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5

Pickme men are so cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:20 PM
11

He is so depraved and lost that he doesn’t even realize that “daddy” was originally used to describe literal dads and not the other way around. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:57 PM
2

I swear... some people just love playing house for free 🙄🙄 Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:26 PM
9

Bruh what even is this 😂😂😂 Who would tolerate this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:10 PM
1

This is great advice. I definitely need more photos alone when going on adventures with someone because you never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:24 PM
24

She is so pretty and even more gorgeous when she talks 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:12 PM
32

Wow that is so nice! Best of luck to you. ❤️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:25 PM
3

I’d rather stay single than deal with this mess. If a dude doesn’t have pure intentions and is just a huge perv what is the point? It’s icky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:11 PM
50

I remember one of my exes tried to brag to me that a 13 year old was “flirting with him” at the arcade he frequented. Keep in mind at the time he was 27 and I was 20 (both in uni). 🤢🤢🤢 He accused me of being jealous of a LITERAL CHILD because I told him it was weird and creepy to brag about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:55 AM
60

Apparently he did this because he was “bullied”. All of us have been bullied before. Like stfu. I’m sick and tired of baby dick men wanting sympathy and trying to justify their disgusting actions. No one is going to feel bad for you. It infuriates me. Seeing this on the news made me cry. Praying for the families that lost their loved ones. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:54 PM
1

I used to think this too about the 21 thing. Being almost 25, I realize that would have been dumb and there’s no one around me who’s even doing that. It was all in my head. There’s literally no reason for us to settle and rush if it’s with just gonna be with a LVM anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:35 PM
16

Whoever is signing up for that is seriously a desperate loser who will 100% end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:20 PM
4

Yes let me write him an instruction manual because he’s a dumbass 🙄/s So cringe. She’s teaching women to waste their own time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:44 PM
11

LOL 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:24 PM
16

This was such a beautiful read. I’m bookmarking it as a reminder that we all deserve to be able to enjoy the little things in life that makes us happy. I’m sorry someone tried to take away something that brought you happiness and replace it with shame. This post really resonated with me. I need to remind myself that I am worthy. I’m glad you’ve been able to reclaim these joys. 💐❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:19 PM
15

Come on... you can not be desperate enough to fall for or agree to this mess. This is how you end up in someone’s trunk.... 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:32 AM
10

This is so wholesome awww 😋💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:23 AM
16

Yay!! You go girl 💕✨🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:56 PM
204

I see this EVERYWHERE along with the other one “Looking for someone who doesn’t take life too seriously” 🥴🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:18 PM
99

I love how it’s always about “me me me! How does it affect me and MUH DICK?!” as a reason to quit rather than this bs is just toxic and unethical in general. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:45 PM
12

It’s honestly embarrassing. Instead of constantly trying to dim people’s lights they should do better. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:19 PM
9

Omg nooooo. Some dude who liked my page had a pic of him laying on his bed with his bare ass out 😂. These people literally do not care! Idk whooo they are trying to appeal to. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:32 AM
20

All I can do is laugh 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:33 AM
43

Yup lmao. They’re so fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:01 AM
190

Yea don’t you just love when they want to strip you of everything that brings you joy, but expect you to accept all their interests? 🙄 I’m glad she is leaving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:44 PM
131

Please tell me this is fake. Please tell me this is fake. Please tell me this is fake. 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:38 PM
20

OMG 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:07 AM
53

Wtf. The fakeness is real. 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:30 AM
80

For real. He looks like he’s seconds away from the grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:20 AM
63

Wtf 🤯😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:17 AM
19

LMAO .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:06 PM
48

This comment right here. You would THINK it’s illogical to do that with someone you don’t have feelings for. They don’t use logic. Just MUH DICK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:54 PM
28

Omg my ex would NEVER 😂 He cried about 45 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:52 PM
19

STFU pAuL 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:59 PM
20

Disgusting. It’s always a trick to get you to send selfies or some bs. They think we are stupid af. Automatic block. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:05 AM
5

What a prize /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:54 AM
19

I busted out laughing 😭😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:41 AM
45

This is just setting yourself up for failure 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:16 AM
9

🥰 Congratulations for the trash taking itself out! You sound amazing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:54 AM
3

This is good lol had to bookmark it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:12 PM
15

Girl.... I can’t.....these men are just gross. I’m so sorry love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:46 PM
3

👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:45 AM
116

I don’t think these people actually think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:37 PM
3

Okay I have all these things now what..? 🙄 These pick-mes are exhausting and just love bringing women down for crumbs of male approval. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:44 PM
7

That is so sad 😭😭 This is why if I’m going out for Valentine’s Day it’s always either with a committed relationship partner or girlfriends. This just needing someone to have someone for a day is a scam and lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:37 PM
3

I was cringing the whole time but lost my shit at “dom-sub” STFU 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:38 PM
14

LOL you talk to him like a puppy that 💩 on your carpet and I love it 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:09 PM
5

It’s honestly so embarrassing 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:56 PM
3

Yesss! I would love this so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:35 PM
6

When you’re hot and smart you’re the world’s most hated lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:33 PM
15

Ewwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:19 PM
66

“The wife” says it all. She is an object to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:25 PM
31

Number one vibe killer. Why don’t they just go talk to those people? 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:23 PM
2

You’re a good person. So many people are just enablers. It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:20 PM
6

Ah yes, God’s gift to women 😩 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:30 PM
4

I had an ex who would brag about making “6 figures”. His company gave him a promotion that ended up switching him from hourly to salary.... he’s now making $70k. He was only making this so called “6 figures” because he was allowed to do so much overtime while on hourly pay and can’t anymore. Why do these people lie so much and think people even care? They look so stupid when they get exposed lmaoooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:20 PM
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When I see other women talk like this I feel the cringe plague my whole body 😣 It’s obvious who they’re trying to appeal to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:34 AM
11

Love him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:16 PM
10

Imagine having to buy Dove soap for a man.... yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:35 PM
31

People are finally waking the f up!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:55 AM
1

This is so fake. Most of the times that I’ve felt anxiety-ridden was while in relationships. When I spend a lot of time with people I actually feel care about me (good friends and family) it goes away. They really need to stop with these false narratives. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:39 PM
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Ew he looks like a greasy rat 🤢🐀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:08 PM
5

Even some of the most LVM I know would never treat me like this... This is someone who doesn’t care if you live or die 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:46 AM
10

If I ever hear that again I am running immediately 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:02 PM
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Ew... the disrespect. I’m so sorry. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:31 PM
3

That is so precious. He looks like an angel. 🥺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:32 PM
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This is a good idea! Nothing worse than finding out months or years later you’ve been dating a psycho lol. How exactly do you bring it up?? Just randomly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:57 PM
4

Embarrassing and cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:44 AM
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This is so true. One guy kept calling me nerd because he was “so shocked” that I like math 🙄. It was cringey and condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:16 AM
2

This is awesome!! I’m glad you’re having a great experience 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:22 AM
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Everything here is unsurprising and it’s sad 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:11 PM
4

Do we all just date the same men... JESUS 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:16 PM
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They can’t remember basic things because they’re too busy entertaining 50 other women. 😒 So glad you caught on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:19 AM
9

These are some really good ones! ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:01 AM
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Wow this is so good and something I’ve struggled a lot with 😭 Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:29 AM
4

You can’t be fooling around and taking advantage of people, yet looking for a wife at the same time.... That is not going to work. These people’s priorities are all messed up. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:23 PM
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I’ve only ever dated guy #1 lmao 😭. I have faith with FDS I will find guy #2 😊. Thanks for sharing this! 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:34 PM
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5 years..... You can’t turn a ho into a husband. She needs to leave. 🚪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:57 PM
1

Omg can you please dm me the app 👀. People sketchy out here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:01 AM
13

Yup. Not doing this anymore. It is a huge waste of time and energy! It’ll go in one ear and out the other or be used against you in some twisted way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:59 AM
7

Wow... douchebag with no empathy. I’m so sorry. Sending prayers to you and your family.😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:47 AM
13

WTF... A literal NAZI showing up a “Recommended Just For You” killed me 💀🤣 These apps are seriously a JOKE. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:54 PM
21

I found this weird as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:24 AM
15

Please have her report back to Reddit in 10 years and see how that “marriage” is going. 🐒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:34 PM
10

Absolutely. I want to be with a man who has standards as well and isn’t just going to date just anyone who says yes to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:30 PM
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I’d have “butterflies” that I would just pass off as having intense feelings for them. It was actually my body’s fight or flight response to the constant confusion and uncertainty I would feel. This sub was a WAKE UP CALL to get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:50 PM
27

SO MANY cringey comments 😬😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:34 PM
21

I’m around your age and I love how the guys who try to bring that up are also the ones that won’t have kids themselves and are commitment-phobes lmao. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:45 PM
8

You go girl 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:54 PM
30

I hope she finds this and leaves him immediately 💀🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:12 PM
2

Very pretty. Congrats love. 😊💞✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:45 AM
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I feel you. It’s honestly annoying and they don’t realize they’re probably being love bombed. Been there. Of course they want to be on their best behaviour! If it’s not their true character, only TIME will start to reveal even the most subtle red-flags. The handbook clearly states to not give HV titles so early. 😐 I just hate to see it because I don’t want anyone to go through the painful crash and burn that usually comes with not paying attention to red-flags and not asking the right questions …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:01 PM
2

Stfu Candace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:33 PM
2

Wow that is amazing! I need to look into ways to tap into that energy that would attract more of this type positivity! That makes me motivated. Thank you so much for sharing! 😊💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:15 PM
18

This makes me SO angry. As soon as I hear “You remind me of Insert random girl’s name I’ve never heard of” I know it’s bad news. 😐🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:16 PM
2

Do you know where or how your mom met these men? She sounds awesome! 😂❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:41 PM
5

I love these tweets 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:43 PM
29

No ma’am. He kind find another doormat. 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:17 PM
7

Glorified bus drivers!! 😳 OMG 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:09 PM
12

Wholesome people still exist 😭💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:03 PM
38

Damn I’ve never heard that comparison before. You are so right!!! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:47 AM
77

So let me get this straight- you’re a gOlD dIgGeR if you don’t have a high end job, but you’re also OH SO terrible if you worked your ass off to get to get a high end job to take care of yourself. I swear. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:31 PM
2

This is so beautiful and I really enjoyed reading this. For the longest time I had confused trauma bonding with authentic love. I would glorify the love bombing stages and hold onto those moments without realizing it was all a part of the cycle. I want to heal and re-learn to accept healthy love into my life. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:40 PM
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It’s like a class on “How to become a bad person” 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:12 PM
4

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:55 PM
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Can someone please tell me why these men don’t go out with the women who think it is a need too? They never do lol. They only want to bother and impose on people who disagree with it. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:53 PM
60

This is a good tip. Also watch how they act around their friends too!! It’s crazy how their personality can completely change and they become insufferable when around other people 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:26 PM
3

Omg can you please mentor me? I loved reading this ☺️💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:13 PM
18

Awww! This is so sweet and gives me hope 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:44 PM
28

Omg this is SO TRUE. I used to do this. Never again 😅😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:04 AM
33

Beautiful ring and nails! 😊💕✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:59 AM
23

I’ve had an ex openly admit that he goes for girls above his league but insecure. These predators are something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:06 PM
99

He probably thought his idea was so cute too.... So cringe. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:19 PM
169

Who said men aren’t allowed to have standards?? Anyone is allowed to have standards. He sounds like a psycho....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:43 PM
6

What a doll 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:32 PM
6

Soooo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:31 PM
26

Predator 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:25 PM
4

OMG thank you for sharing this 💀🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:00 AM
165

Yikes..... This is why you need to be ready to walk out at any moment 😬. It’s completely against my nature but I’ve always learned this fact the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:16 PM
10

I personally reserve these nicknames for someone very special to me and that I’m serious about. But on an app....? I’d run away so fast. It’s weird because he doesn’t know you at all.. and he probably calls every girl he talks to that name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:20 PM
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Why would anyone do this to a precious dog? I hate this so much. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:40 AM
9

Ewww. She needs to BLOCK him and be done with him. He’s obviously doing some sneaky stuff here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:51 PM
8

HAHA I am the CEO of comedy!!!! I made dirty joke. Please laugh and clap!!! 🤟🤠 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:10 PM
39

My soul has left my body 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:02 PM
5

T-mobile should focus on their horrible service instead of these crappy brainwashing ads 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:38 PM
4

You sure that’s not the ground up meat of his last victim that he’s feeding her? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:22 PM
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💐💕We’re all in this together💐💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:19 PM
10

Nightmare fuel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:08 PM
16

Looks like my sleep paralysis demon 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:19 PM
39

Bruh moment. I dated my 27 year old classmate when I was 19 in uni. He seemed like a nice guy at first and we would study together. Biggest mistake of my life. 🤮. They will manipulate you and make it seem like they’re soooo much wiser because they are older, when in reality women their own age WOULDN’T get anywhere near them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:16 PM
1

God, I do not miss university lmao. I’m having Vietnam flashbacks reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:01 PM
8

This is so disappointing that he put you through all that. You deserve much better than this. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:37 PM
21

If he won’t have the wine with her, I will ✨👯‍♀️🧚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:22 PM
21

Omg this is brilliant ⚰️⚰️⚰️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:59 PM
2

This is so true. They can only last acting like a “good guy” for a few months until they get tired and then the true bad character/disrespect starts to creep in. That’s why it’s so critical to not give the “good guy” label so early on like a lot of naive people do! It’s all a part of the initial love bombing scheme to reel you in!! It’s only a matter of time before she realizes it’s all just a mask. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:50 PM
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This is so true. They can only last acting like a “good guy” for a few months until they get tired and then the true bad character/disrespect starts to creep in. That’s why it’s so critical to not give the “good guy” label so early on like a lot of naive people do! It’s all a part of the initial love bombing scheme to reel you in!! It’s only a matter of time before she realizes it’s all just a mask. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:50 PM
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This is so true. They can only last acting like a “good guy” for a few months until they get tired and then the true bad character/disrespect starts to creep in. That’s why it’s so critical to not give the “good guy” label so early on like a lot of naive people do! It’s all a part of the initial love bombing scheme to reel you in!! It’s only a matter of time before she realizes it’s all just a mask. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:50 PM
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Preach. This happens a lot too. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:24 PM
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Lol this happens all the time. They’ll try to make anything a dating site 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:50 PM
4

She kinda looks like a mouse stuck to a glue trap 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:02 PM
5

Oh yes! You’re right 😂😎🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:32 AM
8

I really wish they’d leave this poor girl alone. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:48 PM
3

Sigh .... WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:00 PM
3

Aww that is so sweet 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:59 PM
53

Omg...... I feel your pain! Why do so many people get triggered that you want a man that not only complements your ambition, but also treats you like a lady—instead of one of their bros they go 50/50 with?! They’re always projecting.🕴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:56 PM
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Bruh what is this ........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:46 AM
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Thank you!!! Haha no, finance bro refers specifically to the cocky, flashy “nouveau riche” types. Check out the definitions of “Finance Bro” on Urban Dictionary and you’ll see the type I’m referring to! It’s hilarious. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:42 AM
9

The mom is smart. Never do these things for someone who shows you zero commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:18 PM
2

Girl........... 😐. Tell him you are not a therapy dog and then block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:57 PM
12

LOL same energy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:49 AM
32

As a hopeless romantic, love bombing is the bane of my existence 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:36 AM
15

This is accurate. My ex within the first few dates brought up the fact he made 6 figures at least 2 times in the beginning of us dating. I never asked...??? I didn’t see it as a red flag though because he seemed nice in every other way. We have visited a nicer mall once and there was a much older man with a beautiful young woman and then he proceeded to go on a rant about gold diggers..... 😅 Nobody was talking...?? So embarrassing. These are the same type of men that later cry and claim you’re t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:57 PM
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Talk is cheap... The truth is in the actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:12 AM
8

This is the best thing I’ve read all day. Proud of you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:59 AM
10

Wow. This is so embarrassing lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:03 PM
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Empathy - It’s a critical trait. If someone shows signs of lacking empathy for others, it’s only a matter of time before they show you the same treatment. An empathic person also takes your feelings into account and will avoid doing things they know would hurt you (i.e. cheating, being dishonest, making hurtful remarks, shaming your needs) Generosity - If someone is not a generous person, it will not be a surprise they are not generous with their love. Generosity is not the narrow minded thought…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:04 PM
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Yea this is too messed up.. Reading this made me question if it’s worth the chance of having this kind of disrespect and abandonment later. That’s pretty bad. I hope she divorces him before it gets worse. /:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:48 PM
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Dermarolling can help with the appearance of pitted scars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:39 PM
23

I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels this way, OP. I used to think them questioning me about these things was a compliment (it’s not always), but I’ve noticed men specifically reaching out to me because of my career and ask sooo many questions about it... wtf. It’s either that, or they’re insecure and trying to compete with you. (Ew) I also get hit with a bunch of “There’s not a lot of smart girls in fields like technology/engineering on here, wow. All the girls on here are just [insert some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:16 PM
22

What’s with the dudes that are always talking about the hypothetical kids they are probably going to ignore and fail to help raise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:40 PM
50

That is wonderful! 🥰👑💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:43 PM
178

Omg the not the kicking under the table!!!😳🤮 Poor girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:32 PM
383

A ZVM will buy you a chicken sandwich and then call it “GoLd DiGgInG”. Don’t even dare trying to add fries!!! 🙊🙉🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:58 PM
49

Oh man. I’ve been exposed lol. My ex literally told me “You’re a good person. That’s why I like you.” 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:24 AM
9

I’m laughing so hard. This is brilliant! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:21 PM
7

I love this. Attention for them is attention. Good or bad - they get their supply. Just block and ignore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:08 PM
3

Your post resonated with me. I used to have doubts of “Oh, what if I’m asking too much..?” or random people saying I’m asking too much.. but then I came to the recent realization that I have literally everything I ask for PLUS more (Other than being a provider. I am NOT providing for a man) 😐. I’m literally my ideal man... in a woman’s body. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:18 PM
3

Nooo, don’t say that. Your list is definitely reasonable. I’m sure he is out there. 😉 Best of luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:12 PM
8

Oh no, I do believe vegan men can be HV. I meant the term in the sense of the vegan + feminine + overly sensitive whiner combo that I summarized as “soyboy”. That does not describe all vegan men of course. I was in a LTR with a “soyboy” and he was constantly patronizing and mansplaining diets to me. 🙄 Never again. I have other vegan friends and they’re always respectful and not constantly in other people’s plates. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:09 PM
10

In my experience, in the love bombing phase, the PDA was extreme.. like nothing I’ve ever experienced before. It was actually kind of nice and almost dream-like..? But now with retrospect and clarity, it is a redflag to me. It’s strange for a man you haven’t know for that long to be that intensely affectionate. He knows you at a very superficial level and it’s an inappropriate trap. It’s almost like he is trying to show off to others / use you as an ego boost. 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:07 AM
12

Great list! 🥰 It makes my blood boil when I see people disrespecting service people! It’s such LV behavior and scary. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:08 AM
13

Yes!!! I’ve heard generalized, negative comments about women from the most NVM/LVM 🙄🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:26 AM
11

OMG 🤣🤣☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:50 AM
5

Yes! Healthy boundaries and self-awareness are soooo important!! Someone who doesn’t respect boundaries is a NO. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:47 AM
8

I love your list!! Wishing you luck 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:41 AM
11

Yeah no. One of my friends had a boyfriend who listened to Joe Rogan religiously and he was seriously a toxic nutjob! Thank goodness they’re not together anymore. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:07 AM
1

I’ll make some amendments to it to include those. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:35 PM
6

You’re absolutely right. Where there is infidelity, no trust, or respect, there is NO relationship at all to begin with, so that’s more assumed. If a guy doesn’t respect my family or his there is no way. This list is mainly additions to the fundamentals in a relationship I would want. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:18 PM
1

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I will save this. I wholeheartedly agree with your statements. There’s no need to be ashamed of wanting to be courted. I wish this was something I had accepted and realized much earlier, but now I have the knowledge and mindset-shift to stand true to my values in the future. I want to be with the person who wants to do these things out of the love and kindness of his heart rather than feeling it’s a “chore” or something. 🙂☺️
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 09:01 PM
2

If you don’t mind, I’d like to know as well what to look out for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:31 PM
5

Damn bro... that’s a lot of writing just to say “I’m attention deprived” 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:10 AM
57

What is up with these guys always trying to mansplain and debate with you? They have no one else to listen or tolerate their ranting, so they put that on you. I’m always dating a Ben Shapiro or something. I swear omg.✌️😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:42 PM
21

I’m going to be physically ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:14 PM
21

Very beautiful. I hope you have a great day! 🙂🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:03 PM
141

Get that “😏” away from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:08 AM
115

Wow. This is so sad. Cue the scene, a few years later, where the man says “WELL. I dIdN’t AsK yOu To dO aLl tHaT” 🤘🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:50 PM
2

Thank you for your kind words of encouragement!You’re right, I need to remember to take breaks 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:49 AM
53

He’s asking you that so he can point it out to you later on in a failed attempt to make you feel insecure. Ew 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:07 AM
18

I’ve been out of my relationship for a little over a month now, and taking it day by day. I’ve started reading “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft a few days ago. I’ve also purchased a new journal to write down my thoughts and take notes on things I’ve experienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:42 AM
16

Okay, at this point I’m convinced we all date the same men. 😂 Any chance he love bombed you a bit in the beginning of the relationship and you held on to those enjoyable moments with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:32 AM
9

LOL ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:11 PM
7

Please stop 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:01 PM
1

🤡 🏇🏇🏇🏇🏇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:35 PM
7

These are so beautiful! Best of luck!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:00 PM
54

BRUH I’M DEAD. ☠️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:42 AM
16

Imagine if his mom could see the type of crap her son writes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:27 AM
26

I’m relatively new to this sub, but it has helped me so much... Sometimes you feel like you’re the only one going through particular situations and this is the only place that’s been so supportive, relatable, and understanding! I’m SO thankful for the lady on Reddit that introduced me to this 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:30 PM
65

Men are the real gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:39 PM
27

He sure does talk a lot for a bowling ball 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:25 AM
80

Is that the most intelligent thing he could come up with...? He’s obviously has no boundaries and is looking for a “cool girl” with no self respect. Glad you blocked 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:08 PM
39

I literally screamed at this comment 🤣 Been through this 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:48 PM
15

I was thinking the same exact thing. It’s about imposing what HE wants with no regard for his partner’s opinion 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:07 PM
6

To be honest, depending on the type of man, they may not even respond to this and even if they did it shouldn’t matter because they are a LVM. They already know they lost. It’s a bad idea imho. If anything, they should be blocked. It hurts them more that they don’t even get to see you lol 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:02 AM
5

I love this idea as a background. Great work :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:47 PM
44

I hope they pick her 😳🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:01 AM
28

I had a guy try to write me some long essay like this before when I said I felt like we didn’t click. This isn’t an English class. BLOCKED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:41 AM
2

You go girl ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:33 PM
3

I’d honestly just wait until you find someone who fits both the good parts of Group A and Group B, instead of someone who doesn’t fit all the boxes. I’m sure there are both handsome men with good jobs that are looking for a partner they will treat well long-term. The catch is it’s much harder to find on OLD. A lot of OLD is just bad. My last partner was physically my type and made good money, but he started becoming stingy/lazy and we had different values. So you also have to look out for person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:19 PM
16

I’ve had this issue too. I’m physically attracted to a specific type of man and what makes it worse is I’m generally not physically attracted to a lot of men. I’d advise against forcing yourself to be attracted to someone. When I was younger I gave guys I didn’t find attractive a chance because they were nice AT FIRST. They were still bad. It makes no difference. Guys you find unattractive may not necessarily treat you any better than the men you’re attracted to. OLD is a tricky one. I’d suggest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:30 PM
6

I’m going to be ill 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:56 PM
3

Excellent! Will do. Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:51 AM
4

Yes. That post is actually what introduced me to FDS. I had no idea about it before. I knew something was off even though it felt like love, because if he really cared he wouldn’t complain about what I was asking. But the people on that RPW sub were trying to make it seem like I was crazy and entitled for asking for the bare minimum. A lady was kind enough to show me the light and directed me to this sub. I ended up telling him I felt like he didn’t appreciate me breaking up with him a month ago…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:21 AM
1

I’m interested! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:35 AM
7

A man who calls you “fancy” or the things you enjoy “boujee”, especially when it’s comments about your career or appearance....... no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:45 PM
12

Bruh... just write “Looking for a sugar mommy” 🤢💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:28 PM
3

I LOVE this! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:10 PM
6

This made me so uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:16 AM
8

LMFAO the pic. Oh God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:16 AM
15

Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:08 PM
41

Ew.. so rude. And then he thinks you’ll still go out with him? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:33 PM
2

It’s the Jordan Peterson links at the end for me.... ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:09 PM
1

Cursed image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:15 PM
3

Girl ... LEAVE. The same thing happened to me. Save yourself the heartache and leave now. He’s not valuing you and it will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:59 PM
1

Men who lie about their age don’t want anything serious anyways. Don’t bother with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:32 PM
1

The CyberTruck pic says it all. Goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:02 PM
3

This is lovely, but doesn’t always necessarily mean anything. My ex posted me all over his FB during the love bombing phase lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:24 AM
1

6 months into the relationship lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:10 PM
1

Holy shit. My ex listened to him religiously 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:54 PM
2

Lol you are right. I need to stop second guessing and see things for what they are at face value. If a man is not courting a girl, he is unsure of a future with her and isn’t invested in the relationship (as I was initially thinking). This seemed to be exactly what was going on, so I ended things with him. It was hard because I do love him dearly, but I can’t put up with uncertainty and mixed signals, especially when we both agreed we wanted to work towards becoming serious. Modern day society w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:33 PM
3

You’re right. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 06:30 PM
1

Will do! Thank you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 04:21 PM
5

I love that quote! :) I think a lot of people like to quickly put labels on things instead of understanding the concerns because it’s easier and takes less effort- hm...sounds familiar.... Thanks for your post!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 05:19 PM
6

You’re making some excellent points here that aren’t often brought up in these kinds of conversations LOL. I’m taking notes. ✏️📚
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 05:13 PM
4

Thank you. I was thinking the same thing.. It’s true that this society doesn’t really put a value on caring for someone and kind of takes it for granted in a way. I invest a lot emotionally in a relationship, which is why it is hard for me to be in it without the intention of being serious and genuine. Because otherwise why be in it? He often describes me as caring and kind person towards him like it’s a surprise or something. He’ll sometimes even say “you’re too good for me.” So you see and und…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 04:14 PM
1

Hm..... Tbh you’re probably right. He’s never pressured me for anything like that because he knows it’s not in my beliefs and he’s religious, probably more than I am, so he gets it. I do adore him a lot and yeah he is a good honest man. I guess since I like him so much I get disappointed because I try to be perfect for him too lol. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 10:18 PM
1

I agree. Having to ask is pretty lame. I guess it’s more to make him aware what I like rather than making it an expectation. Because then it’s just fake. And if he does value me then he would possibility take it into consideration. I’m sure if he had ever asked anything of me I’d consider it, so I hope he would too. :) thanks
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 10:13 PM
2

You’re right. I need to present that to him and see how he feels about also having 50% responsibilities outside of finances. Because that’s the only way what he’s asking can make sense.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 03:06 PM
1

You’re right. I should be reasonable, but not completely change my values and lose myself. “Gentle and Loving” is key when communicating concerns, which is something I need to continue to work on. I want to make others happy, but I don’t want to make myself miserable and compliant in the process. Thank you so much 😊
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:58 PM
1

You are welcome! Indeed! And thanks for your post. Best of luck to you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:48 PM
2

Thank you for your response. I’m learning a lot of different perspectives on here which is helpful. Learning about how to compromise is key.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:42 PM
2

That’s a fair and reasonable response thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:36 PM
2

50/50 is what he is used to and how his previous relationships with women have been. So it is normal for him. He thinks what I’m suggesting may be slightly outdated and you could hire a nanny to do. I think you did something critical that I did not- saying you felt bad about it. I honestly wish I had done that, because that really does make a huge difference on his reaction and genuinely how you felt. I think my issue lies more in being disappointed that it feels like a chore to him, when if I w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:26 PM
1

That is such an awkward situation to be in and I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’ve been in a previous relationship where it was just that awkward stare so I’d just do it. Our relationship didn’t end because of his lack of generosity though, he was just a dishonest person, which made me feel not only undervalued but taken advantage of... and as a woman that’s a horrible way to feel. I think you should be doing what I’m finally doing now- having a financial conversation with your bf. If you …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:15 PM
3

“A person who dates others purely to extract money from them” I think the keyword is purely. If that was purely the intent, I surely would have chosen a different partner just to meet that need. But that’s not what I’m here for. I connect with my partner and care for him and I honestly do want to work towards a future with him. At the time of posting I tried making it as raw as possible, and maybe I need to work better on the way I convey things, but I’m not with him solely for that purpose. I w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:06 PM
1

Thank you for your response. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt like you had to justify your reasonings behind it to someone who disagrees? I’d love to hear about it! I feel like when I also compare it to being roommates with someone people just get mad lol 😅, so I’d really like to know
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 12:37 PM
2

Will do. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 12:48 AM
2

I really like your approach to this and it’s much more in-line with what I am hoping for. It’s quite inspirational actually. What you’re describing is a solid framework that can be used for our future discussions. I will definitely try this more. I really hate that I may have came off as sending off the wrong message, when really I was just trying to express my concerns. Luckily he’s willing to listen and help come up with something that could work for us. Thanks a ton!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 12:17 AM
5

I didn’t mention those things in my post, but in the discussion I had with my boyfriend, I did mention I’d 100% be on board to do all of those you listed things as a woman. That doesn’t bother me at all lol. I want to do those things for him cleaning, cooking, taking care of his babies because I love him. He mentioned in the 50/50 I wouldn’t have to do all that as much because we’d both be doing it. I hope that clarifies a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 12:02 AM
1

We have talked about this and he mentioned he’d rather have me work and we can get a nanny. I think that it’s not really about ultimatums, but rather understanding both perspectives to come to a conclusion that we can agree with. But to answer your question, if he did want me to stay home, I’d consider it although I would prefer not to. Mostly because I enjoy my work so much. So in that case we could do like wfh, which some stay at home moms I know do. I’m sure a common ground could be met and t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 11:48 PM
1

This is exactly it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 11:36 PM
1

That makes sense and sounds fair. Thank you for your input!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 08:48 PM
3

Trust too, yes, but I never felt like trust was a weakness for us. He’s a very honest person and probably speaks his mind much more than I do. I can see that and value that both when it’s good and bad but it’s always the truth - which is most important. Apart from family, he is probably one of the most trustworthy people I have met. Yea, that sounds like a good idea. Maybe doing something like that could be insightful. Planning things together. This is one of the first deeper conversations we’ve…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 08:41 PM
6

Thank you for your input. I can see how it can seem that way and that’s not what I want and not the vibe I want to give off. So some of what I said may have been misunderstood. I want a future with this person, friendship, and something much deeper than some of the more transactional examples mentioned.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 07:44 PM
7

Thank you for your insight! Makes sense. I think it is a step in the right direction that we are starting to have these crucial conversations as our relationship progresses and your comment makes me feel much better about how to approach it. Appreciate it. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 06:55 PM
5

Thank you for your response. As a married woman, do you still do 50/50 with your husband or did the dynamic change after marriage? Because my boyfriend had also mentioned he’d expect 50/50 in finances for marriage as well. Forgot to include that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 06:15 PM
2

Hmm maybe you are right. It is sad that he may feel that way. I’m not sure how I can assure him otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 06:05 PM
4

Thank you. You are right. I have recognized it is my love language, while his is spending quality time and I love doing that. I am always thankful for anything I receive and maybe I should make it more known to him I appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 05:58 PM
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Thank you for your response! Yes, the 50/50 he is referring to applies to being in relationship while living apart, living together, even what he thinks it should be in a marriage. He had mentioned when he lived with his last girlfriend it was 50/50. So what I’m presenting to him is something he has never experienced or been asked before.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 05:49 PM
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