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wkndatbernardus/r/askMRP04/10/19 09:42 PM
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3

Depends what you want from your life.
/r/askMRP11/05/26 04:18 PM
7

The fact that she stays in shape at that age is big so, at least there's that. As to the public appearance issue; she clearly isn't concerned about your opinion because you don't make her fearful that you could be with any woman you want. But, that is besides the point because women will never be the answer to what you really want.
/r/askMRP09/05/26 09:07 PM
1

Let me guess; she discovered she could put up more on the squat rack than you.
/r/askMRP20/02/26 12:44 PM
5

Wouldn't you be irate if you had a fat poon leading your household?
/r/askMRP05/01/26 12:14 AM
8

Your main mistake was engaging with her after her meltdown/violent outburst. You enabled her to continue this type of bratty behavior in the future. Why? Because she wears the strap-on in the relationship.
/r/askMRP13/12/25 12:58 AM
2

Her reasoning sounds suspect to me and anyway, who cares what she wants/thinks? It will probably change tomorrow anyway.
/r/askMRP11/12/25 12:07 AM
3

The problem was you engaged with her bratty inquiries. Why did you allow yourself to get sucked in? My guess; insecurity and validation seeking. Also, obligatory "don't live with a woman before marriage" reminder.
/r/askMRP01/12/25 06:31 PM
5

All I heard in your retelling of the wedding saga is what SHE did to ruin YOUR night. No, YOU ruined your night by giving a rats ass about how she was acting, the words she was speaking, and the judgements she was (perhaps) thinking. I mean, who has a bad time at a wedding? You have to try really hard to do that. And then you let yourself be dragged into a pointless argument that probably had the effect of encouraging her to question your frame as a man. In other words, caring too much about the…
/r/askMRP14/10/25 05:15 PM
18

Sounds like you two live together outside of marriage, which is mistake #1. Mistake #2 is getting chunky and Mistake #3 is becoming gay. You said she's German so, learn from history. Don't be like the French who let the Krauts move in, control their territory, and then look for other conquering opportunities. Instead, be like the Brits: muster your army (gym), develop allies (roster of willing women), and kick the Krauts out of western Europe (your crib). NB: if she tried to invade the UK, she p…
/r/askMRP14/10/25 10:51 AM
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Sometimes I read these victim pukes and think: what would an 18th century farmer in New England think of the men today? Since when did the script get flipped and men in the West feel like they are lucky to have their wives? Men today agonize over every word and action of their wife, as if they were the tin man, cowering before the great Wizard of Oz. I'm sorry to break this to you but, women in general, and your wife in particular , will not make you happy. In fact, outside of the children they …
/r/askMRP01/10/25 11:34 PM
1

Too serious, my man. Lighten up and have a good time with her. Don't care about what she says and don't say much yourself, just act on what YOU want to do. You know what THAT is right?
/r/askMRP27/09/25 12:12 AM
-3

She's asking for this exorbitant spend as a test to your boundaries. She knows it's extreme but, because she isn't afraid to lose you, she asks in order to see if you will abide by the rules you set up. I would just reply with something like, "why spend $2k on something I'm going to rip off you later in the evening anyway?" Keep it light and bring it back to sex while also maintaining your boundaries.
/r/askMRP04/06/25 05:06 PM
25

Should have made her DocuSign an agreement mandating lingerie and a pounding on Wednesday night. There's no way she would go back on her word then...she already signed!!!
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:23 PM
32

Mark my words, she'll forget about the whole thing tomorrow. You are the only one keeping score.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 01:29 AM
12

Sounds to me like there are two likely explanations here: 1) She is spitting dread game at you because she feels insecure about your commitment/love for her. 2) She's involved in a physical or emotional affair, experiencing guilt and wants to confess, up to a point. Obviously, the first is better than the second although it shouldn't change your approach in regards to entanglements with women: expect the best but prepare for the worst. That being said, there's no reason to fear the worst, as lon…
/r/askMRP09/04/25 08:49 PM
5

Ha, she's probably psyched she found a reason to be "shocked" and "disgusted" by your behavior so that she could get away from you in order to pursue her ho-ing in peace. My only advice would be, don't let the kids leave the marital home. And definitely don't leave yourself, no matter how uncomfortable it gets.
/r/askMRP01/02/25 04:23 AM
6

Time to hire a PI to do a blue light check on the sleeping bag.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 12:06 PM
2

Bro, life is so much better without a wife. Sure, I was devastated when my ex left me for another man but, when I reflected on my experience in that "marriage", I finally understood how miserable I was during 95% of our time together. I thought, "why was I putting myself thru that?" Of course, if you grow up in a more conservative/religious environment like I did, you think that marriage is the key to happiness on this earth or, at least, you believe that part of the reason God put you here was …
/r/RPChristians15/11/24 11:54 PM
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My take is she's hiding something or someone. It wasn't quite clear from your post but, did you work for her? I wonder if there was disrespect on her part for you not being the primary breadwinner and that has driven her away from you and, possibly, to someone else. Regardless, she doesn't love you as a wife should (in good times and bad, etc) so, it is a blessing that she is leaving. Ask me how I know!
/r/RPChristians15/11/24 08:48 AM
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Wow, my man you are easily rattled. Imagine getting so obsessed with minute details about your wife's attire that you let it ruin your night? Who cares? Your attitude should be that it doesn't matter what she wears because she's coming out of it later anyway. "Never let them see you sweat" should be your mantra.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 10:07 PM
4

We already know you're gay when you use the term "partner".
/r/askMRP15/10/24 02:23 AM
4

We already know you're gay when you use the term "partner".
/r/askMRP15/10/24 02:23 AM
9

I would prolong the marriage as much as possible so she can get some time at a job under her belt. If she needs some encouragement, tell her you really want that vacation home or other BS she's been dreaming about so, her having a job will make that happen quicker. This will mitigate alimony/CS. Meanwhile , as others have said, contact a lawyer and get a strategy in place. Thankfully, you have only been married ~10 years so, the alimony won't be as crippling but CS will be terrible unless she's …
/r/askMRP18/09/24 08:14 PM
1

Is being attracted to men a masculine trait?
/r/askMRP05/09/24 02:31 AM
1

Cohabitating and now considering marriage to a daughter of religious extremists. Have you even heard of the red pill?
/r/askMRP31/08/24 09:05 PM
2

Feeling the sting of public reprobation means you believe the disrespect your wife voiced was, in some respect, justified. Why did it hurt you when she said that? That's where you should devote your attention. Perhaps because you sense yourself lacking in some respect and don't want the secret to get out? This is nothing but a great opportunity for you to understand your weaknesses more deeply and improve so that no one can bring you down. There was a great deodorant commercial from the 80's wit…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 09:49 PM
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I've noticed that women (and men, to a certain extent) lash out when they begin to lose control over certain life circumstances. This is the anger phase of grieving. It's funny because, the more you ignore or are unaffected by her raging, the more attracted she'll be to you.
/r/askMRP24/08/24 07:07 AM
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Accessing your wife's cell is a waste of time and energy, plus it reeks of insecurity. If you are wanting to pry into her digital life, it shows that you don't JUST mistrust her, you also don't trust yourself to find someone better and/or to just stay happily single.
/r/askMRP12/08/24 07:16 PM
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It's interesting that you are still operating from a place of scarcity (recalling your ex is an 8.5 and wanting to get back with her) even though you have successfully attracted other women. It's basically a law of nature that every gf that breaks up with you will attempt to return, however feeble the effort. The question is, do you have the self respect to move on after a woman questions whether you are her best option?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 01:36 PM
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They were all in cahoots to put you in their frame. I forsee a long, oppressive future for yourself in that marriage so, to me, it is a blessing this fell apart. Besides, she didn't seem that into you. Why would you marry someone who isn't dying to be with you?
/r/askMRP07/08/24 03:33 AM
1

I smell a fatty mcbutterpants OP. If I was your wife, I wouldn't be pumped about banging a fatty either (well, maybe Christina Hendricks in her prime) but, my point still stands.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 08:36 PM
3

At least she's reading actual books. Most of these tricks don't even read the headlines on the TikTok vids they watch.
/r/askMRP26/06/24 02:42 AM
3

If you can get OI on the sex part, I believe that will be huge. "The hungry never get fed."
/r/askMRP10/06/24 02:29 PM
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Your first sentence literally says that you don't like your wife (or ltr? I'm not sure if you are actually married.) so, why spend so much time, money, and effort attempting to cajole her back to wanting the D, especially if you all don't have any ninos? Sounds like a questionable ROI to me, although I do grant that these situations can often motivate internal/external improvements.
/r/askMRP09/06/24 07:45 PM
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My take on the root of your problems: she's not attracted to you (prob because you are flabby and a bad leader) and you have put her on a pedestal (she feels insecure holding the power in the relationship). Her disgust stems from these two factors. Some potential points in your favor are: you are a musician (think groupie possibilities) and have consumed some RP content. Get your fitness on point, work the musician angle, ignore her, and do what you want. She'll come around or she won't, depends…
/r/askMRP08/06/24 01:35 PM
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This post is like watching A Clockwork Orange or Kids; unbearable but you know it's somehow important.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/24 04:01 AM
2

Ever watch the nature episodes about lion prides? What do the male lions do? They chill while the lady lions hunt and provide for the pride. Then they roll up and get their share of the prey FIRST. Yeah, they need to regulate on them chumps once in a while but otherwise, they straight kickin it while the tricks take care of the provisions. "Go and do likewise."
/r/askMRP13/04/24 03:34 AM
2

I've never been in a happy marriage so, perhaps I'm the wrong guy to ask but, single life is so much better, it's laughable. I'm the type of guy who values freedom over being comfortable/taken care of, however so, ymmv.
/r/askMRP03/04/24 03:12 PM
2

You obviously care very much about her assessment of you. You can only be insulted by someone to whom you give the power to judge you.
/r/askMRP01/04/24 12:18 AM
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When she had an affair and, after about 8 months of shenanigans, got pregnant with her side piece's baby.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 07:43 AM
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If I was married to a woman that would put in OT at her job, I would be doing cartwheels.
/r/askMRP17/02/24 03:13 PM
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"A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." You will always wonder if you could have done better. Even Travis Kelce is probably contemplating that right now while dating what our culture puts forth as the most desirable woman. Women are our helpmates so, the only question of relevance is: will this women help me (on a high level) to achieve my peak flourishing/complete my life's mission? Since you seem to want children, I would think long and hard about her talents as a mother and then make t…
/r/askMRP12/02/24 04:10 PM
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If you can't fool yourself into thinking you're legit, neither will you fool your wife.
/r/askMRP04/02/24 02:17 PM
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You can always tell where a church is on the man hating spectrum by listening to the pastor preach on "wives, be submissive to your husbands."
/r/RPChristians22/01/24 01:02 PM
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It's in times of adversity when you find out who really has your back. It looks like your wife doesn't but, I guess that would be par for the course for most women since a vast majority of them have the Guardian personality type in Keirsey's system. This means that they are prone to be normies, afraid of risk, or challenging the status quo. This makes sense because women are survival artists, bent on making it out alive no matter the cost. The broader point is; why do you care about her so calle…
/r/askMRP21/01/24 03:41 AM
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Haha, real talk right here
/r/askMRP21/01/24 03:18 AM
7

Our sexuality is a divine energy meant to bring forth new life (literally and figuratively). If you are not moving towards marriage with someone presently, channel that energy into something that bears Godly fruit like exercise, professional/intellectual/spiritual development, volunteering, side hustles, etc. Most likely, God is asking you to use this time of celibacy wisely to build yourself into a man worthy of being the head of a household. Vaya con Dios, amigo.
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 05:23 PM
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As a hard core Catholic who has a ton of experience with religious women, my guess is, she was looking for a reason to leave because your value systems didn't match up. If she is called to the sacrament of marriage, she needs a man that can lead her spiritually, be the head of the household. You can clearly do that on the secular level, but not on the spiritual plane. This is a good breakup for both parties, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 07:39 PM
9

Lol, great Chris Rock line..."I want my pussy payments!"
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 07:28 PM
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When she asks, just tell her you don't feel like putting on your location anymore, end of discussion. If she persists; broken record, AA, fog, etc. With sex happening once per month, you clearly have some deeper individual issues that need attention.
/r/askMRP15/12/23 12:06 PM
1

Give her the straight dope and gauge her reaction. If reality sets in and she doesn't fight the inevitable, you're golden. If not, send her written notice that you require her to leave the property within 1 week. If this doesn't work, get the local 5-0 involved.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 03:03 AM
3

She probably does have a higher smv than you since my guess is she would have an easier time getting laid, should you two divorce, than you. Fix this disparity and the respect will return. Also, don't underestimate the power of her seeing men at her workplace kicking ass and taking names and then coming home to you. Given the state of your relationship, she's probably feeling like she can do better and waiting for the opportunity to do so.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 03:04 PM
1

Ok, I see. Yeah, she definitely wants to be a part of something bigger than herself/children. Human life is about mission and as the head of the household, you are the one who should provide that. Right now, she has a parallel mission outside of your family which is problematic to the future trajectory of your family.
/r/askMRP02/12/23 02:37 PM
19

She's spending all that time at work because there is a man she admires and probably wants to bang (if she hasn't already). Doesn't matter at this point. What is essential is understanding what got you here and how to correct course. Based on what you shared about acquiescing to your wife's demands to go back to work, you are suffering from a lack of leadership and vision for your family. You didn't paint that picture for her and progress towards those goals so, she found something (or someone) …
/r/askMRP02/12/23 12:54 PM
2

I don't believe a man should get married unless it's part of his mission/vision in life, i.e., he is called to that life. If he is, he should find a woman whose values/beauty/personality/work ethic/submission match up with his desires. If one of those factors is missing, he should continue searching. Once married, the man who can truly offer himself/his strength to his family and the world has no fear of hypergamy or any other arrow of fate. A man who doesn't happen to find a worthy wife is like…
/r/askMRP29/11/23 03:42 PM
24

Diagnosis: classic case of Oneitis. Prognosis: not good unless you have a purpose beyond getting a woman's affection/devotion. Prescription: understand your mission/why you were put on this earth and go after it.
/r/askMRP24/11/23 03:37 PM
2

Always remember to be outcome independent. Do what you want with your wife and if she rejects you, no problem. Just move on with your day and keep improving. She'll eventually come around, or not. Either way, you win because the goal isn't a healthy, sex filled relationship anyway. It's maximizing your potential virtue. Therein lies happiness, at least on the natural level. "Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you." Mt 6:33
/r/askMRP22/11/23 02:13 PM
8

I would definitely cut back on that allowance but, not as some sort of punishment. It's just a poor investment. You are effectively pissing away $40k /year for no ROI. Also, your wife should be contributing to the betterment of your household but, because of your lack of direction and leadership, she is floating along in life like some lotus eater in the Odyssey.
/r/askMRP21/11/23 04:08 PM
2

Take the anger out by exercising like a mad man. Believe me, torturing your body will exorcize a lot of regret/grief. If your shoulder is still recovering, focus on building all the other parts of your body that are healthy (legs, abs, biceps, triceps, cardio). Maybe you can even get into some hardcore calisthenics? Check out Iron Wolf on YT to build muscle/cardio in an injury free way. Guy is a savage.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 03:59 PM
1

I never heard people call their spouses partners until a few years ago. Partner is a term usually reserved for a business or police setting. Why this shift in terminology all of a sudden?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:39 PM
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Ha, I'm right there with you OP. Hearing someone refer to his/her bf/gf or husband/wife as a partner is cringe and annoying. It's rooted in this postmodern gender ideology mind virus infecting Western society where calling something what it actually is, is frowned upon. Somehow, using language that corresponds to the truth is out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:22 PM
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You're relying too much on her competence. Why? Probably because of laziness or because you can blame her when things go wrong. This is your life, brother. Why would you rely on anyone else to make it great? Blaming someone else for failure is a waste of time and energy.
/r/askMRP30/10/23 04:31 PM
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This one is easy. Once she begins to insist on her way, just shut it down and leave her presence or hang up the phone. Just refuse to argue. You enabled her bad behavior by "talking this through" with her and then ended up capitulating in the end. Why? You fear losing her. "Let your no mean no, and your yes mean yes." Mt 5:37
/r/askMRP20/10/23 11:00 AM
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It sounds like you're American so, don't forget that you hit the absolute jackpot in terms of nationality, and the opportunity it affords, vs the rest of the world over the course of human history. I mean, even homeless people in the US are doing better than the average Guatemalan or Ugandan. In other words, you already won.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 09:07 PM
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Something, something never live with a woman to whom you aren't married. Plus, she clearly doesn't like your kids so, how could you consider an LTR, let alone marriage, with this woman?
/r/askMRP25/09/23 03:03 AM
1

It seems like you are caught in a common delusion that jobs, themselves, should be meaningful/purposeful. I have never found that to be the case, in my life. They were always a means to an end outside of the actual job. In other words, what gives my working life purpose is the ability of jobs to support goals in my personal life, like retiring early or providing for my family. This is how they thought in ancient Greece/Rome. Work was something that enables what we are actually put on this planet…
/r/askMRP24/09/23 01:44 PM
2

MRP helps to fix the man, not the bitchy wife. Take a tip from Army advertising in the 80's and "be all you can be" and only then should you evaluate whether you want to stomach life with this woman. My prescription: take 2 doses of dread game and call me in the morning. Of course, this presupposes you are a man she doesn't want to lose.
/r/askMRP18/09/23 08:46 PM
4

You want to upgrade this girl from plate to GF so badly, why is that? My guess; scarcity. You aren't in the correct mindset to entertain upgrading a SM with guy friends hovering around.
/r/askMRP04/09/23 01:24 AM
11

My thoughts exactly. This conversion process sounds like a lot of work with low reward prospects.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 09:43 PM
1

This is an easy one. Any time she uses disrespectful language and/or refuses to obey direction, remove dinner privileges and send her to her room for the duration of her day (no electronic devices). Enforce this boundary strictly a couple times and she'll be the best behaved kid you've ever seen.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 04:31 PM
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The family is probably fielding suitors in order to motivate you to pop the question. Giddy up habibi.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 11:27 PM
1

Damn G, you have mad patience. I would have dropped that call STAT, like Boost Mobile service.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 03:05 AM
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I can understand a man getting married if his religious faith prescribes it. So, there has to be some metaphysical benefit, to him, for entering into the union. Otherwise, there is no good reason, not children or taxes, that outweigh the negatives. Sure, some women will leave if they don't get the ring/paperwork so, you may lose out on a good one but, is she really that good if she dumps you over lack of an official marriage?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 10:32 PM
1

Great read. It's super interesting how both men and women sabotage themselves and what they want by emulating how they think the other should act.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 09:50 PM
2

Let me preface this by saying I believe marriage was ordained by God and is a sacred institution designed for the betterment of humans, both men and women. Due to the spread of radical secular ideologies into our culture and then politics and finally laws, marriage has become a danger to the flourishing of men, much more so than for women. Women have most of the leverage in western society now which has destroyed the natural order of men as leaders/authorities. The same happened in Genesis when …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 02:18 AM
6

Facetime seems like an inefficient ho monitoring system. Why not just strap a go pro camera on her head so you can track her every move?
/r/askMRP09/07/23 10:54 PM
1

Marriage without the prospect of kids? What's the point? Risking half your shit?
/r/askMRP30/06/23 05:41 PM
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All that matters is how she's treating you now. If she's good to you, who cares what she did or didn't do out of your sight? If she's treating you poorly, then you have way bigger problems than a ons.
/r/askMRP22/06/23 02:39 AM
2

Focusing too much on your wife's behavior/feelings is what is killing her attraction for you.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 02:25 PM
1

"Needs some time"...to branch swing.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 12:25 PM
0

Gonna go against the grain and say I think you should continue the 'ship. All the questionable activities she was involved with were before you guys got serious. Plus she's begging you to stay so, she sounds heavily invested in you. Does that mean she is reformed? Probably not but, guess what? We are all works in progress and anyway, all that counts to me is whether the woman I'm dating is treating me the way I want to be treated. If she starts slacking off, I bounce. If she's on point, I stick …
/r/askMRP05/05/23 07:30 PM
5

Clearly, the issue was that you neglected her need for skittles, especially on Valentines Day.
/r/askMRP02/05/23 03:17 AM
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She lost attraction for you during your fatty mcbutterpants phase. It will be super difficult to get that back. However, whether she remembers or not is irrelevant unless you measure yourself by a woman's feelings towards you. You living your purpose is what matters and will fulfill you in this life.
/r/askMRP27/04/23 02:11 AM
1

Perfect, wait a few months and then file. Talk to a lawyer ASAP. He/she will give you an idea of the financial impacts you will be looking at. With any luck, you will be able to extricate yourself from this dumpster fire with minimal impact to your kids/long-term financial interests. If custody becomes an dispute, you can always play the escort card which will be damning to her standing as a responsible, caring mother.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 10:09 PM
4

This is like being married to a heroin addict. She'll always be in danger of relapsing. If you aren't ok living with that Sword of Damocles hanging over your head for the duration of your life, I would prepare yourself for divorce yesterday. Since you have kids, I would make sure she gets a legit W2 job before filing so as to minimize child support/alimony.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 09:58 PM
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Why do you care what she thinks? Why does her opinion about anything carry any weight for you?
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:38 PM
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I'm not seeing the problem here except for your oneitis. It isn't her who caught feelings, clearly it was you. Just move on and learn from how you let yourself get triggered by her tired ho tactics
/r/askMRP17/01/23 04:22 PM
2

She found out Christiano Ronaldo is actually gay.
/r/askMRP14/01/23 05:40 PM
4

The ballad of Bravenewworld1772's wife: I don't know but I been told, sex with him is getting old. Covert contracts, his mind will hatch Can't be happy without the snatch. If I don't suck him frequently, He'll blame his shitty life on me. Feeling more and more entrapped, At least Tyrone that ass will tap.
/r/askMRP06/01/23 03:43 AM
10

Damn, you're pushing 3 bills, dog. Time to go on a strict Jesus fast (40 days and 40 nights of water/coffee) because the devil (Cinnabon) is clearly winning right now.
/r/askMRP28/12/22 03:36 AM
2

Haha, longest TLDR ever.
/r/askMRP28/12/22 03:30 AM
10

This is the answer ☝️
/r/askMRP28/12/22 03:28 AM
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She'll want them later in life but, for me, any woman that expresses a lack of desire to have children is too self obsessed to be trusted in a marriage.
/r/askMRP25/12/22 09:36 PM
2

I don't think it's a bad idea to go thru with the mediation and draw up the outline of a divorce agreement. Nothing will be official but you'll have a plan in place in case you decide to go that route.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 03:10 PM
1

Your hamster is in overdrive. No need to analyze every interaction with your wife. Just continue crushing the gym and live life in your terms, with a cheerful spirit. However, this is all contingent on you actually liking your wife.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 02:20 AM
7

If sex is declining and she treats you poorly, why do you stick around? You're 25 and not married...next.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 05:43 PM
1

Height only becomes an issue if you are taller than the guy you are dating. I'm 6'3 and dated a woman that was 6'1 for a couple years. She was definitely one of the hottest women I've ever gone out with. One point of relevance she told me about her dating history was that other men seemed to find her really attractive but would never ask her out. She theorized that this was because they would feel emasculated with the height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:30 PM
0

You sound Asian so, let me put your situation in geopolitical terms that you'll understand: You are China and she's Taiwan. She says, "see the US clearly likes me and acknowledges my importance." Your response should be, "yawn, get me my chips so I can continue to profit off the laziness of LGBTQistan."
/r/askMRP22/11/22 12:06 PM
1

RP philosophy is rooted in observations about human nature. Guess what happens when you mess with nature using artificial means?
/r/askMRP17/11/22 06:10 PM
1

Even if, like you, I realized I married a subpar woman, enthusiastic banging on the regs would account for a lot. But then, I subscribe to the Dave Chappelle theory that there are only 4 ways to please a man and therefore, the woman doesn't need to do much to fulfill her raison d'etre.
/r/askMRP03/11/22 07:06 PM
7

She's calling the shots because you engage with her and give her credence. She has no power without you giving it to her. Now, I'm not talking about being openly hostile, just focusing on what you want to do when you are home (do you even know what that is?). Ignore everything else because it's just noise. Stay stoically cheerful, get in shape, and you will sense dramatic change in your home life.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 03:56 PM
10

"Talking to my wife about what SHE needed to change really helped transform her attitude." - No dude ever
/r/askMRP21/10/22 04:27 PM
6

Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 01:04 AM
8

Definitely comes off as butt hurt. She's denying you because she doesn't value you and no amount of protestation wacking will remedy that. Better to use that sexual energy to build yourself into a man she won't deny.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 10:59 PM
2

Who knows and who cares? Does your experience depend on your wife's response?
/r/askMRP26/08/22 04:50 PM
5

Oneitis seems to be rearing its ugly head here. Otherwise, why would you care about understanding her behavior?
/r/askMRP11/08/22 01:45 PM
23

I'd stake the house she's cheating. All good though, she just weeded herself out of your life. Take this opportunity to build yourself up and be present to your kids. Divorce at your age is a blessing. Could have been decades that you lost with this unfaithful woman. Just make sure she keeps working through the div so that you aren't paying out the ass in alimony and CS.
/r/askMRP19/07/22 05:58 PM
1

Architecture should be on this list. Very low ROI field.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:36 PM
2

You don't want to be with this woman and yet you continue to stay with her. Not sure what is so hard to figure out here. I guess you're entrapped by the sunk cost fallacy but that is costing you the most precious commodity you possess, and it ain't the commie cash you've been stacking. Real talk; I would look at diverting some of that $ into crypto so you can access it anywhere in the world and don't have to eff with the Chinese banking system once you bounce. But, even if she's got the dinero i…
/r/askMRP07/07/22 08:42 PM
6

I would simply tell her you don't like the person she is becoming because of her job and that she needs to find a new one. She can make $50k/year in her sleep in the US and it won't interfere with her domestic duties.
/r/askMRP29/06/22 07:10 PM
1

Bro, you're so far in her frame you may as well be taking estrogen. Speaking of hormones, if she's on the pill, that skews the sexual interactions, big time, which is perhaps why she isn't responding to your alpha cues the way you would expect (if you are actually signalling them). My advice; take her off the pill and learn OI when it comes to sex. You are way too dependent on her sexual validation of you.
/r/RPChristians23/06/22 03:54 AM
2

For a second there, all the drama and projection in your post made me think you were a lesbian talking about how your "girlfriend" isn't into it anymore.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 05:27 PM
11

You allowed yourself to be triangulated by gf and her parents. Any talk about marriage/adoption is strictly between you and gf, period. Triangulation is an attempt to pry you out of your frame. Don't allow it and everyone (especially you) will be happier.
/r/askMRP15/06/22 08:35 PM
5

have them not involved in this discussion whatsoever Your original sin was allowing the fake in-laws to have any input on the topic of your domestic reality. Why are the grandparents involved in this at all? Seems like your gf is recruiting them to put pressure on you but, I don't know why you are even allowing this unhealthy triangulation to take place. Just tell gramps that, all due respect but, talk of marriage/adoption is strictly between you and their daughter.
/r/askMRP15/06/22 08:28 PM
5

It resolves however you want it to resolve. Peacefully or chaotically. You choose, she'll follow.
/r/askMRP30/05/22 03:46 AM
6

You're pushing 3 bills, dog. Let that sink in.
/r/askMRP27/05/22 12:02 PM
2

Ah I see. So, she's actively denying physical contact with her husband by refusing to get a mikvah?!? It's like she's holding you hostage. Is this normal in orthodox marriages? What does the rabbi say for you to do?
/r/askMRP24/05/22 03:19 AM
-4

I'd say, play to the advantages of your situation versus the secular crowd. Advantage #1: most Ortho bros I've seen in real life or on TV are fatties or weak twigs so, a bit of work in this regard will put you head and shoulders above your competitive set and make your wife feel like God blessed her with Big dick Samson. Don't underestimate your ability (and the benefits extending therefrom) to make your wife feel superior to other women in her life. Advantage #2: Ortho women typically want much…
/r/askMRP17/05/22 10:14 PM
4

The recent uptick in sexual activity could be for any number of reasons (she feels guilty about the div rape she's about to perpetrate, she's trying to placate you so that you accept her terms willingly, etc). The fact is that she filed so, at this point, why do you care? Further, why would you consider staying married to someone who has not only threatened div, but actually followed thru on those threats?
/r/askMRP15/04/22 03:24 PM
1

Words, words, words... that's all they have and, in your case, it's a desperate attempt to take the Hand back in the relationship. You are on the right track here if she is still tuning your meat whistle. Just carry on doing what you are doing, laugh off any threats on her part, and get that body fat down. You'll be golden in no time. As a side note, it's amazing how bi polar most women are in terms of their moods/speech. The only thing that is consistent is their inconsistency. But, this is one…
/r/askMRP07/04/22 03:01 PM
3

my wife is the breadwinner Major issue right here as far as her wanting your D. That and your rolls. You'd have to have an ironclad frame to overcome the income disparity.
/r/askMRP28/03/22 03:02 PM
2

It sounds like she didn't discover that you're a fat weakling until you two got married and now she has buyer's remorse. My suspicion is she wants the reception to save face/get validation from her family/friends, not to celebrate your union in Christ. So, the question is, do you want to play a roll in this production of "My Life is Great, Be Jealous" or do you want to take your sack back? It will take an extreme turn around on your part to right this ship (beginning with losing 60+ lbs and ratc…
/r/RPChristians26/02/22 09:55 PM
8

Silent treatment from my bitchy wife? I'd be doing cartwheels of joy if I were you.
/r/askMRP11/02/22 08:48 PM
2

Can confirm this observation, especially in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:40 AM
2

It’s a massive turnoff to women if they know that declining sex bothers you Great point. Contrary to popular belief, women don't want the power in the relationship. They want the man to take it and any sign that he is submissive to anything external to him (sex, money, food etc) can be a turn off to her.
/r/askMRP05/02/22 07:57 PM
1

Why did you want marriage, though, even if he verbally promised a future with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:47 PM
1

Gay marriage rights were about societal acceptance of same sex relationships, not about equal legal rights since those could have (and were, in some states) secured through civil unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:45 PM
5

Ha, had to scroll this far to hear some real talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:35 AM
7

Women don't like being single or having "space". They just want to be with the most worthy man. It's obvious she doesn't think you are the most worthy in her purview at this point so, you can either attempt to salvage the wreckage by working on yourself (getting jacked is the most important and should be your #1 priority) or prepare for the inevitable divorce by consulting a lawyer and then just repeat the same pattern with another woman. The choice is your's. PS: under no circumstances should y…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 03:11 PM
3

Haha, dem ho's be lovin dat quid pro quo, fo shizzle.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 10:39 PM
52

You should be doing cartwheels now that she's called off the wedding. My conjecture: she's got her eye on Chad and is projecting her guilt onto you through accusations. PS: who forbids going to a bar during a bachelor party? Al Qaeda?
/r/askMRP20/12/21 03:46 PM
1

All in a bid to get in your pants. Sounds so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:37 PM
7

Why are you still with her of you dislike being around her?
/r/askMRP03/12/21 07:41 PM
2

Relationship oriented has nothing to do with it because men aren't wired that way. Women arent getting married or in LTRs as much as in years past because they give up sex too early and easily. Like Chris rock said, "if a man could get laid in a box, he wouldn't buy no house".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:57 AM
1

Interesting article although I don't think the author did a great job of building a cogent argument in support of her thesis (dating and other social apps are making us incapable of true human connection). She's probably correct up to a point although I speculate that we aren't really wanting/looking for that connection ("to know and be known") anymore. Contra the author who sounds like a boomer or genXer, millennials and younger don't seem to have hope that greater happiness/joy exists beyond t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 05:06 PM
1

I'm looking for a safe person to guide me on my journey Just listen and do whatever Fauci says 😀
/r/askMRP29/09/21 04:54 PM
2

I know, it's only the most influential book ever written so it should therefore be dismissed outright.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 05:07 AM
3

Best comment on this thread.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 04:50 AM
6

And yet it seems like these groups matter more to health care workers than the unvaxxed.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 04:48 AM
9

Exactly. Fear (especially economic) is what stops couples, in their child bearing years, from having more (or any) children. Debt and inflation have created this fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:48 AM
2

The only dumber thing you could do, besides buying a house with a woman to whom you aren't married, is getting married to that woman.
/r/askMRP19/09/21 02:47 AM
2

offered her my nude embrace Kinda gay and creepy but, somehow, I like it.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 08:58 PM
-1

We’ll the next couple days of course I get the virus Stopped reading right there because now I know you're a gullible poontang that accepts MSM propaganda. If I can sense it over the internet, your wife sure as shit does as well.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 05:13 AM
1

Phenomenal series of posts. I'm really digging the breakdown of broad concepts like alpha, beta, confidence, cues, etc. Red Pill theorists often speak of having a mission and aligning one's entire life according to it. I believe this brings about mastery and, as you stated, confidence (which, in turn, leads to soggy panties). This missionary mindset also works to de-pedistalize the poon so that a dngaf attitude can be achieved. My question is, as a married dude, do you see your alpha traits cont…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 12:59 PM
1

I thought Epstein died in prison?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 03:30 PM
4

She's been cheating while on a "sabbatical" from your marriage which is why she's giving you hell as she stares down the reality of moving back in with you. This likely has been in the works for a while. I would sit down with a lawyer STAT and get the lay of the land in regards to your liabilities. Try to stay calm and go about this biz as a professional. Easier said than done, for sure.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:09 PM
5

Spoiler alert: nothing in this world will satisfy you completely over the long-term. Augustine's Confessions has a lot to say about this.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 02:56 AM
1

You care way too much about her opinions. Get this thru your head: her thoughts and words don't matter. It's what you do and where you're going that matters, to you AND her (even though she'd never admit that). Think of yourself as Odysseus passing by the island of the sirens. If you listen too intently to their song, you will be seduced and entranced (enslaved) by it. Keep your gaze fixed on your mission (if you even have one) and she'll come along after. There, that's your counseling session f…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 02:49 AM
4

Your mistake was relying on a woman to "hold up her end of the bargain." As the captain, YOU are responsible if shit goes sideways, even if it isn't, technically, your fault. Are you the master of your fate or not? She'll probably get on board if you are.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 01:31 PM
4

If you bought over a year ago, you should see some profit when you sell your current residence since prices have inflated drastically since covid hit, although you will also have to pay out the ass for the new spot. Maybe split the difference by moving half way to the office/city center so you still have a (manageable) commute but don't become house poor with a new place right downtown.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 12:54 PM
2

Where there's smoke, there's fire. If it were me, I wouldn't say a damn thing, work on myself for a year, see an attorney to get my affairs in order, and then drop that unloyal ho.
/r/askMRP24/07/21 09:16 PM
2

Since your OPSEC is horrendous, she's probably reading this thread right now...
/r/askMRP23/07/21 01:36 AM
1

I identify as possessing a twig and berries.
/r/askMRP23/07/21 01:31 AM
2

Retardation aside, I have to admit this was an engaging short story. Shit should be entered in the O. Henry competition.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 11:39 PM
2

You're ego is getting stuck on her disrespect. That's pride, fuckin whichu. It makes you look butthurt and needy; two things you never want to display in front of a female. Instead, focus attention on your mission/hobbies/fitness/education. That will be time and effort much better spent and your wife will probably respect you more for it.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 05:56 AM
1

What's going wrong is she doesn't want to be around you. Why is that? Most women want to be around high value men who are confident in themselves and have OI. You are deficient in one or (more likely) all of these areas. Whether her response to you is valid or invalid, this is an opportunity for self reflection about whether you have become or are in the road to becoming a man of whom you can be proud.
/r/askMRP14/07/21 01:09 AM
5

You say that other woman want you but, it doesn't sound to me like your wife experiences any dread. Why is that? Answering this question will go a long way in charting a solid path forward.
/r/askMRP10/07/21 02:17 AM
1

Since you two are muzzies, if she cheats it'll be all good because she'll get thrown in prison and what not.
/r/askMRP10/07/21 01:54 AM
2

Hahaha, made up first world problems + DEERing = good times
/r/askMRP27/06/21 03:30 AM
2

Grey's Anatomy? She prob thinks you putt from the rough.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 03:09 AM
3

True wisdom right here.
/r/askMRP22/06/21 01:49 AM
2

I'd say there is a very deep seated lack of respect for you on her part (mostly because of the age difference although, I'm guessing your faggotry hasn't helped) so, the relationship is probably done. There's always hope but, I'd say resucitating it would take super human effort and divine grace. Therefore, I would wait for her to finish her education and support her in getting the highest paying job possible after she graduates. This will lessen any child support you may owe once you get divorc…
/r/askMRP22/06/21 01:43 AM
1

Be glad you don't have her "privilege". Most attractive women have low virtue which makes it almost impossible to be happy. "So the last shall be first, and the first shall be last."
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:10 AM
1

I think we're saying a lot of the same things here.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:43 PM
3

I'll stake my Glenrothes 1985 that she's cheating. Strangely, however, that doesn't matter right now. What matters is you finding your sack under all that fupa lard and getting your legal affairs in order because with no sex for a year +, this marital relationship is on life support, if it's not dead already. She's probably testing her branch right now seeing if it's "hard" enough to swing to. My advice; get her working STAT or quit your current gig and drop down to a lower paying job. This will…
/r/askMRP02/06/21 10:40 PM
2

+1. Best response here.
/r/askMRP02/06/21 10:17 PM
3

Only marry if you're religious or philosophical background mandates it. These days men can do everything a marriage offers without signing on the dotted line so, why make yourself legally vulnerable if you don't have to?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:25 PM
5

In my opinion, RP is all about the self actualization (building virtue, for my aristotelian homies) that can occur when a man understands that most women are value leeches who will derail our pursuit of happiness.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:48 AM
2

I would deal with it by getting my ass to the gym or, if you a poor sucka, to the local park with monkey bars where you can pound out a prison style workout. Because, you never know when you gonna get shanked or, in your case, when a brother gonna shank your hoe with his meat whistle. Either way, you're covered.
/r/askMRP01/06/21 01:53 AM
5

Why are you having any kind of conversation with your ex beyond logistics as they relate to your child? Tell her to shut her pie hole when she starts commenting on tangential shit, or just leave/don't respond.
/r/askMRP01/06/21 01:44 AM
7

Sounds like high risk, low reward to me. Why not be honest with yourself and get single again? Then, you wouldn't have to worry about all this opsec shit. If you're seeking abundance in order to better your marriage, it's way easier (and more growth stimulating) to master your passions as opposed to slamming sloots.
/r/askMRP01/06/21 01:37 AM
15

She's showing you her unloyal ways. This is a truth blessing from heaven. Never attempt to control her actions one way or the other. Simply observe and act accordingly (soft next).
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:30 AM
7

Cold hard truth, right there.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:24 AM
-6

We'll, you definitely failed the State's shit test by getting the "vax".
/r/askMRP28/05/21 01:28 PM
3

Whoever has the gold makes the rules, homie. You better take those financial reins away from her before she ends up donating $25k to BLM or some Covid "relief" fund.
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:54 PM
3

If there is ever any doubt, there is no doubt.
/r/askMRP16/05/21 06:24 PM
15

Correction: she doesn't want to get married to YOU. However, I'm not seeing how this is a negative development from your POV. I guess you didn't need to pony up for a ring after all but, other than that, you don't have much skin in the game at this point so, count your lucky stars you found out her true thoughts on linking her life to your's before you became legally entangled. Sounds like you two are cohabitating which may have started the process of your betaization in her mind so, that was a …
/r/askMRP12/05/21 04:25 PM
1

This sounds like Andy Reid attempting to scheme his way out of having a swiss cheese offensive line. Hint: the problem is deeper than particular responses you give to shit/comfort tests.
/r/askMRP07/05/21 01:08 AM
2

Looking at her phone or trying to decipher what's going on in her head will not help your cause which, from what I can gather, is simply to get laid on the regular and have a pleasant, conflict free relationship/life. The problem is, you want to have that life without putting in the work, whether it be on your body (dad bod), intellect (haven't read a book since college), or spirit (probably never considered any ultimate questions). If you build it (yourself), they will cum.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 01:27 AM
7

Too much caring what she thinks and then you let her suck you into passive aggressive "joking". I'm convinced that the best way to rule the household and become a great father is to pretend you aren't married. What would you do then? You wouldn't rely on anyone else (certainly not a woman) to take care of your domain. Do this and your wife's bitchy comments will evaporate and your household/kids/relationship will be in much better shape.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 07:10 PM
10

Consider that they are doing you a favor when they flake so you don't spend further time/resources trying to hang with them.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:27 AM
3

If you REALLY want to get married to this woman, do it. If you are hedging, for whatever reason, you aren't ready or you don't have a high level of certainty that this woman will be an optimal choice for the life you want. It sounds like you have high standards for your future wife's physical appearance, which is a good thing. Perhaps your fiance will meet those standards but, for whatever reason, it seems like you are doubting she will. I would listen to that particular voice in your head becau…
/r/askMRP26/04/21 01:34 PM
4

I will say that, from my experience, the bigguns tend to be freakier in the sack and generally more eager to please than entitled hotties. Does that mean they would make better wives? Hard to say although, if you maintain a large smv gap over the long haul, I'd say yes.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:47 PM
1

If I put some effort into it, I could probably come up with dozens of thinly veiled feminist screeds that are popular with the viewing public rn. I guess you can say the same about films/shows depicting "courageous" minority groups. We are literally immersed in a sea of eglatarian propaganda and Covid restrictions have been the perfect excuse for the isolated public to interact with it on a constant basis.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:41 PM
1

Depends on the compliment. If you voiced approval over her general silence as well as remarkable culinary abilities and tig ol bitties, and she was grateful for the comments, I'd say you two are hitting it off.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:06 AM
2

Preach it homie. Just check out the latest Star Wars movies or shows like The Queen's Gambit (lol, when has there ever been a female world champion chess player?). NB: I noticed that Netflix just reported a huge downturn in new quarterly subs. Perhaps its unnatural gender themed productions have something to do with this?
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:55 AM
1

The major issue I see in the scenario you presented is that, if you are currently in an urban setting and snag most of your clients there, you would want to stay close to the city so, buying a large house with land will come at a premium, especially right now. You may or may not be able to fund that expense currently. I would probably try to rent a commercial space near your clients and see how it goes (perhaps a 2 year lease, if available). With the pandemic still going, commercial rents in cit…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:31 PM
6

I would tell your homie to be careful about making a good income right now because, if the baby is his and she sues for child support, he won't have to pay if she makes more than him. Then, he should make sure to get court ordered parenting time. In the US, this defaults to 50/50 unless one of the parents is a danger to the child. So, if he plays his cards right at the outset, he'll avoid CS slavery and have the joy of raising his son/daughter.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:58 PM
2

Dog, I'm 41 and, if I had amenable parents that lived near me, I would def live rent free and stack that cash.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:29 AM
4

Don't let your oneitis blind you to the truth of her ho-etry.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:26 AM
3

This is a good thing for us since if women were intellectually superior to men, they would lose respect and the willingness to be led.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:28 AM
6

Learning about the true nature of women helped me to detach from the trap of oneitis. The key is to see beyond any woman's beauty or charm and into their character, which is usually sub-par. This typically takes a little while because it isn't often apparent from the jump.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:18 PM
0

A bit of a tangential comment here: As a stripper, she'll need to work nights and, since you don't have a heavy time commitment with your job, you'll be able to spend quality time with your kid on the refs which, if you are half way decent at being a dad, will almost completely negate her mom's ho-etry. This is a potential win for you in the custody arrangement and for your kid's life.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 08:10 PM
1

Gene therapy
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:10 PM
1

Bored out of my mind< Welcome to hanging out with women.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:33 PM
1

This just in: woman attempts to manipulate her boyfriend into injecting himself with Commie Cold Cancer Juice™.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:30 PM
1

It isn't a vaccine.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:21 PM
7

That 3 month separation last year? Yeah, that was a failed branch swing. She's 100% testing other options (i.e. banging dudes) while you're funding her life of leisure. Also, I love how you're spinning this new degree your wife is getting. Mark my words, the moment homegirl gets that diploma, it's gonna be divorce city and CS for a decade plus while she works part-time, at best.
/r/askMRP09/04/21 01:46 PM
8

I had an incident like this in college. I went to a small school and everyone heard about how this dude gave me a black eye. Everyone was talking, "oh snap, wkndatbernardus got his ass whooped." Thing was, I got some good shots in myself so, he wasn't interested in pocking the bear again. In the immortal words of Mr Miyagi, "win, lose...no matter. You make good fight, earn respect." If you sand up for yourself, that's all that matters at the end of the day. If he shows up at this next party, you…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:13 AM
0

The answer to this quandary is always indifference. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. Only way to avoid that is to become a high value man that she fears to lose. At that point, you won't care if she pulls a slut move.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:51 AM
1

"only happy camper is the one leaving the campground".
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:45 AM
2

<know that you're doing gods work< Truer words were never spoken.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:29 AM
1

And the problem is?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:27 AM
1

Haha, "a fool and his money are soon parted" is certainly true in your case if you are asking this question.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:54 AM
9

Women in the west are straight up narcissists these days so, they love to talk about themselves and how "put together" they are. Just ask them questions about their lives/appearance/job and then sit back and listen to a retarded version of a shakespearean soliloquy. They'll think you're a phenomenal "listener".
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:49 AM
3

Why are you texting with her at all after the logistics have been settled? Reeks of desperation and she damn sure can smell it. Just maintain radio silence until you meet up and then let your game take over.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:44 AM
1

The societal rails (religious belief) that used to keep women in line are quickly disintegrating. I'd say this is mainly due to life being relatively comfortable for most people in the world. If we were to suffer large scale hardship, you can guarantee people would be on their knees begging for help. We are reaping what we've sown, for sure but, there is always hope. With the advent of the internet, it is much easier to find women that don't worship at the alter of dissipation.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:03 PM
1

What helped me in terms of lust was learning about the true nature of women. As Chris Brown so elequently stated, "These hoes ain't loyal." When you understand that women can be fantastic but are often dangerous to our purpose, especially in this day and age, you will be less effected by their outward appearance. Also, working out like your life depends on it also controls spontaneous stiffy syndrome.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:07 PM
11

When adult women or men (less common) exchange sex for money, they are, more likely than not, taking the easy way out of some jam in life. Whether that jam was self created or not is irrelevant. What matters is that she has shown that she took a major shortcut in life by offering the most precious thing she has (her body) for short term gain, and then hamstered away any guilt she felt as a result. Look, we all make mistakes but, some are more damaging to our characters than others because they s…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:27 PM
1

What business would you suggest he buys?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:15 PM
1

Finding or deciding upon a mission will be helpful for someone in your situation. It gives meaning, order, and fulfillment to your life. If you are a person of faith, the process of understanding your mission will be easier than if you are agnostic or atheist, but not impossible. If you are the latter, I tend to think Aristotle was correct when he said that happiness is the goal or "telos" of human life and that it results from developing the classical virtues over the course of life. I also bel…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:19 AM
4

I don't know, homes...you might be gay.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:01 PM
2

Great response. The trend you speak about (fatherlessness, mainly) has been tearing the black community apart for decades. But they choose to blame it on racism.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:29 PM
5

<Maybe I'm just a selfish cunt> If you were selfish, you would have the self respect necessary to not become a fatty mcbutterpants. Instead, you defer to your wife on every major and minor decision in your life. Dog, selfish people have agency. You, not so much.
/r/askMRP27/03/21 03:34 AM
1

Straight burpies are a good place to start. Just do as many as you can in 10 minutes and then try to progress to 100 in that time frame. Then, start incorporating pull ups, crunches, air squats, super man's, etc to hit all the major muscle groups. Try to workout 5 times per week with 2 rest days in between. This will give you the solid foundation to start doing more advanced bodyweight workouts and you'll be ripped in no time. Oh yeah, intermittent fasting is a great strategy to get shredded eve…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:41 AM
4

Sounds like a liquor store I used to work in. Owner was legit mentally disabled.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:32 AM
1

Haha, so true. Some retarded biz owners out there.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:23 AM
3

Sounds like a pretty dope life to me. I say fuck the Protestant Work Ethic ideology that permeates most of middle and upper middle class culture in this country. It's a relic of the industrial revolution that won't go away. Leisure is the basis of culture, as the book title goes.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:55 PM
2

Obama was elected
/r/askTRP17/03/21 03:28 AM
1

You can decide when you're actually in an LTR that you've vetted properly. Until that happens, why even ask this question?
/r/askMRP15/03/21 08:55 PM
8

Women are typically low character in the west because they have been enabled by soft men that have lived largely comfortable/affluent lives with low levels of personal adversity. As TRP ideology states, women are a reflection of the men surrounding them. This is not an excuse for all the thots out there. Just more of an explanation.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:52 PM
2

I've had some success finding conservative women on religiously themed dating sites. So if you're protestant, Christian Mingle is a good bet and if you're catholic, catholic match works. Only problem with conservative western women is that they're still...western. So, feminism has creeped into their lifestyles/expectations such that they expect more control and power within the relationship.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:27 PM
1

I'm a proponent of building a side hustle into a business over time while holding onto a full time gig. If your hustle gains traction, look to transition out of the W2 and go full time into working for yourself. If it doesn't, make sure you're saving enough every year so you can get to FU money and decide if and when you want to work in the future. I happen to believe that both entrepreneurship and employee routes can be solid paths to freedom.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:41 AM
1

My take is that it is weak, needy, lost men who are making this thot behavior possible in the first place. Nothing women have become today wouldn have been possible if men hadn't abdicated their position in society through laziness and fear. We (western men) are reaping what we've sown. Oh yeah, I would be remiss if I didn't wish all those OF hoes a happy international women's day!
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:48 AM
1

Ha, I feel you dog. Shit was ridiculous on the radio today. I bet countries like China and Russia are licking their chops as corporate America becomes more and more dominated by twat. Only a matter of time until the military follows suit and then we are really in trouble.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:39 AM
2

So true. Markle has his sack in her louis Vuitton purse.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:34 AM
2

"Hammer landed on wedding ring" You should be celebrating this gift from the universe by pawning that bent piece of metal and buying $100 worth of scratch tickets with the proceeds. LPT: if you hit it big on a scratchie, don't cash that shit until your div is final.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 12:40 AM
6

I would text her back something light so you don't come off as butt hurt but you also don't spend money or time on a lunch with her that will lead to nowhere. Something like, "ah gotcha, ok no worries, some other time then" and just ghost thereafter.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:06 PM
3

I'm white and I'm paranoid of cops, especially the ones creepin by the traffic signal with their headlights off attempting to implicate me in the extremely dangerous criminal activity of traveling 5mph over the speed limit.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:29 AM
1

The profile pic makes you look like Jay and Silent Bob. No homo but the burnt orange shirt isn't doing it for me either, unless the shot was taken before your trip to a corn maze at the apple orchard in October. Also, something about that backwards cap screams "borderline homeless guy."
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:39 AM
2

I don't believe there is an agenda per se, although it seems like feminism has won the day in terms of the public narrative which has made being masculine more of a challenge than ever before in Western history. Feminism is an angry reaction to the oppression suffered by women over the course of centuries, more than it is a premeditated attempt to degrade and punish men just for being male. There is definitely a parallel between the black community in the US and women in this regard. They were b…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Yeah, I know what you mean. You might want to toggle back and forth between a few different styles of pic to see which has the best pull rate. Expirement a bit, if you will.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:46 AM
1

Entrepreneurship vs W2 employment is similar to the real estate vs stock market investing debate. Both can work out well, long term but, each come with trade offs. For example, real estate investing can have fantastic returns but typically requires more work and time than the lower returns and passive nature of the stock market. Personally, I've preferred being an employee because I can get paid decently but can walk away from a situation that isn't working well for me at any given time. If you …
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:44 AM
2

I couldn't see your other pics because I don't use tinder but, yeah, I would advise a happy, light hearted vibe on casual apps like Tinder. People are there to have fun so, give off that vibe.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:34 PM
1

Oneitis may be creeping in here since you seem to be affected by how she reacts to you (denying you sex, pouting, etc). She probably thought you were going to ask to be exclusive with her at the restaurant when you dangled the "surprise" narrative. Anyway, don't let her change of behavior rattle you. Withdraw attention, apply a little dread and she'll probably behave like before so she doesn't lose you. If she doesn't respond to your liking, move on. Can't have all your eggs in one basket. Upsid…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:31 PM
1

You look too serious in the profile pic. Gotta have a light and flirty vibe wit dem hos. Action shots of you doing something fun and enjoying yourself has been a good strategy for me. Also, the fro has gots to go and drop the gay earring.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:17 PM
1

Real truth right here
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:16 AM
8

The answer is yes, it will make you cynical if that is what you call facing reality. The truth is that women are incapable of true leadership so, they look to men to provide it. Unfortunately, most men in the west are lazy poon tangs that don't care about building strong families/communities. So, society spirals downward until men start owning their shit on a global scale.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:36 AM
11

IDK dog, you sound a bit thirsty. And if I can sense that, damn sure a ho can too.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:28 AM
8

"No penalty for getting divorced, in fact it's usually a positive" This is right on. If there is a significant income discrepancy between the husband and the wife (typically, husband makes more than the wife), it's super tempting for the wife to say, "fuck it, I'm done" and then get away with cash and prizes through the no fault divorce system that many Western countries employ. So, if society is counting on the character of women to stop the disolution of nuclear families, we're in big trouble …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:03 PM
2

Epicureanism, as popularly understood, gets a bad rap in my estimation and I'm not so sure it's as diametrically opposed to stoicism as commonly thought. Yes, pleasure was the highest good for Epicurus but, he wasn't advocating for the unbridled satisfaction of the base passions (banging hoes, smoking blunts, and drinking Welches grape like some gangsta rap video). His insight had more to do with the place of our emotions and senses in attaining the good life (i.e., we aren't just robotic beings…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:27 AM
4

If you're that worried about passing it to your parents, quarantine in your room for a few days after the party. It isn't natural to live like we have been with severe restrictions on social interaction so, I think going to this party is the perfect antidote to the clown world policies we are dealing with right now. Contrary to the popular dictum of "we are all in this together", you can only be responsible for your own choices in life. If people don't want to contract the virus, they are free t…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 07:40 AM
1

Preach it, brother. My ex is college educated and purposefully takes low hourly wage jobs so that I have to keep paying her until my daughter turns 23 (law in my state). I've been paying CS for 11 years now and, when all is said and done, will have paid that B a quarter of a million dollars. Shit is absurd. The upside is that I've become a better man (I think) because of the struggle through injustice and, obviously, I have my wonderful kid. The ugly truth is we will all deal with unfairness and…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:05 AM
1

Right, if you have flatlining emotions towards this woman, she's prob not the right option. I realize this sounds gay but, there needs to a high level emotional connection for me to ltr or marry a woman. And it's a combination of a number of factors that makes that happen (looks, sexuality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc) but it isn't necessarily reducible to those factors, either. Just like you can't pinpoint one factor that made Jordan the best ever, so too with women. And this isn't to say…
/r/askMRP27/01/21 04:08 AM
2

I know exactly what you're talking about. Had a similar situation myself with two competing options; a super hot latina who was a high maintenance b and the other who was perfect in every way except for her body (overweight) even though I was extremely sexually attracted to her. I ended up dumping them both and regretting losing the fattie. Strange, I know but, she did it for me somehow (no, I'm not a brother) but, I dumped her because I was embarrassed to be with a biggie. Anyway, I mention thi…
/r/askMRP27/01/21 01:55 AM
20

Taking breaks is something chicks do to get dat side D. If you want her to start respecting your D, I wouldn't reveal that you get so easily shaken by her antics which is what "taking a break" signals. As a dude, you're either in or out. If you need your personal space for a bit to recalibrate, go to the gym or get busy with your work/hobbies.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 03:07 PM
2

Dated a girl last year with a nice rack and ZERO sense of smell. I thought it was pretty annoying because I'm into wine and whiskey and she couldn't tell the difference between mezcal and vodka based on the smell. Anyway, my point is that there are women out there that won't mind your diahrea cloud aura.
/r/askMRP03/01/21 01:58 AM
1

Wow, tough testimony right there, brother. I feel for you because adultery has also touched my life in a devistating way. While I'm not a huge advocate for Marriage builders.com in general, I think he (Willard Harley) has some great wisdom about what to do when an affair occurs and, he backs up his advice with biblical principles. Check out that site or his book Surviving an Affair. TLDR; he recommends that the offending spouse never has contact with the affair partner again. This is the only wa…
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 03:04 PM
2

Since you sound like a crafty little Gaylord, make her a dreidel with pictures of different sex acts that she has to perform after she spins it.
/r/askMRP15/12/20 05:14 PM
2

Sounds like you aren't a stud outside of your income generating ability and, the truth is, financial support is only part of the complete game you need to have (and not that crucial of a component) to manage dem hoes. Since you didn't mention your physical stats, I can only surmise that you are a Fatty Mcbutterpants, or on your way there. Fix the physical part and you'll be surprised how positively your wife reacts and how easy your role as head of the family becomes.
/r/askMRP14/12/20 02:22 AM
1

It's entertaining to read red pill field reports from the black culture. Also, your flare should read "cucked by hobos".
/r/askMRP04/12/20 03:09 AM
3

I find it interesting that no one ever talks about controlling your sexual urges as a path to ngaf about sexual rejection. I believe this is a good way to project OI when faced with a wife that refuses to do her wifely duty. Yes, you should go do other things if rejected but, it's much easier to not appear butthurt if you could take or leave sex. The ancient Greeks believed appetites like sexuality needed to be brought to heel lest they control or enslave us. Only when you become their master ca…
/r/askMRP15/11/20 04:47 AM
2

It sounds like you want to visit your ailing mom with you young son so, make that happen (although, my guess is you're doing that out of guilt/wanting to please your mom). Also, your wife wouldn't be giving u shit about your mom if u were high value. Exercise would solve most of this "dilemma".
/r/askMRP02/11/20 12:56 PM
2

Something, something; covert contract. Something, something; she didn't bang me when I told her she could super size it. You blew it (not your load, clearly) when you let your ltr rattle your cage about the date plan. If she hedged about doing what you wanted to do, that was when you should have dropped the whole scenario and made other plans...without her. The key is to have very little investment in her response to you and your plans. Either she's in and that's great or she's out and that's gr…
/r/askMRP01/10/20 12:32 PM
3

Clearly, you need to tell her to get butt implants.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 12:26 AM
5

Where there's smoke, there's fire. Fire started by the friction of D in the V.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 12:22 AM
1

One of the issues I see here is your over reliance on "marketable skills". What's interesting is that those skills haven't given you the dngaf-ness that would make this setback a net positive (free time off, time to work on yourself, connect with those closest to you, etc). When you lost your job, you defaulted to fear. Sure, this is natural and understandable, especially if you haven't been fired before. However, it does expose the unstable nature of these job skills you mentioned. They are som…
/r/askMRP10/09/20 01:06 PM
10

The less I listen to my wife the better my life gets Truer words were never spoken.
/r/askMRP27/08/20 02:26 AM
2

Great job staying cut in your 50's. Hope I can duplicate your success.
/r/askMRP27/08/20 02:23 AM
1

I'm not Orthodox so, I can't speak to them specifically but, they do have apostolic succession which, if you care about the implications of Matthew 16:18, seems to indicate that the ministry of the apostles (and their successors) would be crucial in parsing out true doctrine from untrue. This is especially pertinent if, as you indicate, biblical fidelity is important to you. After all, recall that the very Bible you read is an expression of what books the bishops of the early church thought shou…
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 02:19 AM
4

I'll put a Benji on it that she's banging some dude from her past that she just realized she's in love with. Same thing happened to me when I got married at 25 but I didn't find out for 3 years. Child support will end up costing me ~$300k over the course of 20 years because we had a child before I figured out what was up (hardly any sex from the jump but did I suspect cheating? Hell no). You, my friend, have been blessed with this knowledge super early (and without children!) so, you should go o…
/r/askMRP25/08/20 08:06 PM
5

Ha, I'm into that cooking jazz too, but I refer to it as being a "chef". Still might be borderline gay, though.
/r/RPChristians21/08/20 10:11 PM
1

Become Catholic or Orthodox. These are the only churches in the Christian space that haven't sold out to "wokism" beginning in the 1930's.
/r/RPChristians21/08/20 10:02 PM
1

Fat women done want to fuck much. From my research as it’s a body image issue I actually disagree with this based on personal experience with some overweight women. I'd say fatties are more eager to please than some entitled hottie who hasn't had to put much effort forth in life because she looks so good. Not that I endorse whale hunting...
/r/askMRP20/08/20 10:18 AM
5

If you aren't interested in having children and/or are religiously motivated, there is no point in getting married. And I would actually argue against the former reason because marriage doesn't impact the custody/child support situation these days so, marriage for family's sake is spurius to me at this point.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 10:09 AM
2

Most of your issues stem from breaking Iron Rule #4 by cohabitating with your gf, especially since you moved into her place (read: entered her frame). She therefore thinks less of you which accounts for the shift in her behavior dynamic since you made the move.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 08:35 AM
3

"They call me Aaron Burr, the way I'm dropping Hamilton's"
/r/RPChristians22/07/20 08:03 PM
1

I'm not sure how you can disregard the actual meaning of ekklesia (assembly) or separate the apostolic activities of early Christians from places of congregation/worship, as if they can be compartmentalized or existed separately from each other. Obviously, this seems to be your protestant tail wagging the dog. Clearly, early Christians had both dimensions (evangelism and congregation/public worship) within their lives. This is seen in the Acts passage I quoted but also in the behavior of later c…
/r/RPChristians20/07/20 12:57 AM
5

Are you trying to tell everyone that you are actually gay?
/r/askMRP19/07/20 03:57 AM
1

Acts 2 talks about the early followers of The Way meeting in the Temple and then in their houses to "break bread", i.e., participate in the Eucharist since this was the major addition to Christian worship (Jews already studied and preached on the scriptures). So, there was a tradition from the very beginning of congregating in large meeting spaces. This evolved into what most would identify as a church building once The Way distinguished itself from Judaism and then was legalized in the Roman Em…
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 02:36 PM
1

Nice ad hominem.
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 02:23 PM
1

The answer to your question really depends on your goals/mission. With that mission clearly fixed in your mind, these type of career decisions will seem obvious. For example, I just took a job that pays well but requires a lot of work/hours. Now, I would never do something like this long-term but, my goal is financial independence so that I can engage in more concentrated Kingdom building. So, I can abide this work load for the next 2-3 years while I pad my portfolio and then get clear of needin…
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 12:50 PM
-3

She's testing boundaries like a two year old and you're failing to correct her. I would require that she delete all social media because it won't add anything positive to her or your life but, that's just me. This is the frame under which you should make the correction, not because you are jealous or fearful of her emotional entanglements. She smells that fear all over you right now and you'll need to eliminate it if you want her recognize that Homie don't play that.
/r/askMRP18/07/20 12:11 PM
0

$2,100/month for insurance?!?! For a family that makes no money? Sounds like you've been cucked by Obamacare. Better get on that state exchange, Biden boy.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 12:53 AM
6

Vasectomies are evil just like contraception is evil. It's tantamount to sterilizing yourself in order to escape the consequences of sexual activity. Real men take responsibility for their actions.
/r/RPChristians09/07/20 03:51 PM
0

Even in the very beginning of the ecclesia (Upper Room in Jerusalem), where Pentacost took place, the physical plant was key. Not only did Jesus choose it himself to institute the Lord's Supper, he also gifted his apostles the Holy Spirit there. The Church's genesis was in and thru an actual place. It is only Protestants, with their rejection of sacramental Christianity, that disregard the incarnational value of a church building.
/r/RPChristians09/07/20 02:35 AM
5

"Words, words, words." Hamlet and also you to your wife
/r/askMRP09/07/20 02:27 AM
3

Still pissed Kelly McGinnis became a fat lesbian.
/r/askMRP08/07/20 12:08 AM
2

So, you're saying church leaders should make decisions based on fear of losing money?
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 12:13 AM
7

Politics effects the free practice of religion. Just see China for reference.
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 12:09 AM
3

The Greek word used for church in the gospels is ecclesia, which refers to an assembly of citizens so, I think conflating brick and mortar buildings with the people of God is not far off the mark when reflecting on the meaning of the word "church". How else are people going to assemble for worship unless they have a suitable place? This was so from the very beginning of Christianity when Agape Meals were held in secret in followers' homes, not out in the open air where the authorities could arre…
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 12:06 AM
10

I’m a known chef in my city Known for being a huge homo that can make 5 varieties of Sloppy Joe with locally sourced ingredients. Girls are searching me out Why do you need our help, then? Oh, I forgot, you like to tune meat whistles. I’m stuck You're only stuck if you allow yourself to be. You need a self-induced wake up call: 1) go to your bathroom, look in the mirror, punch yourself in the dick and say out loud, "today is the day I stop being a fag." 2) do 100 Navy seal burpees every day for …
/r/askMRP20/06/20 03:05 PM
1

Well, you have a solid degree that will give you a lot of flexibility as far as what career path you want to take so, you have that going for you, which is nice. My view on jobs is that they are a means to an end. The end being whatever you want to do in life; slow travel, become spiritually enlightened, get married and have a family (dumb unless you are religious), thru hike the App Trail, etc. So, I guess I would advocate for any series of jobs that would get you to a place financially where y…
/r/askMRP10/06/20 10:26 PM
5

Feel that pain, that hatred, those vaginal secretions you call "negative emotions"? Good. Use those feelings to motivate yourself out of the loser pit YOU created. Get the div, hit the workouts...hard, and start looking for your next job. Sure, your ho of a STBX wife is responsible for her whoring but, look at it this way; would you rather find out about her slutty ways now or later when you have kids together and higher expenses? News flash: women aren't usually held responsible for their actio…
/r/askMRP09/06/20 07:18 PM
10

So many "she's" in this post. Your sack is in her frame because you allow it to be. If she has leverage over you, eliminate it for a time and see if she goes back to normal (assuming she has a "normal" state). She goes to take your son to her parents? "No problemo honey. Grab me a falafel on the way back." My theory is she isn't getting enough comfort from you during this pregnancy which is why she is acting out (you could be dreading her into this behavior with your solid gym stats and STFU). I…
/r/askMRP04/06/20 12:47 PM
2

Dude, you can get ripped doing calisthenics. How do you think those beasts in prison get so jacked when the warden takes their weights away? Excuses are like assholes...
/r/askMRP29/05/20 12:14 AM
2

You need a court ordered custody arrangement so she stops playing these games with your parenting time. Of course, that will probably mean court ordered child support as well but, believe me, it will be worth it in the long run so she has less control over your time/attention (that's what she really wants).
/r/askMRP25/05/20 02:10 AM
1

Best way to deal with these differences is to sniff them out BEFORE getting hitched. In other words, vet like a dude playing Russian roulette with a gun pointed at his ball sack (which is what marriage is). You reap what you sow and you clearly didn't sow thoughtful hypotheticals to your bride before the wedding.
/r/askMRP13/05/20 12:50 AM
2

The Chris Rock dilemma: "Commitment or new pussy."
/r/askMRP07/05/20 03:55 AM
1

Is his name Vladamir Guerrero? Dude hates on condoms like a hardcore Catholic should.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 03:54 AM
6

First off, why the hell are you allowing her to live in YOUR house?!?! If you want to start larping as a man with a sack; kick her out, finalize the div, and then decide if you still want her in your life. In the meantime, start exercising, fatty mcbutterpants, because even if you take her back (obviously, not legally), she'll lose respect for you in the long run if you aren't in shape.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:40 AM
2

How do I handle this situation? Stop relying in your wife or expecting her to do anything when it comes to your household for the foreseeable future. She is along for the ride, homie, and it's your job to make it smooth like a Caddy instead up bumpy and unreliable like a Mitsubishi.
/r/askMRP25/04/20 11:10 PM
2

For sure. I always say that a dad/husband's default should be to take care of everything himself, especially at first, and then delegate as needed. Most men don't realize that they can run circles around women when it comes to domestic shit and it isn't even that hard/time-consuming.
/r/askMRP25/04/20 10:58 PM
5

This dude dads.
/r/askMRP25/04/20 10:50 PM
3

Haha, it is that simple. It's also awesome how 98% of women don't know how to do this. They must think it's a male superpower.
/r/askMRP25/04/20 10:47 PM
2

Her purpose shouldn't be anything outside of your vision. If part of your vision is to have your FO work in a pyramid scheme, fine. If not, you need to nix this scenario as it's interfering with where you're taking the family. But, she has to fear losing you and have a high level of respect for this to work.
/r/askMRP23/04/20 12:25 PM
2

The road out of faggville and emotional dependance on your wife begins with excercise. You need less cardio (jogging), and more lifting. If you don't have a home gym, body weight exercises can work but you need to hit it hard like you're in prison and preparing for the next riot when the shanks come out. Don't slack on leg day either. Gonna be hard to get bulky with only calesthenics but, at least you can get cut. Strenuous training will deliver you from the emotional reliance you have on your w…
/r/askMRP22/04/20 03:55 PM
2

"Theology of the Body Explained" by Christopher West is a great synopsis of the very dense original text by JPII. If you are into heavy theological and philosophical works, by all means, dive right into the original. If not, check out TotBE.
/r/RPChristians18/04/20 04:28 AM
1

Run, don't walk away from this dumpster fire of a "relationship".
/r/RPChristians18/04/20 04:14 AM
2

I think i recognize your wife's MO; type A, demanding, opinionated. It takes a solid dude to tame one of these shrews but when you do, she can become a solid ally on your mission (you do have one, right?). Problem is, she's afraid to let you take the wheel because you haven't proven yourself capable. When you complain about work and don't OYS at home with the kids, finances, housework, etc, you may as well be parading around in a thong carrying a rainbow flag because she sees you as a complete g…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 04:08 AM
9

My gaydar is going off like I'm in Key West.
/r/askMRP15/04/20 01:03 AM
3

I feel you on this one. My last gf broke up with me because I told her she needed to lose weight. She hamstered my words to mean that I wasn't attracted to her which wasn't 100% true (I like women a bit thic but I draw the line at rolls and cellulite) but, yeah, it probably would have been an ongoing issue had we gotten married unless I brought huge amounts of dread to the table. But even then, she (and most women I've encountered) didn't possess the internal drive to maintain personal developme…
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 11:41 PM
2

I mean, I do like butts...
/r/askMRP12/04/20 06:01 AM
1

The "right one"? I don't think you'll ever know for certain, this side of heaven. Maybe you'll get glimpses every now and again that you made a good choice ( or a bad one, ha!) but, certainty? Probably isn't in the cards. We walk by faith, not by sight.
/r/RPChristians12/04/20 04:09 AM
1

RooshV has some good articles on this subject in the past month or so. I highly recommend you check them out. I would also advise a strict exercise regimen so that your body experiences exhaustion, along with consistent daily prayer to slay this dragon of lust. If you are really in the grip of addiction and can't get sober by yourself, go to a local SA meeting. They can show you the way to freedom, with God's help, of course.
/r/RPChristians12/04/20 02:49 AM
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"Hey guys, my wife pimp slapped me in front of her parents but I just STFU and walked away. My frame is rock solid, amiright?"
/r/askMRP08/04/20 12:28 AM
3

Good point. I would also say that our standard of living expectations are much higher now so we spend ourselves into needing more income than is necessary.
/r/RPChristians02/04/20 04:43 AM
1

Think I hear the Wu Flu wah-mbulence in its way.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 02:24 PM
3

Ruff means ruff.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 02:17 PM
3

If she's isn't enthusiastic, it's probably your fault for not being attractive enough, from a physical/game and/or confidence/mission perspective. I would focus in those aspects of your person rather than trying to assess what is going on in her headspace (you'll never really know anyway). My other thought is that this whole "wanting her to be psyched in bed" goal isnt a worthy one. Even if she becomes a complete tomcat in the sack, will that really help you to fulfill your purpose on this plane…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 05:55 PM
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It may seem counterintuitive but, the less you care about her emotions, desires, experience etc, the more she'll care about yours. She loses attraction for you when it becomes about her needs/wants because that signals to her that you have low confidence in yourself and your mission. Focus on what you want to do and everything will fall into place, assuming what you want to do isn't crossdressing or sitting around being lazy.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 05:41 PM
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Not really. How about 1 Cor 7? Let the unbelieving spouse leave. Even if you thought she was a Christian, clearly that isn't the case in her heart.
/r/RPChristians30/03/20 03:17 AM
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Increase in bra and buttplug size is the only increase allowed.
/r/askMRP29/03/20 06:58 PM
2

Ha, too true. Instead of societal standards getting them (secular women) off the hook, Christian women constantly appeal to God's mercy and totally disregard his justice.
/r/RPChristians29/03/20 02:10 AM
2

Amen to this. It seems like his self-imposed moratorium on dating has him thinking that his only option for a female relationship will be to get back together with the ex. So, in his loneliness, he is actually considering reuniting with the woman that abandoned him and shows no real sign of repentance! Talk about a twisted version of oneitis.
/r/RPChristians28/03/20 02:22 PM
2

Exactly, if she were truly repentant, she would have led with the apology first, not some lame excuse to contact him.
/r/RPChristians28/03/20 01:38 PM
1

"Forecast: dark and cloudy, with good chance of drive-by."
/r/askMRP27/03/20 02:27 PM
3

Exactly. Is it possible she'll go on a health kick and stay trim and fit for the rest of her life? Yes. Is it probable? Hellz no. I've never met a female fatty that became thin and stayed that way long-term. Not one effing time.
/r/askMRP25/03/20 05:49 PM
0

I got banned by some gaylord on MRP too. In all fairness, I did say something about repealing the 19th Amendment so, I get how nobody would want the utterly amazing country that would result 😃
/r/askMRP24/03/20 03:02 AM
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If you're buying the lingerie department, full speed ahead. If not, dump and move on. You need to listen to yourself because you clearly don't want to be married or in a cohabitation relationship with her.
/r/askMRP24/03/20 02:48 AM
1

Where's Jack Van Impe when you need him?
/r/RPChristians18/03/20 12:13 AM
2

Total stock market index fund. If you buy Fidelity's (fzrox), it has zero expense ratio. Vanguard's is great too although it has a small ER.
/r/RPChristians18/03/20 12:11 AM
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The Rona will have a low fatality rate as well, if we can actually find out how many contract it. Edit: and, btw, the difference is there is a prolife president in office.
/r/askMRP15/03/20 06:15 AM
1

H1N1 killed 17k in the US. I don't even remember that shizz and I'm 40. I wonder what's different this time?
/r/askMRP15/03/20 01:39 AM
1

Yes, but you aren't truly married in the eyes of the church until a church wedding takes place so, it isn't kosher to live together if civilly married but not ecclesially.
/r/RPChristians10/03/20 04:35 PM
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Damn son, that text train reminds me of my ex; 0 to dramaville in 5 seconds. Her unacceptable disrespect of you aside, this is a great opportunity for you to hold frame through her emotional shitstorm. My guess is, you haven't weathered these well in the past so, they've gotten worse and worse. But, as the saying goes, "the best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago and the second best time is now" so, welcome this hysteria as a builder of your manhood. The calmer and more stoic you can be, the …
/r/askMRP06/03/20 11:24 PM
1

I've been wrestling with this question myself lately and I think I've come to the conclusion that it's wishful thinking on my part to fake like they do. I guess I want a woman to add to my mission because, truthfully, I would enjoy her company but, I can't escape my (admittedly personal) observation that a minutely small number of them actually add much to my life outside of affection/companionship. Perhaps that is/can be enough for me? The harsh fact is that it hasn't been historically. Yet I c…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 04:22 AM
1

A similar circumstance happened to me when I was married re: sexually uninterested wife suddenly getting interested. Long story short, it ended up being a result of her having a string of emotional affairs and getting suddenly horny as a result. Not that this is what is going on in your situation but I would advise you to be very vigilant right now until you get that body fat down. I'm 6'3", 195 and feel like I have 5-10lbs to go to max out my aesthetics. Ymmv.
/r/RPChristians03/03/20 07:42 PM
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Haha, don't think I know any married men who are even in the ballpark when it comes to harshness towards their wives. More like the doormat ballpark.
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 07:03 PM
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Sounds like you're being motivated more by fear than by discerning God's path for your life and boldly stepping into that reality. God has us where we are for a reason, no matter what vocational state we are in. I'm single and 40 and, I have to say, I feel sorry for the married Christian and non-christian men in our culture who tend to be ruled by their wives and kids. To me, it looks a bit like slavery. That isn't to say I don't feel lonely at times but, now, I'm not sure if "curing" that lonel…
/r/RPChristians27/02/20 12:51 PM
1

So true. Getting tired if the whole "show that to me in the Bible" proof standard. Homie, the word Trinity isn't in the Bible yet, you still believe God is three distinct persons in one nature. SMH.
/r/RPChristians23/02/20 02:27 PM
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I had previously said I wasn't romantically interested in her Tell me how this essay wasn't a gigantic waste of time?
/r/RPChristians23/02/20 02:21 PM
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Are you married? If not, don't worry about it. I'm guessing you're at least living together (stupid) which is why this concern is rearing its ugly head. If I'm right, you need to start earning something and manage that income like you're Alan Greenspan. The key is to have a vision for your life that your finances enable and you ruthlessly follow. If you start walking down that path, your woman will get on board or put up resistance. The latter is futile if she sees the results. If she can't unde…
/r/askMRP23/02/20 07:08 AM
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Just because something doesn't benefit me in an earthly way or may be treacherous and likely detrimental on many levels, doesn't mean I should avoid it. Some men have a calling to be married, lead a wife, and raise a family. The current state of our society and its laws/mores are irrelevant to God's plan and my cooperation with it.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 09:17 PM
3

Was wondering about the same thing myself. We should have meetups that get together semi regularly to hash out strategies and kill the beta.
/r/askMRP18/02/20 08:27 PM
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If the pay is good, who cares? Let these sluts drive business in the west into the ground while you stack that cash until you can GTFO. Then, work on something that you actually care about instead of trading the best years of your life for $.
/r/askMRP17/02/20 11:29 PM
1

I've been working in a similar company to the one you described for a while and, except for the severe PTO policies, I think I know exactly what you are facing. You sound like a reasonable, diligent, and productive guy who would be welcome at any number of companies. The type of work environment you describe, however, will test those characteristics like never before. Your VP has a control obsession that exists in many small to medium business owners who get their identity from their work. Maybe…
/r/RPChristians10/02/20 02:11 PM
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Cucked by the Trix mascot.
/r/askMRP05/02/20 05:11 AM
1

"I see your true colors, shining through." - gorging yourself because you have no self respect/control. "I see your true colors, and that's why I love you." - I don't mind your morbid obesity, so much so that I'm going to pledge more than half my future earnings to you because I'm too pussy to send you where you really belong: fat camp.
/r/askMRP05/02/20 04:53 AM
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OP needs to offend her constantly so she doesn't have time to stuff her pie hole.
/r/askMRP05/02/20 04:30 AM
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Tell her that this "open marriage" idea is fine as long as she gets a job. Once she's employed for about a year or so, pull the trigger on the div. This trick has been brainwashed by your new liberal church and you are reaping what you've sown (living in a non or semi biblical way will lead to unhappiness). Put your "go plan" in place and GTFO before she comes up with any more bright ideas.
/r/askMRP30/01/20 09:30 PM
2

Captain is the best
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:08 AM
1

Probably a blessing in disguise. You need the stop eating.
/r/askMRP27/01/20 03:46 AM
1

At least he isn't spending even more money than he makes on belly fat inducing double IPAs. Still, pounding Coors lights err day is pretty gay.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 09:21 PM
1

$200/week on eating out, just for her? No wonder she is A) blubbery and B) financially irresponsible. Both of these outcomes are your fault. First thing I would do is put her on austerity measures like she was the nation of Greece. You want to stay in the EU (my family)? You won't be spending more than a specific amount that I put on a rechargeable debit card every week on Sundays (no more gyros everyday for lunch). If she stays home all day, that house should be sparkling AND a healthy meal bet…
/r/askMRP26/01/20 07:44 PM
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Sounds like Aretha Franklin in Blues Brothers except she was a hard working woman that brought home the bacon (and ate a lot of it too). Doubtful there are many like her anymore.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:59 AM
2

betas destroyed civilization by allowing women to vote Truer words were never spoken.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:29 AM
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The problem here is that you don't trust the Church's teachings on sex. Thing is, it's either correct or erroneous. The teaching either came from the Holy Spirit and will lead to greater joy and holiness, or it comes from man/Satan and it won't. The root issue is your lack of faith that the Catholic Church is directed by God. Deal with that and everything will take care of itself. Hint: Isaiah 55:9
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 05:24 AM
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Phenomenal write up, brother. We cannot be slaves if we are to be the leaders of our wives and households.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 05:09 AM
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All Christian churches were against contraception (vasectomies are a form) until the 1930's. So, it's not like the RC Church was alone on this one. They just happen to be the last man standing, however, just like they were on abortion until fairly recently.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 05:04 AM
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Yes, those prohibitions still apply because those actions (homosexual/incestual) violate Natural Law.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 05:00 AM
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Actually, it's both natural law and Revelation. Jewish dietary laws, for example, don't apply to Christian's because there is no natural law reasoning to follow them, at this point, even though God prescribed it then.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:58 AM
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Contraception has always been immoral, from the Christian standpoint, even after the Reformation, up until the early 20th century when the the Anglican Church was the first denomination to publicly endorse its practice at the Lambeth Conference in 1930.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:51 AM
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Great input, right here. Trust in God's providence (or lack thereof) is the at the heart of OP's dilemma.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:46 AM
1

Jesus prayed that they all might be one.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:44 AM
1

Genesis 38:9 addresses the evil of contraception.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:42 AM
1

Genesis 38:9 speaks to God's opinion on contraception.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:39 AM
1

Genesis 38:9 speaks to how God was angered by Onan who "spilled his seed."
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:37 AM
1

Baller explanation, my man.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:31 AM
1

Great synopsis, thanks for responding.
/r/RPChristians19/01/20 04:28 AM
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If you're asking questions about her mindset, you have already lost the game. Attempting to figure out a woman's thought process is the lazy (and foolish) man's strategy. Focus on yourself and getting better at being the man you were born to be and "all these things will be added unto you."
/r/askMRP19/01/20 03:02 AM
3

I'd hate to lose that first edition of Talking Book. Shit should have won Stevie his fourth best album Grammy.
/r/askMRP18/01/20 12:37 AM
0

Don't believe the "it's not gay if it's a three-way" hype. It definitely is.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:06 AM
5

Student debt of that size is a red flag if whatever degree that was earned doesn't lead to a job with strong compensation. That being said, $70k/year isn't terrible, especially if you guys live in a cheaper COLA. She can pay it off in 3-5 years if she lives on half of her income. Bottom line, if she has a plan to pay it off and you see her execute on it, I'd say that she is better than most women out there and a sign that she is a keeper. Typically, however, they'll try to get some man (father, …
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:03 AM
1

Gotta start somewhere so, props for getting poker night off the ground even if only one dude showed up. Maybe go on Meetup.com and start a poker night for locals?
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:54 AM
1

For sure this was a master class in perseverance. Worth it? That's an entirely different question.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:05 AM
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Wow, that was a lot of work.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:44 PM
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Awesome synthesis right here. Thank you.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:09 AM
1

Homie what? Did u just say rationality is irrational?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:05 AM
1

You need to do some push-ups, like now.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 11:04 PM
2

Might want to show him how compound interest works by gameifying investments. There are a number of free sites that let you model and track different investment strategies. You two could compete against each other to see who wins. Or, just open up an IRA for him and match a percentage of what he invests from his various odd jobs. Once he sees the growth (especially in this market), he'll be hooked and want to start making more $ to invest it.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 03:57 AM
3

I love telling lib gaylords I voted for Donnie. Their shocked/horrified expressions are worth the effort of actually replying to their pointless questions.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 01:28 PM
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Not sure how her angry text to you is relevant. Ignore and keep moving towards your mission. What's that? You don't have a mission outside of the one in Call of Duty? Shocking. Remember; she only has power over you if you let her.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 09:50 PM
1

You reek of oneitis. Work on that and the whole situation will take a turn for the better. You mention how hot she is but, if she treats you like shit and doesn't bang you on the regs, what good is that beauty? Why do you put up with her disrespect? It's probably because her beauty validates something in you. This is the crux of the matter and the reason why you guys have a dysfunctional relationship. Your situation reminds me of that part in the Odyssey when their ship sails past the island of …
/r/askMRP02/01/20 08:41 PM
1

The truth hurts.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:46 PM
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Any kids? If not, I would probably next even though I like them a bit thicker. 240lbs? That's Fatty Mcbutterpants territory and should not be tolerated by a dude with any self respect.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 10:51 PM
1

Solid explanation. If you didn't grow up in a solidly Catholic environment, it's hard to understand the beta juice boys are raised on and how they expect the world to play nice since they follow all the rules for life set out by the Church. It's a gigantic covert contract with God that can have disastrous effects. Ask me how I know.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 10:40 PM
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To me the red flag is that you are both practicing Catholics (which means no artificial contraception) but she doesn't want to have your children...yet. If you guys aren't having kids, you're probably not banging on the regs (unless there are fertility issues) and, if you aren't banging on the regs, you've got trouble, right here in River City. Sure she deceived you, about a not inconsequential amount of money, but to me, you have bigger problems; i.e. your wife doesn't want to have your childre…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 10:27 PM
1

Awesome comment right here.
/r/RPChristians30/12/19 01:55 AM
1

If you're fapping/watching porn, that could be the problem here. Otherwise, I don't think you'd have a problem getting it up (if you're healthy and under 60), unless she's jellyroll city.
/r/RPChristians30/12/19 01:53 AM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP29/12/19 11:20 PM
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No way I would move out if there are kids in the mix and you care about being granted at least 50/50. Only move once the judge signs off on the custody arrangement.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 11:16 PM
1

Cucked by machines.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 03:24 PM
4

Biggest red flag of a prospect for me is her sense of entitlement. Sadly, this is very common amongst women in the west, that I've seen. Sometimes it's more difficult to recognize. Perhaps she has a job and lives on her own but, guess what? She works 20hrs per week and is on section 8 housing assistance or her Dad pays some/majority of her bills. Basically, she refuses to take full responsibility for herself because "life is hard". I'm not against people taking advantage of assistance when neede…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:05 AM
1

Yes, he's beta for wanting such a woman...and probably gay too. The logical end to fantasizing about masculine women is fellating the D.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:20 AM
1

You are thinking about small, particular interactions with your wife when your mind and energy should be put into the big, consequential questions of your life. Formulate some answers there and you won't be consumed by this day to day minutiae.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 04:29 AM
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Been there, got the T-shirt. I feel for you, homie. My situation was a bit different because she kept up the affair for months after I found out by sneaking around. She was also never really that remorseful (until divorce papers were filed) and then she got impregnated by Chad "Doesn't wear a condom" McChadster. Don't be surprised if this happens to you as well, no matter how sorry she seems. While you say your wife ended things with Yoga Chad, how can u be sure? Now that she knows you know, you…
/r/askMRP21/12/19 04:19 PM
4

The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. The second best time is now.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:12 AM
2

Not always a shit deal for men. I know a few guys who actually receive child support from their ex's, and, no, they weren't gay married.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 08:52 PM
1

Equal income is the key. Even if you have more assets entering the marriage, she won't have access to them in the event of a divorce because they were possessed before tying the knot (although appreciation of those assets during the marriage is on the table). Otherwise, you just have to worry about custody of any children you have although, the standard breakdown is 50/50 unless you're a complete jabronee. All in, marriage can be a pretty good deal if your wife has decent employment prospects.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 03:38 PM
2

Very interesting. Any good resources you could recommend? I'm definitely in need of something like this to deal with resentment.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:08 PM
2

Sounds gay but, Meetup.com has brought me a number of friends over the years. Whatever you're interested in, they probably have a meetup for it. Personally, I want to play more poker so, I joined a meetup for it. Making new friends is a skill that is learned so, don't get down on yourself if it doesn't just happen, especially if (like me) you live far from your place of origin. It can be a struggle at first but, you'll become better for it and, that's what life is all about.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:11 PM
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Why would you want to trust a woman again? What would trusting her get you? You only need to trust someone that you rely on. Why would you ever rely on a woman?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:09 AM
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I think you handled it well. Didn't sound butt hurt, which is the key, even though she is a flake and kept the relationship in play. Sometimes game takes time. Live to fight another day, homie.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:03 AM
2

One thing I've realized recently is that, although women crave to be with a man on mission, that quest needs to be fun, exciting, interesting for her to stay faithful. You may be planning a great future and working towards it diligently now but, women typically can't delay gratification that far ahead so, you need to take care of her now, so you guys actually get to the promised land, together. Think oasis in the desert on a long caravan trip. Also, it sounds like she doesn't feel like she contr…
/r/askMRP15/12/19 05:30 AM
2

Best comment on the thread.
/r/askMRP15/12/19 04:17 AM
4

Can't believe you're defending his leech of a wife. $9k for a communication class?!? Did she get to communicate with dead people or something? Paging Napoleon Bonaparte.
/r/askMRP15/12/19 03:54 AM
2

Another thing to think about; her medication may be causing a loss of libido.
/r/RPChristians13/12/19 05:18 AM
1

This situation reminds me of the run-up to the Civil War. The South wanted to bounce but Lincoln thought the country would lose too much ($ for him, in your case, it's face) by letting it go. So, he decided to MAKE them stay through untold violence and death. This is likely just a sizeable shit test on the part of your wife so, treat it like you normally would. A&A, AM, etc and then see where you are. If you're a man of value, she won't fulfill her threat and come back to you. If you aren't, you…
/r/RPChristians13/12/19 05:15 AM
1

"Also understand you are going to have to accept that you must cultivate a mindset of, "I don't care if she stays or goes." If you are constantly trying to hold onto her, you'll probably lose her." Phenomenal stuff right here. Reminds me of Matt 16:25: "whoever would save his life will lose it."
/r/RPChristians13/12/19 04:57 AM
1

Inform the landlord that you guys are moving when the lease is up. Then, go find another place and start moving your shit over. Your wife will either come with you or she'll be out on the street. Pretty simple. The key to this whole strategy is to cut off her access to your money so that she can't pay for any bills, etc. She'll probably throw a fit but, this will be good practice for holding frame and doing what is best for your family, regardless of her childish behavior.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 09:30 PM
2

Never leave the primary residence where your child is being raised. This will ensure that you retain at least 50% custody of your child when the divorce happens. Why do you care what she, her family or anyone else thinks about your actions/motivations? No one lives your life but you and if your situation is intolerable like you say, you have every right to remedy it.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 12:59 PM
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Step 1: separate finances. Set up a new bank account, get your paycheck deposited there, transfer money from the joint account into the new one. Step 2: stop paying the rent (get an eviction notice if need be). Move to a cheaper place together where you DON'T leave. Step 3: wait for permanent residency after which you should file for divorce. Step 4: start living your life with actual agency so that your child doesn't end up as an excuse factory like you.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 05:56 AM
5

Did u tell her it's because she gained weight? "Less ho-hos, more photos, baby."
/r/askMRP06/12/19 02:39 AM
1

Personally, I prefer the 70's porn bush look. Happy trail is where I draw the line, though.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 08:24 PM
3

Feminism is one gigantic shit test being perpetrated on Western Civilization and men are failing it, big time. It may seem that women want more power and control and influence but, that is just a facade, brought about, among other things, by the terror and meaninglessness of sterilized sex. It's a lot like how black women have become super type A/angry/"empowered" since their men abandoned their families. They "don't need a man" so, they go about life acting strong and powerful when in reality, …
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:33 AM
1

Not gay if it's a three-way.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 12:35 PM
3

My gf broke up with me so, I stole her wheelchair. Guess who came crawling back?
/r/askMRP03/12/19 11:26 AM
4

Dog, I'd be doing cartwheels if I were you. Like Louis CK said, "everything is awesome, but no one is happy."
/r/askMRP22/11/19 03:13 AM
11

Exactly. Effing degenerate culture can't understand a blessing if it slaps them in the grill.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 03:11 AM
2

Damn dog, you a beast. I'm 6'3 and plateaued my weight loss at 195. Gotta stop pussing out and throw some more multi day fasts in there.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 06:26 PM
1

Agreed, snake juice was a game changer for me.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 06:24 PM
6

Mayfield doesn't just suck on the football field...
/r/askMRP21/11/19 01:12 PM
2

Gonna go against the accepted wisdom here and give you some raw truth that our effed up culture of slavery and dispair won't tell you; encourage her to have the baby and enjoy fatherhood. Take it from someone who has the biggest cunt in history for my daughter's mom, I would trade 20 years of drama and child support payments and ridiculousness for even one second of time with my daughter. Raising her part time has been the best thing that I ever did and I don't know why so many people in the Wes…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:22 PM
4

Sounds like she's setting u up for some strange betabux scenario where she can crash at your pad when she wants but with no strings attached (ie, go out searching for bf material). Seems pretty casual to me so, I guess it's up to you to find it acceptable or not.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:17 PM
22

Damn, what do you need, an air traffic controller!? She's been waiting all damn semester for a "study partner".
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:20 PM
3

Truth sirum right here
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:55 AM
2

Women tend to be hyper focused on gaining the approval of their social milieu. So, if a girl grows up in a religious environment, most likely she'll mimic and give lip service to the directives of that community, even if, interiorly, she is completely different. I'm a religious dude and, I have to say, I haven't met many religious women that, when the chips were down, ended up displaying good character. If they did, it was because they had a solid male influence in their life coaching them into …
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:53 AM
9

"She was having a hard time getting to the top of the trail and needed to stop and catch her breath several times." BMI; land whale level Blood type; Ragu
/r/askMRP13/11/19 04:30 AM
3

Lie: "I’m an attractive woman and I get a lot of attention." Truth: "I'm a Fatty Mcbutterpants but thirsty betas want me anyway 🤷"
/r/askMRP09/11/19 01:59 PM
6

I'm 6'3", 195 and I still consider myself overweight. Sure, much of that weight is muscle but, I'm def not shredded. Probably have another 10 lbs to lose. Get that fasting regimen going and you'll be there in no time. Snake diet all the way, brochacho.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 04:49 AM
2

Didn't see anyone mention fasting but, for time to hit goal weight, it's the best method by far. Check out that Canadian maniac that promotes the Snake Diet. He has a recipe on his site for electrolyte water that makes fasting muuuch easier than normal fasting. Seriously, I would get headaches if I fasted 16 hours. Now I can go 72hrs no problem on the Snake Juice alone. Be prepared to feel super alert, save money on food, and gain productivity.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:57 PM
14

She probably made you think she could heal some deep seated wound of yours from childhood. Those are the type of chicks that can cause oneitis real quick. It's good to reflect on why you felt so strongly about her when your logic is alerting you to the red flags. This happens to me when I meet women that remind me of my mom. She was always distant and we never had much of a relationship. Now, when I meet a woman who is attractive, smart, and distant, I catch feels quickly because my subconscious…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:08 PM
2

We talkin bout the 90's R & B singer? Nice pull...20 years ago.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 03:41 AM
5

Did that ring come with a Miata? Because that's the only thing that could make that purchase gayer/dumber.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 03:36 AM
1

Watch out for icebergs!
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:26 PM
6

Why do you care what she said? She thinks your cheap, so what? What would you rather have; more Benji's or her opinion that you are a beta bux?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:51 PM
3

Just listen to Mr Miyagi's wise counsel: "Win, lose...no matter. You make good fight, earn respect. Then, they leave you alone."
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:46 PM
1

Your principles are being compromised continuously because of your oneitis. Only you can decide if she is worth that trade-off.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:11 PM
1

If you know anything about Muzzi culture, you would know that there tend to be a shit ton of gaylords. I believe this trend is similar to what happens in prison where dudes turn gay because they have no females for a sexual outlet. So, counterintuitively, I believe that the Muzzification of the West, if that happens, will actually result in higher incidence of homo activity. Perhaps this is why Western libs support Palestine over Israel?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:05 PM
3

You aren't going to solve this problem with words. Only your example and encouragement will get the job done. For example, I noticed recently that my teenage daughter hasn't been making her bed every morning. When I brought it up to her, she just said that I don't do it on the regs either. Sure I could make her do it by threatening negative consequences but, that won't get her in the habit of doing the task daily and of her own volition which is, ultimately, what I want. But, she won't see the g…
/r/askMRP01/11/19 04:25 PM
2

Exactly. I wouldn't judge yourself too harshly (or harshly at all) for having these validation seeking patterns. Afterall, most men in the West grow up with this mindset (women are the arbiters of strength and weakness in men). Just be thankful that you have the self reflection necessary to get to the root of these negative (and false!) beliefs.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:26 PM
2

I'd say it's a good idea to assume that women these days rarely tell the whole truth. Being honest is hard and, in this cultural climate, typically offensive. So, women are afraid to be earnest.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:20 PM
1

It's all in how you frame it. You can look at it as a failure on your end or as an interesting situation that you can learn from but which carries no weight as to your standing as desirable or undesirable, as strong or weak. If you see yourself as a failure in this situation, it's because you're giving this woman the power of judgment over you. Ask yourself; why did i give that to her? In your opinion, does she deserve to have that power? Why or why not? I'm guessing she represents someone in yo…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:09 PM
3

As a lifelong Catholic and having gone to many protestant churches as well along the journey, I'd say at church you have a better chance of finding a woman that will at least give lip service to traditional values than you would by pulling a rando at a bar or online. The question is, will that church girl live out those principles? My experience has been that the answer to that is a crap shoot. Some do have good characters (usually because they had a strong father) and will make a submissive wif…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:53 PM
3

Truth right here. The fact of the matter is that the Christian population tends to mirror the population at large in this country. Divorce rate in the Christian churches? It's the same 50% as the US as a whole.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:35 PM
3

I didn't hear anything wrong about your approach with her in terms of dread although you did try to LTR her after only 1 month. I think she just found someone more appealing (to her) and didn't want to risk losing him by carrying on with you.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:22 PM
5

Probably was spinning you as a plate and found some other guy that she doesn't want to lose. It's not that she didn't like you, it's that, for whatever reason, she sees more potential in this other dude. I'd say you dodged a cheating ho bullet on this one.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:18 PM
1

My experience with overweight women is that, even if they lose the weight, they typically gain it back sooner or later. They just don't have the internal discipline to keep it off if they didn't grow up caring about their BMI. It's just too easy for woman to be fatties these days because the culture gives them so many excuses through the "body positive" movement and Disneyland principles. Also, most men have low standards today because we are slaves to the puss so, we put up with women who let t…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:01 AM
1

Mutual funds, dog. Get that FU money right and then you never have to bend over for the Man.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:03 AM
1

Know what Bill Belichek said when the Pats shit their pants in a big loss to KC in 2014? Go and do likewise.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 10:39 PM
1

Haha, "champs train, chumps complain."
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:32 AM
2

Exactly. I had similar lower back pain after squatting so I started doing weighted lounges and wall sits to prep those muscles and stabilize them for the heavier squatting excercise. Worked wonders.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:30 AM
1

Will you be a victim or a victor? This is completely your choice.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:26 AM
1

Hank the bank Gathers. Dude had game...unlike this fool.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 02:39 AM
2

"Trust me a women that wants to be a sahm isn’t doing it to further her husbands career." Truth right here. I'm a conservative dude and so tend to date more traditional women. 9/10, they don't like having a job and are looking for a dude to be their ticket to early retirement. Sure, they'll claim that being a sahm is just as hard as a 9-5 but, that is only true if they are owning their shit completely on the home front AND the kids aren't old enough for school. That or they have a strong husband…
/r/askMRP24/10/19 08:48 PM
4

Ha, good catch. Can't stand dudes that live according to the dictates of their wives. Is the puss that phenomenal that he puts himself in shackles to get it? Sounds like the indentured servitude we learned about in middle school social studies.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 03:33 AM
11

No, be gentle with yourself. Having high standards for your actions doesn't mean you should put yourself down. That's what women are for 😀
/r/askMRP24/10/19 03:28 AM
3

Someone call the wah-mbulence.
/r/askMRP21/10/19 02:14 PM
3

Can't believe you actually used the term "slut shaming" on a RP sub. For your follow-up post, I suggest talking about how women shouldn't be judged when they eat themselves into Fatty Mcbutterpants status.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:05 PM
7

The temptation to DEER is always difficult when them ho's get yo pride involved. In those moments, just remember what uncle Marcellus said... https://youtu.be/ruhFmBrl4GM
/r/askMRP20/10/19 11:34 AM
3

If you are as traditional and conservative minded as you claim, I'd say 6 years is way too long to date without getting married. Something about the relationship is making you hesitate...for 6 years. I realize you two are only in your 20's but, still. It sounds like you are wasting your and your gf's time and the distance is probably making it easier for Chad to make an appearance. From your post, it doesn't actually seem like you want to be married to your gf (or anyone else) yet so, be honest …
/r/askMRP18/10/19 12:30 PM
1

Awesome advice right here. Our system (assuming USA) is designed to produce debt slaves that don't have many options other than keeping our noses to the grindstone until 65. All so we can have nice things/experiences now and pay for them (with interest) later.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:04 PM
1

At this point in history, I think people are waking up to the reality that govt is just a service, and that if you don't like the local service, you can just move on to more favorable surroundings. For example, a lot of people are leaving progressive stronghold states like Cali and Illinois for smaller govt type states like Florida, NH, and Nevada. If things get too bad federally, I think you'll see migration to more liberty minded places in South America and so forth. In the final analysis, no …
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:25 AM
1

My theory: I realized lately that I prefer Mrs. Butterworth's to real maple syrup on my flapjacks. Maybe you feel the same way and it turns out this trick is from Vermont so, she now views you as a Philistine.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:09 AM
2

Watch Aladdin for the frame you need. Just don't free the Genie with your last wish...that's gay.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:34 PM
1

As a single dad who shares custody with an insane ho of an ex/mother, I feel your pain. Best strategy is to get your own place (preferably nearby) and do your best to get your son to spend time over there with you. Lay the groundwork now by spending as much time as possible with your son at crazy's crib. Build him up, challenge him a little and be there to support him in meeting those challenges. Having a son is a HUGE advantage as a single dad in your situation because young men are naturally d…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:13 AM
1

Did that book make you take up smoking? The way he described cigarettes made them seem so phenomenal.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 03:53 AM
3

Dude is one of the fatties in Wall-e that floats around in his personal hovercraft and drinks Big Gulps.
/r/askMRP13/10/19 01:42 AM
11

Why did y'all even get married if all you do is cheat on each other. It's like you have an unspoken open marriage...with combined finances.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 12:53 AM
1

I don't know her or you but I would venture to guess the answer is found within your question itself. Ask yourself; why are you wondering about this in the first place? It's probably because you judge yourself based on how women react to you. That puts you in their frame and that's when dryness and orgasm problems start to occur. If you measure yourself according to how people perceive you (especially women!), you will find you'll never quite meet the standard. Why? Because we're all idealists i…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:11 PM
1

I would ride out your current gig until something pops on either the real estate side or some other W2 job. You may not be making much money at your current job but, having time on your hands is a huge advantage when trying to make a side gig into a successful, full time job. Also, if you already have 4 rentals, why not continue amassing properties until you generate enough rental income to stop working a job?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:50 PM
1

I feel you but, I would say I'm more concerned about the influence of her mother on her than I am about losing time with her.
/r/askMRP05/10/19 01:12 AM
2

Yes, good point, OI is important here. And quality over quantity, for sure. My main hang-up is with who/what is influencing her and doing my best to be the strongest presence so that she becomes a woman of character. I guess i get caught up dreading the influence of her mother/peers instead of focusing on what I can control.
/r/askMRP05/10/19 01:11 AM
7

Good stuff, thanks.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 10:13 PM
-1

Someone needs to call the wah-mbulence. Hopefully it will deliver some wah-mburgers and French cries.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:35 AM
5

"cynical" or "realists"?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:27 AM
1

It's just another way women escape from responsibility. "Oh, the star formations made me hope on that D!"
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:19 AM
2

I would just broken record the "I've been swamped" line. Follow up with, "I'm glad we're connecting now" to add a little comfort if she isn't a total C and then change the subject. If she is, why the hell are you still talking to her?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:00 PM
4

Better slow your roll, G. If you want to LTR her, that's cool but, you haven't even graduated or gotten a job yet so, you are in no position to start thinking about putting a ring on it. Besides, ain't no human relationship in history that's been without conflict. Even the best people in history (Jesus, Muhammad) faced betrayal and persecution. You two are no different. The time will come when disagreements and fighting creep in and you'll see your black unicorn in a less flattering light. It's …
/r/askMRP01/10/19 01:44 AM
1

So, he cheated on you? Don't know why you would adore a man that would do that... The other point I would make is that, at the end of the day, you were addicted, in some sense, to the way he influenced you to feel. It wasn't him, per se. It was how you reacted to him on an emotional level that created the attachment. He activated certain psychological triggers in you, for some reason. There is much self knowledge "gold" to be mined here that, I think will help you put this relationship in perspe…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:48 PM
1

We talk about men leading women all the time around here. This is due to the natural order of things. If men are the leaders, that's because they have vision and direction. For some reason, women are attracted to men that have that vision or mission. I believe this is because women are incapable of providing it for themselves so, they need men to fully actualize themselves.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:27 PM
19

Sounds like butt hurt to me...
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:47 AM
4

Sounds like Dorothy got a peek at what's behind the curtain. Spoiler alert: most women are selfish and have low characters. That's why, deep down, they need men to fully actualize.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:53 PM
11

I've been getting a lot from Wes Watson's (former Cali state prisoner) vids. They aren't specifically about RP theory but, I think there is a lot of crossover in his message.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:41 PM
1

They say that comparison is the thief of joy and it seems like that's the case here. The fact is, you guys broke up for a reason which means that at least one of you (or both) had misgivings about the other. Focus on those misgivings as a way to detach from your regrets.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:24 PM
1

To be honest, if I pair bond with a woman (long-term or short term relationship), I don't think I ever completely "move on" as you say. It's cool though, our ability to care about others or "catch feelings" is one of the fantastic things about the human race. It separates us from the animals. It makes us more divine than earthly.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:25 AM
13

Your butthurt shines through my cellphone screen. Clearly you shouldn't have tried to change plans at such a crucial moment but, it's easy to Monday morning quarterback any failure so, don't beat yourself up. Once you heard she was going out with friends, you should have cut your losses and ghosted this golddigger. The fact that you debated her character, or lack thereof, just dries up the poon even more. Chalk this one up as a lesson learned and stop paying for chick's drinks.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:19 AM
3

Great stuff right here. Pedestalizing women is one of the main contributors to male misery. We have to face the truth that they will not, ultimately, bring us happiness, comfort, contentment, etc. Women are the golden calf idol of contemporary Western men.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:09 AM
2

Dating apps are a numbers game my dude. Rejection only loses it's sting if you go thru it again and again. Sooner or later, this rejection will build in you a bulletproof frame that will attract even those fickle tinder thots.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:02 AM
1

I've been thru this situation multiple times, especially in my BP days. What has worked for me is embracing the feelings of loss, grief, etc. Confront those emotions head on instead of attempting to avoid them. The pain that you feel now is the source of your growth in the future so, take advantage of those negative feelings to propel yourself to greater interior strength.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:20 AM
3

Mr Myagi has your answer: "Win, lose...no matter. You make good fight. Earn respect".
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:03 AM
4

Go with the backhand to make it extra pimp-ish.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:56 AM
14

Dog, these are all classic comfort tests. She is feeling the dread like a mofo Give her a little security (hugs, reassurance, etc) and watch her shine. You do realize you're winning, right? Also, why do u care what she is feeling at a given time? That shit is fleeting and deserves less attention than you are giving it.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 06:40 PM
4

I have found excercise helps a lot. Your body needs an outlet to that energy and it just so happens that jizzing is the most pleasurable way to do that. And what is the easiest? Jerking to porn because all you have to do is fire up a smart phone. No approaching or gaming women required. What's key in this process of detachment is noticing when you start getting horny. When that happens, go to the gym or bust out some push-ups/burpies, if possible. This will channel your energy into positive, gro…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:23 PM
0

Mothers are typically idiots when it comes to disciplining children, even their own because they are nurturers. They don't have a vision of what type of person they want their child to become. Shit, they don't have vision about anything! Your wife is acting up because you are putting her in the unnatural position of having to be the disciplinarian. She is not secure in your leadership on this point which is why her shit testing is at an all-time high. The answer is to this issue is to take a har…
/r/askMRP28/09/19 02:22 AM
4

I would respond to her and reinitiate yourself into her life, this time with more frame awareness. Be casual and DGaF. She'll find this behavior intriguing. Maybe she'll stick around for a while, maybe just for another month or so. Hate to break it to you but, this woman is not LTR material based on your description (too much ADD when it comes to you). If she's wishy washy now, trick gonna be way worse down the road.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:48 PM
5

I'm with you on everything but the homo fantasy part.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 09:07 PM
17

Not sure why this is a problem. She wants to live separately for the foreseeable future and still gives you what you need? Dog, this is the dream scenario.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 02:19 PM
5

Can't up vote this enough. Solid gold comment. I always talk about how hot women usually have low character because they've been given everything in life. Guess what, it happens to men, in a slightly different way, as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:58 AM
1

Always ignore what women say. Very few, in my experience, have any integrity because they can hamster out of any lie they tell or deception they've done. Simply continue doing what you want to do and ignore her noise. If you want to see her again, ask her out. If she agrees to meet or not, you have your answer either way.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:50 PM
1

The problem with women this young is that, despite their, as you called it, conservative upbringing, you never know how our toxic culture is going to effect them in the long-term. She may be as u describe, close to ideal, right now but, if she goes to college (or is in college or hangs out with college attendees), she'll likely succumb to the typical temptations that we would associate with ruining her as a LTR/marriage candidate. I would tread lightly here. Maintain frame and see where it goes …
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:52 PM
1

The Ambiguously Gay Trio - Ace, Gary, and they're new bro, Phil.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:42 AM
3

Haha, savage truth right here.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 03:31 PM
6

If you are Christian, I would simply pursue your own daily spiritual practices and involve the family. Catholic? Pray the rosary every night together. Protestant? Dig into the word, have the kids read verses aloud, etc. And obviously, you make it a point to go to church on Sundays. Consistency is basically what you need here.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 03:30 AM
9

The answer in this circumstance is always, "there's the door." Get yo ass back in the crib and talk to a lawyer. You can't negotiate her desire to be with you. Sure, her sister probably filled her mind with all this CC bs but, that only accelerated the decline of your relationship, it's not responsible for it. You have yourself to thank for that.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 02:54 AM
0

Lose that weight and those shit tests will turn into comfort tests. Plus she'll be begging for the D. Also, who cares if she recognizes your phenomenal parenting prowess? What does that get you if she does?
/r/askMRP12/09/19 01:55 PM
1

You sure she wasn't laughing because she thought you preferred penis to vag?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:55 AM
4

Holy shit, you are the most verbose mofo I've seen on here.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:51 AM
1

Not to sound gay but, I read a quote by Elizabeth Taylor talking about her hysterectomy and I think it's apropos here since both it and vasectomies effectively sterilize the patient. "It felt like being executed on the inside."
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:18 AM
1

Probably because management requires a certain amount of vision/direction/purpose and women have a hard time originating that. They need a man's vision to get behind.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:04 AM
8

Of course they're bad with money. There may be a few outliers (haven't met many that were financially responsible without the influence of a man in their lives), statistically speaking but, in general, put a woman in charge of anything and poor management will result. Just look at what has happened to subsets of the population raised by single mothers
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:49 PM
2

R/financialindependence will give you all the info you need to grow wealth, even on a modest income. Check their sidebar and implement the prime directive. Saving 20% of your income in tax deferred accounts is a good start but, those mofos try for at least 50%.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 10:58 AM
1

Hahaha! Glad you had the stones to fat shame this trick. Respect, homie.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:24 AM
8

Women take the shape (literally) of their container. I'm wondering if you let yourself go a bit and she just followed u into full on fatbodydom. I run into this issue a lot because I like big bombs on a chick and they tend to come with bigger frames. I've had a couple that wouldn't come around even when I got into better and better shape. Some women just don't want to challenge themselves to slim down, even if it means losing a good man.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:11 AM
88

RIP her husband's dong.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:59 AM
1

You got last minute resistance and took the gaylord way out.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 01:40 AM
1

I encounter this issue quite a bit since I'm a saver and most women are retards in regards to money. If we're going out, I try to stick to drinks or a walk and coffee, especially in the beginning. This way, if she doesn't lift a finger to pay her share when the bill comes, I can pay for the whole thing, not be out too much, and chalk it up as a red flag. She may or may not get a second date, depending on how hot/teachable/submissive she is. If I get into a LTR, it's only if she's onboard doing i…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:22 PM
1

Only way you should go to the party is if you actually want to go. How is this even a question?
/r/askMRP09/09/19 06:52 PM
1

Great points right here. Fighting, however traumatic, is part of a boy's passage to manhood. I'm not saying you should encourage your boys to fight like Michael Vick's dawgs but, this is a good sign that they are standing up for themselves, however primatively.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 04:14 AM
3

Haha, found Beto
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:44 AM
2

Haha, true that.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 03:18 AM
2

Tough to diagnose even though you gave quite a bit of detail. I would err on the side of hitting her up after a couple days with logistics for the next date. You gotta get her hooked before you expect her to chase you
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:23 AM
3

Dawg, she wants out. Only words out of your mouth should be, "there's the door."
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:30 AM
1

Good question right here. I had a LTR that did this relentlessly. At first I would act butt hurt and declare my independence from her attempt at authoritarian dominance. Then I realized these compliance tests were her way of feeling more secure (because I wasn't leading with strength) and, further more, she developed this habit because most dudes are lazy and would rather have the woman take care of shit (classic role reversal). She probably grew up around this type of dynamic with her parents. …
/r/askMRP05/09/19 12:01 PM
11

Oh dreidel, dreidel, dreidel...I made you out of gay. Oh dreidel, dreidel, dreidel...with ballsack I will play!
/r/askMRP05/09/19 02:46 AM
4

She basically telegraphed her intentions to branch swing and you are still wondering what type of stuffing to make for the Prince of Peace's birthday. Boxed or made from scratch? With or without cranberries? Maybe throw some Italian sausage in there as a tribute to the country that brought us Christianity in the first place?
/r/askMRP05/09/19 02:45 AM
1

Sounds like she is religious. These are the only chicks that make men wait, for any extended period of time, these days. Most women are straight up ho's so, the fact that she is protesting even a kiss signals she has some deep seated religious beliefs. The good news is that she is probably a virgin and someone who actually has a moral compass. The bad news is that you prob don't have the balls to wait around long enough to find out if she is quality. Oh well, back on the hedonic treadmill you go…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:20 AM
1

Yes, not being married will keep any current assets intact so, she won't be able to use that as a bargaining chip in the custody battle that may or may not happen. The key is to develop a routine where she lives elsewhere and comes to your house to take care of the child during your working hours. Do this for a few months and then get the courts involved. An even better scenario is to quit or get fired from your job, live off savings for a few months, be the primary caretaker, and then file for …
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:42 AM
1

You won't have to worry about alimony or her taking half your assets since you two were never married. Child support is another matter but, it would only be for your biological child, not Chad's. I would tell her the dating relationship is over between you two and that she will need to find other living arrangements. Do not, under any circumstances, allow her to take your child for overnights without a court approved custody arrangement so, you need to plan your strategy with a family lawyer bef…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:29 PM
32

A physical newspaper? Are u a grandfather?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:51 AM
3

This is like the Tootsie Roll Pop commercial from the 70's where the owl attempts to answer the question of how many licks it takes to get to the center. "The world may never know."
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:42 AM
4

He doesn't need to hide assets if they aren't married. His higher income is what will hurt when family court decides on financial support for the kid.
/r/askMRP30/08/19 09:50 PM
2

Vegemite is a salty mess but, I'd choose that over sphincter.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:56 AM
9

Are u kidding me? White Aussies are so easy to bust on. Just talk about how he's descended from convicts or how fried onions are their only contribution to world cuisine. That and Vegemite.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:49 PM
2

Anything by S. Craig Zahler, especially Dragged Across Concrete. Fucking brilliant flick.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:34 AM
1

Wes Watson on YouTube. Dude is the realest. Highly motivating to crush life.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:29 AM
5

Sounds like you're living with this cheater. That's mistake #1. Move out and she'll be calling you on the DL instead of the simp.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:49 AM
8

(5' 3" and 160 lbs) And you're thinking about taking her back because?
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:44 AM
1

"See, men get married because they don't want to be the old guy at the club."
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:34 AM
1

Haha, what all this "she should" BS? I'll tell you what it is, it's a covert contract. "If I start a business, she should support me, even if I'm a fuck up". "She should" cannot be in your vocabulary. It's "she will" or "she won't". If it's "she won't", you're probably at fault and you either show her the door or you fall into her frame because you are a vagina. If it's "she will", then she earns more time with you because she is adding value to your life by supporting your mission. The fuck are…
/r/askMRP27/08/19 02:29 AM
2

I wouldn't necessarily next her unless you can't put your big boy pants on and tell her who is paying for what BEFORE you two go out. If she can't pay, she don't play (at a restaurant or bar, that is). No shame in staying at home and making cocktails/cooking dinner together. That strategy will save you both money over the long-term. The key is that you are dictating the financial destiny of you and your ltr and not being shamed into funding her irresponsible lifestyle.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:53 PM
5

I've been interested in this issue lately as well. It sounds a bit gay but, I'd like to get to a point where receiving female validation/love/attention is a take it or leave it proposition. Basically, I'd like to be detached from the draw of women. I feel like I do have a solid mission that I'm working towards but, if I go a while without dating, I still have strong feelings of loneliness.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:31 PM
3

I would cut the cord at this point. Just not worth her blabbing all over town about your "relationship".
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:06 PM
2

"But here I am today and she sends me a snap of a banana in her mouth." Please tell me she's black.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:42 AM
1

Download personal capital and link every financial account you have (bank, loans, investments, etc). See where your 💰 is going (hint: probably to stuff that doesn't better your life, long-term). You're the equivalent of a financial fat-body and need to go on a calorie deficit. Get a money goal and work towards it (maxing out an IRA ($6k)is a good start). Don't let anything stand in your way. And don't call the wah-mbulence, you gaylord. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:03 AM
8

Libido Dominandi by E. Michael Jones is a fascinating read about the origins of feminism. His thesis is that it arose and was enabled (with the complicity of men) by the sexual revolution. Spoiler alert: it all started with modern contraception and the pursuit of "equality", especially within the sexual act. Mind blowing stuff.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:53 AM
3

As a practicing Catholic myself, I may be able to offer some clarity here. Church teaching is that all sexual acts engaged in by a married couple (one man, one woman...no such thing as homo marriage) must be open to life. This means, anything goes up until it's jizz time...then it's P in V, full stop. My guess is, she recently became serious about her faith and wants to align her life with it's prescriptions. The problem is that you clearly aren't on the same page which is causing an interior cr…
/r/askMRP19/08/19 09:22 PM
1

Go to your gf's prot non-denom church. During the sermon, raise your hand and ask the pastor what they are all protesting about.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:27 PM
6

I think nofap is critical to freeing ourselves from cultural control, especially at the hands of women. Consider the fact that our sexual drive compels men to make all kinds of terrible decisions (civil marriage, over spending, etc), all for the sake of busting that nut. Ask yourself, why has feminism conquered the West? Why are men silenced when they call out the femimist/sjw/globohomo imperative for the illogical, damaging forces that they are? It's because men allowed themselves to be control…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:46 AM
2

Dawg, haven't you seen Ronin? "If there's ever any doubt, there is no doubt."
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:58 AM
1

I've been reading the Sword and the Stone with my daughter lately (really interesting book, btw) and there is this awesome part about what to do when life depresses you or you feel angry/sad/upset. Merlin simply advises Arthur to learn something. Haha, that's it! Just start gathering knowledge or skill and the blues will dissolve like Alka Seltzer in water.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:37 PM
1

Definitely don't get married for PR status. If that factor is at all motivating you, you better stay single.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:33 AM
6

Chickens coming home to roost. This is what happens when you disregard hundreds of years of unmarried sexual segregation because it's 2019 and we're so "enlightened". See what happens when you bring other girls over now that you pilfered the roommate pooty. Homegirl will throw a fit and make your life miserable, mark my words.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:56 AM
3

You're def on the young side but, some of the best marriages I've seen were with two naive youngsters like yourselves. My question would be, does marrying this woman fall in line with your mission/calling? I'm guessing you don't have a clue what that is yet so, it's probably best to get clarity there first. That being said, if you grew up in a father-lead household, you may be ready to be the leader of your own household. Check out RooshV's interview with E. Michael Jones for some insights perta…
/r/askMRP11/08/19 12:40 AM
1

Bad in the sense that the traditional norms of the social fabric (married mother and father raising their children) have worn away because of unchecked libido. Will some new and more cohesive norm supplant it? I guess it's possible but, what norm is that? The Clintonian pipe dream of a village raising a child? We are living during the transition to the new norm so, let me ask you; do you find most people are fulfilled/purposeful/morally upstanding? Do most people aspire to build strong character…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:57 AM
1

It's better, down where it's wetter, take it from me.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 03:46 AM
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I'm not seeing the problem here.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:40 PM
14

I feel you, dawg. Time to hit the gym, wicked hard. That's where youll get a lot of those negative emotions (sadness, regret) out of your system. Then, start doing what you want to do. For example, I've been meaning to do some serious hiking so, this weekend I'm free and that's what I'm going to do, damn it.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:45 AM
5

Had this issue with a lower smv gf just recently and I realized I didn't want to breakup with her because I enjoyed some of the value she brought to my life and didn't want to lose it. However, I knew deep down that there are better prospects out there and I was settling by continuing to be exclusive with her. In other words, i didn't have the will or confidence to go for "better". I was shortchanging myself. Sure, the issue starts with her not being up to your standard (hence why she doesn't gi…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:46 PM
3

Can't believe no one mentioned "struggles with her weight." This just means that, if she isn't fat right now, she will blow up at some point in the future if she A) ever gets pregnant and/or B) you aren't on top of coaching that ho's workouts like you're fucking Billy Blanks.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:15 AM
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Haha, this happened to me as well. We were on a hike (granted it was up a 3'k mountain, but still) and this trick had to take a break every 15 minutes. I was like, "is your blood type Ragu? Because your cardio is shiittaki mushrooms, girl."
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:10 AM
1

Haha, truth right here.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:59 PM
1

Check out any S. Craig Zahler movie (Bone Tomahawk, Brawl in Cell Block 99, or his latest, Dragged Across Concrete...all fantastic). I can't say enough about this dude's work. Guy is crushing it right now. He's basically a red pilled Tarantino but with more shocking violence and interesting dialogue. I don't know how he even exists in the pussified/gynocentric Hollywood climate but, he does, thank God. Highly recommend his movies, especially his latest (Dragged Across Concrete).
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:37 AM
1

My advice is to be less results oriented in terms of your wife's behavior/attitude and focus on yourself and being a patient leader. The harsh truth is that the vast majority of women require significant direction from men to become their best selves. This is part of nature's purpose for men so, embrace the way of the coach. She needs you... it's why she married you, actually, even though she's too much of a retard to realize it. That being said, it doesn't matter if she "comes around" or not. W…
/r/askMRP03/07/19 01:05 AM
1

Sounds like she's got the leverage, financially speaking, if you guys get the D. Any plans for that eventuality?
/r/askMRP02/07/19 02:56 PM
2

"You'll note, my dear, how a trombone extendz when you jerk it's pipe back and forth..."
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:44 AM
2

Now I know what happened in Warren Jeff's house on V-day.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:37 AM
2

You mean besides the cool briefcases they carry around?
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:32 AM
2

Whatchu talkin' bout working? Dem ho's don't work! U betta getz back to plowin', you gayass Clydesdale.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:29 AM
5

The only kind of Starbucks I buy is the stock, in an index fund. For some odd reason that company hates hetero men.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:23 AM
2

So, she just Kung Fu grips your meatwhistle when u guys hit the hay? No jerking motion, just stagnant grip?
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:46 AM
2

He had to call the boner hotline to get his throbbing meat whistle to calm down.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 07:44 PM
1

I never talk to my ex during pick up or drop off and I sure as hell don't meet her at one of our houses. We have a meeting spot in a parking lot of a store, equidistant from our houses. Kid gets out of one car and into the other and we drive away. Simple, easy, and low likelihood of verbal interaction.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 06:42 PM
2

Women can only affect your mood if you allow them. Once she realizes she can't get a rise out of you, she'll move on to some other chump who will be manipulated by her sandy vag. The key is to be vigilant in your stoicism and lack of communication. She'll stop trying to create drama if you seem to be unaffected by it. Once the court mandates the parenting plan, there should be little doubt about what happens and when with your kid and, therefore, no reason to discuss jack shit with that cunty ho…
/r/askMRP08/02/19 03:55 AM
1

Exactly. The situation went down the toilet when he let her dictate the terms under which he was going to bang. He ceded the battle before it even got started.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 01:25 AM
1

Improve if you want but don't let your ltr chart your course for you. I get tired of a woman real quick if she starts telling or hinting at what I should do. She doesn't like the way I load my dishwasher? There's the door. Champs train, chumps complain. Most women are lazy chumps.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 05:35 PM
8

I called him Chadson Silva.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 12:39 AM
11

I tried forgiving and reconciling with my ex after she humped Brazilian Chad but, the marriage finally crashed and burned when she kept seeing him secretly and then finally got prego by him 8 months after discovery. So, I find it hard to believe that your wife isn't in some form of contact (oral) with her FB. That being said, I think it takes a lot of humility and mental toughness to do what you're doing (if it's actually what you want) so, big ups to you.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 09:53 PM
2

Definitely get your ducks in a row now while you have the element of surprise on your side but know that the endgame is now divorce since the trust has been decisively broken. Here are some key questions I would ask right now in preparation for the legal split: What's her working situation like? This impacts CS and alimony. If she doesn't work, encourage her to get and hold onto a job like you're a professional male cheerleader. How involved are you in the kids' day to day lives? This will go a …
/r/askMRP24/01/19 03:57 PM
1

Both Judah and Onan reject the Lord's command to keep the family lineage going but, only Onan is killed. Why one and not the other when their intentions were the same? Only Onan spilled his seed so, it's reasonable to conclude that this action (pulling out or otherwise rendering the sexual act sterile) was the reason God ended Onan's life. In fact, this has been the interpretation of this passage for centuries. Only in recent years (1930's), when Protestant churches began to deny that contracept…
/r/RPChristians20/01/19 05:31 PM
1

My limited experience with orthodox/eastern Catholic churches has been that they are pretty redpilled, probably because they stem from areas in the world that are still traditional/patriarchal (baltics, middle East). Orthodox Christian countries still have high rates of male church attendance which, I think, indicates that men are being fed there. All that being said, I'm a sacramental Christian so I believe that the sacraments are efficacious and the primary way God communicates grace to his ch…
/r/RPChristians20/01/19 02:43 AM
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Watch chick flicks with her. I recommend "Love Actually" if you are involved with a white women and "Waiting to Exhale" if you're with a black woman.
/r/askMRP19/01/19 01:22 AM
1

That's because Planned Parenthood is a genocidal organization. Just look at the percentage of black vs white babies that are aborted.
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 03:21 PM
1

I honestly don't understand Christians who think pulling out or using condoms is Godly. Genesis 38 and the story of Onan is a pretty clear example of what God thinks of this practice so, if Bible evidence alone convinces you, I'd say you have your answer in that chapter. That being said, I don't believe God tells us to do or not do something without good reason which, I think is this: whenever you do something with disregard for it's proper end or purpose, you do damage to yourself and, potentia…
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 03:15 PM
1

When you get married in the Christian understanding/tradition, you are effectively offering your whole life for the good of the other ("No greater love..."). Ostensibly, you hold nothing back. With contraception, you hold back the physical possibility of having children (sure, no contraception is 100% effective but, one doesn't use it desiring it to fail). So, using artificial contraception in marriage is tantamount to lying. You aren't really offering everything you have to that person. You are…
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 02:34 AM
2

I'm also on the FIRE path and have been for the last 5 years. I wouldn't say FI is my MAP but, it definitely will enable me to live into that MAP (spend time pouring into my present and, God willing, future kids/wife). IMO, men like us bring some unique challenges to the table when it comes to compatibility in a serious relationship that leads to marriage. This has been a good thing for me since I have been able to filter out (read: women have broken up with me) the ones that don't agree with my…
/r/RPChristians13/01/19 08:39 AM
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Why get married if you don't want your wife to get pregnant for 5 years? IMO, if you aren't ready to have children with her, you aren't ready to marry her. This is because one of the purposes of sex is to conceive (the other being unity of the spouses). Artificial contraception voids one of those purposes (the possibility of conception) making the act all about individual satisfaction, and hence, utilitarian at it's core. I don't think it is far-fetched to say that the spread of utilitarian beha…
/r/RPChristians13/01/19 08:06 AM
3

If God is calling you to marriage, he will give you the grace to get through and, dare I say it, live a happy/fulfilling life (note I didn't say without trials!). I view RP knowledge as part of that grace even though it has secular origins. If used properly to fix the man first, TRP can help to vanquish the evil forces of Satan and our fallen human natures that seek to destroy the foundation of humanity: the family. Yes, men should be cautious about marriage in this day and age. There are many p…
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 09:07 PM
1

I don't understand this shit about your kids needing a mother figure to "look up to." I can't think of one woman I look up to. The father is the crucial piece in child rearing and can do anything a mom can do, better (outside of breastfeeding and pushing it out her snatch). Just look in our prison system to see the effect of single mothering on our society.
/r/askMRP06/01/19 06:56 AM
2

I'm not seeing the problem here...
/r/askMRP06/01/19 05:39 AM
5

Ha, I'm dating a girl that keeps asking to go antiquing. I shut it down when I realized the price of accompanying her is one testicle per trip.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 09:05 AM
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Get that trick a job, stat. Pray to God that she likes it and is successful so you aren't strapped with the yoke of lifetime alimony. You have about 4-5 years until the youngest is on his own so use this time to "support" her in her career aspirations. If she doesn't have any (probably the case ), sell the business, invest the proceeds, and call yourself retired. You'll have to give her half your shit but, at least you won't get saddled with alimony since you don't have any income.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 03:15 AM
2

Awesome comment right here.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 12:53 PM
1

My name is Bubba and I approve this message.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 04:59 AM
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Haha, good point but, I have yet to find a solid, attractive Christian woman that makes more than me. Usually, the solid ones want to be sahm's as well which puts their income at zero and increases the possibility of child support rape exponentially.
/r/RPChristians25/12/18 05:58 PM
3

Awesome synthesis right here. Hopeful but sober and realistic about what it takes to live holiness within marriage. The risks today are high but, so are the rewards for the man who can captain in these turbulent cultural waters. You are right on about the role reversal in Genesis being a large aspect of original sin, along with disobedience. If men placate their wives before obeying God and following the path He has set for them (MAP), the marriage will be in mortal danger.
/r/RPChristians25/12/18 05:41 PM
1

I think you're right that we can't rely on our churches to be reliable guides at this point, just like we can't rely on public schools to educate our children properly (although indoctrination in progressivism is a given). Perhaps there are a few voices here and there that give solid life formation but, for the most part, I've found many Christian churches are just trying to tread water financially so they don't want to rock the boat too much in what they teach/preach.
/r/RPChristians24/12/18 05:24 AM
3

I've often thought O'Connor's stories are pretty red pilled, especially "A Good Man is Hard to Find". The violence with which God and her characters act definitely speaks to her masculine-centric view of the world. I believe there is also some frustration to be found in the way she describes men not living up to their calling to headship and I think our culture/society shows the results. Thanks for posting.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 05:11 PM
2

There are a number of figures coming from the Christian perspective that are fearlessly delving into the truth of our sexuality. In fact, the depth of thinking on the subject makes most secular commenters seem out of touch. I'm thinking especially of John Paul II and his Theology of the Body writings. The problem is his texts are super technical and not very approachable. I recommend Christopher West's books (Theology of the Body Explained) as a more understandable synthesis of JP II's thought. …
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:58 PM
2

I don't think it's the message of Christianity that is causing the trend you explain in your OP. It's groups of people with certain agendas that are bending Christian thinking to their wills. Sexuality is a powerful thing which should be awe inspiring, not something equivalent to going to the bathroom. Maybe this awe goes a long way in explaining the lack of historical communication on the subject in churches? One of the trends you didn't mention was the effect of wide spread use of artificial b…
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:43 PM
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I'd say living a secular rp life is living on hard mode. Life is so much more difficult when you don't have the grace of the sacraments and, since he has little to no religious faith, isnt even trying to live the human virtues knowable through reason.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:34 AM
2

Exactly, separate the wheat from the chaff.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:31 AM
2

The thing is, RP isn't amoral. Morality refers to standards for human action. RP definitely proscribes a way of living (ex. Beta behavior = bad, Alpha behavior = good). In other words, there is a right (masculine) and wrong (fag) way to be.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:28 AM
2

Good point although I would also argue that (maybe this is me trying to bend RP theory too far) men acting in their own interests is good for society at large. I'm not talking about their interests in the sense of having sterilized but regular sex with compliant women. I'm talking about interests in the sense of acting in accordance with virtue. That is what Aristotle taught made for the best, happiest life.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 04:03 PM
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I mean in the sense that how we live as individuals and families impacts the broader culture. In other words, RP living isn't just going to make my life happier and more fulfilled, it's going to make western culture less evil. This may sound a bit "white knight-ish" but, I do believe we have a responsibility to our brothers and sisters to own our shit for the betterment of the whole.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 02:27 PM
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I'd actually argue that true RP theory dovetails nicely with the Catholic view of intersexual dynamics. Just because rp had secular origins, the fact that it grasps many truths of the purpose of men and women shows that it is in agreement with the Christian world view. After all, there's only one truth, not RP truth and Christian truth.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 11:48 PM
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Sure. It seems to me that the rise of feminism (eglatarianism between the sexes) coincided with the wide acceptance and availability of artificial birth control. This enabled the female to have sex without responsibility (conception), just like men. So, there became less of a reliance of women on men to do things like be the primary breadwinner, household leaders, etc. The pill and female/male sterilization also made marriage and family more optional than ever before. If you wanted sex before ar…
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 07:36 PM
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Yes, cradle Catholic over here. I actually believe that orthodox Catholicism is the most redpill form of Christianity because of its sexual ethics, especially in regards to birth control, sterilization, etc.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 05:03 PM
2

Sounds like oneitis is creeping in here. Let her do what she wants. If she cheats on you, so be it. At least you know sooner than later that she is a ho and you shouldn't waste more time on her. It may sound counterintuitive but, the more aloof you are, the more attached to you she will be (if you are high value).
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:28 PM
5

Gotta agree here. I've intro'd 3 different GFs to my daughter and in each of the breakups, she was totally fine almost immediately (not asking to see the woman again, just straight up moved on). I guess it would be a difficult situation if you don't have much of a relationship with your kids and they developed a strong one with your SO but, that shouldn't be the case if you are a RP aware dad.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:22 PM
3

Don't do it. You'll shoot your eye out.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:59 AM
5

The gaylord strategy of honoring her "choice" is going make her choose someone else, ie, her roommate.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:57 AM
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Definitely, dawg. I went out with a hot deaf chick and it was blissful. She didnt say much although she could read my lips and so understood everything I said (she didn't like non-deaf people to use sign language with her, for some reason). I found her to be a really deep person, probably because she's dealt with a disability her whole life. Would recommend for sure.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:47 AM
3

Definitely has an effect. Actually, I believe the widespread use of the pill is why we have so many betas in our society (US). Men actually offer more comfort than ever because that's what they think will get them laid.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:32 AM
11

At least she's conscientious about her weight. Too many fattie hos are oblivious these days.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 01:42 AM
1

Haha, truth.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:34 PM
5

LeBron James as in a whiney bitch?
/r/askMRP14/12/18 09:53 PM
2

Women have gone full retard.
/r/askMRP11/12/18 09:37 PM
1

Haha, they always say that shit..."I don't care how you look, just that you listen to me, etc". Meanwhile, they're constantly rubbing my arms. Hoes don't know which way us up.
/r/askMRP04/12/18 05:30 AM
3

Voting definitely makes a difference in municipalities and in battleground states. We'd have a totally different country if women didn't have sufferage (no Clinton/Obama, for example).
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 05:15 AM
3

Ha, if you're talking about women's sufferage, I agree. Shit went sideways when that happened. It's why we had fools like Clinton and Barack Hussein in the oval office.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 05:10 AM
4

He can't afford any of that. They inflated the ruble to shit so he only has money to buy that cool hammer and sickle flag. I bet he'll hang it on the iron curtain separating his and his wife's bedrooms.
/r/askMRP27/11/18 05:05 AM
4

Women have a difficult time understanding themselves; what they actually want and how to go about getting it. They aren't natural problem solvers because, many times they don't want the problem to be solved and go away. They want to bask in the feelz of the problem, even if those feelz are negative. Does that sound like a logical creature to you? Sure, men can have this issue as well but it is especially prevalent in females. Case in point is how they beta-ize their men, causing them to lose att…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 04:55 AM
14

Solid post, especially the part about how women shoot themselves in the foot by beta-izing their men. Talk about a bunch of no self reflection having dummies. They actively try to make men unattractive. It would be like me telling my girl to take a few weeks off from the gym and not to worry about scarfing that third s'more.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/18 10:24 PM
2

She probably doesn't mention the menstrual cycle because, with the wide spread use of the pill, there is less of an emotional/psychological effect on most women. A woman's periods are becoming mire and more irrelevant to their mood. This is all part of the quest for sexual "equality".
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 05:18 PM
1

Jlcollinsnh.com has an awesome financial primer called the stock series. Read this and you will crush most people (including your wife/ltr) in terms of financial literacy. https://jlcollinsnh.com/stock-series/ Once you have the knowledge, your power will be such that you can easily take the financial reins in this or any relationship. From there, just act like Congress; no money moves in or out of your accounts without your approval. Prioritize getting to the FU position and, then, you will be t…
/r/askMRP18/11/18 01:04 PM
1

My advice is detailed in my reply. Also, I doubt he wants to start a family. Sounds like an accident to me.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 09:11 PM
0

I'm not talking about keeping her around. I'm talking about protecting his assets against CS rape.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 08:26 PM
0

I would not move in with her, especially since, right now, she is making more than you. Once you start to cohabitate, she may decide she wants to take some time off from work, be with the baby, etc. Then, she might get used to being a sahm and, since you two will probably conflict over that, she'll get pissed one day, find a lawyer, and get a CS order against yo ass so she can become another domestic welfare ho. It is key to strike, legally speaking, while she makes more cheddar. TLDR - Moving i…
/r/askMRP13/11/18 08:17 PM
5

At least she's actually doing something productive while she stares at the black hole of our culture. Shit, if she actually accomplishes chores up there in her boudeaire, give her more stuff to do while you get quality kid time. Don't you see you're winning here?
/r/askMRP13/11/18 02:02 PM
1

Sure, women have free will but, it seems to be the case that their agency is more limited than a man's since the nature of woman is to submit to the leadership/will of a man. If women had the same nature, they wouldn't "cling" to an alpha the way they do. They would go their own way. No wonder there is no WGTOW movement.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 05:46 AM
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Why do women get so emotionally attached to the men they sleep with, then? I see where you're going with this theory but, I'm not sure it works out in reality.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 05:38 AM
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If she's gay, his rack might be a turn on to her.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 06:38 PM
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She's transferring her shame to you. She is appalled at her self for liking the D so hard and raw so she is trying to shift blame for being such a ho. I bet she has some sexual hangups/guilt from the past that are coming up now. So, it's a good sign that you are bringing this side of her to the surface where she can get used to it and (gasp!) enjoy it. Nice work.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 06:29 PM
1

Yes, she is in crisis management mode because she's probably incapable of setting the proper guidelines/standards for the kid's behavior beforehand. Parenting is tge long game. The reason why parents resort to yelling/corporal punishment is that they failed somewhere along the way, usually months or years before the misbehavior happens. It's actually really simple, expectations for behavior are set early on in the child's life and if/when those standards aren't met, immediate correction should b…
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:17 PM
0

Look, I get it, age does a number on everyone. Now that you can't trust your farts anymore and require diapers, I can see why you might lash out at your RP brothers.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 10:17 PM
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You are either: A) a fatty/out of shape B) jerking it to porno on the regs C) popped so many viagras you can't get it up naturally D) you married an unattractive land whale E) all of the above You know what all these options have in common? They're all your fault. On second thought, you could also be an octogenarian. This would explain the limp D, in which case, thank you for your service in the Korean war.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:21 PM
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You are either: A) a fatty/out of shape B) jerking it to porno on the regs C) popped so many viagras you can't get it up naturally D) you married an unattractive land whale E) all of the above You know what all these options have in common? They're all your fault. On second thought, you could also be an octogenarian. This would explain the limp D, in which case, thank you for your service in the Korean war.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 08:21 PM
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This fatty mcbutterpants feels zero dread. Hit that gym hard, transform your body, and then watch what she'll do to you in the sack. If she doesn't come around, put her polar bear ass on an iceberg and watch her float away into oblivion (bottle of Coca-Cola optional).
/r/askMRP02/11/18 09:29 PM
2

Was going to say this. Maybe the standard measurement should be bicep curl?
/r/askMRP02/11/18 08:03 PM
1

Sounds like the clintons but, you aren't Bill. You're Hillary.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 03:54 AM
1

I'd say your attractiveness is the issue here. If she was an active make-out participant with you prior to marriage, she most likely wants to bang but, you aren't giving her the feelz. Work on that and forget the counseling, she'll just be validated in her shitty Sahara poontang behavior. I had this exact same shit happen to me. Religious upbringing for both of us and we didn't sleep together before marriage. Wedding night comes around and, guess what? She doesn't "feel comfortable having sex". …
/r/askMRP31/10/18 03:02 AM
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I've heard of this therapy too, since harville is the son of the Marriage Builders dude. They have some interesting concepts but, I would say they err on the side of eglatarianism in male/female relationships. They are traditional, up to a point, which is the man has a role and it's to be the beta provider (financial support is the #1 emotional need for many women, according to them). The woman's role? I'm not sure there is one outside of receiving the man's efforts.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 02:27 AM
2

+1. Maybe just a daily vitamin D supplement would help.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 11:03 PM
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This is probably the answer right here. Unless they are traditional, religious girls, they expect you to want to bang them and, if you don't, they start to lose interest. Most woman these days are programed to seek ever increasing levels of validation. In intersexual dynamics, they believe this validation comes most powerfully when a man wants them sexually. So, if you don't make a move in that direction, they feel unattractive and therefore lose interest in you. That's my theory, anyway. Source…
/r/askMRP27/10/18 10:56 PM
1

130? I think that was my weight in 6th grade. No wonder senorita autist doesn't want to hump. She feels like a damn perderast.
/r/askMRP27/10/18 08:14 PM
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If I was a betting man, I'd for sure put my money on her tuning some strange meat whistle while on furlough. No two ways about it, that sucks. I feel for you dog, I was there myself. The problem is, you didn't help her keep those panties on when Chadly Humpington knocked on her door. No, you became a Fatty Mcbutterpants as well as her very own special Betabux. She resents you for your weakness with food and in other areas like standing up to her (or anyone, for that matter). If you want to stay …
/r/RPChristians25/10/18 02:08 AM
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I don't see the issue if she is providing value and doesn't get in the way of you pursuing your map. Plus she's draining your sack on the regs? Damn, sounds like you are letting the perfect be the enemy of the good.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 08:23 PM
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STFU and get to lifting before Chadly Humpington backdoors your geriatric wife.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 03:53 PM
1

Haha, truth.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 01:39 PM
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The challenges of a military marriage are unique and difficult but not insurmountable. I'd say the key is to make the most of your time at home so that both your wife and kids can't wait for you to get back. They need to experience a high level of strength, wisdom, and leadership while you're in town so that, when it's gone, they can't easily replace it. Resist the temptation to kowtow to their whims when you're home lest you become a Gaylord Betabux (hint: his kids don't respect him and his wif…
/r/askMRP21/10/18 04:37 AM
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You let her take the kids and relocate to another state? You must be: A) a tard B) a shitty dad C) a colassal poontang D) all of the above Under no circumstances would a real man allow some twat to remove his children from his home, unless legally compelled. And any woman that would do that can't be trusted ever again. Dog, get those kids back into your household stat, and then start covertly planning an exit strategy. Maybe you'll never have to actually put the plan in motion but, the fact that…
/r/askMRP21/10/18 04:11 AM
1

You're kidding, right? So, when Jesus says to Nicodemus, "you must be born again of water and the spirit", he's really saying, "first you have to be born from the water in your mom's uterus and then, through your faith, you are somehow born again into my kingdom, in a spiritual sense"? Come on. Just go one chapter further and John starts talking about how Jesus' disciples were baptising people. Clearly, there is a theme here. Plus, Jesus doesn't say "you must be born of water...and then of the s…
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 02:13 AM
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I mean, how do you explain John 3:5? "No one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and the spirit"? Pretty blatant indication that baptism is necessary for salvation.
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 01:22 AM
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Yes, we are saved by grace but being saved requires that we take action to accept that grace (actively choose to embrace it). He doesn't force His will upon us, that much is clear from the violent and turbulent history of the world brought about by our sins. He permits sin in the hope that we will choose to obey his laws. And these laws aren't arbitrary and pointless, they are good for us. Just like abiding by a workout routine is both honoring God and good (efficacious) for us.
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 01:14 AM
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Why do we need to prove anything if God knows what is in our hearts already? He designed baptism for us to prove our obedience to Him?
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 12:42 AM
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So, you're saying that the church, for almost 2000 years, up to and including Protestant reformers like Martin Luther, got it wrong and baptism isn't efficacious? It has no point at all except Jesus and his disciples told us to do it? So it's essentially an empty ritual?
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 12:29 AM
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Even that passage you just quoted shows baptism to be efficacious, "let each of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins." What is salvation but divine forgiveness that opens heaven to us? You can insist all you want that baptism is just an outward sign of an inward reality but, that isn't what scripture teaches and it was not what any Christian Church has taught up until fairly recently. I mean, why get baptized if it doesn't do anything? What's the point?
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 12:05 AM
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If you profess the Nicene Creed, I imagine you would agree that baptism is efficacious, no?
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 11:42 PM
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Sure it's possible for God to save any of his children in any manner he chooses. Obviously the old testament patriarchs were never baptized (on Earth, at least) yet they're probably in heaven. However, the normative way to gain salvation has been, from the beginning of the church, to be baptized. Normative meaning, physically possible in this life.
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 10:53 PM
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The thief didn't have the opportunity to be baptized since he was in the process of being executed.
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 10:38 PM
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1 Peter 3:21 is a good place to start in the scriptures but, like I said, the church has pretty much always proclaimed baptism as necessary for salvation, even through the Protestant Reformation with figures like Martin Luther.
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 10:26 PM
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I'm not disputing whether someone who is baptized can go to hell. I assume Judas was baptized and there's a pretty good chance he didn't make it to the kingdom. Nor am I saying salvation can happen without first knowing Christ. It's pretty clear, however, from that passage and others, that baptism is necessary for salvation. I mean, it's what the church proclaimed from the beginning up even through the Protestant Reformation.
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 09:26 PM
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My bad, 28:19
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 09:06 PM
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Hear we go, more Protestant bias. Matthew 29:18 , homie.
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 08:55 PM
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Step #1: Get baptized
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 04:58 PM
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Be careful what you say around her from this point on. STFU is always a good strategy. Certainly no raised voice, threats, etc. If she wants to move forward with the divorce, so be it. Be prepared by working out your strategy with a lawyer and then wait and see. You can't force her to be married to you so, why try? My money is on her not having the sack to file since this is all a giant shit test to reclaim hand in the relationship.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 09:34 PM
2

Waiting to Exhale if they're black, Love Actually if they're white.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 12:30 AM
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Exactly. Ain't no one cursing the deck of cards when they get dealt a shit hand.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 08:27 PM
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Firing the nanny is step #1. When a woman feels like she doesn't fulfill a role, she'll do jack shit and then complain about how busy she is. Give this woman direction, stat.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 08:21 PM
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Best comment right here. Excercise does not an alpha make.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 08:18 PM
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Her response/demeanor should have zero effect on your frame. She is inconsequential. Until you get to that emotional place, div is a cop out, imo because you haven't found a way to remove yourself from her frame. This means you'll do it again with the next harpy you snag after the div.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 07:55 PM
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This. Depending on how long you've been married (5+ years) you may be looking at alimony, in addition to child support, which is the biggest slut subsidy in existence. I would push the job idea, hard. I mean, it's not like your relationship can get any worse. Or if she doesn't go to work, at least fire the nanny so she has to do something besides sleep, eat, and complain. Also, take strict control over the finances. I mean, you should be like a damn congressional oversight committee when it come…
/r/askMRP10/10/18 07:48 PM
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This is a great point. I'm not quite sure it's men who are the biggest anti-fatty sex.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 05:11 PM
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Your oneitis reeks through my mobile screen. Better work on that or she'll be taking you on a slow boat to Betaville, where taxes are high and the pubic services non-existent.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 10:14 PM
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Don't know why you're doing the research for her. If she understands that household tasks are her assignment, she should be attacking that responsibility like a damn Tasmanian Devil. The fact that you are trying to find ways for her to improve does not bode well for her internal motivation to meet your standards, and I'm guessing this extends beyond just cooking and cleaning.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 06:53 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of bearing false witness against her neighbor.
/r/RPChristians08/10/18 07:08 PM
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This dude gets it. CS is state sanctioned indentured servitude. It also disincentives women from working.
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 07:11 PM
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What you're talking about is more in the realm of a mother/son relationship where the boy gets support and nurturing from his caring mother. The husband/wife dynamic is different in that the woman looks to the man to be a strong leader who makes her feel safe, secure, and part of a greater purpose. The husband provides this by moving towards his mission with single-minded focus. If any closeness happens for a married couple, it's in this dynamic where the wife follows and supports the man on a m…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:27 AM
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Hopefully she has a good career and makes decent money and you're a degenerate with few job prospects. That way, you won't be on the hook for much child support. It's all about discrepancy of income when it comes to deciding CS so, I would try to make minimal money (not saying to be homeless, just minimize cash flow, if you can) between now and when the baby is born and you guys agree on a custody plan.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:58 AM
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I would go unless the place you chose is lame. If not, have a Manhattan for me (bourbon, not rye).
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:13 PM
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She is dread gaming you like a mofo. Have some self respect and leave her alone. By being so needy, you are making her want to cheat on your sorry ass. If you get your sense of self worth from a woman, you will never feel secure. And anyway, who cares if she tosses Chad's salad? Just move on to the next one. She isn't special...unless she's some kind of platinum level stepford girlfriend that cooks like Rachel Ray, cleans like the Pinesol lady, bangs you like a porn star, and entertains you like…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:04 PM
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Step #1: Stop obeying her...especially in the bedroom when she cavemans you and tells you to take her vibrating strap-on up your butt. Life pro tip: that's definitely not a way to earn her respect.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 03:50 AM
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My guess is, you'll look back on this time as a blessing. Being in a marriage or relationship with a woman that doesn't want to be with you is way worse than being single, imo. And, after all, even for our savior, his worst day was also his best day.
/r/RPChristians03/10/18 03:10 PM
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Definitely serve out your 20 years. What other 7 year period in the private sector is going to give you the same lifetime roi? Unless you get a sick job in the civilian world and save like an absolute mad man, there's no way you can top the return from 7 more years in the military. Your decision is a math problem at this point so, go with the correct answer. Let that 7 year time horizon motivate you and make you dogged in your pursuit of it. Yes, 7 years may seem like a long time but, as Mr Mone…
/r/askMRP03/10/18 03:23 AM
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I'm not sure who tunes more meat whistles, you or her. My money was on her until I read this: "My heart misses you". Are you even aware of you faggadotiousness? Damn, no wonder she's branch swinging like Rafiki.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 10:09 PM
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Dog, she's having an affair, guaranteed.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 09:54 PM
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Her: I believe there are causal realities effecting our world stemming from the astrological system created by ancient Mesopotamians. The various signs speak to us and we should obey their commands based on our birth months. You: I agree. This is strange but, did you read the Sagittarius forecast for this week? It said something about how women with that sign should start playing with a new male acquaintance's ballsack on the regs.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 04:47 PM
3

With those coke bottle glasses, she probably is blind.
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 03:04 AM
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Anita Hill became a professor at Brandeis, or some such libtard school.
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 02:59 AM
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I'm not 100% sure he didn't do SOMETHING that night, either. That being said, was whatever he did enough to disqualify him from positions such as justice on the supreme Court?
/r/RPChristians29/09/18 01:35 AM
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The interesting aspect of this whole situation is how it all comes down to abortion rights. The left is so desperate to keep the ability to murder babies in the womb that they will try anything and everything, including tarnishing a man's honor, and his family's by extension. I think this kind of charade is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to defending the rights enshrined by Roe. As more Americans wake up to how barbaric abortion is and how it is the genocidal core of feminism, the lef…
/r/RPChristians29/09/18 01:30 AM
1

She wants to pay her own bills...and the problem is?
/r/askMRP27/09/18 10:36 AM
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The unicorn is a bit chubby. Not what I expected.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:55 AM
2

Haha, "Big Been, parliament!"
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:15 AM
1

The mushroom was complaining to the radish that no one came to his house party even though he invited the whole garden. "I don't get it," he said. "Why didn't anyone come? I mean, I'm a fungi, right?"
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:12 AM
2

You sound like Frank the Tank in Old School. When does the streaking happen?
/r/askMRP19/09/18 12:30 PM
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I would step back from the D front until she gets a job and has a couple working months under her belt. Then strike with the D filing. If you try to D before that, she can just continue being a lazy POS untill her daughter turns 18+, on your dime. Source: happened to me and I've been paying CS since my kid was 3 (now 13). Ex still has minimal employment and lives rent free with her BF.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 04:13 PM
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You need to internalize that you are a better parent/spouse than your wife is or will ever be, due to the simple fact that you are male. Then, you can go about taking over the reins of the various aspects of child rearing. Vacations? You plan them. Doctor's/dentist appointments? You make them. Family dinner time? You set it and that shit should be mandatory attendance for every member of the family. Start asserting yourself and taking an active interest in all family matters and believe me, the …
/r/askMRP13/09/18 02:23 PM
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Dog, her comments during 1am outercourse indicate she already has a lil (actually, it's prob UGE) somethin on the side and wants to assuage her guilt by giving you permission to do the same. But, who really cares what the meaning of her words are? Can't waste yo time on such pointless wonderings.
/r/askMRP11/09/18 11:52 AM
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SW would have lost regardless. Osaka was pretty much kicking that ass when her meltdown occurred.
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 01:24 PM
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Roid rage.
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 03:21 AM
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Great post OP. I tend to put up with more at my job because I'm nearing financial independence. I look at jobs the way a prisoner looks at doing time: keep your head down, don't make waves, and GTFO ASAP. If that means I have to eat some shit now and then, so be it. My ego isn't worth a set back when the goal is so close. Then, I'll be the guy sipping mai tais in Barbados while lardass cunt from accounting continues to draw all the other indentured servants into her vortex of diarrhea. Sure, I w…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 04:33 PM
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She does sound like a fatty morsel for some grizzly.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 10:24 AM
1

Haha, this is true although, fatties are usually pretty solid in the sack.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 11:46 PM
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90% about money for women? I don't know, chicks seem to want the D pretty badly, especially as they reach their late 30's-early 40's.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 11:42 PM
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Dude dodged a bullet if he indeed called the wedding off. If she isn't willing before the marriage, she definitely won't be willing after.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 09:17 PM
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LDRs can get dangerous if they last longer than, say, 6 months. The upside of LDRs for Christians is that sexual temptation is basically non-existent but the negatives are numerous and out weigh the positives, imo, especially since LDRs tend to put the man in the woman's frame and make it hard for the man to properly vet the woman. Plus, with all the woman that are within driving distance of you, why put energy and focus into someone who you can't really get to know fully? My guess is, you have …
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 12:56 PM
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I wouldn't leave the home where your daughter has lived and is living. When you do that, you make it harder to prove that you are the primary caregiver. If anything, slut should move. If she doesn't want to move, go live in separate bedrooms until the whole divorce is settled. Have a damn Chinese standoff like in "Big Trouble in Little China" but, whatever you do, stay in that house. Next, take some time to establish a routine of parenting where you take care of everything. Doctor's appointment?…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 02:54 AM
2

The truth is misogynistic, apparently
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 02:27 PM
1

Awesome! Glad it worked for you. I had also struggled with light-headedness and headaches when fasting so the snake juice was a real game changer for me. My goal weight is only 6lbs away.
/r/RPChristians31/08/18 05:15 PM
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You seem to enjoy living dangerously, what with your desire to get married...twice! Instead, take the engagement ring back, sell it on C-list, and use the proceeds to buy some experience where you put your body in mortal danger...like skydiving.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 05:33 PM
1

"I'm going over to a birds house" Since you're clearly a Brit, I'd advise studying the successful colonization techniques of your native country and then implement them in the dating sphere. Step 1: Oppression - Tell her where to meet you and what to wear (hint: go to a beach and have her wear a thong bikini...oh wait, you're in England:-/). Also, she pays for your Uber. Step 2: Humiliate - upon reaching the venue, tell her she has a booger hanging out of her nasal passage. Also, say something l…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:47 AM
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Homie, she is begging you to take the lead. Question is, do you have the sack to do it? Sounds like you are too caught up on whether or not she upholds her end of the marriage bargain. Spoiler alert, most women aren't going to bring their A game, because they don't have one. Best you can do is set the tone (expectation) and let them follow suit. If you are worth following, she probably will. I'm guessing you just aren't...right now. That's where the work comes in. Oh, and by the way, wtf are you…
/r/askMRP30/08/18 12:10 AM
1

"The Simple Path to Wealth" by jlcollinsnh (check out his blog for a taste of what's in the book). True financial wisdom that will also make you into a better person.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:25 PM
2

I've found that electrolyte water is great at lessening or even eliminating headaches/light headedness during fasts. I've been following the Snake Diet protocols for the past month which has resulted in a 10 lbs weight loss (6'3", 211 lbs down to 201 lbs), pretty much effortlessly. The diet recommends driving your body into ketosis thru prolonged fasting (48 + hours increments between eating) until you reach goal weight.Then, you use IF to maintain. The principle defined by researchers like Dr J…
/r/RPChristians26/08/18 11:48 AM
1

Large boobs are a turn on for me to the point where, even with a tall, slender model type girl, it's harder (ha!) to get aroused than with an out of shape girl with a nice rack. Mind you, she can't be a complete fat fest but, yeah, somehow, large breasts on a woman are pretty necessary for me to consider dating her. Unfortunately, most large chested women are on the heavier side. Not all, but most. So, I've struggled a bit with owning the public perception of being with a bigger girl. But guess …
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 08:37 PM
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I'd say Mt 5:32 or Mt 19:9 are the relevant passages here. It sounds like, from OP's description, A) there was coersion on the part of the parents in making the marriage happen, B) the woman has gone off to commit adultery and C) isn't coming back (ie, abandoned the marriage/household). These are all indicators that the marriage was unlawful in the first place because she wasn't free to enter into the marital covenant.
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:25 PM
1

If you start speaking out against contraception, which gender will be more pissed? The reason why most Protestant churches won't touch this issue with a 10 foot pole (even though many Protestant churches were against it up until the 1930's when the, you guessed it, Anglican Church began allowing it) is because their female congregants would leave the church over it. Talk about feminist culture influencing our society. I'm not saying contraception doesn't benefit men from the perspective of acces…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 07:54 PM
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Yeah, sounds like she abandoned the marriage so, he's free to remarry.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 02:49 PM
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He's preached against artificial contraception? If so, he's a beast and knows exactly where the heart of the enemy is.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 01:15 PM
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Like I said, "reproductive Rights" are at the core of the feminist ideology so, I'd say teaching against them is about as red pilled as it gets.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 11:36 AM
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I have yet to hear about or visit a Protestant church, denominational or non denominational, that proclaims an opposition to all of the following actions: homosexual orientation and practice, abortion, artificial contraception, assisted suicide, in vetro fertilization, gay parent adoption, willfull sterilization. I could be wrong and some small church somewhere out there publicly proclaims these actions to be morally wrong as well but, like I said, I have yet to encounter a single one outside th…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 04:36 AM
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It's the "why" they hate Catholics that is important. My contention is it's because of the church's traditional teachings on sexual morality, especially in regard to homosexuality and the so called reproductive rights of women. When a church body publicly stands up so strongly against feminist/leftist ideology, I'd say that is pretty red pilled.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 03:52 AM
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It matters because the media's over the top focus on the abuse crisis in the Catholic church seems to indicate that the church is on to something that our culture is vehemently rejecting and trying to silence/marginalize through that coverage. I would argue that this is a sign that the teachings of the church are striking a chord which is what our entire conversation was about in the first place; how to identify red pilled churches.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 03:36 AM
1

But there are more instances of abuse in Protestant churches than in the Catholic Church in the US every year so, you would think the media would at least offer equal coverage. By the way, those stats don't mention that many Protestants dont have pastors at all. Perhaps, if they go to church on Sunday at all, they're in a more contemporary house church set up where there is no pastor and members just gather to worship communally. Contrast this with the fact that every practicing Catholic in the …
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 03:17 AM
1

You could be right about the percent likelihood of abuse although it seems like there are more incidents of sexual misconduct by pastors in the various Protestant churches, year in year out. The data is fuzzy for sure especially given the fact that the rates of reporting of abuse are low so, we could be talking about way more incidents than are publicly known. I guess my overall point is that sexual misconduct is also a grave problem in Protestant churches yet, you don't hear nearly as many main…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 02:43 AM
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This sounds like the shit test OP wanted.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:04 AM
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The vast majority of cases of clerical abuse revealed in the PA grand jury report happened before 2002, when the bishops began implementing more modern approaches to deal with and report sexual misconduct.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 12:36 AM
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https://www.insurancejournal.com/news/national/2007/06/18/80877.htm While data is fuzzy, it looks like, if protestantism in the US is taken as a whole, there seem to be more more cases of sexual abuse of minors in those churches than in the Catholic Church.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 12:10 AM
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There is a higher percentage of this type of activity (sexual misconduct) on the part of ministers in Protestant churches and in certain professions like teaching, you just don't hear about it in the media because, like i said, Catholicism is being targeted by the secular media. I'm not saying this isn't a terrible scandal. It's horrible that this has gone on and been covered up for so many years but, let's look at it in the context of our society at large. Further, my membership in a specific c…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 09:49 PM
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I actually think that traditional churches like Catholic and orthodox are in a much better position to evangelize our culture and fight against the tide of feminism than those that have eschewed tradition by continually bending over to the culture (Episcopal Church, I'm looking at you). For example, I'd say one of the most redpilled teachings in the public square is the prohibition on abortion and artificial contraception...and you'll only find that officially taught by a church body in the Cath…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 07:08 PM
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I definitely agree that individual Christians should discern for themselves whether instances of tradition jive with what they believe to be valid interpretations of sacred scripture. In other words, just because a church body takes a certain doctrinal position (ex. The bible only contains 66 books in the Lutheran Church or Jesus isn't truly God in the Mormon church or communion is really Jesus' body and blood in the Catholic/orthodox churches), doesn't mean that we should just accept them prima…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 04:02 PM
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We seems to have gotten a little far afield here and it's mostly my fault. My main point was to disagree with your original comment about how tradition, and the doctrine that develops out of it, "gets in the way of biblical exegesis". Whether you ascent to the idea that the Bible as we know it (we can all agree that there are at least 66 books in the bible) is 100% the inspired, inerent word of God or not, its very existence is due to tradition. Even most of the 4 cannonical Gospel writers proba…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 01:33 PM
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If I'm tracking your contention correctly, you are saying that God's inspiration is not confined to the books that make up the Bible, whether that be the 66 for Protestants or 73 for Catholic/Orthodox. Ok, I can see how that could be true but, I suspect we're talking about two different levels of inspiration; the inspiration that wrote down the very word of God for all times and the inspiration that guides an individual in his/her daily life as a disciple. If there is no distinction, I guess the…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 04:28 AM
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Sure, but don't the two go hand in hand? In other words, only those books that made it in the cannon are divinely inspired. So, tradition identified which books were inspired by God.
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 10:38 PM
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You don't buy it that the Bible is a product of tradition?
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 07:46 PM
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Most tradition (doctrine) in the Catholic/Orthodox churches is rooted in scripture even though, interestingly enough, the bible itself is a product of tradition (both the Catholic and Protestant Bibles).
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 06:07 PM
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Didn't a white guy win the gold medal in the long jump a couple Olympics ago? So much for white men can't jump.
/r/MGTOW20/08/18 02:39 AM
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+1. No doubt if a guy has his shit together, he can crush a woman in a single parenthood competition. Even the classic trope about women being more naturally nurturing than men is proving to be false.
/r/MGTOW20/08/18 02:38 AM
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Way too many fucks given about what she wants/her feelz. I think you are on the right track to maintaining frame here since you denied her moving in (great move) but you need to be careful about that oneits creeping in. Stop pedestalizing her poon and she'll either acquiesce to your boundaries/wants without issue or leave you. Either way, you win. If you're attitude is that you wouldn't mind if she left, you have more power in the relationship. I'm not one of those guys who thinks you need multi…
/r/askMRP19/08/18 01:33 PM
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I bet it was the lack of strong father figure in her life rather than her limp d denomination that molded her perspective. The father is the spiritual head of the household and if he isn't leading the family in a righteous manner, the children are going to end up being more influenced by the culture of death we have in the west than by the good, the true, and the beautiful.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 01:28 PM
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Too much caring about her and her thoughts/emotions and not enough caring about your own. Also, the fact that you are cohabitating is a clear sign your frame is weak. Her behavior is the early stages of mutiny and you are allowing it to happen because you are taking your attention off yourself and mission and putting it on this woman. Deep down inside her, she hates this shift towards pussification in you and is beginning to protest loudly. You gotta find that dick in the midst of those vaginal …
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:11 PM
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She cheated because she has zero dread or respect for you. She sounds like a low character woman (Western world is full of them) but, there is nothing you can do about the past so, build yourself into the man that she would never cheat on again. If she comes back in line, great. If not, you'll be able to chart your course without her along with a high level of personal badassity.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:02 AM
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Dang, that's some sick dread potential right thur. Makes me want to convert to Mormonism (not quite ready for the full on heresy of Islam).
/r/askMRP02/08/18 04:22 AM
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I wonder if his wife would respect him if he were unemployed and "trying" to find a new job.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 09:10 PM
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This sounds like a female post; completely irrational with no backstory and plenty of feelings. Either you're a chick or have a serious case of the homos.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:36 AM
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I'm in a similar situation with a woman who is fantastic in every way except she doesn't really excercise much. She isn't fat but she could def lose a few (prob 20lbs) and I am nervous of what will happen once marriage and then children come along. It's quite the dilemma because a big part of me loves her and sees a great future with her but, I know in my heart that I'll have difficulty respecting a woman who is significantly overweight. That being said, the interesting thing is that I'm sexuall…
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 07:47 PM
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Homegirl will turn into the woman Rick James sang about if you step up your lifting and dread game (and by stepping up I mean actually beginning to do them). On the other hand, if you are busting 3-5x per week, there's not much to complain about IMO, especially if you consider what 20+ years of marriage does to most bedrooms (kills them). Sure it can always get better which is where lifting and dread will help but, dang, banging 5 times/week? I would be doing cartwheels if I were you.
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 04:01 AM
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I would grab those rings and sell them on Craigslist. If that B doesn't want to wear them, turn them into ca$h and watch her hypocrisy get activated when she cries and moans about how you don't care about the outward symbol of your relationship. If she wants some rings, she can pony up the dough and get herself some. If you're doing this RP thing right, that's exactly what she'll do.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 01:27 AM
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If you start becoming the man you could be, your ambivalence about your wife won't matter. The point isn't to recover some lost feelings or attraction for her, it's to recover your birthright as that badass alpha-dog. Who gives a shit how you feel at any given moment about that no respect havin B? Or, for that matter, how she feels about you? Paradise is within you, not in something or someone external to you and your choices.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 12:49 AM
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I think much comes down to being called to marriage in the first place and then seeking God's guidance when vetting a specific woman. Men definitely run a significant risk in Western culture/society when it comes to marriage but, if a believer gets married and things go sideways, God's Providence will prevail, making all things work for that man's good. Sure, we should take every precaution when it comes to making such a significant decision in the first place but, we shouldn't let fear, however…
/r/RPChristians24/07/18 06:49 PM
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Your dad probably just wants to see his grandson. My guess is your ex didn't like that you had shut your dad out of your life so she reached out to him and made the connection happen. My ex did the same exact thing but with my aunt. Now the two of them are thick as theives, hanging out on the reg and even going on vacation together. Super effed up but, in their hamster minds, it is all justified because you are unforgiving and they just wanted little guy to have a relationship with his grandad. …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:28 AM
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There's your first mistake: looking at FB. That place is designed to spread a culture of envy and consumerism. It will make you think that most people are feminist, communist, liberals that applaud baby genocide and sex change opperations. If this was the case, Trump wouldn't have been elected.
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 01:48 PM
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I'd much rather take care of tasks myself, especially those I find important, than let some lazy, careless trick do a half assed job. This is true for everything except keeping my sack drained. Then she needs to have the work ethic of Rosie the Riveter or she'll get sent to the unemployment line.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 01:37 PM
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Bring forth the pedastal so I can worship my kid's mom like the biatch I am.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 01:29 PM
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1st girl sounds like the better option from a biblical perspective. You are supposed to be the spiritual head of the family and if the 2nd chick has been discipling you or teaching you about Godly matters in some way (not saying this isn't a positive for your life. Wherever or whoever the truth comes from is a blessing), that puts your relationship with her, at least spiritually, in a leader (she)/follower (you) dynamic that will be difficult to shift towards the Good ordained order where you ar…
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 09:21 PM
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All things are possible with God's help. You need to take spirtual authority over this relationship by leading it in a Christlike manner towards righteousness. If she follows suit, you have a potential keeper. If she resists, you can move on knowing you gave it a shot. And this goes without saying but, if you two are living together, you need to separate stat and commit to sexual purity. Healing of the relationship can't begin until you do that.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 04:20 AM
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Homie, why are you even considering marriage at all, let alone to this disrespectful B, unless you are A) religious or B) a male golddigger? It makes zero sense to sign on the line that is dotted in today's day and age unless you think you'll go to hell if you don't or she makes considerably more money than you. When she mentioned how she didn't know if she wanted to get married to you anymore, you should have seized that opportunity like you were the New York Yankees and A-Rod was beginning to …
/r/askMRP16/07/18 04:12 AM
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I bet you'll be wondering why you didn't break it off sooner.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 08:45 PM
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The third brother is Chazzy. He bangs ho's with John Coltrane playing in the background
/r/askMRP15/07/18 02:19 AM
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Chaz does especially well with the "low lubrication" ladies...you know, because of his drooling issue.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 02:14 AM
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https://youtu.be/b5-iJUuPWis
/r/askMRP15/07/18 02:07 AM
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Which is deeper; your D in her V or you in your wife's frame? My money's on the latter.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 02:02 AM
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This is so true. Just listen to Motown, for example. It's like a cacophony of cucks thirsty for that booty.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:28 AM
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Even though she's a Fatty Mcbutterpants, she still gets those thirsty betas to validate her. Problem is, Chad wouldn't be caught dead with her in public (only pound her in private) so, she'll have to settle for beta bux who will just let her continue killing herself slowly with food.
/r/MGTOW13/07/18 03:09 AM
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An interesting idea I've heard is that the real sin of Adam and Eve wasn't disobedience, per se, but the role reversal that occurred when Eve took the initiative to make the decision, eat the fruit, and then compel Adam to do the same. This view dovetails nicely with RP's critique of feminist influence in Western culture and how it's causing catastrophic damage to institutions like marriage and the family through the rise of eglatarian/utilitarian philosophy.
/r/RPChristians13/07/18 01:38 AM
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I'm not a lawyer but I do come at this question with a lot of experience (ex wife was a sahm, she had affair with nextdoor neighbor, got pregnant by him, div raped me). Honestly, it sounds like you had a shit lawyer. Yes, the cards are stacked against the spouse who is working and wasn't the primary caretaker of the child but, a good lawyer would have immediately hired a forensic accountant to find all the ways that ho was hiding income (and the $50k she took from the marital account!). I'm gues…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:25 AM
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Good point. The action plan is good but the intention behind it needs to be OI. I guess I was just trying to point out a guaranteed way the relationship will improve.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 08:27 PM
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This chick needs to feel the dread, STAT. A great way to accomplish that is to postpone the wedding and/or move out of your cohabitation situation. Guaranteed she'll be singing a different tune if you do this. You will get the fast results you want or she'll dump you. Either way you win.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 08:08 PM
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Tell her to come over so you can both read the 21st Amendment of the Constitution.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:55 AM
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Issue #1: You live with your gf (sounds like in her house!) Issue #2: She stone cold disrespects you on the eve of your anniversary because the festival is on a different day than you both thought. Issue #3: You actually put up with a grown woman's tantrums. This relationship sounds beyond repair. Time to next her no respect having ass.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:52 AM
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Damn dog, do u even have testicles? Last time someone used the f word in reference to me and wasn't kidding, I got in a physical altercation. This B needs to learn how to respect the cock... https://youtu.be/bbanWHx5AFQ
/r/askMRP11/07/18 10:02 PM
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"My world is called Cleanhouseistan. You become a citizen by pledging allegiance to the flag of dustfreeness and by singing the national anthem, "All Hail the Mighty Mop. Bonus patriotism points when you have my shirt ironed in the AM."
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:12 PM
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Does this woman know about a thing called punctuation?
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:03 PM
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Great point. Maybe she's prego with Chad's spawn.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:59 PM
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Your "wife" did you a UGE favor by giving you a heads up about her cheating ways. This gives you the advantage of time to plan for the divorce. I would fein like you want to work it out but, quietly in the background, go about planning your escape route. Make her think you two are on the road to forgiveness and recovery while you consult an attorney and get your ducks in a row. I would also be careful about starting any romantic relationships right now as then your wife can frame the divorce to …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:58 PM
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"OMG, I actually had to sit in that cube for 8 hours today! Don't know how I'm going to struggle thru months, let alone years of this. It's really hard working in this climate controlled office where I have to punch out an email every other hour. The only way I can stay mentally healthy is by distracting my coworkers with pointless bantar. Ugghh, can't wait to get married to a rich guy." - Tiffany in Accounts Receivable
/r/askTRP11/07/18 02:22 PM
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I wish most women couldn't finish a Chipotle bowl.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:25 AM
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Listening to your gaylord ramblings reminds me of Allen iverson's famous query (adjusted for your scenario), "we really talkin bout flowers?" Come on dog, why do u care about the wedding at all, other than how to avoid it? And let me ask you something else...why in God's name are u thinking of marrying her if her main focus in life isn't draining your ball sack consistently? Seriously, life is too short to put up with a woman like that.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 05:14 AM
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Just the tip.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:52 AM
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He's her fag hag.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:45 AM
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https://youtu.be/5dwN9TsK4lo "I'mma read! I'mma learn to read!"
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:42 AM
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So, are you going to be with her out of guilt? If you told her that, do u think she would be ok with that?
/r/askMRP09/07/18 09:36 PM
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Focus more on how you parent and create dread. Then your studdly dad example will slowly reel your wife back into understanding the basics of parenting...and wife-ing. It's all linked together.
/r/askMRP08/07/18 01:42 AM
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Is that when I'll get my raise?
/r/askMRP08/07/18 01:35 AM
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I'd say that comfort test was more of a shit test and the correct response would have been, "just don't give me a reason to look for someone else." She is slowly coming around to the realization that YOU are the prize and she ain't winning it with her lard ass body.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 01:24 AM
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I wouldn't have put myself into such a time crunched and stressful situation if I could have helped it. That was the genesis of this entire sad ball sack of a story. Stress in, stress out. It's no wonder you two had a poor interaction... YOU steered the ship into a malestrom and then, like the lack of responsibility takin queef that you are, started blaming your first mate for not acting appropriately...so much so that you are thinking about div?!? Come on dog, you're better than this. You can't…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 08:40 PM
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Amen to this. Grieving the loss of what, your prison cell? That's some Stockholm Syndrome shit right thur.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 07:57 PM
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Phenomenal post...this should be side barred. It all comes back to the first commandment; to have no other gods besides Yahweh. Oneitis or pedestalizing a woman is making her an idol, and what do idols require? Time, attention, devotion, sacrifice, etc - all things that belong primarily to God. I'm not orthodox but, when an eastern Christian couple gets married, their hands are both tied to a crucifix. This symbolizes that the marriage will be a cross to bear for both people. The cross is not us…
/r/RPChristians03/07/18 12:51 PM
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I wouldn't bring her to a group outing with your network on a first date...it has too much potential for awkwardness. Maybe a 5th or 6th date, but not the first. You gotta get to know this chica and vet her before you intro her to your friends and family, unless you meet through a shared network but, that doesn't sound like the case here. PS: props for approaching.
/r/RPChristians03/07/18 04:39 AM
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Dog, you have a huge advantage over your wife in the parenting dept due to the simple fact that you have a son. The father/son bond is just naturally stronger than the mother/son bond, especially if you are bringing the fatherhood A game. I wouldn't worry about this piece. It's actually a good way to dread your wife because she fears that your son would want to live with u if the Div happened.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:47 AM
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Sounds like you guys are at odds over how and when to maintain the house...unless YOU believe the window should have been painted but were just too lazy to git her dun. If that's the case, then you should have owned your shit so, take this latest insubordination as a sign you gotz to start bringing that A game on the regs. If you really didn't believe you needed to paint that window right away, I would crank up the dread and withdraw attention. Trick needs to get back in line, especially if she …
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:23 AM
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Well, there aren't many preachers that have it all together what with the pressures of culture and the need to finance their initiatives. It's hard to be prophetic, in this age or any other. I'm not saying that as an excuse for these men, just that most of the time, I've sensed that I need to find the good in these messages and praise it, instead of waiting for some preacher to be 100% in line with what I think is the proper interpretation of scripture.
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 04:18 AM
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Well, he's def not RP as his book on marriage shows but, I think there is a ton to be gained from his teachings on other aspects of the Gospel message. I know I was helped a lot by his reflection on the Prodigal Son parable as well as his ideas on the interaction between God's Providence and our free will.
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 03:55 AM
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Tim Keller is the man. He has numerous YouTube sermons.
/r/RPChristians25/06/18 01:01 AM
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TL;DR - I'm scared stiff of my live-in gf and, even though she's been dishonest with me, I don't respect myself enough to kick her the funk out of MY apartment. Oh yeah, trick owes me money too that I'll never see.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 11:40 PM
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"Headed" is the operative word here.
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 04:02 AM
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How did u transition from no-load zone to load zone?
/r/askMRP22/06/18 09:56 PM
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My question is, how did you not vett her harder before the engagement? Gotta up your awareness, g because, you got off easy this time. Your oneitis is blinding you to the truth of whoreism.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:17 AM
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You can't deduct contributions to an IRA if you make over a certain amount so, most high income earners opt for the Roth which isn't tax deductible but grows tax free and can be withdrawn from without paying taxes as well. Both accounts have a max contribution of $5500/year.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:28 AM
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An IRA is a tax advantaged investment account. The stock market is a listing of publicly traded companies into which you can invest within accounts like IRAs. Other types of investment accounts may be tax advantaged (401ks, for example) or not (taxable brokerage accouts). My advice; use Vanguard. They charge zero fees outside of expense ratios, if you buy their funds (vtsax is a great one to use for broad diversification and low expense ratios).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:22 AM
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Backdoor Roth if you exceed the income cap, homie. Just put the max in a traditional IRA and then rollover to a Roth every year. It's dumb that you have to jump through these hoops but, no one said our tax code was logical.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:16 AM
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I liked your response, just don't let it show that you were rattled by her question. The cooler you stay, the more interested she'll be in your mysteriousness. Her question is similar to you asking her if she bangs on the first date. Simply deflect like you did and move forward with going after whatever you want from her. Or if you don't want anything, just excuse yourself to the bathroom and don't come back. I mean, her question was really low class, even for the effed up world that is HK.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:10 AM
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CS all depends on the income discrepancy between you two. So, hopefully she works and makes similar money to you. If not, encourage her to start working and funding her part of the expenses. Say something like, "I want our child to be born into financially stable circumstances." Also, she will only get cs if she files for it. Usually, that doesn't happen unless she's pissed at you. For now, I'd strive to avoid conflict with her until the child's first birthday. I'm not sure if you are living tog…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:27 PM
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"Hauling shit" Just not women.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 02:32 AM
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Yeah, setting the boudries (cause and effect) with women is crucial to getting your, and by extension her, needs met. Believe me, she doesn't want some easygoing, placating bitch. She wants a dude that charts the course and demands she get in line.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 07:51 PM
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There's this complete gaylord in my office and he's always talking trash about Trump. I just use the Chris Rock script on him similar to the one I use when women spew emotional puke: "Is that right? You don't say? Go on! Get outta here!" Just keep repeating until they shut their pie holes.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:41 PM
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Exactly. Her lack of interest in sex with you is a yuge red flag. Also, sounds like you're living together...another bad move in your part. No wonder she doesn't want to bang, you have created zero mystery and dread.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:57 PM
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If you watch porn and wack it on the regs, this might be the culprit.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 04:47 PM
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Prob can sense her latent leziness.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 12:40 PM
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When she starts crying about "separating" families at the border, just say "we've been separating families at the womb through abortion since the 1970's, but I don't hear you sobbing about that, biatch".
/r/askMRP20/06/18 02:58 AM
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Yes, financial concerns hold back many churches from speaking and acting boldly. It's gotten to the point where I don't go to church to hear the sermon anymore because it's always so weak and cautious.
/r/RPChristians19/06/18 07:08 PM
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Amen. A great example of this is how many denominations are jumping all over the Trump administration for "separating families" at the border. Seriously, this is what our leaders are concerned about right now?!?! Meanwhile, how many millions of children are being murdered in their mother's womb every day? Or, how many gay weddings and pride parades are happening in our communities yet, you don't hear a peep from Christian leaders publically speaking truth to the Big Gay Political Indoctrination …
/r/RPChristians19/06/18 07:01 PM
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I've never been to an SBC church but, I'd say the exact opposite trend of misogyny is taking place in most churches I've been to up and down the East coast. If anything, I'd say it is women who are the operational backbone for many churches. They are far from being marginalized.
/r/RPChristians19/06/18 04:07 AM
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They truly have no shame about taking advantage of the system.
/r/MGTOW16/06/18 12:30 PM
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Exactly. Almost every woman I've ever hired to work for my company has brought some kind of drama, especially the threat of sexual harassment. To me, it's a liability to hire women in the climate. It would be less risky if they actually worked hard but, those that do are few and far between.
/r/MGTOW16/06/18 12:26 PM
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Truth. I mean, they have universal basic income for Alaska residents. Hey, I live in a cold ass area, where's my $200/month?
/r/MGTOW16/06/18 12:22 PM
1

In terms of the significance of the physical world, I would say that the opposite happened. By Jesus becoming flesh, he sanctified the physical world (brought it to a new level of importance), especially our human bodies, to the extent that we will all have resurrected bodies, like Jesus, in heaven one day. To me, that's proof that God's plan for the physical dimension never fell away after the fall but was brought to a fullfillment that we could have never imagined.
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 12:17 PM
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Haha, this isn't helping me.
/r/RPChristians15/06/18 01:17 PM
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I'm not so sure I see your distinction between pre Gospel and post Gospel in regards to the marriage covenant in general and the wife's role in particular. When God created Adam and Eve, they certainly had access to the Spirit (walked with God in the Garden) and had many preternatural powers that we can't even imagine. So, even though God created these specimens that were excellent and extremely close to him, he still gave those two people marriage. I actually think we need to look at pre fall c…
/r/RPChristians15/06/18 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I think she knows how to do everything (eat better and excercise), the barrier is more in terms of her will than her knowledge.
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 10:23 PM
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Yeah, I think that's a good course of action. Would you tell her about this standard or just sit back and observe?
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 10:14 PM
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That's the thing, her mom is and has always been skinny (I've seen old family pics of her). They just didn't really instill healthy and athletic habits in their daughter.
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 09:58 PM
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Good points, thanks for weighing in on this. Just have to ask for God's guidance with this one. I expect him to be loud and clear on this type of thing but, I'm starting to see he doesn't necessarily work that way.
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 09:01 PM
2

Yes, I'm in good shape (gym 4x per week). I had a talk with her a few weeks ago about how I don't think we're compatible on the fitness front. She seemed to be willing to get in shape so, we'll see if she follows thru. We eat pretty healthy when we get together so, it's really when she's on her own time that she needs to make changes. My problem is Im not sure how healthy (psychologically) it is to coach her in this regard, that she should be doing this for herself, not because an unhealthy gf i…
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 06:46 PM
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I struggle with not settling too. I've been dating this really solid Christian woman for 8 months. She is decently attractive (great rack) but not a head turner, by any means and she's a bit overweight. However, she has solid values on every major issue, God fearing, is frugal, 7 years younger (I'm 38), very smart, and submissive. So, this is a tough one for me because there is real potential here for a great solid family with two parents that share the same Christian vision of life. However, I …
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 01:25 PM
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Haha, "one day only, 50% off the msrp!"
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:22 AM
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Best thing is to stay cool right now thru physical activity/emotional dumping on other men because you're walking into a shitstorm of emotions that could cause you to make rash decisions. She won't be able to get more than 50/50 custody unless you're some kind of junky/criminal so, put your mind at ease about that. Plus, this whole scenario will probably make for a better relationship with your kid long-term. I know it did for me.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:07 PM
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When talking about whether to marry or not, I'd say the two most important factors are 1) your motivations which can be both good and bad (ex. marriage being part of your MAP; good. Marriage because it's socially expected; bad) and what her income situation looks like (if she doesn't make much and wants to be a sahm; bad. If she makes comparable money to you and wants to continue doing so while also being around for her kids; good). I happen to think that marriage can be a lot like a forge or cr…
/r/askMRP10/06/18 04:45 PM
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Great point about his net worth not being as much if he weren't married. There are some intangibles to the marital contract that may get lost in a straight quantitative analysis. Even moving forward when her child rearing abilities become superfluous, I'd say having someone to work for/with can be a significant motivator.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/18 01:14 AM
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https://youtu.be/bOQSZBrOkFI You're not a chick, are you?
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:32 PM
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Amen. My ex wife cheated with a non-believer so, it is foolish to think that your only competition are fellow Christian men. Hypergamy knows no bounds.
/r/RPChristians04/06/18 12:14 AM
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I feel you, dog. It's hard to turn it on or off once it becomes your habitual way of interacting with women. I guess I would just keep a close eye on your intentions and ask God to purify them so that His glory, not your own, would shine through in these interactions.
/r/RPChristians01/06/18 07:32 PM
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I would look at it this way: some men in your church might see your example and want to emulate it, which would end up strengthening their marriages. And anyway, you aren't responsible for anyone's reaction to you. That's on them. Now, if you are inciting temptation in women by gaming them, etc, that's a different story. That would be comparable to a hot woman wearing immodest clothing. It doesn't sound like you are inciting anything, though. You're just being your awesome self (no homo).
/r/RPChristians01/06/18 06:29 PM
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I made this mistake as well. It's harder to be the leader when you aren't more mature than her. It's not necessarily age dependent (age doesn't = maturity) but, age gaps usually help her to respect the D.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 11:16 AM
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I think love is a decision/action you make over and over again. Like Aristotle said, love (highest form of friendship) is the act of willing the good for another so, there is something temporary about it. It has to be renewed over and over. Like fitness, you don't just wake up one day and say, "I'm fit so, I don't have to go back to the gym." Of course that would be ridiculous. Fitness, like love or happiness or any virtue, takes continual action done at a high level. What you seem to be talking…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:19 PM
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Homegirl def has to be dtf multiple times per week. I agree with Chris Rock's view on the subject. "What about what the man is accustomed to?!?" https://youtu.be/XAmeW8bq08k
/r/askMRP22/05/18 01:03 PM
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It seems like your post can be distilled into the following syllogism: Spending money equals greater happiness. Frugality is about spending less money. Therefore, frugality curtails happiness. My problem is that your premise isn't true at all. In fact, I'd say spending more money often makes us less happy/fulfilled/satisfied. Frugality opens up opportunities to be more self reliant which, beyond building new skills/knowledge, makes us more attractive to the ladies. Ideally, you want both frugali…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:29 AM
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Exactly. And the problem is?
/r/askMRP19/05/18 04:25 AM
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Only the last expense was worth it for the beta bucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 01:16 PM
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Damn, dude has earned $20 million over the course of his career and she still isn't happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 12:40 PM
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Haha, homegirl: "this is so romantic, you brought me to a windowless white room that's completely sterile." You: "baby, I aim to please."
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:08 AM
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Ha, down in the D that's true. In Royal Oak, not so much.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:05 AM
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This right here.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 03:23 AM
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You're butt hurt that she actually took you up on YOUR offer to fund her business venture that then (surprise, surprise) shit the bed. What was your contingency plan if it failed? Did your wife seem like a strong entrepreneur when you agreed to pay for her to follow her "dream"? Did she seem comparable to that bitch on Shark Tank such that you would entrust your financial future to her? Dog, you have one person to blame for this financial mismanagement and he's staring right back at you in the m…
/r/askMRP10/05/18 02:52 AM
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They're first among equals, like if genders had a Pope.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 08:19 PM
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Yeah, forget that. Homegirl is probably going to kill a baby or two before she becomes infertile, SMH.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:45 PM
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Sounds like you are worried (rightly) about the values difference especially in regards to raising children. I def don't think you two are compatible in terms of taking your relationship to that level (marriage/kids). Personally, with a woman like that, I'd be scared she would abort my baby if it had some kind of birth defect or, she just decided she didn't want a child at that time.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:00 PM
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+1
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:50 PM
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Are you angry at your wife, harboring ill will? If so, how do you plan to shake that?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 01:46 AM
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Thanks for being so candid. Do you regret marrying her or do you think it was part of your path?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 01:24 AM
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Do you think your wife will be shocked or releaved when you serve her the papers? Do you think you could have done something different at the beginning of the relationship to result in a better marriage?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 01:07 AM
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How do you feel about your affair? Proud, indifferent, guilty? Are you waiting for the kids to leave to divorce?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 12:47 AM
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Wow, "a fool and his money are soon parted".
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 01:27 AM
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The fact that you hit it with this land whale isn't necessarily a bad thing. Fattys can be some of the most sexually experimental ladies around, especially if they have big bombs. I say, enjoy yourself. More cusion for the...
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:42 AM
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I think you'll find that many men, although they'd never admit it to you, find large breasted women to be attractive, even if they are overweight. I'm in the same boat, attraction wise , actually. Went out with this one chick with a great personality/values who happened to have enormous bombs but was definitely thick. I always felt self-conscious going out with her in public and so I ended up breaking up with her. I'm not sure how I feel about my lack of dgaf attitude in this case. Was I too muc…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:10 AM
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Giving you passwords out will def weaken your dread game which will impact the sense of you being mysterious in her eyes. This would deteriorate your power in the relationship and make for a slow boat to Sahara panties anyway. So, this is a bit of a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" scenario. I would err on the side of maintaining frame. If she doesn't like it, she is free to leave but, I bet she won't. Deep down inside her, in places she doesn't like to talk about at parties, she doesn't …
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:49 PM
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"Today on the Dow Jones industrials, pussy plummeted."
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 09:51 PM
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Might be addicted to porn and fapping too. That might be sapping any sex drive he would have for you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:28 AM
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Preach it.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:41 PM
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In my experience, it's tough to get through to many women using rational arguments alone so, trying to lay out your case in a reasoned fashion wont work a lot of times. That being said, it sounds like she isn't coming into your frame at all. I've met ball buster's like this and it takes a strong approach to make them feel secure enough to let you lead. It's basically one big shit test to see if you are alpha enough. Dread game might work in this case but, you have to be consistent with it and do…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:09 PM
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Depending on your day job income, I'd start by maxing out ($5500/year) your IRA or Roth IRA (either one with Vanguard). Then, take the rest and stuff it in a taxable brokerage account (also with Vanguard). Use VTSAX or VTI as your only fund and watch the money pile up. Plus you'll get a nice tax deduction from your IRA. Another option would be to use the money for living expenses in order to use your weekly pay to max your 401k ($18500). This is the best option from a tax and networth standpoint…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:44 PM
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I'd say your definition of happiness needs a little tweaking. Aristotle insists that happiness isn't a state of being, emotional or psychological, but rather habitual virtuous acts. In other words, moods come and go (especially with women;-) but what endures is the consistent practice of noble activity. We are, to a great extent, our actions so, becoming excellent in a field of human endeavor is the key to unlocking your well being/happiness/flourishing.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:41 PM
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"If there's ever any doubt, there is no doubt."
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:03 PM
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Yeah, I would even consider quitting your job or, better yet, engineering your layoff. Make your wife go back to work so she is established as a breadwinner. Then, when divorce court happens, you two will be on more equal financial footing. Biggest mistake I made was divorcing my ex too soon. Should have made that bitch get a job then div'd.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:32 AM
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Similar situation happened to me...wife (now ex) banged my next door neighbor (I was somewhat friendly with him) over the course of a year. I tried everything to stop the affair, including following the dude home, jumping him, and pounding his face. It felt good at the time but, didn't help to bring my wife back because the problem wasn't him, it was my ex. Your wife may not still continue hooking up with that specific douche you are talking about but, mark my words, she'll backslide at some poi…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:20 AM
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All you need to know right here... https://youtu.be/Su7HpKOFTM0
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:29 PM
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"Well, I'd like my pussy payments now"
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:49 PM
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Chick sounds like a straight up brat, and I'm not talking about the Subaru truck/wagon mashup car. You sound like you have the patience of a saint so, good job on that front, I guess.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:16 AM
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You've been dating this queen for 2 years?!?! You must have Stockholm syndrome to put up with her shit. Either that or you are jay-z and the woman texting u was Beyonce.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:28 PM
2

Dang, a trannie? Are u in prison or something?
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:21 PM
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Are you really taking what a woman says at face value?
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:18 PM
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"Your money or your life" is great if you want an intro to being financially independent.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 03:45 AM
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I also think the fact that it is a story using the written medium as opposed to the pictorial one that makes it more geared towards women than men. Some commenters here talk about how it is porn for women which rings true because, and this is my personal theory unsubstantiated by any scientific studies I've ever seen, women are aroused through their sense of hearing whereas men are much more visually oriented in terms of their sexual attractions.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:26 PM
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Truth. And I find that there is an inverse relationship between a girl's hotness and her entitlement/bitchery.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:33 PM
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I'm enjoying not having to pay the "female mark-up" on goods I buy. It's like 10% off just for being a rational human being.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:23 AM
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Money in the bank write-up here. It's true, for as much as men rag on women for only wanting some dude's cash flow, regardless of character or intelligence, we just want the hottest physical appearance regardless of character or intelligence too. It's a cold hard truth of evolution, I guess. Can't agree with you on the sahm issue though. Studies have shown it's the best way to raise a family; by not outsourcing childcare, even if that means creating an imbalance in terms of the money making (whi…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 07:14 AM
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Well, when I arrive in the morning, I turn my computer on and just space out for an hour or so.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 01:02 PM
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Exactly, 7 years of that scenario is like a prison sentence, except that jailbirds are getting more tail than you do.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 02:38 AM
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I'm actually stoked for the Takei takedown. Dude has been needing to take his tampon out for a while. I don't really care about the other fool's, Weinstein, Spacey, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 04:02 PM
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"A fool and his money are soon parted." Ben Franklin
/r/MGTOW20/10/17 05:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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