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bonerfleximus/r/askTRP02/01/15 10:12 PM
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It's because TRP at its foundation is a group of guys who wanted to fuck sluts and couldn't, or fell in love with a slut only to learn the truth. The pain of this experience gave them emotional incentive to explore and define the unspoken rules that govern the sexual landscape and revealed many truths.. but the philosophy is still one founded on avoidance of that which hurt them. Most guys who feel inclined to spend their valuable time posting in TRP are driven to do so by that same anger/pain t…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:09 PM
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Not really. It uses as few words as possible to boldly express interest while also diffusing her shit test
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:05 PM
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That's why I'm attracted to you
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:08 PM
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But it seems like a lot of girls in my demographic take it personally So? Their actions in ghosting you says more than any imagined personal insult you perceive
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:29 AM
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There is no corner of the Internet that will have any interest in compounding your stupidity.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:12 PM
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Are you fromLA? She's pretty standard LA girl, nothing special
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:38 AM
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He doesnt want advice, he wants to feel sorry for himself.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 04:17 AM
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Great self awareness.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:58 PM
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Not sure what you're asking me here but a fuckboy is the guy no girl ever tries to settle down with, he's only good for fucking. You got cucked, doesn't sound like a fuckboy to me unless you're still fucking her and your best friend is paying to take her out on dates while getting a peck on the cheek at the end of the night
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:31 PM
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Blah blah move on
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:50 PM
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Not sure what world you live in but if you're in top shape, playful and sexual in your interactions, and enjoyable to be around 30s are way easier than 20s.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 03:37 AM
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Haha the ol 'whip the dick out trick. Universal hail mary
/r/askTRP16/03/17 09:00 PM
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Being romantic and vulnerable is not the same as being a needy doormat. When you can express your desire for a woman while being indifferent to the possibility of rejection it portrays higher social standing while making your intentions clear and giving her the opening to reciprocate. Read models for insight on how to be like this without being a needy faggot
/r/askTRP16/03/17 08:57 PM
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I often find they need a break after cumming because their body is too sensitive
/r/askTRP16/03/17 08:34 PM
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Feelgoodz are on tap in the form of fastfood, endless free porn, social media circle jerks and video games built on a foundation of psychological reward circuitry. It's not easy to choose to give this up and put your heart, body and mind to the test of being a man with ultimately very few success stories to draw on. It's what we all yearn for though and what the world wants us to be deep down inside.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 05:09 AM
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I find feminine women attractive. When I see a black girl that takes care of herself and embodies the feminine role well its honestly more attractive to me than a white girl doing the same because in my experience it's less common amongst their culture and therefor exotic. If I see a white girl acting trashy it's not attractive at all no matter how hot they are. I think skin tone doesn't play a part depending on where you're from
/r/askTRP13/03/17 03:55 PM
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Learn to smile more
/r/askTRP11/03/17 07:06 PM
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Sex with a condom feels like I'm watching a first person porno while doing pushups and my dick doesn't exist. When I do cum I wish I had stayed home and jerked off because it's so weak.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:24 AM
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Sorry but you sound like someone who studies more than they practice. That guide will work for guys who have no clue how to act organically in online dating, but once you learn the ropes it quickly becomes old. Most of those rules carry the intent of not showing too much interest, i.e. neediness, thus demonstrating value to low self-esteem women who seek validation. "The best" said quickly works for a number of reasons. Saying it quickly shows you're quick witted and not sitting there googling w…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:23 PM
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simply "The best" would be ideal if delivered quickly enough.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:47 PM
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Honestly being a fuckboy is a compliment to me. It's the furthest you can be from being a provider "nice guy"
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:46 PM
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It's her way of determining whether your frame is weaker than hers because she wants someone with stronger frame than her own.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 01:17 AM
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LSD makes you re-evaluate your perspectives in general. Things you had "figured out" and all the different personality traits founded upon those things get shaken loose. It's not a bad thing. Just re-figure it out without all the baggage that drove you to that perspective in the first place. Hope this makes sense.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:24 PM
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Agree and amplify, same as any other shit test.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:53 AM
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Work retail for 3 months. Meet TONS of chicks who are fucking desperate to get their shop on because husband and boyfriend are losers. Work on your weak points. That's probably a better prescription for most people. I jumped in headfirst and went full introvert to cold-knock sink or swim sales. It was the most uncomfortable experience of my life but I also grew the most from it. Now I'm not a natural extrovert but I can be when I decide to, I enjoy myself when mingling but still get that exhaust…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:05 PM
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If you are commission based there are many places that will hire you because they don't have to pay you shit unless you make money for them. Sell cars, sell vacuum cleaners, sell magazines. They hire literally anyone and you will learn the fundamentals much faster than sitting behind a desk with no fire lit under your ass to make a sale.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:58 PM
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Selling men's underwear won't teach you to sell. Get a sales job where at least half your income is from commission and you can't live without making a sale.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:55 PM
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They're out there, they tend to attract like-minded people though and not losers. They also don't think like someone who is trying to go to war with themselves constantly (TRP) and they are usually a mix of BP in some areas and TRP in other areas. You have to be selective about which parts of your life to include them in, and not judge them for their faults in the others. Also don't try to educate them - that's your lonely mind trying to bring people into your reality so you can feel less lonely…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:19 PM
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Sounds like she's on meth.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 05:32 AM
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What do you get out of it?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:27 PM
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As his friend your only job is to give him the tools to make the right decision and be there for him when he doesn't. It's not your job to save people from their mistakes, they need to make them to learn
/r/askTRP08/11/16 04:18 PM
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Axe bodyspray
/r/askTRP18/10/16 07:30 PM
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Hail Mary is boldness not neediness. You might be more successful at keeping them around with that but you'll digress on a sexual scale.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:49 PM
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So faggy. Guaranteed friendzone
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:35 PM
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They're a rare breed but there's guys out there just like you. Women always rotate
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:41 PM
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TELL ME IF YOU THINK I'M COOL GUYS
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:53 PM
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In my bluepill days I asked a friend who always seemed to be focused and motivated this same question. His response was simply "you have to find it in yourself" and for some reason that changed me. From then on, pursuit of happiness was just something I do like brushing my teeth. When shit got bad I'd take a step back and acknowledge that life is long and one bad day/week/year can be replaced by 10 good ones. The " life is short" people are the ones who stop trying
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:11 AM
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Because people who need nothing from you make the most genuine friendships. Low smv guys are more likely to over value pussy and undervalue your friendship
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:32 AM
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Good luck. Just remember most worthwhile mentors are going to want something out of the relationship. Beware the professor types who offer time freely without any strings. Actively seek that exchange rather than waiting for them to ask. Also be humble, you might have read something in a book but they usually don't give a shit what knowledge you think you can share. They want a mentee they can pour into and be rewarded by the ego stroke of seeing you succeed while helping them.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:38 PM
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They don't call themselves red pill and there's a lot of snake oil salesmen out there. Your best bet is to prove yourself to someone you respect then formally ask for mentorship. I've had many mentors over the years and each one taught me a lot. They will also help elevate your career if you're loyal and put their words into practice
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:52 AM
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Honestly the whole "don't be alpha at work" thing only applies to some degree, it's not an absolute and the degree in which it applies depends on the field of work you're in. I am a project manager, so alpha behavior is necessary along with knowing what the fuck you're talking about so people take you seriously. I work with fund managers, who have a very alpha-boys-club mentality that I have to share if I want to jive with them. Sales is a great example (>50% of pay coming from commission, not r…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:31 AM
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This is what I thought he meant by the title.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 05:00 PM
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Jerk off til you want nothing. Then go to sleep. Repeat
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:18 PM
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Being good at sales is probably the best way for anyone to make good money with relatively little education. It will also make you good at game. Problem is, it takes a certain kind of character to be good at it or have the spine for it and most people don't have what it takes to be successful in general
/r/askTRP05/07/16 08:05 PM
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Most of my friends have no awareness of these things
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:39 PM
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The lowest common denominator is low smv guys. A high smv guy knows the true value of pussy is far less than the value of a good friend
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:48 PM
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Go there and be fun. Flirt with everyone. Give her little attention. Buy zero drinks except your own. She will want you
/r/askTRP30/06/16 11:50 PM
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There's this new real-time voice-texting app that I hear works well.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:47 PM
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The hardest part of breaking up with my last two ltrs was leaving their dogs. I sometimes stalk their Facebook /ig to catch a peek. This post has pushed me over the hump in convincing me that I need a dog in my life, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 01:38 AM
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Haha same with my last 2 gfs. I find myself Facebook stalking them for pics of their dog :/
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 06:55 PM
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100% not true. That's your insecurities talking and there's a sea of evidence to back this up. Watch Owen from RSD if you need something easily consumable, otherwise go outside
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:32 PM
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Cold approaching is good but not blindly unless you have a lot of time to waste. IOIs help you pick ideal targets and give you a sense of when to make certain moves but a lot of guys won't do shit without an IOI and that's a mistake too. You can create interest where there previously was none is my point. You can do this indirectly by demonstrating social proof/prowess in their proximity without giving them direct attention. You can also do it directly by being bold and approaching with the righ…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 12:07 AM
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By approaching and being bold (assume attraction) you can generate interest where there previously was none. This is where PUA differs greatly from TRP community when it comes to sexual strategy. PUA focuses on the actions you can take (external) to get sex. TRP promotes internalizing principles to get sex (internal). Neither is wrong, and the optimal strategy is somewhere between the two. I actually think PUA takes a more active approach and is more effective at making you into the man TRP comm…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:47 PM
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If she's the sole caretaker it at least means she has a consistent schedule that revolves around someone other than herself. Examine the dogs behavior to see what kind of owner she is, you can glean a lot
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:40 PM
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Thanks, this all felt right on an intuitive level but I was uncertain if I was being too heavy handed. She's earned her spot as an ltr so I always feel a bit guilty when I treat her like an upgraded plate, but that's all I know. When you spell it out like that it makes sense
/r/askTRP28/03/16 11:16 PM
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Thanks, I find it hard to know when to draw the line sometimes. In another case I went the opposite direction. We were at a bar with my friends and she went to the bathroom, came out to me playing wingman for my friend with a couple girls. First thing I did was introduce her as my gf. She went off on me later that night thinking I was hitting on them, compared me to her ex saying he'd never do that. I told her I wouldn't tolerate comparisons after the first couple times she did it earlier in the…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:56 PM
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I tried something like this with my GF and she immediately stopped me to give me what I want. Was that the right move or should I have left anyway?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:44 PM
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Thick condoms
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:37 AM
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I put it in my profile "10 messages before we exchange info or move on." Then stick to it. If you have to cut convo short abruptly because you're at your cap say "This is message 10, 8888888888 call me". They usually text but it sets the tone for someone bold who dgaf. From there keep everything around innuendo, playful, and never get into a serious convo. Get them laughing then say you have to go but you want to see them and you're free on x night. Don't give more than one option, let them fill…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:57 PM
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It can shake them out of immersion if you don't transition smoothly into this
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:38 PM
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I like having all my friends in one place It will not hurt your smv, has a chance to boost it, but in the end this is all that matters.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:21 PM
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He's saying when she wishes you a goodnight funny guy
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:00 PM
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Pursuing your goals in life should be your primary source of personal fulfillment. Women should be secondary. If you're serious about spinning 15+ plates at a time, I'm going to assume women are your primary source of life satisfaction. The same way someone who over-indulges in their favorite food gets tired of it so will you with women. An LTR won't fix this, nor will spinning more plates. Your source of fulfillment should be something else with women being a byproduct / secondary source or at …
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:30 PM
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This is an echo chamber
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:09 PM
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Use his looks. Girls will come to talk to him and end up more attracted to you after opening. No brainer
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:23 PM
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With white Knight groups you have to become their moral authority. Wolf in sheep's clothing is your strategy. So if you're talking to girls, be a bit friendlier and immediately bring them back to the friends. That way on the surface it's just friendly and out in the open but implicitly everyone sees you're literally attracting girls. If one of the desperate white Knight gets cocky or brash and tries to have sex with a new girl shame him. "woah someone's eager tonight." if someone says a racist o…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 02:03 AM
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Sold Kirby vacuum cleaners door to door for 6 months to make a living. Most alpha culture ever, went from extreme introvert to practiced extrovert over that time. Now I'd say I'm naturally extroverted but have some symptoms of introversion like exhaustion after a long day of socializing despite having fun.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:51 PM
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True, if you're an interesting and diverse person with a lot of life experiences it's almost the opposite. Transparency makes them more confused, enhancing the mystery. You don't want to over play the transparency, just allow things to reveal themselves naturally here and there. It will continually surprise them and make them thirst for you. Think dos equis most interesting man, minus walking around announcing shit. The only time the quiet stoic card is better is if you're not interesting.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:40 PM
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But you obviously do give a fuck. Stop being a pussy and set a clear boundary. If she crosses it then walk away
/r/askTRP07/01/16 11:30 PM
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Dude not racist enough. Add some color to this shit
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 03:06 AM
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She also gets more emotionally vested
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 07:36 PM
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The validity of my statement and my post history have no correlation. The Internet is a valuable medium to discuss things that exist only on the Internet (d3), but unless I'm an author or blogger by profession I have no reason to chat about anything else here. Video games - reddit Girls - real life Lifting - gym I sub to trp to keep me sharp and remind me where I came from. When I see someone as lost as you I drop a line. You're extrapolating so much info with so little evidence. Stop sheltering…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:22 PM
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Not sure if this is the case but based on the focus of your post you might not have any game. It's good that you're doing all these hobbies like salsa, aikido, lifting, etc... but building attraction and keeping it is a hobby unto itself. Game by itself can attract girls where these other hobbies won't get you more than friends unless you get lucky. If you want to take control of the situation, work on your game. All 3 of your solutions are focused on changing the external circumstances surround…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:06 PM
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You're an idiot. Step into the real world, where failure is possible and men are made
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:49 PM
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What are you risking? Some random doesn't like you. Nothing lost as long as you aren't spending money / chasing girls who don't reciprocate .
/r/askTRP08/12/15 01:00 AM
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Letting your fear of emotional pain dictate your behavior (aloofness) is just as bad as people who dive headfirst into their emotions. There's a certain amount of masculine strength and courage displayed in vulnerability that will draw people to you. I'm not talking about crying about your problems, that's needy shit. I'm talking about taking emotional risks as small as being the first person to laugh in a group or as large as letting yourself feel love.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 06:12 PM
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Within the first 5 messages, make them laugh and finish off with "7777677677 text me". Go radio silent after.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:01 PM
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Nothing they say holds any value because they are always in need of something from you. Honestly not interested in hearing half made up sob stories
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 04:10 AM
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Fuck man, I love being white with a splash of pacific islander
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:06 AM
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She coined the term DNB, shamelessly pointing out how most women are boring. Love her
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:23 PM
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He spent 16hrs on this faggy post. Doubt it
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:00 PM
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Gotcha, im an ass then because I wouldnt answer the phone if someone called while I was with someone else. They could beg me in texts and I probably still wouldnt. If I was somehow forced to, seems super hard to keep all parties happy but from the boyfriends perspective he was getting the emotional support he needed at that moment despite her gestures.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 01:34 AM
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Tbh, the timing of his family member death on the day of their breakup could easily be a sad lie to rope her in. Ive seen needy people, both men and women, do shit like that. Not saying shes a saint but I rarely hold sympathy for someone im try in to break up with
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:35 PM
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Talk to them and get to know how insanely boring they are. Also stop watching porn. Those two things should do the trick. I had the same thing for asians when I was younger and this did the trick. As for fetishes, nothing wrong with that. Just find a girl thats into you and theyll dig it or they wont
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:07 AM
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If you want to pay for dinner for a dozen dates then get friendzoned this is good advice. If you want to get laid you need to polarize in your convetsation. Mark mansons models had a good bit on polarizing, if you need somewhere to start.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:35 PM
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Burning that paper doesn't do shit besides make you feel good. Don't try to use feels-chasing to get you out of a place that feels-chasing got you into in the first place. Build good habits and delete bad habits. The mental / emotional energy should be devoted to actions and real change. Once those good / bad habits have been taken care of move on to the next. Dont stop to mentally masturbate. You'll know it's internalized when you need no mental energy to actualize it regularly.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:09 AM
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No dude you're supposed to fix her and tell her how beautiful she is!
/r/askTRP20/10/15 12:25 PM
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I've gotten repeat business by doing all the above, but when I see them in person act like nothing is different and be friendly. It's a form of dread that says "I'm completely unphased by what happened" and gets their hamster going turbo. This only works if you truly are unphased, however. If you're the kind of dude that latches on then don't do this.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:54 PM
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The fact that you're hinging on others opinions as validation that you've changed means you havent
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:30 PM
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If you do it because you care about how others perceive you, it's faggy. If you do it because it's who you are, it's fine.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:23 AM
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If all you do is browse reddit and jerk off, monk mode is often an excuse to avoid a true climb. Let's be clear.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:37 PM
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YouTube videos helped me out
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 02:25 PM
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To add to this, it helps to be expressive in a way that shows how much seeing them turns you on. You want to be expressive and show your desire for them, don't wear a blank creeper stare while you fuck them with the lights on.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 05:38 PM
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Great wisdom from someone so young. Keep it up
/r/askTRP02/10/15 04:50 PM
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It's confusing reading the bitter tone associated with each of these events. To me it's just like "yep", guess I know I'm not in the anger phase anymore.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:23 PM
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"I'm taller than you lying down" I'm average height and get good response from tall girls with this
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:01 PM
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K
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:47 AM
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Suck dem almond titties
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:42 PM
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Too many words dude. It's tinder
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:34 AM
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Fapping is way more fun than having sex with someone I don't really want to fuck. Unless she agrees to suck on your balls while you fap. Something to consider
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:47 PM
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This is going to get some flack, but using ecstacy and mushrooms in my early 20s is what finally taught me to shut my brains social defense mechanism off and immerse myself in a social atmosphere. I no longer need that crutch, but it was what caused the ice caps to melt around my heart
/r/askTRP12/09/15 02:48 AM
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Those were example codes, the tone of Elodrian's reply was that of someone disagreeing. OP is specifically saying these are examples that should be questioned.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:33 PM
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Success through unethical means will not give you the same feeling, to the contrary it will leave black shadows in your mind. Anyone who has ever cheated at a game can attest to this, victory through cheating feels hollow. It's only hallow if you accept these ethics as right. If you reject them and form your own code that deviates from the norm, you still hold the benefits of being ethical while avoiding the shackles placed on the everyman. Take for example, not taking advantage of the weak. I w…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:37 PM
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OP isn't advocating those 10 rules, read the rest of the post
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:30 PM
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TIL we cap out at 50%
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:19 PM
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I understand and academically this is a perfect philosophy to live by. There's healthy levels of dependency you can have however, but the foundation of TRP is reactionary philosophies sourced from thirsty beta's recovering from being too far down the "needy" end of the dependency spectrum. The philosophy we end up preaching is the complete opposite - being too independent. All people have emotional needs rooted in others, denying that is the same as denying gender behavior and evolutionary psych…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:06 AM
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I think it's kinda pussy on some level to hide from emotional risk like this. People who do this are severing their opportunities in life. I agree with a lot of trp tenets about protecting your material assets but when it comes to emotional assets you don't have a finite supply. Use trp to understand the social dynamics underlying women, then find one you can make an educated risk on with the understanding that there's a possibility of emotional pain.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 04:15 AM
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Because it's not being a jerk that attracts women. It's the fact that a chad does not care what she thinks of him, being a jerk is a byproduct of that. Nice guys on the other hand care very much.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 06:21 PM
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Thanks for posting this, its a bit therapeutic to be able to sum it all up and how I recovered. I'll start by saying that it wasn't so much about a strong recovery, as it was about having a strong foundation so the fall wasn't too far. Between October 2013 - March 2014, I had the following things occur: Close friend jumped off a bridge after I introduced him to Hallucenogens Forced to relocate or lose 6 figure career (I have no college degree, so it's scary to face looking for work) Got a DUI in…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:56 AM
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I try to switch a lot between serious and joking. Start a serious topic, let her do all the talking, and interject playfully nonstop. It creates a sense of depth so they get more vested and fuck you harder.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 03:28 PM
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Gaayyyyy
/r/askTRP22/08/15 03:23 PM
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Insanity and p90x are both good for that, p90 will build more muscle insanity better cardio
/r/askTRP13/08/15 01:10 PM
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Hah I wasn't implying you were but good to know.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:42 PM
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I agree with you when it comes to working at McDonalds. I'm talking more about corporate jobs where you have opportunities to rise. Even at McDonalds though you improve your reputation by helping people. If it doesn't hurt your duties elsewhere it's better to build that intangible asset than show them the manual.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:05 PM
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There's a difference between work nobody wants and work nobody can do. I'm talking about stuff that people are afraid to touch because the risk of fucking up is high. Not shitwork that nobody wants. I don't agree with being replaceable. This is why you learn to teach. After adopting and mastering a difficult task, people will see the recognition you receive and want that. There will often be someone eager to take on the same task if you mentor them. This leads to having a wake of effective indiv…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 08:59 PM
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Excellent, probably the most important rule. Another one for those wanting to move up faster is: eagerly tackle the most difficult tasks. This sort of goes along with all the team player stuff above, but in a more proactive sense. All the things OP described above will be default behavior for a good percentage of your coworkers. If you want to stand out at all, do so in a positive way by making yourself indespensible. To go along with this, learn to teach. Sometimes making yourself indespensible…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:31 PM
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Bonerfleximus will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:50 AM
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There's just as many men that do the same. Especially true here in TRP, if you've followed the sub count over the past year. They're in the right place at least
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 07:01 PM
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Beyoncé is my j.a.m.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:20 AM
1

If you want to be with a woman with high smv you have to up your smv. Simple as that. Stop blaming on things you can't control and worry about what you can. Being non-social is the first thing you'll need to work on. Every short guy I know that gets a lot of hot girls is very fun to be around - people actively seek their company and they add value to any social atmosphere. If you don't see yourself getting there then you simply need to lower your standards or get rich and loose with your money a…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:11 AM
1

Your last line made her responsible for the sex talk. Don't make them feel responsible for sex, makes them feel like sluts
/r/askTRP19/07/15 09:50 PM
1

Be attractive
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:23 AM
-1

I love reading shit like this. Makes me feel awesome
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:43 PM
2

Or a 12 year old
/r/askTRP15/07/15 03:38 PM
2

On the contrary, if you desperately care what people think you won't do this because you don't want them to think you're desperate. Ya...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 02:46 AM
1

You said drugs ruined her as if she was a victim. Deleted your comment?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 03:09 PM
5

Your friend ruined herself
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:36 AM
2

Trust me geeks don't want to wear suits at work. The higher you go in the tech industry the less attractive women you're exposed to, unless you're in a non technical field like marketing. The movers and shakers of the industry (big brains who can get a job amywhere) set the standard.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:24 AM
1

I don't buy cars or spend any money to get women. I bought this one because I like it. That said my perception of the car as a sports car might not be completely accurate, but I catch people drooling over it all the time because of its aesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:55 PM
2

You're obv more passionate about the topic than I am so not going to discuss the sportyness of a black a7 with sport package. I didn't buy the car for girls, I bought it because I like the look more than any other car just about. It's sexy without saying "hey look at me", can carry my bike/golf clubs with no issues. To me it's a piece of art I get to appreciate every day. Also I'm not a 20yo kid who wants a glorified civic :)
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:59 PM
1

I have an a7 which is on the sporty side and they still change demeanor when they see my car. I just moved to a prime party/beach area so I can avoid driving with girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 11:44 PM
1

With utmost sincerity, I think traveling "is something that must be done, because it must be." I was very much like you in my early 20s, the only way I was able to escape the death grip my hell-hamster had on my thoughtstream was to place it under immense external pressure by experiencing life. You think you have a concrete understanding of your life and yourself and you have delusions of control over your tiny world, but in reality you're a slave to your misery hamster. Stop wasting years
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:55 PM
3

you would probably look for a way to pick it apart and drown it with your misery-hamster Haha. You have no understanding of existential depression. You presume I do nothing to boost my SMV. I do what needs to be done because it must be. Pleasure derived is nonetheless entirely transient, and power will slip from all of our fingertips one day. This right here. Funny stuff. You're like a comic book supervillain who only terrorizes himself. Muahahaha...
/r/askTRP30/06/15 04:23 PM
3

Don't fret man, good and bad experiences are all wrapped together in this package called life. I say that because it probably will, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue what you want. Mormon religion is tough because they do an absolutely terrible job for prepping you for western women. They take the Disney fantasy to the next level. That church though - what an awesome group of people. The short answer to your question is AWALT. The long answer: In order to join the church, I had an early…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:15 AM
3

LA is all about status, if you're high status it's a great place.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:52 AM
6

I did a 9-month deep dive into religion (I was baptized mormon at the age of 26 - long story but I wanted to soften up some of my rough edges and experience complete abstinence from slavery to human impulse.) You're really doing life on hard mode trying RP + Religion. My experience has been that you run into a LOT of post-wall girls, ones who rode the CC hardest become the most "devout". If you want a good girl, you need to avoid singles groups at all costs because those are the girls who are sp…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:30 AM
3

Expect this to unsettle you. Try harder There is comfort in my special snowflake melodrama. Not to downplay your experiences, but this about sums up your entire mindset. Get over yourself. With your mindset, there's nothing anyone here can say to help you. You could have a psychic fucking genie wizard read your mind and tell you the exact steps you need to take to fix your life and you would probably look for a way to pick it apart and drown it with your misery-hamster. I could travel the world …
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:03 AM
1

Op is asking why RPers would go into a monogamous relationship. This is a reason. If you personally think the risk is too great that's your decision.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:50 AM
2

You can't know anything ever. It's about balancing risk and reward, you have a lot lower risk with unprotected sex in a monogamous relationship than you do with some random that says she's clean. If I thought like that I'd never go outside
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:13 AM
1

It's up to you. Any good feelings will usually end with equally bad feelings. If you're the kind of person that can bounce back and get stronger then I recommend taking risks and embrace the pain and pleasure equally. The pain part is why TRP exists, so read the material here if you want to avoid many traps and lessen the blow, or if you want to take educated risks. I don't recommend going through life in a bubble
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:10 PM
6

You just surveyed an echo chamber to feed another echo chamber.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 11:05 PM
2

But bro...AWALT
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:54 PM
5

From a utilitarian point of view: It's the simplest way to have regular unprotected sex without worrying about STDs Many social benefits to being in a relationship when networking with BP people. You can attend bbqs, picnics, date nights, etc... without being a 5th wheel and gain the benefits offered by that network. Despite AWALT, there are girls out there who are a lot easier to be intimate with when they're in a relationship with you and depending on your tastes some of them could be worth th…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:37 PM
3

Women are definitely more risk averse, which leads their intellect in different directions and makes their intellect/stupidity less pronounced. I'm not arguing that.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:28 PM
9

I'm gonna get down votes for this but your assertion that women are less intelligent than men is just...dumb. The reason RP exists and men have come to peel back the layers of illusion is not because we are more intelligent, it's because we get the short end of the stick. We are forced to pierce the veil in order to survive. If you were part of the benefiting party (females), you'd have no intellectual incentive to figure this shit out.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:35 PM
2

The point of swallowing the pill is so you can see the world for what it is and find your own happiness, not the homogenized fantasy life that bp culture feeds you. Before swallowing the pill you were content chasing a force fed dream that is ultimately a trap. Now that you see the world for what it really is, it's up to you to find your path. This time, however, the dream you live will truly belong to you. Stop being bitter and start walking forward. Also, let other people stay bp. You're tryin…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 09:45 PM
2

My first thought as well
/r/askTRP27/06/15 09:30 PM
6

Bunch of bs. If you make the experience worthwhile and you're not being misleading but still avoiding commitment, they fucking know what's up. They have the option to rationalize it or soft next themselves. If they do move on its usually low drama. Like I said, you're doing them a favor by offering them an experience their irrational mind would normally deny them, while giving them an option of escape without feeling like they're at fault. If you give all your info up front, she'll have to turn …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:27 PM
6

The thing is, they want to experience you on some level. The only thing stopping them is their hamster. You can give them that experience without upsetting their values, and they'll avoid asking questions. It's not deceitful in any way, it's a service to them in fact. By "being up front" you're denying both parties of a great experience
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:41 PM
28

Unless they're all very whitewashed, Asian culture is a bit more reserved and you wouldn't be able to spin 10 hot Asian plates at once if you told them about each other. I prefer the halfway approach of not committing but also not telling them about other plates. When you're with them make them feel like they're the only girl in the world, with the dread game coming in the form of them only seeing you once every week or so and you being mostly unavailable due to being "busy". That way you're not…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:58 PM
1

Thanks, didn't think of it that way. Edited my response a bit.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:13 PM
1

Getting ahead is a combination of a few factors: Do whatever it takes to put yourself in an environment where your growth ceiling is extremely high. This could mean working virtually for free for a good company just to get your foot in the door instead of making a decent wage at a lesser place. Do whatever it takes to make yourself indespensible to the people that sign your paycheck, develop your skills and stay flexible. This often means going against RP tenets because you are becoming the ulti…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:53 PM
1

Soy has to be your primary source of protein to have the negative effects people are touting. It just genetics man. If you want higher T you can try and convince a doctor or self medicate.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 02:54 AM
2

TheBrownPill
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:19 AM
1

Just sold all my cards at gp vegas, replaced with pingpong at bars and golf. Fun game but the culture was pretty fucking rife with BB and worse. I saw 3 trannies at gp vegas. What the fuck is the point of cross dressing at a card game convention? It was not cosplay or a lost bet. Also that gp confirmed every magic player stereotype in existence. I have friends that are cool who I typically play with, but if I wanted to get more competitive it would mean immersing myself deeper into that unhealth…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 12:24 AM
1

I weighed 285, all fat when I graduated hs. Lost over 100 lbs, then gained another 20 in muscle. Took about 4 years overall but it's possible in much less with discipline. It really is just a bunch of research and math problems, which us fatties should be good at. I'll provide proof if you want, but if you've been fat your whole life being lean is an eye opening experience once you get there. As for what you can do in the meantime to be attractive, social proof goes much further than a 6 pack. A…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:22 AM
2

I have a hard time being present in the moment when I pre-think everything. I prefer doing stuff to pump my state and strengthen my frame, then let the interactions take care of themselves. Women love spontaneity and can smell canned conversations fairly easily, they just let them slide if they want to fuck you anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:59 AM
1

Abreva as soon as you feel anything works for me
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:08 AM
4

Most drug dealers do it for the social benefits, a lot of them don't make much money
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 05:01 PM
1

Warm up on easy ones. Talk to the girl behind the counter who's trying to sell you a phone, or the ugly girl at the coffee shop who always sends iois. Approach with no intention to close for your warmups as the outcome dependence will be your main mental roadblock. After a few warmups man up and try to get some numbers
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:13 PM
1

Focus on why you're with her in the first place. Enjoy those things and let her feel rewarded through your enjoyment. Basic LTR stuff.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 05:20 AM
1

Your thoughts (suspicions) and actions (posting here, snooping her stuff) are the response I'm referring to. It's hamstering that's resulting in you mentally sabotaging your ability to enjoy the relationship. It's just gonna snowball from here
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:50 AM
2

You think an 18yo tinder girl would get that?
/r/askTRP15/06/15 12:54 AM
1

I'm saying that feelings are often derived from insecurities. From the small description you gave of the event that triggered your "feeling" it sounds like your girl has a boring life and she's insecure about losing you because you're all she has going on. Then you respond to her insecure remark with further insecurity, potentially sabotaging the relationship further.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 10:10 PM
3

Hitting balls at the driving range is another good one
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 08:21 PM
1

Operate off face value then, you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If you find out she is doing something wrong then lick your wounds, heal up and move on with your life. The way you describe her she sounds boring as fuck, why are you stressing so gd much?
/r/askTRP14/06/15 08:16 PM
0

That's the stupedest most female dribble I've ever heard. People who are insecure (i.e. this guy) will have nonstop feelings that don't mean shit.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 08:14 PM
1

Sounds like you're awesome at things in which you have complete control over. Going after attractive women is not like cooking, playing an instrument, etc.. because your success is largely dependent on another humans participation. Let go of that need for control and stop hamstering.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:17 AM
1

Also depends on the area. Getting socially proofed at a couple spots where college girls happen to go helps
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:47 AM
1

Do you poop? Poop and tinder at the same time. Nothing lost, only gains
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:49 AM
1

Lock eyes and don't blink. Dark triad personified. Kidding. Stop worrying about whether she likes you. If she did at some point and you never approached she probably doesn't anymore. To protect her ego she'll place you in the BB category for not having the balls to approach. Either way it's about what you want, not her. If you want her approach. If she rejects you move on. Don't let the risk of dispelling some imagined romance keep you from approaching.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:54 AM
28

As a former video game addict (and soon to be again once FO4 is released), I can speak to this. It's the same reason we push nofap in this sub - video games are engineered specifically to trigger your reward circuitry in a way that promotes isolation and requires little personal risk or sacrifice. That's why you see "gamer culture" filled with betas. Unlike other hobbies such as poker, fishing, climbing, playing an instrument, etc... video games are engineered upon the psychological foundation o…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:11 AM
1

Read sex god method, especially the section about immersion.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 05:22 PM
3

Lmao.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 03:45 PM
1

Almost uncanny how it's 100% opposite. Funny how many guys I've seen do this shit though, I'm guessing some don't know it was sarcasm. Was hoping the spin move would give it away
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:21 PM
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The way you're supposed to do it is casually dance near her, then behind her. Inch closer with every spin move and you'll eventually be right up on her. Make sure she doesn't see you until you're already there, but make sure all her friends who are facing you can see you so they can give you the nod of approval.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:14 PM
4

It's a marriage. If you play your hand in bed you lose your hand in the divorce hearing. Better to win the divorce hearing then use all that money you saved to buy a 3 some.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:04 PM
2

Being a non-smoker sucks sometimes...just the taste of cigarette in a kiss makes me go soft.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:50 PM
2

This advice does nothing for people who already made that mistake.
/r/MGTOW04/06/15 09:36 PM
2

Some guys, especially ones new to sexual strategy do weird shit with eye contact. If your goal is to impress yourself in your imaginary world of isolation without taking any actual risks then sure don't smile. If you intend to approach like a man should, a confident smile that says "you were hoping Id talk to you and now your dream is coming true" is going to be better.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 01:39 PM
1

I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:29 AM
0

Are you smiling? If you flash them a natural smile and they react that way it's a sign of attraction. If you just stare at them for 3 seconds it's a bit awkward.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 04:52 AM
5

RP in general is an extremely insulating philosophy when embraced in the purest sense. Most of the people that embrace RP tenets did so as a reaction to painful life experiences rather than a search for truth, so it's skewed toward avoiding pain rather than taking healthy emotional risks.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:03 AM
1

edited my post with a response
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:29 PM
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/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:29 PM
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/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:29 PM
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/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:28 PM
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/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:46 PM
15

Why is she leaving him when she's probably 70 years old? Honestly something has to be missing from this story...did she find some geriatric Chad with balls as smooth as a 30yo or something? Most likely I'm guessing she held a grudge for many years for something fucked up your friend isn't mentioning in his story. The replies to this post kinda turn me off to this place, it's starting to look like a cult when nobody uses critical thought anymore. Edit: Some sensible responses here, so I'll addres…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:00 AM
11

Set it up like you're crashing on the couch at a friends place. Having similar issues with my car, bought it cuz I love it but considering getting a beater with a big back seat for tinder dates. Shouldnt buy any place to attract women, get it because it makes sense financially. Luxury condos in nice areas are a shitty way to blow money, your HOA is probably more than the average 20 year olds rent.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:21 AM
9

Is it bad if i get a boner when I do this?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 07:06 AM
3

You handled it well. You mis-assessed your role at the beginning, but correctly assessed it later and acted appropriately.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:32 AM
3

Are we citing the simpsons as evidence that AWALT?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:42 AM
1

Dolphin waxer at seaworld.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 01:58 AM
-2

Psychologist here. Was she over 18 and alive?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 03:37 PM
18

We have a trainer at my 24 who weighs 300+ lbs, all fat, and walks around wearing a sweatband with long hair flowing over. Literally hire anyone
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:32 PM
1

As long as you're good at it and doing it because you enjoy it keep going dude. Just be aware of the opportunities that arise and take a few classes to learn to incorporate some partner moves into your game.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:44 AM
1

Honestly you attract what you are. If you get involved in fitness communities, vavi leagues, salsa dancing there's a ton of quality girls
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 01:48 AM
1

I think Mark Manson's models does a good job of unraveling this paradox for those that want to go that path. He describes it as true confidence. In the scenario you described, a man with true confidence would state exactly what he thinks because he doesn't give a fuck what the person whose asking thinks of him. This authenticity is in itself attractive because you're demonstrating higher value by showing you aren't afraid of being judged. It also polarizes people to create an emotional response …
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:32 PM
1

One instructor had us insert our own power word. Mine was "I am badass". We had to repeat that shit in our minds for like 4 minutes straight, and each time I heard it in her fucking stereotypical yoga instructor voice. I started to laugh silently after 2 minutes, then by 4 minutes I was laughing my ass off as quietly as I could while everyone else was meditating in complete silence. I think everyone thought I was just doing a breathing exercise thankfully. What made it so hilarious to me was the…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:36 AM
1

Wut
/r/askTRP29/03/15 08:55 AM
1

"Does this batman costume make me look fat?"
/r/askTRP25/03/15 08:00 AM
0

Wow you're a fag
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:09 AM
7

Yah that's totally what I'd do... All seriousness, if it's just a plate your response makes sense but if you're in an LTR you have full permission to enjoy the fuck out of breaking it off. Most of us don't bareback plates so I assume this would come up in an LTR
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:56 AM
10

The only sexier sentence would be : "I expected him to be happy to find out that I'm pregnant, but he LAUGHINGLY reveals that he's had a vesectomy!?"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:59 AM
1

We talk about abundance a lot here and I think when you're going through high periods in life these people are in abundance. When we're at a high point we start to think of people in terms of "what can this person do for me?" - a byproduct of some RP tenets. The key is to nurture quality relationships as best you can, even when it's not the most interesting thing you could be doing at the time. Just like going to the gym when you don't feel like it you have to hang out with that quality individu…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:04 PM
4

Been in Vegas with a group of friends a few times and twice we've pulled a bachelorette. The logistics were tricky the first time but the second girl basically followed us from XS to dreis
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:20 AM
1

I just stop talking to them and move on but if someone has issues like you're describing that would make sense
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:52 PM
2

What's the point of deleting people?
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:59 PM
1

Cry harder. Share all your feelz. Become the cry. Then ask her if she wants more
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:57 PM
2

Asking a bunch of men if they think the girls you like are hot is the same as asking those men whether they think you're hot.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 10:44 PM
104

Fuck him in the ass to establish dominance.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:50 PM
1

I'm chuckling because there's no way to respond to this without admitting guilt.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:07 AM
1

If it's something you want and easily within your means, get it. If you're purchasing anything because you want to impress people then you might have other issues. I have an Audi A7 because I love the way it looks/drives and I can easily afford it. In regards to how it affects dating there's good and bad. If dating for you is getting tons of P on your D then a nice car won't really help. Girls will see you as LTR material, won't let you close them on the first night. The LTRs you do have will be…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 06:08 AM
0

I agree, it's an extremely defensive beta way of thinking, no logical person would make such a huge generalization about 50%of the world. It takes more courage to take the risk of caring for a woman and assuming she feels the same than it does to assume every woman is opportunistic in their love. Guys might get burned less by thinking that female love is opportunistic but they're closing themselves off to great experiences by doing so. Also, that way of thought has a way of always proving itself…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 04:39 AM
2

I'd say it's a mix of both. You can increase the reserve by exercising it more. Otherwise people who were slaves to their impulses would never be able to change, and that's not true.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:01 PM
2

If you decide to talk even soft trp, make sure to preclude your argument with something along the lines of "I'm choosing this subject because it's challenging".
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:40 PM
3

Thank you. This is essentially what happened to r/seddit in the past few years which is why I come here now
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:40 PM
1

The problem being her choice in men.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:47 AM
7

I never know what to say to people like you. I've known many in my life and I've been one, and no matter what someone says or how much sense it makes it never works. Even if someone had the perfect combination of words to help you understand what the fuck is wrong with you and how to fix it, you still wouldn't do it. Every person in your situation (including myself) that has gotten out of it has done so by simply walking over to the lightswitch in their narcissistic dungeon of self loathing, and…
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:14 PM
8

Stop talking about it bro. You're drying up all the panties.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:05 PM
3

I agree with all of this except the last part. Maintaining frame means that you are absolutely unaffected by what just happened. If she brings it up, answer something to the effect of "I have nothing to worry about". That means either a - you're confident in her ability to stay faithful because you're such a badass...or B - you're confident in your ability to find someone else if she isn't faithful. Going and intentionally talking to other girls is letting insecurtiy drive your behavior, which i…
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:39 PM
1

She probably died in the rain. Hard next, post mortem is worse than post wall.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 09:55 PM
4

Thanks for your response. I agree that pain and loss are a part of life and RP stuff taken to extreme will cut you off from some of the greater pleasures. So many bitter old men in this thread it's refreshing to read your post.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:24 AM
7

Agree, being in a similar boat. Went from being one of the most skilled people at what I do in a fortune 50 company to being another cog in a badass startup full of people smarter than me. My skill merely got me in the door.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:06 AM
1

That was my way of thinking until reading Mark Manson's Models and putting the concepts into practice. The book has changed my perspective a a lot. Gaming with the mantra of "true confidence" has been a breath of fresh air for me, but I still have a lot of PUA mechanics and TRP concepts at the back of my mind so that I can hopefully avoid falling into BP traps. Also, the traits I used to describe this woman are simply what she's demonstrated - not something I've been actively looking for. It's o…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:52 PM
1

I was thinking a bit self-servingly in that she fits my needs but I may not necessarily fit hers - so she needs to either decide to break it off or accept that I may not fit her needs and continue to meet mine. I wasn't aware of those statistics, I thought it was closer to 40 that those risks start to develop. I definitely don't think I'll be ready within 1-2 years.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:49 PM
1

My experience with young girls has lead me to believe that this is hard to find, but that could be because of the places I've met them.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:19 PM
-1

If you are an experienced PUA as you claim, why would you settle for a 35-yo if you could easily pull a 22-yo with the same traits Because the only stimulation that 22-yo provide is sexual, and it's exhausting trying to interact with them in a genuine way. I'd say I'm 50% mark manson, 30% RSD, and 20% TRP to give you an idea of my perspective. I hear what you're saying about post-wall, I might have to look in the late 20s pool for what I'm trying to find.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:04 PM
2

Have you read everything in the sidebar? Any response you get here will not be 1/2 as helpful as any item in the sidebar, with exception to my reply.
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:49 PM
5

Ditto, got a 130k condo at 35k a year. Still there 5 years later making 100k and it's worth 225. Don't buy more than you need ever
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 04:06 AM
3

It's fine if you're extremely attractive (either physically or otherwise) in a way that requires zero up-front interaction to build attraction. If you're just some average dude with his daughter and a girl gives you her number with an opener like that, she's either giving a fake number or she has an angle (money, desperation, etc...) - not typically what most of us look for in a partner. Most of the time they just won't give it to you, but when they do it's likely going be one of those two scena…
/r/seduction20/11/14 07:11 AM
3

I used to think that but there's an entire realm of experiences that can only be had with a family.
/r/seduction12/11/14 05:48 PM
26

When you doubt your abilities, you give abilities to your doubts.
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:37 PM
1

Yes that's what I mean by the wrong thing. Polarizing in itself isn't necessarily the goal because any act with the intent to polarize is outcome dependent and seeking external validation. Just say what you want and be who you are without consideration of external consequences. The rules about texting/calling/displaying affection preached in this community are all bandaids for people who are needy but trying to grow. Their natural behavior would never attract a desirable woman so they are forced…
/r/seduction25/10/14 07:29 AM
1

Are you escalating because you genuinely want sex, or because you feel like it's what you're supposed to do? I guess what I'm trying to get at is figuring out what you really want with these women? If you're seeking a higher level of intimacy, you can't think of it in terms of "how do I do everything right to get from point A to point B" which is what most of your questions seem to be asking for. Knowing the right thing to do is great and necessary for the fundamentals of dating, but you won't r…
/r/seduction24/10/14 05:56 PM
2

2 months of good mornings? They need some dick dude. Escalate. Also not to be judgemental but looking at your other posts you seem like a "play it safe" kinda guy that doesn't really know what he wants. If you always say the right thing, it doesn't seem very genuine and the girl will have a hard time opening up because she'll play it safe too. Know what you want in life, have a sense of "presence", and the girls will want to be a part of that. Stop focusing on the input/output robotic interactio…
/r/seduction24/10/14 03:09 PM
2

Even if you want to get to know them and date them, carrying yourself that way generates chemistry. It's the very definition of being non-needy and outcome independent.
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:26 PM
1

That "avoid deep meaningful convos" line can be taken out and the statement still holds true for men who want something serious. The mindset described by the first 4 lines is a powerful and concise description of the male's role in creating chemistry.
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:25 PM
13

This is awesome. I fucking love little girls.
/r/seduction22/10/14 12:47 AM
3

What guidance have you provided?
/r/seduction04/10/14 10:40 PM
4

I guess ill enlighten you.... Both answer approaches are good depending on the context. The first is honest and bold, best used to cut through the bullshit and let the girl know what you're about. I assume shes already in bed with you at that point so its best to be honest and bold here. The second is when they're insecure and asking an irrational question like whether you're using your coffee machine as a way to get laid. It injects humor into the situation, and shows the reality of how silly a…
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:36 PM
4

Um. You're wrong
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:26 PM
6

I usually go with a thoughtful and honest response or a sarcastic "that's a stupid fucking question" response. "It's not a conquest, more like a mutual celebration...I'm not taking anything from you." "Not yet, but the salesman at the coffee machine store told me this one would get me laid. It's pretty much the Ferarri of coffee machines."
/r/seduction04/10/14 07:59 PM
5

It depends on the context. If you're walking up to a girl on a college campus, she's probably not in a state of mind to be approached with comments on her physique. If you're at a club where a woman dresses specifically to attract attention, it's a different story. This seems like common sense to me but I guess that's why this subreddit exists.
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:11 PM
1

Great post, this shit happens to me after a night at the club...getting back home at 4am after drinking and dancing...the sex is probably going to be bad. If I'm into them but feeling like you did, I'll usually make a move but let the LMR deter me. That way they still see me as a threat and get to feel wanted but I get to go home. Its not a perfect solution but its all I can come up with
/r/seduction01/10/14 01:10 AM
-9

Fuck you I'm not that nice
/r/seduction01/10/14 01:00 AM
2

Text her about the annoying girl your with who won't put away her phone
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:05 PM
1

I think I might have Williams Syndrome
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:05 PM
1

I don't understand why you feel its your job to approach him at all. Have you heard of the term "white knight"? Let the dbag be a dbag, if he's as bad/obnoxious at it as you imply then it'll just make your job easier.
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:01 PM
1

So?
/r/seduction17/09/14 03:20 PM
0

You are naive.
/r/seduction10/08/14 05:59 PM
3

Swipe for 10 minutes straight (without looking) and delete the whales. You go to the front of their queue when you like them, play the numbers game
/r/seduction07/08/14 02:59 PM
1

Smile
/r/seduction02/08/14 06:20 PM
2

Put as few decisions in their hands as possible, take the lead to the point of boldness
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:22 PM
3

Some people work 8 hour jobs/a life outside of dating/etc... Send a text Don't wait for a response...if you're sitting there with a fucking stopwatch you're doing it wrong
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:23 PM
6

Good shit
/r/seduction25/06/14 01:40 PM
25

Nice man, great close without any intoxicants involved. Mind expanding on the one hour convo you had to get past her lmr? You site a couple of prescribed lines you used earlier but that conversation couldn't have been prescribe.... I'm mostly curious about the mindset you had going into it and the balancing act between thinking about closing (outcome dependence) and being comfortable to just talk for an hour (outcome independence). Did you just focus on talking to make her comfortable and she en…
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:37 AM
1

I think reddit pickup has shifted as the huge influx of new people came in and lurkers turned into self proclaimed gurus. In real life there's still plenty of classic pickup going on, but theres a greater sense of "need" amongst those with softer sensibilities(typical redditors). Its also easier to sell them books and seminars with "inner game", because its more palettable to them.
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:21 AM
1

Men like girls who are Rollin ballz. This is scientifically proven
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:28 PM
7

You sound way too outcome dependent. Step 1: have a good time. Step 2: allow girls to partake in your good time. Step 3: attempt to close. If you fail, go back to step 1. Each cycle gets easier, make sure the focus of everything you do at all 3 steps is YOUR GOOD TIME....getting laid is just a small part of that. If you focus only on that aspect you will get nothing or get some bottom feeders. There's your plan
/r/seduction24/05/14 11:55 PM
1

Is this kind of banter exceptional in some way? Seems normal to me
/r/seduction21/03/14 05:29 PM
0

Externally they're very similar. Internally the difference with persistence is outcome independence.
/r/seduction20/03/14 08:00 PM
2

Right, having a forum more tuned toward your interests would be nice. I was only discussing the act of judging those people over the internet. Taking the effort to make a positive change in a community is different from making judgements and exposing those judgements to the community. One is constructive, the other isn't. I'm not saying you're doing either - I haven't stalked your post history and this thread doesn't show any deconstructive elements. I'm just saying that the act of judging someo…
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:36 PM
1

I understand your position. I just don't see the point in judging anyone on the internet. If I don't like a keyboard jockey's stance I'll comment on it if it might be fruitful for me or move on if it looks like they just want to argue. Judgment is a wasteful action, there's never any way to know if someone is a keyboard jockey without making a lot of assumptions. Better to just accept they exist and move on.
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:23 PM
3

Even for the keyboard jockeys if they can forgo judging people for their life preferences, there are nuggets of wisdom in posts like this. You'd think that in the age of the internet people would be more open-minded to others having different mentalities but for some people its just an excuse to judge people on a larger scale with less repercussions.
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:06 PM
5

It's about all forms of seduction. Not sure what the problem is, if this isn't your particular brand of Seddit there's more elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:37 PM
5

They don't always look back, don't wait for that just smile
/r/seduction06/03/14 03:24 PM
1

Please tell me you smiled?
/r/seduction06/03/14 03:23 PM
1

It dispels the image of a naturally charismatic man, and unveils the socially-awkward-yet-well-adapted person underneath. I'd ignore the people here and let your own experience guide you on this one. If you let any of the haters here get to you, it worsens your chances of being able to pull it off. I read your intended topic about the "evolution of PUA" and how it pertains to men's self-help and I like the topic. Just make sure that you aren't on some level yearning to gain the sympathy/respect …
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:03 PM
1

Sincerity doesn't have to manifest in the literal sense, even though he uses a cheesy opener he is expressing interest which is the most sincere thing you can do. These girls aren't retarded, they know that, and they can either entertain his interest or reject it. They aren't going to call him out on the specific words he used in his opener because its the least important part of the interaction. If we had to be sincere in our openers we would either never be able to cold approach or we'd start …
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:47 PM
2

Exactly. Sincerity doesn't have to manifest in the literal sense, even though he uses a cheesy fucking opener he is expressing interest , these girls aren't retarded and they can either entertain his interest or reject it. They aren't going to call him out on his opener.
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:45 PM
3

Kind of retarded but it sounds like she really wanted to fuck and put up some lmr, then you didn't close the deal. Its a weird thing but some girls like a guy to be really aggressive...you took the safer approach of "no means no" and that's fine, but getting in cuddle mode afterwards instead of going back to the party to find another girl would have emasculated you in the eyes of a girl like that. The frat party scene generally isn't conducive to meeting cuddle partners. If a girl takes you back…
/r/seduction02/02/14 06:08 PM
21

Classes. Get in line early, talk to girls before, set up dates after, don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:10 PM
1

I didn't even read your post and I can tell you it's time to move on.
/r/seduction11/12/13 07:11 PM
2

Vegas if you want to spend a lot of money and possibly get laid. Whorehouses if you want to spend a lot of money and definitely get laid. Dating websites if you want to meet people in your demographic (fat, balding, hairy). The gym and/or extracurricular activities if you want to change your demographic. (dancing, sports, travel for the sake of travel and not meeting women, whatever you're interested in).
/r/seduction02/12/13 09:29 PM
1

Yah I have that problem with x as well, never thought to use Viagra
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:45 PM
2

Not that I condone this type of thing, but having hard drugs on hand is like cheat codes. I'm usually dragged to strip clubs with my friends and I'm not really into the experience. I end up talking with the strippers, making friends, getting my friends to buy dances and making sure the girls know I'm on/have something with me but without offering any to them. They give out their number pretty freely and usually at least one will want to meet up after their shift.
/r/seduction29/11/13 03:09 PM
1

West coast gal? Its an east coast word for soda
/r/seduction26/11/13 01:22 PM
3

<whoosh> Oh cool, should I bring some pop?
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:27 AM
5

So um...where will you be trying this out at?
/r/seduction26/11/13 01:07 AM
3

I turn everything into a joke...make sure it's also an attempt to get them to laugh about it but also show them that you're not really interested in being their therapist. If you keep responding by being concerned, its just going to make it worse.
/r/seduction21/11/13 09:12 PM
7

Treat her like you would anyone else, don't put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction08/11/13 05:51 PM
1

Whip out your dick and knock that shit outta the park.
/r/seduction29/10/13 01:06 AM
-3

Get leg implants (this is a real thing, I am not recommending it seriously though)
/r/seduction22/10/13 06:58 PM
6

It also helps people who are too pussy to take risks feel like they're improving by reading material on the internet. Be weary, change requires effort.
/r/seduction14/10/13 08:22 PM
2

Joe?
/r/seduction02/10/13 10:10 AM
1

Great post
/r/seduction28/09/13 03:30 PM
1

You isolated that line from the rest of its context, did you even read the post? He's talking about how to have the inner game to not let your sense of self worth rely on whether you get laid, become a carefree risk taker, and take value from every relationship no matter how far it goes. Don't get your panties in a bunch.
/r/seduction26/09/13 01:19 AM
2

I don't mind the occasional funny comment, but I don't like it when they're upvoted above legitimate discussions. Comments are not a "like or dislike" button and people forget that. We should be laughing at comments and upvoting valuable information (unless this sub were intended to be a comedy sub)
/r/seduction25/09/13 01:35 AM
6

I'll get in shape once I finish reading Models
/r/seduction23/09/13 10:35 PM
1

Why lower your standards at all? You can't really control who you're attracted to, just accept it and go for it. I like some girls that repulse my friends and vice versa, who gives a shit?
/r/seduction23/09/13 10:34 PM
27

It's a very hard place to game, I haven't had much success but I know people who have. It always involved classes of some sort, get signed up for spin, yoga, kickboxing, etc.. and start meeting girls there. Show up a bit early to stand in line for a good spot and you'll inevitably meet girls who are willing to stay late and chat. From there you can set up dates, just don't be sleezy about it because you'll be seeing these same people for a long time. The whole "Leave them better than when you me…
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:44 PM
3

When you're in state the last thing you think about is stopping to take pics so you can get internet points from white knights in r/seddit later. Take the story as true or not, it's a good read. Edit: but seriously they need to invent some sort of secret GoPro for dating.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:43 AM
6

There's a lot of good information in here, half of the questions people ask in this sub can be answered at some point in the video.
/r/seduction24/08/13 09:58 PM
1

For having a few beers your answer is pretty on point.
/r/seduction23/08/13 08:35 PM
1

You won't be building chemistry by conducting an interview, but if you just want her attention for a while I guess this works. You have to actively participate to polarize her at some point to either build chemistry or find out that she's not for you and move on. At the foundation of having interesting conversations are: live an interesting life, have opinions, listen to people (rather than just waiting for your turn to talk) and don't be afraid to express your views even if it might piss someon…
/r/seduction23/08/13 08:31 PM
16

Talk about her. The most interesting topic to people is themselves. This is how guys get in interview mode.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:25 AM
2

Honestly it's Vegas, you can just go for broke with every girl. You're not looking to meet "Ms. Right"...you want to meet "Ms. Right Now". If you're spending more than 10 minutes building chemistry and it doesn't look like it's close to closeable move on. Girls here are looking for two traits in guys - money and excitement. Have fun for yourself and be ridiculous, but don't go blowing a ton of money. Abundance mentality is key because you have access to literally thousands of girls and they're a…
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:09 AM
1

Yes, everything else was not bad advice. Just like anything else with seduction you can't apply it all across the board, but any human interaction always has the risk of unexpected outcomes. Just apply common sense.
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:23 PM
5

Good article but that line was a bit much
/r/seduction19/08/13 06:45 PM
3

It's hard to find a good example on youtube because it's performance level dancing and a bit over the top for a club but here's a really good popper dancing to EDM: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eImJ7pa3w1A Just dance for yourself like everyone else at an EDM club but learn to engage other people. You can do silly shit with this kind of dancing too and get away with it, like use your hands to make imagery of your heart beating when you see a girl, random michael jackson crotch grabs, etc...
/r/seduction17/08/13 09:18 PM
1

Depends on where the club falls in the rave-to-club spectrum. If its more ravey, learn to do light shows. Progressing from that to teaching a girl the basics of the show is an easy way to initiate keno and gain acceptance into any group. It also can lead to back rubs if the club is really far down the rave end of the spectrum. Needless to say, it's easy to get a K close here and if you're fun to be around afterparties are an easy F close. If its more of a club atmosphere learn to pop, you don't …
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:15 PM
2

Maybe we're twins...how many fingers do you have?
/r/seduction15/08/13 11:53 PM
2

A lot of girls have a picture of an "ideal man" in their head but that shit goes right out the window if you can turn them on socially. edit: A common line some of you might hear is "I don't usually go for guys like you" after sex...pat yourself on the back for overcoming stereotypes.
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:03 PM
9

5'9, large chin and wide ass. Who's next?
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:58 PM
1

along the west coast (Cali girls, whaaaa). However, I've met some amazing, intelligent and super interesting women here which to me is worth the tradeoff. Will do, might be a few months but I got you friended
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:53 AM
3

True, its just relative to the person. If someone is a retard they'll abuse whatever they can get their hands on (alcohol or drugs).
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:49 AM
2

That's a bit judgmental and kind of a popular sentiment that I have to disagree with. I think any substance is as bad as the person using it, but to reach levels of equal intoxication alcohol is far worse than most drugs. If you do a substance (alcohol or drugs) for the sake of enhancing an existing experience, alcohol is more expensive, less effective, more disorienting, and has a way worse hangover and worse effects on the body than something like a decent pill of X or a couple lines of yay. I…
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:42 AM
52

Welcomed to being trolled.
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:39 AM
2

I might be moving from San Diego to Dallas soon...not looking forward to that change
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:27 PM
2

Don't mind at all. In the seddit sidebar, under "Guides" AtG is the last link: "Above the Game". TofuTofu is the author of AtG
/r/seduction07/08/13 01:48 AM
4

A lot of suggestions here, but keep in mind no matter what you do you're less likely to make it work than you would with a fresh start on someone else. If you absolutely have to give it a shot though there are some solid suggestions, but the opportunity cost is not there.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:40 AM
1

I've actually used this "technique" extensively without knowing it... weird. That seems to happen a lot with me though. It's a natural thing to do when it's loud in the club and you're not doing it with the intention of copping a feel.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:21 AM
3

Very good points. I think there's also an interesting duality of perception going on in this sub with the inner-game movement. There's people who started off with stuff like mystery method and "The game", then moved into stuff like RSD/AtG. Most of these people see the inner game movement as the inevitable evolution of PUA philosophy and in essence it's what most modern PUAs try to aspire to. Then there's the new people who were attracted to the sub by AtG and they're coming into it without havi…
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:19 AM
5

I might try that one between closing and sex
/r/seduction05/08/13 11:10 PM
4

Thanks for elaborating. The term "Original Gangster" might be a bit confusing unless you know its historical usage. The term was used in the 90s to describe oldschool (80s and prior) gang members because in that time period, being in a gang was kind of a mainstream fad. "OG" is the street-slang equivalent of what internet culture would call "hipster" but without any negative connotations. In this context, I'm using it to describe the OP's tip as belonging to the original PUA culture of /r/seddit…
/r/seduction05/08/13 10:35 PM
18

I take this one step further and start jumping up and down, yelling "WOO!", pointing and winking at myself. Gets me pumped and it's just dudes in the bathroom so who gives a fuck.
/r/seduction05/08/13 08:16 PM
21

This is all baseless speculation, but I think its because of all the new subscribers. My perception of what's been happening: The core of the sub was stuff like this OP The sub gained a lot of popularity and new people started showing up With the new subscribers asking questions, lurkers come forward regurgitating what they've read. The inner game movement started to take hold (i.e. MM Models) which is good shit but is also super attractive to white-knight AFCs that can't handle the anti-culture…
/r/seduction05/08/13 07:53 PM
24

There's been a major AFC movement in thus sub lately.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:33 PM
1

I wonder how many clueless guys have read that article thinking it will help them be better with women.
/r/seduction04/08/13 03:22 AM
5

She gives sex, you give her $500. Value giver.
/r/seduction02/08/13 09:22 PM
0

I guess my only question is why you feel the need to express this? Im very much the same as you, and the only thing that bothers me about being the way I am is that I'm completely comfortable with it. I want to be able to get the same stimulation extroverts do from social interaction but its hard. I also enjoy sex with attractive women, despite how boring they sometimss are. That's why I study this stuff
/r/seduction02/08/13 12:16 AM
1

That's awesome. Any job where your livelihood correlates to your ability to internalize PUA principles is gonna do good for you. It's a whole other level though when you try the 100%, maybe give it a shot for a few months just for the sake of it at some point.
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:01 AM
2

For 6 months I sold Kirby vacuum cleaners door to door for 100% commission and it had more influence on improving my game than any book or boot-camp could possibly have. All the PUA principles apply to direct sales, and placing your daily livelihood in the hands of your ability to act on these principles will force you sink or swim. Even if you don't plan to make a career out of it I highly recommend giving it an honest try. In 6 months I went from being shy and introverted to selling $2000 vacu…
/r/seduction30/07/13 10:09 PM
8

What's a good book if I'm a bit older and I still want to chase college chicks in bars?
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:59 PM
5

I don't know if you've ever had an experience where you shut off your brain and just take a step forward, but that's the only way I can think of describing it. For me it was the first time jumping off the high-dive at a public pool. I had a huge line of kids behind me and I was standing at the edge of the board terrified, kids were yelling and my mind said "its ok, just turn around and go back down the ladder...". Then something in me clicked and I just fucking jumped. I smacked my balls pretty …
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:23 PM
2

So much bonin'. No wonder why we have to read books and shit on how to get laid.
/r/seduction15/07/13 08:30 PM
3

Tywin Lannister - true playa
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:45 PM
2

I concur
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:48 PM
2

Take a bite at their hand if they go to touch it
/r/seduction29/06/13 05:27 AM
1

The difference between a value giver and a chump is the chump is generous because he needs acceptance. People sense that. A value giver needs nothing so nobody can take advantage of his generosity
/r/seduction19/06/13 01:17 AM
1

I know some guys who do this. They usually have 2 gym memberships, one for working out in solitude and the other for pickup.
/r/seduction14/06/13 04:36 PM
4

I didn't actually pick up a granny. read and you'll see. Stopped reading after this line.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:46 PM
1

To be honest it's best not to say or imply anything unless asked, it takes focus away from the moment and kind of puts a "all or nothing" spin on the romance. Also regarding your threesome comment, I don't think it's even remotely necessary to explain that you're not looking for a relationship in that scenario...unless it's as a joke because that'd be fucking hilarious.
/r/seduction06/06/13 07:00 AM
17

Or she could be up front about what she's looking for before sleeping with you...it goes both ways. Nobody does any of this though because it's a major mood killer. If I'm engaging a woman romantically I'm not going to say whether or not I want to be in a relationship because it's a lot easier to be natural when nobody has any expectations or intentions. I have desires yes, but not expectations. As a PUA you practice getting what you desire, whether that be physical or emotional. Just let things…
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:24 PM
1

She told her grandma what happened and told her that because she's telling her, she can no longer speak with her... Now her grandma hates me. Certainly makes for awkward family gatherings
/r/seduction07/05/13 07:20 PM
1

Her reasoning for saying it was "practically rape" was that we met through family friends so she wasn't comfortable turning me away due to our social ties. I took her initial hesitance as normal LMR and pressed the issue more than I should have. She was definitely into the sex, but afterwards she seemed regretful. The second time I didn't push for it but it naturally escalated. That was when she kind opened up to me but in a super gushy uncomfortable way while we were in bed. It gave me a really…
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:58 PM
3

This is so true...I had a really bad experience once where I gamed a girl into bed with me. She was a newly baptized Mormon, so the sex conflicted with her religious ideals... On top of that, the second time we slept together she broke down and told me about being raped in her past. Up until that point I had been open with her about my lifestyle and the fact that I'm not willing to commit, but I do want to enjoy the time I spend with her in every way possible (conversation, sex, etc...). I have …
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:02 PM
7

Do it to the beat of any nearby music playing, like a game of dance dance revolution on her body.
/r/seduction29/03/13 09:27 PM
2

Being comfortable is the highest level of game. Not content and lazy, but comfortable and natural to the point that you don't put off try-hard vibes.
/r/seduction29/03/13 04:33 PM
3

I like your enthusiasm but in the field it rarely works like this....and why would you want it to? If every night is a slam dunk, it just becomes another drop in the bucket. You need both ups and downs to keep it real. The success comes with how you develop inside, when you fail it becomes something amusing rather than something you beat yourself up about a thousand times over.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:44 PM
1

I just look her in the eyes confidently with a smile on my face and say "Yes".
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:26 AM
170

What I love about your FR is that you don't leave out any of the embarrassing details and minor failures that make it real. People new to seddit need to read more FRs like this because this is how real success works. You get some great memories, some shit you wanna forget, but overall you're alive and loving life. It's discouraging to some of the newbies with social anxiety when they have shitty nights and come here and read a bunch of mega success stories. FRs like this are my favorite.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:23 AM
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I agree, the best response would be something short and sweet. "Ya that's cool with me". No response is the equivalent of a negative response when she puts that much thought into her text. Also if you leave it short and sweet, it leaves things open to hang out and do whatever comes with that. Girls change their mind in a heartbeat as soon as they see you're okay and don't give a fuck about them but can still have fun around them. It also means you can freely flirt with other girls when you're ou…
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:04 AM
2

The main benefit is having fun. Everything else comes as a byproduct of that.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:14 PM
8

Be kinda careful here. Being indifferent to rejection is one thing, but sometimes rejection can be an escape too. The FEAR of rejection is what you're trying to overcome. Getting rejected will relieve you of that fear because its no longer possible to get rejected, but you'll be less successful if you subconsciously start looking for that easy-out. I had a period in my game where I'd start the night off trying to get rejected, this is not a bad thing because it helps you overcome the fear for th…
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:17 PM
2

Haha that's a line I have used a couple of times... Sorry am I boring you? Because I could bore you ALL NIGHT LONG. I'll bore you so hard girl..
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:41 AM
2

Ya for sure, don't do it to manipulate her or anything like that. Dating other girls though will help keep him level in his FWB and also keep the option of a relationship with someone open, if that's what he wants. It tends to have the side effect of making the girl he's already with get more vested, he just needs to be careful he isn't doing it for that reason and that if she does change her tune make sure it's for real.
/r/seduction12/03/13 08:43 PM
2

Just want to add that it shouldn't stop him from seeing other girls too.
/r/seduction12/03/13 08:11 PM
3

Then you can bore each other so hard.
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:59 PM
17

So funny seeing guys start dancing solo, then slowly moving into position, then just appearing behind a girl.
/r/seduction19/02/13 07:39 AM
2

Its good that you've conquered AA and had some fun, Vegas is very easy so it's a good choice to get your feet wet. You should also work on your closing while you're out there, and a kiss with no further intent does not count to me. After a night like this get some numbers and go out with the girls, play them against each other, bring some of them back to the room. Girls want you to close on them in Vegas so you can play it pretty much the same way you did with your "Opener" night.
/r/seduction29/01/13 11:26 PM
2

His style is sick.
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:59 PM
5

When he says "Sex is not a huge deal", I interpret that as you shouldn't treat it as a milestone or achievement and blow it up in your head. It's just an experience you share with a girl the same as all your other interactions. The more stimulating you make it for her the more likely she is to reciprocate just like any other area of seduction.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:44 AM
1

Exactly, people waiting for some fairy godmother lightning-bolt to strike them awake are in for a long wait. Some people are only motivated by discomfort, and its a lot more comfortable to sit there and wallow in misery than it is to force change in your life. I guess they can wait until the discomfort of hating themselves exceeds the comfort of being a loser, but that's only going to push them to reach an equilibrium point at which point they'll backslide. Putting all this energy into a long as…
/r/seduction17/01/13 09:42 PM
1

Good advice but so. many. periods.
/r/seduction17/01/13 09:32 PM
3

I play magic cards and give zero fucks.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:57 PM
1

"You're probably right"... walk away demonstrate value with periphery females, let her approach you.
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:55 PM
2

Perfect response.
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:20 PM
1

Its good that you recognize what the problem is, now move on. Expectations will fuck up any relationship.
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:18 PM
5

Spit up my coffee at this one. Thank you
/r/seduction21/12/12 05:59 PM
1

Let yourself get absorbed by the atmosphere and turn off your brain. If you don't have anything to say then don't force it, but at the same time do not hesitate to blurt out anything that does come to mind. Say something stupid, it doesn't matter and nobody is judging you. If they are then fuck them. You need to let go of control, alcohol definitely helps here. Edit: It sounds like your problem is a fear of consequences for being an idiot in front of others thus you only allow yourself to engage…
/r/seduction20/12/12 08:08 PM
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