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The difference I see is women are more concerned about plausible deniability. These are the same shitbags who are up in arms about what they call "porn addiction" and about how porn sites "exploit women," as if they cared about consent. "Think of the children! I sure do."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 06:24 PM
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Sour pusses gonna whinge. Remember these are women who hate being bored even more thsn they hate feeling like they're irrelevant. Based on interviews I've seen over the years, (like most actors who made the scene at a young age,) he's kind of a twat in real life. Talented guy, not a bad dude, but these women definitely should never meet their heroes. When you're famous, people don't treat you like rubbish for saying or doing things that are a little odd, but of course fame and money make you wei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 06:13 PM
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The heightism tells you everything you need to know about what she has to offer a partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 04:15 PM
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Entitlement and narcissisim is the only refuge for scumbags. If they had any sense of irony or insight, their ego would crumble
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 04:05 PM
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Probably good for drug money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 04:00 PM
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She wants to have fun, but the fun always ends up having her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/23 03:59 PM
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You should never even hint that a woman might be dating your wallet. Always seperate checks until you're actually living together, for example. Misandrist gold-diggers will always make themselves scarce by about the third time they have to pay for their own food and alcohol. Share your weed within reason though. Don't bogart that joint. Speaking from experience the green fairy isn't kind to stingy people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 06:39 PM
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They're misandrists and real men aren't very appealing. They don't like masculinity or male role models. They go after bland workaholic men who date with their wallets, for a reason. Much easier to have a relationship with his money which doesn't give her icky feelings. Sad but true. That's why she's throwing a bunch of hooks for "Try-hard Timmies." I think this is the female version of guys who date brittle, unpleasant, borderline-spectrum women who act like their parole officers and mother-hen…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 06:31 PM
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Would like to see more of the conversation. "You're totally right, my mistake. My neighbor has some chickens. Would you like to pet them? I'll hold your beer for you. They're super nice."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 06:12 PM
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Mate don't you know a shit test when you hear it? Women say a lot of things.
/r/askTRP09/07/21 12:18 PM
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How's your relationship with the rest of your family? Brothers/sisters? Uncles, etc?
/r/askTRP09/07/21 12:17 PM
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Iron Rule of Thomassi #2.
/r/askTRP09/07/21 12:12 PM
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Other day she ask me to drink with her this week, told her I'm not available this weekend i have date with x and she will start givinig me a mad attitude like she's my LTR. Iron Rule of Thomassi #2. Stop making your sex life her concern. Just tell her you can't meet up. She can already guess why. If she gives you attitude about it, just giggle and tease her, then put her on the back burner for a little while you invest in your other plates. What i don't understand she's dating and fucking other …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:38 PM
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Because women like her, "virgins" or 1/2 count types, their identity revolves around not giving it up and their life is attached to it. They give it up, to them it's like losing their entire identity. Sex changes a women's entire persona. The more wishy washy she is, the more sex will never be just about fun for her. I just want to add to this: Iron Rule of Thomassi #3
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:05 PM
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Iron Rule of Thomassi #3. If you're interested in an LTR, then LTR her. If not, tell her you have a lot of respect for her boundaries and but you're young and you're just getting into your slut phase. You're just not ready to be exclusive and you don't want to lead her on, you don't think you're compatible. Or else keep hanging and date other women.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:02 PM
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Firstly Side effects of any kind of steroids aren't a joke. Believe me. Also, fuck prednidone. If you have a family history of heart attack, stroke, high blood pressure in your family tree, then understand the risks. In that case be OK with the idea of dropping dead randomly in your 60s or stroking out and waking up in the hospital a completely different person who can barely talk. If you have those genetic factors. then taking T will accelerate damage, inflammation and fatty scar tissue accumul…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:38 AM
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Who cares. If she doesn't, some other women's genes will get passed on to the next geberation and hers will due out with her.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:15 AM
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Which responsibilities? You're talking about men's responsibility sentiments, the only ones you yourself give a shit about. Women don't need men's responsibilities in order to convince men to reproduce with them. The nature of the question is "why don't women give a shit about the things I give a shit about?" Because you're a man and they're not. No of course they don't give a shit about the wet of things you feel responsibility towards. Why? because youre a man and responsibility, leadership, s…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:07 AM
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A tiger doesn't ask an antelope if it's OK to bite them because they've never tasted red meat before, just their mothers milk. Seeking validation and reassurance-seeking from a woman about fact that you haven't stuck your dick in a warm wet hole before, is a pretty laughable level of Role-Confusion. Iron Rule of Thomassi #2. break the rule, pay the consequences. She's not your mom and isn't there to reasdure and coddle your fear. You're there to lead her off, seduce her, then tell her to take of…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:55 AM
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Definitely does have a few. Not enough to be likely to result in conception but not impossible. This is why it's called the Pull&Pray method.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:42 AM
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My mom is so overprotective that i hardly even got to leave the house to hang with friends. This is why you're depressed, I think. Women are not capable of being good parents to their sons after puberty without a father with strong leadership skills present, who is willing and able to say no to her interference and hystrionic dramas. Minimize your interaction with your mom. Stay out of the house. Only go home to shower, sleep, and do basic chores like laundry. Put her in an information starvatio…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:36 AM
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How's the level of crime up there in toronto? May be an expensive butthurt SJW shithole, but DFW area is a crime-ridden blighted actual shithole. Lots of tweakers and drug dealing. Texas is well known for it's trailer lots. I dunno about Florida. In texas the effective tax rate tends to be higher than California unless you make around six figures or more. Then you can hire a tax expert/financial advisor to massage your income and assets into an LLC and such to game the system. Granted the tax ra…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:07 AM
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1)Recognize the emotional perks gained from viewing oneself as a victim who has been maligned somehow. A)You can get sympathy and validation from others' misguided concern over your largely self-imposed angst and drama. B) you can avoid taking any emotional risks, you need not risk failure or rejection. C) you don't have to take on the sometimes heavy weight of responsibility for pickung yourself back up and cleaning up the mess in your home. You don't have to do emotional labor of changing habi…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:40 AM
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I'm too busy investing my time in women who are more interested in following my leadership than her. If she wants to act frosty and hesitant and dance around the issue because that's what gets her rocks off, great! Because chances are I've moved on already to somone else. If she's not trying hard to get my interest then I'm not interested. Note that high value man actually are hard to get and women don't need to play with them. They like the fact that they can be bold, agressive, and no-nonsense…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:02 PM
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The title of your post is an outcome expectation or Self-fullfilling Prophesy. Get rid of your outcome expectations.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:06 PM
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AWALT. It's a shit yrst, treat like any shit test.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:59 AM
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Get a condo as an investment. If you're making a solid income paying rent is asinine. Dont go crazy though. Set a conservative budget and don't be paying more than 45% of your monthly income. Don't overbuy. On the other hand that depends on how secure you feel your job is. If you think you might be in another location 2-3 years in the future then reselling can be a massive headache.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:57 AM
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If this is an issue in the last year to 18 months, it may in fact be due to a low symptomatic Covid infection. Even in people who otherwise experience very mild to negligable symptoms, it can still cause blood vessel damage and abnomalities throughout the body. This could also be a blood pressure issue, if you're getting regular heavy cardio, this can cause resting blood pressure to be quite low.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:40 AM
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Chicks sense that instantly Nope. But they tend to be good at reading context. and they start to distract me from my purpose. Persecution Myth. You know the situation, ex suddenly comes back, Attention trolling. Read the sidebar again if you don't grasp that women are naturally thirsty for attention. girl from the course texts you Isn't a felony as far as Im aware. This isn't about you. If you don't care, then ignore. Btw, whenever I leave my purpose for a girl, that girl loses attraction and I …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:14 PM
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Good old Red Wings aka the Rusty Mustache. Look, that stuff happens. Don't do the dirty dogging if you're not ready for bodily fluids. Your friend sounds both tightly clenched and also sounds like he was born last week. Women start bleeding randomly from their vaginas once a month. No reason to go apeshit. Wasn't his particular evening. Sounds like hes got a couple loose screws. I dunno maybe he has a phobia of blood or something. Take the piss out of him about being afraid of blood. Tell him he…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:33 PM
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Stay no contact. Women know what crazy jealous psychobitches look like, better thsn you do. She knows what the game is here. And if she's actually that dumb, then good riddance. The trash is free to take itself out any time the trash wants. Remember that there's only one thing worse than women talking about you amongst themselves, and that is, not being talked about by them.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:45 PM
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1) Don't put women in a pedestal. You're the prize here, not them. Get them to do things to impress you, not the other way around. 2) Hold whatever attitude your want, just don't be boring and don't be a follower.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:43 PM
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I found out the other day that she had gotten into a prestigious medical school. And let me tell you cries, I had to pretend my phone died because I started crying, I was so proud. It's fine to be proud of your kids. A lot of other dudes on here have a Crabs-in-a-Bucket mentality. Give genuine praise when it's due but be moderate about it. Don't gush. My daughter goes through boyfriends like they're french fries and she's always the one to break it off. ......When the New Relationship Energy pha…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:40 PM
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I always feared asking to go 50/50 on everything because then she might think I'm not financially stable. Oooops. You gave a shit about how some given woman views you. You thought you could fix that invented concern by waving cash around. Either you're financially literate or you aren't. Either you can balance your spending or you can't. Either you're willing to set boundaries in your relationship or youre afraid of it. Even if she sees you as an alpha, a woman still wants a man who is financial…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:53 PM
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Up until now, I would pay for the majority of the expenses in the relationship. Tighten up, buttercup. She wants to go on a vacation in July but I'm not going to be able to afford it. "Can't afford to go right now, unfortunately." Stay firm, but don't make a big deal about it. Tell her she can go If she wants, but you can't justify the expense or the time off work. If she offers to pay, politely decline. Ignore her shit testing you and just repeat the previous statement. Do not explain yourself …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:43 PM
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Whoa, roasted. Nicely seared on both sides.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 07:58 PM
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DUI is felony in most areas I know of. But you knew that. Why should we help somone who has no regard for anyone else's safety much less his own?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:31 PM
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Like eventually if you do settle down, the girl you're with won't love you unconditonally, GOOD. Don't be a fuckup. she won't follow you to the world and back, Who cares. Scared to travel alone are ypu? Need your mum to hold your hand all the time so you're not scared? she will never sacrafice herself for you, Huh? What are you willing to sacrifice to accomplish what you want? Nobody cares what women are willing to sacrifice. Maybe they'll help you out sometimes. Stop expecting women to rescue y…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:21 PM
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Her family has always been nice to me and has treated me well but they fell under some financial pressure so I helped them out especially as I lived with them for over a year rent-free. Consider it a gift. My gf and I were also planning on her applying for a prospective marriage visa for her to come to my country. Not even no, hell no. And I've been having second thoughts about it as she wants me to cut out my parents. Your parents aren't morons. She knows what they'd tell you.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:59 AM
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Do you think this is healthy? Wasn't really the question. Do you think any self respecting, high quality woman Attraction and desire is controlled by the most primitive parts of the brain. Self respect is a minor consideration, that sense evolved relatively recently in the last couple million years. How often do men abandon self respect for a woman he's attracted to? I wouldn't put too much stock in self respect when it comes to the opportunity to pass one's genes on to the next generation. Do y…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:57 AM
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Needing mythic father figures you can relate to like Yhwh or Magic Zombie Jesus or allah = still plugged in. Gods only exist in your imagination and desires. The universe doesn't care about you. Care about yourself instead, and make yourself the center of your personal existen, something few religious followers like to do. Needing an afterlife = still sucking on the soothing tit of fantasy. Get yourself right with the end of your life and not existing after that. Leave a positive legacy for your…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:10 AM
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Remember that one of the best ways to judge a persons character, is the quality of people they choose to associate with. The fact that you aren't repulsed by such cretins and choose to concern yourself ovsr those whom have little regard for themselves, suggests your taste may be lacking. Do you cut the bad branches off and hang out with the peo-ple who are making something of themselves, Generally yes. If you want, tell them, frankly you're disappointed in their lack of maturity and you just don…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:01 AM
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Get it in writing. Create a payment plan. Pay off as fast as humanly possible. Make sure it's enforceable from both her side and yours. If there's a lack of accountability on either side it's very likely to turn sour. Get advice on this from an older coworker you trust. Then find out every single expense that won't cause you to immediately starve get evicted or lose your job. For those ependitutes say fuck no I'm not paying for that.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:42 AM
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As an account manager at a brokerage company I should hope you could write down several reasons why this is financially a no-brainer.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:33 AM
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It's probably less than you would like to think. Work done = mass(kg) * g * height lifted(meters) g is the gravitational acceleration at earths surface, about 9.8 m/s/s You also need to factor that putting the weight back down also isn't an efficient process and, I'd roughly guess requires 1/3 to 1/4 as much work as lifting up unless you drop it which isn't safe. So multiply the above result by 1.25. Might be better off underestimating this. The overall efficiency factor of anaerobic muscles is …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:56 AM
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I’m snipped so I go it raw, spare me the lectures on diseases I know already. So when I was fucking this chick I already obviously knew she had an OF page didn’t really care, really. She was absolutely adamant that I skeet inside of her, Tell her casually after youre cuddling you had your tubes clipped. Grab a tub of popcorn and watch the mental gymnastics. This chick comes out of the bathroom, laid down on the bed, spread her legs, and took a snapshot of her jizz covered pussy. Whores gonna who…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:36 AM
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Stop helping women. Just say "no thanks." and "I'm too busy." Question 1: do they need you to do something because it's an emergency? "I can't I'm too busy." Question 2: do you think they want something from you? "No thanks, I'm busy." Question 3: do you think you needed to do some given to avoid a woman getting more angry? Make her pissed. "No thanks." Then walk away or ignore. Congratulations, you just made her feel powerful emotions. You're on the right track. 90% of the time you doing what t…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:21 AM
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Feel bad about it, do you? Whoopdeedoo. Fine, don't do it again. Carry that shit with you to the grave and shut the hell up about it. Also cut down on the drinking seriously and quit going to bars alone. Open your mouth about it and Emotionally Dump to your girlfriend if you're willing for a bunch of drama to happen. Or if you're ready to dump her and you want to sweeten the blow a little bit.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:18 PM
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I've got "rough" skin. A few acne scars and really large pores (no acne). Oh, my! Rough skin! ACNE SCARS! You should go downhill mountain biking w/ me. That'll give you some real fucking scars, kid, lol.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:12 PM
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Kid, this is like the so called "War" on Drugs. Recognize Moral Panic when you see it. The supply isn't the problem. Attacking the supply of hard drugs is counterproductive. (The government always knew this. Meaning they know it's a guaranteed flow of tax moneys and pointless jobs for G-men for the rest of forever.) The demand is the problem. Who the hell cares if there is a crapload of camwhores. You want to film nude vids for whatever reason that's your legal right. I wouldn't recommend it and…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:07 PM
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It means letting your guard down and letting the truth about yourself be seen. The excellent and the unpleasant parts, because you don't have something to hide. Youre not a saint, a hero, a martyr, a victim. You're not a criminal or some kind of hairy scabarous troll. You don't need you be a saint. You're just another Joe Everyman. It's called not trying to hide anything about yourself.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:02 PM
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Oooops. You paid attention to some noises some women made with their mouths. Should have listened to their actions exclusively. Your bad. Who cares what noises certain trashy women make?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:56 PM
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2020-2021 has not been very kind to me. My parents are in a divorce process (mom cheated first, then dad cheated in retaliation and got another woman pregnant). Me and my siblings live with my dad now since he's more rational whereas my mom is narcissistic and manipulative. Talk to a therapist. Also go limited contact with your mom, as much as possible. I suspect you're suffering from the effects of Narcissistic abuse. This is a bit beyond the scope of what a bunch of randos on the internet can …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:53 PM
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Learn to be a CNC machinist. Most shops I know right now simply can't hire machinists fast enough to keep going. Within reason, you can ask for almost any pay scale you want. Lots of old guys retiring and few members of the public even know what the hell it is.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:28 AM
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She hates having to work hard to get some entertaining drama out of you. Just don't be boring.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:18 PM
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If you're no longer fucking her or spending time with her.....who cares?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:17 PM
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Or should the man pay for everything, most of the time? In your case? Definitely. Otherwise why would she stick around? Why would she tolerate cheapness from you? AF/BB
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:16 PM
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You didn't cause his death. You didn't ask for it. Your had no control to stop it. You had no indication of the problem. If he wanted to talk about it, he would have gone to his parents or one of this siblings first. Not you. But apparently he had little interest in talking, not to them.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:56 AM
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Her ex came back into the picture. Any time he wants to meet is the right time for her. Unlike you he only offers ocaasional scraps and leftover helpings of love. That's the point. If this sounds like a stupid bet to you, and kind of self destructive. You're right, it is self-destructive. That's part of the reason. She did you a solid favor and broke up with you first. She may be mercenary but she's not a lying cheat. Have some gratitude. Don't get mad. She needed to be returned back to the wild…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:24 AM
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She started texting me and I responded with a few short texts so that she didn't think I was completely ignoring her. Then she started sending me a bunch of texts while I was at work She knew that. She wanted the dick and you made it clear you weren't going to be interested in the near future. Otherwise you would have told her the time and the place like you had in the past. So of course she monkey branched to somone else who was actively showing interest. Around a certain 2-3 days of the month …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:11 AM
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Dealbreaker? She doesn't think it's a big deal, Slags gonna slag it. Why would it be a big deal to a slag? Fuck right whoring her way into a job is no big deal to her.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:53 AM
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Ask them to get you a beer with a cocky grin.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:49 AM
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Tell them you are all safe being vaccinated Trying to argue with stupid is a waste of time. Especially your parents' stupidity. That's doubly pointless. OP need only understand that he doesn't need his parents permission or approval to get a job, they can't easily stop him. So there's not reason to discuss it. He only needs a spine.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:47 AM
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Hop on your bike and apply for jobs at the local grocery store or something. It's pretty boring as work goes, but somebody has to do it, might as well get paid to. Plus money talks so your can save to buy a car or a moped.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:44 AM
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This is America. Most burgers taste like ass. Join the club.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:15 PM
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20m here. Right now I'm an emotional wreck. Days where I just start crying for no reason. No family no friends nothing. Yeah, Ummm gonna need a little more context here? Why is that? But my thoughts are constaly racing. Constant thoughts of suicide. I hate myself. Constantly angry at myself. I just can't take it anymore. That's all consistent with Depression and/or Generalized anxiety, in the absence of anything more specific. Note that Depression is a normal protective response to illness, majo…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:13 PM
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Arranged a second date that was supposed to be dinner at mine, girl asked to reschedule, found a date that works for both (today) turns out she doesn’t want to come to my place but is happy to do something else. Might just be she doesn't want to jump into bed on a second date. That's OK, but I wouldn't recommend you stick around if she won't come over to your house for the third. You decide if you're OK with that. If you think she's entertaining enough to have around aside from fucking, then wha…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:05 PM
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Uh oh, you have women talking about you online. And there's only one thing worse than being talked about by women. And that's is, not being talked about by them. Sounds like girl A is pissed and jealous at guys going after her friend, girl B and paying attention to her. So she's trying to cockblock her.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:50 PM
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Imposter Syndrome.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:44 PM
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Just a warning you might not like some of what I have to say due to me pulling that bandage off an old wound. I'm a 21 year old guy from India and i want your advice on how to be a better elder brother So what makes you think you're a bad one, exactly? Give specific examples of ways you've fucked up as a brother before? Do this first, then considered ways you can improve. I suspect the reason why you're asking us, is you just can't think of any obviously way you can improve. Which is probably be…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:41 AM
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Self-pity of this kind is a game for women and children. You're dealing with frustration, boredom, cognitive dissonance, a lack of plans, by indulging the self-pity hamster, spinning around in it's little narrative wheel. The purpose of this self-pity and powerlessness narrative is a way to avoid making long term plans, (sich as planning for retirement I would imagine.) The cognitive dissonance is due to the fact that you know you should be making such plans, but you just don't wanna right now b…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:14 PM
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I think the issue is you're not investing your valuable time to approach more women and spin more plates. Seems like you deliberately didn't mention any efforts to spin plates in your post. You'd rather obsess about sexually starving yourself. Then spin the shame and self-pity hamster around and around in it's wheel when that doesn't work a well as you imagined it would. Sexual expression is a legitimate emotional need. While other people may disagree I feel the idea that you somehow don't need …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:50 PM
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Nobody deserves anything. Either they keep trying new things until they get that which they'd want, or else they give up when they think it's not worth any more hassle.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:37 PM
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For you? Youre right. Not worth it. I love it when people answer their own question. You would know better than anyone what you're ready to do. Hiw the hell should we know. We don't know you.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:13 AM
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well that's a simple issue. women are inferior to men I've seen too many basement dwelling 45 year old gamers, trust fund babies, and thirsty simps on social media, to believe this idea. The majority of men, at least young men, are dumb as a bowl of dog saliva. You know I'm right on this. They get a little smarter only after life and society kicks the shit out of them again and again, they can't simply be told most things or even learn from others' example. There's a reason why single men are tr…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:08 AM
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So you're saying men don't do self-destructive, humiliating, painful, self-sabotaging, and any number of downright stupid things, just because they believe it'll get them love, attention, and sex? You're killing me. Men in most ways have women beat in this regard. Unplug yourself and stop pitying women. Just go hang out on some of the porn subs on reddit. Get educated. You sound like you were born yesterday. Almost any woman can at least find a man willing to hang around long enough to fuck her …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:58 AM
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"Say that again."
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:44 AM
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Slap the main offender back next time you see them, and say "what's up? You mad mate?" Hey joe, somone pissed in this man's coffee this morning." Stop acting like a scared little mouse, afraid of taking a hit. You'll live. They treat you like shit because you see yourself as a powerless helpless victim and act accordingly, and men don't want invertebrate weaklings around. They're hoping your spineless ass will quit and stop stinking up the place with your fear. Cowards can't be trusted.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:45 AM
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Show up if you have friends you can count on to back you up and pull the guy's friend off you if it gets ugly. Otherwise tell the guy teying toAMOG, "4 against one, eh? Let me ask you something, did you see me wearing a shirt this morning that said 'Im with stupid'? You know why you didn't see it, because I wasn't wearing it, because I'm not doing that."
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:39 AM
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Ask them to hire you as their coffee bringing intern. Maybe they'll teach you how to be the prize one day. Fortunately they don't have a dick between their legs so you don't have to work for them, (at least not unless they're actually paying you in a professional capacity) Otherwise. you're the captain of the ship, not them. That's just the ways it's been for hundreds of thousands of years. Seems like that's basically what you're asking, you're afraid you're gonna have to work for them because t…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:07 AM
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Whatever I fucking want. What about you, OP?
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:45 PM
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If you're just looking for plates to spin, then who fuckin cares. Understand they may break if they catch a glance at your driver's licence or something. Just agree and amplify, most of those sheilas are likely to lie about their age or have done so in the past so they know fucking well they're protesting too much. Treat like a shit test.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:42 PM
7

what's the point in social rituals. Why can't we just skip the pretext? You're being autistic. Learn to appreciate the process, focus less on outcome.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:00 PM
1

Hey guys, I'm 21 and broke up with my ex a year ago. I believe I had all the right reasons to do so. A lot of red flags, bi-polar, need constant attention, etc. You forgot to add being a serial liar. Your bad. Yeah, still don't want to admit you got played by her. Which means you're still being played. I'm not saying it's all fake. She has something going for her which is she's young, has markers of high fertility, and thus high SMV. She's free to bank on that if she so chooses, but it's not the…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:53 PM
0

I never play. For some reason I just keep winning. Who knows? Sips drink.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:18 PM
9

You're talking about Shame. You deal with it with a combination of four things. 1) Identity what your Outcome Expectations are, then get rid of them. Then choose to lower your guard and stop defending yourself. Always D.A.R.E. Never D.E.E.R. 2) Exposure therapy. 3) Identify what your own personal successes are, and appreciate them more. Identity what privileges and opportunities you been given, and feel gratitude for the times you're been fortunate. This is a big part of What Stephen R Covey cal…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:11 PM
1

"My dad will proceed to have a giggle."
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:48 AM
1

Melbourne? That's fucking paradise. And you're telling me you just can't wait to go back indoors the moment you step foot off your front step? One of few places on the continent it's not hotter than two drag queens eating a savaloy.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:12 AM
2

Oh, you better watch out, Better not cry Better not shout 'cause she's goin' in dry....
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:24 AM
3

Im not into pegging and my gf nagging me about it and saying how i might like it. You tell her you don't see yourself doing that, and you don't see your refusal causing a major hit to her lifestyle. Then tell her to stop bringing it up, she sounds thirsty. Though taking a fat shit DOES feels nice Uh huh. Pretty soon we'll have you toilet trained. Jesus Herbert Christ.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:22 AM
0

One supposes you have better things to do with your time than obsessing and measuring your peen. You think we're the quality control department or something, kid? Try a gay bar. Those guys will definitely give you the validation you seem to be looking for. If you're having issues with a lack of sensation from PIV, usual cause is that you're masturbating to often, too furiously, with way too much grip. You need to stop white-knuckling it. Use a very gentle grip. "Tightness" probably depends on a …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:51 AM
1

You decided to trust her and give her then benefit of the doubt. You wanted to think the best of somone you were close to. This is a pretty normal human tendency. It's easy to say that was pretty naive since you have the benefit of knowing what you know now. That said, being naive and ignorant in the past isn't some kind of felony. Being lied to by somone else isn't a crime. Forgive yourself for being naive and/or foolish.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:37 PM
1

Any particular reason you prefer paying a hooker....(ahem) Sex Worker technically, versus approaching regular women?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:30 PM
7

Women in most countries other than the US are superior to 'mericunts for a variety of reasons. They're less overweight, less entitled, care more about traditional roles and values. Care more about being feminine, etc.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:28 PM
1

"No thanks" then change the subject. If she keeps bringing it up, hang up, or politely say, "I'm tired why don't you head home."
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:19 PM
1

Maybe. Depends on how high SMV he is and how willing he is to play the "forbidden cookie" card. Lots of slags out there like like chasing married dudes because they think they're just out of reach.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:11 PM
1

You're still relating to them as if they were like your mother figure or older sisters. You're not treating them like bratty, pimply, awkward immature 16 year olds that they actually are, deep down. (How most women view themselves)
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:07 PM
3

In order to grow and change one's mindset in a major way there's a certain Grieving/bereavement process you have to go through over your past, immature self. That starts with a sense of disgust and anger over your past beliefs and actions. This is the same process drug addicts have to go through, but the process generalizes to any groundbreaking personal change. Also applies to getting out of a codependent or abusive relationship, for example. So I see your dream as being a way of processing the…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:08 PM
1

Potentially the ultimate tourist trap. Best to learn to be conversational in the language. Don't tell them your real name. Don't take them to the same hotel you're staying at. Don't stay near well known red light districts or rundown areas. Don't keep your ID in your wallet. Know if it's common for police to accept bribes or not, in that area. Crooked cops may be known to shakedown foreign tourists in red light areas. Understand that they'll upsell you 50-200% because you clearly don't speak the…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:47 PM
1

Few people are willing to party as hard as OP.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:46 AM
1

Self-loathing and self-pity is a real sickness. It's rare that I see a case this advanced. Find better ways of dealing with frustration and cognitive dissonance than indulging in the hamster-wheel of self-loathing. The more you're willing to tolerate cognitive dissonance and let it flow past you, the better. Shit was old 10 years ago, man.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:38 AM
3

Being too liberal with your ass would definitely be dumb.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:32 AM
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Once I catch feelings I start getting possessive and I’m really not with the whole sharing girls thing once I begin loving a girl. Nobody cares. She's not yours, it's just your turn. You can't be sharing something that's not yours. How well do you think trying to make her yours is going to turn out?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:28 AM
0

I don't see a medical degree on your office wall, so you should probably avoid self-diagnosing. Talk to an actual therapist before you start labeling yourself as an addict. I see doing so as self-sabotage behavior more than anything else. I’m getting real fucking pissed at myself. You deal with cognitive dissonance and frustration by self-loathing and self-pity. This is the real disease trying to sell itself to you as if it were the cure. I want to destroy this pathetic indulgence. More self-loa…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:30 AM
1

Relax. It's fine to window shop. You're not obliged to buy the goods if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:56 AM
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I’m 18 and pretty socially retarded. Iron Rule of Thomassi #9 I make a pretty good first impression with people, but it all goes downhill from there. This is a Self-Fullfilling Prophesy which causes you to have a bad time. Other people can sense you're having a bad time. Fix your frame. I want to get out more, but I’m pretty dumbstruck on where to actually go. There isn’t many places in my area that I have any personal interest visiting and I mostly just enjoy being with myself and playing video…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:07 AM
1

Hi, I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend (19) of 1 year broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We were really close No you weren't. You were just orbiting. She was bored. and we had amazing chemistry No you didn't. You were completely in her frame. You were smoking the Hopium. but I immediately went no contact. This was wise. In the dating phase I made clear that I need to recharge more often from social situations because of my introvert personality, By making things clear to her, what you mean is you're …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:17 PM
1

Watch the "20 dollars" scene from the movie "A Bronx Tale." Learn and be informed.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:30 PM
2

You're not helpless. You choose to remain married to a lying cheating slag. This is within your power to change. That's on you, you are choosing this state of affairs. You could go talk to a lawyer and get your financial ducks in a row, but you choose not to. Your wife hasn't changed, she's just become more informed on the best ways to lie to you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:21 PM
1

Lack of closure Stop thinking with your uterus, go to the gym, and hit the weights. You'll feel better. What you're feeling is Fear of Disengagement from drama. Nobody gets any real closure, ever. They just stop giving a shit sooner or later.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:11 PM
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Nope. It only destroys your chances, OP, due to your self-pity and self-loathing. The latter is a frame problem although you're welcome to blame your hairstyle if you so desire. You're accusing others of what you should have just confessed to yourself.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:25 AM
2

Narcissism. One of the type characteristic is not distinguishing between positive and negative attention, and a desire to be controversial.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:23 AM
3

LTR of one year and a few months. Things are good, boundaries are firmly respected. BUT, her past dwells on my mind very recurrently. I mean, sometimes when we're having sex, (sex is good by the way), I can't help telling myself "wtf man, all this shit she's doing with you she's done it in the past with other guys" When she's blowing me or doing shit in the bed You're right. The hell are you doing OP? You need to call all those hot dudes up and demand a repeat performance. Why are you messing ar…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:16 AM
0

You need to have a life other than hanging out at the gym, first. I'm not saying that's bad, but it's pretty boring as far a hobbies go.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:59 PM
1

Salad with protein.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:57 PM
2

She's not your girl. It's just your turn, mate. Stop mate guarding like mummy's good little rat dog. Accept that your turn is probably ending and approach other women.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:53 PM
1

She's not yours it's just your turn. Your mission should be your priority. Nobody cares if you're one single woman's "priority" or not. If she's not bringing positive things to your life, then downgrade to plate and spin other women.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:42 PM
2

Your sort-of ex is a cheating ball-breaking slag. You don't want her in your life, unless you enjoy being constantly humiliated. Block her and move on. Get your damn backbone back.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:21 PM
1

You don't attempt to deal with it at all. I don't tell women what they should or shouldn't be insecure about.That changes 20x a day. Just agree and amplify. .
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:56 AM
1

these girls don't care about your hard times, they want you to be winning! always act like you are. Who cares what women want? now she thinks you are a weak person! Who cares women think of you? This is a massive Self-fullfilling prophesy or outcome expectation. If this is what you expect underneath, it's funny how women tend to be good at sensing what men expect, and just giving it to them. because of complaining , this is what men should never do In the case of depression, this is the poison (…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:55 AM
1

I can't sleep due to anxiety, The sleep disruption is what really gets you. I feel you, mate. I have anxiety and depression on and off but the lack of sleep goes hand in hand. I'm not sure if the latter is what triggers the former two. I'm experiencing subtle racism from my workplace too - I feel suicidal at times and life just feels pointless You need to talk to a professional counselor. ASAP. Stop screwing around. This shit doesn't get better by itself. You're not likely to get fired. If they …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:49 AM
0

All I know is other people don't give a shit about your erection. Obsessing so goddamn much about your boner cannot be doing you any good. You're 20 years old. Your dick is just fine. Fix your frame.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:43 AM
2

She has given me another chance What are you, desperate? Never a good idea to go looking for dinner in the dumpster behind one's house. but is still upset and doesn’t trust me and won’t let me back into her life fully. Who cares? Why aren't you approaching other women? I already moved on but is this Normal for a girl to do? I thought they had no feelings/couldn’t get heart broken. This is autistic. Of course they do. The question is, does it bring value to your life to care about their drama?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:35 AM
1

She'll change later if she thinks she needs more attention and respect ATM. I'm not saying gender confusion doesn't exist. That said at certain point you've got to pick a bed, then sleep in the bed you made. Tell her you're just going off what her drivers license says. If she wants to change that, go ahead and file the paperwork.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:49 AM
1

Can confirm, I was the ex’s new guy. Username appears legit.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:06 PM
2

It sounds like you're still a little rattled and pissed off. That's OK, it's normal to feel a little defensive. You responded fine by just walking away and not playing the guy's tense little games. Sounds like a wild night to say the least. but her actions have been... strange. Pretty typical Borderline behavior. She still asks about me and drives by my home and places I'm known to frequent. While fiddling with her pocketknife wondering if she should slash your tires. This is called stalking. It…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:04 PM
1

Oh Jeebus The problem is you stuck your dick in crazy. Stop sticking your dick in crazy. Block her and approach other women. Let her find some other more desperate simp. She can then allow violence to come into his life.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:55 PM
1

Like the title says, my ex was controlling and immature. Why haven't you blocked her everywhere and deleted her number yet? and me talking it out with her parents. Now, I'm confused. Did they call you up and start trying to persuade you to get back together on her behalf? Or were you the one calling them up for advice on the best way to deepthroat their daughter's strap-on? I’m 25 so I logically understand it’s stupid but emotionally I’m finding it difficult. I’m more or less looking for advice …
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:45 PM
1

You're not some kind of sad-sausage type martyr for a lost cause. Refuse to see yourself that way. Self-pity is a real sickness. Learn to identify that crap. Then don't let it into your house when it comes knocking. Nobody really cares if you take an extra year or two at university to figure things out and retake some classes. This isn't a life changing emergency, it just costs more money and is annoying. Most universities these days have counseling services, that might be able to help you with …
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:20 PM
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.......For You. Other people may feel differently.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:18 PM
2

I don't know how you guys manage to spin plates and enter LTRs without being disgusted by their real nature. This amounts to hating the ocean for being wet and having waves. People are just barely enlightened apes going about their dramatic monkey business. You're taking it more personally than you should and allowing it to upset your ability to sit back and watch, with a tub of popcorn. As is usually the case when a man tries to define himself to much by his relationship to women, and whether t…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 06:07 PM
1

Could get a little expensive. But you do you. Nor like some people don't spend a thousand every month on payments for a truck they don't use.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:25 AM
2

Recommend you learn welding or machining. Might consider going to school to learn underwater welding. Those guys make more money than doctors. The downside is dealing with cold water and low visibility. Also kind of dangerous, but not Amy more so than that faced by people driving to work everyday. Just a random suggestion. I am a shy person I over-analyze everything because parents raised me like this The technical term for this is Learned-Helplessness, specifically pertaining to social interact…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:20 AM
3

Pretty egregious for her to be shit testing you about the windfall, after you dad died. I can see the dollar signs in her eyes from here.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:30 AM
2

I was reflecting on my oneitis today and how much of a beta I was being, so much so that I overlooked so many red flags including her taking medication for mental issues which explains why she was so irrational and unstable. Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic PD, Narcissistic PD, etc. Unlike deoression or anxiety, these are not neurological and medication doesn't really touch this class of mental illness. Your basic personality is warped and damaged. However because people with PDs gene…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:12 PM
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"Doesn't know what she wants" is usually coded language for I want to monkey branch over to Chad Thundercock. She wants to chase Chad but is bored of chasing you. You're clearly orbiting and aren't desired by other women. She just doesn't want to feel like an awful heartless bimbo for thinking with her uterus. So she'll pull war of attrition type passive-aggressive shit and breadcrumb you until you flip out. then she can treat you like the bad guy for wanting more respect. Any time a woman doesn…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:08 PM
10

TRP is about Male Improvement. It shouldn't be a surprise to you that this is sometimes at odds with women's emotional imperatives.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:47 PM
3

Mate, I feel you. Depression is a hell of pit to climb out of. Note that cults encourage, and then subsequently exploit, Fear of Vulnerability or Authenticity. They also encourage playing a stage role or a Persona, as a defense mechanism against being emotionally Vulnerable, letting your guard down, and being authentic and true to your feelings. This is related to the pathology Narcissistic Leadership, but that's a topic many books have been written about. That fake persona fucked with my head, …
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:42 PM
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Stop sticking your dick in crazy, mate. Radio silence. Ignore her attempts to Hoover you back in. Change all ypur passwords.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:41 AM
5

Let me add this to my already extensive list of reasons why social media is for chumps and morons. LAWYER. Get copies of all the emails in question. Get in touch with IG and get a hold of metadata pertaining to the posts.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:02 AM
2

Just read through many of the comments on the sub. There are a lot of people who genuinely hate women because some cheerleader rejected them in high school or they weren't one of the cool kids. It's usually because their mom was a selfish disinterested bitch and they can't be honest about their resentment and distrust towards her. Lot easier to hate the concept of people you've never actually met, whom you aren't obligated to have a relationship with. It's the same with fascism. Your family are …
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:15 PM
1

Yes. It's a Philosophy based to a great extent on Anecdotal Observations. That's not formal logic and it's not a science. Is it "Grounded?" Meh. Who cares. Working too hard to defend a philosophy or ideology is always about the ego. That's a game for kids and beta followers. One shouldn't get one's ego too attached. Even a broken watch is capable of being right twice a day. Anecdotal observations are usually fine for everyday life. However one shouldn't use them to make a business plan or make e…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:55 PM
2

Toxic is a value judgement, totally relative to one's social circumstances. Such men might have done very well for themselves in a crowded slum in a european city at the dawn of the industrial revolution. Social norms and values may have forgotten but behavioral evolution hasn't.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:10 AM
2

Trash attracts trash.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:02 AM
1

I just want to stand out with my physique after being skinny all my life. I think I can understand what you're saying. Let me know if I'm off track here. This is usually a result of some adverse childhood experiences. Around the time you're learning to walk, talk, feed & dress yourself, do simple chores, and make friends with other kids. Hence, the arbitrary desire to distinguish your power over yourself. In other words prove you're not the helpless infant like before, and you're one of the big …
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:59 AM
0

TRT stands for Testosterone Replacement Therapy. Ergo if a doctor says you've been low on several samples taken at different times and there's something in need of replacement. A single screen isn't very significant. Testosterone levels fluctuate quite a bit based several dozen factors, which is why monkeying with it for no reason isn't a great idea. You're saying you want to throw a wrench into a complicated system that's taken hundreds of millions of years to evolve, and just go full throttle …
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:18 PM
1

Whatever it was, it clearly wasn't urgent enough to tell you about it. So you're golden. Every woman has her bag of issues. That's her property to do with a she pleases. Even when women do feel sometbing is important enough to complain to me about I tend to not give a shit about half the time anyway. Usually because it's not something I have direct control over.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:44 PM
1

That's a good way of putting it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:33 PM
2

Cuz I agree with her that only dumb people would inject themselves with this shit. (And I have extensive professional experience in this area.) I think the term "Lousy" as in pest-ridden and lacking hygiene skills other people take for granted, applies here. You're not bring controversial and edgy here, you're just a lousy moron. Anyone reading this needs to understand, this is the type of person who would have a hard time being told to shave his head and douse himself in insecticide shampoo. Ev…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:28 PM
2

Stop being Captain Save-a-bitch. He knows what she's doing is wrong and hostile, but defends and enables it anyway. Because that means he doesn't have to feel responsible. He secretly thinks her shitfuck drama is awesome. He feels this because it allows him to set himself up as some kind of sad unappreciated martyr for a lost cause. "She's just saying what everyone else is thinking." That's not behavior you should reward with your care or loyalty. It's called being a professional bootlicker and …
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:31 PM
3

It's her family's job to support her. Not yours. Don't let a mistaken sense of guilt trap you. She's an adult and she'll be OK. I think this is a situation where you should legitimately friend zone her. What she needs right now is a friend.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:09 PM
2

This is Learned Helplessness by definition. "I don't feel ready."
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:13 PM
2

Nothing. That's what you should do. If she's acting pissy and harsh over text, then stop responding. What are you, a glutton for punishment? If you think you legit screwed up, then recognize the mistake and don't do it again.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:44 PM
2

You're ofcourse aware that it's stupid to shit where you eat snd this is exactly the kind of shit that happens if you do. Document all this stuff. Include days and times. Tell your manager you don't feel comfortable working with her and you'd like them to assign you to different shifts if it all possible. Be boring towards her and continue 100% radio silence. Stop posting shit on social media. I don't know her personally but considering you work at they same place, ghosting her might have been a…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:40 PM
4

Take a damn sick day from work. You need it, clearly. Look for a job that's not actively working to kill you.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:05 AM
3

You can't always just say no to or brush off LTR's. Something about that is triggering some kind of anxiety in you.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:36 AM
5

Makes no sense why she would doom her child like that It make perfect sense. Job security my mate. Consider that you had a job building robots that, at a certain point would be used to assemble themselves for you, thus making your job pointless and you unemployed. Would you be motivated to build the best, slickest, longest lasting damn robots in the business? I doubt it. You'd probably suck at your job deliberately because what would be the point either way? What's the hurry? Women typically fea…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:52 AM
1

Some people may grasp that their childhood was unhealthy, Few understand exactly how or why, and why it caused them to think, feel, and make decisions they way they do as adults. This is called not remaining in the padded, comfortable land of denial.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:28 AM
1

Their single mothers or their beaten-down, role-confused enabler BB fathers. That where they learned it. But yeah, it's often victims of single mothers.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:25 AM
2

Thry make comments in a passive aggressive way like : ' you don' t have any friend, don't you? ' Don't you know what a shit test is? Sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:19 AM
2

Doesn't teach men how and when to be vulnerable in productive and necessary ways.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:16 AM
1

It's not your money. Why do you give a shit what she spends on her hobbies? As long as she pays her share of rent on time. You seem to have a real stick up your ass here. Why the fuck are you acting like it's your ill-gotten money she's spending?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:14 AM
2

Roast them back.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:08 AM
1

The reason I say this is that excessive prolactin levels can cause low libido and erection difficulty. So can thyroid problems. But of course it's not any kind of secret that depression will also. Out of curiosity i read some of your other posts about your ex and custody issues. From what you mentioned it sounds like the breakup and custody issues with your ex were/are pretty traumatic. You're grieving the strife over your child. Your ex sounds like she has some classic Borderline Personality is…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:56 PM
2

My hair started thinning on top by the time I turned 30. In my case its just normal male pattern baldness. That's semi normal. Get a full blood panel done. Get checked for sleep apnea.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:51 PM
1

I don't have anything add. I just want to say you seem pretty determined to ride this crazy train as far off the tracks as it'll go. Cheers.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:44 AM
13

That's nasty, kid. Iron Rule of Thomassi #5. Why the hell are you still swimming in the community pool? Your fault for not using a condom and trusting her to control the birth. Yeah sure, it's not unheard of to have few symptoms of it. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have been using condoms.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:31 AM
1

How old are you? Might want to check your thyroid levels unless you've in your teenage years and hit your growth spurt a year or so ago.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:26 AM
3

So you're her dietician now? You believe you're her personal trainer, you say? In any case If you're going to help her lose weight, get fucking paid for your time, effort and judgement. Don't do that shit for free. So let me ask you again, who do you think you are? If she cared enough she'd be willing to pay somone to help her in some professional capacity. So why isn't she paying you for that? Oh right. Because you're a chump and she doesn't care that much. Plus she never asked you. Tell her to…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:22 AM
2

I swear to god this isn’t a fucking troll you absolute fucking idiot. This is a new account and Reddit set up a random name for me. Hold on, let me get a tub of popcorn. I smell some drama coming on. OK. What was your question again?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:49 AM
1

I discovered TRP few months ago near the end of the my relationship. My recent ex gf went behind my back and emotionally cheated, idk if any physical shit happened nor do I care anymore (we broke up). Problem is she has lived a very rough life Great! A breakup isn't going to really phase her, then. She's just trolling you for sympathy treats like a dog begging for food. You're not the last simping beta on the planet. There are legions of them. She'll just go to her other irbiters if you don't gi…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:45 AM
3

Wait a couple of days. Chill the hell out. Read a book or something and message other women. Then tell her you want her to come meet you at restaurant XYZ. Doesn't matter what XYZ is. Can be something stupid. In any case who knows she may just have been attention whoring anyway. You have no way of knowing how real she was being. It doesn't matter of she sends nudes or not, either she's willing to meet you in person or she isn't. That's the only single damn thing you should care about. “no I want…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:19 AM
1

What scares you the most? What's your worse case scenario? It's clear you feel a lot of pressure on yourself. Sounds like you have shame issues about performance, and it's causing low key feelings of panic. Anxiety like this is often due to a lack of a simple general contingency plan in case you have some kind of personal crisis. You brain is trying to tell you that you don't have a backup you can count on and your position is precarious. You're afraid you can't just say no to the commitments yo…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:33 AM
1

All they know of men is how the media portrays them therefore, typically, they have unreasonable expectation of what it means to be a "man". It's the same as how people who grew up living in a series of trailers, idolize the status symbols and trappings of wealth the see on fiction. Then you have the people who manage to win the lottery or get some other huge unexpected windfall. Then end up sucking themselves back into poverty in a year or two because they're financially illiterate. Growing up …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:36 AM
1

If she's cheating she's probably the reason why he feels the burn when he takes a piss Whoa, that's harsh. OP, don't take this guy's shit. Heh heh heh heh.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:17 AM
1

The ones you write yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Trading stocks, it's basically gambling unless you have access to insider knowledge about said companies. Can pay off big, can pay a little, but you can also lose almost everything if a high valued stock takes a hit. Don't put more than 10% of your liquid funds into it. The great majority of small time traders don't make money. So consider it a fun hobby but do not go down the rabbit hole. Expect to lose long term. This is why the big investment firms can make money doing it. They can leverage e…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:58 PM
0

Dafuq I just read? I'm not in favor of the concept of thought crimes. But this has got to be some kind of misdemeanor.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:23 PM
1

This shit is not easy and everyone wants to call me a bitch, or tell me to MAN up. Most men cannot handle this and would probably end up suicidal. Who, slow down there turbo. Thought you could just drop that one as a side note, did you.... If killing yourself as what ypu want, who am I to talk you out of it? Do it or else don't. Anybody with sense will tell you it's not a great decision, but that's ypur life. You're fee to listen to others advice, or else say "fuck 'em, I'ma slay myself anyway."…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:50 PM
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Be sure to keep paying them for their time, by all means. Might even throw some more generous tips in. That'll help.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 12:52 PM
2

Mate it's only been three weeks. It's OK to be pissed about being dumped. This isn't some kind of race. Take as little or a much time az you need to get over the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:49 AM
6

Let me get this straight. You're getting trigged because she gave you a little attitude during sex they other day. Because you lost your job and it caused you to act like a normal person and get depressed. Then you got paranoid that when your LTR asked you WTF was wrong, your thought it was some kind of college entrance test. Stop freaking out. Go back to being more dominant in bed. You'll be alright.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:02 AM
2

You care about sexism because you're still plugged into the matrix. Therefore you see yourself as a powerless child and think the world owes you a sense of sentimental fairness. The world is utterly unfair and utterly unsentimental. Once you have a team working underneath you, you can shut down that shit if you so desire. Understand that hat dynamic exists because the leadership at the school enables it and it benefits them.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:42 AM
1

Since she's dating your wallet, you're absolutely right. Why even bother,?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:38 AM
2

Your don't need her approval, mate. 0% she's not your mom. You need not convince her of nothing. Either you're afraid to lose her, or you're not. If you're afraid to lose her, then it's really just a gamble that she won't call your bluff.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:34 AM
3

AWALT. How do you love yourself? Seeing a lack of self-love here. You're not somebkind of martyr for a lost cause. Nobody really cares if any given woman is worth your love or not.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:28 AM
1

Put her on the back burner for a few months and approach better quality women. Stop spending time with her. Trust fund babies are trash. It would be one thing if she'd used the money, opportunities, and privilege to accomplish something noteworthy in her life. Sadly she mostly just uses it to avoid responsibility and slack off. You're mainly interesting to her because you're willing to say no to her and ignore her.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:26 AM
6

So what's your favorite hobby? I sure hope it's not giving a shit about dramatic noises that comes out of women's mouths?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:11 AM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:10 AM
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After this I’m going to look into some information regarding narcissistic abuse. Check out Chumplady .com There is also the section slash r slash raisedbynarcissists. I am a chronic explainer, Usually driven by fear of abandonment. Narcissist love threatening to breakup/leave/ignore you. Usually causes entertaining drama. Say a few words and let your silence do the rest of the talking. I think this is why I struggled to internalise part of the red pill regarding frame because I had the need to b…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:07 AM
2

You have rage, distrust and resentment against your mom on particular. And other women by extension. I read some of yours other posts and comments out of curiosity, and yeah. You have a reason to be angry about your mom. See: Iron Rule of Thomassi #6. You mom is no exception to this. Women are utterly incapable of loving a man the way he truly wants to be loved, deep down. Note that this isn't a pessimistic statement about women. It is the nature of the childs love (idealization) for his parents…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:44 PM
2

If you have to give ultimatems you might as well outright tell her you're emotionally dependent on her and she's unfireable. People who have the power to leave, cut your pay, or have other options than you, don't pull that kind of needy crap. Downgrade to plate and approach other women. Stop treating her like she can't be replaced.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:32 PM
1

For a bit of context, she claims to be a devout Christian Seven Day Adventist (I'm not religious) So, a room full of unusually fake insecure jealous people where she can blend in. and to her credit she does try her best to live up to the ideals of her religion, If she thinks anyone else is looking. This is Overcompensation for her boundary issues and sexual dysfunction. Nobody is forcing her to be there. She's there for a reason and wears that hat for a reason. That reason isn't because she's so…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:53 AM
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The technical term is Antisocial Personality Disorder. It's not a good trip for many reasons. Antisocials, despite their lack of outward expressions, tend to be pretty damn insecure. In order to become one, you need to, probably, undergo some pretty serious childhood trauma that FUBAR-s your attachment with your main caretaker. Around age 1-2 maybe. Thus you cannot differentiate between emotional attachment, trauma, and powerlessness. This renders you incapable of trusting anyone and incapable o…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:34 PM
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Her: "So, should I come over tomorrow or not? I have to know soon. another gay heart emoji" So, I'm assuming this mean a she wants you come over as soon as possible and fuck her a couple times. She's almost ready to implode. You mention some other red flags with her so I don't necessarily know the context here. If you agree to an LTR I don't think its unreasonable expectation that if she asks you to come over, you take the request seriously. You can't just tell her, "I'm busy all month; some oth…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:43 AM
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You're not 8 years old anymore. They're not your annoying younger brothers. Get rid of that hypercompetitive chip on your shoulder. to look cool in her eyes Betas guard their mates. Alphas disregard. Nobody cares if you look bad in front of her. There trying to make me look bad in front of her This is called shame. Understand something here. Your ability to make yourself look bad in your own mind is about 20x more powerful than any power they have to make you look bad in reality. The issue here …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:17 AM
2

I recently broke up with my LTR of 2,5 years because she didn't respect my boundaries. And the following is no exception. Have some respect for your own boundaries, yourself. Just as we were saying goodbyes to each other she says she is okay if I want to continue fucking her. She mentioned I was emotionally distant when breaking up but she was attracted. And she tried to get me say yes for a good 5-6 minutes on text for this too. I gave responses like "Yeah no problem, we'll see, maybe". Is ther…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:15 AM
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I feel like people shouldn't need to be told that homosexuality is a thing, at his point. She dated a guy because she was still in the closet.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:25 AM
2

Oooops. You paid attention to some noises a woman made with her mouth. You got upset that she claimed to be outraged. Should have paid attention to her actiins, only. Walking away was the right thing for you to do in that situation. Nobody cares if she wanted it or not.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:10 PM
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How does one fix that though? Like many neuroses, I believe this boils down to a form of Learned-Helplessness or taught helplessness. Recognize the attachment. Recognize the dependency. 1) Recognize that in fact this outcome dependency cripples ypu. Then feel true disgust for your weak, immature, artificially helpless nature of this mindset. Unfortunately your parents rewarded the behavior to the point that you became anxious what would happen if you didn't express anger and outrage. You are an …
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:08 PM
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Leave a soon as possible and establish very low contact. People with strongly narcissistic (I.e. infantile attention seeking) personalities aren't people who bring any value to your life. The fact she's your sister is irrelevant. Simply don't talk to her of respond to her attempts to speak to you or contact you. Do not agree to do her any favors even if it's a legit emergency. Trust me on this last part. Her behavior will become more agressive, more toxic, and more dysfunctional as her SMV fades…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:52 AM
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Fear of abandonment. Fix it.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:42 AM
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OP's dick is screaming at him the reality he's too dense to admit to himself.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:33 AM
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It's a simple question, mate. Does doing a month or two in jail at least, losing your job, and a lengthy trial process sound like a decent tradeoff? Three against one? Who are the witnesses there going to implicate? Does a week in the hospital and a massive medical bill sound good? If not, then then tell the hothead they're entitled to their opinions, then just walk away. Grab your girlfriends elbow if she's around though I wouldn't waste your breath doing it. Voting with your feet and walking a…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:28 AM
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You sure are, buddy.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:17 AM
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Reward good behavior intermittently. Punish low value behavior immediately.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:44 PM
1

Plate only. What's the question? Conveniently forgetting that she's a CC rider, when you've seen the proof would be exceptionally stupid.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:42 PM
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Look, I don't necessarily have anything against sex workers. But you have to remember Rules #1 and #2 of fight club. If you're going to go down that road, don't make that kind of dirty laundry anybody else's business. Needs to stay in Vegas, kid. The fact that you need to tell other people about it is a much of a disqualifier as whoring yourself out in the first place. In any case she's clearly trickle-truthing you here. Be prepared for more unpleasant surprises.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:35 PM
1

"Nope." "I'm busy." "I can't do that right now." "I disagree."
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:29 PM
1

Are you talking about RA? Swimming is a good option for exercise in that case. I wouldn't waste your liquid savings on expensive treatments that have low odds of improvement at best. Focus on preventative care instead and be disciplined about your diet. Put your savings into buying a house or something where you won't be tempted to cash it out. Mutual fund might be a good option too.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:26 PM
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You'll find that most people on this sub were bullied in some fashion when they were teenagers. Don't come at us expecting pity. Use it too make yourself tougher. Stop giving a shit about the opinions of acrimonious bitches.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:17 PM
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I am heavy BPd and grew up with a single mother that was never in the house and always at work. So my childhood was spent alone with nobody but myself. Women's psychology is heavily influenced by the need to relate to young children, But when they become teenagers and start asserting their independence, women naturally struggle to feel like they can relate. This can be pretty threatening to women especially to single mothers. So it's common that mothers will hold kids back in a pretty insidious …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:20 PM
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Yea, he’s psycho. But also intelligent Stealing money from his friends that he has no urgent need for? Does that sound intelligent to you? You said he did prison time. I bet it was for something fucking dumb. Guy is good at parroting buzzwords and jargon he's heard from others but you'll find he lacks any depth of knowledge and experience to back up what he says.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:15 AM
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I think most women have this fetish, yeah. Doesn't mean they actually want to buy that reality. Women love what they shop for but hate what they actually buy.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:46 AM
1

AWALT.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:40 AM
1

Multiple times? Decide what in specific they think you did. Then quit doing that and stop whining. Learn to read the room, mate.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:21 PM
1

I hear you, brother. I think I can understand what you're going through. Can't function sober. Facts are you can function as well sober as you can function drunk. So the issue seems to be you just feel like if you drink then you don't have to care. You believe you can let go of enotional distress, the same, the anger, and guilt, at least temporarily. You feel that when you drink you can let go of whatever the guilt or shame narratives you have are, and relax. A lot of people use positive relatio…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:19 PM
1

Serms like this guy watches porn.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:08 AM
1

Save up for a used RV. Do your research before you buy, then renovate that shit.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:06 AM
1

Stopped reading your post. Imposter Syndrome. Also get a family member you trust to keep an eye on your ex's social media, then relay anything potentially suspicious to your and your lawyer. Block her everywhere, yourself. Trying to snoop on her social media just so you can neurotically compare yourself to her is pretty weak. I wonder how much you've really absorbed. Nobody gives a shit what her life is. Focus on parenting your child.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:59 AM
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Can you love yourself again?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:23 AM
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I just found it so weird how it was such a quick transition. Like, it wasn't a gradual decrease in wetness, it was literally went from leaky faucet one day and then desert the next. 1) Coincides with her getting the IUD. 2) Dryness is a published side effect. 3) wetness or lack of it isn't always the best indicator of arousal. Not everything revolves around your supposed SMV or how you're percieved by others. Have a chat about getting the lower dose version but don't make a big deal about it.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 04:21 AM
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95% No. Either don't respond or just say "k," then wait 2 or three weeks then tell her to meet you at XYZ at time of day.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:58 AM
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You're going to have to be a little more specific about not liking your past m8.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:32 AM
1

But with a girl u want to be in a relationship with, What has she done to earn that level of respect from you, aside from wasting your time on the phone? You need to start vetting women more carefully. You need to stop throwing your time energy, attention, praise at them like it was trash and start being more mercenary. Now i think i did good because she ended up staying up on the phone super late Don't you have better things to do with your than talk on the phone for 4 hours with some girl you …
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:07 AM
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If you do, high ball your salary.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:56 PM
1

compulsive liar, cheater, plays head games You like the emotional rollercoaster. You like playing truth detective.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:54 PM
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They're not all lying. One or two of your friends are grabasstic clowns/ dark-triads. Of course none of the men in your country are talking about times they've been assaulted by women. This is a complex issue. Rape is generally trained behavior for example. There is also usually some reasons these turds learned to hate women in the first place. The majority of partner abuse is by men. The majority of child abuse is at the hands of women. This is something you're of course not going to hear from …
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:05 AM
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Direct Quote (Text): “ I don’t want to sound crazy, but I want to be honest, I keep count of how many condoms you have in your drawer“ "You're wrong. Better count them correctly the next time." Make sure you throw a half dozen away before she comes over next time.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:55 AM
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You fucked up bad, son. You want to end up like Jeff Bezos, then I would strongly recommend you to continue with the marriage plans. If you don't want to get to get sodomized with a strapon deep into your portfolio, then I don't see a lot of alternatives but to break the engagement and tell your finance to move out. Don't ever discuss your financial nest-eggs or retirement savings with women. Ever. No exceptions. See: Rule #1 of TRP- shut the fuck up. There are three things and only three things…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:36 AM
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Nobody cares what she said or admitted to or didn't. Your don't need something so asinine like a confession or acknowledgements of guilt when you already have seen the proof with your own eyes, fait accompli. She's a liar and a manipulator and liars gonna lie. Stop attempting to argue with women. You don't need more validation that she's a literally a lying whore.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:31 PM
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I kinda sensed she is still trying to cover up her feelings Who cares? and playing it cool but I was sure after I mentioned I am seeing other women. She didnt say anything but I sensed in her voice she didnt expect this. You're not telepathic. You didn't "sense" fuckall. Don't be dramatic. She doesn't want to talk about it? Great no worries then. Now I feel like shit You're both adults here. She's not your child and doesn't need your protection. You're not responsible for the feelings she's gone…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:25 PM
1

How do I stop fucking up my chances A chance to do what, exactly? Ever bothered to really answer that question? They had a chance with you. Let me ask you a rhetorical question. Say you're interviewing somone to be your junior assistant at your job. If you ask them "what is it that makes you want this job the most?" and they respond: "hmm, not really sure." Do you hire them? No. Of course you don't fucking hire them. The correct answer is, "the growth opportunity, the recognition, the challenge …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:15 PM
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Who cares what some women said? Women tend to make a lot of dramatic noises with their mouths.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:31 PM
2

If you want a birth. Sure. If you're in a position to care for a child, it's OK to risk it.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:28 AM
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Recommend you go low contact with your family except for your uncle. Don't interact with them in person. It's 100% not your job to take care of them. You're not in a position to be doing that. Your psychiatrist isn't the greatest. I'd take what he has to say with a grain of salt. Moving out of country could help your career and economic prospects, however your mental demons are going to come right with with. You can't run away from emotional pain. Wherever you go, it goes.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:55 PM
1

yeah I get that, but that doesn't change the fact that the salaries are much much higher. Something something capitalism? Getting a larger share of the blood doesn't mean you're less of a leech. With nothing to show for all the time and effort you've put in attaching yourself to the golden faucet, except getting fatter.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:30 AM
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NYC in particular does not need more talentless finance asswipes. Do something that actually contributes to the betterment of other peoples lives and businesses, which is actually fucking technically difficult.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:25 AM
2

"Blowjob was a 6/10. Better than average but some room for improvement."
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:20 AM
2

Play stupid games, win prizes nobody wants.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:03 AM
1

Who cares? Just don't be boring. And don't be a follower. Read "the Subtle Art of Not Giving a F%ck" by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:02 AM
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Yeah, that’s one thing that is bothering me. Moving anywhere for that sake, always requires a lot up front. CA more than most. Can't make the scene if you don't have the green. Cost of living in a lot of the parts of the state has gone full-nuts. My Uncle bought his house in the Sacramento area about 30 years ago. Sold last year for a little more than a mil, Then moved to new mexico and paid cash to build a house for about 200K. Instant retirement fund but sucks for the buyer who just financed h…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:57 AM
1

No kid. Intuition is an astonishingly bad way of making decisions, in general. See: wanting "closure." See: "I feel sober enough to drive." EDIT: In any case your trust issues are about childhood trauma, meaning you couldn't trust one or two specific members of your family when you were pretty young. In their case they were just as untrustworthy as you think everybody else might be. Whether or not you can trust anyone else as an adult, and what your intuition says about their teystwoethiness isn…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:09 AM
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Nobody gives a shit what your girlfriend said or what she acted like. Who cares? She's not the prize here, you are. You clearly don't trust her. It's 100% normal to have difficulty getting aroused when you just don't trust the other person. It's 100% normal if you don't feel comfortable actually letting your guard down around them, or if you don't feel respected for whatever reason. Don't let anyone tell you differently. I can't tell you whether or not you should trust her, But maybe there's a r…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:03 AM
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The attraction is on your side. It's not mutual. It's called thinking you don't have any other options besides her and wanting to fit yourself into her frame and build consensus with her because of it. This is the sum and total of what you call "mutual" attraction. You don't know WTF she feels. This is wrongheaded. If she has attraction towards you that could just as easily change 30 seconds from now it could change again in a day or a month. Forget about it. You're the prize here. She should be…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:16 AM
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Shes not yours, mate. It's just your turn. Don't get ahead of yourself. Stop mate guarding and get your head screwed on face forwards. She told ypu about her ex because she knows you're mate guarding and knows you think you don't have other options besides her.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:01 AM
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I'm saying your parents taught you to respond to frustration, anger, (and distrust in particular,) by obsessing about one's ex and what they're doing. Seems like you're still angry about the infidelity, in any case. However idealizing your ex, after the fact, is really just a way you perpetuate this cycle of behavior. "We had a special, unique, trashy connection that wasn't like other girls." It's the same mechanism that causes people to protect their abusers and lie on their behalf when the nei…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:30 PM
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Serious question, are your parents divorced? Something about this sounds a lot like divorce drama, so it may be learned behavior from your parents' relationship. The point is, this almost certainly has nothing to do with your ex LTR in particular. She's just a symbol.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:32 PM
1

How's your blood pressure? Low blood pressure could cause ED. So can poor sleep quality. Note that a lack of body fat can affect testosterone level. So if you're running marathons and have less than 5%BF that could be an issue. Overall I'd say it's more likely that there's something going on emotionally with your LTR, maybe she's boring to you. Maybe she's shit testing you and getting demanding. Maybe you're having performance anxiety. Couldn't say.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:27 PM
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Towards women.... Yes. Towards life in general? Be careful about that.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:07 PM
3

I want to make bank but spending 10 hours doing work I could get done in 7 just so that I can look like I'm working harder seems ridiculous. Then don't. Focus on studying. Put in your 40 hours. As long as you get the shit done they tell you to get done, who gives a damn if it takes 8 or 10 hours. I'm thinking once I get the qual to get out. Sounds like a good plan.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 01:55 PM
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This is your life. If you don't want to bother with women, then don't. You don't need other people's permission.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:27 PM
3

The first step is to plan to move out. Make yourself an Exit Plan. Unless you think you can get a significant scholarship, might want to put off the college plans for a few years while you get settled, living by yourself. Look into getting a job in some type of trades such as electrical, plumbing, or machining for example. The problem is you talked to your mom about anything at all in your personal life. Much less talking about your plans for the future. That was a mistake. Stop telling her anyt…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:46 AM
0

You got successfully dread gamed, son.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 12:53 AM
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How old are all of you? If you're all just out of highschool, then I'd say that was a major fuckup on their part. But may not have occurred to them about the full consequences of doing something like that. Call each of them up and tell them they severely fucked up and at the very least you want an apology from them. They could have just asked you for a few bucks, but they decided to be axe wounds instead. If you're in your mid to late 20's and all have jobs, then don't bother with them.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:34 PM
1

Not really the right sub, mate.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:54 PM
1

I couldn't finish that book, man. It was too weird and dismal. Cormac Mccarthy was a genius, but there just was something not right in his head.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:26 AM
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1) You're wise to move out when she's out of town. Simply don't talk about your plans to her for any reasons. Be a stone cold fucker, and smile and tell her you love her more than you've ever loved anybody and it physically hurts your heart. If she tries to manipulate you with sex, tell her you need to run to the store and buy a box of chocolates or something like that. Once all your stuff is out and you're well on your way, then break up over text, then block on everything. Don't even think abo…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:03 AM
1

"No offense, but I still get paid whether or not I listen to your politics. You still get paid whether you talk about your politics or not. So if it's all the same to you, let's talk about something that helps us both do our jobs. Are you willing to take care of XYZ aspect of project ABC?" If they're not talking to you personally, but making noise in the hallway, tell them you're trying to comcebtrate, so why don't they head over to the break room if this is a personsl debate.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:05 PM
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Sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:59 PM
2

Monk Mode.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:11 PM
1

If he's so smart why did he try to flagrantly cheat on his taxes, then get caught? Because he wanted to buy another airplane or another investment property? Just couldn't bother to pay his damn bills? Guy has more charm than brains. He's like a typical spoiled bratty woman. Can't trust him to be responsible with money, can't take anything he says seriously, It's just a bunch of vapid nonsense he's heard somone else say. But he says it with such melodrama you almost want to think he's serious, if…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:01 PM
3

Most couples I see, the girl is clearly a level higher in attractiveness. No Homo.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:50 PM
-1

It's a shit test, it's rude as fuck, it's not funny or charming. You're right to call her on this shit in no uncertain terms and tell her to apologize. But, yeah sounds like it's a cultural thing and nobody has told her differently before. If she does something like that again, then you should absolutely hard next.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:41 PM
3

"The Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:37 PM
2

Zma, tribulus I can't believe this day has come. So it's really come to this. Unbelievable. Fuck you, snake oil industry. Tribulus is called "goat head weed" where I grew up. It's basically the worst weed in the world. Looks kind of pleasant and has pretty yellow flowers. Until you take a look ad the dried seeds, which seem to have been invented by Satan himself. They have little needle sharp spikes and evolved so that no mater how you scatter them, one of the spikes usually points upwards to em…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:06 PM
1

If youre getting sweaty on a regular basis, the cramps could be low potassium or magnesium. I.e. you're low grade dehydrated. Bananas and baked potatoes. You can also find electrolyte tablets but don't go crazy with those and follow the directions. Usually they say to take one then drink a liter of water.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:28 PM
4

Be a skittles man.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:17 PM
16

Deoends on what youre really hoping to accomplish. You could confront her, but it's not going to change much. The eventual course of action is the same either way. In a sense this sounds like you're asking her for some kind of permission from her to break up. Or else asking her to suck up to you and validate your ego. You know what people here would tell you, if you decided to take a lying slag back because she cried a bunch of crocodile tears and made a bunch of promises under duress. This is c…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:04 AM
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Mate Im not saying this to belittle you personally. You're 17 and odds of a legit health problem effecting your erection are pretty low. It's 100% normal to not get aroused when ypu don't trust somone, feel.a lack of respect, and/or just don't feel comfortable with the situation. It's as simple as that. Understand this, porn isn't for real. Don't believe the hype. It's normal to not get arounsed when you don't feel willing to really let your guard down with some given person. This is, at the bas…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:38 AM
1

I'm glad to hear you've gotten back on track to sobriety. I usually just deal with fuck ups by just remaining stoic and moving on, but I feel like I need to take some time to just let my massive ego take a hit and admit that I really, truly fucked up. Whether a few plates broke is a minor consideration. That would probably have a lot to do with the major issue here which is you relapsing. And of course acting inebriated and acting high when your plates were around. Look, relapses happen. It's mo…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:32 AM
1

Perfectionism is one of the most stereotypical kinds Self-Sabotage Behavior. It's driven by Task Initiation Anxiety and arbitrary beliefs about inadequacy.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:58 AM
1

How much do you value your job? How easily do you think you can find a new one? If you don't care and can find a new one easily, then what the hell. Stop pussyfooting around. If you care about your job, then you should probably pass dipping the pen in company ink. Especially if it's a heavily male-dominated company.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:37 PM
1

There are seven major pillars to obesity, depending on how you look at it. 1) Genetics. You can't control this, so forget about it. 2) Lifestyle or relationship distress 3) Lack of outdoor exercise or Eu-stress. 4) Sugar consumption paryicularly, and excess refined carbohydrates generally. 5) Chronic emotional distress or spiritual unwellness 6) Poor sleep habits, often related to artificial lights such as screens. 7) lack of vegetables, especially fresh greens. Your goal should be to tackle and…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:41 PM
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Yep. Boredom sure is better thsn starving which is what your great great grandfather and all your ancestors before that did when they had free time.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:01 AM
1

Even Scarface Al Capone couldn't lawyer his way out of that one.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:21 AM
1

Good point. OP I know this sounds a little crazy, but theres solid, very firm science behind what this man is telling you. Only you're going to have to go in for a heavy treatment regimen.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:19 AM
2

Back in the glory days of the internet before spam filtering and search targeting got sophisticated I remember when the "Nigerian 409" email scam became really popular. That was, early 2000, very late 90's. I realize there are people here who don't know what I'm talking about which makes me feel a bit old. Anyway, scam calls, emails always start from the beginning by making some kind of outrageous, sensational claim that's also badly written and/or badly structured. By the way the whole obvious …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:01 AM
1

Sounds like the warning bells for crazy slag were going off somewhere in your head. Why the fuck did you let her kick you out of the bed though. Should have told her to get stuffed. I dunno, some people have a hard time disagreeing with shit when they're high tho.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:19 AM
1

Huh? What's your plan for your future? There's the answer you need right there. Either you do or you don't have specific, actionable plans.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:32 PM
2

quit watching porn So, only happens when youre alone with a girl, and ypur pants start coming off. I think you already have a pretty good idea this is an emotional issue. Pretty sure you weren't ready, man. Erections aren't magic. It's absolutely normal to not get aroused with somone you don't trust or you feel doesn't respect you. The problem is a bunch of bitches on the internet telling you you need to just shut up and "prove youre a real man" or some tebse grade school bullshit like that. Eve…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:49 AM
3

I am gutted and can't stop thinking when she might call. Gutted? Mate, you're not a first grade boy waiting for your mom to pick you up after school, wondering if she's forgotten about you again. Stop treating your ex as if she's your long lost mother figure. She's not the last woman on the island and you're a grownass man. You moved out of your parent's house years ago. You'll be alright. Straighten up your spine a little bit, then take a deep breath and push your testicles back outside your bo…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:06 AM
2

No, it's not OK for a person like you to block her for any reason. No matter how much of your valuable time paying attention to her wastes you.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:06 PM
2

Step 1) recognize you made a mistake and get your ego out of it. Could be a lot worse, meaning you could wallow in denial and avoidance instead of learning something from. This is your frame. You learn from failure, you take ownership over how ypur actions influenced the situation, and you don't let your ego start running in circles. Step 2) make a simple plan XYZ to prevent it from happening. Step 3) "That was an oversight and I apologize. Im going to do XYZ to prevent it from happening." If yo…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:03 PM
1

Mate if you wanted to have hope, you'd reach out and take a hold of it. This is the only truth that matters here I think. Reach outwards or else don't. Your friends don't matter, excuses and narratives you use for not wanting to hope don't mean much. Yoir circumstances mean little. What's BP got to do with it? You're using TRP as a pretext here to spin your rationalizion hamster around in it's wheel while you sabotage yourself and choose not to take actions. That's up to you, mate. But I think a…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:27 AM
2

Use your damn fingers, chief.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:37 PM
1

Ive talked to two guys who were raped or sexually assaulted by women. So yeah, don't act like you were born yesterday. Women aren't all lying about being groped or raped. The vast majority of men who are assaulted simply never talk about it, that's the difference. Abuse and rape is Taught Behavior. Perpetrators need to go through a Violentization process that involves repeated trauma. For various reasons girls are less likely to be coached in the behavior than boys. That's the second difference.…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:32 PM
2

Society? The hell..... Why is it that you resent yourself and the things you've done in the past? Why are you so ashamed of yourself. Being a young ignorant dude who hadn't yet been told any different isn't some kind of felony. Women and society ain't shit. The only reason you even brought them up at all is they remind of things about yourself you despise the most and least want to tolerate. You're not a victim. What is it that you think has been stolen from you, really?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:21 AM
1

Huh? Why are you the one "pursuing" them? Your title tells me a hell about of a lot where your frame is at and whom you believe is the prize. Why aren't you telling them the ways you want them to pursue you? Stop treating these bitches like they're the prize in some kind of edgy tense contest only ypu know the rules to.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:01 AM
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Might be gay and in the closet. Sounds like he's just trying to get some eye candy. That would explain why he's so tense. Tell him to quit staring at your ass. There's plenty of MM porn on the internet he can watch. That's some real attention seeking type shit.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 04:58 AM
2

Don't blame the fact that you see yourself as somehow less powerful and threatened by women, on TRP. If you wanted to trust women and wanted stop being a cagey defensive fucker around them, you'd do so. TRP is just a pretext here. So, what are they going to do? Tell you no? Call you bad names? Ignore you? Say some dramatic bullshit? Oh my! What treacherous monsters. You can solve most of your concerns when you stop giving a shit what women say and not doing shit for them you don't enjoy doing. T…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 04:47 AM
2

Tell her you’d do her like V did Natalie Portman. Dafuq man, you're into some real sick edgy shit. Should let me buy you a pint sometime.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:44 AM
1

They know most men are insecure about it, and they just have to push that button.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:37 AM
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I hope to shit this is a troll post. Please be a troll post. Because if this is real, you're definitely better going back to posting on slash r slash incelswithouthate or slash r foreveralone.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 02:06 AM
2

how big of a red flag is this? girl i've been seeing close to a year is bringing up her male co worker... they went skiing together, 50:50 she slalomed on his pole afterwards, or desperately wanted to, which is why she keeps shit testing you. "Does he have a nice ass?" I have not shown any signs of being bugged or jealous by it.. but anyway to approach this? Silent downgrade to plate. Go low contact for a month or two, while you spin up other plates. This is always the answer for edgy low value …
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:46 AM
2

You don't. Why aren't you getting more loyalty to yourself, from yourself? Don't you have standards? These hos ain't shit.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:59 PM
3

Mate that was ten years ago. If you want to fuck her old high school mates go for it. If you think there's a chance her post wall as s might want to smash send a message, then pump and dump.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:55 PM
1

I wouldn't bother trying to ask a fish for fishing advice, mate. You think the fish is actually going to tell you how it's going to get caught?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:51 PM
2

Later that night we text the girls that we decided to never hang out with them again because our time was wasted. Sounds a bit butthurt, unless you were just trying to yank their chain, there. I want HB8 friend but I'm not sure if it will fuck up everything. How should I go about this situation? Probably going to have to play a bit longer game and party at their house 2-3 more times before you try to isolate and close the roommate in question. Could be HB8 doesn't really care much for the other …
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:44 PM
2

First few time meeting a woman what matters is setting boundaries and expectations. After we've fucked a couple times and she's demonstrated lots of high value behavior, do I start paying for things. My generousity extends to people who have character only.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:28 PM
3

You keep sabotaging and undermining yourself. Now, even though you've got a good thing going, you're asking us if you should just go full out and torpedo it completely. No, dude. Why do you keep trying to sabotage the relationship whenever you get annoyed of feel uncertain? This is called Learned Helplessness and Learned Victimhood. Not a fucking great way to deal with cognitive dissonance. Also, stop calling youtself a bitch. Self-pity is a child's game. It doesn't become you as an adult man. S…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:20 PM
1

There's only one person in the world who can tell you what being "successful" means or what an "above average" life means. Those are value judgements. We can't yell you what that is. Other people can't tell you that. Exceed your own average. Stop asking other people than you to validate your success or worth. There are no like minded people in that regard. Remember that material success is good at getting your physical needs met. Its largely irrelevant to being spiritually fulfilled or getting y…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:14 PM
2

So ultimately, moving forward, this is my problem. I'm trying to accept the reality that I will never be loved the way I've always wanted to be. Why don't you love yourself the way you always wanted you be loved? Your trauma issues with your mom when you were a toddler are 100% absolutely NOT other women's problem. It's not their business and they don't care about that trauma drama here. I'm not saying your trauma wasn't real and valid, but I'm saying you need to ask the right fucking person abo…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:22 PM
4

What I think you're describing is called Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment. Usually it's due to a mother figure who went absent for some reason in a traumatic way, when you were still in diapers. This caused you to worry that if you crawled off and did something else, she might not still be there when you got back. Hence the obsessive fantasies about idealized love, perfect beauty, immersive sex, endless pursuit, etc. You may have used the term "true love" but understand that truth is a thing of th…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:08 PM
3

That sucks that you've going through this. Recommend you read "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie. Recommend you go low contact with your mom. What you're talking about here is sometimes called Emotional Incest or Parentification. It's not unusual for alcoholic parents to pull this kind of abuse on their children. Look, you may not like what I have to say at this point. Trying to help people who have an active desire to destroy themselves is not only futile, but it is self-destructive from y…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:31 PM
1

You mean, they're all dating girls from the slut squad? Those women know why they're in that group.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:54 PM
1

Men hate things they dread. Women hate the things they loved yesterday. It's really just two sides of the same coin for them. They hate that they love and they love what they hate. For men, when you hate somone or something, then you're fine never having to deal with it/them again much less see them. When women hate somone or something they want to punish and denigrate them. That is, establish superior status. So either way they want to enmesh themselves more into the situation. Hate, love, and …
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:49 PM
2

Mate it's pretty normal to not get aroused when you don't trust somone, lack a sense of basic respect, and don't feel comfortable letting your guard down around them. Stop trying to rush shit. The fact that you believe you need to drug yourself in order to "perform" for strange women, ought to tell you volumes about how much you really trust them or really feel comfortable with them. This is the sorriest most depressing thing I've read here all day. You selling out your emotions and drugging you…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:33 PM
3

Since then she acts as nothing happened, the relation is basically the same, without any future expectations and even less explicit emotional attachment. Except you both know something fucking happened. So stop fooling yourself and cut the crap. We talk every day, Cut that out. Demote to plate. The alcohol issues alone and weight gain should disqualify her. Be ready to drop her when she starts getting needy and demanding. If you want to talk, tell her to come over, bring a six pack, then fuck an…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:08 PM
1

Give her a phone call every so often. Obviously she'd like to hear your voice. I'd consider this a comfort test. I don't know what your living situation is, but you might tell her to just drive over to your place after work instead of driving home. Then have her spend the night. Or you could go to hers after work. Tell her to make dinner for you.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:38 PM
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Congratulations you have a voyeurism fetish. Next. Why aren't you approaching more women? The issue is you lack a positive, fulfilling outlet for your sexual energy. One that actually requires ypu to connect emotionally with other people.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:26 PM
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Insulting a woman's hair is about the same as if she told you your dick was too small. Pretty tasteless, should only reserve that bombshell for somone who irritates the fuck out of you, whom you'd just as well not talk to again. It's a symbol of her sense of femininity and SMV. They tend to take it pretty personally even if they don't say shit to you at the moment. You you probably wouldn't react to your dick being insulted but you'd inwardly wonder who the fuck that cunt thought she was. Look, …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:13 PM
1

Concern trolling.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:31 PM
2

Ask her if she wants to bang the guy and rob his cradle. The tease her about being a homewrecker. Then change the subject. She's just a plate. She can fuck whomever she wants whenever. If this line of conversation is annoying to you and gets your panties all twisted, stop inviting her over and focus on other plates who aren't trying to stir shit with you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:28 PM
2

My dad has Life360 on my phone. The bad influence in your life is your dad. Just leave it in your room. It's not a fucking ankle monitor. You have no legal requirement to carry it with you. Or power off and take the Sim card out unless you need to make a call. It your job to tell him where you're going, when you'll be back, and then be a fucking man of your word. That's all. The latter is called integrity. It's medicine, get some for yourself, then pass it along. His insecurities aren't your con…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:16 PM
1

For you? I imagine so. I'm sure you could find a way to pull off a harassment charge.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:53 PM
3

Influencer Poorly employed trust fund baby. Who gives a shit? boyfriend Ask him for permission to choke on his cock.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:52 PM
0

"What's a threesome? I'm a virgin, to be honest." Then change the subject.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:47 PM
2

This is a very common problem I feel like. Common for whom? You? Maybe you might know something about this complaint. And I’ve been thinking about this a lot within myself, am I coming across as a true alpha male Look, no offense, but you realize how cringey this sentence sounds? or am I just coming across as one big overcompensation? See: Iron Rule of Thomassi #1 Fix your frame. Step one is to consciously choose to stop giving a fuck about how you think other people view you. Perceive yourself …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:45 PM
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Projection: it's not just a kind of TV.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:23 PM
1

"To ride, you must be at least this high." "Did you say you're looking for some training?"
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:04 AM
1

Just wondering what to do if some girl writes a status about you, and then there’s 30 other girls also commenting stuff. Recently some guy got exposed online near my location for sending some pretty offensive stuff to this girl (he was calling her fat) If you're going to roast people, don't do it over text. That's his own fault for being a chucklefuck and thinking there's no way the internet was going to remember this stuff. Wrong. You might as well spray paint your full name on a government bui…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:01 AM
1

Call her every day until she pays up. Or put her work on the back burner behind those who pay more promptly. Cutting you off, depends on what it is. If it's something truly important, "excuse me but I don't believe you're listening and you need to hear this part." If it's some minor detail, then her money is still green and she can talk about what she really feels is important during meetings. She's the one who needs to feel sarisfied with the end product, not you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:29 AM
2

They feel like an emotional black hole. But they get over it after, like 5 minutes.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:27 AM
5

1) Free parking and subsidized gas 2) Packaged food, sugar and refined carbs everywhere. EDIT Other posters have touched on this. In few other countries is fresh produce treated like an expensive luxury item you can only get in the nice stores. There's something fucking wrong with a country when a package of Oreos costs less than a cabbage head or sack of beans. 3) shitty parents who didn't tell them "no" as kids. 4) lack of strong male role models who taught them to stop whining and stop acting…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:20 AM
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The hell's wrong with you, son? Nobody gives a shit about "measuring up" in your LTR's eyes or about her opinion. He dad sounds like a gold mine of knowledge and experience. Legit ask the guy for advice about your career. Ask him how he got into politics. Get to know the guy. Say "yes sir" and shake his hand firmly. Show respect, stand up straight, and dress like you mean it, and you'll get it in return. Stop treating this like it's some kind of edgy status contest only you know about. He's near…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:13 AM
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Start recording that shit. Drunk and disorderly conduct is a crime. So is road rage. I'm not saying you should narc on the guy but let his ass know it's going on facebook and twatter for all posterity. So choose his next words carefully because the internet doesn't forget. Chucklefucks like him are people who need to be reminded from time to time that their behavior has long term consequences.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:56 AM
1

Informing others about a disability Here's a joke- How do you find out whether somone is a vegan? Oh don't worry. They'll make sure to tell you. Seriously though, start out by shutting the fuck up about it.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:38 AM
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I had a girl I know ask me about my dating status My status is I'm dating people. Although she is somewhat hot, I have no intentions of dating or fucking this girl. Then you don't answer her questions and be sarcastic and dismissive. Anyway, during the convo she goes on to ask me about a fling she had and she eventually asks me if I’m single or seeing anybody. "Would it matter?" This is a shit test. She already wants to buy the car. I also get asked how I’m still single and don’t have a girlfrie…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:31 AM
11

When you're negotiating a price for a used car or making an offer on a house, do you feel bad for "leading them on" just because you don't want to pay the sticker price? Unplug yourself from the matrix. You've been guilt tripped by women so much you forgot youre the gatekeeper of commitment and the gatekeeper of giving a shit. You think you actually owe it to them to give a shit about them.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:15 AM
1

Your overall frame and direction > your tone, phrasing, and expression > anything you actually say. Tell the truth or else don't. What matters is your frame about it either way. The fact that you feel inadequate and uncomfortable about the subject is your frame here. That's what other people are paying attention to, not what you actually say to them. Even if you lie they'll likely notice your discomfort and feeling of irrational shame. Best tactic here is to pressure flip. That is, develop a new…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:02 PM
1

It doesn't mean anything. Its a process and direction in life, not a destination. You need to choose what your own destination is. Perhaps TRP can help ypu get there when you couldn't before, what meaning you gain from reaching your destination is up to you.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:52 PM
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Among other things, this tends to be directly prportionsl to the ability and power you have to say no to her, disregard her, and get other women's interest.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:19 AM
1

One of the little home improvement projects Ive done is installed a swivel bolt and a steel bracket to the ceiling in my bedroom, then sunk a bunch of screws into the ceiling joist through the bracket. Get some professional advice on this, as using a single large screw is a bit sketchy regardless of the advertised capacity. I attached a carabiner to that and use it to hang pullup straps and a floating chinup bar I made. Also fun for doing kinky stuff too.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:14 AM
2

They didn't have a shitty father role model. Congratulations, their dad showed them how to have a spine every so often. You don't need to be some super 6'5 shredded natural alpha to get women. Just don't act like a lonely helpless little boy trying to follow his mom around.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:03 AM
1

Quality of pair bonding. Dafuq? This is some stage 4 overthinking. After you get pumped and dumped by enough dudes who didn't take long to get sick of your emotional diarrhea, you tend to get pretty cynical and bitter. Meanwhile all your good eggs get flushed down the toilet by 32 or so. The cynicism is real. The lie is that riding the CC is supposed to be fun and empowering.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:17 AM
2

It's not just in your head. It's called Capital Flight. You can thank Brexit for that one and the chucklefucks and abject tools who voted for Boris, and his Russian friends by association. People with any economic sense know the trade bottlenecks are going to suck the momentum out of about half the companies on the island. It's like a tax on labor costs that doesn't actually bring any revenue to the government.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:08 AM
2

Get a hotel out of town to reduce the chance of gossip. If she's seperated and living on her own, who cares. Personally I feel that if they're married and living together, bros before hos applies. On the other hand if not for you, she's likely to just find someone else to bang, because lying and cheating gets her rocks off. Better yet, take photos and send to the husband anonymously. "Is this your wife? From: a concerned friend."
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:16 PM
1

Most people who talk about Machiavellianism haven't read read "The Prince." Machiavelli ultimately wanted a unified Italian peninsula and he believed that secular executive power was the only way to do that. His work was controversial because he implied in several ways that the Catholic church didn't have the ability or the inclination to do such a thing, and believed that amorality and ruthless pragmatism was the way to succeed in creating a strong unified Italian nation. Therefore he directed …
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:05 PM
1

Nope. Imagine not needing girls for sex Just masturbate of you really need to. Then find more productive ways of getting your emotional needs met then seeing yourself as a young child dependent on your mother figure. and therefore not having to live up to their demands You're the gatekeeper of commitment, time, energy, and attention. Why aren't you getting them to live up to your expectations? Your lack of boundaries and unwillingness to walk away and disengage is the actual problem here. Nobody…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:30 PM
1

Is she willing to meet you one on one, or not? Who the hell cares what she texts or how often? Her text messages aren't blowing your cock.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:29 PM
0

I’m worried my sex life is going to take a massive hit. Stop. Everything else you said in your post doesn't matter. This is the pretext here. This is your frame and the excuses you use for embracing this frame are secondary considerations at best. Yeah sure, condoms are annoying but they're the easiest, smartest option. If you want to blame condoms for narratives about sexual inadequacy or supposed lost opportunity you're welcome to do so. If you like. Or find some other details to pin your fram…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:25 PM
1

Quit whining and buy a bigger, better mattress.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:18 PM
1

Use texting mostly for logistics only. Setup a meeting in person, then stop giving a shit about "keeping the conversation going." That's what actually meeting in person is for.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:23 PM
1

You really might want to get tested.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:22 PM
1

If you feel like fucking her, tell her when to come over and what to be wearing. If you're not interested in fucking, then in the message it literally tells you you can ignore them message if you want. But I dunno, you might take the high road and outright say "Not interested, thanks for thinking of me though."
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:20 PM
1

Yes, I've tried loving people. I've tried being good. I've tried being noble and generous and kind. People saw that as weakness and tried to take advantage. So, I learned that life-lesson all too well. This is are typical symptoms of a Scarcity Mentality. I really suspect you're talking about your own emotionally impoverished family, in specific here, when you talk about people taking advantage of you. What's ironic is you don't seem to want to admit this possibility. You learned this lesson in …
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:39 AM
2

damaged Thanks for the laugh, Bette male.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:16 AM
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This post is super vague. Checked out your post history. Is this the same LTR you claimed physically assaulted you, about 2 years ago? Something doesn't seem to fucking add up here.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:14 AM
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Sounds like you got nervous or were annoyed at some of her behavior, and lost the mood. Remember this is your party, not hers. You don't owe her a good time. You clearly just weren't DTF at that point. Why are you feeling all guilty about it? Who cares if she was horny or not. She can go rub one out at home later, or call up one of her orbiters. Sex is pretty easy and cheap for a woman like her. If you actually felt like shagging at that point, you would have done something about it an escalated…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:07 AM
2

Been seeing a few as of late that opened up about their troublesome past REAL fast. When a woman works hard to inform you she's a slut from a broken past, you'd best believe her. This is called telling a sob story, trying to test how long it takes for you to nope out or act annoyed. Normal people experience shame and regret and aren't eager to discuss their dirty laundry. Sluts on the other hand see their past fuckups as just another way to try to get other people to set boundaries for them. Eve…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:55 AM
2

Why would she invite me to her friends and suggest hanging out later. Asking you to orbit.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:37 AM
1

This presumes you actually give a shit how she responds or what she thinks of you. Why do you give a shit about women on instagram? Do I give a shit how many kills you have on your favorite video game? Who cares what you say, or if you write anything at all.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:21 AM
2

Running away, are we? You have someplace specific in mind? Sounds like the story of your whole life. Run away and avoid shitty behavior from family members, or just ignore and pretend it doesn't exist. You can't simply run away from your fears, shames, and neuroses. The rats and stowaways sail whereever the ship goes. You take them with you.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:17 AM
3

1) Boredom. It's pretty common for women to respond to boredom in self-destructive ways. They're attracted to the constant emotional drama. 2) Desire for "closure." 3) Abusers are emotionally damaged and tend to to have the emotional thinking of three year olds, although they have the intellect, life experience, and conversation skills of adults. This allows them to be skilled at manipulating women's maternal instinct. So in a certain sense this is like asking why parents don't abandon their own…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:10 AM
0

Use condoms. Don't be a moron. Also, once you turn 18, start bringing women around and tell your mom to take a hike.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 11:53 PM
1

The lack of timely payment is a huge red flag for me of leadership clysterfuckery and politics. Go with your current job at B. It's an opportunity to gain more diverse experience and skills.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:15 PM
2

You spelled "ex-girlfriend" wrong.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:08 PM
2

This didn't happen. None of this is real.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:04 PM
1

She's not your mother figure, mate. Get that into your head. Stop fucking treating her like she was your mom who disowned you and kicked you out of the house.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:51 PM
1

Projection-it isn't just a type of TV.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:28 PM
2

How should a man be handling these situations where a girl asks you to do something? Be it a LTR Depends on what is is, and if your schedule is open that day. If it's something she could easily do herself, LOL no thanks. plate, No. Unless it's an actual fucking emergency. fwb, You mean a plate. See above. You can't be friends with women you're fucking. In my opinion the perception of friendship is a weakness that has a cost. If you're doing shit for her out of friendship you're just a simp who a…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:23 PM
3

So go hang out at her place if you're looking to get it in, specifically.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:29 AM
9

That's bullshit. Most moms aren't particularly good at it after kids reach age 5 or 6.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:57 AM
1

I feel you man. You're not alone. Your dad sounds like a true legend. Forget about frame right now. You have a right ti feel whatever it is you need to feel and act however you want to act. Nobody cares if you act "beta" or "weak" after your parents die. In a lot of cultures tears in this situation are considered signs of deep respect for the departed. The only thing harder than laying one's parents to rest, is having to grieve a lost child. There's absolutely no shame in the grief that you're f…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:15 PM
6

The only thing in life that's fair for everyone, easy and simple, is dying. Remember nobody forced you to invest your time, energy, and commitment in your ex. You did it because you felt it was valuable and worthwhile for you personally.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:37 PM
3

Plate only. Stop treating her like a prize. She's pretty low hanging fruit. There are boatloads of divorced middle aged single moms just like her. You past acquaintance with her is irrelevant (sunk cost fallacy.)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:31 PM
2

I'd say, money talks. Throw that money into a mutual fund for retirement. Or College fund for your kids. Something like that. Plus the commute is nonexistent. You and your kids will be alright in the summer, as long as the place isn't run down with damaged drywall and stuff. They might complain and whine, you need only keep a positive, playful frame about it. My brother and I shared a room with bunk beds when we were growing up. As adults he and I are a lot closer than we are to my two low key b…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:22 PM
0

Iron Rule of Thomassi #1.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:45 PM
1

Make sure you also have a picture of you fishing. That'll show em.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:44 PM
2

Sounds like you're still angry at her. Stay strong.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:37 PM
3

despite the fact I make good income, Boring.... have a degree boring... My last LTR of a year left me for an ex convict repeat offender Definitely not boring.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:22 PM
2

Women say a lot of things. I'd say, play it up and see how serious she actually is. Acting squeaminsh or sexually uncomfortable is never a good move.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:37 AM
5

Solid pimp move.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:28 AM
8

So like what? You want people to pat you on the back, say "good job," and reassure you that you are in fact, having a good time? You want to prove to other people that you're a cool guy doing cool things? OK fine, if that's what you want. Youre a cool guy and and your trip is neat. Why do you care if the stuff you post is cringey. If other people were here hoofing it around with you, they wouldn't say that. They'd be too busy getting cultured. What would you actually be getting out of it other t…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:02 PM
2

I read your whole entire post. Why haven't you blocked your ex everywhere? Stop trying to suck on the dick of "closure." Leave that for women to do. What your trying to do here is desperately trying to avoid gaining wisdom from your mistakes and using it to change your thinking and values. Instead you're trying to repeat the same type thinking and the same behavior which got you where you are now while accepting no perspective. This is written large in your first paragraphs. Im soecial and the w…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 05:53 PM
1

I've had these thoughts if our mom was the one responsible for his mentality. But then again we were raised by the same mom and in the same conditions. But my brothers mentality and mine turned out to be totally different. Therefore, it's not my mom's fault. You would know better than me. However in many families there's a definite Golden Child versus Scapegoat Child dynamic, even if it's slight. That is, one child has higher expectations but also higher rewards, the other child has default lowe…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 05:35 PM
1

So pick up her calls or call her back. Be an adult about it and stop acting like an antisocial teenager. Nobody cares if you don't like texting. If you don't then don't. I hate texting and calling even with family and friends so I told her that it's just who I am. You sound like a drag. Example: Tonight I was out with family for Christmas - she called me and I didn't answer because I was with family and my plan was to call her later So text her something like: "At dinner with family. Call you la…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 05:07 PM
1

My mom will not stop enabling him out of her kindness. But ironically, it's more damaging... This isn't irony and this has nothing to do with kindness. I think it's low key brainwashing of the same type cults use to keep their members psychologically dependent on the leadership. She's setting him up to fail to a greater extent than you realize because, like many women she has an irrational, nagging fear of being alone and being abandoned. To that end she would prefer to brainwash and coach your …
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:11 PM
-5

Whenever I buy her something, she feels bad to the point where I insist she takes it. Then stop buying her shit. Why the hell would you insist someone take a gift from you? Kind of begs the question if it's actually a gift, or if you're seeking validation. Or else call her out for being ungracious. The issue is probably her parents were Karens who thought just because they gave you a present or paid for something, you now become their bitch.They had an issue having a hard time distinguishing bet…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:37 AM
4

If you're paying your share of the rent, how is that any of their business if you do? Just keep it quiet after 10pm.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:31 PM
0

See: Rule #1 of Fight club. See: Rule #2 of Fight club. See: Rule #1 of TRP. Read "The 48 Laws of Power." Stop talking to your brown-nosing Mom and Grandma so much. Put them on an information diet. If they ask about girls, either change the subject, ignore the question or say "haven't had much luck yet, thanks for asking." Then change the subject.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:15 PM
2

What are you doing to prepare for when your turn with her is over. The fact that you lost your frame and started mate guarding her means that'll happen sooner rather than later.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:12 PM
14

Stop bringing your GF around him. Ask him why he's not approaching more women.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:08 PM
5

Today she hit me with "Im not really that horny these days... I feel numb." You know, the ocean doesn't have an outlet, so if you throw a bunch of plastic trash in there, it washes back up on shore months later. Garbage in, garbage out. Because you're being boring. Zero amused mastery frame from you these days. You don't act like you give a shit, sexually. Eventually she's going to treat you the same way.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:50 PM
2

Why do you care? Are you an adult man with meaningful shit to do with your time? Or are you still a boy, still trying to keep your mother figure's attention somehow? The sibling rivalry type shit is old news, man. Betas guard their mates. Alphas disregard.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:39 PM
5

Mate she's not yours. it was just your turn a few times. Understand this in your bones. I feel like I have no idea what to keep on doing now. Learned Helplessness. This kind of fear, anger and artificial sense of helplessness at the prospect of needing to move, is at the core of betatude. Step 1) Stop treating her like she's your girlfriend. Go zero contact. Stop orbiting around her like the moons of Jupiter. Step 2) invest your valuable time, energy, attention and thought to approach other wome…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:53 PM
2

Youre not her dad. It's not yoir job to manage her emotions. Do not, on any account, attempt to do so. Stop sticking your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:21 AM
1

Edit, OK reread your post. Both of your parents have incurable emotional fucktardation of the brain, of the overgrown toddler type. Assume that you're the adult here and assume they're the spoiled affluenza type preteens. Stop attempting to manage their emotions. Practice the Grey Rock Technique. I can't find a link on the main section but look it up. Do some research. Remember their fear, anger, and frustration isn't your job to deal with. A lack of disciple or emotional control on their part d…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:13 AM
3

Screams and blames own son when confronted about cheating Look, your dad probably has some kind of Personality Disorder. This means he has the learning and life experiance of an adult but the emotional responses and mentality of a three year old. What does a three year old care about frame or discipline?. Give me cookies now! Give me Monet for the soda machine! Go very low contact with him. Maybe call him on his birthday or something. Certainly don't spend time with him in person. The issue is y…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:45 PM
2

Here lie the earthly remains of OP. He died hilariously from self-cruifiction. His last words were "I did it all for that hoe over there."
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:35 PM
2

Yea , I get that. But ,it’s like the image you have of yours takes a hit. People grow and change and learn. What you suppose the image of your past self was, isn't who you are now. You don't need to try to be the same person. With dignity, be willing to put aside the trappings of youth. The privilege of naivety for one. You're not the same person you were then, and you'll be a significantly different person 10 years from now. Give yourself permission to grow and change.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:30 PM
3

Living in the past in this way, and mentally masturbating about past actions is called Self-Pity. As far as I know, they haven't yet made being ignorant, foolish, or naive in the past into a felony. So I think you're off the hook. As an adult self-pity is a genuine mental illness, in my opinion. The thing is, you're acting like you shit your pants an hour ago and you wish your mom would come over and clean you up, because in a fundamental way you see yourself as helpless to wipe your own ass. Se…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:23 PM
1

The supply of men who chase them around like dogs has probably gone down a bit die to social distances.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:45 AM
11

How do I not get emotional over the divorce? I still feel like I love her You don't know her. You've rarely seen the genuine her, because you weren't ready to see it. You were terrified to see it and therefore admit you've been rolled harder than fucktards who agree to swallow condoms full of crack cocaine and fly to another country. Hence: the entire content of this post. You're still pretty scared to see her as a phony. You love the image she created for you of the disney princess virgin house…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:29 AM
3

She monkey branched to another guy. She feels bad about hopping on his boner and wants you to orbit around her and validate her. Continuing to talk to her and waste your valuable time, attention, energy, and thought on her isn't bring you anything of value. Stop talking to her. Stop responding to messages. Block on all platforms.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:10 PM
2

What are you, their life coach? Who cares. Their lives aren't that bad. You make it sound like they're homeless heroin junkies or something.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:01 PM
3

Oooops. You paid attention to what some woman said. Remember, there's only one thing in the world worse than being talked about by women. And that is, not being talked about by them.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:09 AM
1

I mean, This isn't carpentry were talking about here. These are people who are prone to bleed in life threatening ways or, for example stop breathing for no apparent reason if you screw up an IV. You're getting treated like you don't know what you're doing because those are the facts. Get your ego out of it and do what they tell you to do and ask as many questions as possible. If they say jump ask how high. They want you to go heat coffee, go get coffee. Respect comes with experience.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:22 AM
1

Used to take moderate doses extended release every day for adult ADD. Works well for that, I just didn't like the apathy and insomnia and elevated blood pressure side effects. Also to be honest I think I was low key malnourished and had no muscle mass. Couldn't gain because I ate like shit, because most of the day I didn't care about food, then would get junk food cravings at night when it was wearing off. But hey I was type-A good at getting shit done during the day. Almost by definition amphet…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:00 AM
1

For you it is. However if a woman knows the guy is willing to walk away or ignore her at any while other women are trying to fuck him....then it's better than crack cocaine for them. But you better not make a habit out of it.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:26 AM
5

Ambitions change. You worry about having a legacy. You worry about being true to your past self. You worry about fulfillment. Ambition in middle adulthood is usually about wanting to build something meaningful, carve out a meaningful niche to fill.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:21 AM
1

i was drained Note, this is typical sentiment when dealing with BPD's. It's like dealing with a three year old. You feel emotionally exhausted and stained after not to long with them. and i told her that i had some stuff i needed to do so i wont be able to see her for a couple of days. Should probably be a bit more specific than "a couple of days." In an LTR that's going to seem like what you're saying is you're blowing them off indefinitely to go do fuckall, and it's mainly because they're a dr…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:07 AM
1

I wont be that harsh This is called being kind. For poeple in denial it's as good as poison. The cure for denial is reaching rock bottom. What you're talking about here here is your impulse to enable, protecting him from reaching rock bottom and provinding him with the excuse that "at least it's not that bad." and you can't do that. I know this because I was in the same position your brother was, years ago. Spent two years unemployed after high school hiding in my parent's basement, jacking off,…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:32 PM
2

Seems clear she was just trying to hustle you for free booze. Not an indication of interest. Your response sounded a bit pissy, but who cares? She wasn't that into you anyway. Could have phrased it something like "So, Is there a reason you think you deserve a free drink?" Then just smile like a smug fucker and keep getting her to quality herself.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:19 PM
37

Mate unless you're 50 and/or have heart disease or diabetes, the vast majority of these cases are due to one thing. Your heart and soul isn't in the same place that your head thinks you need to go. Youre focused here on externalities and superficial surface stuff, and you need to be asking yourself questions about the heart and soul instead. You mind is saying "I need to do this" but your heart and instincts are saying "Wait a fucking minute." It's absolutely normal to not get arounsed in a situ…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:05 PM
1

Who is paying for his phone? Who is paying for internet access? Step 1) tell him he can't be there when you're at work. Tell him not to push you on this point because of he doesn't like it you'll simply change the locks permanently, that's his other option. Tell him to go walk around the mall or something, hes a big boy. Step 2) Change the internet/wifi password. Tell your parents to get him a cheap flip phone and stop paying for his touch screen. Pack up his gaming console in a box and mail it …
/r/askTRP19/12/20 03:09 AM
1

Eventhough thats exactly what i think, i dont have the solution for hım too, Tell him to sign up for an apprenticeship in a trade like plumbing or electrical or welding. Or join the military. Not your job to think of solutions for him. He needs to do that shit for himself and you cannot I repeat cannot, do that for him. You can only point to a given door. He'll walk through once he gets desperate enough and his distractions are taken away. Right now he's not desperate ans Youre allowing him lots…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:57 AM
1

You get yourself and 2 of your bros you can count on to back you up. Then you shoulder to shoulder politely turf him out. Human wave style. Rudely if necessary. Or you leave yourself if you don't have your bros with you you can 100% count on. Don't count on a 6'something 300 pound steer who is tweaking and drunk to be reasonable, know what's in his basic best interest, or respond to pain that would stop a normal person.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:58 AM
-1

She's not yours. It's just your turn.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:42 AM
2

It was a bit harsh and I appreciate your apology and the time you took to really think about this. I think you hit the nail on the head when it comes to the “meaning” of the dreams. The dreams always end in me feeling helpless, like I’ve been the victim of some heinous act meant to hurt me and there’s nothing I can do about it. I mean, Like I said you're telling the part of the Narrative that's dramatic, appealing, and clear. But you're omitting the other two thirds of the story which you don't …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:19 PM
-1

Sorry if I sound spoiled, You're right. I opened up my mouth, but nothing was there, because you just took all the words right out. You do sound spoiled. Suck it up, mate. Bend over and take one for the team. It's better than being homeless and having kids to feed. I bet you don't even pay for your own food.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:33 PM
1

We only get one life to live. Invest ypur valuable time, energy, attention, and commitment in people who bring value to your life. Scale back your investment in people who are a net emotional liability rather than emotional assets.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:29 PM
23

As a man you're the gatekeeper of time and commitment. It's over exactly when you say it's over and when you act like it. No more, no less. She's the gatekeeper of sexuality and intimacy. Whether choosing to continue investing the flow of your time in her, actually gets you what you personally desire, is a different question entirely.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:28 PM
2

I see. I apologize if this is too harsh. Let me think for a bit. How did you deal with the relationship after you found out about it? In your dreams the unspoken narrative is, I'm guessing something like this. You're a powerless or helpless victim of injustice, or something has been robbed from you, and it's therefore the end of the world metaphorically speaking. The working assumption being can't do a damn thing about it. Rather than the fact that you're still a continuing participant in the re…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:26 PM
2

AWALT Fix your frame.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:20 PM
2

Who cares?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:51 AM
1

I don’t get that much enjoyment from meeting new girls just to fuck them. Yeah it’s fun to fuck but honestly it’s such a time investment sometimes and I have other shit I’d rather be doing. Mate, who are we to stop you from doing other shit?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:49 AM
2

What make you go crazy for yourself? Killing it at a job interview? Crossing something off your bucket list?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:47 AM
1

Long story short found out I was being played by some chick, which had happened to me before but never to this level of hypocrysy Oooops, you paid attention to what a woman said, and thought it had significance. My problem is that now I feel like I was bullied and emasculated Victimhood mentality. and I can't do shit about it Victimhood mentality. Look, you can't always control how you feel, but you do have a fair amount control over the narrative you create about those feelings, when your head …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:12 AM
2

Do you ever get over learning your parents are mortal and don't have superior powers? Grow up, man. Shit happens because people are complicated adults. Youre not a helpless victim, just a normal level of misplaced trust and naivete. Stop wallowing in self-pity. You want to go back to being a naive lovesick teenager?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:15 AM
2

I know, but I’m still a pussy, I feel that it’s gonna break Plan B pill, you moron. and my life will be ruined. Sounds like your fear of sex and intimacy is already doing a great job of that. So I'd say this is the sickness trting to tell you it's actually the cure.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:18 PM
1

"I'm not looking for more friends." Reason the sidebar again, then invest ypur valuable time energy, and attention to spin other plates.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:05 PM
1

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Look I could live with the idea of there being pictures of my erection floating around on some internet server somewhere. Doesn't mean I'm going to seek out the privilege.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:04 PM
2

Ooops, you think what you say to women in particular, matters. Acta non verba. "Calling someone out on their BS" reeks of butthurt. You're not the straight-living police. Stop rewarding it with your valuable time, energy, fucks given, and attention. You encourage any and all behavior you're not willing to walk away from.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:33 PM
8

Also, debt. Sure lawyers make a lot but I'm sure many are barely scraping by. Degree, car, house to keep up with the others in the firm. Before you know it you're really not doing any better than the plumber down the street, in fact, he's probably doing better. Seriosly. Plumbing can be physically taxing sometimes, but you'll never be out of work. Plumbers make a killing, especially if you have a contractor license.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:29 PM
3

She’s currently away rn so shall I just end the convo there? Ask her when she's coming back to ypur area. Then tell her to let you know when she's back in town and you'd love to hear about her trip over dinner or coffee. Then mostly ignore. Don't reward people with your attention for attempting to waste your time.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:25 PM
15

Are they paying you to be there? Then do the grunt work then laugh your way to the bank with your paycheck afterwards. It's not "getting taken advantage of" unless you've done the same kind of thing at your last job 100 times before and are therefore overqualified. It's not getting taken advantage of unless they're paying you minimum wage for highly technical work. Ask as many questions as possible. There's only one thing worse than asking a seemingly naïve or stupid question. That is the stupid…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:21 PM
-4

"If it wasn't for good luck, I wouldn't have no luck at all."
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:50 PM
2

"I apologize for what I said earlier. I hurt your feelings, and you were right about ABC. I think we should do XYZ in the future." Then you change the subject and don't discuss it further. Treat attempts by her to rehash the argument as shit tests and 95% ignore them. If necessary, tell her, you need to go do some given thing in the kitchen and excuse yourself. I feel like I've become very stubborn. I never back down from arguments and I always hold frame. I feel like I have a very toxic mindset…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:26 PM
0

OK. Look at yourself. You honest to fuck believe people around here care about your sad little sperm cells. That kills me. You're not a teenager any more. Your parents aren't going to burst into your room unnounced and chew you out for rubbing your peen like they did when were 13.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:14 AM
3

See: rule #1 of fight club. See: rule #2 of fight club. Acta non verba. Speak about TRP through your actions alone. Always walk the walk and never talk the talk.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:14 AM
2

The Colin that smells the best is an amused mastery attitude.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:12 AM
1

In this case I’m talking about a big tribal tattoo I have on my forearm. I’m cringing just typing that. I had it done 9 years ago when I was 18 on a party trip abroad. Oh well. Getting ashamed and insecure about something from your past you don't have control over, is mental masturbation by definition. It's called Self-pity and self-loathing. This is a game for primary school children. It's an unbecoming habit for men who truly aspire to virtues like greatness, taste, courage and mastery of a fi…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:43 AM
9

He told me that he does NOT want me to come because I’m going to embarrass him Get your ego out of it. The fact that he's insecure about his relationship and jealous isn't some mind of personal insult to you. It's just him being a weak little bitch for some ho. and expose him that I hooked him up with her. Tell him women gossip and he needs to stop acting like he has something to prove. She needs to avoid embarrassing herself in front of him, not the other way around. Would that EVER cross a tru…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:30 PM
1

Spin other plates. You're the prize here, not her. This is 2020 and there's all kinds of information on sexual technique on the internet. A woman who is shit in bed is just downright lazy and low value. Ignorance isn't an excuse. If she's bad in bed, stop rewarding her behavior with so much of your valuable damns given. Invest that time and energy to approach other women.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:14 PM
0

No man evolved to have a monogamous family while raising kids. We evolved to pump and dump Fictitious dilemma. We evolved to do either, and both if necessary. Arguably the best predictor of mental health in adults is, not their relationship with their mother as a child and teenager, but the quality of their relationship with their father. Being raised by a single father, (while still not quite as good as having both parents,) is associated with much fewer adverse effects as an adult. That is, le…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:00 PM
1

Oneitis has everything to do with self-sabotage and Learned Helplessness. This would be due to parents who sometimes rewarded you with attention for acting helpless when you were a toddler.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:50 PM
1

Naah, i'm not worried about that, but what's troublesome for me is that people i know, know her husband. Small country tho. Meet in hotels only. I dunno, depends on the legal climate in the country. In a lot of small countries, if you claim XYZ dude was sleeping with your wife, offer a bribe, etc, then police won't do shit to you. Because, Cassanova over there was asking for a beatdown. Call me paranoid if you want. I mean, probably nothing will happen, but probably you won't get in a severe car…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:23 AM
1

He is very messy, rarely cleans after cooking Step 1) Pile his dirty dishes and cooking utensils on his bed if he leaves them in the sink overnight. Likewise any dishes of his in the cupboard. Throw them in his room. He'll complain and try to bitch about it after the second instance. Tell him something like: "Tell me honestly, do I look like your mother? No, look at me in the eyes right now. Yes or no? Are roommate and I your mothers? If not here's how this conversation is going to go. You're go…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:30 AM
16

I have no interest in asking women about their previous sexual history, because they'll never be honest about it. Just understand this. You're only encouraging them to lie in order to gain validation and commitment that they want. she got my name tattooed on her neck too 🤣 Stop sticking your dick in crazy. HARD NEXT. Just tell her you can't date her anymore, simple as that. If she demands an explanation, just tell her "You already know why. Stop playing dumb. It's over." Then complete radio sile…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:56 PM
1

You can't lose her. She's isn't yours to begin with. It's just your turn. If she wants to make herself scarce, that's her life. Message one of your other plates to come over. Stop being a clinger. The reason they're called plates is they eventually stop spinning, fall to the ground, and break. Have some perspective and stoicism. If you thought she was actually LTR material, you wouldn't be here asking this.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:03 AM
1

It's like telling a 6 year old, "stop whining and go pick up your toys, you heard me before." Fuck that didn't go the way they planned it. Shit shit shit. You can practically hear the gears grinding furiously in their conniving little heads.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:09 AM
1

Agreed. What should I do here? Why is it a problem you somehow need to fix. If she wants to be a drag, go pay attention to something else more entertaining. She's fine being just the way she is at that given moment.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:57 AM
1

She'll pull ocaasional drama and probably deliberately parade other dudes around you to try to get a rise. But money and location talks. If you only plan on being there to sleep and shower most of the time, fine. You deal by talking and interacting with her as little as you possibly can. Your attitude should be be, not only does she have a right to do whatever she pleases as long as it doesn't involve action on your part. But You're 100% thunbs up whatever fucked up shit it is.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:49 AM
1

Cheers.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:26 PM
1

I fail to understand why anyone would take so much of an industrial chemical, that it impairs their kidney function and thereby causes water retention. Nothing about what youre doing sounds remotely healthy or mentally wise. It sounds like you're low key poisoning yourself. What's equally disturbing is all the dudebros on here telling you "oh yeah, keep taking heaps if it. The reduced kidney function is normal."
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:53 AM
2

This is all pretty classic girl game. You need to stop letting these attention hos roll you in the feelz with this stuff. Game recognizes game. Ignore her looks completely. You can't stick your dick in her tiktok or IG. Caring about video games targeted for women doesn't get your Dick sucked. Lets say you ghost her for three weeks. How long do you think it will take her to reel in a couple orbiters eagerly making themselves her emotional support tampons, while she hops on the CC some more. I'd g…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:38 AM
3

This is a pretty typical Scarcity Mentality. Youre still overly dependent on external validation and status. This is because you're not confident in your role, your mission, or your own abilities. You still feel you need to prove something by competing in a political contest only you know about. Setting boundaries isn't about getting angry at the end of the day. It's about coaching other people how to behave towards you, using proactive leadership. I warn you that no amount of percieved or real …
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:28 AM
3

How do you become less angry Victimhood mentality. and more detached/amused from the reality I think you're talking about the reality of the two women you've known best of all. Your mom, and your ex, who I suspect was very similar to her. At least in terms of selfishness two-facery, covert bullying, and dishonesty. If you're going to be pissed off and resent women, be pissed off at the bloody right ones, who deserve it in particular. Just saying. You can't choose you parents. But remember that y…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:56 AM
1

Embrace it. Youre broken. What you going to cry about it? There are also things that are right about you, and things that are unbreakable. Don't think there aren't I bought a used car one time, Drivers side rear power window was burned out, bad wire or something. Motor still worked when I put voltage on it. So yeah sure I could spend 1000 bucks to get a car electrical expert to tear it apart again and chase down the bad wire, but how fucking often am I going to have that many passengers? So I di…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:28 AM
7

Of course you empathize. Because you're still afraid of being abandoned and being alone. You haven't been fucked by other people right in the feels enough, such that you're willing to be tell people to fuck off. You haven't been fucked enough to set boundaries instead, say "not this time", walk away, and move on. You knee-jerk empathize for the same reason that kids empathize with their shitty parents and hostages empathize with their abductors. It's not that you want to, you see yourself as hel…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:09 AM
0

SIDEBAR.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:43 PM
1

I already shaved my head and it makes me look even worse because I don’t have the head shape for looking good bald Who cares, why aren't you making that training plan for your triathlon? Frame is an extension of your looks, Looks won't float you across that finish line, kid. That takes more than just balls. It takes actual grit. You blaming that one on your looks and your hairline too? Don't much like quitters, son.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:12 PM
1

It’s been a rough year on losers like me ; Ooopsie, you thought this was the right time and the right placd to self-deprecate. It sure as hell isn't. Iron Rule of Tomassi #9: Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is the Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with someone else. Never appeal to anyone's sympathies. Get your head scr…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:05 PM
1

Just shave your head there, cue ball. Also run a goddamn triathlon and take pictures. Then come back here and whine about how much you're a victim and a special snowflake type outcast due to things you have zero control over. Don't you ever get tired? Tired of desperately comparing yourself to others, desperately trying to find ways you supposedly don't measure up? Stop whining about things you have no control over. Fix your frame instead.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:59 PM
2

To some extent yes, however keep in mind that adipose tissue plays a big role in hormore regulation. Having below, say, 7% will often cause the body to stop producing steroid hormones as well. Models, dancers, and pro endurance endurance may have missed periods and loss of body or facial hair. Take a look at marathon contestents. Barely a beard to be seen. Adipose tissue not only stores fat, but also stores glycogen and cholesterol.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:40 PM
1

I ocassionally miss her being part of my life, but she didn't want to be a paying passenger. So she was off the boat.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:35 PM
15

A) do it. B) she's not yours, it's just your turn. Odds are decent she's telling you this out of guilt. I.e. she's not telling you about the other dudes she's fucking. Maybe she isn't but maybe she is. Don't get mad. Just understand that it's just your turn. C) Also fucking wear condoms for hell's sake.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:32 PM
1

Nobody gives a shit if you're couch surfing at your parents house for the next few month. 2020 has been a rough year for everyone. The question is, why are you allowing temporary setbacks to completely torpedo your frame? Actually a good fucking question, right there.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:29 PM
2

Offer to suck his Dick. That'll show her.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:16 PM
1

If she starts crying because you can't see her Classic Waterworks Act aka Crocodile Tears. You need to learn what genuine sorrow and grief looks like in women. Sounds like you've almost exclusively seen the fake kind where they're trying to hustle you for attention. When women are genuinely sorrowful they're not exactly eager for you to see or hear it. They're ashamed of their tears and weakness. Don't waste your valuable time and attention on women who behave like spoiled pouty toddlers when yo…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:27 AM
1

Dates go very well and no issue at all. However despite 3 dates have not kissed her once Why is that? Is she's not giving IOI's when you escallate with physical touch? If she's showing disinterest or annoyance when you try to escalate or just nit showing IOIs in general, you know what that means. Looking for any kind of insight on where this is going with a certain girl. No offense, but we can't really fucking tell you where it's going. You're the captain. This is your party. You're the one with…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 02:01 AM
7

What is the problem here? Do they not respect me? This is exactly the kind of irrational insrcurity that gets some many women obsessed with social media. It's also why the vast majority of them pretend to adore their friends and then low key stab them in the back. Group conversations aren't to blame for your fear of being ignored nor a they to blame for a lack of regard for onesself. Should they respect you, or should you regard yourself more? Create better internal conversations, instead. It's …
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:30 AM
1

I but I am stressed to invest long enough to see her regain fitness. Do you work as a trainer? If so, then she needs to be paying you for that privilege. Don't give that shit away for free because you want to "change her." Have some damn professional respect. What advice do you guys have? Should I put in the time with her to work on her body Don't shit where you eat. She needs to pay you for your time.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:15 AM
1

Been gaming a coworker, I know dont shit where you eat. Im not reading the rest of this horseshit. Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why you just wrote a 2 page essay analyzing minute details about a woman whom you haven't fucked? That's the real question here.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:12 PM
1

"Not looking for another friend RN" Then ghost completely.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:16 PM
2

if a girl treats you amazing(sic). See: Love-Bombing. It's not amazing treatment, it's aggressive grooming behavior used to break down your boundaries and skeptism. Two things that Borderlines detest. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:14 PM
1

Girl got way too testy and disrespectful. She was a burden for my mind and spirit. So I dumped her. I wonder if you had become depressed even before the breakup, and your mood caused the relationship to circle the drain until you just pulled the eject lever. This can easily go both ways, though. Can be caused by failing comfort tests, blowing your LTR off, and not acting like you give a shit about legitimate problems. Im not saying that was definitely the case with you. But, all else being equal…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:23 PM
3

A woman? Obsessing about her appearance? Who'd have thought?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:11 PM
4

Mate unless you're 50 and have heart disease or diabetes, the vast majority of these cases are due to one thing. Your heart and soul isn't in the same place that your head thinks you need to go. You mind is saying "I need to do this" but your heart and instincts are saying "Wait a fucking minute." It's absolutely normal to not get arounsed in a situation when you just don't feel comfortable or don't feel respected, for whatever reasons may be. The issue seems to be you tbink you're supposed to j…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:01 PM
9

You mean an 8. 10s do not exist. Only juvenile betas with oneitis and mommy issues.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:52 PM
1

Not really your problem. Either she's interested in fucking you or she isn't.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:50 PM
1

What where the specific circumstances surrounding your breakup?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:49 PM
2

If you're going to repeatedly disrespect your friend and call him a retard in a group setting, don't get too upset that he doesn't want to bother to drive your ass home. Hopefully he sobered up a bit on the way. A bit of a walk will do him good. Just tell him he has a tendency to get rude and aggro when he's blazed or drunk. Might want to take the ball busting down a notch.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:56 PM
-1

She forgot since you've only been an LTR less than a year. You're an adult, go celebrate your own damn birthday, and buy yourself a present. I’m not the type to make a big deal out of my birthday so I never mentioned it throughout the day to her and it’s not really bothering me And yet you wrote a whole post about it. So this statement just makes you sound moronic. Acta non verba. You don't don't want to make a big deal about it then act that way.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:13 PM
1

Lets say you got diagnosed with stage-2 cancer. The projected quote for chemo and radiation was 100k. Would you pay that to get rid of the cancer? (You'd get a second opinion of course,) but Fuck yes you'd pay it. Your brother and his dipshit wife are the cancer here. The fastest was to get rid of them is the best one, even if it costs a pretty penny.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:42 PM
1

If you have to pay out your brother's portion on the house, take the loss. Get your ego out of it. It's worth it to get him and his vulture turd wife and kids away from your elderly mum. A fool and his money are always soon parted. Your mom doesn't deserve that kind of shitfuck environment. Get your mom to move in with you. Would suggest offering to buy him out at over market value. If he won't agree, sell it out from under him, lowest bidder. Money can be replaced. It only benefits you, it does…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:12 PM
2

The thing is you're basically ar the top if your earning potential and career now. If Youre fine making the same amount of money 25 years from now, or possibly less. Then sure, be a quitter. It's doubly pathetic if your parents are paying for school. You dont actually have to use your degree, but it demonstatres that you, unlike most people, could hack it at the hard stuff when times got tough for you. So grip your balls tightly and tough it out for another year, little lion man. Also remember t…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:00 AM
3

Got a bit of salt and pepper going, eh? If that's the only thing you can think of to be insecure about in your life, then I say sit back and enjoy the privileges you've earned.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:25 AM
1

10 texts asking if Im alright. 20 missed calls. Do NOT stick your dick crazy. This isn't the behavior of a reasonable, emotionally stable person. Block everywhere.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:37 PM
1

I'm glad to see a lot of people on this sub recommending CBT. Trauma issues don't just go away on their own. Takes constant mindfulness. Essentially, the healing process starts with rewriting the story of your fear and traumatic experience, so you're not seeing yourself as helpless victim in the face of someone or something more powerful then you. I don't know your story obviously, but I'm guessing you handled it alright. Mostly you just ignored the cunts kept your head down, and didn't say anyt…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 06:25 PM
-1

For example, if a girl and I hit it off and hooked up for a few weeks, but then she ghosts me out of nowhere, I will spend the next few weeks thinking about it every day. Sidebar. Read it again.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:01 AM
2

You have somewhere particular in mind? Or are you just planning on wandering around until you run out of money and friends? You say you just have a "feeling deep down." But that's not a plan. That's called gambling on trading one set of questions and frustrations for another slightly different set of questions and problems. Then hoping that new set isn't worse than your current frustrations. Unfortunately feelings tend to travel with you and follow you around when you move. Don't just move out o…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 03:59 AM
1

Then be bad at it instead, until you get good enough that you're mediocre. Then, keep being mediocre until you you're alright. Stop being too good to be bad at something at the start.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:54 AM
3

Women are social chameleons. They shape themselves to whatever the dynamics of the situation are. Note that even slightly attractive women can get tons of thirsty simps orbiting around them through SM apps. So why wouldn't they act like entitled prima donnas?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:53 AM
1

What makes you think you need to do or say anything at all towards her? Why waste your valuable time and mental energy even thinking about it. Approach other women.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:48 AM
1

It's quite simple. He has a zero fucks given attitude and treats women like they're 100% playthings for his amusement. Then when they don't respond in a way that amuses him he ignores them. You give a bunch of fucks about him, yourself, women, and how you believe others perceive you compared to him. You treat women like they're some kind of prize or trophy you can measure yourself with, if only you could manage to impress them. If only you could measure up somehow. Ive never met you. If this muc…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:43 AM
4

Self pity. Mentally masturbating about the past. It's a real sickness. Nobody gives a shit if women in the past were supposedly giving you opportunities or not. Who the hell cares? You weren't ready to escalate with women. That's the only thing that matters. Either you're ready to step out onto that stage, or else you're not. That wasn't your frame. Nobody can force you to go through that door when you're not ready. Wouldn't matter if some woman knocked on your door wearing nothing but lingerie …
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:00 AM
3

OK. Trespassing is in fact illegal. If you're going to commit petty misdemeanors, keep your retarded mouth shut. Only tell one person you trust about it, who you know won't rat on you unless you go missing. Tell them where you're going and when you plan on being done and text them when you get back to your car. Not willing to do this you say? Too much a hassle, you say? Otherwise keep your retarded mouth shut. Don't fucking talk to girls about it. Don't post videos about it. Don't take other bum…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:46 PM
1

Yeah get fucked you half-french cunt. LOL just kidding I think you'll do alright. At least large parts of your country aren't on fire.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:04 PM
2

Because she's actually funny, isn't a vapid airhead, gives amazing blowjobs, and is solid wife material. Something of that nature.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:48 PM
2

Rule #1 don't shit where you eat. Rule #2 don't stick your dick into crazy. Stop talking to her unless it's necessary and work related. Block her texts.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:34 PM
3

Mate everyone's worried these days and everyone's having a tough go at it, in one way or another. You're not alone. Focus more on furthering your mission.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:31 PM
2

Tinder, hinge, etc. If you get responses your photos are good. If you don't, then go fucking lift like an insane person, new guy. What they say means nothing. They're unlikely to be honest.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:26 PM
2

Good to hear it. I bet future SIL found it pretty entertaining.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:24 PM
1

You make it sound like her friends are snorting oxy and telling her to shoplift, or something. Rather than having politics you don't personally agree with. Who cares? Stop attempting to D.E.E.R. with your daughter. The fact that you reward such views with your valuable attention and reward her with attempts to argue and cause drama, is the whole reason she keeps professing such views so loudly. Read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F%ck" by Mark Manson. Acta, non verba. Lead by example. This is 9…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:12 PM
1

When I left my ex-gf, she tried to say that some dude r*ped her while we were together. She means "almost raped." Oooops, you paid attention to what a crazy chick Said. This was after I held my frame and cut contact with her, I only found out about it from my brothers fiancé, because my ex reached out to her. Tell your soon to be sis-in-law you didn't want to say it because it's not really her problem. However you broke up with her because you found out she's pathological liar. She'd lie about t…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:27 PM
2

For you? Absolutely. Recommend you GTFO and stick to fellatio. You're at least good at that.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:01 AM
1

HMU and Let me know when you get paid cash money for giving a shit how other "males" view you.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:58 AM
3

Went on a date with this chick, made out, she called me sexy and hot over text, Oops. You paid attention to what a woman said.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:53 AM
1

Recommend you move to Venezuela. They don't have all those pesky rules there.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:50 AM
3

Hey, thanks my dude. Cheers. This drink's for you.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:23 AM
1

The question is "how do I get rid if this girl after acting extremely beta?" Block her number and approach other women. Not sure how you think you'll get a productive answer when you're asking the wrong fucking questions. Nobody on this sub can help you get "this one specific girl back." If people claim they can, they're liars.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:41 PM
3

What's this "I just can't" horseshit? So you're incapable of blocking her number and profile? Approach other women. That's what this is about. You'd rather whine and indulge in self-loathing rather thsn approach other women.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:35 PM
1

Sounds like you're using cannabis to self medicate for depression or anxiety. Might want to talk to a professional counselor about that. Withdrawal can cause low grade flu like symptoms and loss of appetite, but give it a week. You'll be OK.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:33 PM
1

You don't live in the past. It doesn't belong to you. Why do you keep thinking you can squat there? Self-pity is a real sickness. Worry about living in the present and planning for the future.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:29 PM
1

And ever since we got back to work, there has been a handful of HB7s that joined my office and that once again got my instincts on the high again - the desire to hunt. And if you were one of the retards who thinks it's a good idea to shirt where you eat, then all this might mean something. So I did my competition research and came to the sad conclusion that I'm lower in SMV than their current partners. You're right. Your only hope is to offer to help them give their boyfriends a blowjob. Do you …
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:20 PM
6

AWALT. Hell even I have shit days sometimes.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:07 PM
2

You lost your shit because of family problems. Oh well. You'll be OK, my man. Just ask her to leave, next time. Or go for a drive.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:05 PM
1

You still want to see yourself as a helpless, powerless victim who was somehow injured and humiliated by others. Notice you pointedly don't explain why you're bleeding in the first place. The details don't matter. What matters is the need to be a helpless victim. This is called Self-pity. It's how children react to hostile stressful situations. Do you even lift, etc, etc. You're not powerless to improve your health and looks and frame. Being ignorant, foolish, inexperienced or naive in the past …
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:26 PM
5

Beta is almost the definition of being the emotionally dependent child in a parent-to-child relationship dynamic. So of course parents want you to be the child. That's how paternal instinct works. Now, if your parents themselves are dysfunctional immature persons foe whatever reasons, (single moms especially) they don't have a firm concept what being an adult and having adult relationships looks like.Much less teaching and coaching you to become one....... Then, you don't really have someone to …
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:13 AM
2

The unicorn fantasy is about the many ways your relationship with your mother figure was frustrated as a child. It's about wanting to sabotage yourself by trying to rectify something that can't be fixed and shouldn't be fixed.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:59 AM
12

Do not stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:11 AM
0

The issue is you agreed to be her boyfriend without vetting her at all, first. This is what happens when you don't heavily vet women first. Downgrade to plate and approach other girls. Spin other plates. Stop orbiting. Shouldn't have agreed to commitment or exclusivity.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:18 PM
3

Survive this man hating society Cry more, you poor sad-sausage. Nobody cares if society hates men. You don't go to bed at night with society. You're the person you have to answer to at night. The only thing you're surviving is yourself when your head hit the pillow, and when you wake up the next morning. The fact vthat you're whining about society makes it pretty clear to me you're the biggest hater of them all here. You don't want to take ownership of self hatred and self intolerance. Fix that.…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:20 AM
5

Mixing business with your personal life rarely works well.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:10 AM
2

whilst gas lighting, self harming and crying because you’re too good for her. LOL, you think? I mean, this isn't really something you can tell people who haven't experienced I am emotionally and sexually fucked. Self-fulfilling Prophecy. Also known as a mission statement. To be specific you've made your mission pitying yourself here. Classic Sad-sausage play. It's not what you are or aren't. It's hot you're acting and thinking, going forward. Nobody cares if younthink you're broken or not. It ha…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:01 AM
7

She's got photographable physical evidence. She's got the make and model, color, and the dude's description if not name. police could run the guys credit card at the bar, etc. She doesn't want to get a lawyer and then file a police report, that's her problem, not yours. She could have done the responsible thing, but she didn't. What are you, the police, a grief counselor? In any case, what kind of woman gets in a guy's car alone she just met at a club? I'm not saying it Justifies assault, but th…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:04 AM
1

Now, my fingering ability was fucking shit too, got some noises out of her but I can tell it was shit. sigh. Iron Rule of Tomassi #9: Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstances. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you've accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there's no going back to confidence with a woman. The Issue here is you though it was a great time to self-deprecate. It fucking wasn't. Fix your frame…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:43 AM
1

You're a goddamn man and not a scared dependent little boy worried about being abandoned in the parking lot. You don't need unswerving fidelity and loyalty. Either she's fucking you good or she isn't. Either she's treating you with respect and following your leadership usually, or she isn't. Either she's doing things that bring value to you and your house, or she isn't. There are absolutely zero guarantees for the future. Focus on things you have the power to change today, this week. Stop living…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:18 AM
4

"Sure thing" then ignore and continue. The issue is you're paying attention to what they say and you think it has factual value. You give a shit when they try to break rapport and you get bothered and tense and it triggers you insecurities.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:01 AM
4

You're not fluent enough. listen to comedians in the given language in your area.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:56 AM
3

Most of our emotional response to almost any situations are about childhood dynamics. The issue is you've set up Crazy Chick as somehow being your long lost mother figure. Straight up. This is the same old story of you as a kid, wondering why your mom was working that weekend and not around. Worried that nobody was going to be around to parent you. So you just indulge in self-pity and sabotage yourself until mom finally gets home and notices you. That's what this is about. it's self-sabotage beh…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:53 AM
1

Women you're fucking as plates aren't your mom and not your therapist. Don't treat them like your parents or your therapist. You need to talk about your major emotional struggles, talk to your parents. Talk to a good friend of yours who seems like he has soul. Set up an appointment with an actual therapist. There's no shame in paying someone for professional emotional advice. It's all about knowing who the right person to ask for something is. Beta simps think they can't ask anyone for advice ab…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:01 PM
1

Sidebar. Bro have you ever even sidebar?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:53 PM
3

If you job is shit, you can live off saving or live in your parents RV for a month or two. And you could get another one just like it regardless of references, in a week or two, then go ahead. Accept the risk. However I personally find job hunting a pain in the ass. Equally so dealing with HR interviews when some jealous bitch accuses you of making her uncomfortable or "unprofessional comments." Or people suddenly start treating you like a grab-ass and stop talking to you because some girl gossi…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:41 PM
1

Just Wait 'til I get going.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:30 PM
1

I don’t know I just feel weird bro. I don’t think I like sharing a girl. I don't like getting up early sometimes to drive to work, but I get over it and do it anyway because I'm not a 7/year old whiny child. She's never yours. It's just your turn. How many times do I need to tell this to melodramatic simps. Get over your childhood hangups about abandonment, or else don't and keep mentally masturbating about not being "chosen." Choice is yours.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:52 PM
1

Huh? Show us some more of those Matrix-style moves you fucking bullet-dodger, you. No shortage of women out that that don't have a problem cucking you while they agree for you to be their BB. Good thing you plate wasn't a good liar.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:43 PM
1

The supply of Simps is roughly related to the number of single mothers out there. So it's always going to be prevalent as long as chumps and simps exist. Come to think about it, being an e-girl is also probably related to being raised by a single mother, and not knowing what secure available masculinity looks like.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:38 PM
2

Doesn't matter if you're honest or not. What matters is if you give a shit. You lose by giving a shit about her insecurities and attempts to instigate drama. What I mean is literally explaining what she is trying to accomplish. Ooops, you gave a shit about what a woman said. You thought it had great significance, rather than being a series of words she makes with her mouth that she thinks will give her a gratifying response. Never respond to shit tests by D.E.E.R.-ing. Don't Defend, Explain, Exc…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:19 PM
1

It's called fear of short-term percieved loss.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:15 PM
2

"Dude, how was I supposed to know? If anything, me finding her attractive should be a compliment to you. This is a prime example of D.E.E.R-ing.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:14 PM
3

Slow down there, turbo, you just had surgery last week. Give it another week or two. Don't hurt yourself. Tease the chick and make her horny and frustrated. Play the slow burn game.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:07 PM
2

Move out of your little town in sodomyville. Move to a metro area.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:39 PM
1

Bit late to be worried about his opinion or how he views you. Ignore both of them and approach other women. If she doesn't want to do her job of being arm candy for the evening and tries to buzz around you like a fly, treat accordingly. Causing drama is the #2 M.O. of cheating slags. Don't offer any.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:27 PM
1

Have you always been this much of a melodramatic whiner? You were an annoying low-key beta and she moved on because she got tired of your melodrama, tired of your pubescent insecurities, and tired of you trying to treat her like your mother figure, seeking her validation. You were like this even while you were with her. You didn't just start this neurotic bullshit once she broke up. I'm just saying. You know how whining about a lack of anal sex makes you sound, right?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 05:12 PM
1

I’m specifically talking about artificial sweeteners(sucralose and acesulfame k) and some links they have found to cancer. Almost anything causes cancer in lab animals in sufficient doses. Table sugar being no exception. These studies have historically been PR stunts by sugar producers who are trying to keep people buying and using their products. They tend to contain some creative statistics and small sample sizes to say the least. See for example, the infamous aspartame study. (Note: aspartame…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:46 PM
1

Ignore, buy the guy a beer if he keeps trying to talk to you.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:14 PM
3

Bros before hoes. Nobody like AMOGs and White Knights. Stop acting like she the only woman on the island and worry about approaching other women.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:07 PM
1

AF/BB.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:05 PM
2

28 and still withholding sex? She didn't have this problem when dating her last girlfriend. Can guarantee it. The issue is she's a lesbian but trying to please her parents who are pressuring her to live a hetero lifestyle and produce grandchildren for them. You're her "beard." You're the betabux desperate enough to orbit around a woman who isn't interested in fucking him and agree LTR her. The issue isn't her, OP. She's a lesbian and not Bi. She likes the pussy and isn't interested in dicks. The…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:04 PM
1

You can get a glucometer, lancet and a couple dozen test strips for like, 30-50 bucks online. Test in the morning and after dinner. Test several days then record the data on a table and get an average fasting and after meals. 4 or 5 measurements each, 10 total should give you a good baseline. But if you don't see anything abnormally high after 4 days you could probably rule out blood sugar issues.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:48 PM
1

Nobody cares how you believe you appear. Being polite doesn't cost you anything. But you have to ask yourself, does spending extra time talking to her and trying to be friendly actually get you something that's truly valuable in your life. The other guys in your school are simps because they lack a strong sense of what's truly valuable to them, and lack a sense of cause and effect. They neither understand that overinvesting and orbiting won't get them the effects they think they will get. Nor do…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:44 PM
1

I have no idea what sort of business I would go in our how to go about building it up. Get a straight job. Starting a business purely for the sake of starting a business without a product or rock-solid business plan is asinine. You need a product or service that you're passionate about first. Then worry about the execution.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:36 PM
2

Dude. Been seeing this smoke show for about a month. Can not cum if my life depended on it, my friend says I'm in my head about it but I genuinely enjoy the person and the experience. Really sounds like a psychological issue here. For example, shame and performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:29 PM
3

Then after dinner time I’m usually not feeling like it. Get your blood sugar levels tested. If it's above 130mg/dL or 6.4 mmol after a meal you may be prediabetic.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:27 PM
-8

Of course, idk it’s just fascinating to me that despite doing basically everything wrong his girl show him affection as if he was famous. Cult of Personality. The is the same basic question as why Germans voted for and supported Hitler like he shit rainbows and gold flakes. Despite him doing almost everything wrong. Only things he was good at was making glib angry speeches and bullying people who worked for him constantly until they just caved and did what he wanted. Might have been OK if he wan…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:26 AM
19

The guy sounds like a legit abusive Narcissistic parasite. Kind of stopped reading after you mentioned he's an unemployed welfare queen, couch potatoes it and doesn't do shit for himself at home. I'm guessing how he acts around you is probably quite different than he does at home. The fact that he claims she blows him all the time doesn't mean he's telling the truth or imply she actually enjoys it. But who knows. Crippling depression and Anxiety. Often tends to go hand and hand with being Narcis…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:47 AM
8

Missed out in the whole sex thing in high school Oh well. Join the club. At least you didn't get HPV or the herp or get chumped in by some borderline arm- cutting screamer. because my parents had a mental disability that caused them to think the world was ending any day now, no joke, so they socially isolated me for about 7 years. OK I take that last part back. Your parents were the arm-cutting screamers. Need to be careful not to confuse obvious metaphors (the end of the fucking world) with the…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:04 AM
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Her drama isn't about you or your behavior. Don't get alarmed or perturbed. I'd say ignore for a week or two and fuck your other plates, unless she proposes something before that time that you actually value. She's not your girlfriend and you don't have any obligated to give a shit about her at any given time. Focus on your mission instead, and ignore un-fun high-pressure tactics. Plates don't get promoted by emotionally dumping or shock and awe tactics. Plates get promoted by using soft power a…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:49 PM
7

Train yourself to speak with a low tone of voice. This is less of a problem than a lack of eye contact and a lack of dominant positive posture and body language. Your overall frame and Mentality > your body language, presentation, and phrasing > anything you actually say.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:41 PM
1

My plate or gf since she is the only one in my rotation currently didnt respond to my invite to come over on Thursday. On Wednesday she messaged to netflix and chill on Thursday. This is an IOI and you shouldn't punish IOIs just because you're butthurt about her being busy and blowing you off earlier. She's just a plate. Stop orbiting around her like she's your mom or something. She doesn't owe you her time, attention or commitment. Redirect. "How about we go and do XYZ on Friday." Act like it w…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:57 AM
2

He's always going to have the older brother syndrome. That's who he is. Don't take it too seriously. He's going to be vaguely patronizing towards you sometimes and treat you like he's been working at the company longer than you. Bust his balls about it if you want. "OK, dad. Gosh, why can't you be cool like my friends."
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:46 AM
2

We don't give a shit about your ex. I'm not going to talk about that The issue is you decided to D.E.E.R. to a plate you're spinning. That is, trying to Defend, Explain, Excuse, and Rationalize your behavior. Especially boundaries. A boundary is something you can and are willing to enforce. It's not something you can truly explain to someone else. Either enforce it or don't. Then when people shit test you about it because their little egos dont like being shut down, handle appropriately. You don…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:42 AM
1

I'm not depressed and I still exercise min 3 times a week Sounds like you're low-key depressed. Note that Depression is a normal response to chronic life stress.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:05 AM
1

I have this one girl I really like She ain't shit. Why aren't you approaching other women? Stop talking to your onetis. You have zero frame around her. This is by design. Oneitis is fundamentally pure self-sabotage and learned helplessness behavior. You think you're trying to win or succeed or gain control of your emotions. Meanwhile you're acting like a complete simp around her by pure instinct. All these mental gymnastics your doing is to distract yourself from the fact that you're not approac…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:53 PM
7

"Get out of here, Karen. No you can't speak to the manager." Tell her to start doing shit for you. "I'm great, thanks for asking. Hey Karen why don't you get me a beer." The issue here is you're treating her like you're a child she's one of your mom's bossy, bitchy intimidating mom friends. Not as an annoying bratty spoiled child like she actually is. Are you worried if some kid insults you? "Hey kid, go ask your mom."
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:18 PM
1

LAWYER Get a custody plan. Get a paternity test. Document her unreliable behavior. Just dropping all contact for weeks is where you get an order to show cause.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:15 PM
5

Handle the same way you'd handle a girls bitchy jealous friends trying to cockblock her. Sounds like you did just fine.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:54 PM
2

Prostitution is a big time social institution in China. It's hard to go anywhere without running across flyers for prostitution services and whorehouses. Haven't been there in the last couple years but I don't imagine that's changed very much. It's one of the major ways police make money, by shaking down whores and pimps for bribes and information, and other kinds of dirty dealings. It's real common for big business or political deals to take place in whorehouses. That's called hospitality and s…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:41 PM
1

I define myself as all of those things based on previous experiences and tendencies of behaviour. What you've experienced means nothing. Interpretation means everything. Fix your frame and change your interpretation. Write a different story about your past. Then I let my feelings and thoughts control me What is "control" except thoughts and feelings? One is never at any point not controlled by thoughts and feelings. A sense of "being in control" is itself just a feeling. So this is really just a…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:07 PM
3

I'm 22, and I've always been a sensitive guy. Self Fullfilling Prophecy. You are a sensitive little bitch precisely because you believe you're supposed to be that way, somehow. Understand this. This is a Prophesy and not an observation about yourself. Low self-esteem, Oh my! Your precious, fragile, all important Self-Esteem! Whatever shall you do? Worrying about your self-esteem is a form of mental masturbation. Of the Self-pity and self-loathing kind. Stop mentally masturbating. "Self-esteem" i…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:01 PM
0

Narcissistic gold-diggers are nothing new.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:00 PM
1

What? This makes no sense, OP.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 03:58 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:30 PM
1

1) don't shit where you eat. 2) you seem a little unclear on the concept of a plate.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:28 PM
1

Why don't you want to be with her, if you don't mind me asking? Recommend you find a place where you're, say, 5-10 minutes drive away. These are critical formative years for your son and he needs to know that you're around for him as a source of wisdom and leadership.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:21 PM
1

Oh my! Your precious, all-important self-esteem! Read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:19 PM
1

In my experience men who are mentally hamstering about dick size have as much frame as a house after a category-4 tornado.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:16 PM
3

You want the pussy? Then you go get the pussy. If you don't want the pussy, then don't go get the pussy. Up to you.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:13 PM
1

This is called Hypergamy. Stop whining like a bitch and increase your game and SMV.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:11 PM
1

AWALT Women have always been like that.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:10 PM
1

I’m going over next week Don't. Spend that valuable time and energy to approach other women. so I’m going to go balls to the wall Looking for a hard No? You don't need her to validate the fact that she's just not that into you. Stop validation-seeking. and if she’s still acting like this i’m ending it. Hopefully it doesn't take that long for you.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:09 PM
1

Who cares? Better to be almost unreasonably self confident rather than almost unreasonably self-conscious.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:26 AM
4

No one deserves any position of power in our society if they cannot first be moral. Nobody deserves anything. And whose morals? All people with power are moral in a way that is generally consistent with their own moral sensibilities.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:56 AM
4

Sounds like you know what to do already. EDIT: Can you believe all these BP simps telling you "oh nooooo bruh don't do it because, umm because it's so morally disgusting and nasty." Those guys will live another day. In the meantime approach other women. Don't get your scrotum in a knot if she doesn't bite.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:35 AM
3

Not some kind of challenge to prove that she's lying, kid. Who cares. Either way she's not that interested and it makes her automatically thrift store material. You had a little fun messing around and talking to her. Enjoy it for what it was. Now go and approach other women. There's only one reason why you're trying to make this into some kind of challenge or mystery where none actually exists. Sunk-cost fallacy.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:29 AM
9

I like ice cream as much as anybody. Can you see it in my face that I've been around the ice cream block? Do I get a dull, jaded, dissappointed expression in front of the frozen food isle? Do I get the 1000 yard stare? Yeah maybe, because I'm heavily weighing all my flavor options. Look, any hetero woman with a normal sex drive doesn't just stop liking cock because she's tasted it too many times. Any more that you stop liking ice cream. If it was as stupid simple as just gauging someone's facial…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:26 AM
1

Is there anything I can do to make this situation more bearable? I know I sound like a pathetic crying sack of shit but I'm honestly devastated You said it, mate, not us. You can stop acting like a pathetic devastated crying sack of shyte, then. Then go ride your bike, or go camping, or develop a hobby like home improvement or cooking or writing. The world's your oyster and you have no shortage of free time. How you believe you sound and how you feel about yourself are pocket change, while actio…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:44 PM
1

Get deodorant that you like. Otherwise no. You don't want to covert up your personal masculine smell.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:16 PM
3

Could this bite me in the ass somehow? Yeah, you could be walking out the front door of your office minding your own business and the husband sucker punches you in the back of the head, then cracks a rib or two. Not saying it will happen, but beta white knights are dangerous because they're unpredictable. But hey, life is short, and you take a risk of getting in a car crash every time you drive to work.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:15 PM
1

Sure, you're special and not shitting where you eat doesn't apply to your exceptional situation.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:00 PM
12

Plate? Who cares. Hoes gonna hoe. LTR? Not only no. Hell nah.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:58 PM
13

Would strongly advise against it. Don't be disgusting. What's her number, by the way? Just curious?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:57 PM
3

She has now begged me not to block her In this case you would be very wise to block her, since she mentioned it. Because she knows something you don't, here. That's why she's saying this. She knows she's a toxic person who fucks people over when she doesn't get something she wants. When people tell you what they're like and how you should probably deal with them, believe them. Your other mate is correct, she did it to insult you, poison your friendship with John Doe, and cause drama.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:47 PM
13

Trying to conceive your first child you say? Good luck. Make sure you have a solid custody agreement.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:17 AM
1

Slowly, you may find that you are increasingly isolated, as the only other men you know who are not married with kids are the drug addicts, convicts, or other outcasts from society who are not single by choice. This sounds like a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, not any kind of observation of external fact. This is a plan of future action. Fix your frame. Nobody seizes power with the intent of relinquishing it. The aim of power is to gain more power. The aim of warfare is to be in a better position to …
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:34 PM
1

Only problem is my oldest sister constantly brings up my old self especially around other people. Roast her back. "Shut up Karen. How's your boyfriend doing? Oooh, get roasted." "Haven't you moved out yet?" "I heard you got a raise at work for having amazing customer service skills. No? My bad..." She constantly talks shit about other family members behind their backs and would act like best friends when they're around. Call her on that. "What was that you were saying about Jane earlier," "I did…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:29 PM
1

I fucked my body up pretty bad recently. Will be in a sling for atleast 3 months. "This? It's nothing. Freak jackhammer accident." Is it possible to still pull bitches like this? Sure, just don't act weak and boring.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:40 AM
2

We don't live together but she has been pushing for it as well as increasing the marriage talks. I personally am not ready for marriage as a 25-year-old man. "I'm not ready for marriage and I'm not ready to move in together. I'm not in the right place in my life to do that. I've been thinking about this for a while and I don't think it's fair to keep leading you on. You don't want a dude who is on the fence about you. Maybe in 10 years. I don't think you want to wait that long though. It sucks b…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:37 AM
2

TL, DR: So that stage, it's becoming annoying. Sometimes i'm ok with it, but somethimes i'm angry and sometimes i'm angry cause i think it would be better to not know about it. What did u do to rush trough it? OK. But what are you really angry about? Father? Mom? Brother/sister? Cheater ex? I doubt it's TRP you're really angry about. People don't tend to get angry about vague ideologies. Those are just placeholders and symbols for what actually angers them which they're afraid to consider. That …
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:25 AM
1

And yet you still give a shit what unhappy underachievers think.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:45 AM
1

Racism is a definitely a thing in Korea. although to be fair most people look pretty similar in that county. They don't like the Japanese, don't like the Chinese. South Koreans don't like North Koreans although most people know someone with relatives in the north if they don't themselves. So there's definitely a history of xenophobia. Love/hate relationship with Americans, like the pop culture but think you're an uncultured troglodyte if you actually come there. Although it's not usually overt. …
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:40 AM
2

Oh boy. There's some bullshit here that needs to be cleaned up. You and I are going to have a little pep talk so bear with me. A hook-up on Tinder with a girl I don't know sounds bad for me because I know she's going to want to get pounded. This is some beta bullshit. Don't ever say this again. Not even to yourself. Stop acting like you're a toddler and these bitches are going to carry you around like they're your mom. Women want any number of things. The only thing that's relavent to you is, do…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:10 PM
1

Multiple male orbiters. AWALT especially if she's truly a 9. In a sense she'd be stupid not to. Hell I would too if I had a bunch of chicks constantly offering to work for me for free or buy me food and crap like that. Ex (or so she claims...) bf around and she even would hang out/going out with fuck him. Fixed that for you. High social media presence and activity while not friending me on any of them. Otherwise you'd see the boatloads of activity between her and her sort-of ex, and vice versa, …
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:29 AM
3

Sounds kinky.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 04:25 AM
-1

Remember what I said about shit stirring?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:20 PM
3

It occurs to me that this kind of personal sensitivity is good when you're dealing with young kids and infants. It's not great when you're out hunting large game with your mates, with spears and bows and arrows.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:55 PM
1

The context of the picture is, you're obsessing over yourself while hiding in the bathroom and you give many damns about what people think of your physique. That's called validation-seeking which is what women do towards high value men. So, no, a shirtless bathroom selfie isn't the kind of context you want. It comes across as needy, insecure and stereotypically feminine. Now if you look like you're actually doing something in the photo other than obsessing about your appearance in the mirror. Fo…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:51 PM
66

Your girlfriend knows jealousy when she sees it. She also knows her mom is a selfish, critical, shit-stirer better than you do, I would imagine. So I'd encourage you to relax and not treat your LTR like she was born yesterday. She grew up around her mom's bullshit. Sounds like she's making a deliberate effort not to act like her mom.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:40 PM
1

In the immortal words of the amitheasshole section, everyone's shitty here.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:51 AM
5

Rule #1 of fight club. Rule #2 of fight club: refer to rule #1.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:55 AM
1

Ooops. You paid attention to what women were saying especially on social media. Should have focused on their actions when they're by themselves.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:48 AM
3

I.O.I. Yes, means that's generally what they're into. They had siblings they roughed around a lot with as young kids. Punish her for it later if you get the chance.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:55 PM
3

Tell her the time and the place you want to meet. Look, don't overthink it. Could be literally anything. You're the captain here. Worst case scenario, if first mate wants to disembark at the next port of call, what are you going to do, chain hwr up? Nope, you just forfeit their share of the profits and you hire someone else. That should be your attitude. "If you want to leave, I'll be dissappointed but I'll be OK with that. You're free to go if that's your decision. I've got enough going on in m…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:51 PM
1

Denial phase, I guess. Next is anger, usually.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:50 PM
1

Don't shit where you sleep. What is he, your older brother? You afraid he's going to steal your toys? Stop being a hypercompetitive fucker.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:49 PM
2

Read about the Ainsworth "Strange Situation" experiment. Attachment dysfunction permeates most facets of people's thinking about the outside world, their personality and the basic way in which they relate to others. It's a pretty basic piece of mental programming about trust and value. It's so basic that most people can't even articulate it.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:38 PM
1

Oh boy. When you described the lack of sex I should have known this kind of baggage was in the back seat. Good question. When I first got with her I was fucked up. Mistake #1. Don't agree to an LTR if you don't have your ducks in a row financially and emotionally. LTRs are TRP on Hard Mode. Felt like I knew her better because of how much we talked about that situation. Mistake #2. You treated her like a friendly mother figure whom you ask for advice. There's nothing wrong with this, provided you…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:55 PM
1

It's called an Abundance Mentality and not giving a shit. how the fuck am I supposed to get into a relationship The same way everyone else does it. Trial and error. Make build fail. Make build fail. Make build, fail a little less. Make build, fail because of something easy to fix. Make build succeed. Make build improve on success. Well? Things aren't going to break themselves. Stop acting like an exceptional victim or outcast. Women never give me the time of day. This is an Outcome Expectation o…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:27 PM
1

For men they consider High SMV, AWALT.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:26 PM
2

LOL When you've got two bazongas permanently glued to your chest, kind of hard to avoid them getting in the way sometimes. If you've ever LTRed a well-endowed chick, you'd probably know this. You're asking the wrong question here. The question is, when is it deliberate?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:22 PM
1

Spontaneous sex has definitely fallen off. No random dick sucks. The sex is the same every time we lay down she wants to spoon/cuddle until I’m hard and that’s pretty much every time now. Again not a lack of sex just excitement and blowjobs (since move in). You moved her in too soon. You didn't vet her well enough. Iron Rule of Thomassi #4 Just looking for tips on how to stay in masculine frame all day Frame stopped being a question when you agreed for her to move in before you had vetted her ne…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:17 PM
15

If you're not willing to politely send her back home when she's being boring and not being mentally present, then you deserve such treatment and it's your fault.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:03 PM
15

Not easy to get over childhood training of having to impress an absent mother figure.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:53 PM
1

In that case as long as she pays, then her money's green. Drop her is she acts like she has a problem paying and wants to "negotiate."
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:51 AM
2

Note that this is the first instance you found out about. It's likely there were others you haven't found, yet. Hoes gonna hoe it. Don't let this idea concern you though. Either way she's going in the garbage, so how much does it really matter? 1) How should i be treating her in the house? As little as possible. So, basically what you're doing now. "talk/sit down conversation" before I go but I don't entertain that idea. You: "I've told you everything there is to say already." Then go do somethi…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:46 AM
8

As far as I know reputation counts for a hell of a lot in the PT business. Though correct me if I'm wrong. Is there any way shitting where you eat could hurt your rep by word of mouth?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:52 AM
3

Your girlfriend had the right idea. The drunken hotheads were jonesing for a fight. The were just seeing if you'd throw the first punch. They thought they had the advantage of numbers.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:40 AM
5

Who is using whom? You think women don't get their shits and giggles from casual sex? Females invented that shit. Then humans at some point figured out you can use sex to guilt trip your partner and manipulative him into feelings obligated to invest more to energy attention and effort after the fact. And thus society was created.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:22 PM
0

Didn't read you post. Title gives me all the information needed. If you don't have the ability to change something today or a week from now. Then You stop whining and wringing your hands about it, and you give zero fucks. Then focus on things you can change today, this week, such as your frame. It's not your job to fix things that you simply can't fix.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:17 PM
6

Is she taking medication and attends therapy at least 2x a year? If so, then continue vetting her carefully. If she's not taking medication, beware. Be very aware. If she seems great one day, goes silent for two days, then starts getting demanding or needy, attention seeking and low key criticizing shit, the next day, don't stick your dick in unstable BPD chicks.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:15 PM
2

You're being afraid to make sacrifices. This is due to that stereotypically feminine and childish trait, fear of short term loss and discomfort. There's no "eventually,," here. Look at the cards in you hand now, and pony up or else fold. Not on hands you might or might not be dealt in the future. If you're interested in having kids and a stable family in your future, then this is the right time and the right women. I'm not saying it's impossible that you could find a better, more red-pilled woma…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:08 PM
3

Nicely done. Remember there are always more women out there you can approach and escalate with. Temporary setbacks like rejection aren't a big fucking catastrophe. You acted a bit thirsty and desperate. You showed Outcome Dependency and treated her like the prize. This was annoying to her. Women want to fuck their way into being given the prize. You need to remember two things. First of all you have standards and you need to be willing to walk away from and ignore a woman at any stage, when she'…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 06:43 PM
2

It’s weird because she brought me up to her family etc said she saw no flaws to her mom. Ooops. You paid attention to what a woman Said. You thought it had long term objective meaning. Should listen to her actions instead. Your bad. Women make a lot of noises with their mouths all the time. Don't get distracted by that.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:40 PM
2

Who cares? Why aren't you spinning other plates? If she wants to withdraw sex, then the only issue is you're not spending more of your valuable time energy attention and commitment developing other options and boning other women. If she's interested in keeping your attention she knows the best way to do it. If not. Soft Next and spin other plates. Stop responding. Stop answering her calls, unless she's asking to hang out.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:42 PM
6

Fine to do ocassionally in moderation. It's safer than alcohol. Don't let anyone tell you it doesn't affect your judgement, motivation, and memory. It does.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:07 PM
1

Three scenarios are equally likely in my mind. A) she's for real and is just a shittier sister than average. B) she's trying to cause drama and angst by telling plate you flirted and came onto her, or something C) your plate stole her sister's phone and is trying to cause drama. So, if you want to enjoy the show and don't give a shit if this particular plate melts down and don't mind blocking her when she starts blow up at you, then give it a shot. Tell her, "my house, thursday night at 7. Wear …
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:02 PM
2

"who's this again?"
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:51 PM
3

Look in to learning machining or welding.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:50 PM
1

Understand that any rule she wants to establish is also a rule she's itching to break herself. Yeah, she's a hypocrite. AWALT. Get over it. You act like it was your idea all along and you create the actual rules, although do take what she says under advisement. When she breaks your rules you enforce boundaries and consequences. You don't acknowledge her silly rules she only claims to care about.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:30 PM
1

I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it's around 2%-3% according to data from services like ancestry .com Look, the other thing is, a lot of people adopt kids for whatever reasons. Fatherhood is a choice and it doesn't just happen to you. I'm not going to tell a kid that, "oops sorry I'm not your real dad after all, Teee heee. So go get fucked I guess, also tell you mom she's a lying slag." Although I'm definitely telling that to the mother. Yeah maybe if the kid is less than a year old and I f…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:22 PM
1

Strongly consider getting a new job.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:01 PM
8

Dear OP. Have a beer, or not if you wish. Then forget yourself and go the fuck back to work. It's going to suck for the next few days but you'll pull through. Also it's not your fault that your mom is an alcoholic broken little child. Remember that. Your brother will be OK.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:49 AM
1

Time to talk to a lawyer. Don't say jack shit to the police until you've talked to a lawyer and he's told you what to say.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:18 AM
4

Make sure to suck her dick really good, if you're certain she has one and is therefore the prize here. If you're not certain she has a dick between her legs, then you're the prize here. Start acting like it.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:14 AM
1

Truman Show Delusion.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:12 AM
2

She's just some damaged chick you had to break up with. She's not your mother figure. You're not telling your mom to go fuck off, here. Get a handle. Assuming you're on good terms with your mom, might want to tell her you were kind of a dick to her as a kid, and you appreciate what she was willing to do to take care of you. You're a nicotine addict. Depression, apathy, self-loathing, lack of motivation, loneliness and unreasonable feelings of guilt/shame are all typical of addiction. You relapsi…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:07 AM
3

You'll get over it. She wasn't yours. It was just your turn.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:07 AM
4

Why aren't you approaching other women? Nobody cares about some basic attention whore.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:38 PM
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How can you slap some mental discipline into yourself? Stop being Captain Save-a-Bitch. Fix your frame. If he wants to slack off and self-sabotage his school work he's got a constitutional right to do that.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:24 PM
1

If I gave them much thought, yeah I suppose I might. If I gave Facebook and Twitter any thought, I suppose I might.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:56 AM
1

Treat like any shit test. Make an even more melodramatic statement.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:53 AM
3

You're the prize here, mate. The judge handing out prizes doesn't give a shit about making mistakes. Why, because hes the one organizing this shit and he's the one with the goddamn trophy and he's the one with standards. What the hell are the contenders here for? So let me ask you this. Why aren't you worried about her screwing up and making mistakes in front of you? Start treating her like she's the contender. If you can't conceive of her doing or talking about specific things that would cause …
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:51 AM
1

Also Read "Can't Hurt Me" by David Goggins. Guy has some anger issues about his childhood, to be sure. But instead of being self-destructive he channeled it into a thirst to do extraordinary things.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 12:45 AM
1

Look if you're just basically booty calling her, I don't think you have much territory to criticize her lifestyle choices. It's not like you live together. She doesn't criticize your lifestyle, don't criticize hers. Either she wants to tag along while you do the kinds of things you enjoy, or she doesn't. Sounds like she's drinking to cope with some kind of emotional issues she's got or whatever. On no account should you make her mental drama your concern.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:41 PM
1

Get a damn hotel room. Or at least go camping or some shit. Being a booty call in a parked car in some poorly lit park is fun and naughty and all. But generally only escorts are going to be down for that kind of edgy shit every single time. They're getting paid cash in hand, how much can they really complain.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:33 PM
2

There's this one girl on bumble I think she's old enough to be my mom. Therefore I'm super juiced to please and impress her, so she won't reject little ole me. Spin other plates.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:33 PM
2

LOL, preach brother.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:39 PM
3

If you think women aren't interested in snakes, then you don't know anything about the Bible. Which is fine if not, because it's a shyte book in general and is basically unreadable. I'm just saying, if you're looking for one of the oldest and most renouned phallic symbols out there,....
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:38 PM
1

Above all else it shouldn't feel clunky or stiff or confining. Function first, then worry about looks. Nobody cares if your shoes are basic if they're also cushy as fuck. I worked in a heavy industrial job for 15 years and a pair of boots that fit like a glove are worth paying 500 bucks for. Don't buy anything you haven't walked 100 yards in. I tried buying shoes online twice and was not impressed. Wouldn't recommend. Only women buy shoes online because, I dunno, they just like looking at that s…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:33 PM
1

Wasn't a big fucking emergency when you were jacking off in bed a couple days ago. Just get a goddamn tissue. Stop acting like a butthurt religious fundie who gets upset if his underwear isn't folded a specific way.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:27 PM
2

No. Sarcasm and A&A are both forms of Satire. Sarcasm is Passive-Aggressive language. A&A need not be agressive and generally works better if it isn't.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:19 PM
37

Get them to do shit for you. Tell them to show you those dance moves. Treat them like your dancing monkey. They want attention, make them earn it.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:16 PM
0

"Hey keep the hat you lousy ape. I mean that literally. By the way you owe me 15 bucks. I accept payment in beer."
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:10 PM
3

My gf, which I have been with since last year is going to try studying on the capital of our state, but that only starts next year I think, alright. Just tell her you're not interested in long distance relationships. Then enjoy the fade out. Keep your dignity 100% intact. Yeah sure she'll whine and hem and haw, tell you "if you really cared about little ole me you'd actually do X, Y, and Z." Which is true, except you don't care about doing XYZ as much as you care about yourself. Because you're s…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:07 PM
1

Make a cup of tea, usually. You read my mind.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:45 PM
1

Set up another meeting for next week then DGAF until that time. Nobody cares if you text her or not. Play stupid games, win prizes nobody wants.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:44 PM
1

A woman's important feelings right now are always going to be the center of a woman's worlds. You're the prize, you're not the fucking center of the universe. And even if you are, who cares? Get paid cash and fuck other bitches instead, while you worry about your mission. Something else will be the center of her universe 5 minutes in the future. The issue isn't what women are focused on. The issue is that you're not more focused on your mission, and are wasting time worrying about what any given…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:39 PM
1

Move to a larger town. Move out of Fucktardville.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:36 PM
2

I mean, usually there needs to be a certain amount of preamble before that. Get her to do a dance for you, then tell her to take of her shirt. Then tell her to get down on her knees before pulling it out. Emotional context, my dude. You have to both know that she's interested and know that she has a good idea what your intention is. Read "The Sex God Method." One time with an old girlfriend I just kept staring at her and eye fucking her with a smirk, when we were both eating breakfast. She start…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:34 PM
1

Boss psychologically bullying you. Words are cheap, actions speak volumes. Understand he's a coward who can't command respect with knowledge, experience, and leadership. Instead has to a abuse his authority by trying to Dread-game people. Ignore the dread game. He's not going to do shit except pull Passive-Aggressive shit and whine and bitch to you. Do things competently at your own pace. What was he going to do if you listened to him, give you a raise? Fat chance. Low key Agree and amplify. The…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:11 PM
2

My dad was similar. He’d take offense to the smallest slight but he’d stew on it all day until you were alone and he’d come up from behind and hit you. What an utter coward. Hopefully you're not in contact with him any more.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:36 PM
1

I also have manipulative, sneaky god damn "father" You mean, "Sperm Donor?" I don't think he was ever that interested in the former career.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:33 PM
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1) You're right your sperm donor is 100% a fake person and is literally just a bratty insecure butthurt, damaged toddler underneath the Persona. That is, the mask he tries, but ultimately fails to create. Have realistic expectations of your sperm donor. Expect the angry toddler, don't expect real adulthood from him: only pretending to act like an adult. Calling the sperm donor "alpha" or "beta" isn't really descriptive in this case, because at the end of the day he just plain sucks. Spend as lit…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:30 PM
2

Just moved into my university flat. The girls are fine and so are the guys, usually. I say usually because the guys regularly swear at me "Hey Kevin, or whatever your name was. Get the fuck out. Just get out of here. OK thanks." Doesn't matter what his name is, from now on call him Kevin whenever you're annoyed with him. "I still think your name's Kevin." and talk aggressively towards me. Put on your best shit-eating grin and Roast them back. Stop frowning and standing there looking like a stunn…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:50 AM
1

It's fine to be angry about rejection. Just don't get butthurt and shoot the messenger. Go jogging and keep running until you get your head to cool down and you're OK with making new, different plans for the future. This is called resilience. Then use that frustration to approach other women.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:35 AM
3

Cancel the trip. Tell her something came up at work. If she starts whining and loses her cool, just hang up on her. If this causes her to drop and break as a plate, oh well, you had a good time while she was around. Why aren't you approaching other women and spinning other plates, moron? Of course she's fucking her ex while she's over there. She can fuck whomever she wants- she's a plate. Sex is cheaper than dog food for women. You seem to be a little unclear on the concept of a plate.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:30 AM
7

Don't ever introduce them to your friends and family. Might not even be the best idea to bring them to your house. Expect random shit to go missing. Upsides of dating mentally damaged, unhinged girls: the sex is freaky. Downsides: potentially everything else.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:23 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:05 AM
1

If you care so damn much, why don't you make a comment and ask her why she hasn't changed it?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:05 AM
6

The best way to do this is to tell her you don't want to be her friend, then block her. Then approach other women.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:03 AM
1

Sucking strange dick isn't what your own girlfriend does regularly either. Anal doesn't count, tee hee! Why do you think she's so eager to protect her slut friend? Because said friend knows things about her that you don't. Tell the guy. Give specifics like dates and names, otherwise he'll think you're jealous or something. It's amazing the mental gymnastics simps like him will go through.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:59 AM
1

Fucking everybody and their Grandma wants to be an entertainer and make the scene. Most musicians don't make the scene and are perpetually broke. In the meantime there's no reason to pay you shit because there are about 20 other wannabes who are willing to do shit for free just to steal 5 seconds of fame. Learn a skill that people actually need like how to program robots.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:17 PM
2

Make sure she gets off first before pounding away. You'll get no complaints.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:07 PM
1

Plate only.....if she's hot. Tell her she's boring at sex.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:37 PM
1

Take like half or a quarter of a dose. Do some experimentation.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:25 PM
1

Girl B knows Girl A better than you do. Likely girl A will indeed reach critical mass and melt down. I think I'd take girl B at her word and pass this one up. but that's just my opinion.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:12 PM
3

Getting enough protein (about 275 grams for the macro goals I set, so I can burn fat but also not burn muscle from my caloric deficit?) Uh huh. Defecit you say? You're 16. Look, no offense but most people who write shit about dieting on the internet don't know the fuck they're talking about. They know just enough about chemistry and physiology to think they know shit but not enough to realize how ignorant they are. Just understand that. So odds here that you personally know what the hell you're …
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:12 AM
1

The problem is you agreed to a long distance relationship, because you're desperate and afraid to approach other women. Why aren't you approaching other women?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:43 AM
2

You had a schoolkid crush. Nobody gives a shit if you made stupid dating mistakes when you were younger. Who the hell hasn't. "I just regret all my humiliating past mistakes so damn much" is called self-pity. It's a form of joyless mental masturbation. Stop mentally masturbating of Self-Pity. It hardly matters who you oneitis was or what you think you did. You continue to indulge in this mental masturbation. That's why you don't want to get over your oneitis. You'd rather continue running your h…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:30 AM
1

I am going to be taking a dose of shrooms soon, and I was wondering if anyone knows a way to induce a mental shift with the trip so that I can think with a more "dark triad" outlook. Thanks for any advice. That's a good way to have a bad trip. Stop overthinking it. The purpose of mushrooms is to more fully embrace the present.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:24 AM
0

Pec implants, brotha.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:42 PM
5

She's excited and typing in ALL CAPS about which dog I should get Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:42 PM
1

For most of the history of H sapiens losing weight could be fatal to women for about 4- 5 months of the year. She'll do it if it's the only way to escape social ostracism and humiliation, which is a more immediate threat to survival than cold and lack of food. As long as you're around, her ego might wish it but her subconscious wont allow it. She won't even realize she's eating. This isn't about you. You're thinking you're cool enough and man enough to convince someone to go against a pretty fun…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:48 AM
1

Watch out for boiled bunnies in the kitchen. The whole age difference and being a neighbor was weird to me, but whatever. Then I read about her claiming to be in an "abusive relationship" and felt a definite chill run down my back. Then OP started talking about how much of a "connection" he felt (parroting what she'd coached him to think.) This isn't going to end well.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:51 AM
1

Long-ass post, beware. Why aren't you approaching other women? This tells me I don't need to read your post. She's already disrespecting you. She's an "abuse victim," meaning she's clowning you and has a particular need to chip away at your frame, then instigate shit. More than a lot of women. Outright verbal abuse will start as soon as she thinks you're not willing to put her on the shelf for an indefinite time while you fuck girls with less red flags than her. She thinks you might be fucking o…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:11 AM
2

Ignore.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:24 PM
6

Six monthes ago, I soft nexted one girl because of her daddy issues. This happened in front of our social circle and she took it personal. Now she is something like alpha widowed. I stalked her a bit (yeah I am moron) she desperately looks for commitment and goes from dick to dick. I see. How is that your fault or your responsibility, exactly? You dodged a bullet. Stop simping. It's not like you were an asshole about it. If she responds to being told "no thanks" by riding the cock carousel at 10…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:20 PM
2

Do you enjoy doing that? Then it's fundamentally good. Do you find dinner and movies to be basic or boring? Then it's fundamentally bad, because you fundamentally don't like it. Stop validation-seeking. You're the captain of your own life, act like it.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:17 PM
1

she starts telling me look I’m getting a bit fat here on the belly. "Huh?" That or just ignore and continue the conversation like normal. For some reason, I instinctively said “nah you’re good”. Not the worst thing you could have done. Don't act like you give a shit about their petty insecurities.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:13 PM
8

I finished her off with my fingers and fell asleep thinking I was a little bitch lol. Fix your frame. The issue is you don't see yourself as a baller. You believe you're magically, somehow "not good enough" to fuck women. Your erection is just following suit. With girl 2 I was a bit hornier, I got hard but lost the erection 5 minutes into a blowjob. I was also a bit anxious about not getting hard because I was expecting it with apprehension. Fix your frame. You expected to fail and expected to n…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:08 PM
12

Narcissism is a personality traits that everyone posses to a certain degree. This is a holdback from early childhood like a navel. Narcissism is a survival mechanism for a young children who are physically and emotionally dependent on their parents' attention. There's such a thing as healthy narcissism, such as believing we are more talented and more qualified than other candidates during a job interview. This serves to prevent self-doubt in situations where it doesn't benefit us. But for some p…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:01 PM
2

Why aren't you approaching more women? Do you have a gene mutation that prevents you from smiling, having a conversation and asking questions? If not, then nobody really gives a shit about your precious fragile cosmically important self esteem. It's not a real thing. We only care about your actions. Self esteem is cheap. Actions are golden. This is something you need to get into your head. The world does not care about your self-image. It's just a game your mental hamster plays while it runs aro…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 02:11 PM
3

terrible at flirting (kino escalation mostly) Great! You know where to start. When I first started playing the trumpet I was terrible at it, had no pitch and could barely read music. But tough shit, I picked it up and kept doing it anyway. Could play a decent tune after a couple of months. Got pretty funky by my senior high school year. and it feels like I'm afraid to follow my feelings and touch a girl Nobody cares. You don't need to do any given thing toward any given woman because you're the …
/r/askTRP15/09/20 11:57 PM
2

It is always better to err on the side of too much boldness rather than too much caution.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:30 PM
13

Yes. Unless you've been married for 6 years and have 2 kids for example, LDR's are an utter waste of your time. Doubly so if you're an armed forces member.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:29 PM
1

Either I’m spinning plates and not getting emotionally satisfied from having a deeper relationship with a girl, Iron Rule of Thomassi #6 The issue is that you're paying attention to women's words and don't want to listen to their actions. If you did, you'd realize that women's relationships with men aren't deep in the first place. or I’ll start seeing someone more seriously and getting emotionally invested See the above Iron Rule. You probably have issues with an Attachment Style that is Anxious…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:25 PM
2

Nobody is born with a mission. Either you create it or you don't.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:39 PM
2

What are you, the Relationship Police? Stop wasting time trying to micromanage your LTR on Facebook. Either she's fucking you good or she isn't.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:38 PM
1

We can't help people with BPD issues. Why aren't you talking to a psychiatrist?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:11 PM
-15

Betas guard their mates. Alphas disregard. Which one are you?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:09 PM
1

You don't. Nobody cares if she respects you or not. Doesn't matter. Stop giving a shit what she thinks of you. That's not some kind of prize that you need. What a woman thinks about you will get you paid absolutely zero cash money unless you work for Snapchat. You need to respect yourself and stop being a needy clinger. Stop being afraid of abandonment and focus on not abadoning yourself instead. If she stops fucking you good, no problem, just next her. She's not the last goddamn woman on the is…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:08 PM
2

You mean, besides this sub......?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:59 PM
1

Who cares? Oooops. You listened to something some thot said.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:20 PM
1

You've never heard of people who protest too much? Social media are video games targeted to women's stereotypical archetypes and desires. Zuckerberg started out when he was studying game development in college, after all. The game objectives being to look good, get a bunch of attention, have thousands of pretend friends and thirsty orbiters, and feel like you have insider information and gossip, while having your secrets protected. It's about Wish-Fulfillment same as male targeted games. Only wi…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 07:51 PM
1

Sounds like they just weren't that into you. Shit happens. You weren't their particular cup of tea. Women aren't going to just tell you this. If you don't know why, you need to read the sidebar again like 20 times. Doesn't matter if you look like Chris Evans and have more money than god you're going to be turned down sometimes. If they were, they'd provide you with no shortage of openings to escalate. They'd scoot closer to you. They'd peacock in front of you subtly. You making a couple of comme…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:31 AM
1

1) Psychiatrist or Professional counselor. Stop fucking around. Stop attempting to "just figure things out on your own." Be smart enough to admit you have a serious fucking emotional problem. 2) 800 273-8255 if you're actually afraid you're going to hurt yourself or take a bunch of pills. They're trained to deal with this shit and they give a damn. A bunch of random fuckers on some dank internet forum simply aren't trained to handle your problems. We don't give a damn. Talk to someone who cares.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:06 AM
8

When you are at a slightly academic party or really any situation that is classier than a club or bar setting, and an AMOG has to teach some topic to your girl or your girl wants to learn more about that topic You walk away and game other women. Betas guard their mates, alphas disregard. and the AMOG knows about it, how do you deal with this situation Who cares? When you're a postdoc fellow who has been teaching for 10 years then you're entitled to explain your particular boring brand of shit if…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 12:27 AM
8

Fear of abandonment. Fear of being ignored.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:01 PM
6

The issue here is you were autistic and thought what women write on social media means anything. Oooops. Should have read their actions instead. Stop wasting your time with disgracebook.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:58 PM
1

Play stupid games, win prizes nobody needs. Or else just walk away and leave. If she doesn't like it, she can be replaced with other women who aren't eager to see you bleed.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:57 PM
20

Christ, imagine being raped but not caring because he had a crispy jawline. What an absolute lunie I mean, I don't need to tell you that's that's not what happened. She was pissed at her boyfriend for telling and went out drinking and partying with some friends to get her shirts and goggles. Then told her friends and BF that she just woke up next to the guy naked and just doesn't know what happened. So they'll all sympathize and claim rape and that means it doesn't really count as cheating or ev…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:15 PM
20

You're talking about projection. One of the most universal traits of abusers and sick fucks. People who are victims of abuse rarely talk about it. Usually takes a lot of therapy and a couple of drinks first. Think about war veterans. They still ocassionally have nightmares about the violence, betrayal or neglect. They want more than anything to just forget it happened and move forward with their lives, but they never fully will. Not 100%. They are ashamed they allowed themselves to fall into tha…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:57 PM
1

We want to be valued by a girl we value. Because you don't want to value yourself instead. You think you need a mother figure to do it for you, as if that could possibly be any substitute for self-love. I guess this is we want the most. Iron Rule of Thomassi #6. I grew up religious. I'm atheist now but my values about relationships are conservative Your values aren't those of any given club or any presumed group of people at all. They belong to you alone, in all the universe. Nobody else owns yo…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:05 AM
3

Uh oh, you hurt her right in the feelz. Better turn around and stop walking away. Mate if she wants to feel hurt that is her birthright and privilege as a human being. Therefore you should continue walking away and give her the freedom and dignity to feel any way she wishes to feel.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:21 AM
15

I always see this against red pill, what is the response to questions like this "What's the red pill?" Nobody's paying you cash to argue with stupid.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:18 AM
2

This is a defense mechanism. A reaction against the "I am the prize mentality" which you're afraid to adopt because you think it'll bring you too much shame.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:42 AM
3

I stopped reading after the first paragraph. You have late stage Oneitis. Your ex ain't shit. You just feel a need to mentally masturbate about her and compare her to all those other inferior scary women out there. This is to distract yourself from your avoidance and self-sabotaging behaviors you don't want to acknowledge and take responsibility for. You'd rather treat your ex like she was the prize instead. Your antisocial loser lifestyle is the issue here.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:38 AM
1

You're saying you dated one woman who ticked most of the boxes. Now suddenly you believe all women are like that? I can't answer your question, but I wonder if a sample size of One, is the most reliable way to be making a judgement. Narcissism, in one sense, is someone with the thinking patterns and emotions of a 2 year old child, who stopped emotionally developing past infancy for whatever reason. Everyone has holdbacks of those kind of infant emotional and mental traits. For example we all thi…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:25 AM
2

No. AWALT. Specifically all women are messed up because you don't have a woman's goals, so a lot of their behavior doesn't make sense to you.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:39 PM
11

Alright, I'll bite on this one. Not so much for your sake OP but for the sake of other people who might be reading this. I mean i was a slobby loser not only a year ago Iron Rule of Thomassi #9. Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstances. Violate this rule at your peril. If you're still having a hard time following the Iron Rules here, then not much has changed. Very true, regardless of what's going to happen, atleast i know i am the prize and if not, am becoming one There's no "but if not....…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:54 PM
3

Now I am aware of that there is a post about this in the sidebar, but this specific point isn’t given a way on how to handle this. If you happen to be in a group of women and they all start to talk about feminist crap Nobody cares about inane shit women gossip about. or whatever hard to give an opinion about topic. You're not getting paid cash to give an opinion on women's gossip. Focus on things that get you money. Discuss things that are directly relevant to your ability to do your job. Otherw…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:34 PM
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If you think women don't have orbiters you need to read the sidebar again. Alphas guard their mates. Betas disregard. One guy even said to her that he thinks she would leave me for him, and I got really mad. Stop being a needy, scared little bitch. Should I confront him for this? Should I do anything? Why aren't you confronting yourself for failing to make yourself the prize? Why aren't you confronting yourself for attempting to mate-guard? Why aren't you confronting yourself for treating some p…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:05 PM
1

Avoidance of short term pain.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:03 PM
42

LTRs are TRP on Hard mode. His SMV is sooooooo much higher than little ole me. You're absolutely right. Clearly he's the prize here. You should ask him to let you choke on his dick. Fix your frame. You don't understand the "I am the prize" mentality. Is there anything i can even do to prevent anything from happening between them when they decide to meet? Any advice appreciated. Listen to what you just wrote again. She's not the prize here, you are. If she wants to fuck some other schlub, that's …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:02 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not. There are plenty of anecdotal accounts of cheaters cheating once, and not repeating the deed. Making blanket statements isn't always helpful towards accurate, honest discussion. Cheaters who keeps begging you to take you back repeatedly for months despite being blocked, haven't changed.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:51 AM
1

True, but it’s not just a text, it’s calling nearly a year later using #67 to hide the number and crying about how much regret she has and how badly she wants to try again. You don't need to know what she was really thinking. You wouldn't find it flattering, I can tell you that much. All you need to ask here is why you didn't laugh and hang up, when you r recognized her? I suspect the answer is part of you still wanted to think she had a soul in there somewhere and was capable of being real with…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:38 AM
1

This is typical Narcissist or Borderline behavior. So is the egregious cheating and lying. The issue is you stuck your dick in a crazy chick. It's not your fault that you got taken in and chumped by her. You're dealing with someone who enjoys lying as much as they enjoy pizza and feels absolutely zero guilt or fear about doing it. Get up. Sip her morning coffee, get to work lying to people like it's her dream job. Why do women who cheat in a LTR go to drastic measures to try and get you back, Na…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:31 AM
2

I've made some huge mistakes in my past Great! You've gained some pretty damn valuable experience and perspective, that so many other people are lacking. Sit down, write down and describe the incident. Then decide what led you to that decision to go down that road. I did ABC because I was afraid of X and wanted Y. Then decide what major factors led to the failure, and what advice you'd give anyone else to prevent that pitfall. If you were giving a short speech to high school seniors about to gra…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:01 PM
1

Read "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People." By Steven Covey. This post is fucking embarrassing to be writing here, First life lesson I can offer. Nobody cares how fucking embarrassed you feel. Shame, guilt, and embarrassment is not a real. It's something 95% we use to avoid taking action to get what we want or need. Get over your ego. Leaving out other stuff as I feel fucking pathetic even typing this out. Iron Rule of Thomassi #9: Never Self-Deprecate Under any Circumstances! Defy this …
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:46 PM
11

The issue is that you talked about your other plates, correct me if I'm wrong. Some things you shouldn't advertise. She doesn't need to know where you're going on a trip or whom you're with. Unless she's dumb as a post she doesn't need to be told that you're fucking girl #2. So her asking you about it is absolutely a shit test. Probably best to pressure-flip this one and get her to heavily qualify herself to you, if this happens. Meanwhile: Iron Rule of Thomassi #2. You confirm nothing. You deny…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:32 PM
1

The issue is that you weren't ready to pursue. It doesn't matter if girls were interested in the past. Who cares? You weren't ready to take action towards them whether they might have been interested or not. Nobody can force you to do something you're not ready to do. Regretting the fact that you weren't ready amounts to mental masturbation, artificial helplessness, and Self-Pity. Cut that crap out. It's about having a Scarcity Mentality where you don't want to see new opportunities in the futur…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 01:24 PM
2

It’s not about getting one over on her, it’s about catching her in her bullshit and giving her reason to stay away. Enjoy the false rape report. Go complete zero contact.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:30 PM
1

The only correct course of action with borderlines is to Hard Next over text then establish 100% radio silence. The downside is she's likely to make up lies and assassainate your character over social media. Generally the only people who are going to be swayed by this are those who don't really know you. As far as family and long time friends, the best course of action is to get the first word out and send a group message: For example: "Turns out my soon to be ex girlfriend is a liar and cheater…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:24 PM
2

poor sleep and overall fatigue. Yeah, that's going to impact your libido.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:16 PM
1

I mean, yeah I'm being a little sarcastic, but still. When people are trapped in an immature/regressed state of behavior like addiction or oneitis, they tend to break out of it when they hit rock bottom. They'll mature and become more sophisticated in their behavior when they realize the object of their faith isn't going to give them any security or comfort. They'll just have to soothe themselves instead, alone.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:08 PM
3

He's invested in his role in life. It's not like he's cooking meth or making kiddie porn in his basement. He'll be alright the way he is. If he wants to walk the path of low-key misery, self-sabotage, and putting women on a pedestal, that's 100% his prerogative. Stop trying to be Captain Save-a-Bitch. Remember that his GF will eventually branch-swing on him. This is probably the best thing that she can do for him.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:30 PM
1

feels like I dont are about her feelings "Right now? Not going to lie I'm a little bored. What's this really about?" I thought the right thing to do at the time was to go beta and assure her everything was fine, Deal with comfort tests by showing leadership. tell her how much im into her That's crap. You cannot tell anyone that you're into them. You can either act like you're into them, or else don't. If you're not giving enough affirmation, that is not rewarding valuable behavior enough, then l…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:25 PM
1

Iron Rule of Thomassi #1. Stop violating this rule.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:35 PM
1

Oooops. You paid attention to what a few women said.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:34 PM
1

I mean, tossing your ex- sort-of wife out on the street, to be homeless in a third world country is kind of a dick move, even if she's the biggest whore in the city. Don't ostensibly marry someone and move in together if they don't have a good job history. No matter what.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:33 PM
2

AWALT You're the prize here. What she's doing is showing disloyalty and trying to dread-game you which lowers her value to you and shows a poor rate of return. Means she's an unproductive, lazy employee who doesn't like the company and often shows up late. Ratchet back your own investment of time and energy in her, substantially while you socialize with other people. As in, see her and respond to her half as often. She'll respond one of three ways: 1) shit test you and whine about it which means…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:54 PM
3

Depends on what the local laws are. A lot of areas have common law marriage laws. However legally not getting a certificate, often saves you from alimony.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:40 PM
3

The other day she came to my house as it was finally free, she was very receptive to my advances, we tried having sex but couldn’t due to a combination of her being extremely tight Bottom line she needs to learn to relax at bit. Also she was probably pretty nervous so may not have been an abundance of wetness at the time. Get some lube. Lube is your friend. Practice using 1 finger. Tell her to do the same on her own, in the bath. Ask her if she can work up to two fingers in the bath. I don't wan…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:33 PM
3

Giving a shit about what you believe other people's "success" is = Scarcity Mentality. This woman I have been seeing is moving into a newer neighborhood with potentially more upper class individuals (doctors, entrepreneurs, etc.) and I feel intimidated in general with levels of success. Stop being a little bitch. Approach other women. This isn't my usual crowd of people, so I feel out of place. Wherever you hang up your hat is your home. Internalize this mentality. I want to channel IDGAF, Doesn…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:23 PM
2

Sounds like her co-workers know some things that you don't.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:16 PM
6

Don't stick your dick in Borderlines. Expect her behavior to get significantly worse in the future if you continue.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:14 PM
1

Would you go to the party yourself if she wasn't around? If yes, then go for it, bring you some arm candy.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:00 PM
3

Ignore for a few days, then tell her to come over, then smash. Can someone explain what’s happening and how do I handle this? She was firm on saying we can’t see each other anymore because she wants a relationship and I can’t give her one. Oooops. You paid attention to what a woman said. Should have listened to her actions instead.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:56 PM
1

Psychiatrist with an MD is a bit expensive. I'd really suggest finding a professional counselor (LPC) if you don't have any serious life-altering issues. That's not an MD level and they're not going to feel the temptation to write you a script.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:01 AM
2

Her sister is 100% into me, but that's playing with fire Monk mode. Block them both. Now's not the time to be contemplating that kind of garbage. Take a few weeks and get your head straight. I have 5 plates on the go (3 of which I'm fucking), K no worries then.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:58 AM
2

I stopped reading about 2/3 in. Chick sounds like a legit diagnosable Narcissist. No friends. Constant diatribes/verbal diarrhea, and trash talking. Fixated need to be "right." N's are enotional vampires and their MO is to bleed other people of every ounce of emotional energy and goodwill they can possibly get from you, until you're forced to fuck off permanently. Don't wait that long. Grip your balls firmly and tell her you're not interested in seeing her anymore, it's clear you're not a good f…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:35 AM
1

In other words her family are problem drinkers and she may have a purse full of bad habits and personality problems from them. That's a red flag right there. Not only that but the entire relationship she was trying to drag you down just a little each day. Yeah, you're better off now. I think other posters are right and she was working hard the last couple to make you flip your shit, so then you'd be the bad guy. If she legit cheated then that wouldn't surprise me at all. Read up about "Gaslighti…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:20 PM
1

"remember that one time I got you a bag of Skittles for your birthday?"
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:03 PM
1

Anyways, the following day, I got really drunk and became vitriolic. In lieu of grabbing your testicles firmly and telling her "it's over" you were tired of her bullshit and nagging, and she should be packing up at this point. I think you didn't do this because you believed it just wasn't an option. This is because you thought some given woman was your adoptive mother figure and couldn't be replaced if necessary. Therefore, enter the beta simping and orbiting behaviors. Instead you decided to ge…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:59 PM
3

Nobody cares about your broken plate whom you don't talk to any more. Fuck away. Women love low-key backstabbing each other. It gives them the tingles up in their panties. Also she sounds emotionally unstable and you probably dodged a bullet with her.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:56 PM
3

You can't. You can only be that person when you're actually in a good mood. Deal with it. Nobody gives a shit how you "come across." Nobody gives a shit about retarded crap like your "ideal self." You drop massive shits, and wake up in a puddle of drool like everyone else on the planet. How fucking ideal is that? Stop mentally masturbating about how others view you. Either you're in a good mood or you're not. Focus on improving your sleep habits and reducing sources of chronic emotional Distress…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:46 PM
2

Am I being used ? Proceeds to write post about "this one girl whom I haven't fucked" Yes. I'd wager you are. Look, whether or not she's trying to suck you into orbit around her or turn you into a beta tool isn't the question. The question is why you aren't approaching other women besides her? Maybe she agrees to meet you. Maybe she agrees to fuck you after second meeting. Maybe she doesn't. Meanwhile approach other women and spin other plates.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:14 PM
3

Guys, I have been going progressively insane for the last approx. 8 years. Sounds like you're depressed. I strongly urge you to talk to a psychiatrist. Depression is one of the most treatable mental health conditions out there. Untreated, it is also probably the most deadly. We on TRP can give you some general life advice but we can't help you with depression. You need professional help with that. Or don't, and just keep allowing mental health to fester and putrify. Same old business as usual I …
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:42 PM
2

Yeah I tried AAing by saying I’m a sociopath lol but she kept insisting so I changed the subject I think you did well. Remember that women love to shop but hate what they actually buy. She doesn't actually want to know, here. If she was an LTR she'd learn what your vulnerabilities were gradually by experience, by investing a lot of time and energy in the relationship.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:51 PM
3

1) walk more slowly and more purposefully. 2) practice your shit-eating grin. 3) chill the hell out and remember you're the prize here.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:23 AM
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You're right. Giving a shit what she thinks, will cause her to say she's actually still interested. Can't afford to say the wrong thing in this situation.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:19 AM
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"wanna see how angry I am?" Don't respond to anything else further. See if she sends an amusing wall of text.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:04 AM
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However I know that having a lot of money (or appearing to have a lot of money) can really help you when it comes to women. Be a Skittles Man. Don't fucking talk about your money, ever. Don't buy any expensive cars unless you keep them as investment pieces and drive ocassionally. Never when you have plates around. Don't wear clothes that advertise money. Avoid talking about your career until you've actually fucked a woman. Deflect, deny, amplify ad absurdum. Gold digging hos are the lowest scum …
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:55 PM
2

Coach her to get a new job. Boring job with average pay but a good boss is golden, vs a great paying one where your boss is scum-sucking dickhead. She doesn't have anyone else to talk to about this. Not your problem to fix. If she's not DTF then what the hell does giving a fuck about her shitty life issues bring to you that's valuable. Not much, O can tell you that. "If it's really bothering you, then I really recommend you talk to a professional counselor. I can listen to some extent, but I'm n…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:37 PM
1

If you want to go somewhere so you can let it all dangle on the breeze, go ahead. If she doesn't want to go, what are you going to do, whine about it? Go yourself. People need to stop acting like nudity is a big fucking deal. This isn't grade school anymore.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:33 PM
1

Women are most often the negotiators and mediators in most traditional, pre-industrial societies. Women's power relies of people-pleasing and consensus building. If you look at collections of folk tales, one of the most common archetypes is the female protagonist who negotiates her way out of life or death conflicts. You find this kind of story in almost any oral tradition. See: Scheherazade for example. It's a man's power to force a confrontation, and succeed through strength, cunning, virtue, …
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:30 PM
1

Look there's only one thing worse that your plate and her bitchy friends talking about you, and that's them not talking about you.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:17 PM
9

Rip the band-aid off. "Sorry, I'm just just not interested in you. Plus we're not even living in the same country. It's unfortunate but that's just the way it is." Stop beating around the bush. Stop lying by omission.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 02:40 PM
1

It sounds like what you're talking about is Major Depression Disorder. You have Depression and your life choices clearly reflect a desire to try to rationalize, explain and confirm those feelings. At least in part. Please talk to a mental health professional. Talk to a psychiatrist and a mental health counselor. Depression is one of the most treatable mental health problems. Untreated, it is also probably the most deadly. Note that Depression is a normal physiological response to things like ill…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:40 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. if I show weakness, the people around me will run away. Look, you may not like what I have to say here a bit. This is a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy. That is, it's a narrative that you're acting out. It's not a fear. Like I said you're not as mysterious as you think. You're not "showing" anything, you're acting powerless, like a deer in the headlights, because a part of you wants to believe it's unreasonable to do anything else. You're dealing with the distress by doing things …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:32 PM
1

No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A Glover.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:29 AM
2

I feel like you're describing panic attacks, basically. So I'm just speaking as someone with generalized anxiety here. Fighting or trying to ignore or suppress this crap tends to be counterproductive unless you're actively doing something that can occupy your attention. Let's forget holding onto "frame" for a second, because the whole definition of anxiety is you can't control it and it isn't reasonable. You've got more important problems at that point than your frame. It's not about your mental…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:06 AM
4

The issue is that you decided to be a faggot and haven't blocked her on social media, because you think you're her white- knight type parole officer. You think you're supposed to monitor her or some shit. Goddamn Whiteknights everywhere, man.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:38 PM
1

Eventually, I want to come to the point where we subtly know that we're not really each other's therapists and that we've trained on how to hold out, even when I'm offline or can't be reached. You're the prize here, not her. Nobody gives a shit whether or not she thinks you're her therapist. Who cares? Women say annoying shit all the time. It's a fact of nature. Pay attention or don't. When she starts talking about boring irritating shit, just get up and go do something else. You're the captain,…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:30 PM
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However, if she starts to post pictures on Instagram of her in this bath suit I would prepare to exit the relationship. Those pictures ain't for you, they're for Chad. AWALT. Women are always looking for attention and validation in one way or another. It's a fact of nature like leaves on trees. If you're all concerned and nervous about her taking photos of herself then it means you think she's the prize, and you don't see yourself as the prize. If you can't abide the fact or she acts cagey about…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:23 PM
4

Stop mate guarding. She's not the prize. You're the prize here, my man. Nobody gives a shit what some dumb beach bimbo wears. Women in bikinis are a dime a dozen. Why aren't you making sure women notice your nice pecs and abs? Why aren't you flirting with them?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:09 PM
1

Brother, you have my sympathy about your dad. Hopefully he didn't suffer much. We all wish for more time with loved ones, but Covid definitely isn't the worst way to go as far as I know. I don't know what to tell you. Life's rough. It sucks that you had to find out about your GF's awful character at a low time, but at least you don't have to spend any more of your precious time and attention on a woman-child. In any case she was looking to branch swing even before this. It was just the last nail…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:16 PM
2

Who said creating a sense of purpose and a mission had anything to do with women?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:45 AM
1

I don't think you realize that those white knights were jonesing hard to pull you down and stomp you about 30-40 times until a couple of bones collapsed. They were ready to see you puke blood and cry and would have been pretty damn joyful to do it. White knights are dangerous because they're unpredictable and they're goddamn cowardly bloodthirsty piranhas. What I'd guess stopped them was they didn't know each other well, so didn't trust the others to have their back and hold you down. If they'd …
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:40 AM
2

You made a mistake coming to this particular sub to whine about things completely beyond your control. We don't tolerate whiners here. Stop making apologies for things outside your control. That's what the blackpill is, whining mental masturbators who want to drag other people down to the mudpit which is their own preferred state of existence. Like crabs in a bucket. Life isn't fair. An unfair life isn't stopping you from becoming a better version of yourself, maximizing your strengths, and beco…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:18 PM
1

Inasmuch as a young boy respects his mom, yes I suppose that true. They're not mentally equipped to tell the difference between respect and idealization.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:56 PM
2

Partner with anxiety And yet she doesn't have a problem getting and keeping a job. Having an anxiety attack isn't going to kill her. She can keep her shit together in frot of her boss, so why is she mouthing off, pulling shit, and making threats at you? So what does that say about you vs him? That's right, it's because she thinks you're a clown and you're too weak to leave. So I expect if you treat her like a goddamn adult who can handle her own life problems, then she'll do alright.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:12 AM
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Maybe the one thing i can think of is that i gained a lot of weight i am 5’9 and just hit 200 pounds and i am skinny fat, also my diet is shit right now eat like twice a day and its fast food. Havent worked out consistently in years too just been laying down a lot. I just dont feel like myself Of course you don't. Your blood pressure and cholesterol is probably pretty high and you probably haven't been sleeping too well. Am I wrong about that last one? Eat a goddamn spinach salad. Cut sugar and …
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:23 AM
2

My first thought is, have you gotten tested for Celiac disease? One of the insidious effects of Celiac is it causes poor absorption of vitamins. A lot of low level vitamin deficiencies can show up as mental symptoms like lethargy, poor attention, poor short term memory, anxiety, and depression, difficulty sleeping. Particularly vitamin D, B-12, folate, C, iron, and vitamin A. So, getting grains out of your diet and going keto would definitely make a difference if that was the case.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:46 AM
1

You’re right, I just didn’t want to waste time on a date if she was looking for an orbiter from the beginning. False Dilemma. They're always looking for orbiters. They're always looking for the next hot item to acquire.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 10:23 PM
2

Not what next. Whom next? That's what you need to be asking yourself. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 10:20 PM
1

Your ex isn't your mother figure. Stop treating her that way. You moved out of momma's house years ago. Only it seems part of you didn't get that message yet and is still wondering where momma went off to.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 10:16 PM
2

No you're not too harsh. "I'm not interested in people who are flakes. I can only hope you learn some integrity in the future. Goodbye."
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:38 PM
1

So do you agree with all that stuff? Agree with what? You post got deleted?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:43 PM
1

She wants to fuck her friend too. Don't you know jealousy when you hear it? If not you need to take girl #1 down off the massive pedestal you've put her up on. Girls that shit test you this much aren't long term material. Bust girl #1's balls about having the V tingles for her Bff. Go after the friend. Then play them off each other. Then set girl #1 up with girl #2 for shits and giggles. If you're afraid they might decide to date each other instead of you, you've already lost the game.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:32 PM
1

Try hard once with many women.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:19 PM
11

Sometimes when I cum really hard and she is on top I dig my fingers into her back. It's probably that. Someone came in her. Really hard OP listen to this man. He's been there.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:18 PM
4

She was either attacked by a bear or got a rough fucking. If she didn't go into the Rockies and still has her entrails, you've got your answer Say what you want about Leo DiCaprio, The Revenant was a fucking epic movie.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:17 PM
1

Look, if you think the guy is so great and awesome why haven't you asked to unzipbis pants and blow him? You going to sit around counting desperately all the ways your supposedly pathetic little life just doesn't measure up to his? Or are you going to go do something fun and awesome your own damn self? Because nobody's going to have fun for you. It's your life. Make your choice. Just either way, quit fucking whining and pitying yourself about it. You're breaking our hearts here. Fix your frame.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:13 PM
21

That was the original plan, but when your going through it for this long and realize on how much life your missing out on This is called Fear of Missing out or FOMO. Remember the biggest thing you're missing out on doing by far is Not Dying. Everything else is fucking negotiable. you can postpone that other shit if necessary. you wanna start doing more things. You're going to have to be a lot more specific. What things on particular do you want to do? Look, being on chemo is going to put a real …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:22 PM
4

Sucks that you're going through this, man. Life's rough. We're all pulling for you. Remember you're not alone. There are people on your side. So, basically it's looking like they'll have to amputate tour right leg you said? I think if I was in your place I'd probably be depressed too. So, being depressed is a pretty normal response to major life stress. This is also one of the major complications of cancer, that is the mental health toll it takes on people. Would recommend you ask your oncologis…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:17 PM
1

She's looking for marriage and kids. You want to fuck other girls. Seems reasonably clear-cut to me. You're just stringing both you and your LTR along at this point. If you can say to us and say to yourself, yes I can definitely see marriage and kids with this woman and I like the way we connect emotionally with sex, then I'd say you're just having buyer's remorse. If that was the case I'd say stop mentally masturbating about what-ifs when you have a sweet gig lined up. Doesn't sound like that's…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:38 AM
2

Learn welding.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:29 AM
48

One common sign I've found of low T is that you get a blood test and the Dr. tells you your overall testosterone levels are low. Sounds like you had the classic drunken droop. AKA whiskey dick.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:27 AM
23

/thread Move on folks. Nothing else needs to be said here.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:04 AM
7

I mean, you're expecting a cheating married sloot to treat dating with some kind of depth, consideration, or awareness over her actions. It think your expectations of this situation are higher than they need to be. The reality is the slut you observed in the wild is just as shallow and vapid as she seemed. Barely worth a long enough conversation to wrap her warm hole around your erection. Also not sure why you didn't approach and bust her slutty balls, instead of acting all insecure about "oh sh…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:00 AM
2

Cartilage takes a long time to heal. Longer than most other tissues. Don't try to rush it. Don't assume there's a quick fix. Steroids can easily impede the healing process and I wouldn't touch that crap with a 20 foot pole unless an orthopedist tells you it's a no-brainer to do so. (Spoiler alert: he's not going to tell you that because steroids are risky.)
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:42 PM
1

Why are you angry at yourself? Why do you keep treating yourself badly on a regular basis? Why do you keep cheating yourself? Bro, how women may or may not have behaved towards you ain't shit. You're the one making it hard to live on your own mental space. Forgive yourself for being weak and ignorant and vulnerable in the past. Forgive yourself for having normal human shortcomings and join the rest of the goddamn human race. After all being ignorant or weak in the past isn't some kind of felony.…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:35 PM
1

The reason is that she doesn't want to have sex......with you.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:27 PM
2

I prefer not to overthink it. I don't tell other people what gets their dicks stiff, don't try to tell me.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:23 PM
1

Grandparents are the living link to history, and without history you can only be doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past endlessly. Barring them being acrimonious cunts or drug abusers, a man who doesn't treat his grandparents with some deference, care, and respect is simply uncivilized. Remember you can judge the health of any civilization by how clean the rivers are and how elders are treated. So you need to understand contexts where it's acceptable to be the man's man and those were it beho…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:17 PM
65

This may be a bit long so bear with me. Im'a pull out my Vaginal Bullshit Translator here. She says she feels depressed, stressed out, and unhappy. Because she can't fuck Chad Thundercock even though he keeps messaging her. She says its best we start over as friends "I'm not interested in more friends right now. No thanks." because she feels school is a priority and is so stressful, that she feels it's hard juggling school, work stress, and family stress plus she doesn't want me to feel neglecte…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:54 PM
1

What does it matter how your girlfriend views you? That changes depending on any given minute. Stop listening to some crap that she said. Either she fucks you good and blows you whenever, or she doesn't.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:05 PM
4

Your title is a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of high order. This Narrative of feeling has one purpose, one aim, one reason for existing, in the same way that the aim of taking power is to gain more power. It doesn't exist because of any external facts or reality. How your GF actually feels or behaves towards you is irrelevant. The narrative exists to destroy your GF's attraction to placate your ego. Understand this and fix your damn frame. Then stop giving a fuck what your GF thinks of you. You're t…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:16 PM
2

Anger is a tool and you have to use it tactically like a laser. Don't swing it around like the first time you had an erection as a kid. Definitely don't do it when someone is baiting you.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:31 AM
1

Read about the Grey Rock Technique.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:26 AM
6

This whole social distancing thing is causing attention seeking hos everywhere to lose their goddamn minds.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:22 AM
1

10k is an OK down payment on a condo, depending where you live. I'm not saying you should profit on others misfortune, but it's looking like Q4 is going to be a buyer's market, but who knows. Just be sure you follow around the building inspector and ask a bunch of questions. Ask the neighbors. The big downside is it's going to be a couple years before you'll turn some equity on it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:02 AM
1

Suicidal people need immediate professional intervention. Don't try to help them yourself. Straight up tell them that and coach them to set that crap up. This isn't a time to fuck around. "Look I don't really have the training to help you there. I understand what you're going through but this is above my pay grade. Here's number you need to call. I want you to call your psychiatrist and set up an appointment. Any chance you'd be willing to do that? Or call the suicide lifeline. I'm going to hang…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:46 PM
1

GOOD. Tell her to come over to your house and bring a six pack. Then go do something else besides checking your phone every 15 minutes.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:34 AM
15

Social media is a real sickness.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:31 AM
-6

This isn't a club. Stop gatekeeping.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:22 AM
2

Do you even lift, bro. Don't be fearful or desperate. Don't give a fuck. Don't be undisciplined. Don't be boring. Guarantee 95 of the simps on IG an SC fail on all of these counts.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:14 AM
-5

Who cares?
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:12 AM
3

So what if she does mention you? What's it to you? I try my best to explain Always D.A.R.E., never D.E.E.R. that I don't deal with extreme exclusivities in early relationships This isn't something you're likely to be able to just "explain" to women. Either they see you as high value and they want to go the distance to acquire you, or you're just the low hanging fruit. Acta non verba. but I get lost in translation. Acta non Verba Tell them straight up that it takes time for you to decide to be ex…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:18 AM
6

Because learned helplessness on the cattle is useful for its control by a certain group of people in power. It's not just the ignorant proles that are like that. They're learning the overall mentality from someone. Having unreasonable amounts of wealth, notoriety, influence can easily be incredibly isolating, if you're not someone with the judgement and personal boundaries to tell who genuinely cares about you and who doesn't. Extreme wealth is not terribly healthy. Not just that but it really i…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:33 PM
3

Women are dominant towards their children, not towards men. That's because historically, they didn't want to be killed. The problem is, those children eventually grow into adults.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:37 PM
3

You don't. You take her down off the pedestal you've put her on. Then stop concerning yourself about something you have very little control over. When she starts saying no on a regular basis, you simply say "no" to the relationship and start packing up her stuff. Not willing to dump her for refusing sex regularly? Congratulations- you deserve the worst she has to offer. Go crawl back into your self-pity hole where you came from.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:34 PM
2

Nothing at all and ignore.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:31 PM
2

But he just said he's doing it one time so it has to be right He says that now but I doubt it'll be the only time.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:30 PM
2

There's only one thing worse than being talked about by a plate's friends. That is, not being talked about by them. Go radio silent for a week or three, then invite her over again. The fact that they give a shit about you indicates they're jealous. Your plate wasn't born yesterday. They wouldn't give a fuck if you were a nobody. Women know jealousy when they smell that shit.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:27 PM
3

Supply and demand.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:24 PM
2

Why does you own past affect you so badly? How you you put a stop to that? What any given woman has done ain't shit. You only care about WTF a woman did in the past, by way of comparison. Envy. It's a real disease. Step 1) forgive yourself for being ignorant or inexperienced and doing foolish Immature crap in the past. Everyone has. Step 2) stop trying to compare yourself to women.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:21 PM
2

I mean, sure, if you're only with a woman for excitement and entertainment, then yes. That all depends on what your emotional needs in a relationship are.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:18 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:16 PM
5

These are typical traits of Narcissistic Leadership (and toddlers to be exact,) Narcissists are basically people who stopped maturing emotionally beyond childhood for whatever reason. The issue is there are too many Baby-men in positions of power, who have way too much money so they're protected from the consequences of their immaturity. Once you understand what Narcissistic Leadership is, you start seeing that crap everywhere.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:22 PM
2

Who cares...
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:17 PM
2

Great. No need to bother texting her. You're free to do more valuable crap.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:27 PM
3

Only question is, did you get her a bag of Skittles? Guy sounds like a real cringey thirsty fucker. Who the fuck buys a coworker some edgy borderline inappropriate rug for her birthday. Nothing about this says mental competence or high value. If her bragging about it and trying to rustle your jimmies, bothers you, go do something else for the weekend. Go basically radio silent and go camping or some shit.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:33 AM
1

Should at least mail her driver's license back to her ass. Or tell her to come over and pick it up before you charge her a finder's fee.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:57 PM
1

Mate let me ask you a couple of questions. Is your mom still alive? Were you literally starving or freezing at many times in your childhood? Did she at least help you with homework once or twice? Are you able to call her up and have a 95% pleasant conversation without her throwing a tantrum, insulting you, or dictating demands to you? Are you able to ask small favors from her such as helping you with moving or storing some of your things, or co-signing on a car loan? If so then show a little mor…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:48 PM
1

The only thing people need to understand about Prince is that he wasn't fucking boring.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:55 AM
1

AWALT Alpha fucks, beta bucks.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:53 AM
3

H
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:52 AM
1

My mom and step-father critize me all the time, Read about how to pass shit tests. Give them a smug-ass grin and Roast them back. Be a salty bastard....at least within reason. Remember that sarcasm is the brain's immune system against useless people. Tell them, "look no offense but if you don't have something positive to tell me that I can real use, then what good are you? Tell me something I can use." I'm never good enough, other people my age are doing this blah blah. Ask them why they're not …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:25 AM
1

Just so you know, you're an adult now. Your mother figure is fucking gone. She's not coming back. You moved out of your parents house a while ago. And let's face it your actual mom was kind of a bitch and didn't give a shit about you a lot of the time. Your ex is not your fucking mother figure. Glad we straightened that out. You're welcome,by the way.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:37 AM
1

something something "deeply entrenched" insecurities This is some typical self-pity and self-intolerance type shit. Stop pitying yourself. Nothing is entrenched. Nothing is engrained. Nothing about you is intolerable. This too shall pass given enough effort and practice. but I continue to deal with the crippling effects of bullying and being picked on, Who the hell hasn't been? You're not a special snowflake here. Fucking everyone has been bullied. In the rare case of people who haven't, (home s…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:15 AM
1

I get back pain during lifting and bending sometimes. Can deal usually but more than a few times I just have to lay down on the ground and avoid puking. This is due to working in a physically demanding job for 15 years after high school and not always having good technique. Your back doesn't regrow for shit. There's no really good back surgical options unlike, say knees or hips. If in doubt, don't fuck with your back. "I want to get shredded as fast as possible" is a dumbass reason to injure you…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:19 AM
2

I don't tell you what gives you a boner. Stop trying to tell women what ought to make them moist.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:35 AM
0

Huh? I have to say I don't give other people's masturbation preferences much thought at all. So why do I care what sometime ex-wankers think about me? I suspect this Dr.K would tell you to inject bleach up your asshole if he thought it would get him more precious views.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:23 AM
6

You spelled "Ex-girlfriend" wrong.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:54 PM
10

"Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:21 PM
3

You know...... Nevermind, I'm not even going to touch this shit. SIDEBAR.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:20 PM
3

I've never met someone with such an absolute lack of insecuity Their insecurities are typically a lot simpler than those of adults. They fear a loss of attention and fear boredom, like say, two year olds do. They fear others thinking critically about them and fear a percieved loss of control. They just don't express those fears in ways you'd recognize or identify with as an adult. Guilt, remorse, shame, honesty, consequences, what're those? You think he's not insecure because he doesn't have gui…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:12 PM
2

The way I figure it women want to feel like she's Doctor Love, and all her clueless friends need to come to her for approval to grab the hot items. It's basically Bureaucratic type fuckery. No, she's not actually going to help women score whom she knows are better than her. That's not how bureaucracy works.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:46 AM
6

I’ll tell myself that I won’t look at photos of my old oneitis, but then I find myself going on iCloud photos looking at old photos the next day. Mate the only person on the planet who gives a single shit whether or not you look at old photos of some chick, is you. You're not out committing robbery or anything. I'm sure she's a nice looker and you had some good times. So this sounds a lot more like here you're setting yourself up so you can feel sorry for yourself, by shifting the goalposts. You…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:25 AM
5

Whose society? Which one? One society falls, 2-3 younger less developed ones rise to fill the void. People who keep mentally masturbating about this decline shit forget that nature and power always fills a vacuum. Invariably they're poor students of history. Stop being myopic.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:18 AM
1

Cheers. Read about Ambiguous Loss. Some people are pretty weak against that kind of ambiguity and it really fucks with them mentally. "Are they still here or are they really gone?"
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:55 AM
5

This is a holdback from your relationship with your own mom and some of the ways that would have been frustrated as a child. It's like a navel. Everyone has them- completely useless as an independent adult. Just looking at this comment it really sounds like you're conflating the role of a mother figure, with your ex. A lot of people learn as toddlers to associate ambiguous boundaries with a lack of attention from parents, for whatever reason. For a young child this is a pretty unpleasant situati…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:45 PM
6

Both camps have the same goal of 'just getting by'. My engineering friends are all very conscientious and hard working, but they seem to have no interest in pursuing anything beyond the cushy corporate job. I see. So your friends have some values and tastes that differ from your own. You're just going to have to deal with the cognitive dissonance, man. You'll feel better when you're making 3x as much money as them. I feel disheartened to see them just get by because they should be capable of so …
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:27 PM
4

Let me ask you this. Is sending a what you consider a closure message, going to get you paid cash? Is it going to make women want to please you sexually and want to pursue you? I doubt it would actually be fun. I doubt it's going to keep you from getting maimed or killed in some way. If not, then why the fuck would you do something unfun? You're probably not going to like the answer as why it's really feels so fucking important.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:15 PM
2

might it possibly be because of my race? Iron Rule of Thomassi #1.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:56 PM
1

Don't you have anything better to do with your time and consideration, than worry about how soon and how often you message some girl whom you aren't fucking? When you get around to responding. That's when.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:54 PM
1

Of course. Everyone is always rejected for anything good.... until the point when they aren't. Grow a backbone, keep trying, and improve your frame.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:42 PM
1

I’ve been diagnosed with major depression for the past 2 years my levels last year were 414 now their 274 and I feel even worse and powerless because of my bad life situation (I won’t go into) It's not a big mystery that serious life distress/emotional distress are going to reduce testosterone levels. Juicing/TRT isn't going to just magically cure a shitty life situation. Nor is it going to treat depression. Make no mistake. In that situation it's likely to just make you angrier. The doctor trie…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:41 PM
1

Stopped reading after you mentioned this isn't the first time she's pulled this drama. Don't date Borderlines. HARD NEXT.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:26 PM
3

It's called being a man, brother. Telling your bitchy mom to get lost, you're leaving home. Or telling it to some broad who acts like your bitch mom.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:44 AM
1

Wrong sub. Slash r slash gloomers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:36 PM
1

This is wild, my dude.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:33 PM
1

Been using condoms?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:31 PM
4

Women's desire to be nice to you depends entirely on what they feel your SMV is. They weren't nice to you because you were a clueless, feckless insecure wanker in high school. That's why. Therefore you were boring and annoying. If you want people to respect you, develop strength and competence.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:30 PM
9

Why aren't you helping the BP guy in the mirror? That guy needs to get woken up a hell of a lot more than your man-crush does. Focus on unfucking yourself. Stop responding to his needy Borderline-type texts. If he wants to act like a little bitch, how much value is he really bringing to your life, realistically?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:24 PM
2

Yeah. You get crushed hard and repeatedly enough, you wake the fuck up and stop sabotaging yourself. Or you start taking opiates, OD, and do the planet a solid. That's the positive effect that happens. Let us know when you're tired of the cringe. Next question?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:19 PM
1

Does it ever get tiring? Desperately trying to compare yourself to other "healthy males." I mean clearly you must somehow not be healthy or manly enough. Am I wrong? As many times as you feel like before your dick gets too sore.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:14 PM
4

Mate if you really like them some much, you should message them and offer to let them spit-roast you. You know you want to. body dysmorphia This is another flavor of Learned Helplessness. Mentally Masturbating about your appearance and obsessively comparing yourself to others are ways you're rationalizing being helpless. So is feeling you'll never measure up to some impossible standard you created only you care about. Stop mentally masturbating. When are you going to get tired of comparing yours…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:06 PM
1

Cheers.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:57 PM
3

Depression is a natural response to a hostile environment that isn't getting your emotional needs met. If you had to walk 5 hours just to get a jug of water to keep you and your chickens alive for the next few days, you'd probably be depressed too. So you need to decide what you really need emotionally. Humans are social creatures and we need intimacy, vulnerability, and trust. Don't think you can just turn yourself into an island of self-possession. Ultimately that tends to be a form of self-ha…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:09 PM
2

It seems like to me that most people my age have had miles more experience than me Classic Fear of Missing out of FOMO. This tends to be a side effect of spending too much time on social media, and starting to believe it's for real. News flash, it isn't real. I have family problems and I’ve never really felt ‘loved’ And maybe you never will. If not, then what are you going to do about it? Why not love yourself, instead? You can at least fuck some hot bitches, then get paid. Women's love is kind …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:24 AM
1

I hate them because I came to understand their nature : not loyal, cheaters, manipulators… they disgust me and I despise them. OK. Pretty sure women aren't the problem here. Why do you disgust and hate yourself? Why are you disloyal to yourself? Why do you keep cheating yourself? That's the real problem right there. Those are the questions you need to be answering. Women ain't shit. It's the guy in the mirror and you only hate them because they remind you that you're not at peace with yourself. …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:57 AM
2

Buy a couple different brands and different sizes and try them on. Like, 5 different options. If the show fits, wear it. Relax, you're not the first person to buy a shitload of condoms from a drug store.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:37 PM
8

So i have a plate im trying to turn into an ltr and i know shes seeing other guys rn. You're the prize here. She needs to be trying to turn you into an LTR. You got this shit backwards. So she tried sending me nudes the other night and i kinda rejected them said i didnt want them. Good. Women need to hear this shit. They can't just drop their clothes and expect to be liked or chased after by high quality men. They need to actually be kind and feminine. and i know shes sending them to other guys …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:33 PM
1

Nice username. We on the internet cannot read her mind. Ask her what's up with her attitude lately. Tell her if you said or did something that pissed her off, now is the right time to tell you about it, you're listening. Then, if she says you did XYZ and it's a legit mistake, then say "OK, you're right that was insensitive and I won't do it again." Then tell If she's having some kind of problems, maybe you can help out. Either way you're tired of her low key hostility. So either tell you what's …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:22 PM
9

There are 6 big factors I can think of that lead to obesity. Genetics, Sugar, Refined starches, Lack of Vegetables, Lack of daily exercise, Chronic Emotional Distress. In the USA: 1) Sugar everywhere 2) Packaged junk food everywhere. 3) vegetables are more expensive 4) People are too lazy or too overworked to cook for themselves. 5) It's difficult to walk or ride your bike to run errands in the USA. Parking is free, fuel is cheap and heavily subsidized. Public transport sucks balls in the US. In…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:00 PM
0

What can I do? Don't do long distance relationships.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:57 PM
2

Attempted suicide Death was the last thing on her mind. She just wanted to suck someone back into orbit around her, like a hoover vacuum cleaner. Stop orbiting around her and go zero contact. I don't want to let her go as she is an amazing woman You'll find out later this was largely based on exaggeration and lies, or at the very best, what you think you know about her "goodness" is only half the story. You won't be impressed by the half she's no telling you. and treats me 100% better than I des…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:37 AM
1

Yeah, selling things on ebay is called documented "evidence."
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:54 PM
1

Psychopathy and sociopathy are informal terms for Antisocial Personality Disorder. They refer, in vague ways, to traits common to that disorder. Antisocials are not people that don't give a fuck, much to the contrary they are usually full of infantile rage and are extremely self-destructive because of it. They are also typically extremely needy and very insecure below the surface despite a lack of normal expression. They usually respond to anything percieved as criticism by lashing out in extrem…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:52 PM
1

Not sure why her thirstiness is your immediate fucking concern. Just screams low value and cluelessness to me. Show to current LTR and have a laugh at her desperation. Then block.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:13 PM
2

Get a driver's license first.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:07 PM
1

Self-Pity is really a sickness and you need to eliminate it from your headspace.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:06 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:03 PM
1

Kid, do we look like Urologists? Do you see any white labcoats around here? Any framed MD's? Talk to an actual Physician.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:53 PM
1

You're the prize here. Why isn't she trying to recover? If she isn't trying, NEXT
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:13 PM
1

Depends on what it is. Certain gen-3 antipsychotics are often used for depression. Possible orange flag that should definitely get your Spidey senses on alert, but don't lose your shit and flip the table. I'd care more about things like unstable/unreliable behavior, mood swings, anger/jealousy, selective memory, disrespect, or demanding. Also check her job history.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:11 PM
8

Lying about sexual past AWALT
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:04 PM
6

See: dual independent mating strategy.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:02 PM
1

Stop sticking your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:44 PM
1

A lot of you are going to say don’t shit where you eat GTFO kid.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:41 PM
1

Well, you can just call me Hugh Hefner, if that's the case.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:40 PM
1

I’m a 15 year old guy (I guess you could say a nice guy). A week or so ago I basically asked a girl who I had been talking to on snapchat from my school (like a nice guy would) out politely. She basically told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship yet. Great! I'm proud of you. Shows the kind of testicular fortitude you'll need in the future. Tap into that IDGAF strength, and you'll find there's more where that came from. Cheers mate. 1 down, plenty more to go. Now go approach other women. Meanw…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:39 PM
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I've found trail biking or rowing helps clear my head. Nothing like some nice scenery and sunshine to add to your workout. I've done some of my best thinking out in the nature.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:22 PM
3

This is called Learned-Helplessness. The point of this particular form of LH is to keep you being boring and beneath notice. Stop being boring. Be a smug sassy asshole.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:20 PM
2

TL,DR: I need to end the relationship with my girl, I just don't know how to do it as respectfully as possible Better to be a fast asshole, than an ass-dragging little bitch. Keep the conversation down to 15 seconds or so. Don't argue. Pack your things up when she's out of the house, or if you don't live together, even better. Then tell her it's over, you take responsibility for the decision, your feelings have changed, and it's not her personally and the less you try to explain the better. 5 se…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:15 PM
1

This may be a bit long, so bear with me. I am 18 right now and no it's not really done anything. It just worries me how my future will turn out Hmm. So what are your plan A and plan B? It's fine you're worried about your future, but you don't have a few concrete plans of things to do to improve it, large or small? That's going to be a bigger issue right there. I think the reason you're trying to blame masturbation and running the shame-wheel around in your head is so you can avoid seriously comm…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:00 AM
0

I don't feel too bad about a bunch of variously fascist personality cult dicksuckers being sacked. Like most personality cults their presumed lord and savior couldn't care less if they died in a fire as long as it doesn't affect his poll numbers, which can be cooked anyway. People need to stop sucking the cocks of authority figures. Just don't.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:46 PM
2

Rule #1 of fight club. Rule #2 of fight club.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:18 PM
2

I'm usually a not give a shit type of dude Denial isn't just a river in Africa. but she clearly works with Alpha military guys. You're right. Maybe you should ask those hot alpha guys for permission to give them a blowjob. Fix your frame, my dude. She is super independent and has so much freaking attitude. Sounds like she wants you to punish her. if anyone else has dealt with these types of girls surrounded by dudes 24/7. AWALT Either she's willing to fuck you or else she isn't. Nobody gives a s…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:16 PM
1

Improve your push pull game.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:04 AM
4

I hate it . It's become a habit. It's called a libido. If you don't have any plates or a LTR, might want to fix that. What plan do you have to start spinning some plates? But in the meantime, nobody cares if you masturbate sometimes. We're not the Penis Police. You're a horny dude do what you need to do. Theres literally nothing to do. Go ride your damn bicycle. It's a nice day outside. Enjoy some exercise. Its ruined my life You mean, you got blacklisted in your career and did jail time because…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 03:50 AM
1

Stop trying to tell society what it can and can't do. Lead by example and become the change you truly want to see in the world, instead. Just be certain it's not actually worse place than where you are now. Enjoy the decline All societies, languages, cultures, and countries rise and all civilizations fall. The wheel of Samsara continues to roll, while slowly, gradually we learn from the past over the centuries. Innovate or die.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:36 PM
3

We’re supposed to hang out today but I’m not really horny (lack of sleep maybe) Reschedule for another day, then take a nap.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:32 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:29 PM
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Either care, or else don't. Either be loving if you like her, or else don't. You don't need to "show" her jack shit. Stop seeking Validation from women.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:28 PM
1

Rice and legumes.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:49 AM
1

It can to a point, In that you can afford to see the doctor when you're sick, go to the dentist, see therapist for mental health issues. You can afford time to cook and eat non industrialized frozen crap. You can afford free time to exercise and socialize, or move away from toxic family members. You can afford childcare help. Beyond a certain point though it tends to isolate you socially and family wise and that is a predictor of all kinds of negative health effects.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:46 AM
1

You don't like them much as people. You just like how they make you feel in the moment.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:40 AM
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As a result, some of the girls are real bitchy towards me. Or they pretend to not know and act fake. Tends to be a Self-Fulfilling Prophesy and you really need to be careful with feeling-narratives like this. I don’t feel respected. I think part of you fears you're unworthy of respect. This also tends to be a Self-Fulfilling Prophesy. It's a form of circular mental masturbation whose purpose is to keep you feeling "stuck" and keep you from being proactive about something. In any case women tend …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:38 AM
1

I got a serous ass problem. My girl has these simps telling her to leave me. The generally recognized term around here is Orbiters. What reason might they have to say that? We got into a fight and now her simps are telling her to leave. Nobody cares about orbiters. She's shit testing you because you lost frame in a big way in a crisis It's just that simple. You acted butthurt. You got defensive. You D.E.E.R -ed when you should have D.A.R.E.-ed. Now she doesn't trust your strength leadership. Me …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:16 AM
1

Being rejected from the local beta simp club because they were too jealous is hardly a setback. It's like graduating. Remember you can judge a lot about someone by who they choose to be friends with. So frankly I'm just surprised you weren't already tired of them reflecting badly on you by association.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 12:18 AM
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There a huge amount of disagreement on what the definition of either of those things is. Most people who use the terms aren't using them in a well defined and we'll agreed upon way. They tend to use them as pejorative terms and not as an explanation. So it tends to be just a straw-man for whatever political philosophy they feel they don't agree with. EDIT: Notice you'll see a lot of people equating this with laziness, weakness or bitterness in the responses to the post, basically using it like a…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Even in situations where I actually wanted it to end, There are always going to be clingers out there that are going to whine, drag things out, try to stir shit, and seek validation even after people give them exactly what they wanted. Stop being that clingy guy. Do you think being the dumper is good for the soul? Having better things to do with your time and energy than clinging and chasing the "closure," is good for the soul. Maybe next time I'll actively try to dump the girl first. Not going …
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:18 PM
2

Because it's fun and exciting. That's why.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:04 PM
0

Look, I get what you're saying and I sympathize with what you're going through. You need to find better ways of dealing with pent up feelings of frustration, shame, and anxiety. Right now you're dealing by just trying to hold that crap down until it blows. Then you flip your shit, self-sabotage, and then wallow in self-pity to everyone who will listen. Remember that there aren't a lot of things that are less worth your valuable time energy and thought than indulging in self-pity and self-loathin…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:02 PM
1

The issue seems to be that you're a impulsive drinker and it causes you to seriously lose frame. Stop getting drunk. Hard Limit yourself to two drinks. Most women aren't interested in a guy when he gets sloppy drunk and is clearly not in charge of his mental facilities. If saying no to a third drink when buzzed is too much of a challenge, then you need to rethink some of your beliefs and priorities.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:41 PM
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There's this one girl.... Only plate I've been seeing for the past 6 months I'm desperate to interpret her cosmically important thoughts and actions. http://archive.is/gnsaU The issue is that you decided to be a phaggot and didn't read the sidebar to see if the answer to your problem could be found there. Stop being a phaggot. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:34 PM
2

Upper chest pain isn't terribly specific. This is a common symptom of panic/anxiety attacks. I would expect that a panic attack would be a likely cause, considering your age and family situation. See if you can get an automatic blood pressure cuff. If your blood pressure is high at the time you're experiencing chest pain but low otherwise, might be a good indication of anxiety issues. Could also be caused by asthma. That can often be triggered by stress. Most common asthma symptom is feeling sho…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:29 PM
1

AWALT. It's called estrogen toxicity. The only question is, is it the kind of baggage that's entertaining and can be used to gain value, or is it the kind of baggage that will just stink up your house.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:16 PM
1

Why aren't you forgiving yourself for being self-absorbed. It's not some kind of felony. What are they going to do, make you attend court ordered therapy for your intractable self-absorbtion? Other people's self-absorbtion ain't shit. Go take a look in the damn mirror and forgive that guy for being a regular human being. Stop mentally masturbating about other people's fault you have no control over.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:12 PM
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Move out and go limited contact.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:39 AM
1

Found the narc.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:47 AM
1

They see him as the prize.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:47 PM
0

Learn welding or machining.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:46 PM
5

There's only one thing worse than being gossiped about by women, and that's not being gossiped about by them. Remember women are attracted to controversy and drama.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:44 PM
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Pretty big straw-man you've constructed there. Because we obviously we can’t afford to be vulnerable. [Citation needed] Vulnerability isn't the same as weakness. Being vulnerable, trusting, and letting your guard down around people is fine. Just don't be naive, infantile, needy, desperate, or a codependent orbiter, don't be a weak little child. It is a trait of betas and children to conflate vulnerability with weakness and needing something from someone else, all into one concept. Both women and…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:27 PM
1

Why aren't you approaching other women and spinning other plates? Your first-stage oneitis has everything to do with self-sabotage. Stop sabotaging yourself like a hand-wringing simp, and approach other women.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:35 PM
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I don’t even understand why they lie abt this makes absolutely no sense Most of the things women accuse men of are really confessions. Being shallow. Being focused on looks. Being sex obsessed, sexism, violence, being horny all the time. They don't want to give the game away. Remember that reputation is much more important to women. In a lot of cultures a bad reputation can get you killed, although that's true for men as well.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:55 AM
1

Change major, dumbass. Learn to program Arduino and PLC's (programmable logic controllers)
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:39 AM
2

"Superior", you say? Iron Rule of Thomassi #8 You need to fix your inner frame. Men often worry that women are going to laugh at them. Women often worry that men are going to rape or kill them. So, take off her pants. Do you see a penis? If you don't, chances are she worries sometimes that you have the power to rape or kill her. So just how superior to you do you think she actually feels? But go ahead. Try to change your mind. Remember that if you spend enough time mentally masturbating about ju…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:09 AM
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Even not-hot girls need to get a little free dick sometimes. Consider it a public service.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:47 PM
1

This may be a bit long, so bear with me. I had to learn the hard way after a lot of crying, with my boyfriend not wanting to marry me and me still wanting to be with him. When a man tells you he's not marriage and husband material, or implies through his actions that he's not interested in marriage, Believe Him. He also said he wanted me to be the mother of his kids and I really want that too. Unlike marriage, that's hardly a big challenge for a man. Only takes him about 30 sec to 10 minutes. Ba…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 07:51 PM
4

Good old cat fight. Remember, there's only one thing worse than being talked about by women, and that's not being talked about by them.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:41 PM
1

This plate may very well be broken and that’s okay. Any advice on how to handle this is appreciated! Spin other plates.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:45 PM
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Plate told me she’s been getting real close to our coworker and that he’s there for here more, talks to her everyday, etc. And if she was an LTR, that might mean something. She's free to fuck him or not if she so chooses. Stop getting your jimmies rustled by her dread game. But of course this disrespectful behavior is proving that she's only plate material. Ask her if she thinks he's into pegging. and essentially said she wants that to me with those traits. Oooops. You paid a lot of attention to…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:43 PM
2

saying she wants us both to apologize. Hopefully you know by now, how awesome that would go. She dangles the carrot of "maybe I might have sex with you in the future" in order to pump him for information. Like a good little rat. Narcissists and Borderlines can't process rejection. It ramps up their circular mental diarrhea to warp speed, and results in your typical stalker behaviors. Should cut all contact with him because he's a thirsty little snitch. Guy's no genius. He doesn't know how this g…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:24 PM
1

Testing your tolerance for crazy. Expect much more drama where that stuff came from, if you continue investing your time and attention in her.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:11 AM
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Just because you have sex with someone doesn't mean they owe you anything or you owe them something you didn't agree to. There's nothing unjust about casual sex.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:36 PM
1

I feel like I'm invisible to women This a Self-Fulfilling Prophesy, of the first order. You felt this way, well before you started being interested in dating girls. It doesn't matter how you believe women see you. You need to fix your frame. You need to take women down off that mile-high pedestal you've put them up on, because this ain't Trafalgar Square and they're not Admiral Nelson.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:28 PM
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Its not the ring I'm worried about. I'm sure she will try to hurt my reputation now. Character Assassination is almost impossible to get ahead of once someone decides to engage in it. Unfortunately most people are credulous fuckers and don't want to think that their friends and family might have a hidden agenda behind spilling secrets, even though they often do. You may have to start preemptively fighting dirty here and nuke this one from orbit, by poisoning the well. This all depends on how muc…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:47 PM
1

Whining about shit you cannot control by definition, isn't a way to earn anyone's respect. You gain respect by being hardcore.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:54 AM
1

I definitely leaning towards the batshit crazy theory. Most of the women I've talked to have been groped by grabasstic desperate simps at least one point in their lives. Subways are prime real estate for those kind of bottom feeders. So hugging randos on public transport seems pretty insane to me. Good way to get punched.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:49 AM
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"Boy/girl nursery ideas" I thought, damn there are probably way more egregious stories than this Unless she's already pregnant, definitely wrap it up.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:29 AM
1

Your little guy downstairs knows what's up. He knows what you like and what you don't. Trust the man downstairs. Don't overthink it. It's just your ego trying to tell you "oh no, you shouldn't have done that. You, you, you should have acted like a real-man™" I'd definitely feel a little sketchy myself fucking in a room with a bunch of pics of the chick's boyfriend. Mostly because I'd be like "wow, this bitch is real heartless, like a block of granite in Antarctica."
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:25 AM
1

It's normal to get cold feet for some people. Recognize your fear, and do anyway. Once you've done it enough times you'll stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:22 AM
2

You have to ask yourself a couple questions first. 1) Are you the Masturbation Police? 2) Are you getting paid cash for being the masturbation police? If not, focus on things that are actually getting you paid and getting your dick wet. Now, if your LTR is actually making excuses and turning you down for sex multiple times in a row, then you might have a bigger problem.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:52 PM
1

Who cares, as long as she's not turning me down for blowjobs? What am I, the masturbation police? As long as she's not smoking go fast or something, I don't care what she does in the bathroom. Don't try to be the masturbation police.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:40 PM
1

I tend to do it by getting to know people and discarding people who show low value behaviors.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:37 PM
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Dopamine detox So, Parkinson's Disease you mean? This literally what Parkinson's Disease is. Diminished dopamine production. Look it up. The treatment is the immediate dopamine precursor called Levodopa. This is some real BroScience type malarkey. This is the cancer trying to sell itself as the cure. Stop sabotaging yourself and unwind a little. No wonder you're more tightly wound than a goddamn axle on a drag racer. Are you lifting? Are you getting cardio multiple times a week? Are you furtheri…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:29 PM
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Obviously ditching a date I don't really find attractive is beneath me so I don't do it. I dunno, my Nice-Guy meter is starting to beep here a little. Sounds like you've done it before and the woman got butthurt about it and sent a bunch of angry texts. Just politely excuse yourself, say, "look, nothing personal but I'm just not feeling it," and pay your tab, if any. Women need to hear this shit. There are men out there who aren't going to waste time hanging on their every word and don't give a …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:04 PM
2

Flirting wise, I'm not that great through text. As much as you reasonably can, use texting for logistics only, to set up meetings in person. Don't attempt to "develop a relationship" over text. That's what actual dates are for. Remember it's better for people to suspect you might be needy or desperate, than to push the "send" button and remove all doubt. I know that first of all I need to hit the gym and put on weight as I'm currently 65 kg (150lbs) underweight. I lost 15 kg (34 lbs) during the …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:08 PM
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Toughen up, softie. Put on your armor. You're going to get turned down. That's the game. Don't be afraid to take a couple hits. Apply to as many jobs as possible. It's all about the numbers. Getting turned down for any given job isn't a big deal when you've got the ball rolling at 30 other companies. Keep calling their asses every few days until they either agree to interview, tell you when you can start, or tell you to stop calling.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:17 PM
1

We've been talking and she said she's extremely attracted to me and is willing to meet alone. She is deeply in love with her man, the Marriage Experience™. They always say that. And it's true whenever it needs to be for them. Just let the guy tell her he's having second thoughts about wedding some time, though. She'll get real ugly and change her tune in about 1.5 seconds. Then out come the crocodile tears and deeply ironic accusations of cheating. What she means is she loves eating her deliciou…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:13 PM
1

Who cares. I'm not wasting any more time on her.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:19 AM
1

I’m not emotional at all but there is that craving to fuck or be intimate with a girl. Stop being boring. Learn to fuck a woman's emotions first. You're putting the cart in front of the horse here.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:18 AM
1

My desire to keep seeing a plate ends at blatant disrepect. Bitch, go stomp someone else's balls. You're not my bro. You did alright.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:14 AM
2

Pressure flip.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:59 AM
10

So what you're asking is for the social expectation of showing up at a given time in the morning, yield precedence to some other kind of performance goal. So what happens when the person or people you're working for don't care about time constraints like that? Well, then the expectation tends to naturally fall onto work, work, work, perform perform, perform. "We don't care where or when you show up as long as it's delivered by Thursday." In that situation you have to negotiate a lot harder in or…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:19 PM
2

I’ve tried so many times to subtly teach one of my beat mates trp but it makes no difference. You don’t truly understand how deep rooted BP mindsets are until this point. I agree You might like to read "The Hero with a Thousand Faces" by Joseph Campbell. Everyone has many mythical ideas and narratives about the world and their relation to it. That's how the subconscious works. Whether it's realistic or not is largely irrelevant. We're invested in these narratives, and people aren't just going to…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:05 PM
1

Wait, who is the one seeking validation, here? That's exactly what trying to rescue your bro from his presumed misery is. So this seems to be a pretty ironic concern of yours, in my opinion. Why aren't you rescuing yourself? Stop being Captain Save-a-Bitch. Orbiting around women isn't some kind of felony. Your bro will be OK, and at worst he can go masturbate or hire an escort or something. He's fine being just the way he is, and If he truly needs help or is serious about not being fine, then hi…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 02:35 PM
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Rule #1 of fight club. Rule #2 of fight club.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 02:56 AM
1

Everyone who has ever asked this question has always needed rescuing themselves, a hell of a lot more than they needed to "change" any dumb chick. Get your head screwed on the right way. Codependency is a hell of a drug. Why aren't you rescuing yourself from codependency?
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:22 AM
2

Call for a meeting. Then start out by setting the goalposts and the time frame. Write it large on the whole whiteboard. Set the timeframe a little bit under what you think is reasonable.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:02 AM
1

I work with my ex girlfriend, who used to be such a great girl Negative. You probably had early stage oneitis. You see her deeper character now, that she thinks there nothing she wants from you. but has now become a hoe, sleeping around with numerous guys and avoiding an actual relationship, Who gives a damn? Worry about things you can actually control which actually bring value to your life in exchange for your concern and judgement. Your ex's lifestyle clearly isn't one of those things. Worryi…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 12:50 AM
2

Look into learning welding.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:50 PM
1

The thing is in the eyes of society I'm a worthless piece of shit. Iron Rule of Thomassi #9: Never self-deprecate under any circumstances. I just read a post on trp about "never let your women see your weak side she'll dump you" with all the comments agreeing. This is called being afraid to lose some particular woman and putting her opinion of you up on a massive pedestal. I think overall this shows that such people have a lack of chill and stoicism. It's true to the extent that betas think thei…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:05 PM
1

Because you act like you don't don't give a shit if she leaves. You're not a needy teenager. Never be afraid to lose her. Also look into learning machining. It takes a certain type but you can make a serious living. You'll never be out of a job for more than a month if you're good.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:37 AM
3

Threesome.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:57 AM
4

Pressure flip. "Hey, I don't care if you're easy or not.Just don't be boring. Are you boring?"
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:16 AM
1

so where did the energy that created the big bang come from? You end up running into the same kind of conundrum with this, as the question "what happened before the big bang?" It's a circular question according to known physics, and the only way around the circular reasoning is presupposing the existence of physical laws there's as of yet no good evidence for. Neither time nor energy existed before TBB in some kind of meaningful sense. What happened before there was time? How much energy was the…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 05:47 AM
1

I identify myself as a RP guy almost to an extent that I see RP as a religion of sorts. There is no true or real religion. Better to just stick to simple facts. So I am slowly starting to RP the objective truth of the world. There is no meaningful objective truth, and even if there were, the human mind will never be equipped to grasp it. Nor is it necessary to know the truth. What's necessary is an effective strategy. That's what you really need. You don't need "truth." When people talk about so…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:10 PM
5

This is going to be long, so bear with me. It's time for you and I to have a little pep talk. and feel trapped with this whole situation. You're not a victim. Stop acting that way. Being in an LTR because you want to be in your child's life is a privilege. Don't let anyone tell you different. I haven’t had a chance to enjoy my 20s even. And now I feel I am unable to do that. Look I hate to say it, but you crossed that bridge a year or so ago. You waived that luxury every single time you decided …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:58 AM
4

I don't ask fishes for advice on how to walk, so who knows if it's helpful to them or not?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:52 AM
1

I've heard the whole social distancing thing is causing attention-whores and narcissists everywhere to go off the deep end. Like, above and beyond the normal levels of thirstiness and desperation. All kinds of people suddenly getting messages from their trashy exes saying "hey remember little ole meeeee?"
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:48 AM
2

Why did this dude pull a fucking knife on me? So, he was willing to go to jail for assault with a deadly weapon and armed robbery.... to earn pocket change? Willing to risk getting high velocity lead poisoning from someone with a concealed pistol? The issue was the guy was a class A fucktard, and probably withdrawing from fentanyl or something. Not a clinical retard, he was merely fucktarded. You can identify fucktards from the fact that they do buttersnap fucktard shit. Wouldn't give him big od…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:44 AM
1

Your dealer's not a real doctor.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:50 PM
1

Stop thinking with your inner vagina.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:41 PM
3

Death grip syndrome.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:38 PM
1

Misread, my bad.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:35 PM
2

Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:23 PM
1

So after I break up with her I get a feeling that no ones gonna love me as much as she did This is oneitis by definition.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:18 PM
1

Start importing equipment for business and factories in your areas that will boost their productivity. Forklifts for example. But to be honest, plan on leaving ASAP. You can't make money in a country that is run by thieves, if you're not stealing yourself.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:11 PM
0

...... there's this one girl I see. I can tell you that the issue is that you decided to be a phaggot and you didn't read the sidebar. Stop being a phaggot. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:08 PM
2

I dunno. If you have fantasies about giving blowjobs to guys in skinny jeans, then yes. Otherwise, I wouldn't overthink it too much.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:05 PM
1

Girl chasing a guy AWALT Alpha fucks, beta bux.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:39 AM
2

The people you need to be redpilling are yourself. Other people are free to live their lives according to the dictates of their own conscience.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:15 AM
1

Iron Rule of Thomassi #1.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:13 AM
1

I go to work most days. I don't go partying downtown most days. I'm in a hurry when I go to work. Time isn't a pressing concern when I go partying. Which option is going to save you the most time, hassle, and fuel?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:13 AM
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if me and her meet soon she'd like me to dress like him to look like him as much as possible. "You didn't answer my question-the fuck is Joseph Morgan?"
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:08 AM
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and the fact I don't give a fuck about what others say or think of me. ..... except your parents whose opinions and gossip probably give too many fucks about. And you'd have to be a pretty cold fucker if they didn't get under your skin some of the time. Everyone has parent issues. I feel like I have to point this out because that's the real issue here, isn't it? Sounds like you turned out alright, though. The problem is, even though they got around to accept me the way I am on the surface, they …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:59 PM
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Can be annoying because you have to tell them how to do a bunch of shit, and where to move, etc. It's not as great as the hype. Requires more foreplay. Also be prepared for more Last Minute Resistance. Don't treat them like they're special. Be approaching other women and spinning other plates. Don't be thirsty or desperate. She may change her mind.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:46 PM
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When you say you might have it, what are your symptoms? If you're having a fever, fatigue, and headache, etc, wait a week. If that's the case, tell her to bring some chicken soup and shit over and leave in on your front door. If she's really horny, tell her you'll send nudes or something.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:38 PM
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You have to A&A that crap hard man. "Man, nothing I love than a good meaty, hairy, huge, sweaty pussy. I just dive right into that beef wallet like goddamn Steve Irwin the Crocodile Hunter. I'm doing a fucking public service."
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:23 PM
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