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NICE FOR WHAT?carameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:22 AM
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SCROTES MADcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:43 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:53 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:44 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:36 PM
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PICKME CULTUREcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:13 PM
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COUCH CREATUREScarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:23 PM
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PICKME CULTUREcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:06 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:12 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:16 PM
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LVM LOGICcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:19 AM
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REMINDER 👑carameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:22 PM
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LVM LOGICcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:20 AM
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LVM LOGICcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:10 PM
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COUCH CREATUREScarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:58 PM
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PICKME CULTUREcarameals/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:11 PM
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Same here in Sweden. There is no mandatory alimony or spousal support either. "Child support" is only around 1600 SEK or $160 and if the men can't/won't pay it the government will. If you're SAHM your entire life then your LVM husband leaves you, you receive no help (except charity from kind family/friends), no pension, nothing to help you to get on your feet because the premise is "you could've been productive to the society but you weren't". So they end up settling for under the table job and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:34 AM
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PREACH. I live in Sweden and here most of single mothers are struggling. There is no alimony or big child support. Child support here is around 1600 SEK or $160 a month. That can afford like only diapers and a can of formula. And sadly not many people sympathize with single moms as their premise is "we as women have to be ready to be left so we have to be independent"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:44 PM
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I can't imagine having my vagina torn up then stitched back up OR having my abdomen cut wide open, or even both; but still do 50/50 with a man whose all organs are still intact.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:41 PM
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I had an emergency c section after a painful 50+ hours of labor. The recovery was tough because I unfortunately also got infection and lost blood excessively. Out of all these pain my husband experienced NONE. And who knows the long term damage it has caused my body now? I live in Sweden so the feminism is rampant and I have gotten flack for not helping him financially but I'm still not going to pay 50/50 hell not even 10/90.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:39 PM
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WTF this is so creepy!!! That's good you blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:15 PM
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My parents act as if my husband going to work was some kind of GRAND sacrifice 😂😂 he has worked before he even knew I existed! He'd still need to work even if I'm not here! Nobody holds a gun to his head to marry me and create a family lol. He's an adult, made his choice, so now he has to live with his choice. With choice comes responsibilities. If he didn't want to have responsibilities then he could just be a crackhead living under the bridge hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah I've told my husband as long as it's me who is pregnant, pushing the baby out, and feeding the baby, i am naming every child after me/name of my choice. You wanna know something ridiculous? My MOTHER (fellow woman) mocked me for my naming choice and told me to name my daughter the female version of my husband's name because he has also "contributed" (working on weekends, overtime) while I'm pregnant so I've been able to stay home. TF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:15 PM
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I AGREE. I'm pregnant right now and i think it is incredible offensive when someone says that! Men only needs to shoot up sperm and women have to undergo 40 weeks of pregnancy. Watch what we eat, go to doctor visits, take supplements, being physically limited, uncomfortable sleep, shortness of breath, peeing every 5 minutes, heartburn. Labor and delivery itself is a mystery, it's something nobody can control. Baby's position can change in the last minute causing women to have emergency c section…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:39 AM
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Omg! That's a super pretty ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:44 AM
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Have you looked at fathers? They never go through pregnancy, post partum depression and bleeding, insomnia, night sweats, breastfeeding, and hormonal changes YET they're STILL fat! Not to mention men have higher testosterone that help them to burn more fats and build more muscles faster than women. They still have the audacity to say "my wife let herself go after kids I'm not attracted to her anymore 😩😭😭"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:55 PM
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Hahahaha this is true about the 30 minutes visit from sons. My uncles never take care of my grandmother. They only visited on Christmas day. My aunt on the other hand, has to live in small city with her, working as store assistant making minimum wage despite working everyday in order to take care of my grandma. Yet almost everyday she talks about how she misses my uncles and literally prays for them 🤡🤡 One of them is in the brink of divorce because he's a LVM and his wife couldn't take it anymor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:48 PM
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Yet when parents are old and doggone sick, daughters are supposed to take care of them. When they die, daughters get less inheritance than sons. What a clownery 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:31 PM
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I'm married now and I don't cook, clean, bake, or wake up before my husband at 4 am to make breakfast. When my parents found out about this they got enraged and said my husband is gonna leave me eventually because I'm lazy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:07 AM
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Southeast Asian, combination of East Asian culture and Islamic values 😩 unfortunately this happens to women in my upbringing too. They are so misogynistic despite them being women themselves. I was raised that if your husband leaves you for another woman, it's all your fault because you're not a good wife. Also there are some concepts on being "real women". My aunt was in labor for 47 hours and ended up getting emergency c section and her in laws mocked and disparaged her because she didn't give…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:52 AM
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Yes, here I LEARN, not just study. Because nobody is pressuring me to have As so I can take my time to do deep learning and there's student grant I can keep. I also am able to do anything I've always wanted to do. I don't need to be "a good wife" who wakes up at 4 am to cook and clean, has dinner ready when he's home, asks his permission to do anything. My life is so good and chill now. Never even existed in my mind that I'd have this kind of life lol. My sister said to my parents "look at older…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:29 AM
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I'm from Southeast Asia where East Asian culture meets Islamic values 😩😩 I met my husband in internship then I moved here because I saw better opportunities for me to thrive as a woman. In SEA I couldn't pursue higher studies. Education isn't free and really expensive. Salaries are low, as we're 3rd world countries with so many people. Scholarships system are biased and will prioritize male candidates because "men will be the head of the households". I already worked 2 jobs but I couldn't make i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:59 AM
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I don't have any male siblings, but I grew up beibg treated like this. My dad is Chinese and he said so many times that daughters are just waste of money to raise because they can't carry family name. Both of my parents also gave me scraps, with the excuse "I would buy you better things if you were male". I'm pregnant now with a baby girl and when I told them at 22 weeks they got SO disappointed and put up some "eww" face. They said "it's OK you can try until you have a boy because you are still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:49 AM
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My mother, grandmother, aunts, older cousins, even my friends said this to me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:19 AM
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In fairytales
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:34 PM
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Not to mention Hollywood men have the means to afford testosterone replacement therapy, dietitian, personal trainers, stylist, dermatologist, plastic surgeon.. Even those men look better when they were young. Even Brad Pitt looks WAY better when he was young. Compare Leonardo di Caprio now vs his younger days lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:50 PM
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Women over 35+ are shunned if they have rough fertility journey. The thing is, most of those women have partner that are around their age or older! Nobody pays attention to that. Even younger women (early 20s) who are with older men have longer average "trying time" and/or complicated pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:44 PM
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Scrotes don't do even 1% of your effort. Even the basics like their diet and lifestyle are trash, they squander their youth, health, and fertility because they're delusional, they think they're Abraham from the Bible who had perfect kid at old age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:37 PM
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Hey I actually got it from FDS! Men and their biological clocks; why you shouldn't settle, listen to sexist rhetoric, and why older men are not better (With sources and links) https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g7ggz6/men_and_their_biological_clocks_why_you_shouldnt/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:44 AM
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I'm still waiting for the journals that say 80 year olds can produce offspring as healthy as 20 year olds ☺️ EDIT: The journals are from FDS! Men and their biological clocks; why you shouldn't settle, listen to sexist rhetoric, and why older men are not better (With sources and links) https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g7ggz6/men_and_their_biological_clocks_why_you_shouldnt/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:44 AM
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Men call us "emotional creatures" yet they scream and smash their controller 🎮 to the wall when they lose at video games lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:50 PM
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EXACTLY! 💯 If he's so "anti work" then he'll have to be self sufficient. He has to move to jungle somewhere and plant/hunt his own food, collect rain water, skin animals for clothes etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:47 PM
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Parents rush their daughters to mature while prolonging their sons' childhood. I'm so sick of this especially when I come from a patriarchal culture. In that culture parents spend so much money on their sons' mediocre education/hobby/job while the daughters get leftovers. Yet when they're old, they expect daughters to take care of them. Foh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:42 PM
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Exactly. Never start doing something unless you're prepared to do it as long as you live. You don't wanna be critically sick and still expected to mow the lawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:37 PM
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Don't ask don't tell don't explain. Be quiet and leave. Action speaks louder than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:31 PM
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Is he 5 years old? If not, he'll do fine. You shouldn't worry about him, because if the situation is flipped, he's not going to think about you. Men are selfish, they only think about their own survival, they don't even think about their own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:28 PM
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"i dIdN'T ThInK It wOuLd bE WoRtH EnDiNg oUr rElAtIoNsHiP" 🤡🤡 What has he been doing all this time? It seems like she does everything??? Was he comatose or what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:19 PM
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Disgusting 😭😭😭 why do those women let all of these happen to them. They're just wasting their resources and energy on some scrotes while there are men out there who will risk their LIVES for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:47 AM
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By digging into his comment and post history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:52 PM
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You can see his lower part of the face, he already has double chin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:56 PM
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Exactly lol. During lockdown men like him neglect their health, have growing beer guts and dropping testosterone levels to the level of a 90 year old. 0% chance he's got a single digit body fat 😂😂 from the censored Twitter picture, he already has double chin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:55 PM
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Hahahaha have you read a post about a member at red pill sub who claimed he's an aLpHa cHAd who slept ONLY with 18 year-olds, is apparently a 20 yo something (i believe it was 26) virgin with social anxiety problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:14 PM
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Wow.. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.. Thank you so much for sharing your story..
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 06:36 PM
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Thank you mods for all you do. This sub is like the only sub I know where I can express myself, ask questions and advice judgment free! Nobody has ever told me to cOmMuN1c4te and gaslit me by telling me "it's normal for men to act like that, you're just too sensitive"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:01 PM
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Especially if you're young and want kids, please don't fall into this trap. Their sperm has been mutated for so many times and it contributes to higher likelihood of birth defects and pregnancy complications. You don't want to take care of disabled children and old man when you're only 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:43 PM
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Exactly. Women have to "snap back" and "get their body back" after being pregnant for 9 freaking months, risking their lives during childbirth and recovery, breastfeeding or bottle feeding, postpartum period, and the whole hormonal alteration. Some men even embarrass their partner on social media because she gained baby weight and has stretch marks. Men never have to undergo any of that, they have higher testosterones that helps them to burn more fats and build muscles faster, yet I've never see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:38 PM
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I honestly don't know the answer but that is exactly how I feel! When I get asked those questions, I almost always automatically reply "why?". It just makes me uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:30 PM
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Yeah I'd give up ice cream forever if I could make men feel what I feel during IUD insertion and the menstrual pain after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:26 PM
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Misery loves company. They're miserable and jealous of you living your best life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:48 AM
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Off topic, but she's so beautiful!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:49 PM
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I was brought up by narc parents and patriarchal, dysfunctional society where women are 2nd class. So traditional, men are highly favored. When I was growing up, women couldn't make passport or bank account without parents or husband's (guardian) concern. It's like RP on steroid. RP resonated with me so much but then after knowing some truths to it and seeing how RP women's lives really are, I came to realization that RP is trash because none of the RP relationship success. Yes some may last lon…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 04:35 PM
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I'd like to congratulate him because he has succeeded in implementing RP cheap manipulation tactics on you. He has done negging, emotional manipulation, and overall mental gymnastic to you. Tbh I don't know what you see from him but it seems like you have Stockholm syndrom. He's manipulative and childish. The fact that YOU have to apologize for not liking RP concept?! WTF? Are you a computer and he's programmer, you have to do and comply with his every idea? You're not even in a serious relation…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 03:30 PM
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Check out the first aid kit pinned post😊
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 07:33 AM
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Finding out info about Mrs Midwest was my tipping point. Her aLpHa husband has (or had, idc) a porn addiction and allegedly frequents strip club with his co workers. Mrs Midwest lives an isolated life with no friend and she has cut all ties with her family because they don't like her husband. I used to follow her IG and her life is so mundane and her husband doesn't seem like he cares about and appreciates her. Shoe on head is another case. She was in relationship with another youtuber for I thi…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 01:16 PM
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Thank you for writing this. I once was also a believer in the RP community. I studied a lot of RP Women / traditional feminine kind of thing. One day I found out that most of them aren't even in a committed relationship or eventually get left for younger girls once they turned 25 or in their late 20s despite having dated those men for 5, 7, 10 years being all submissive and feminine! Those who are married are getting cheated on by their RP husbands.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 01:01 PM
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And the first thing he blames is the pandemic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:20 AM
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Leave now. Don't interact with him anymore, not even on his post on social media if you're connected there. This needs to stop NOW. Don't let him build a habit of disrespecting you, he is not going to change and this is not going to get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:40 PM
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So lovely! Happy birthday, may all your dreams and wishes come true this year!!! 🎂🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:37 PM
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Exactly, just look at super handsome models and actors from the 70s, 80, and 90s. They used to be HOT but now their looks fade! They have all the resources in the world to maintain their looks and even them, they still age, some of them age bad! Yet this regular degular man thinks he'd magically look like young Brad Pitt in 10 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:43 AM
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Yes #4! Also calls other men who don't adhere to their standard of masculinity soy / simp
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 06:21 AM
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OMG that edible cookie dough!!! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:42 AM
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We can discuss this further, I dm-ed you! 😊 I'm 22 F and married!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 09:37 AM
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Wow thank you for the tips! I didn't know that! I would always avoid wearing makeup (except lipstick and mascaras) when I wear turtle neck 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:52 PM
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This is so good I'm saving this post!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:50 PM
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Yes this is true I unfortunately have experienced it! I lost SO much hair that I developed bald spot! My nails were also brittle and weak. At first I didn't know it was caused by being emotionally abused so I took vitamins and use hair products, nope didn't work despite having spent tons of money. After we broke up I had that big sigh relief and I could literally feel my hair stop shedding and baby hairs grew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:14 AM
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I've overheard guys talking about how women wear "tight revealing clothes" at the gym because they want men to ogle them!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:49 PM
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I think many of them either resent their daughter or try to mold and groom her into this perfect woman imagery they have in their heads aka emotional incest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:46 PM
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Yes it's really sad indeed, I can't imagine how she'll feel when she grows up and be a woman then finds her dad's online accounts trashing women for a living. What if she meets a man who religiously follows her dad's "advice" and treats her bad??? Yeah there's such thing as karma and generational curse but still, poor her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:43 PM
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He preaches about how you shouldn't date single mothers while he is a single dad himself 😭😂😂😂 he talked about how single mothers have victim mindset while he's still bitter about his divorce that happened years ago and proceeds to blame women for it 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:37 PM
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Yeah those rejects, mgtow red pill manosphere whatever they call their club
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:34 PM
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I'm Southeast Asian, born and raised there, last year moved to Europe. The beauty standard there is also toxic and ridiculously high to achieve, not to mention the extreme patriarchal society that degrades women and put us as second class. I remember being criticized for eating cake, eating more than one bowl of rice, can't cook, sitting a certain way, not having light skin, etc. They police every miniscule thing women do. But for boys, they can be ugly fat and can't fold their laundry and socie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:31 PM
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Hahahah this dipshit. He is a RP influencer. He's divorced and has a daughter. He is obviously in despair after the divorce but he's trying to make it seem like he "got freed" from all that and now he lives in constant delusion and blabbering fantasy stories about how he bangs women he want and drives various cars (rumored to be rented but idk). Imagine being in your 40's, pretending that you are high value, but can't find anyone and can't create any relationship, yet giving advice on relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:24 PM
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Exactly!!! I don't get it when men say they have no idea how to cook?? Cooking is only a matter of following instructions! Online recipes, YouTube videos show us step by step guide for cooking. It's not like they're in cooking competition where everything has to be perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:35 AM
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Projection. Those men are either unemployed or work in bottom of the barrel jobs. They feel resentment because other men who are more successful than them "dominate" them and boss them around. They can't lash out at those successful men so they cowardly lash out at women and/or children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:07 PM
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Wow omg I do not know what to say! Thank you so much for sharing your story with us 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:26 PM
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I live in Sweden and I don't recommend retiring in Sweden either. I know few pensioners personally and they choose to retire in other countries. My husband's colleagues who retire early also chose to move. Even my grandparents in laws aren't in Sweden and my mom in law is moving to Spain next year. But it's only anecdotes and subjective, I wish you good luck with all your plans 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:09 PM
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Hahahaha I love this comment! I swear so many men nowadays lack of social skills. They get all their "knowledge" about women and life only via internet and video games 😭😭😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:42 PM
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If they're too cheap to go to therapy session, they could write a diary or pray or walk or meditate or something! Or a groundbreaking stuff: get a male best friend! Why do they feel the need to use women???????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:40 PM
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Exactly. Grooming. I hope the kid turn out fine, go to therapy, and realize all the bs his stupid dad preaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:34 PM
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When I go out and see couples with kids, the women always look better and fitter than the men. Men never have to be pregnant, give birth, breastfeeding, deal with hormonal changes postpartum, they also have higher testosterone that help them to pack muscles easier, YET they look bad and the wives still stay with them! If this was the opposite, men would leave their wives and other men would encourage it because muh penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:32 PM
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THIS IS SO GOOD!! 😂😂😂 you're so talented!! 💫💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:42 AM
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It's not a group it's a page, and as I'm typing this there are 6758 people like the page 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:51 PM
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Anyone who sees this post, please report that stupid page if you are on FB 😡 so FCKING GROSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:24 PM
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Sorry this happened to your mom! I myself moved to another continent for my husband, because where I'm from, I was second class and was limited to so many things (because I'm a woman). Here I can pursue further studies and the law towards women is far more just than it is there. I sadly also notice this sad phenomenon in some women in my class. They're programmer, certified nurse, psychologist, even doctor from first world countries who moved here only for love. Their qualifications aren't recog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:46 AM
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Yes this looks like it! I may sound like a hypocrite because I moved to Northern Europe for my now husband. But I'm from a Muslim patriarchal society in Southeast Asia where I was always the second class. I was also never enough as a woman, not nurturing enough, not skinny enough, skin not light enough, etc. Also the environment there was toxic af. They praise men for doing nothing and blame women if relationships go south (you're not skinny after 2 kids that's why he cheats on you etc) Now in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:32 AM
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He should see a dermatologist for advice and treatment. He doesn't have to go to the gym if he wants to lose or gain weight, as it is mostly what you eat. He can buy dumbbells and do workouts at home and go to the gym when he feels confident and comfortable with his body. When it comes to dating, I don't think it is good for him to look for a partner in this state of mind as he would choose partner out of poor judgement.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 03:12 PM
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Both men and women age. Being a certain gender doesn't guarantee you're going to age better than the other. Whether or not you age well is determined by lifestyle (exercise, alcohol, food, stress, pollution, sun avoidance, etc), genetic (fat cells underneath skin, thickness of the dermis, melanin, etc), and if you have resources for cosmetics treatment and procedures. (laser, botox, fillers, face lift, etc)
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 02:58 PM
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I already do lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:49 PM
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I meant I don't tell them so much*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:48 PM
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I don't. But in my culture after you're out of school, especially if you're female children, you're supposed to send them some money to support them and 'pay them back'. I don't send them anything and that's how they lashed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:40 PM
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The "studies" she referenced as the "truth" in that video are taken from personal blogspot and wordpress articles 😩😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:54 AM
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I was. I'm from an Islamic country so the society is really patriarchal. I was treated similarly to how you were. All my life I was bullied and policed because my mom was afraid no good man would want me, even if it's simple thing like complicated nail art or dyed hair. I was told to bleach my skin, tint my hair darker, eat less, speak softer and never talk back to a man etc. At the same time I'm from Asian background so the demand on education is high. One day I uttered that I don't want to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:36 AM
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My husband is heavily tattooed and I had asked him to not have another. One day he came home with new tattoo. I was mad and I cried, then he apologized and promised me that he wouldn't get another in the future. I got over it quick. I didn't act like this man did. Hair can grow for free! Tattoo removal is expensive and more than one session is needed. He is so DISGUSTING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:20 AM
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Yet all the rejects in RP and mgtow claim that society treat men horribly and women have it way better than men in 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:13 AM
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Omg same here with my male Swedish friends. I'm from Southeast Asia and I was talking to them about how sexism is still rampant there and people still look at males as higher than women and people favor men more. Women have to work twice harder to even get the opportunity men have. Their response was, "oh no it can't be right, I've traveled to countries in Southeast Asia and everything was fine, women seem happier there!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:10 AM
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But we're the toxic sub because we recommend members to stop texting a man who demands sex on first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:31 PM
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Disgusting!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:51 AM
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EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED. I was feeling down and I have been in my bed doing nothing. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:30 PM
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Omg was about to comment this! Same here, I also got blood clot from BC. I also lost my appetite and had heartburn all the time. I lost a lot of weight to the point my hair started falling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:32 AM
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Textbook definition of emotional immaturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:34 PM
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Right?!!! And they judge successful men who aren't dating 18 year old model or still with their old wives. I remember one day I got into the rabbit hole and those men literally labeled Jeff Bezos a beta, a simp, all the degrading names because his new girlfriend is around the same age as him. They did the same thing with Cristiano Ronaldo for giving his girlfriend $100K a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:26 PM
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They won't take caution and they choose to ignore everything. Sometimes they have to experience it themselves, get hurt really bad, lose friends, jobs, money, be at the very bottom, THEN they'll finally learn something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:16 PM
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There has been a study that proved men aren't even capable of handling the negative side effects of birth control shot like altered libido, acne and mood swings. They also can't handle period pain. Being pregnant for 9 months then go in labor????????? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:08 PM
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Makes me both sad and infuriated. These are women giving men praise on very basic thing! Imagine being so happy because your man doesn't think you, who is carrying HIS child, look like a cow. WTF?! Imagine feeling like having to ask if he still likes your expanding belly when you're carrying a baby that is 50% HIS DNA?! EDIT: Grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:18 PM
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OMG I had similar experience! I was mocked for lack of muscle mass that's what he said. He thought my butt wasn't big and firm, my chest wasn't perky, my arms weren't toned and I had lower belly fat because I didn't lift enough weight often and consume enough protein like IG fitness models. He mocked my food choice. I was 5'1 100 pounds and exercising 5 times a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:22 PM
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I don't have last name / family name as in Indonesia I don't think it is mandatory (both parents don't have either). My dad and his brothers came up with a made up last name so my cousins and I and my sister have the same "last name" (??) I got married to a Swedish man and soon going to have a daughter (6 months pregnant now). My parents especially my dad want my baby to have the "last name" and not give her Swedish last name!!! I told him that the baby is half me half my husband so I don't thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:36 PM
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In my culture, women have to stay virgin for marriage, stay skinny, light skin, soft spoken, able to cook, clean, have to settle down before 30, all that bull crap. Daughters are also expected to take care of parents when they're old. Parents feel like they have a duty to groom their daughters to be a good wife and pension plan. With son, it's not that strict. They can be the worst jerks and people justify it because "that's just how boys act, it's normal". I've known people who helped their son…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:30 PM
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Dated someone like that. I was never mocked for gaining weight, but I was mocked for not having enough muscle mass (I was 5'1, 100 pounds, had an active lifestyle workout 5 times a week.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:03 AM
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YES YES YES. When I told my friends and relatives I'm pregnant, most of them hoped I'd have a boy because they thought raising girl was hard and expensive and girl can't carry family name blablablaaaa. I'm gonna have a baby girl and couldn't be happier! Going to teach her all this FDS knowledge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:10 AM
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I hope she get picked. Sending her best of luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:58 PM
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Yes sadly that stuff is rampant in my culture as well (Southeast Asian Muslim). Women have to bear and be responsible for everything. When something goes wrong in the relationship, it's always our fault for not being a good wife. I have an aunt who had to get emergency c section. The side of her husband's family shamed her while in recovery. "if you don't take care of your husband then don't blame him if he looks for another woman." "a man must have his biological needs fulfilled" etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:09 PM
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Wow.. This is so true and well written. I experience similar thing and was raised in similar belief/culture (Southeast Asian Muslim). The misogynistic views are out of this world. I have an aunt who had to undergo emergency c section after being in active labor more than 18 hours. Her husband's side of family don't see her as "fully woman" because she didn't have unmedicated vaginal birth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:18 PM
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Omg does he have 30 hours a day??? Imagine writing all those long answers from two accounts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:42 PM
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DISGUSTING!!!!!! What's wrong with some men's brain?! I'm pregnant right now so I've been compiling information about labor, breastfeeding, newborn related stuff. Visit nipple shield, pumping and latching technique tutorials. You're gonna find MEN leaving inappropriate comments like "go home boys, there's nothing to see here" "thumbs up if you're so disappointed" "this isn't what I expected to see". WTF?!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:49 AM
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"mEn pEAk aT fIfTy fIVe"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:46 AM
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WTF. Your husband is the one who's addicted, yet it's your fault?!! How does that even make sense? Has this scrote ever heard of personal accountability? Your soon to be ex wasn't tied up with you holding gun next to his temple to watch porn. HE CHOSE TO. But according to this scrote you have to fix his addiction??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:41 AM
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I want to know what her insta is so I can follow her, is it allowed if you post the insta here? (regarding to the sub rules) Or do I need to send you pm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:33 PM
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LVM men especially those in RP and mgtow community, call women entitled because there was a survey that showed on average, women see men less attractive comparatively to how men see women. They don't realize women DO spend time and resources to look good! How many of them shower everyday? Have skincare routine? Wash their hair routinely? Put on nice outfit and accessories?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:29 PM
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Apparently she is on YouTube as well and her videos are pro mgtow and TRP concept. She gives "advice" to men what to avoid in women like if she asks you to pay on dates, if she's late on first date, if she cares too much about her appearance etc. Her comment section is full of men praising how a good woman she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:18 PM
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She has more videos like this, if not this is the only kind of video she always posts. I've seen some of her videos because pickmesha classmates share them. She's the queen of pickme kingdom. This woman must be on something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:18 AM
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Yes please that would be AMAZING! I heard stories from female friends and family who went to counseling only to be told to "cOmMun1cATe better with your partner". A girl in college had a cheating boyfriend and she got told, "you should try to be his friend so he can comfortably open up to you. perhaps there's something that he wants but he can't find it in this relationship hence he looks for it outside". 😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:13 AM
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SO ACCURATE! And he's freaking 43. He has lived in this earth for FOUR DECADES. Let's say the worst case he wasted his whole 20s, from the age of 30 to 43 he had freaking 13 years to find a job! Investor and novelist?! As for now, his parents are paying his bills. Then he'll get a new naive woman who would let him move in her place and sustain him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:09 AM
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Please let the baby be anything but a girl. I don't want no more innocent baby and little girl to have NVM as fathers. If it's a girl, he's going to resent her and the mother. Then the girl is going to see and live with him. She's getting the wrong impression of what a man is. Personal experience because my father wanted me to be a boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:58 AM
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Gold diggers with internalized misogyny who want to be stuck in the 1950 and uphold patriarchal value. I've gotten this insult IRL lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:55 AM
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Right! And he's almost 40 ffs! He's too old to be irresponsible for his own health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:44 AM
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You should keep them chasing you. Don't extend yourself to impress them as they should be impressing you. If you're the one that does everything then how are they supposed to be interested in putting in effort. Just think of it like you're in group project in school, if you have the one smart kid who does everything, would you still be enthusiastic about doing the project, or would you just step back and let them do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:25 AM
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When we want the fastest, the strongest, the smartest, the healthiest, the one with the most resources; it's not biology, it's wHAt DO yOU BRINg to THE TAble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:20 PM
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Wow, now I understand! It's always mediocre and below average men who degrade, belittle, and disrespect women. The last line is the reason why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:13 PM
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Right! I'm pregnant right now and I can't imagine being 50/50. In first trimester, the morning sickness was unbearable, I also had massive food aversion. Second trimester the bump starts growing and that's when lower back and pelvic pain start occurring. And stretch mark. Not to mention the contraction!! Can a man share 50/50 of the contraction pain?? If the labor fails to progress and I have to be induced, can a man feel that pain? The side effects of the medication. The vaginal tearing, or the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:08 PM
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Makes me wonder how many lives of handicapped people those commenters have saved... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:34 PM
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Exactly!! They also want free pr0stitute, free cleaner, free cook, and free therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:13 PM
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I love reading stories like this, it warms my heart!!! 😭♥️♥️ Thank you for writing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:10 PM
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Like the previous comments, you shouldn't feel like you have to reciprocate what he does. Nobody put a gun next to his head to drive couple hours to go to your place, he himself made that decision. When I first met my now husband, he was from another country and he had flown 24 hours to meet me. I didn't even pick him up at the airport. I got him to book a hotel that was located in the city I lived (7 hours drive from the airport) because I thought the airport was far and I felt lazy. You did th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:08 PM
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Unlike those women who can't take a joke, I support our troops. Bet you can't steal this. 😩😭😭😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:57 PM
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Love this post and comments! Bookmarked. Thank you for writing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:55 PM
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Happy belated birthday! Reading this post makes me remember how I've been hard on myself and neglecting my fitness. I'm going to do some yoga and hiit tomorrow. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:52 PM
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I have a motto "if I feel embarrassed, it means I have tried." I have tried being pickmesha and it failed miserably. I've learned my lesson. It's in the past, I can't change it. It's shameful but now I have to look forward otherwise I'll keep making the same mistakes. Life is like a game, there are levels before you reach that treasure box. I completed that level and now I am stronger, I'm closer to my treasure box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:50 PM
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WTF. She doesn't deserve this at all! She did such a heroic and selfless act saving someone else's life and she still got degrading comments! Had she only stood there, she would've been bashed as well. Everything women do is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:45 PM
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It's so sad. I mean yes he's an actor but I think she could've done way better than him. She's beautiful, young, and she's a model. She was already in his circle, I'm sure there would have been other high caliber men available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:41 PM
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I am dying to ask what their accounts are but I'm restricting myself 😩 do they live in Northern Europe by any chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:09 AM
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Guys nowadays are so materialistic! Our grandfathers back then were fine with park dates! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:02 AM
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Nooooo 😩😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:57 AM
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I feel bad for giggling a little when I shouldn't.. Deep condolences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:56 AM
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HAHAHAHA GOOD!!! 😂😂😂😂 "bUT monogamY is noT IDeAL FOR Men, We NEeD TO sPreaD oUr SeeDs" Play stupid games win stupid prize 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:54 AM
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I bet only a verrrrry small percentage of them can go to the woods, chop, then build a nice sturdy table from scratch 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:21 PM
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RPM always blame everything on women. Women making mistake while young by having baby with a broke drug dealer, now she's a single mom? THAT'S HER FAULT. WOMEN ONLY GO FOR BAD BOYS AND CHADS AND RIDING THE C0CK CAROUS3L. Women focusing on her studies and career, being careful about whom they date? YOU'RE HITTING THE WALL QUICK. YOU ARE PAST YOUR PRIME. NOBODY WOULD WANT YOU. SHOULD'VE SETTLED DOWN WHEN YOU WERE 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:13 PM
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I wish she would find this sub. She's an Oxford grad for gods sake! She deserves waaaaay better than being dragged down by scrotes and pickmeshas. If she went for less educated man, she'd get advised to tone down because YOu'RE emaScUlaTIng him. mEn NeEd TO lEAD iN THe rELATiOnship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:48 PM
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Typical LVM tactic. He wanted her to bend over backwards for him and to prove she's "worthy" of his time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:40 PM
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Imagine if it had been a post from a wife saying "how do I persuade my husband to buy me new handbag" wooooooo we know damn sure what's gonna happen in the comment section
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:35 PM
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The fact that they make meme out of it... Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:33 PM
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Yes, I've witnessed this first hand. I used to volunteer in underprivileged areas where many women didn't have any other choice but to work in s3x tourism. Most of them didn't complete or can't afford education. Some of them have kids, sick parents, or siblings to take care of 😢 it's sad how media has glamorized prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:14 AM
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YES. THANK YOU SIS. You said this really well. This post is golden I'm bookmarking it. 🎉🥇🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:09 AM
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Men faking their age to be younger? That can't be right, because mEN peaK aT fifTy fIvE!! 😭 😂😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:36 AM
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My LVM ex also said similar thing to me. He said I was never going to achieve my "fantasy" (his exact word) because no smart man would want to "slave away" (his exact words) for anyone. Now I'm married and I'm super relaxed. I pursue further studies, get to go to the gym and plan my diet daily, do volunteering work, and my hobbies. Funny how LVMs all over the world have the same strategy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:22 AM
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Have you seen the chart on how men see color VS how women see color??? "The results showed that women were more adept at distinguishing between subtle gradations than were men. This sensitivity was most evident in the middle of the color spectrum. With hues that were mainly yellow or green, women were able to distinguish tiny differences between colors that looked identical to men." MEN ARE VISUAL 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:46 AM
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He sure still needs some growing up to do. He's whining and can't control his urges, that's so childish. Even a 5 year old is able to accept that McDonald's is closed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:18 PM
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Hahah I am somehow curious how this happened? Is he Edward Scissorshand??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:15 PM
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Walks are great with dogs too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:48 AM
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He thinks she will need no break after c section???? 😩😩😩😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:37 AM
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I was wondering the same thing, what's the font, it's so cute! Yeah, he's childish, he's mad at little thing and she's right when she said he didn't want to compromise. He wants her to do things his way, she doesn't see it as fit. Then she offers a solution that would make them able to do what they want (he continues sleeping and she continues doing her routine), he got mad! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:14 AM
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What I have noticed so far is, there are three kinds of them. [1] karma farming, [2] that they're naive (young, never been in relationship, anti social, etc), [3] they're being groomed (age gap relationship; AGE is jusT a nUMbER. i'm sO MaTURE thAt i cAn hANDle a guY 25 yeArS oLder THaN Me, or trapped in abusive relationship)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:06 PM
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Now imagine if the post had been about a woman who doesn't want to participate in bdsm/3somes/watching degrading p0rn..... You NeeD to be OpeN miNDED! tHat is kINk SHaMING! hE has NeEDs yOu know! it's BIoLOGy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:57 PM
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Young, tall, handsome, well endowed, the fastest, the strongest, the one with most resources, the one with the best vision, teeth, facial features.. It's my biology. LVM will say I'm asking too much and it is "hypergamy". But when they want underaged girls, it's "biology" 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:23 PM
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I hope she doesn't have any kids with him. His behavior, lack of responsibility and of course his age. IF they have kid next year, he'll be 48 when kid is born, 60 when kid turns 12!!! She stated that his savings wouldn't run long, babies are expensive. Being pregnant is expensive. She'd need to work three jobs to support herself and that scrote. Also, he'll have to retire before the kid gets to college. Not to mention, that old sperm of his means increased chance of preterm and low birth weight…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:13 PM
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What a trash, he should be embarrassed by that. First date and that was the best he could wear?! He could've gotten new shoes, washed his shoes, even borrowed from his friend! My 5 year old cousin won't even want to go to school if his shoes are dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:59 PM
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Why are they like this? Whenever something wrong/unpleasant occurs, they always blame it on everything else but themselves! Successful women reject you? Blame hypergamy. Women don't want to be talked down to and disrespected? Blame feminism. Infidelity issue, abusive? Blame rough childhood. Depression? Blame single moms. WHY? Is self reflection THAT hard for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:18 PM
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FDS: if he forces you to have sex first thing or when you're not ready, you should never talk to him again and you should block him. PUA: You as ALPHA should get yourself laid on FIRST DATE. If she doesn't want to, you need to maintain your FRAME. Apply DREAD GAME and NEG her into submission because you're the CAPTAIN. PUA: fds is SO tOxIc, it teaches women to mAnIpUlATE men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:07 PM
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Yeah he may be 8, out of 1000000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:57 PM
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YESSSS, and he told her "I'm going to take care of you" ☺️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:53 PM
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Good job!!! I loved reading this story, thank you for sharing!✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:44 PM
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WTF!!!!!! 🤮 I'm so sorry you had to deal with this creature!😞 How dare he wtf, who does he think he is?! Even my own PARENTS, who brought me to the world and raised me, won't demand and guilt trip me to meet them if I tell them I don't want to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:34 PM
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I notice this too. Fat men trying to get with 9s and 10s model materials, get rejected, then complain and be bitter towards women! Projection at its finest. Like dude why don't you just go for pickmeshas who are in your level if you can't handle rejection and won't improve yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:25 PM
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Omg the age gap is like me and my dad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:27 PM
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Instead of getting screened for prostate cancer, losing body fat, eating healthy, eliminating alcohol and junk food, looking up information on male pattern baldness, or being concerned about his health in general; this is what he focuses on instead................ I also bet he's not even 35, he was 35 few years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:17 AM
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Exactly, this is so weird! Her question was on "spoil me with little things", it can even be candy or card! It's not like she wanted a mansion or Ferrari.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:13 AM
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I second this!! Stay away from professors and software engineers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:46 AM
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My mom, my aunts, my grandma are the same thing. My mom was also abusive, controlling, and demanding. She told me that when I grew up i should find a good job and also able to maintain household and take care of my husband. Now I'm married and pregnant and I don't need to work, my mom is the one that rushes me to get a job, while my husband never demands anything. I have tried explaining to them until my face turned blue but no result, only time and energy wasted. Got screamed at and name callin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:42 PM
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How do you get a man to act right? By acting wrong! cOmMuNicAtE rarely works, as action speaks louder than words! She needs to stop all this coddling and let him do it himself. He's not terminally ill, he's not disabled either, he's 100% capable of taking care of himself and his daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:22 AM
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Thanks! She's right, if you always always always put your spouse before you, always give in, always compromise, eventually you're gonna resent them and be miserable in your relationship haha so it's best to always try to win! Lol. Anyway, do you have the full video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:10 AM
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Tell her parents/older family members about it, also send her the link to this post and other FDS contents on age gap relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:28 AM
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He also has nothing to offer. His own words: no ambition, couch potato, no highly paid job; hell from the picture you can clearly see he doesn't even look good! He doesn't have a lot but he sure does have audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:31 AM
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OH. Oops sorry if it was a bad suggestion! I remember commenting on girls' posts there, they were recovering from RP mindset and said how the sub had helped them, so I thought the detox sticky post would also be applicable on female rp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:22 AM
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I'm sorry you went through all that. You're so strong and able to take control of your life!!! Inspiring story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:19 AM
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Good luck!!! 🍀🍀🍀✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:08 AM
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Go to exredpill sub, they have articles and scientific journals on RP mindset detox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:03 AM
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"Nature enemy of women’s life and thinking style. I use logic, science, statistics, common sense and reason, not emotions" Sure he doesn't use emotions and operate SOLELY on logic, science, and statistics when he was rambling and writing all that bullsh!t hahahahaha. RED FLAG: he watches Jordan Peterson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:56 AM
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Would have I been okay, hmmm I don't know maybe? Now that I think about it, even when we were still in relationship I had never never never thought of that. Like I was in university and participated in few volunteering clubs, also was a teaching assistant, I was busy busy, I had a little to no time to worry about things that I couldn't control. Moreover, he was supporting me financially so if he had talked to and looked for comfort from other women, while supporting me, it means I got the salary…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:45 AM
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I wouldn't call this advice I'm here sharing my experience. I got married at 22 with him who was 25. I moved in with him right after I graduated university. In my case, he was the one who proposed to me around 1 year in relationship, got me a ring, talked to my parents, etc. Then the wedding happened 1 year after the engagement, we did all the rituals and customs needed in my culture despite him being Swedish. He also gave dowry to me and my parents, and paid 100% for the wedding. I have a weddi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:47 AM
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Is she talking about male children under the age of 5? Because it makes more sense if she is 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:03 AM
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Haha yeah, I hope she strategically posted that to get awards and more karma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:01 AM
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I hope she posted that just to get more karma hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:59 AM
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He's the person that says WAP is a medical condition 😂😂😂 his wife must be so unattracted to him that she has DAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:56 PM
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He wants to win in the oppression olympic so bad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:00 AM
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EXACTLY! We don't need womb to cook and clean lol we need hands, legs, eyes, just like any other activities such as walking and driving lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:59 AM
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I was born when there was monetary crisis. There was big inflation. My mom got pregnant again shortly after with my sister. Many committed suicide, including two of my uncles, many babies and children didn't make it, all because of the financial wreckage. My dad singlehandedly managed to support us and his brother who was still in school. When I ask my mom how we lived through monetary crisis, she said she had no idea, she was already busy with kids she never had to worry about bills and rent an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:57 AM
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Sadly this is true. Contrary to what manosphere rejects believe, women who aren't married yet at an older age usually aren't the ones who ride "c0ck c4rous3l", it's the "nice girls" who wasted their time on LVM. I know someone who was a hardcore party girl. She was also bi and had multiple sexual partners. When she decided she wanted to settle down, she did! She's married now and taken care of. Her husband is a petroleum engineer and he supports her and her little online business selling hair ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:48 AM
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LMAOOOOOO. Millennial generation??? Men back then had to give land and jewelry to the woman's family to even be able to take her out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:41 AM
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Also, Jordan Peterson's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:37 AM
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PERFECT response! ✨🏅🏆 LVM think they can get away from everything.... Oops not today mf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:27 AM
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You should, because if you don't, all you'll ever be is a puppet on a string
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:11 PM
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Preach. Pickmeshas hate us but side with lvm who are misogynistic and see women as nothing but s3x dolls and maid. Something must be wrong with their brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:59 PM
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They want virgins that are wild and know exactly what to do in bed like professional xxx actresses lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:58 PM
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I really do hope she will leave him if she wants to keep the baby. I can't imagine the stress she's going have to endure after the baby is born caused by living with that degenerate reject. Constant feedings, messed up sleep schedule, breastfeeding problem, sore breasts, recovery, and god forbid, if she has postpartum depression.. 😞😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:55 PM
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Have you heard the stupid myth they come up with, that getting kicked in the balls hurts more that childbirth????????? 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:50 PM
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I want to cry reading this!!!! I'm also pregnant and actually only few weeks ahead of her (14 weeks now) so I know exactly how she feels! Morning sickness is UNBEARABLE. And fatigue. And heartburn. And food aversion! I barely ate anything on my first trimester, I can't imagine she has to go through that AND work!!!! 😢😞😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:46 PM
5

WTF does he even read Bible? In Bible it's mentioned a couple of times that it is the MEN that have to provide, protect, and even sacrifice for his wife!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:38 PM
5

Addition: She's apparently also in a relationship with some guy she met online, and there is an age gap between them. BAM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:23 AM
5

I've just read it and wow. You helped her to realize stuff but she stayed adamant so let her be. I lurked at her history and she's 19. There, you know why hahaha she'll learn quick (hopefully) 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:18 AM
10

EXACTLY. I've even had girls say this sub is the worst sub yet at the same time going to RPW, TRP, and belittling women!!!!! Their mantra is that this sub is man hating, fem1n*z!, teaching women to be conceited, selfish, and manipulative. Like how?! I browse this sub everyday and I've NEVER seen ONE post that tells women to play men like plates, pump&dump men, do negging on men, how to ruin men's self esteem! This sub teaches women to understand their WORTH and not accepting less than what they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:22 AM
4

Wow! Yeah I've read somewhere about her not being truthful. The man she's dating now is middle eastern, and she's already in her 30s (I think 34-35!). She has never put her man's face in public and some have speculated that it's because either he's not as rich as she wants us to believe, or he's a married man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:34 PM
3

I read somewhere before, that AB is shady? ALLEGEDLY:: She's not really Swedish as she claims to be, she's Eastern European. She's not even married/engaged to a wealthy man, yet she claims she's been at this since she was 18, she's in her 30s now. She hasn't accumulated enough assets and I also think that most of her income comes from the classes that she sells to other women. The man she's currently dating now is middle eastern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:23 PM
83

Yesss that's how it should be! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:09 PM
12

"love me and only me" BRUH!!!😫😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:14 PM
6

TRUTH. My husband and I married young and we got ridiculed. I've had guys say to my face that I'm lazy and he married me young only because he has no other choice, since any smart man his age would want to "go out there and explore".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:50 AM
44

All I can say is she's 22 and he's 33...........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:25 AM
5

He claims he wants you back yet all he can do is spend 2 minutes of his life to text you......... Bruh 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:51 AM
20

Men who only work office job with mediocre salary still have the audacity to demand their partner to do stereotypically "woman chores". Like yeah women back then did that however men's responsibilities were also higher, working environment wasn't as safe, and everything was more difficult because of the absence of technology! Nowadays both women and men work office job and women are still expected to do (majority of) house chores and child care!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:48 AM
25

"but it's not the fifties anymore!!!!!! men and women are eQuAL now" 😫🥱🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:25 PM
1

Wow!!!! I'm married for almost two years, if you don't mind, could you share some tips? ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:21 PM
3

I'm so proud of you, so inspiring! I'm from South East Asian Muslim background and I am determined to break all these curses!! For me, and the women after me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:17 PM
9

Hahaha exactly, post like this ALWAYS makes me think the guy has inc*st fetish 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:13 PM
9

Not an English native speaker. I'm not sure anyone would read this lengthy rant, just want to get something off of my chest "When people try to bring you down it means you're already above them." I've just got a wake up call how true this quote it. I'm in group chat both online and in person with girls. We talk about dating, relationship, period, beauty, etc. Whenever it comes down to the topic of dating, I have always been the one with the most controversial comments. I believe in what FDS Hand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:57 AM
29

HAHAHA my god!!!!! THOSE are the creatures that RPW call captain and RP men worship?? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:19 AM
30

The girl who sent me this started off by asking, "our men SMV is high and it's only getting higher, I'm turning 25 next year, how do you think we should keep up with them?". I didn't know what SMV was then she showed me this .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:40 AM
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It just doesn't sit right to me, but maybe I interpret SMV wrong. But associating (for lack of better word, not a native speaker) a 15 year old to SEXUAL VALUE is just wrong in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:21 AM
21

Together for 1 year before we got engaged. Engaged after one year before married. We have different nationality so the bureaucracy and immigration was complicated. The wedding preparation was also hectic, as in my culture we have dowry and rituals and all that. My wedding wasn't that big, only 150 people. My ring was VVS Stone worth of €6000. Not THAT expensive but that's custom made and I love it. We've been married for almost two years He gets up early to go to work and always tries to not wak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:25 AM
8

It's always the broke incompetent men who are worried of anyone stealing their hypothetical coins. They never go out and socialize with real people so the image they have of others are skewed as they spend all their time only reading misogynistic materials online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:58 AM
10

"facts don't care about your feelings" 😂😂😂 oh the Ben Shapiro fan boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:55 AM
4

If the role were reversed, I wouldn't want to know what would happen to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:52 AM
3

I've been there, I have also been attacked for saying I vet to know their character and block men. They said I was childish and we as women above 25 shouldn't need to do that because the opportunity to know how they truly are will present itself so we should just "go with the flow".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:49 AM
3

Hmmm I'm interested!! Not now though as I'm pregnant. The thing is I feel like I'm not strong at all, imagine total beginner. I'm afraid/worried/overwhelmed by the rigorous training. Should I do other exercises first or can I just go to BJJ class??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:39 AM
16

Hahahaha I'll wait for this clip to be posted on RP incels mra subs and channels and see pickmeshas defending his behavior haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:08 AM
4

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🏅🏆🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:36 AM
10

Disgusting 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:20 AM
30

Yes I've noticed this too. Sadly I don't understand why they pander to TRP theory, tradlife, men's right activist...... even here I've lurked a pickmesha (b sent me hate message) who have left many positive comments on maledatingstrat, talking bad about other WOMEN!!! MFs literally sees women as plates to be used up and dispose. Why do they STILL do pickme thing?! Even if they end up getting picked, they're only going to be discarded once they turn 25. Like why waste your time on that?????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:16 PM
6

I don't understand this either. Like why would those men want to be with someone who was born in different century, listens to different genre of music, grows up in different ways, different technology, lingo, etc. Things have changed so much, not sure if they can keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:12 PM
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Men want to be oppressed so bad but once they get the taste of 1% of the oppression women have to go through they cry like babies whose diapers need changing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:20 PM
6

Post saved. I'm going to send this to my sister and friends. You're preaching the words!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:57 AM
18

I'm so sorry that happened to you.. You're SO strong that you're able to rise and improve your life!!!! And I'm really glad you are in better condition now! More blessings to come ✨✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:10 PM
14

YES. THANK YOU. This is my motivation everyday. I was born in third world country, patriarchal society, my grand mother didn't get to finish highschool because her parents thought it wasn't important for girls to have high education. My mom only finished highschool, her parents thought the same. My mom and my grandma and my aunts are pickmesha to the point that they sacrifice their own physical and mental health for men. My grandmother had 8 kids and multiple miscarriages because her husband did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:44 PM
26

I'm an immigrant here so I went to "youth program" to understand how things are. I was told the reasons girls pay for date is because they don't want to owe guys anything and they'll be able to quit easily if the date isn't their type. I was like ........???! Dates aren't legal contract????? I am from a conservative patriarchal society and there most parents don't even allow men to even go out with their daughters without investigating if the men have what it takes to take the girls out. If a gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:06 AM
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I'm in Europe too, in Scandinavia precisely. I know 3 women personally who work, do house chores, pay half or most of the rent and bill, look sexy for the men even when it's not comfortable, and giving 3somes as gift when they are not really into it............ They're so insecure that they believe they should keep doing that for their boyfriend because their "peak" is only for short period of time and hope they're not going to be discarded when they're "past their prime" because the men can see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:45 PM
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OMG. Doesn't she understand that a man is supposed to love his wife like Jesus loves His church, that means a man sacrifices his life for his wife. Also doesn't Jesus say, there's no greater love than this, than a man who lays down his life for his brothers??? When a man loves her, he'll sacrifice for her. If he isn't, he's sacrificing her for the one he loves. (doesn't have to be another woman/man, can be his popularity, his hobby, his ego, his addiction, etc) "He sacrifice so much for the fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:19 AM
9

Second this. Men cheat on their pregnant wives, men cheat on their bedridden wives, men cheat on the wives who have been with them from the beginning, men leave and neglect their own kids.... I want to go on but this is just infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:17 AM
4

Also, if you're with N/LVM and have just given birth, he'd expect you to "snap back" fast and do monkey double backflip on his mediocre D even though you need recovery time after labor because "mEn hAvE nEeDz"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:03 PM
5

Can he build a house? Can he go to the wild and hunt? Can he make tools from scratch? Can he go to war and defend himself safely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:56 PM
6

Men dare to ask if women are good at cooking when they themselves eat three-day old pizza and reheated fried chicken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:53 PM
11

YES YES YES THIS IS SO TRUE. On my pickmesha day, a man asked me if I was good at cooking. Then he continued to ask if I was also good in bed!!!!! 😫🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:51 PM
6

I agree, there's no such thing as gold digger, only broke N/LVM. If I'm with a successful HVM, I can quit work and go back to school with him supporting and it won't be a problem for him because he has his own thing going on, his own resources, his business, and he's secure with himself. if I do the exact same damn thing with N/LVM, they're gonna call me gold digging slut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:42 PM
3

OH wow! I thought men operated with LoGiC and women were the emotional ones?!!! 😱😱😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:53 PM
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She's naive, yes. I lurked on her post history and apparently she's 20, attended girls only school, never done anything with a guy, and only has one guy friend. I hope she will learn soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:30 AM
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BEST COMMENT IN THIS THREAD!!! I agree, OP should have the confidence her boyfriend has when he's asking for intimacy. I'm from a traditional background, and men have to pay dowry before even being allowed to live together with a woman. He likes traditions, might as well do it right 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 04:21 AM
5

I think she's talking about the Lord Jesus himself and the archangels in heaven
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:08 PM
6

Good for her. I hope the boy she likes finally open her instagram message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:05 PM
14

What an embarrassment. Sorry you had to waste your time with this MF..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:27 AM
4

People will forget this soon and if they do ask, I think it's more of curiosity than intention to mock you. If they're really nosy though, just tell them "it didn't work out, I found that apparently he wasn't man enough for me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:14 AM
12

Can anyone tell me who's the lady on the top right above Beyoncé? She's so pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:56 PM
8

Omg.... Sometimes I wonder where men get all these inspiration and teaching in regards to interacting with women. Why can't they be courteous and polite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:19 AM
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Most men's looks go downhill after 25. All those cumulative sun damage and dead skin cells, with no skincare routine....... Don't get me started with alcoholics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:43 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👑 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:51 PM
49

"yOu nEeD tO KeEp a GuY iNtRiGuEdDDDD" 😫😂😂😂 who does he think he is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:46 AM
4

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you're safe and happy now. Even in Bible, there's story of King David's children, Tamar and Amnon. Amnon faked illness and asked Tamar to prepare his food, when she brought it to him to his chamber, he raped her. This is why I was always reminded to never utilize maternal instinct for men because they will gladly abuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:58 PM
22

OMG I'M IN SIMILAR SITUATION. I have a female friend who is knee deep into the red pill nonsense. She didn't know that I knew what TRP was and tried to gauge me to it. I then asked her, "oh is there real men in TRP? Like high value, high functioning men?" Then she said yes there are many! 😫 I'm married while she lives with her boyfriend (who still studies copywriting) and HIS brother in HER MOM'S HOUSE. Her mom lives with her grandparents because they're old. She also likes to brag about how she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:14 PM
3

So pretty!! You're so talented omg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:00 PM
2

Yeah and please also remember, back then people got married right after puberty hits, around teenager age. They consummated their marriage and had sex younger than I did on my first time! Lol. Of course it would have been so dangerous, especially for women, if they had sex and got pregnant (before the invention of safe birth control) before they were married, because then they'd have been children! So they came up with this "stay virgin until marriage" principle. Time has changed! I assumed you'…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 02:26 PM
2

Hmmmm my husband is Swedish. Not once I had to pay 50/50, and he asked me would you want to be my girlfriend, will you go out on a date with me, etc. Not once coffee/park/museum/strolling in the city date. I didn't live with him before marriage. We live in the capital of Sweden now and he's the breadwinner and contrary to popular belief, we don't struggle haha we eat out almost everyday and I have cleaner twice a month. He does overtime and call-out jobs (he's an electrical engineer). I do a lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:54 AM
9

Yes you regret it, so what? You can't change the past no matter how much you'd want to. Is it REALLY certain that he'd be happier, more in love with you, etc if you were a virgin? How do you make sure of this? I'm married and trust me when you're married, you'll have bigger issue than virginity, especially if you decide to have kids. Does he respect you now? If he has a slightly disrespect or feeling of disdain for you, then you should reconsider this relationship. What you can offer him is way …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 06:18 AM
3

When you're at rock bottom, the only way you have now is up ☺️ don't give up!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:43 AM
39

Yes I think so. They're alone and miserable. Unlike other normal fully functioning adults, those men choose to do nothing but fabricate fake stories to cope with their little lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:15 AM
10

He's manipulative af, he flipped the script and made it your fault. Run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:11 AM
28

You forgot about doing BDSM with him even when that's not your kink because we as women have to be oPeN mInDeD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:48 AM
6

If you ever want to be in relationship, don't ever get with a man who doesn't contribute and make your life easier. Don't exert so much effort on dating/relationship phase, don't over compromise. He must love you more than you love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:30 AM
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Treat men like a king, they'll treat you like a servant. Treat them like a dirt, they'll stick to you like mud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:25 AM
3

She would be an amazing mother for children in need but 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:19 AM
33

TRUE TRUE TRUE!! YESSS ladies please always always remember this. If a man wants you to "struggle" with him, share burden etc...... He doesn't like you and you should leave him alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:31 PM
2

Intention doesn't mean anything. I have commented the similar thing on here. You come home from a long shift at work and you're exhausted, then you accidentally have micro sleep, your car hits another car and kills the driver of that car. You don't intend on killing that driver, you intend on going home and sleep. But you're still gonna be jailed for manslaughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:41 PM
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You forgot she has to be a light skinned doctor/engineer with PhD and cumlaude, who is willing to give her career up to be an overworked housewife for a misogynistic man that doesn't even complete highschool, has no house, no car, and no highly paid job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:28 PM
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I've lurked on that sub before and I noticed something. Whyyyyyyy do those women on that sub use the same old excuse ("oh he was born in incestuous family" "oh his father was abusive that's why he is harsh to me" "oh he grew up without a loving mom that's why he doesn't appreciate me") to justify bad behavior. One can be so exhausted after overtime at work, accidentally has micro sleep while driving, and ends up killing innocents. "Yeah but I was tired I had a 17 hour shift" Can that be used as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:21 PM
2

OMGGGGGGGGG THIS IS SO GREAT!!!! I have been having nausea this whole day and this cheers me up so good lol thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:02 PM
10

You're a life transformer!!! Spread the words!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:39 PM
10

I don't understand this either. My husband got me a $7K ring, paid for dowry, paid for dress and shoes, and paid for the wedding of 100 people. His co-workers were the ones that got pressed over it???? Like why? It's not their money and I'm not marrying them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:22 PM
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It makes me so sad to read the comments from WOMEN that agree with him!!! Most men nowadays are incapable of being the sole breadwinner and providing a real comfortable life for their wives and children (regular vacation, shopping, relaxing weekend, help around the house, etc). Those women are going to end up working full time both at office and at home! So sad😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:14 PM
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Bruh even Brad Pitt and Leo di Caprio look waaaaay better when they were younger lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:57 AM
7

Omg.. I pray that she will find this sub and repent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:06 PM
19

Whaaaaat?!!! They REALLY banned you for THAT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:51 PM
1

Beautiful!!!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:33 AM
3

-Read some self-help book to improve your confidence and do counseling. -Make a list of things that he has done to you tangibly. Like has he paid bills, has he taken you to vacation, has he bought you gifts, etc. -Neither compliment or insult means a damn thing, it's just words and words turn into air. -Sickness or health, better or worse, to have and to hold... is WEDDING vow. You say the vow and then you sign the legal document. Government is now involved. The vow applies when you're legally m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:31 PM
2

Yes this is true!!! OP should let him figure things out himself. The only time you can help a man without him resenting you is when he's under 5 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:21 PM
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YES I HOPE OP READ THIS. Dear OP, please know that If he truly wanted you, he wouldn't make you feel unsure! He would do anything to keep you because he'd be afraid of losing you. He only wants you because he can get the benefits without doing any work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:18 PM
5

I honestly don't understand how you can be afraid of him thinking of you as gold digger?? What you want is normal, nothing special at all, which he already has to provide without you asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:13 PM
26

It was hard for him to WATCH it; why didn't he think about how terrible it must've been for you to EXPERIENCE it?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:02 PM
4

That's REALLY amazing!!!!! You dodged the bullet with this LVM. And wow the way he can't take rejection then get offended and unmatch you??? Like he doesn't realize people have different needs and wants?? How old is he? So childish smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:53 PM
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True. I mean, every month or so we already have period which can be painful. Nausea, breast pain, back pain, constipation, pimple, cramps..you name it. Can a man help even 10% sharing those uncomfortable situations? When we get pregnant, labor pain, breastfeeding problem, postpartum recovery, can a man share that equally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:14 AM
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I'm sorry but I honestly think he is not a HVM. It seems like you're taking care of him and doing most of the work, which won't happen if you were with the true HVM. Pay no attention to this one but anecdotally I've seen cases where established women date students, eventually get left and dumped once the students graduate and get a real job. They manage to save money during the cohabitation because they have women to take care of them, then bounce. Maybe you both are different though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:07 AM
45

He's a whole grown man, and game is ALL that he has???? My god!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:56 AM
3

True! My husband is from Sweden. When we started talking he was just a regular electrician who didn't earn a lot. He sold his stuff to pay for his ticket and accommodation to meet me in Asia. In my home country, he still managed to spoil me. He later told me he wanted to marry me, I refused and told him I don't think he earns enough for me and our future children. He then worked his ass off, got certification, did a lot of overtime, and now he's the right hand of the company CEO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:46 PM
4

Woooow what a comprehensive post. Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:04 AM
8

I think she used to have a Reddit account where she talked about her husband's porn addiction
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 06:22 AM
3

This is a good advice, I didn't realize I was doing all of this (without the part of discussing how engagement was important to me)! We didn't live together before, and as a matter of fact we were in a long distance relationship in two different continents. He proposed to me exactly one year after we started dating, then the next year we got married and had a beautiful wedding. Important: DON'T NAG AND LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 07:05 AM
7

Not OP but wow thank you very much for this recommendation! I've been wanting to read and learn about planning and homemaking, will sure get the book!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 11:59 AM
2

YES, THIS!!!! Couldn't say it better!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 11:33 AM
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