go out & game girls. Nothing in life matters more than your own self improvement.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:57 PM
5

Block her on everything. Go to the gym. Fuck other girls. Never look back.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:53 PM
7

This is just a shit test. Ignore it completely or agree & amplify (not sure what you would say to that, though).
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:52 PM
3

Tinder or bar sluts.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:49 PM
4

This is a great comment.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 10:10 PM
5

Pro tip: use minoxidil on your beard, not even joking I went from thinner facial hair to 5 o'clock shadow thickness using minoxidil r/MinoxBeards
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:40 PM
5

Pro tip: Even when you get rejected smile & walk away as if by your own decision. In a bar nobody is going to be able to hear you get rejected & it will look like you just decided to talk to hot girl & peel off. Social proof left intact.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:33 PM
1

There's a saying that if you dangle the ring in front of her she'll leave her boyfriend & come with you. Some girls have good relationships that aren't worth risking with frequent hookups. However, if you offered her a branch for her to swing to (not saying you should) she would leave her boyfriend right there.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:24 PM
8

College is far too large for social proof to matter. Social proof only works on smaller scales (i.e. parties or bars). If you're talking to good looking girls you have social proof.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:18 PM
1

When I had my second shoulder surgery the recovery time was close to a year & a half before I could lift the way I had before. I never felt more powerless in my life than I did in that time. I watched myself lose 30lbs & be disregarded by girls I would have normally been able to pull.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:48 PM
5

It's risk vs reward for them. Was your SMV & company worth risking her already secured provisions? - is what she'll be asking herself
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:39 PM
1

Those first two lol
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:29 PM
13

Buyer's remorse is common with girls in relationships. They'll rationalize cheating most of the time but since they already have a provider don't expect them to engage in anything long term.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:28 PM
3

Your SMV peak isn't for another 8-10 years & her peak was 5 years ago. You should drop her & date younger women. Men age like wine. Women age like milk.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:20 PM
2

This is it.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:18 PM
11

Do's -> lift, block her on everything, download tinder Don't -> be a little bitch & still talk to her
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:40 PM
2

Men age like wine. Women age like milk.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:21 AM
3

This is perilously close to white knighting.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:20 AM
2

You're never going to find purpose in anything outside of yourself. There's no career or one girl that's going to truly give you fulfillment. You can only find it within yourself. Worship your body in the gym & train your mind by reading books.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:12 AM
3

I have a similar mentality in that my looks (physique, clothes, etc) determine my self worth. I don't see any other way to look at it.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:58 AM
1

Absolutely, him & Todd are great.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:16 AM
1

Youtube but I'm probably going to buy his programs in the near future aswell
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:11 AM
1

You're going to learn the most from going out every weekend & practicing however you should watch RSD Julien's videos from 2012-2014. Best pickup material in my opinion. He teaches getting the girl psychologically addicted to you with emotional spikes, push/pull, etc.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:09 AM
6

"You gotta let them know what kind of guy you are, then they'll know what kind of girl to be."
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:30 AM
9

Get tinder. My first year of college I had new girls every week from tinder it was ridiculous. Since you're a virgin aim low for your first couples lays. It's all about getting the ball rolling. Just remember to wear a condom.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:36 AM
1

Stare off into the distance or text when she starts talking. Act as uninterested as possible.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:25 AM
2

That's exactly it. If you're fucking other girls with plausible deniability & still giving her emotional spikes she'll probably fucking love you for it & not mind you fucking other girls at all. It's impossible to covertly over-dread. It's when guys are fucking other girls & bragging to her about it and shit like that it becomes too overt & just drives her away.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:55 PM
1

If you haven't read the first rational male book you should do that. Also lift, dress well, etc. Eventually you'll get to a point in monk mode where you're very satisfied with your SMV & can start going out & gaming girls again.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:42 PM
1

He's a very red pilled guy & big Trump supporter.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:37 PM
1

Think of how cool it would be to wear an eyepatch. That's only going to hold you back as much as you let it. I have a friend who had his arm & part of his face blown of by an IED in Iraq & he still games girls & cycles through girlfriends. Remember, though, girls are just a bonus. Focus on yourself & girls will come. I went deep monk mode for about a year and a half and raised my value immensely. If that's what you need to do take the time to do that.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:32 PM
3

The only way to over-dread is if your SMV is staggeringly higher than hers and you're fucking other girls. Even then she'll still stick around most times.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:27 PM
0

She doesn't plan to hangout. This was a warning shot across the bow to not overstep the friendzone.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:23 PM
1

She's not interested. If for whatever reason she actually does commit (Chad canceled) show up late or cancel last minute just for fun.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:57 PM
1

Drink water & stare at some booty.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:52 PM
1

The only thing that will get her to the gym is dread (not in the way OP is going about it). She'll only improve if you distance yourself from her & she feels like she's losing you.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:50 PM
1

You should never pursue girls you've known longer than a year because by that time all the mystery is gone. You no longer have the chance to be her mysterious bad boy alpha because she knows you too well. You're chances are infinitely higher with girls you haven't met yet.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:50 AM
18

If there's another attractive woman, I'm not afraid to mention it to my girlfriend. You're communicating too overtly & she can tell you're a beta.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:29 AM
3

If you're just spinning plates let her be & next her if she acts up. If you want an LTR (I have no idea why you would) then you can be a bit more overbearing & mold her into your ideal girl.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:21 AM
5

If you're lifting 6 days a week you're going to run yourself into the ground.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:39 AM
14

If you're dating girls 18-20 you may come across one but very unlikely in western society.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:38 AM
1

This is fucking hilarious. She would have fucked Chad on the first date. Next.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:35 AM
2

Read the rational male & watch Hank Moody in Californiacation.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:34 AM
1

Touche Touche
/r/askTRP24/10/17 02:33 AM
0

They exist. It's probably <1% of the female population, though.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:10 AM
8

"How do I not piss off a girl" jesus fucking christ
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:36 PM
2

The correct response is to hit the gym & download tinder.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:33 PM
164

Deleted texts & gave out her number three times (and these are the things that you know of), this isn't fiance material. This is plate material.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:52 PM
6

Girls don't screen for potential they only see the current product. He's getting girls because of his looks not because she sees his future potential.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:05 AM
26

That's hilarious. Best response to a shit test ever.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:55 AM
6

I completely agree with agree & amplify in this situation. Silence or completely ignoring her shit test will just make it seem like you're brooding.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:54 AM
2

Had a good laugh at that backtrack from preadolescent sex.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:39 AM
6

You have everywhere to fuck. Go to a park at night. Alley or something. Girls love that kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:35 AM
1

You must be coming off needy over text. Are you following 2/3 etc? It's easy to kill attraction by texting her too frequently.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:35 AM
1

Think this & you're close. Don't wear a hoodie like some high school kid level up to overcoats.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:13 AM
0

My absolute go-to is a pair of jeans with knee rips & a t-shirt with an overcoat like this (optional baseball hat & loafer shoes). It turns heads.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:06 AM
2

Sometimes you can toss a day of ghosting in there for fun just to let her hamster run even if she texts you. It's up to you.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:03 AM
1

Ghost her a bit. Just a day or two & then shoot straight for logistics.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:53 AM
3

If she stayed the night she's not looking for new prospects she's trying to grab your attention. She's in validation seeking mode right now because you couldn't get hard for her (she thinks she's not attractive enough of you). Also don't tell her "Yeah, I'm a player.". She'll know by your actions you're seeing other girls & she won't care. She'd rather share you with a dozen girls than have you have no options.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:32 AM
1

Mine is "I'm the shit, every girl wants to fuck me."
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:24 AM
2

I would say your sticking point is waiting for the perfect moment to happen for you to escalate. Sometimes you just have to grab the girl & go for it. It's easy to improve on. Don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:48 AM
2

Your friend is an absolute liability nevertheless you could have escalated on the brunette at any point. The logistics basically fell into your lap & there's a million ways you could have escalated regardless what your friend did. This whole post is filled with buffers.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 01:17 AM
1

If you're getting one word responses she's not interested.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:28 AM
8

Get a lawyer. This is basically attempted rape & murder if the dose was high enough to have killed you.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 12:27 AM
3

Lift, mediate, read, go out every weekend. Your age & height is no excuse.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 10:22 PM
2

You should convince her to do anal then never call her again.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:03 PM
4

You could not have played this better. She didn't put out so you kicked her out & met up with another girl. Your best move is to soft next. She'll come crawling back & you can fuck her then.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:01 PM
2

Yeah, get married too & have multiple kids.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:58 PM
19

First rule of fight club.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 06:46 PM
1

These girls must have been under the impression they were exclusive with you. Also how would they find out about eachother? Too much missing info. You know the drill go out approach girls & download tinder.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:57 PM
2

Just to add to this you can avoid these situations by not giving a girl the attention she desires over text & sticking to logistics only. It's the guys who have actual conversations with girls over text that get pulled into this role. She'll realize she doesn't even have to put out to get your undying attention. Tl;dr stick to logistics & if she flakes once next her
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:53 PM
2

Just to add to this you can avoid these situations but not giving a girl the attention she desires & sticking to logistics. It's the guys who have actual conversations with girls over text that get pulled into this role. Tl;dr stick to logistics & if she flakes once next her
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:53 PM
2

To find a girl to do my laundry & suck me dry. I have low standards. You're low hanging fruit.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:47 PM
2

Lift, dress well & learn game.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:25 AM
1

Don't ask her to hangout during exams. Text her sometime after exams "Lets do something this day.". That's it. If she flakes on you once you don't ask again. Soft next.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:22 AM
6

I have a rule if a girl flakes once she gets soft nexted.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:18 AM
1

It's definitely not a bad thing. Most times a girl can play it off like she's just a socialite so it doesn't even seem like a cold approach.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:57 AM
3

Generally a girl will send over her friend to say "My friend thinks you're cute." or something of the sorts. It would be very bold for a girl to cold approach a guy.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:49 AM
2

It's about work/life balance. I'll never be at the top of my field in accounting because accounting isn't my life. I enjoy fitness, game, fashion, photography & if I dedicated my life to accounting I would never be able to enjoy those things. I'm perfectly content with this.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:28 AM
2

They'll tell you themselves early on (depression, rape victim, etc.). It's something they pride themselves on.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 10:03 PM
6

If a girl gets hung up on you not drinking she's very very low quality. Most girls will respect you more for not drinking (I haven't drank in 2-3 years because of gym also). It's the ones who are ashamed of their drinking that will try & make you enter their frame.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 10:02 PM
1

This is ultimately just levels of SMV. You can be low SMV & still be red piled as well as being high SMV & blue pilled. Red pilled is an ideology not your SMV.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 09:52 PM
5

In terms of your socializing dropping off as the semester drags on this is normal. You're not going to be going to every party like you did the first couple weeks. Hit up some tinder girls to lose your virginity or hire and escort if you have the money. It really doesn't matter how you lose your virginity it's all about getting the ball rolling.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:31 PM
2

“official date” This is generally not a good sign. She's placed you in the beta bux category. Pro tip: don't 'like' her pics or watch her snap story you're just giving her validation when you do that & it kills dread
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:18 PM
1

Props on fucking a >6' girl. I'm 6' & couldn't even imagine bagging a girl taller than me.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 06:24 PM
1

This is covered in one of the first few chapters of the first rational male book. I highly recommend reading it. Ultimately you're fucking with your friend's reality by changing who you are (which is a good thing) but your friends are still going to criticize you thinking you're trying to "be someone you're not".
/r/askTRP21/10/17 05:03 PM
5

Ghosting is not supposed to "turn around a situation". This. Ghosting can be effective to get a girl crawling back or instil dread, however, most times you don't even want it to work really. It's much more gratifying to be with a girl who is fuck yes about you from the start.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 04:47 PM
1

You can't be apprehensive with her. "Escalate like you have earplugs in." Even if you're escalating with her & she mentions her boyfriend act like she didn't even say anything. Kino & go in to makeout with her. It will be a lot easier if she's already into you.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 04:10 AM
2

It's all about isolating her. Some girls in relationships will just throw caution to the wind & you can game her with her friends around but most girls you'll have to get in an environment where there's no consequences for her (no friends or people she knows around). If a girl is alone with you & you have her emotionally invested in you she'll cheat almost every time.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:44 AM
12

This is why I have brown carpets.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 03:30 AM
4

Game her like she's single. I should have this on copy & paste. Edit: Upwards of 60% of the girls I've been with have been in relationships. Almost any girl will cheat given the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:14 AM
1

If you notice this sort of stuff you're way too over-invested. In my mind it's always "she's changing her pictures to get my attention again" but in reality she's a tinder slut & probably just looking for the next prospect.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:13 AM
2

14 dates? Holy fuck, dude. If she doesn't put out after 2 you next her.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:11 AM
2

This is a good one.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:08 AM
1

I can't help but shake my head when I see guys on here taking tinder girls on actual dates. You tell her to come over & watch a movie (she knows this means sex). If she refuses you next her. That's how you don't get roped into 3 dates like this poor guy.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:53 PM
1

You're taking a girl with daddy issues on LTR dates. Tinder girls are only good for netflix & chill.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:50 PM
1

Numbers game. Works better on tinder.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:51 PM
1

Porn is most likely the source of your issues with getting hard with real girls. Cut that out & you should be good.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:02 PM
1

Nothing lost here. Go radio silence all weekend & she'll chase.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:00 PM
2

5 at most. If you're lifting hard 6 days a week is going to run you into the ground.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:21 PM
4

She probably just thought she wasn't attractive enough for you to get hard thus chases for the validation she didn't receive. This happens when you bust early on a girl & play it off like you don't give a fuck. You treated her like a fuck rag for a couple minutes so she's going to chase until she gets that validation. I fucked a girl for like a few minutes once then kicked her out. She chased me for like an entire summer after that endlessly blowing up my phone, etc.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 03:16 PM
4

If you watch porn & jerk off stop. This completely cured my social anxiety not even joking.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:52 AM
2

Pro tip: turn off text & tinder notifications on your phone. You'll be replying to girls 10 minutes to even a few hours after they text you. Passive dread.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:49 AM
7

I'm fairly certain that precum doesn't contain sperm. However, I could be wrong.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:35 AM
3

Honestly I wouldn't worry too much about getting girls in high school instead start lifting & reading. It will never be worth the effort to overcome your lack of social proof & overbearing parents. Focus on self improvement & you can have pussy on speed dial in college.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:13 AM
1

That shouldn't matter in the slightest especially given that you're in shape & successful (people make exceptions for attractive people). I'm 23 right now & honestly wouldn't even have an issue dating a 21 year old when I'm 40. Age shaming is just a feminine social convention. I'm willing to bet the hatred you've received has been from post-wall females.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:54 AM
3

Carry yourself like you're the fucking shit but don't go around cutting people down because of it. Edit: Through years of sports I always considered myself an underdog & had a fuck everyone else mentality, which really helped at the time but can hurt you in other areas of your life. The underdog mentality is self-deprecating in a sense. It's much better to carry yourself in a higher confidence instead of thinking you need to prove everyone wrong.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:30 AM
4

If you haven't read the first rational male book that should be at the top of your list. Then work your way through preventive medicine, positive masculinity, 48 laws & the art of seduction.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:41 PM
2

You don't text her. She'll text you. If you don't text her all weekend it should establish some dread & that you haven't invested in her that much. Never text for the sake of texting - keep it logistics only. Also don't go for movie or dinner unless you've fucked her or she's somebody that you actually want to invest in.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:39 PM
2

You can easily game in movies (given attraction is already established). Eye contact, kino, etc.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:38 PM
5

Lol, no kidding. Bonus for what?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:28 PM
2

You can say literally anything. It doesn't matter so much what you say. Eye contact & how you say it matters more.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 10:25 PM
8

It works better towards the end of the workout. If someone started talking to me at the beginning of my workout I would be like "fuck right off" in my mind but if someone tried to strike up a conversation in my last few sets I wouldn't mind.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:00 PM
20

It's a big IOI for a girl to put herself in your vicinity frequently. You generally shouldn't practice cold approach in the gym but if the both of you are leaving the gym at the same time one day shoot your shot. Edit: Don't use the pussy pad.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:28 PM
1

She's not interested.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:17 PM
3

M: tomorrow's the last day H: aw shit, sorry babe, I would have come if I'd have known You'll notice something very important here. She doesn't suggest going tomorrow. Any girl that is fuck yes about you will jump at the opportunity and say "let's go tomorrow!" but the fact that she left it at that tells you that she's not interested in going tomorrow with you either. Soft next.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:41 PM
1

If she's know you that long she may already see you as a platonic friend with the lack of mystery, etc.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:05 AM
0

If you have a really attractive girlfriend you don't give a fuck about & want to pawn her off for social proof while you spin plates, sure, change your relationship status.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:03 AM
2

So I'm in a LDR with my ex. Holy fuck, dude.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:01 AM
1

There are two male teachers in my faculty at college that are both mormon. Contraception (condoms & birth control) are against their religion. One is expecting his 7th kid & the other is on 11 now. If that doesn't cause you to take a big step back from religion I don't know what will.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:59 AM
9

It doesn't matter what she does she's just a plate.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:18 AM
6

You don't even have to respond to shit tests..
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 03:45 AM
1

Most girls are going to have multiple partners regardless. Despite blue pilled beliefs marrying a girl does not insure you against her having multiple partners. This dove tails into how std's are for the most part a feminine myth to inhibit men from pursuing their biological imperative (fucking a lot of girls). Wear a condom you'll be fine. Edit: I assumed the second bit is what you were worried about with having non-exclusive plates.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 02:07 AM
3

Just to add to this it's very important that you block her on everything & delete all traces of her (out of sight out of mind). It should be like she never even existed. If you couple this with tinder & hitting up several other girls that are viable sexual options you should forget about her within the week. It will shock you how fast you will forget her.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:25 AM
2

I personally gave up pornography 6 months ago but I have a theory that porn works the same way as dread game. It's basically your mistress. I could be wrong though. Back to the problem at hand. Your relationship should have ended 5 years before it did. After a year with a girl the mystery is all but gone along with the attraction. The fact that she texts other guys is a giveaway that she's probably been cheating on you this whole time. Right now you need to just read the first rational male book…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:17 AM
3

Get your testosterone checked out.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:09 PM
2

fight via text Stopped reading after this.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:08 PM
2

Just walk up & hand her your phone with a blank text on the screen. She'll know what to do.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:03 PM
1

Your bio & messages don't matter. It's all about pictures. Your first two photos should be your best (get this done professionally for like $200). Then you should have a photo of you in a social situation (preferably with other girls) for social proof, an adventurous photo, & a fitness photo. The order for those last 3 isn't too specific.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:57 PM
1

Sex itself means almost nothing to me. The thing I love about pickup & game is how in control I feel.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:01 PM
5

Read the first rational male book.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:33 AM
2

She would let Chad fuck her on the first date. Take a step back & objectively evaluate your game (physique, clothing, body language, eye contact). Where do you think you can improve? Girls give out kisses like it's nothing. If she won't kiss you on a first date there's areas in your game that are lacking.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:04 AM
3

She says she misunderstood and had studying to do. You're correct in that she's just using you for attention. If a girl flakes once (like she did here) you delete her number & move on to the next girl.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:51 AM
6

First, she's a plate so it doesn't really matter what she does. Second, if your SMV (judging by height) is so much higher than this guy it really shouldn't bother you.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:39 AM
1

Aim low or hire a prostitute. It really doesn't matter who your first notch is. It's all about getting the ball rolling.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:21 AM
4

I use this in the weirdest way for pickup. I'll imagine her shitting & it will be so easy to do a push after a pull.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:12 AM
3

If you have the money definitely invest in braces. I had braces for roughly 2 years in high school & was one of the best things I've ever done. My teeth are always the first thing girls notice & get tons of compliments for it.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:50 AM
1

My hunch is that she doesn't want to be seen with a guy with my opinions by members of her friends group. This is hamstering at it's finest. Girls will always make exceptions for Chad.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:44 AM
2

You know what's up. Nothing turns a girl on more than flat out disagreeing with her on topics & nothing puts you under a females frame more than changing your political views to fit hers.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:34 AM
2

Yeah, girls generally date 4-5 years up. Don't worry your SMV will just increase with age.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:55 PM
8

let political view she didn't like slip Girls want you to disagree with them. Agreeability kills attraction. got text next day saying it's a deal breaker She would have still fucked Chad regardless of his political views. If a girl ever tells you it's not going to work because of x she's just not interested. You have the same chance of getting LJBF'd even with this "core fundamental disagreement". It's just another way of letting you off easy.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:38 PM
2

Do you live in a larger city or more rural area? I live by two medium sized cities & find it very effective.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:28 PM
2

Just get tinder.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:14 PM
1

There you go. Make a field report about it after.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:14 PM
1

"One for every weekday & we all get together on Saturday/Sunday."
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:13 PM
1

It's going to have to be a specific type of girl but on my campus there's like entire classroom buildings nobody uses at night take her to like the top floor of some library or something. Girls love that stuff.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:08 PM
1

I'm just joking with you. There's many solutions to your problem you could kick her out afterwards, get a fan, get a bigger bed, take her somewhere else to fuck on campus, etc.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:58 PM
7

"Help, I'm 6'2 & fuck a lot of girls but my bed is small." I saw a post on here the other day the guy has a warrant out for him & 3 kids with a girl that's fucking a gym bro on the side. Those are real problems. Fuck girls in some unused classroom at night in school. Mix things up a bit.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:51 PM
1

This is not always the case some just need the attention. I digress texting is for logistics only.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 09:33 PM
2

I'm not going to lie you're going to be at a disadvantage being a minority in a predominately white country. The Indian girls have most likely reformed to fucking white guys. You should be trying to distance yourself from the FOB stereotype. Start lifting & work on your clothing. Try & lose your accent. Try & be not like every other Indian guy new to the country.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:53 PM
12

Never apologize or explain.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:47 PM
0

No, because a man's biological imperative is to be with as many women as possible. This doesn't differ in some males thinking they're "one women kind of guys" out of lack of options.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:15 PM
7

She tells me she can't because she's broke (and she's refusing for me to pay because she's ashamed) She's not interested. Brie gets drunk to the point where I have to take her home which stops me from sealing the deal. This is a buffer you're creating for yourself. Tell her to get a cab.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:07 PM
1

If you go on r/Seduction you can find people with goals to find a wife doing cold approach at clubs.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:58 PM
10

I think this would still fall under scarcity mentality in that "I'll never find another girl with this personality.".
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 01:44 PM
5

Not enough info to go off of. Sometimes girls say "you two should date" playfully and the underlying message is "you should date me". The other scenario is she's not interested & is pushing you off to her friend.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:26 AM
26

Sex & friends mean nothing in the shadow of personal development. Take the time to live rent free & do well in school.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:20 AM
9

That's how it works. When you have many viable options for reproduction your brain won't form a strong chemical bond with any one girl. If you fuck an HB9 & are spinning 2-3 other 7-8's you're never going to catch oneitis for that one girl. You most likely couldn't give a fuck. It's females who catch oneitis for the highest quality of the opposite sex because they're monogamous by nature. Men are polygamous so they never experience loss over a high quality girl when they have several other decen…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:00 AM
6

$0.60 in Bangladesh hahaha holy shit
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:49 AM
2

My dad's 56 & can still game girls & bench 275. Your age isn't an excuse.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:06 AM
3

Soft next. If you're getting one word answers it's not a shit test she's just not interested. Never respond if a girl gives you 1-2 word texts. She's not adding value thus not worth your time.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:10 AM
2

Block her on everything. Download tinder. Hit up 2-3 other girls. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:08 AM
1

Love the analogy.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:08 AM
12

Gym time, studying, running that time is for you & you alone for the purpose of self-improvement not spinning plates.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:03 AM
3

I was going to say $20 for pussy? Lol. For me it's tinder. You'll never get oneitis when you can summon pussy with a few messages.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 12:59 AM
5

Block her on everything. It should be like she never even existed.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 12:47 AM
3

In my opinion the best way to keep your testosterone spiked is to eat a diet of only whole foods (red meat, eggs, vegetables, etc.). Drink atleast 2L of water. Abstain from masturbation between sex & lifting weights, obviously. Edit: I've heard intermittent fasting boosts testosterone but never tried it long enough to speak to that.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:12 AM
59

The best way to beat oneitis is to understand it from a biological perspective. Your brain views her as your only source of sex (reproduction) thus creates a strong chemical bond to her. When you have abundance, or atleast an abundance mentality, you'll never experience this.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:08 AM
6

It kills libido in men. When you're flooding your brain with dopamine watching porn & accomplishing your biological goal (orgasming) 2-3 times a day it leaves you very little libido to accomplish anything else in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:04 AM
1

If you watch Steve Jobs with Michael Fassbender you can see he had serious issues forming relationships & went almost his entire life without acknowledging his daughter or biological father.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 08:45 PM
3

I'd recommend reading the first rational male book before anything else.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:49 PM
3

You're taking a sniper approach right now waiting around for this one girl to come around. Soft next her & explore other girls. If she comes around do something then but don't chase.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:29 PM
3

If you're her first string you'll know. She'll be blowing up your phone & sending you unsolicited nudes. If she's telling you shit like "I'm not sure what I want" you're definitely not her first choice. Sorry for the hard truth.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:25 PM
1

You're going to need to add way more volume if you want to put on some serious size. Focus on training hypertrophy 4 times a week.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:19 PM
7

The fact that she's so transparent about it shows how little she values you. I wouldn't be surprised if you were much farther down the lineup than second string.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:10 PM
0

I think your personality with girls should be congruent with who you are with a small part being "fake it till you make it". You don't want to "just be yourself" but you also don't want a complete overhaul of your personality. Small improvements.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:58 PM
20

Doing 4 approaches in 2 months is nothing. You're not even giving yourself enough practice to develop your skills. If you lifted weights once every other week do you think your physique would benefit from it? No, because you're giving yourself too much rest.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:56 PM
3

Fuck no.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:55 PM
25

In my opinion porn is the greatest issue facing men today. I don't even want to get into how emasculating & damaging this is to men.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:43 PM
18

Not to mention pornography.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 03:14 PM
3

If she has a history of abuse that means she responds to validation & abandonment. It doesn't mean she needs a nice guy to save her. If you want to fuck her you have to play off of her insecurity.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:40 AM
0

Taking a tinder girl out for dinner was your first mistake. She no doubt sees you as a potential provider & is withholding sex to leverage that. Tinder girls are only good for netflix & chill.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:08 AM
1

Just be non-exclusive with girls. What's the point of being in an open relationship?
/r/seduction16/10/17 02:06 AM
11

Stop watching porn & jerking off.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 02:02 AM
1

Texting doesn't matter all that much. It's only for logistics. You can't build attraction over text. Eye contact & escalation are far more important.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:37 PM
1

I had a good laugh at this one.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:30 PM
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